I would really appreciate a video about anxiety. My anxiety has got the better of me at the moment and I can’t leave the house. Love your videos. Hope you are feeling better soon 🖤
Mandy you're not alone, believe me! There's a podcast called "The Anxiety Coaches Podcast" check it out, it is really helpful and provides a lot of answers to questions about why, and how it works. Plus she also teaches coping strategies.
Mandy Same, I have panic disorder and anxiety . I'm seeing doctors every week and I have medication but I feel like it's not doing enough. It's damaging my body, because of throwing up on every panic attack. I even throw up at the supermarket last week. Really the best when you have social anxiety 👌
Freya, this is the best Q & A I’ve watched on you tube. Fast-paced, to-the-point, not self-indulgent. Zero ‘clickbait’. I adore you regardless but this is a great video. You seem to be managing beautifully through everything and I admire and adore you a great deal. Massive love across the ocean to you - genuinely.
Yes, please make a video regarding anxiety! I have dealt with it since childhood, but am always up for more coping techniques. Your videos are wonderfully done. Can say with utmost honesty, you rarely make one that isn't superb! Well done!
I suffer with anxiety and depression . you are one amazing lady, I love your vlogs and you give me so much confidence just watching you deal with life in general. Hello to the rest of your fans & we all love you
I have chronic depression with major depressive episodes, and general anxiety. It's totally ok to focus on getting the medicine right and working with your psychiatrist. I understand it's hard to get stuff done when you aren't feeling like you have a safe place or in a "foreign" country. Hugs I am so sorry, I am sure it's hard. You'll be okay, and it's ok that you aren't perfectly ok, and it's ok to be sad as well. I know people would say never tell A depressed person it ok to be sad, but it's ok.
You should get a drone. You could paint it black and glue little bat wings to it. Then you could do Casey Neistat style shots over graveyards, outdoor gigs, and stuff.
Don’t give up on writing! I’ve been writing on mine for over 10 years. You’ll can get it published on amazon. You wont earn as much royalties but it’s something to look into.
Oh, yeah! i too have anxiety to the point i can't be in public or i just start crying and have to get out of the place i am! It's very hard to deal with this when you are expected to success in life. I would love to hear your thought on the matter and some tips might help. So much love from México! 🖤
I would really like a video about your history with mental health, what you have learned from it, how it has impacted your life, and ways you cope with it
I think you’d love York in England. It’s beautiful and the minister is gothic and gigantic. Plus it was originally the capital of England and is known for its Viking ruins and there’s a museum and that looks and smells like what it would be like in the Viking era 😱 you’d love it. It’s very old and LOTS of gothic shops 🥀
Black Friday, you are such a pleasure! Watching your videos makes me smile. You are so incredibly creative and even more intelligent. Please please publish your books! I’d absolutely love to read them. ♥️
I would totally love to read something you've written. You are very eloquent with your words and have a very witty sense of humor, just listening to the way you speak is honestly such a wonderful treat for the ears!! Thank you so much for being you
I would love a video about anxiety. My best friend has a very big problem with it and I want to help her out as best I can. Sending you lots of love and hope you feel better soon
Having dealt with Anxiety/Depression issues for feckin'-ever, I found one really good way is the 'grounding-technique' I leaned in DBT (Dialectic-Behavioral Therapy). Most folks try to fight/escape the overwhelming sensations, but firstly recognizing that it's just adrenaline gone Feral , and that letting it ride out while maintaining your 'center' helps it go quicker, is helpful. [You're not crazy/dying/stupid, and dump anybody that tries to tell you that you are!] I keep a couple of postcards with places I find restful, and when the fit hits, I mentally project myself there while doing a slowly-controlled deep-breathing. It won't change immediately--remember, adrenaline needs to process--but it will pass the time until it does. Set your feet, identify where all your body-bits are, and just give yourself some slack for a couple of minutes--YOU ARE WORTH IT
HONESTLY do not move out of Germany right away. You want to travel and moving to a more remote area of the world isn't going to help because the cost to travel will go up. Right now you can travel throughout Europe with more ease.
Rammstein is fucking awesome. Seen them live 3 times now, and could definitely see them 100 more times. They are excellent, genius, and dedicated performers.
Please do an anxiety video! That would help me so much, I have a presentation coming up in about a week at schools and I’m already having anxiety attacks over it.
I was looking through the comments and stumbled across yours... never heard of dragula before now.... OMG IT'S AWESOME!@!@!!@ so thank you very very much
Anxiety Video please! I've had such a strong case of social anxiety all my life that even being with my loved ones for to long without an escape or break makes me spiral...
Thank you for saying you usually wear your make up to sleep! I also love your reasons. I was feeling a bit bad about myself for only making a minimal effort to remove my makeup, now I feel validated hahaha! I got a really positive feeling about your writing, I think you will accomplish your goals with that this year.
I'm loving this thanking you for making my moment as I make dinner for the family . I've been following your channel forever please do more question and answer.
Also upvoting the anxiety video! I saw a hypnotherapist a few times, who reeeeally helped me with anxiety, and she had a couple of techniques I was taught, that I've since sadly lapsed out of and forgotten, but I vaguely recall one being in a really relaxed state (so ideally hypnotised, but there are plenty of guided meditations on TH-cam, or just sitting at an altar or with incense and candles and crystals, whatever), and then thinking about anxiety attacks, but visualising a huge neon STOP sign, and clenching one fist like you're screwing up the anxiety and chucking it away. Repeat a bunch of times, and it actually helps a lot to visualise and 'throw away' while having an attack, once you've made that link. Equally, like you, I find it works a whole lot better if I've already gone 'argh, halp, munch a valium, I'll be cool in half an hour!' - faith in chemistry ;) I would love to hear your tips though, whenever you get time, and good luck with the writing, that's something I need to boot myself up the butt with too right now. BOOT -> BUTT, me, I have ideas, I need to act on them!!
Omg I love you and black Friday you guys are my favs and I would love some tips on how I can better manage my anxiety. And I also got to get my butt out of this creative block
It is good that you have found what you are meant to do here in this lifetime, and that you have decided to return to pick up where you left off writing-wise. Sounds like you are back on your path to fulfilling your dreams. Storytelling, how wonderful! So happy for you!
You should consider coming to Canada. I got a student visa pretty easily as an American. Canada is great and it’s culturally accepting. Free healthcare and living wages. Definitely a good option to consider.
I think I'm maybe the only non Goth that watches you? I adore you, and love your aesthetic and your personality is so just so so sweet and you always put me in such a good mood
Nat Takes On I'm a "nongoth" I love black Friday, even her style... It's not my style but she always looks amazing! And of course her voice and accent is so beautiful!
I also suffer from anxiety....and MDD. I would love to see a video on how you manage your anxiety! I've been carrying crystals with me everywhere and I also put them under my pillow.
I suffer from Major Depression and High Anxiety (and taking meds for these), I would love to see how you get your anxiety under control :) One thing that does make me happy are Bunnies :D but if there is a lot of anger I'm dealing with, I will listen to heavy metal/rock music and just let it flow out of me.
I hope you do take a long trip down here in America. I have social anxiety so I don't go out much, but if you come to Florida I would definitely come to see you. I think you're wonderful.
It'd be awesome if you'd be able to come to UK! Praying for you to get a visa - I feel like you'd love the gothic oldy buildings in some parts of London or in Bath
Please make a video about anxiety I do take ativan for mine cuz it gets really bad but there have been times I have forgotten my meds at home so it would be nice of you to talk about the ways you deal with anxiety or get yourself out of an anxiety attack and you are looking stunning as always hope u are feeling better I love your videos so much and I love your attitude about not caring what people think about you I wish I could learn how to do that because people have said some pretty hurtful things to me to the point I've wanted to just end it all anyways your videos brighten up my days so thank you so much and have a lovely day
I also take ativan (among other things) and am really bad about remembering to take my meds/take them with me. So I have a little pill case for each of the medications that I take. I keep the little cases in my purse and keep the pill bottles in my home, so that way I will have my meds with me wherever I go. I still forget sometimes but it's much easier now
Excited Belgian subscriber here!!! Bruges looks absolutely breathtaking during winter in the evening. And if you visit Ghent maybe take some time to shop at Asher’s street. The basement is a goth paradise and the owner is a funny chap from Transylvania 🦇. Lots of love! 😽
I would love you to make a anxiety video I have struggled for so long with it and find yoga, meditation and breathing techniques really don’t work for me, the medication is the only thing really keeping me together xx🖤
I would love to see you do a video on anxiety i have anxiety and depression ive been on meds for 4 years now id love to see what helps you and maybe find somthing that can help me x
Thank you for being you in every way that you are~ I remember that I need to make the most of my time and creativity instead of observe everyone else's.. although I will totally still watch your videos as long as you're doing them!
I actually had to watch the first half of this video twice because, after watching it for the first time, I realised that I had been hypnotised by your clock...
I think a video about anxiety and how your day was that would be great. Most of the time I can deal with my anxiety now but there are definitely times that it's hard so I would love to know some of your techniques
OMG I was surprised when you said Rammstein for your all time fav band!!!! I have always been a die hard fan of the group-they are truly amazing!!!! Keep writing- I really like they way you tell us your stories about your day or the events you go to! Also don’t rush into dating or anything else it will happen when you least expect it!! You need time to heal from your marriage ending. People always think that when a woman gets divorced that it’s not devastating-it truly is! I am divorced from my first husband and my second husband passed away...they were both horrible in their own different ways...so you take your time with things. My grandmother used to say “Honey- go and live life- you only get one!”
Watching this after she had her two baby bats this hits different and makes me happier for her that her dreams came true.
'It's not about self-confidence, it's about apathy'. That might just be my new mantra for life. :P
I would really appreciate a video about anxiety. My anxiety has got the better of me at the moment and I can’t leave the house. Love your videos. Hope you are feeling better soon 🖤
Mandy Same. Just know you are beautius!
Lauren Sullivan ❤️
Mandy you're not alone, believe me! There's a podcast called "The Anxiety Coaches Podcast" check it out, it is really helpful and provides a lot of answers to questions about why, and how it works. Plus she also teaches coping strategies.
Mandy Same, I have panic disorder and anxiety . I'm seeing doctors every week and I have medication but I feel like it's not doing enough. It's damaging my body, because of throwing up on every panic attack. I even throw up at the supermarket last week. Really the best when you have social anxiety 👌
Ik I'm late. But your not alone. But remember your amazing in all ways
"It's not confidence, it's apathy"! beautifully said
Freya, this is the best Q & A I’ve watched on you tube. Fast-paced, to-the-point, not self-indulgent. Zero ‘clickbait’. I adore you regardless but this is a great video. You seem to be managing beautifully through everything and I admire and adore you a great deal. Massive love across the ocean to you - genuinely.
Yes, please make a video regarding anxiety! I have dealt with it since childhood, but am always up for more coping techniques. Your videos are wonderfully done. Can say with utmost honesty, you rarely make one that isn't superb! Well done!
>Favourite band
>Rammstein
GUUUUUUUUURRRRLLLLL YES. I saw them with Apocalyptica in Quebec and was fucking amazing.
oh yes ! A anxiety video would be awesome ! you give me strength to keep my spirits up because I also suffer from Panic disorder .
I suffer with anxiety and depression . you are one amazing lady, I love your vlogs and you give me so much confidence just watching you deal with life in general. Hello to the rest of your fans & we all love you
And omg I can't wait for your Ireland vlog! You should do Scotland too!
Christina Zickowski oh I definitely talk her to come over to Scotland. This time she will stay here for eveeeer😊
RAMMSTEIN!!!! God I wasn't expecting that, that's so badass. Love them so much.
Yaaas! Anxiety video, please! 💜
I have chronic depression with major depressive episodes, and general anxiety. It's totally ok to focus on getting the medicine right and working with your psychiatrist. I understand it's hard to get stuff done when you aren't feeling like you have a safe place or in a "foreign" country. Hugs I am so sorry, I am sure it's hard. You'll be okay, and it's ok that you aren't perfectly ok, and it's ok to be sad as well. I know people would say never tell A depressed person it ok to be sad, but it's ok.
Yes can’t wait for the books
I'd love to see how you deal with anxiety attacks. It's nice to know that I'm not alone and it's never harmful to learn new ways of dealing with it.
You should get a drone. You could paint it black and glue little bat wings to it. Then you could do Casey Neistat style shots over graveyards, outdoor gigs, and stuff.
Don’t give up on writing! I’ve been writing on mine for over 10 years. You’ll can get it published on amazon. You wont earn as much royalties but it’s something to look into.
I hope you are ok. You seem a little sad and I know that is to be expected. Sending hugs and love.
Oh, yeah! i too have anxiety to the point i can't be in public or i just start crying and have to get out of the place i am! It's very hard to deal with this when you are expected to success in life.
I would love to hear your thought on the matter and some tips might help.
So much love from México! 🖤
You are special, you are important, and you are loved.
I am a Rammstein fan as well. There is just something about their music that I can't explain but pulls me in.
Rammstein. Nice. So great. Since I was about 15, or whenever their first album came out, I have loved them.
I'd be interested in an anxiety video.
You are such an awesome person- inside and out!
Good on you Freya, so glad you're in and writing. I can see you finishing this writing project.
Wow. I was not expecting Rammstein to be your favorite band. I did recenly listen to Sehnsucht and that us a damn good album,
Yes, please, do a video on your top 5 anxiety management. PLEASE!
You should totally do a video reading some of your writing. 💖💖💖 I love you!
I would really like a video about your history with mental health, what you have learned from it, how it has impacted your life, and ways you cope with it
I'd love to have a video by you about helping with anxiety
I think you’d love York in England. It’s beautiful and the minister is gothic and gigantic. Plus it was originally the capital of England and is known for its Viking ruins and there’s a museum and that looks and smells like what it would be like in the Viking era 😱 you’d love it. It’s very old and LOTS of gothic shops 🥀
I would love an anxiety video as well! I have pretty severe anxiety as well.
I like this setting, it's got this ' bring out the wine' vibe.
Yes please make a video about how to deal with anxiety attacks
Black Friday, you are such a pleasure! Watching your videos makes me smile. You are so incredibly creative and even more intelligent. Please please publish your books! I’d absolutely love to read them. ♥️
I would totally love to read something you've written. You are very eloquent with your words and have a very witty sense of humor, just listening to the way you speak is honestly such a wonderful treat for the ears!! Thank you so much for being you
I would love a video about anxiety. My best friend has a very big problem with it and I want to help her out as best I can. Sending you lots of love and hope you feel better soon
I suffer with anxiety and panic attacks. Love to hear your take on that subject.
you have a super relaxing laughter, i could listen to it forever
Having dealt with Anxiety/Depression issues for feckin'-ever, I found one really good way is the 'grounding-technique' I leaned in DBT (Dialectic-Behavioral Therapy). Most folks try to fight/escape the overwhelming sensations, but firstly recognizing that it's just adrenaline gone Feral , and that letting it ride out while maintaining your 'center' helps it go quicker, is helpful. [You're not crazy/dying/stupid, and dump anybody that tries to tell you that you are!] I keep a couple of postcards with places I find restful, and when the fit hits, I mentally project myself there while doing a slowly-controlled deep-breathing. It won't change immediately--remember, adrenaline needs to process--but it will pass the time until it does. Set your feet, identify where all your body-bits are, and just give yourself some slack for a couple of minutes--YOU ARE WORTH IT
I would appreciate a video about dealing with anxiety.
HONESTLY do not move out of Germany right away. You want to travel and moving to a more remote area of the world isn't going to help because the cost to travel will go up. Right now you can travel throughout Europe with more ease.
Yes Rammstein! Your video got me in to them, so cool to hear they're your favorite.
Woohoo for Ireland! 🇮🇪 The goth scene here is tiny and quite friendly! I hope you come down to Limerick 🤗🤗🤗
Yes please, an anxiety and your techniques to deal with it video would be awesome. xo
Rammstein is fucking awesome. Seen them live 3 times now, and could definitely see them 100 more times. They are excellent, genius, and dedicated performers.
Please do an anxiety video! That would help me so much, I have a presentation coming up in about a week at schools and I’m already having anxiety attacks over it.
You should totally visit Vienna, it literally oozes history (I've lived there for ten years myself - oh how I miss it 😔)
An anxiety video sounds lovely 💕🕸
I love you so much, your videos cheer me up but the hidden sadness behind your eyes is still clear. I hope you feel better soon goth queen🖤🦇
Hello :) if you like Sharon Needles then you'll probably enjoy Dragula, it's a show revolving around alternative drag
Leona Luna OMG I've been obsessed with that show since S1! And S2 was even better. So much talent. Those queens are so raw and creative.
I was looking through the comments and stumbled across yours... never heard of dragula before now.... OMG IT'S AWESOME!@!@!!@ so thank you very very much
Omg, ghost stories w/ Black Friday are my favorite! I'd love more videos or a vlog of haunted houses! Please and thank you!
I would love a mental health helping video!
i have anxiety, maybe u could make a video on dealing with it
no one same.I agree❤
Anxiety Video please! I've had such a strong case of social anxiety all my life that even being with my loved ones for to long without an escape or break makes me spiral...
Thank you for saying you usually wear your make up to sleep! I also love your reasons. I was feeling a bit bad about myself for only making a minimal effort to remove my makeup, now I feel validated hahaha! I got a really positive feeling about your writing, I think you will accomplish your goals with that this year.
My tombstone will say: "Goths are welcome to pose here" ;)
I'm loving this thanking you for making my moment as I make dinner for the family . I've been following your channel forever please do more question and answer.
Also upvoting the anxiety video! I saw a hypnotherapist a few times, who reeeeally helped me with anxiety, and she had a couple of techniques I was taught, that I've since sadly lapsed out of and forgotten, but I vaguely recall one being in a really relaxed state (so ideally hypnotised, but there are plenty of guided meditations on TH-cam, or just sitting at an altar or with incense and candles and crystals, whatever), and then thinking about anxiety attacks, but visualising a huge neon STOP sign, and clenching one fist like you're screwing up the anxiety and chucking it away. Repeat a bunch of times, and it actually helps a lot to visualise and 'throw away' while having an attack, once you've made that link. Equally, like you, I find it works a whole lot better if I've already gone 'argh, halp, munch a valium, I'll be cool in half an hour!' - faith in chemistry ;) I would love to hear your tips though, whenever you get time, and good luck with the writing, that's something I need to boot myself up the butt with too right now. BOOT -> BUTT, me, I have ideas, I need to act on them!!
Of Herbs and Altars Hi Dorian! Lol 😙 yep klonopin is one of my bffs...
Of Herbs and Altars hi Dorian 😚😚
Omg I love you and black Friday you guys are my favs and I would love some tips on how I can better manage my anxiety. And I also got to get my butt out of this creative block
please do a video on anxiety, I'm genuinely curious about your tips
It is good that you have found what you are meant to do here in this lifetime, and that you have decided to return to pick up where you left off writing-wise. Sounds like you are back on your path to fulfilling your dreams. Storytelling, how wonderful! So happy for you!
You should consider coming to Canada. I got a student visa pretty easily as an American. Canada is great and it’s culturally accepting. Free healthcare and living wages.
Definitely a good option to consider.
Anxiety control techniques video please!!!
i understand your feelings about things not being made the way they use to. It deeply saddens my heart.
Great video, love this kind of chill q&a !and yeah, an "how to deal with anxiety" video would be great 😊
I think I'm maybe the only non Goth that watches you? I adore you, and love your aesthetic and your personality is so just so so sweet and you always put me in such a good mood
Nat Takes On I'm a "nongoth" I love black Friday, even her style... It's not my style but she always looks amazing! And of course her voice and accent is so beautiful!
I'm not a goth either lol I just think Black Friday is one of the sweetest TH-camrs ever. I hope she comes to the Midwest someday so I could meet her
I agree!
she really is! I'm in Miami its a bit hot here but maybe she'll venture here as well
Nat Takes On nah, I’m a non-goth and I love her 🖤
It would be cool to see your music collection.
I know what I want written on my tombstone. “LOOK OUT BEHIND YOU”!!
I also suffer from anxiety....and MDD. I would love to see a video on how you manage your anxiety! I've been carrying crystals with me everywhere and I also put them under my pillow.
I am glad to hear you will be focusing on something that you are passionate about this year. I am excited to see the fruits of your passionate labors.
Can you do a fury friend tag? And feathers!
I suffer from Major Depression and High Anxiety (and taking meds for these), I would love to see how you get your anxiety under control :) One thing that does make me happy are Bunnies :D but if there is a lot of anger I'm dealing with, I will listen to heavy metal/rock music and just let it flow out of me.
Glad as backasswards as the states are right now you still want to come back. Xoxo from Kansas City 😊
I hope you do take a long trip down here in America. I have social anxiety so I don't go out much, but if you come to Florida I would definitely come to see you. I think you're wonderful.
It'd be awesome if you'd be able to come to UK! Praying for you to get a visa - I feel like you'd love the gothic oldy buildings in some parts of London or in Bath
Come live in the UK!! Pleeeeaaaaase! We could do with more awesome people like you!
As someone who's been following you for years I would love to read some of your writing
Rammstein helps me with me my German! Absolutely love them :D
Yes and anxiety one would be good
Yes help for anxiety.
Please make a video about anxiety I do take ativan for mine cuz it gets really bad but there have been times I have forgotten my meds at home so it would be nice of you to talk about the ways you deal with anxiety or get yourself out of an anxiety attack and you are looking stunning as always hope u are feeling better I love your videos so much and I love your attitude about not caring what people think about you I wish I could learn how to do that because people have said some pretty hurtful things to me to the point I've wanted to just end it all anyways your videos brighten up my days so thank you so much and have a lovely day
I also take ativan (among other things) and am really bad about remembering to take my meds/take them with me. So I have a little pill case for each of the medications that I take. I keep the little cases in my purse and keep the pill bottles in my home, so that way I will have my meds with me wherever I go. I still forget sometimes but it's much easier now
I can't wait to read your novel. :)
I think the anxiety video idea would be AMAZING!!! :)
Yes, you should post some anxiety tips/advice!
Im really for the anxiety video 🖤
Excited Belgian subscriber here!!! Bruges looks absolutely breathtaking during winter in the evening. And if you visit Ghent maybe take some time to shop at Asher’s street. The basement is a goth paradise and the owner is a funny chap from Transylvania 🦇. Lots of love! 😽
I really hope you do a video on anxiety and how to control it. I’ve had my fair share of constant panic attacks over the littlest things.
Oh my goodness! You like classical music as well! Such a great taste in music 😊
I would love you to make a anxiety video I have struggled for so long with it and find yoga, meditation and breathing techniques really don’t work for me, the medication is the only thing really keeping me together xx🖤
Luv u frejya💜 I too have anxiety and love the open discussion about it 🖤
I'd love to hear your techniques for dealing with anxiety, I have loads of it.
I would love to see you do a video on anxiety i have anxiety and depression ive been on meds for 4 years now id love to see what helps you and maybe find somthing that can help me x
I have schizophrenia, and insomnia. And the chicken question made me laugh, but it’s cute!!
You should tell us ghost stories. Kinda how Shane Dawson does his conspiracy theory videos. I think you'd make some great videos.
I got excited when you said that you write books, now I want to read them! 😍
Please make a video about how to deal with anxiety attacks .
Thank you for being you in every way that you are~ I remember that I need to make the most of my time and creativity instead of observe everyone else's.. although I will totally still watch your videos as long as you're doing them!
I actually had to watch the first half of this video twice because, after watching it for the first time, I realised that I had been hypnotised by your clock...
I think a video about anxiety and how your day was that would be great. Most of the time I can deal with my anxiety now but there are definitely times that it's hard so I would love to know some of your techniques
From your blog in New York, you seemed quite happy being there. And it’s cheaper to live there than Brisbane, Australia hahaha (still expensive)
OMG I was surprised when you said Rammstein for your all time fav band!!!! I have always been a die hard fan of the group-they are truly amazing!!!! Keep writing- I really like they way you tell us your stories about your day or the events you go to! Also don’t rush into dating or anything else it will happen when you least expect it!! You need time to heal from your marriage ending. People always think that when a woman gets divorced that it’s not devastating-it truly is! I am divorced from my first husband and my second husband passed away...they were both horrible in their own different ways...so you take your time with things. My grandmother used to say “Honey- go and live life- you only get one!”