From Confusion to Conclusion | Swapna Patker | TEDxIIMRohtak
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 พ.ย. 2017
- Life made me do many things that I did not want to do , but those were the things that got me close to what I wanted . My aim in life is exploring all that excites me and I'm doing exactly that . I'm going to speak about my journey from an introvert engineer to an extrovert psychologist. I would also like to share a few funny memories on my educational path . The inference of my talk will be celebrating life and making life beautiful the way it shapes up . Dr.Swapna Patker, an alumnus of Harvard Business School, is an author, a film producer, and an entrepreneur. Dr. Patker is also the Chief Managing Director of The Rotal Maratha Entertainment, a motion picture production company. Dr. Patker also produced a Marathi language film Balkadu, which is a biopic of Late. Balasaheb Thackrey This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
I always think that why I always have so much of confusion. After watching this video, I realized that I am not the only person who is suffering from confusion...
yes you are absolutly right
she got tears in her eyes while narrating the incident which taught her about herself and her life... as an individual and as a mother
She is a sweet mother who loved her child. I loved her experiences of sadness and happiness that guided her through life.
”Curiosity never killed the cat. It educated the cat.”
This is a game changer.
Can u elaborate it's meaning please 😅
Please 🙏
I have seen a video on the title ; A hungry cat looking for food had seen a Snake ; It tried to kill and eat it but at the end , It was bitten by the snake and got killed ; This video has dampened my spirit of creativity for two months ; But she says , it educated the cat tribe that do not play with snakes ;
@@maniaphobia4719 great example
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Some of Our parents are not much educated but they have degree of happiness....and that degree is enough ...
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Was expecting TedX presenters are extraordinarily gifted and special. After watching Swapna, I thought every mother who works so hard; sacrificing or compromising her own personal priorities for her children’s happiness deserves to go and talk on TED-X stage and I am sure they will do way better than any one with just a dozen school degrees.
When i was a kid i wanted to become pilot
When i truned 20 wanted to become doctor
When i truned 22 I wanted to become engineer
But now i wanna become kid😊😊😊
Bro this Sam do you get me !
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Da....
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True 😭😭😭😭😊💯
What I learnt from this talk is "Curiosity never killed the cat. Curiosity only educated the cat" With curiosity only we can learn the things very fast. For doing anything we all need curiosity. Another point I learnt is "Exploration is the only thing that can help a person grow, and if you stop people from exploring they will never grow"
It's easy to do everything when you have someone to pay for your college fees. Here I am trying my best to earn so I can complete my Bachelor's degree.
its great when u are from a well to do family with lots of money and political connections,its tough when u dont have a father,and are caught up in a corporate viscious cyle just to keep earning and feeding yourself and family..
That proves your motivation for studies. Hard earned studies You will be proud of. Good luck
Couldn’t agree more..
True!!!
No really correct, many rich ppl keep thinking what to do in their life and in the end they just rotate their parents money and live.. education would not come if u just have money..but at same time ur true , we can choose certain education only if we have money. There r few ppl, who achived things without money also...we no need to lower ourself bcz of no money or no higher education..we r also life and doing our best..so no need blame them and no need to pity on ourself. If all these ppl can do well with their education, then country and ppl get benifit..
If we keep on learning,then it helps you to understand quickly and your mind start working towards mastery.
So in depth study always important to upgrade yourself.
Upgrading yourself is good but knowing yourself is best. Knowing yourself means it is my decision whether to upgrade or not.
Anybody here after her complaint about Harassments by Raut
I appreciate this sentence,"Exploration is the only thing that can help a person grow and if you stop people from exploring, they will never grow."
Same story....jack of all trades but master of none..even I wanna learn everything and go on exploring the knowledge in this world
Now days I'm feeling same as your..i m confusing about my career and as same time I'm thinking about my hobbies, dreams but aftr all thoughts i felt this is not cup of my tea.. watching ur speech i feel relieved..
True friend never leave if they are drowning them selves also they will help the other one and save their friend life. Finding a true friend is very difficult in this world. 🙏
Burger + extra cheese is. Engineering+MBA.. Wow! Loved this logic..of fun.
I am here to learn english but she teaches me to explore my self, thanks ma'am it's a pleasure for me.
She's absolutely correct and speak very well . Everyone should important to have the degree of master in happiness
I listend my speakers speech but urs life experience is really very different nd the way you share yours life's story is tremendous...
Thank you ma for admitting me not into school of HAPPINESS where I will obtain my "MASTER IN HAPPINESS"
TEDx is the best solution of my career.
Speaks new topics related with the real world.and for pg students.
So true.
EXPLORING IS ESSENTIAL For KEEP GROWING...Thankyou Madam SWAPNA...
Career cannot bloom without a proper planning & actions.
Every day, two bulls fight
in every person’s mind;
Positivity and Negativity
Do you know which one wins?
The one which you feed the most!• Anything that annoys you is for teaching you patience.
• Anything that angers you is for teaching you forgiveness and compassion.
• Anything that has power over you is for teaching you to take your power back.
• Anything you hate is for teaching you unconditional love
• Anything you fear is for teaching you courage to overcome your fear.
• Anything you can't control is for teaching you how to let go.
Very well said Mam 🙂 I'm not so much educated like u , but I've given my full time to my children n my home ! Ya it's been 28 yrs , I got married ! My daughter wanted to go to US n do her Master's n work for one year there , I completely supported her , later she said she wanted to marry a Punjabi guy , there also I supported her n v r South Indian brahmin ppl ! But when she said , she want settle there only .... I felt really very bad 😞 I felt like cheated 😔 but now some how accepted that she is happy being there only ...! But now my children , I've two children ( my younger son is a Doctor n studying further ) Both of them don't allow me to do anything which gives me happiness 😒 e.g. I wanted to buy one good camera , both said just use ur cell to click the pics , anyways where will u go out ?
Then I said now u both r grown up I'll go to native n like to stay with the nature ( like u felt that day , I knew my children don't need me for their every day life ) plz do reply if u feel I'm wrong ...🙂🙏
in my opinion you are not wrong. All your life you have lived for your children. you should now choose to live as you wish. I wish you all the best wishes and good health. stay healthy my dear Mom.
I always supported you becoz u r very correct 😊 plzz go with your dream......
I think you are not wrong..parents sacrifice their life for childrens happiness but we children become selfish somehow...you do many things for your children,now its your turn to live your life in your ownway..enjoy life dear mom😊
Pratikshya Rana thank u dear 😊 thank u for understanding my point !!
Aayushmann Bhavesh thank u so much dear for supporting my views 😊🙏
Don't let emotions control you. You control your emotions through your logic and rationality.
wow......what a line....... 😍😍😍
Ma'am really really ...... Heart touching and inspirational... thanks a lot for this speech
💞 Master of happiness...
That's exactly my situation. I am interested in everything and want to learn them as well. Now I found someone like me.
Don't worry, I am your twin sister!
What happened in your life????
Iam also
Me too
Me Too
Yes because of exploring i am growing up and following things what want to do.... my curiosity is helpful for me and .my life journey 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You Are Excellent Orater Mam, Its True To Be A Dreamer, As 'Dreams Are The Royal Roads Of Your Unconscious Mind' , To be Happy Always chase Your Dreams😊
I love that last line 😊it touched my heart ."u just have to love the people and let them be happy ."I love the whole talks .
It doesn't mean that one should not show the feeling of sadness while separating and keeping it in heart. One should express that the mother is always there for him.
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Thank god...20 minutes back I thought that I was the only person to have this urges and probably need a doctor...but now I feel different and its a good different I must say..😃😃
Hi
Swapna mam u helped me realize i can redefine and rediscover
..........u r just amazing
Exactly!! What I'm😇 ...She really spoken everything which I feel always 🙌
Dr. Shrikant JICHKAR sir💖He was the most qualified person of India. He is still an inspiration for many. His daughter runs an ngo called myzerogravity in nagpur ,maharashtra. Hats off to their work💖
Sometimes situations are teaches us more than what we r learning
I have nearly same situation of yours and am feeling good to hear you as I am not alone.
Beautiful speech. Mam you are reading my this comment,
I would like to tell you.. Every human being is in pursuit of happiness at every time. Happiness is the natural tendency of human being. Naturally all human being want to be joyful and blissful. Every moment I learn about happiness. There are a lot of things which tell us how to be happy. That is different context.
Great Dr. Engr. Swapna Parker!
Salute to you for the inspirational thought process towards happiness that you advise!
God Almighty Bless!
Feel like hearing you on and on!
Amazing talents!
Stumbled upon your presentation accidentally. Began by listening unattentively, till started being yourself...loved the wittiness.
Congratulations on your Grand Successful achievements !
I dream happiness nothing else.
Very nice and inspiring speech of Patekar Madam. Thanks.
She was my classmate, infact we shared the same bench, in 2nd or 3rd standard I guess. Great to see her after such a long time.
Oooo
Wow...you studied with her!!!
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you are so lucky being a friend of swapna
One of the best talks I have listened to in a long time. Simple, heartfelt and powerful !!! More power to you m'aam
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I too have dual master degrees in both computer and literature, finally teaching the children and happy now.
Only one thing that I want to say,,,"I like your confidence "
My is the similar thing, however due to some wrong influences I got misdirected and stopped exploring... Stopped growing, but this talk by Swapna brought my belief back to me! Now I say, don't listen to successful people, they can say anything they believe. And this is not necessarily suitable for you. Believe in yourself and go ahead!
She gives us an amazing lessons. Don't stop your children to exploring the world. If I have right that I explore the world, I do whatever I want to grow. Then he has also right to explore and grow. the lesson is if u stop your children to explore things they will never grow.
Though she couldn't channelize her thoughts to make up the to the point ....2 things we understood was 1. Learn whatever u want if u feel curious u should do that and people like me who are in the same boat will understand her 😍2. Happiness is in letting others do what they love to do.....
Eye opening message given by you to all the mothers from your life experience. Even I have had learnt this same kind of situation and experience from my son .
Fabulous speech, now I realise parent's decisions
i also want to do phd in many subjects....ur story made me feel i am not alone ppal tell me don't keet ur leg in two boat u ll fall bt ur story is completely different....u rise n education ll only educate u❤️❤️
Swapna mam apki vajah se mai life mai aik bahut bada decision tak pahuch paya hu...... Thank you meri confusion se mai ab bahar aa raha hu.....
everybody has fright to explore things according to his/her thinking...let kids think on their own....it was nice to listen, mam....some way or another way my journey almost like you. You are role model many of us....may god bless you always
Thanks so much for coming forward.
I almost felt alone to date after doing a diploma in electronic engineering+ Bachelors of Arts+ bachelors of education+ diploma of horticulture + bachelors of nursing.
Making it 27 years of education in 35 years.
Surprisingly, I have utilised all of those. I have been a horticulture trainer, a registered teacher and a registered nurse in Australia.
Only thing was diploma of electronic engineering that I could not use; so I’m using it as a hobby 😃
All the people name ending with Wal... Marwari hv that never say die attitude z I am envious
Bro I m doing diploma in electronics engineering 🥺🥺🥺
I love your speech mam. Tnx for this wonderful speech.
Her realisation about life ( conclusion ) is what missed by many people even now in India at least.
An awesome feelings..As if life enters a geostationary orbit from where you can only focus happiness.. paramananda.
Thanks Swapna ji for such a talk which shook my goal..End my confusion.
simple enligh with proper communication. you may got Master degree of Happiness.
Same is happening with me....
But I knw the day will come when I will seize my world
But thankyou so much for such amazing words
The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they make the best of everything. BUT ur speech I'm fully motivated
every one is unique at the birth stage but later all the things changes just because of the surrounding nature of people, better to remain unique as we have born u r just an epitome. hit like who agree with my point.
Its true 90% of our future is determined by environment.
Oh my goodness she is a great lady🥰🥰🥰🥰
A very good lesson learned from your speech, thanks much Swapna. From Sindhu
Curiosity can never kill a cat, it only educate.... A nice note.. 😀
Inspiring .....thank you for your great thoughts of happiness.
wonderful personality.amazing career.gr8 oratory skills.
Way inspirational. And her sense of humour. 😂🤣
Nice video and very strong ma'am, wounderful speech
Life is to be explored. Something I have been afraid of. Something I kept away from for the sake of someone else.
I am so happy today that I was correct in exploring my life.i am also double degree holder,no matter we must know to take a certificate from a family in making family happy which is such a big task .I believe see how best u perform the part each second,as it is losing the karma in best way
I know she will never stop growing and exploring.
Hello mam,
My self ravi kumar. I am very fascinated by your speech.Your life is too inspiring for me and my generations buddy. At this time most of my friends are busy in play meaningless games such as pubg and wasting time on ticktok n all similar stuff also I heard about Dr. Shrikant Jickher by you first time but I want to correct one statement that he was a C.A. but he wasn't a C.A.
THANKING YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.
With hard work and passion you can reach to where you've dreamt to!
Commode Diaries by the lady.....
Background: Nature's Orchestra and Saxophone.....👍
You are lucky that getting Evey kind of freedom. Nicely explain.
Thank you
Sometimes we learn the most and find out who you really are we didn't even know we were looking. The only way to know life is to live it.
Exactly what I am😻 Got to knowing im not mad ✨
Thankyou mam, it was really amazing to listen your life genenours .And it's inspired me
How many times I see this, I have the same enthusiasm!!! God bless you
I heard you...I felt as if it's me...my story...when I saw the comments ...I realised we women are super women...we dream of so many things...we explore as well and with our children.. we let them live their life...seeking happiness for them and us..You really took me down the lane when I was doing so many things and exploring at the same time looking after my family..Love you❤️ Wish you all the happiness!!
She figured out what women want. Happiness!
Awesome... I just love your accent and attitude. I enjoyed listening you.. the way you narrated your life and experience is amazing 👌
hi
mujhe bhi achi lagi
Mixer Grinder Swapna Patker...🤘🤗🙏
So powerfully inspirational and reminds me of myself and infact this has just brought myself back to be me again
An honest and frank talking which generally the people avoid to reveal to the public.Great message to those wish to move ahead with honesty of purpose in life .
Very very inspirational...your education, your dreams, your guts and your view towards life. Do you regret getting associated with politicians in your life ..directly or indirectly..?
So good speech for inspiration Thanks Sapana Mam.
Really ... there are some speeches on tedx which are quite unconvincing but her mood or way to discireb is so calm and clean up to the clearest idea of her mind which made me to imagine as she speaks. .. Too people too could make a worth out of every vedio just have to stop reading comments as u watch
I'm not mad , today I realised... ❤️🙏🏻.
For doing masters in happiness one must be a bachelor's in food, clothing and shelter.
..... and also of confidence and good sense!
Indeed!
True
Read happiness to the power of Infinity,by Rohit Sodha
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Greatly appreciated your experience 💐💐
thank u Mam ! Sikh ne ki koi umar nahi hoti ,sikh na bandh to jivan me jita na bandh !......
shreekant jichkar....the excellently optimistic information I've ever gained.....
Yes... There are people like me. I don't want to fit myself just in one box. I WANT EVERYTHING.
To be curious,to explore and to let free to learn more about the Dreams....is that which creates happiness.Nothing can be caged...and dream of happiness..
Beautiful......!!
good twist at the end... she is always open to learning. and she also learnt the lesson of life....... great
Madam !
Amazing speech .
I love your talk .
Superb
Knowledge enthusiasm is the part of bravery and freedom which helps to become an eminent personality. As a women iam proud of you, You the retaliation of present patriarchal system... Anway good speech... Thank you
Thank you TEDx Talks for such inspiring videos. I was subscribed this channel only bcoz of i wanted to enrich my english skills. At the same time these videos entertain us educate us motivate us and also help us to improve our english skills too. Thankyou bunches
Friend,l listened your speech more than 10 times.Because it was fabulous and thought provoking. Inspiring and useful .
Thanks for uploading useful information. Great speech.