Sorry to hear that Bro.. This is why it is Vital for men to read the Bible.. It is a patriarchal book for men, that teaches men about men and female nature and how Men must operate to avoid all these snares and traps. No matter how feminist and women try to feminize it and Christianity. They hate the Bible because it is Men who God speaks through and uses men. 1 Esdras 4:26- Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes.
I disagree, a good woman will give everything for her man and lose more in the process. Women are supposed to serve their men, who serves them?? But you know what guy, us good women also suffer from the lack of good men.
I was married once, got divorced. We ended in good terms. But never again. I have nothing against marriage the problem is the government getting involved
Same here. Luckily, at the time, my home was still in my fathers name. Years later the x wife said she didn't want anything from me but that her mother asked her about the house. The house the x wife had nothing to do with. She should have felt privileged to be moving into a house at 19. I am thankful it fell apart, the person I am now would powerbomb the person I was back then.
I'm getting to a place where the only option is letting go and letting God. I can't choose the right woman. If I follow lust or desire, I'll only end up in hell here on earth. If God wants a woman in my life, He'll put the right woman in my life. I have to work on myself internally, heal myself, grow. I can't be chasing a woman going outside of myself, that's womanly in itself. Build it and she will come, if God intends it.
That’s exactly where I’m at right now in life too brother. My last relationship was like 2 years ago. After healing from that I’ve grown to love being alone. And most of the time the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.
Tbh I don’t think God is some overlooking match maker to cater to human desire to procreate. It’s up to the social standards we create as people to optimize possibilities for a true connection to be nurtured. Not that God can’t pull some strings here and there for timing and all that but modern day marriage really has nothing to do with God anyway
I've always delivered the goods ; respect, devotion, communication, financial and emotional support, you name it. Never fell for marriage though, no kids either. When I was in a slope, woops, they were gone. Found out the same way every man finds out, that women take everything we do ( and more, of course ) for granted, and hardly ever feel grateful ( if so, not for long ) or tempted to return the same courtesy. Also, women have a sixth sense when it comes time to picking their next sucker victim. They are well aware about what we've been told about them ( it's the same pristine false image of the sensitive caring person who can never do any wrong intentionally that we see in movies or commercials ) and they use it to their advantage. So now that I'm too old for that constant drama, I salute your stance, which is a mark of hard earned wisdom, but me personally, I would't even trust the Lord's very own selection. I'm done. Have been single for a year and still got plenty of healing and cognitive corrections to adress. To better days my friend.
I’ve never believed in the institution of marriage because if two people like each other that’s all they need if it goes sour you can just go your own ways. This philosophy stuck with me…Tie two birds together and although they have four wings they cannot fly.
I believe in the institution of marriage, because the institution itself comes from Most High GOD. What I don't believe in is the definition of marriage according to man & the constraints that come along with it. With that said, I am fully aware the adversary (Satan) is doing everything in his power to usurp GOD's proper order, but until I meet a woman that subscribes &/or follows GOD's covenant concerning marriage, i have no problem remaining unmarried.
@@Bryan_502institutions have nothing to do with the union of man and woman and the consummation of marriage smh. You sound religious, which explains why you are lost and confused.
@@Bryan_502Don't fall for their religious front, brother. Many of them are chameleons looking for a religious sucker in the church. They'll divorce you just as fast.
It's funny these people will call you a bigot then drop the f bomb on you just throw it back in their face tell them oh I thought it was ok to be gay? Hahahaha
And the trolls that try to shame us for being incels, weak, this that or the other they really think they’re getting in our way when In reality they’re getting in their own way by blocking what could potentially be their own blessings/rewards later on!!
My narcissistic ex wife turned my son into the same type of covert narcissist. She ruined him.and our relationship once he came to live with me. The monster in the background manipulating all the time. I'm alone now and content. I won't ever get married again. I enjoy my peace over taking a big risk like marriage. It's not worth it today. So many women in relationships are out there cheating because I see it now. Stay single and safe, men!
My ex is a covert narcissist as well. That said, women with unshakable values don’t cheat. I wouldn’t be with someone I didn’t think could fulfill my needs….and that’s kind of where most of the world goes wrong. If you take your time in searching for the right person and don’t let sex slip into the picture to cloud your mind, it makes it a world easier to let those not meant for you to fall by the wayside and to let the keepers show themselves. You can find someone that will be good for the long run….you just need to slow the process down in order to see them.
@@photographyenthusiast9941 the 'bro' telling you to get back on the hamster wheel. this is why i dont deal with these simps either. i already pulled off my chance though.
I'm so damn heartbroken after this last woman I've literally been sick for over 3 weeks...I took it seriously, I loved her with all my heart. Women can totally capsize a good and strong man like nothing else. Circumstances happen outside of you but when someone grips you from the inside, it's far more dangerous even if they just get in your head with certain words...they can weaken you from within.
Happened to me not that long ago, and to me it seems that love for a wamen only worked when there were societal norms in place that kept them somewhat honest. Now, to fall in love with one is literally harakiri
I am dealing with the same man. Covert narcissist girl, she played the biblical saint, destroyed me mentally almost. I also think she enjoyed doing it in the end. It’s devastating meeting an evil woman that will fake whatever they can, it’s true evil. But we get rewarded I think if we trust gods plan in the end. It can be a test. Maybe the hardest there is. But keep your head high like I’m trying too do
@grannydeg9728 I just happened to be online and got your comment thank you for the encouragement bro. Really need it right now. Im still so full of pain.
Involving a genocidal goverment into your love life is like inviting satan,I believe in love and pair bonding but I dont belive in contracts my father and mother never got married yet are happier than the ones that sign a contract
I would never in my life give a woman half of my stuff. I could careless if she starving. If I had to give her my house, I would burn it down before I give my stuff to a woman. All my money is for me to enjoy. I worked hard for that shit. For a whole year I worked 80 hours a week. It’s Not for someone else to spend. They can cry me a whole Niagara Falls not my problem. But I’m never going through that anyways because I ain’t getting married or having kids. Many women that know that I don’t want to get married get mad at me but hey, blame the system don’t blame me. Be mad all you want, it’s not my blood pressure that’s getting high.
“Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” -Proverbs 31:3 Women these days have masculine energy. Feminine, submissive, empathetic women has become rare in todays society.
Over a 50% divorce rate with women filing 3/4 of them. Nah, that would be stupid to gamble my life savings on. "Never sign a contract which the other party gains from breaking it!"
The way the world is now guys, don't risk it. Doesn't matter how attractive she is, don't fall into their trap. You may fall in love, but you risk losing your freedom and enjoying the things you used to love doing.
I worked with a guy who had a camping trailer and all of the things that go along with it. He met a girl that said she loved camping. They had great times. They got married and a few months later she asked him to sell the trailer, kayaks, quads and all of his other camping gear. He asked why. He said he thought she liked camping. She said she had lied just to get him to marry her. I wonder if they are still married all of these years later?
If you are a chosen one and one of your girlfriend's friends happens to not like you for no reason, or maybe she is jealous of your relationship. Then she tells your girlfriend lies about you, it can bring down all the work you spent putting in and it magnifies so much more when married. Marriage is a bad business deal. I wish it wasn't but you're right bro.
Not just her "friends" either. Could be her "family" and "social media" as well. That's how I rank the dangerous influences: "family" > "friends" > "coworkers" > "social media" The closer they are, the more danger the relationship is in.
So true. I really got that vibe once. I was meeting up with a 5/10 I met online. She ended up leaving me alone with her friend, and her friend was like a 7.5/10. Gorgeous. But my stupid mind was attached to the 5/10, lol, when I could have taken her hot friend out for a date. Probably a slut though, no big loss.
Absolutely. To expand on your scenario, I imagine it like this: 1. Get married 2. "I GOT HIM" 3. Give Chad & Tyrone a call while working out the divorce rape. And even if she's confronted with her cheating in court, she can just say "I wasn't happy in the relationship" or cry about "psychological violence".
Marriage is futile at this point fellas. The risk far outweighs the reward. As Terry said in the video, losing the woman isn't really the issue with me. It's the fact that she gets to take the kids, take half my finances/assets and claim alimony in some instances. Most women want a Sponsor not a Spouse
Kaka, former Brazilian soccer player, recently retires, prettiest and arguably most handsome footballer even today, world best player few years ago- his wife divorced him in 2015 because he was “too perfect, or too good for her!” Nothing else to say.
I know a guy who was taken for almost everthing he built up through a divorce. The straw that broke his back was when his daughter stopped seeing him. He ended up committing suicide. So be very careful who you get involved with. I would only marry in the Lord, bros.
I married once at age 24 she cheated in first year gave her the walking papers never again 61 now still doing hit and run I can fix used trucks but not used women it's the fem narc epochylipse bros stay free
I will say this............. marriage is very serious and more people need to understand that! Marriage is wonderful and very honorable but it is NOT A FAIRYTALE! More people really need to understand that marriage requires a committed heart and a very mature mindset! A man and a woman MUST share the same values and beliefs, and be on one accord, WORKING TOGETHER, in order to have a successful marriage!
You can do that at home too. I'm a digital nomad, and I don't want to expand my network. I'm an "old" guy now tho, 40. My personal reasons for being a digital nomad are (1) lower taxes (2) lower living costs (3) weather sucks at home. But, my random encounters with people abroad are very nice, including talkative taxi drivers who tell me everything about a country. My best friends are a few people I have kept in touch with for 20+ years online and a few relatives. No narcissists or opportunists among that crowd :)
You have to have faith brother!!! In God’s hands 🙌 🙏🏼 I never thought I was going to get married before in all my life, now I realize what my purpose is, crazy how life can change brother. What about the right woman, where is the positivity 😎 🤔
It's just that the mind games have gotten out of control,men & women need to chill and just appreciate the good things they already have,it's actually pretty simple.
You sign papers you sign your soul to Satan. Easy to get into hell to get out of. It's not worth it!!! And these days you can't even trust your partner not to kill ya...
I just lost 100% in my divorce. I lost house with a lot of equity , 2 cars payoff cars , literally all money , and kids. She blocked my brokerage account one year ago while I was abroad in Europe and left me without any money. I been married for 15 and going before that for 10 years.
I’m a woman and I agree with this! Think 10 times before having kids with anyone, 1 wrong move can totally ruin your life and finances, it’s no joke!! Stay smart, move wise!
As someone who married the wrong woman......what I learned is that the only way I'd ever do it again is if I knew without a shadow of a doubt that she was genuinely authentic in the same way that I live my life. She has to show through her actions that she is dedicated to the cause of doing the right thing because it's the right thing....not expecting a certain result.
My Narc husband is aging me. He don’t give af either he’s glowing yet I’m drained I swear to God I hate this man but we’re married with a baby on the way. I feel trapped
Don't stay with someone for the children, they will grow up and move away and you will still be with him that makes you unhappy? Love is not supposed to hurt
Born in the early 60s. At the time of my upbringing, most women were stay-at-home moms, and the men had the upper hand. A lot of women had a slave like life, while depending on their husband's earnings ( if any ) for everything. Some men were big time cheaters, alcoolics, abusers, or foolish spenders. As I ( and others ) grew up, I hoped to treat my future girlfriend better then my seniors did their wife. Turns out, the better you try to treat them, the more they treat you like shit. So for me, it's no use, and totally not worth the pain. But you know, people in general tend to tell or show us what we would hope to hear or see, until they've gotten what they were after, and then, you're history. It is nevertheless, a very very sad state of affair. Kind of renders life meaningless. I'm glad to be too old for this. Lord, protect us.
@@gbd-oq1rz We often use the image of the heart in metaphores, but there is intelligence of the brain and intelligence of the heart, somehow. Lately, I've come to the realization that what someone holds in his or her heart defines what they are worth as a person. A lot of people are close to worthless. Thanx for your comment. Have a nice day.
Nothing to do with the wallet. Men want loyalty and a woman who listens. We don't want a modern masculin feminist who thinks she can do against us and stay with us
when you meet the right one , you will know in your gut. your gut will tell you if she is authentic. your brain will tell you if your values align. so, if you think you've found the one take it slow but make her know that she is your top priority. She is still out there and your time will come.
@@Letschangetheworld216 A fat woman walked into the shoe store today and asked me for something that fits her, I politely replied, how about an olympic size swimming pool Ma'am?
@@Letschangetheworld216 A you know WHAT woman walked into the shoe store today and asked me for something that fits her, I politely replied, how about an olympic size swimming pool Ma'am?
10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. - Proverbs 31: 10 - 12
Brugh he ant finna loose his wealth 🤡🤡how bout u don't give up tRNA find a guy with a million dollars 🤡🤡 Respect his decision and hold the LLLLLLLLLLLL 🐍😮
Marriage is for fools these days 🤣 Its better to NOT get married because then u can always kickem out.. Then they behave better and know they can't mess around! Otherwise they will ruin u.. Its a turn on for them.. They will beg u.. Know that! Peace ✌🏽
Right on, brother. As far as I’m concerned it’s not even an option. Back before the 1980s when there wasn’t no-fault divorce and before the 1970s when there wasn’t government-enforced child support…THEN it was an option. Not a very favorable option, but at least an option. Now any sane man with an IQ above 50 shouldn’t even consider it. Moving forward, the dynamics between the sexes needs to be revised in light of the fact that traditional roles no longer exist. The world has rejected biblical marriage and made it legally impossible. Why people even use the word marriage is confusing to me since it resembles nothing of the biblical marriage. Where do we go from here? I don’t know. I think monk mode is the only choice.
Today, Marriage is designed for women to prosper and men to have financial ruin. That's why men should just go their own way and focus on themselves instead of losing all their assets that they work for due to a ungrateful woman that can change like the seasons.
Give yourself some time to work things out, and you need to set goals for your relationships. I know it's hard today, but there's still a chance to find the right person for you.
”Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favour of the LORD.“ Proverbs 18:22 KJV ”What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.“ Mark 10:9 KJV If you can find WIFE MATERIAL then you are blessed!😮💨🤝
I just turned 50 in mid-September 2024, never married, no kids. It ain't gonna happen, I won't let it happen and for so many different reasons. The dating world alone, forget about the pain and suffering of divorce and all the dramas leading up to "the day of the wedding," the dating/romance world alone is a circus of games that has locked feemails into bouncing over and over and over again making men expendable. No man can find the incentive to want to go through the various burdens to be "desirable" AND then be a "traditional man" to provide a universe of comforts just to deal with the kinds of liabilities and high probability she will end the relationship the second she loses THE FEELINGS and found a fresh host on the dating app or at the club with "ladies night out."
The key to life is to never make a decision in life based on an emotional state. This includes "positive" emotions like love. If you're gonna get married, make sure it's founded on something tangible, like starting a family or paying less income tax. Also, always get a prenup. Do not allow your emotions to be manipulated through them questioning your "love" or guilt tripping you. Make every decision with a sober mind and with purpose and tangible benefit.
I'd happily have the ceremony with family and all that, but to legally get married under the law on paper? It's a trap! Most women want to use a man for financial security. My good friend who is female literally told me she married her husband who is 10 years older (she's 32) because he had a house and she was tired of struggling and living in her condo. If he has kids with her she has guaranteed child support or even alimony if it doesn't work out. If she wont stay with you without getting married, my dude, run!
Lotta women use marriage as a last ditch retirement plan once they age out of the chad hookup program and they laugh all the way to the bank because many simps will line up with their wallets out
I give the same advice closest i ever got to a wedding was waitressing receptions and that played on my sensory sensitivity.i think the worst night was when somebody put a strong laxative in somebody else's drink.
I had a fiancé for 10 years, a decent relationship, however we never decided to get married. After 10 years, when shit hit the fan and we broke up, I was so glad I didn't have to go through a divorce and pay her half of my wealth. She, on the other hand, wasn't that glad.
There are some people out there, very few I may add, who find true passionate love while majority are putting on a facade. Im really convinced great healthy loving supportive relationships are a thing of the past- thats the case for vast majority unfortunately. With that said, get yourself a pet! You're more guarenteed to live a drama free life😅
No your wrong, your average woman now days has had like 20+ sexual partners before marriage. And you expect a normal guy to take that in and get married and call it love. Maybe if..... the man is a peanut and is gullible
Sad but true facts 💯 trust and commitment and loyalty is more attractive and putting God first in the relationship will help prevent all these problems that's the problem today in my opinion. So this guys got a point. Wouldn't be a bad idea to do your homework before you marry your woman.
That's only in places where women are considered "Leaders". Now, move over to other places where government is small, divorce is considered an abomination, and the man is considered a hero, then raising a kid there with a wife, is a great chance of never backfiring or backstabbing
YES TO YOU OUR DEAR BRO. THANKS SO MUCH! HAVING PRIVACY IS OUR POWER AND OUR FREEDOM! WE MAY JUST BETTER CHOOSE TO LIVE IN THE SPIRIT OF GOD WHICH BRINGS LIFE, LIGHT, LOVE AND FREEDOM THAN TO CHOOSE TO LIVE IN THE FLESH WHICH MAY JUST BRINGS SIN, SICKNESS AND DEATH! AMEN AND AMEN!
My brother and me both single live alone in our own homes we dont hate men or women and wd help people but marriage is a business i can go anywhere but if married yoy both have to decide where to go? When? The price? Some have a Foster child and are single and live alone in their house. Marriage is a business if marry yoy both will lose money and both lose your identity and both psy bills both. What happens if 1 loses job? That's a test.
Actually i have never what i know of and still it can be just me thought in the same way as you do, fear is a good thing to have it can make you get very far as long as you don't let that fear control you. Every day i carry a spiritual armor of fear, i do that because i can see things far before it reaches. This is how mythical i am as a person, if you constantly get rewarding comments from others you will never grow. You will only grow when you recieve critics, do you know why ? Because nice compliments can lure you to think that you are the one while a dagger is pointed to your throat. When i critisize you, you take it harshly but instead you should be thankful to recieve the critics. This is how Bruce Lee became the man who he wanted to be, it wasn't about the cheering from the audience but the critics that made him that man, that superhuman and still a very humble person. If you want to be remembered by others then let them speak about you who you were as a person, don't let your self fall down to preaching about who you are as a person. Let others do the talking because the more you waste your time telling people about how strong you are and how great you are the more you will just feed the devil. You have one mouth and two ears to listen, the more you listen the more you will grow and the more you will become decisive about your goals. Actions speaks alot more than words. You are young and you know this is true what i am telling you. You have lot of time to grow as a human person and to become greater than you can imagine.
I was with my girlfriend for 30 years and I didn’t want to get married because now you’ve got strangers involved and legal papers ect. Then people would say if you’ve been together for that long you are legally married. Bullshit..you see they try their best to sneak in there.
Absolutely the wrong woman can ruin your life. Completely and in all ways, even spiritually.
Exactly my dad always said they can make you or break you,
Sorry to hear that Bro.. This is why it is Vital for men to read the Bible.. It is a patriarchal book for men, that teaches men about men and female nature and how Men must operate to avoid all these snares and traps. No matter how feminist and women try to feminize it and Christianity. They hate the Bible because it is Men who God speaks through and uses men.
1 Esdras 4:26- Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes.
@@johnjennings9693 im sure your daddy was a simp by giving her all the power of 'making or breaking' you, pretending like there's a choice. tool.
@@EarthAngel504i agree
Even the right one can too, that is a huge part of the problem. The State is unconditionally on their side.
No man with his right mind gets married in this day and age.
Plenty of Simps do.
In the West or Women-Led societies.
Most are not in their right mind. Welcome to the world
Real men don’t fall for that bullshit
@@St.LouisMadeNike Real women don't go near a bloke like this. It's all bravado and a coping mechanism because he was once hurt.
In marriage women gain everything and men risk everything
Never doing it ever. This is Babylon aka Amerikkka
@@neverfold6138yes!!!!
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I disagree, a good woman will give everything for her man and lose more in the process. Women are supposed to serve their men, who serves them??
But you know what guy, us good women also suffer from the lack of good men.
@@barbaraguillemette1842 good men are literally everywhere they just don’t show up on the chad radar
I was married once, got divorced. We ended in good terms. But never again. I have nothing against marriage the problem is the government getting involved
Same here. Luckily, at the time, my home was still in my fathers name. Years later the x wife said she didn't want anything from me but that her mother asked her about the house. The house the x wife had nothing to do with. She should have felt privileged to be moving into a house at 19. I am thankful it fell apart, the person I am now would powerbomb the person I was back then.
But the wmn have a choice to align with the government as well so they aren't innocent
Marriage is supposed to be for life. Fall in "Love" and thats it. In reality I wonder how many it really works for.
@@Linkin-qb7fy Who said they are innocent? I am not making excuses for women but humans in general take the path of least resistance...
Best to go to a place where your hailed as a hero for existing.
I lost my kids to a terrible woman …there is no pain that can compare
lol, you have children?
@@_BobaFett_ yes …hi son
Aw im sorry.
Sorry mate
I know the feeling
Who’s talking about marriage? The sexes don’t even say ‘hi’ to each other.
Bingo
So true.
Not even bat an eye! The writing is on the wall for this world…
😂…this!
This
I'm getting to a place where the only option is letting go and letting God. I can't choose the right woman. If I follow lust or desire, I'll only end up in hell here on earth. If God wants a woman in my life, He'll put the right woman in my life. I have to work on myself internally, heal myself, grow. I can't be chasing a woman going outside of myself, that's womanly in itself. Build it and she will come, if God intends it.
That’s exactly where I’m at right now in life too brother. My last relationship was like 2 years ago. After healing from that I’ve grown to love being alone. And most of the time the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.
Tbh I don’t think God is some overlooking match maker to cater to human desire to procreate. It’s up to the social standards we create as people to optimize possibilities for a true connection to be nurtured. Not that God can’t pull some strings here and there for timing and all that but modern day marriage really has nothing to do with God anyway
Amen, you took the words right out of my tongue. 🙏
Religion is the reason you’re having problems.
I've always delivered the goods ; respect, devotion, communication, financial and emotional support, you name it. Never fell for marriage though, no kids either. When I was in a slope, woops, they were gone. Found out the same way every man finds out, that women take everything we do ( and more, of course ) for granted, and hardly ever feel grateful ( if so, not for long ) or tempted to return the same courtesy. Also, women have a sixth sense when it comes time to picking their next sucker victim. They are well aware about what we've been told about them ( it's the same pristine false image of the sensitive caring person who can never do any wrong intentionally that we see in movies or commercials ) and they use it to their advantage. So now that I'm too old for that constant drama, I salute your stance, which is a mark of hard earned wisdom, but me personally, I would't even trust the Lord's very own selection. I'm done. Have been single for a year and still got plenty of healing and cognitive corrections to adress. To better days my friend.
I’ve never believed in the institution of marriage because if two people like each other that’s all they need if it goes sour you can just go your own ways. This philosophy stuck with me…Tie two birds together and although they have four wings they cannot fly.
I believe in the institution of marriage, because the institution itself comes from Most High GOD. What I don't believe in is the definition of marriage according to man & the constraints that come along with it. With that said, I am fully aware the adversary (Satan) is doing everything in his power to usurp GOD's proper order, but until I meet a woman that subscribes &/or follows GOD's covenant concerning marriage, i have no problem remaining unmarried.
That would apply if the Bible was not the word of God - but it is
@@Bryan_502institutions have nothing to do with the union of man and woman and the consummation of marriage smh. You sound religious, which explains why you are lost and confused.
@@Bryan_502Don't fall for their religious front, brother. Many of them are chameleons looking for a religious sucker in the church. They'll divorce you just as fast.
When she decides that she is not happy, it's now you vs. her and the State! You can not beat the state!
I agree
Stay away from the covert narcissist my friend! Just be careful! Don’t do it.
Yep
Men are called narcissist for simply not taking disrespect and having boundaries.
Beware of the trolls that are going to shame you and ask if you're gay.
It's funny these people will call you a bigot then drop the f bomb on you just throw it back in their face tell them oh I thought it was ok to be gay? Hahahaha
And the trolls that try to shame us for being incels, weak, this that or the other they really think they’re getting in our way when In reality they’re getting in their own way by blocking what could potentially be their own blessings/rewards later on!!
@@WalkingMeatSuitit’s the facts real men didn’t cry and nag lyk the new soyboy Gen in dating..Simp men ruined the game anyway
@@WalkingMeatSuit I think you and the op are having two different conversations
@@DMVTopRank not at all I was merely adding to his list of shaming tactics that no longer work if that makes sense?
My narcissistic ex wife turned my son into the same type of covert narcissist. She ruined him.and our relationship once he came to live with me. The monster in the background manipulating all the time. I'm alone now and content. I won't ever get married again. I enjoy my peace over taking a big risk like marriage. It's not worth it today. So many women in relationships are out there cheating because I see it now. Stay single and safe, men!
Facts bro! It happens all the time all over the world. Especially in the US.
My ex is a covert narcissist as well. That said, women with unshakable values don’t cheat. I wouldn’t be with someone I didn’t think could fulfill my needs….and that’s kind of where most of the world goes wrong. If you take your time in searching for the right person and don’t let sex slip into the picture to cloud your mind, it makes it a world easier to let those not meant for you to fall by the wayside and to let the keepers show themselves. You can find someone that will be good for the long run….you just need to slow the process down in order to see them.
Yeah I feel your pain bro. They brainwash the kids against you.
@@photographyenthusiast9941 the 'bro' telling you to get back on the hamster wheel. this is why i dont deal with these simps either. i already pulled off my chance though.
@@ClownShot-kz5ru Well I'm not a bro....so
No wife, happy life.
❤
Living the Free Agent Life style CGA
FACT👍🏻
Yes. Not worth is just to empty balls.
No husband happy life😂😂
I'm so damn heartbroken after this last woman I've literally been sick for over 3 weeks...I took it seriously, I loved her with all my heart. Women can totally capsize a good and strong man like nothing else. Circumstances happen outside of you but when someone grips you from the inside, it's far more dangerous even if they just get in your head with certain words...they can weaken you from within.
take it as a lesson, and use the pain to go harder for yourself. stay up bro
Happened to me not that long ago, and to me it seems that love for a wamen only worked when there were societal norms in place that kept them somewhat honest. Now, to fall in love with one is literally harakiri
I am dealing with the same man. Covert narcissist girl, she played the biblical saint, destroyed me mentally almost. I also think she enjoyed doing it in the end. It’s devastating meeting an evil woman that will fake whatever they can, it’s true evil. But we get rewarded I think if we trust gods plan in the end. It can be a test. Maybe the hardest there is. But keep your head high like I’m trying too do
@grannydeg9728 I just happened to be online and got your comment thank you for the encouragement bro. Really need it right now. Im still so full of pain.
I wouldn't want to get married because then I am locked into the system even more. Contracted into love makes no sense to me personally
He wasn’t talking to you. You’re the ones we’re talking ABOUT. 😂 Proves his point exactly. Be gone, thot.
Involving a genocidal goverment into your love life is like inviting satan,I believe in love and pair bonding but I dont belive in contracts my father and mother never got married yet are happier than the ones that sign a contract
I would never in my life give a woman half of my stuff. I could careless if she starving. If I had to give her my house, I would burn it down before I give my stuff to a woman. All my money is for me to enjoy. I worked hard for that shit. For a whole year I worked 80 hours a week. It’s Not for someone else to spend. They can cry me a whole Niagara Falls not my problem. But I’m never going through that anyways because I ain’t getting married or having kids. Many women that know that I don’t want to get married get mad at me but hey, blame the system don’t blame me. Be mad all you want, it’s not my blood pressure that’s getting high.
It’s interesting how women get irritated when I don’t want to get married lol. It bothers them big time and act like what, no way!
@@535werright it’s like I’m not even in a relationship with them. Yet they care if ima marry some other random chick. Hell nooo lmao.
If you worked 80 hours, 40 hours is for you and 40 hours for the state.
@@nowhereman7413at least it’s for me and for the state and not for an ungrateful women 🤷🏻♂️
@@Doidao-xx5vf The state is even less grateful that wymen and more violent.
Control your Emotions, don't let them take Control over you💪
So tried. 85 percent of the time courts charge men with child support. Children are hurt as well.
Not to mention, the more children grow up, the less they get obedient
Who cares about the kids?
Lol at the so called adults today. No father's.
“Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” -Proverbs 31:3 Women these days have masculine energy. Feminine, submissive, empathetic women has become rare in todays society.
Was married for 8 years. Only pain, headache and suffering. You won't miss much. Just seek serenity. That's my recommendation.
Comment of pin !
Simple wise words.
Over a 50% divorce rate with women filing 3/4 of them. Nah, that would be stupid to gamble my life savings on. "Never sign a contract which the other party gains from breaking it!"
The way the world is now guys, don't risk it. Doesn't matter how attractive she is, don't fall into their trap. You may fall in love, but you risk losing your freedom and enjoying the things you used to love doing.
MARRIAGE is a man's funeral with (cake)
You have the right perspective.
Yes.
Made me spit out my beer 🤣
I worked with a guy who had a camping trailer and all of the things that go along with it. He met a girl that said she loved camping. They had great times. They got married and a few months later she asked him to sell the trailer, kayaks, quads and all of his other camping gear. He asked why. He said he thought she liked camping. She said she had lied just to get him to marry her. I wonder if they are still married all of these years later?
@@Winstonrodney6989 Hmmmmmmm interesting 🤔
If you are a chosen one and one of your girlfriend's friends happens to not like you for no reason, or maybe she is jealous of your relationship. Then she tells your girlfriend lies about you, it can bring down all the work you spent putting in and it magnifies so much more when married. Marriage is a bad business deal. I wish it wasn't but you're right bro.
Facts
Not just her "friends" either. Could be her "family" and "social media" as well. That's how I rank the dangerous influences: "family" > "friends" > "coworkers" > "social media"
The closer they are, the more danger the relationship is in.
So true.
I really got that vibe once. I was meeting up with a 5/10 I met online. She ended up leaving me alone with her friend, and her friend was like a 7.5/10. Gorgeous. But my stupid mind was attached to the 5/10, lol, when I could have taken her hot friend out for a date. Probably a slut though, no big loss.
People think the greatest depreciating asset is a car, but they are mistaken. It’s a woman.
True.
If you see women like that then there truly is no point in relationships.
This is the most awful comment....your heart is full of hatred....be careful that might kill you one day....
@@gypsysoul279 actually avoiding relationships with women has removed all hatred from my heart. Thanks for asking.
After the wedding vows she thinks "I GOT HIM" meaning she can say im not happy and and file for divorce , bye bye half your stuff.
Yep. Hit the nail on the head.
mine lasted 11 months. i never signed the certifcate.
You people have never heard of pre nuptial agreements 🤣
Absolutely. To expand on your scenario, I imagine it like this:
1. Get married
2. "I GOT HIM"
3. Give Chad & Tyrone a call while working out the divorce rape.
And even if she's confronted with her cheating in court, she can just say "I wasn't happy in the relationship" or cry about "psychological violence".
@@WhiteGhost21 Mine lasted 4 months. She's still trying to get me back.
Marriage is futile at this point fellas. The risk far outweighs the reward. As Terry said in the video, losing the woman isn't really the issue with me. It's the fact that she gets to take the kids, take half my finances/assets and claim alimony in some instances. Most women want a Sponsor not a Spouse
She can only take half your assets if she stays at home
Never put yourself in a position you cant leave in a minute,marriage makes you a slave dare to divorce and you are destroyed
Kaka, former Brazilian soccer player, recently retires, prettiest and arguably most handsome footballer even today, world best player few years ago- his wife divorced him in 2015 because he was “too perfect, or too good for her!”
Nothing else to say.
I know a guy who was taken for almost everthing he built up through a divorce. The straw that broke his back was when his daughter stopped seeing him. He ended up committing suicide. So be very careful who you get involved with. I would only marry in the Lord, bros.
Rip to him legal marriage is evil and parental alienation can drive fathers to sucide
SMART MEN dont get Married.
I married once at age 24 she cheated in first year gave her the walking papers never again 61 now still doing hit and run I can fix used trucks but not used women it's the fem narc epochylipse bros stay free
I will say this............. marriage is very serious and more people need to understand that! Marriage is wonderful and very honorable but it is NOT A FAIRYTALE! More people really need to understand that marriage requires a committed heart and a very mature mindset! A man and a woman MUST share the same values and beliefs, and be on one accord, WORKING TOGETHER, in order to have a successful marriage!
Marriage is outdated
Best thing to succeed bro in building meaningful friends and relationships is to learn different languages, travel/live abroad and be a digital nomad!
You can do that at home too. I'm a digital nomad, and I don't want to expand my network. I'm an "old" guy now tho, 40.
My personal reasons for being a digital nomad are (1) lower taxes (2) lower living costs (3) weather sucks at home.
But, my random encounters with people abroad are very nice, including talkative taxi drivers who tell me everything about a country.
My best friends are a few people I have kept in touch with for 20+ years online and a few relatives. No narcissists or opportunists among that crowd :)
no, ppl are trouble and life is too short for all that bs
Good reflexion dude. Keep going, your job is very important for too many men.
You have to have faith brother!!! In God’s hands 🙌 🙏🏼 I never thought I was going to get married before in all my life, now I realize what my purpose is, crazy how life can change brother. What about the right woman, where is the positivity 😎 🤔
That's what am going through right now bro. After 18 years she is not happy and wants a divorce .
Damb
Bro, don’t marry!! I’m 50 and love your perception on things!!
Have you gotten divorced before I feel bad for men before the rp
It's just that the mind games have gotten out of control,men & women need to chill and just appreciate the good things they already have,it's actually pretty simple.
You sign papers you sign your soul to Satan. Easy to get into hell to get out of. It's not worth it!!! And these days you can't even trust your partner not to kill ya...
Goddamn
There's just no one good hearted left in the world.
The world has fallen.
We now wait for Christ to return.
I just lost 100% in my divorce. I lost house with a lot of equity , 2 cars payoff cars , literally all money , and kids. She blocked my brokerage account one year ago while I was abroad in Europe and left me without any money. I been married for 15 and going before that for 10 years.
U must b joking right?? U must b
lol simp deserved it
Single life + happy life = peaceful life
And richer too.
More money in your pocket too💰
@@legendarytonyclutch yes
Bro! Change the title to "Why I will never get married"
Too many trolls😂
Lol facts bro it came to my mind as well 😂😡
Facts as soon as I read the title I said out loud I’ll be surprised if they (women) are not calling him gay. 😂
Didn't think that till I saw your comment
😂That's funny
😂🤣😂
I’m a woman and I agree with this! Think 10 times before having kids with anyone, 1 wrong move can totally ruin your life and finances, it’s no joke!! Stay smart, move wise!
Thanks for agreeing with the truth. You can move on now
indeed
As someone who married the wrong woman......what I learned is that the only way I'd ever do it again is if I knew without a shadow of a doubt that she was genuinely authentic in the same way that I live my life. She has to show through her actions that she is dedicated to the cause of doing the right thing because it's the right thing....not expecting a certain result.
Having a wife will age you quicker ..
My Narc husband is aging me. He don’t give af either he’s glowing yet I’m drained I swear to God I hate this man but we’re married with a baby on the way. I feel trapped
You’re trapped but you chose him?
Don't stay with someone for the children, they will grow up and move away and you will still be with him that makes you unhappy? Love is not supposed to hurt
@@RespectthechiI😂
And marrying this type of man would have a woman pulling her hair out of her head! Unbelievable
Born in the early 60s. At the time of my upbringing, most women were stay-at-home moms, and the men had the upper hand. A lot of women had a slave like life, while depending on their husband's earnings ( if any ) for everything. Some men were big time cheaters, alcoolics, abusers, or foolish spenders. As I ( and others ) grew up, I hoped to treat my future girlfriend better then my seniors did their wife. Turns out, the better you try to treat them, the more they treat you like shit. So for me, it's no use, and totally not worth the pain. But you know, people in general tend to tell or show us what we would hope to hear or see, until they've gotten what they were after, and then, you're history. It is nevertheless, a very very sad state of affair. Kind of renders life meaningless. I'm glad to be too old for this. Lord, protect us.
Many many people have dark evil hearts and it’s sad.
@@gbd-oq1rz We often use the image of the heart in metaphores, but there is intelligence of the brain and intelligence of the heart, somehow. Lately, I've come to the realization that what someone holds in his or her heart defines what they are worth as a person. A lot of people are close to worthless. Thanx for your comment. Have a nice day.
I know so many men say they never will get married, want to keep the wallet.
I know so many women that don’t want to be tied down.
Nothing to do with the wallet.
Men want loyalty and a woman who listens.
We don't want a modern masculin feminist who thinks she can do against us and stay with us
I won't get married because I learned a long time ago that relationships are ultimately a game of control.
when you meet the right one , you will know in your gut. your gut will tell you if she is authentic. your brain will tell you if your values align. so, if you think you've found the one take it slow but make her know that she is your top priority. She is still out there and your time will come.
Remember Al Bundy, "never marry".
Women understand women, and they hate each other.
Not Al bundy bro 😂
@@Letschangetheworld216 A fat woman walked into the shoe store today and asked me for something that fits her, I politely replied, how about an olympic size swimming pool Ma'am?
@@Letschangetheworld216 A you know WHAT woman walked into the shoe store today and asked me for something that fits her, I politely replied, how about an olympic size swimming pool Ma'am?
Women understand women, and they h*** each other
You are real man bro
@Innatesoulwisdom hes healed enough to understand women are a liability long term
Everyone with xy chromosomes is a "real man" but yeah terry is a good guy a real one for sure.
Why did God not destroy Satan promptly after he rebelled?Could have saved us alot of problems
@Innatesoulwisdomwhat do you mean by that
I have to agree with you on this one 100% I couldn't imagine trying to date with intention of marriage in this day and age.
My spicy latina recently went from reverse cowgirl to starfish / frozen catfish mode
10 A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
- Proverbs 31: 10 - 12
A female's value depends on how she treats her man .
can you imagine a modern woman watching this or even caring enough to click on it?
😂 your right they don’t care. They don’t need to care.They don’t even know stuff like this exists. Why would they went they get what they want.
Don't give up hope...GOD HAS A WAY WITH CHANGING SITUATIONS.
Brugh he ant finna loose his wealth 🤡🤡how bout u don't give up tRNA find a guy with a million dollars 🤡🤡 Respect his decision and hold the LLLLLLLLLLLL 🐍😮
@DetrellBecckhoomm I have three brothers. They all said they were never getting married. They ended up married with kids😂 never say never.
@@Babygirlly555 😮oh my gosh y would u hurt my feelings like that 😭😭
@DetrellBecckhoomm My point is feelings can change over time. You may think you never get married, but if you meet the right one your mind can change.
Why hasn’t God used ways to change the situation in Gaza yet?
Marriage is for fools these days 🤣 Its better to NOT get married because then u can always kickem out.. Then they behave better and know they can't mess around! Otherwise they will ruin u.. Its a turn on for them.. They will beg u.. Know that! Peace ✌🏽
Right on, brother. As far as I’m concerned it’s not even an option. Back before the 1980s when there wasn’t no-fault divorce and before the 1970s when there wasn’t government-enforced child support…THEN it was an option. Not a very favorable option, but at least an option. Now any sane man with an IQ above 50 shouldn’t even consider it. Moving forward, the dynamics between the sexes needs to be revised in light of the fact that traditional roles no longer exist. The world has rejected biblical marriage and made it legally impossible. Why people even use the word marriage is confusing to me since it resembles nothing of the biblical marriage. Where do we go from here? I don’t know. I think monk mode is the only choice.
Thanks guys for ditching women. Leaves more for me…challenge accepted!
This man must be protected 😤
“You want half my house? I’ll burn the whole f’n thing down, how’s that?” - Terryjoeljunior
"There is nothing a manipulative woman hates more than an intelligent man that can't be broken, won't bend and cant be manipulated". 🎯
You are alert thanks to your past relationships and seeing your friends going thru attacks from females. God Bless Us All 🙏 🙌 ❤️
It’s over
It's over
It’s over
We’ve only just begun 😈
Don't be cynical. Pray and God will bless youv with the right person
Thank God I never got married. Today it’s like paying retail for a Ferrari 🇮🇹 that you know will be there in someone else’s garage in 5 years or less.
Today, Marriage is designed for women to prosper and men to have financial ruin.
That's why men should just go their own way and focus on themselves instead of losing all their assets that they work for due to a ungrateful woman that can change like the seasons.
These women are MONSTERS!!
The law is backing them
🧟♀️😈👹
Female nature is malicious when left unchecked.
Give yourself some time to work things out, and you need to set goals for your relationships. I know it's hard today, but there's still a chance to find the right person for you.
”Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favour of the LORD.“
Proverbs 18:22 KJV
”What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.“
Mark 10:9 KJV
If you can find WIFE MATERIAL then you are blessed!😮💨🤝
Prenuptial don't always hold up in court.
So what other options do you have to protect youreelf as a man if you do get married?
@@ApexGaming100just avoid the rigged game yeh!!
I just turned 50 in mid-September 2024, never married, no kids. It ain't gonna happen, I won't let it happen and for so many different reasons. The dating world alone, forget about the pain and suffering of divorce and all the dramas leading up to "the day of the wedding," the dating/romance world alone is a circus of games that has locked feemails into bouncing over and over and over again making men expendable.
No man can find the incentive to want to go through the various burdens to be "desirable" AND then be a "traditional man" to provide a universe of comforts just to deal with the kinds of liabilities and high probability she will end the relationship the second she loses THE FEELINGS and found a fresh host on the dating app or at the club with "ladies night out."
The key to life is to never make a decision in life based on an emotional state. This includes "positive" emotions like love. If you're gonna get married, make sure it's founded on something tangible, like starting a family or paying less income tax. Also, always get a prenup. Do not allow your emotions to be manipulated through them questioning your "love" or guilt tripping you. Make every decision with a sober mind and with purpose and tangible benefit.
I'd happily have the ceremony with family and all that, but to legally get married under the law on paper? It's a trap! Most women want to use a man for financial security. My good friend who is female literally told me she married her husband who is 10 years older (she's 32) because he had a house and she was tired of struggling and living in her condo. If he has kids with her she has guaranteed child support or even alimony if it doesn't work out. If she wont stay with you without getting married, my dude, run!
Lotta women use marriage as a last ditch retirement plan once they age out of the chad hookup program and they laugh all the way to the bank because many simps will line up with their wallets out
Love the title of todays video. 😆
Bro you young but your on top of your game. Im 40 years old and your on point and very smart 😂
I give the same advice closest i ever got to a wedding was waitressing receptions and that played on my sensory sensitivity.i think the worst night was when somebody put a strong laxative in somebody else's drink.
Love is Love,no one is telling you to get Married, just hv fun with woman.
A man retires when he dies, a woman retires when she marries
Be a woman then
Nope! Not when there's respect for the role of each sex. Man up
Oh this is deep, never heard this one before
Excellent way of putting it
As I have said before am man says I do when he gets married, and a woman says I don’t anymore
Never sign a contract that a woman is financially incentivized to break. It just doesn’t make any sense.
Great topic today👍
TJJ is the greatest wisdom, I aint finna listen to someone else who will just make my life worst
I don't understand how people expect marriages to work when they disregard common moral virtues and point fingers at others!
100% agree. Not gonna lie when you mentioned snapping someone's neck in half i started howling 😂
I had a fiancé for 10 years, a decent relationship, however we never decided to get married. After 10 years, when shit hit the fan and we broke up, I was so glad I didn't have to go through a divorce and pay her half of my wealth. She, on the other hand, wasn't that glad.
If u notice all the men are saying the same thing. For all the gaslighters, everybody can't be lien 😂😂😂😂. The gig is up
Facts!!
In a lot of countries, pre-nups, legally, can be thrown out just because the courts think the terms weren't good enough for her
There are some people out there, very few I may add, who find true passionate love while majority are putting on a facade. Im really convinced great healthy loving supportive relationships are a thing of the past- thats the case for vast majority unfortunately. With that said, get yourself a pet! You're more guarenteed to live a drama free life😅
No your wrong, your average woman now days has had like 20+ sexual partners before marriage.
And you expect a normal guy to take that in and get married and call it love.
Maybe if..... the man is a peanut and is gullible
Sad but true facts 💯 trust and commitment and loyalty is more attractive and putting God first in the relationship will help prevent all these problems that's the problem today in my opinion. So this guys got a point. Wouldn't be a bad idea to do your homework before you marry your woman.
I agree I’m with you on this 💯
That's only in places where women are considered "Leaders".
Now, move over to other places where government is small, divorce is considered an abomination, and the man is considered a hero, then raising a kid there with a wife, is a great chance of never backfiring or backstabbing
One word: Philippines.
Y’all think you are Angels??? Marrying old
Men for 💸💵💶
Problem is the paper work might not even protect you
YES TO YOU OUR DEAR BRO. THANKS SO MUCH! HAVING PRIVACY IS OUR POWER AND OUR FREEDOM! WE MAY JUST BETTER CHOOSE TO LIVE IN THE SPIRIT OF GOD WHICH BRINGS LIFE, LIGHT, LOVE AND FREEDOM THAN TO CHOOSE TO LIVE IN THE FLESH WHICH MAY JUST BRINGS SIN, SICKNESS AND DEATH! AMEN AND AMEN!
Even Bill Mahr says getting married is stupid!
How many schools did you attend from kindergarten through 8th grade? Public, private, Catholic, or Lutheran?
Focus on yourself and don’t let these females out there trick you
My brother and me both single live alone in our own homes we dont hate men or women and wd help people but marriage is a business i can go anywhere but if married yoy both have to decide where to go? When? The price? Some have a Foster child and are single and live alone in their house. Marriage is a business if marry yoy both will lose money and both lose your identity and both psy bills both. What happens if 1 loses job? That's a test.
Actually i have never what i know of and still it can be just me thought in the same way as you do, fear is a good thing to have it can make you get very far as long as you don't let that fear control you. Every day i carry a spiritual armor of fear, i do that because i can see things far before it reaches. This is how mythical i am as a person, if you constantly get rewarding comments from others you will never grow. You will only grow when you recieve critics, do you know why ? Because nice compliments can lure you to think that you are the one while a dagger is pointed to your throat. When i critisize you, you take it harshly but instead you should be thankful to recieve the critics. This is how Bruce Lee became the man who he wanted to be, it wasn't about the cheering from the audience but the critics that made him that man, that superhuman and still a very humble person. If you want to be remembered by others then let them speak about you who you were as a person, don't let your self fall down to preaching about who you are as a person. Let others do the talking because the more you waste your time telling people about how strong you are and how great you are the more you will just feed the devil. You have one mouth and two ears to listen, the more you listen the more you will grow and the more you will become decisive about your goals. Actions speaks alot more than words. You are young and you know this is true what i am telling you. You have lot of time to grow as a human person and to become greater than you can imagine.
I was with my girlfriend for 30 years and I didn’t want to get married because now you’ve got strangers involved and legal papers ect. Then people would say if you’ve been together for that long you are legally married. Bullshit..you see they try their best to sneak in there.