Actually, I'm thinking that they're looking for a relationship, more than a husband, mate, partner, etc. That, and the drama that they can bring to said 'relationship' e.g. - the relationship is more important to them than the actual person. Just listen to a few women talking about their 'relationship', that should tell you what you need to know.
@@jeffvalasek4774 I already know everything about female nature. And not fooled by any of it. Men are in love. Women are in business. Women are the gate keepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women are the goalkeepers of babies. I’m way ahead of you.
This is so cold and so true! I knew it from a young age my mom was getting child support and my granny always wanted some of it! I was living currency whoever had me got extra money imagine knowing that from the age of 10!
I don't think this matters as much if you make sure to get what you want out of them also. The problems we're having in society actually stem from mens inability to demand pretty much anything out of wmn these days, but if you're a man that's comfortable stating clear boundaries and putting her to work in your life? Then whatever she expects out of you will be earned, leading to far less resentment, imo.
After I was married 38yrs 4 adult children 5 grand divorced 71 know single about 8 years don't care about finding another person. Found out I am a sigma male thank you and others for helping us to understanding our selves to keep our peace of mind while being alone
Im a sigma, i think, on my own all my life but can't say i enjoy it, always wanted to be married, like women and love kids, but it just never happened, i have tried but it just didn't happen. Im definitely not a loner, i like company. And i always felt incomplete, so maybe im not a true sigma ??
Interesting insights! Exploring different perspectives helps broaden our understanding of human behavior and relationships. Thank you for sharing this viewpoint.
The intro is why I’ve left America. Self awareness, self preservation, and the endless journey of self development. I’d argue that a few of us are indeed INFJ-T.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Thanks for this video my relationships never work out because I hate being attached to anything attachment is very hard for me to accept this video helped me discover myself 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Also, I do not think about improving myself , ever. I increase my skills because it feels good. Acquire a skill and you get serotonin - increase self esteem, increase mastery, competence, pleasure at doing something I could not do before. Even seeking eudaemonia is not my focus - I do what I am compelled to do - eudaemonia just feels better than happiness. I am encouraged that each of my art products appear to be better than the last one - I use that to keep going. 72 year old music video creator.
I you are living by commitments it means you are NOT enacting your role in the Great Drama, If you do what you love - commitments are not needed. My wife and I made no commitments. We agreed to end the relationship if we don't feel like con ti being it. We've been married for almost 14 years. We are closer than ever. People who live by commitments are suffering - crime against nature. I do what I love doing, so no commitments are useful. No one ever created anything wonderful from a commitment.
You committed to not making commitments. I'm glad you're happy, but this comment is complete nonsense. "No one ever created anything wonderful from a commitment." Probably sounded good in your head, but is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard.
By these definitions, I guess I’m a Sigma Male. I remember I had 2 opportunities in life to have women that I just bang without commitment. Different years of my life different women, both wanted me very badly, they were eager to do anything for me…but I didn’t want anything to do with them. I prefer to be alone, have my peace, and as they said in the video..be selective. The women I did give my time to, I made sure were worth it, if not… they were dismissed. I’ll refrain from running around calling myself a Sigma, but it’s nice to know why I am the way that I am.
Most people misunderstood me for years. I would win because I did not conform to other people's bullshit and/or agendas, especially exes who could not manipulate me.
greetings making the video well done once again you have spotted a single wolf and one of them to the beginning to the end of your video that is me how I operate that's who are single wolf man so ladies Step Up and start to learn about me others great man better come correct and truthfully who are because we do not stand any nonsense but only happiness harmony be correctness around the house slopping no no laziness learn healthy cooked wise ladies bring ideas skills to come to the table with nothing you get nothing out of it start being a family woman then I will take lady under my wing have a wonderful day
Sigmas simply do a better job or really they are the only ones with the ability to strip away the veneer, the filters off of wmn and see them for what they truly are. I mean, really, this is what they do with their entire surrounding to be fair and in doing so, everything loses it's shimmer and shine and becomes a lot more dull, but still in 4k. It isn't just wmn tho...the "alpha" gets stripped as well as the beta and you almost start to laugh at the entirety of the game at this point, easily predicting each ones every move.
@@jeffvalasek4774 Call me skeptical. I've been reading a lot of comments of people that are adding their own specific/personal habits to what the video describes.. so that they can then prescribe an attribute to themselves. When the type of personality being described is a hyper specific collection of traits that only a fraction of the population possesses. From my observation, there seems to be a desire to feel special here, what better way to maintain independence, and yet be a part of a group at the same time. It isn't uncommon to think you are special.. But it contradicts the archetype being described. Infact, it is oxymoronic.
While true that not all traits are attributable to all at the same degree, it's useful to apply a judicious amount of discretion in evaluating individual posts Yes, of course there is/will be individual/personal differences in observations, but, at least for me, I am not 'understood' by many. Personally, it's been refreshing for me to find this... Community (Have I used enough 'politispeak?) Individual differences can account for quite a bit, and it helps to keep that in consideration Also, you may consider that I have a tendency to throw some manipulation/direction pointing in my personal posts, basically designed to elicit a reply from a specific type of individual. Appreciate the reply. Has me thinking.. And, I am in no way special, just different. No better, and no worse than anyone.
@@arielvega6344 Ok, just for kicks and giggles, and a quick surface analysis from this one post - Guessing that you're a mid 20's college student, dabbling at least a little in psychology. Enjoy debating, and reasonable discussion, but somewhat set in your views. Of course, there is much more there, but best not to dig too deeply here, for what should be obvious reasons. Curious - am I even close? Me - 64 years old, been through quite a bit. And, to be honest, having a problem figuring out why you chose to use the term 'oymoronic'. From the rest of your post, that doesn't seem to fit. You have a tendency to put people into categories? Myself, I've found that working on an individual level can be helpful in removing, as much as I can, for lack of a better term , 'personal prejudice against groups' from any analysis I come up with. Thanks for the discussion, Jeff
@@jeffvalasek4774 Not too far off. I'm 28. And although, I didn't attend college, I was intellectually competent enough to take part in AP classes in the core studies from 5th grade up until half way through highschool. When I moved to Texas, Texas didn't acknowledge some of my credits. Which killed the morsel of curiosity that I had of attending higher learning, good thing too, I had no idea what I wanted. Still don't, but I've done well enough with my own two hands. I've lived a few lives in a short time met different kinds of people of all different kinds of backgrounds.. I've done country living, to project housing to where I am now a suburbanite mountainman (lol) in the northeast. My heart calls for the freedom of the South though.. I've learn that most people are not so different; we were all children that turned to teenagers that got older trying to figure it out. Some get too wrapped up in it trying to get it "correct", where "being right" becomes obsession. I think where the confusion may lie when I said "oxymoronic".. is the topic at hand. Which deals in archetypes, by its very nature it's a categorical metric. Ex. Sigma, Beta, Alpha, Omega blah, blah, blah. You get it. To some degree, I think it's magical nonesense like horoscopes... But more so because it's been polluted by the nature of popularity. However, from my own personal experience, I don't believe that categories are an ineffective means for predictions. I guess the most important note is that, IF, we do categorize it's meant to be used as a guide. I'd say it's comparable to a food recipe when cooking. (Not so much for baking, baking requires precise measurements of ingredients, which is comparable to individuals that are more unstable. Because if you are off by a teaspoon, it could ruin or alter the final outcome of the recipe) I think cultural differences would likely determine the dish and a persons experience would determine the intensity of certain "seasonings", and our flaws would be some of our intolerances. And you learn those flaws the more you interact with an individual.. I guess you could say I taste test a lot to get the appropriate flavors for the most genuine means for relatability. In the simplest words, watch what it does, poke with my finger or with a stick, watch what it does... and act accordingly. And we build or rebuild depending on circumstance of learned behavior/information. If it's a dog, I might not mess with it depending on what the tail is doing. If I see a turtle, I throw my nephew at it so I can run away. Proportional responses are in order. But ultimately I think, that if we operated under the assumption of potentially being wrong.. We are more likely to get things correct, than to be "lost in the weeds" on the path to trying to be right. I do believe that being "correct" (logos) and being ethically "righteous" (pathos) are synonmously aligned through the pursuit of truth to achieve (ethos). And to balance these ideas is to stand the tight rope of rationality and ethics, I hold this to be principley true to my core. So yes, there are some views that I am set in. "The pathway to hell is paved in good intentions [but yet] the devil is [still] in the details".
As a handsome independent man i can honestly say this is spot on. 👌🏽 I'm single no kids never been married. One of the common things I often hear from women i date or choose to see is "How come I'm not married? "When are you going to settle down? I simply reply ..... "When I'm ready".
@Aviator_Walker I've seen dudes sit at home and play video games online all day or have women take care of them upset with me claiming they are men lol. I pointed out the Independence from my own life experience. That doesn't mean I'm right and you're not but just a highlight.
I just simply ignore women. No need to deal with her BS mind games and drama! Im a free and a happy man saving myself a thousand headaches along the way! 😎
as a follower of Stoic philosophy, i'd like to think the sigma male's ethos of authenticity and self-sufficiency would be maximally complemented by Stoic virtue ethics and equanimity. cheers!
Because on the road to riches it's a lonely walk,to get to the top we understand it's lonely there, therefore we have to be cold blooded to get cold hearted cash,and a women comes with a lot of time wasting,and time is money💯💯💯,but I'm still angry wit ya azz for exposing us bro😤
Great video! I for sure know that I'm a sigma male. I was like how does this man know me so well. WOW, that was an amazing video about the truth of a sigma male, and the truth of who I am.
@@jeffvalasek4774 Nothing bothers me, I find it very amusing how "people" will subcategorize things to fit in when they are in-between or undecided about what they want or who they are. Good luck with your Sigma status though! haha
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Women are not looking for a relationship, they are looking for a lifestyle.
Amen to that
Actually, I'm thinking that they're looking for a relationship, more than a husband, mate, partner, etc. That, and the drama that they can bring to said 'relationship'
e.g. - the relationship is more important to them than the actual person. Just listen to a few women talking about their 'relationship', that should tell you what you need to know.
@@jeffvalasek4774 I already know everything about female nature. And not fooled by any of it. Men are in love. Women are in business. Women are the gate keepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women are the goalkeepers of babies. I’m way ahead of you.
Wow after watching sigma male videos, I just figured out I'm a SIGMA MALE.... proud of it....
Yeh right. Ain’t we all!!!?
Why you lying for beta male...
@@capricornsounduk6023 nope not at all....
Same...welcome brother
I’m right with you
Honor to the Sigma Males ,🔥
Because honor, integrity, truth, and honesty really DO matter!!!
Because she doesn't want you or care about you , she wants what you can do for her. This includes your mother and grandmother.
Microchimerism 👁️
This is so cold and so true! I knew it from a young age my mom was getting child support and my granny always wanted some of it! I was living currency whoever had me got extra money imagine knowing that from the age of 10!
You ain't lying about most mothers, but only that GM was truly a Matriarch who actually bonded the family together and was, in so doing, selfless...
Yup
I don't think this matters as much if you make sure to get what you want out of them also. The problems we're having in society actually stem from mens inability to demand pretty much anything out of wmn these days, but if you're a man that's comfortable stating clear boundaries and putting her to work in your life? Then whatever she expects out of you will be earned, leading to far less resentment, imo.
So glad I’ve found a community of encouragement to myself in this country of BABYLON
That's why I have been alone for this very reason
While playing video games and mommy doing laundry
After I was married 38yrs 4 adult children 5 grand divorced 71 know single about 8 years don't care about finding another person. Found out I am a sigma male thank you and others for helping us to understanding our selves to keep our peace of mind while being alone
Like the song goes, "The women I've known I wouldn't let tie my shoes!"
Im a sigma, i think, on my own all my life but can't say i enjoy it, always wanted to be married, like women and love kids, but it just never happened, i have tried but it just didn't happen. Im definitely not a loner, i like company. And i always felt incomplete, so maybe im not a true sigma ??
I never knew this I am a sigma male I fit this mold perfectly I walk away with open eyes Thank you
Interesting insights! Exploring different perspectives helps broaden our understanding of human behavior and relationships. Thank you for sharing this viewpoint.
The intro is why I’ve left America. Self awareness, self preservation, and the endless journey of self development. I’d argue that a few of us are indeed INFJ-T.
IRON SHARPENS IRON
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Thanks for this video my relationships never work out because I hate being attached to anything attachment is very hard for me to accept this video helped me discover myself 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Also, I do not think about improving myself , ever. I increase my skills because it feels good. Acquire a skill and you get serotonin - increase self esteem, increase mastery, competence, pleasure at doing something I could not do before. Even seeking eudaemonia is not my focus - I do what I am compelled to do - eudaemonia just feels better than happiness. I am encouraged that each of my art products appear to be better than the last one - I use that to keep going. 72 year old music video creator.
Love this!! Spot on!! Summed up our life’s philosophy in roughly 20 mins.📌
Too much trauma, and drama, better off alone !
Being so keeps you healthy and peaceful 😆
I you are living by commitments it means you are NOT enacting your role in the Great Drama, If you do what you love - commitments are not needed. My wife and I made no commitments. We agreed to end the relationship if we don't feel like con ti being it. We've been married for almost 14 years. We are closer than ever. People who live by commitments are suffering - crime against nature. I do what I love doing, so no commitments are useful. No one ever created anything wonderful from a commitment.
Damn so true. Perfect way to explain it. Thank me later 49 and feel like I may be finding out who I am now.
You committed to not making commitments. I'm glad you're happy, but this comment is complete nonsense. "No one ever created anything wonderful from a commitment."
Probably sounded good in your head, but is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard.
You quite literally have to commit to something to create anything. Wonderful or not...
Sigma=lonely but to proud to admit it. Find your crew you’re nothing alone in this world.
This video is 4 times longer than it needs to be
By these definitions, I guess I’m a Sigma Male. I remember I had 2 opportunities in life to have women that I just bang without commitment. Different years of my life different women, both wanted me very badly, they were eager to do anything for me…but I didn’t want anything to do with them. I prefer to be alone, have my peace, and as they said in the video..be selective. The women I did give my time to, I made sure were worth it, if not… they were dismissed.
I’ll refrain from running around calling myself a Sigma, but it’s nice to know why I am the way that I am.
Most people misunderstood me for years. I would win because I did not conform to other people's bullshit and/or agendas, especially exes who could not manipulate me.
Spot-On…🙌
I would like to point out that 99% of the worlds special forces consist of sigma males. Everyone else is dead. Think about that.
After learning what a "sigma male" is, I absolutely detest the term.
Thank you very much.
We don't like game, too.
literal perfect description of me
And the reason ……..an unconscious connection with trauma/psychosis as a toddler in the seperation stages as a baby .ie .a covert narcissist.fact.
Well, this sigma avoids women simply because I like that I love men.😊
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤓🤓🤣🤣
This is me 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯
🔥 💯
This is who.i am.
greetings making the video well done once again you have spotted a single wolf and one of them to the beginning to the end of your video that is me how I operate that's who are single wolf man so ladies Step Up and start to learn about me others great man better come correct and truthfully who are because we do not stand any nonsense but only happiness harmony be correctness around the house slopping no no laziness learn healthy cooked wise ladies bring ideas skills to come to the table with nothing you get nothing out of it start being a family woman then I will take lady under my wing have a wonderful day
Sigmas simply do a better job or really they are the only ones with the ability to strip away the veneer, the filters off of wmn and see them for what they truly are. I mean, really, this is what they do with their entire surrounding to be fair and in doing so, everything loses it's shimmer and shine and becomes a lot more dull, but still in 4k. It isn't just wmn tho...the "alpha" gets stripped as well as the beta and you almost start to laugh at the entirety of the game at this point, easily predicting each ones every move.
i know its a meme, but this just like me fr
👍 great 👍
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Damn🎯 mf know his Shi 💪🏽subbed
your vid feels like an advertise for sigma males 😂
I stand the tide i dont conform im not afraid I don't live your style
*Insert nonesensical comment exclusive to the circumstance of the self*
How about 'everything DOES actually make sense if/when you understand the reason behind it'?
@@jeffvalasek4774
Call me skeptical. I've been reading a lot of comments of people that are adding their own specific/personal habits to what the video describes.. so that they can then prescribe an attribute to themselves. When the type of personality being described is a hyper specific collection of traits that only a fraction of the population possesses. From my observation, there seems to be a desire to feel special here, what better way to maintain independence, and yet be a part of a group at the same time. It isn't uncommon to think you are special.. But it contradicts the archetype being described. Infact, it is oxymoronic.
While true that not all traits are attributable to all at the same degree, it's useful to apply a judicious amount of discretion in evaluating individual posts
Yes, of course there is/will be individual/personal differences in observations, but, at least for me, I am not 'understood' by many. Personally, it's been refreshing for me to find this... Community
(Have I used enough 'politispeak?)
Individual differences can account for quite a bit, and it helps to keep that in consideration
Also, you may consider that I have a tendency to throw some manipulation/direction pointing in my personal posts, basically designed to elicit a reply from a specific type of individual.
Appreciate the reply. Has me thinking..
And, I am in no way special, just different. No better, and no worse than anyone.
@@arielvega6344 Ok, just for kicks and giggles, and a quick surface analysis from this one post -
Guessing that you're a mid 20's college student, dabbling at least a little in psychology. Enjoy debating, and reasonable discussion, but somewhat set in your views.
Of course, there is much more there, but best not to dig too deeply here, for what should be obvious reasons.
Curious - am I even close?
Me - 64 years old, been through quite a bit.
And, to be honest, having a problem figuring out why you chose to use the term 'oymoronic'. From the rest of your post, that doesn't seem to fit. You have a tendency to put people into categories? Myself, I've found that working on an individual level can be helpful in removing, as much as I can, for lack of a better term , 'personal prejudice against groups' from any analysis I come up with.
Thanks for the discussion, Jeff
@@jeffvalasek4774
Not too far off. I'm 28. And although, I didn't attend college, I was intellectually competent enough to take part in AP classes in the core studies from 5th grade up until half way through highschool. When I moved to Texas, Texas didn't acknowledge some of my credits. Which killed the morsel of curiosity that I had of attending higher learning, good thing too, I had no idea what I wanted. Still don't, but I've done well enough with my own two hands. I've lived a few lives in a short time met different kinds of people of all different kinds of backgrounds.. I've done country living, to project housing to where I am now a suburbanite mountainman (lol) in the northeast. My heart calls for the freedom of the South though.. I've learn that most people are not so different; we were all children that turned to teenagers that got older trying to figure it out. Some get too wrapped up in it trying to get it "correct", where "being right" becomes obsession.
I think where the confusion may lie when I said "oxymoronic".. is the topic at hand. Which deals in archetypes, by its very nature it's a categorical metric.
Ex. Sigma, Beta, Alpha, Omega blah, blah, blah. You get it.
To some degree, I think it's magical nonesense like horoscopes... But more so because it's been polluted by the nature of popularity.
However, from my own personal experience, I don't believe that categories are an ineffective means for predictions. I guess the most important note is that, IF, we do categorize it's meant to be used as a guide. I'd say it's comparable to a food recipe when cooking. (Not so much for baking, baking requires precise measurements of ingredients, which is comparable to individuals that are more unstable. Because if you are off by a teaspoon, it could ruin or alter the final outcome of the recipe) I think cultural differences would likely determine the dish and a persons experience would determine the intensity of certain "seasonings", and our flaws would be some of our intolerances. And you learn those flaws the more you interact with an individual.. I guess you could say I taste test a lot to get the appropriate flavors for the most genuine means for relatability.
In the simplest words, watch what it does, poke with my finger or with a stick, watch what it does... and act accordingly. And we build or rebuild depending on circumstance of learned behavior/information. If it's a dog, I might not mess with it depending on what the tail is doing. If I see a turtle, I throw my nephew at it so I can run away. Proportional responses are in order.
But ultimately I think, that if we operated under the assumption of potentially being wrong.. We are more likely to get things correct, than to be "lost in the weeds" on the path to trying to be right. I do believe that being "correct" (logos) and being ethically "righteous" (pathos) are synonmously aligned through the pursuit of truth to achieve (ethos). And to balance these ideas is to stand the tight rope of rationality and ethics, I hold this to be principley true to my core. So yes, there are some views that I am set in.
"The pathway to hell is paved in good intentions [but yet] the devil is [still] in the details".
You make us sound gay
Us? Who you calling gay?
😮🤔🤔🤮🤮🤮
Lol 😂 😂@@notanymore9471
😂😂😂😂
Yes very good.
HOWEVER
WHERE ARE THE ALPHA MALE VIDS ???
Not here
"HOWEVER
WHERE ARE THE ALPHA MALE VIDS ???"
How typical. You just might be an alpha. To the fellow sigma's out there, you know what I mean.
This is me 💯 omg
We usually detach ourselves from all🫶🏽🖤1
As a handsome independent man i can honestly say this is spot on. 👌🏽 I'm single no kids never been married. One of the common things I often hear from women i date or choose to see is "How come I'm not married? "When are you going to settle down? I simply reply ..... "When I'm ready".
“Independent man” is an oxymoron. It’s just called being a man.
@@WalkrFilms In a world full ow grown up boys.
@Aviator_Walker I've seen dudes sit at home and play video games online all day or have women take care of them upset with me claiming they are men lol. I pointed out the Independence from my own life experience. That doesn't mean I'm right and you're not but just a highlight.
I just simply ignore women. No need to deal with her BS mind games and drama! Im a free and a happy man saving myself a thousand headaches along the way! 😎
and saving $$$$$$ 1000’s . The juice is very rarely worth the squeeze
as a follower of Stoic philosophy, i'd like to think the sigma male's ethos of authenticity and self-sufficiency would be maximally complemented by Stoic virtue ethics and equanimity. cheers!
They go together hand in hand
exactly my thoughts
Absolutely, the alignment between the sigma male's quest for authenticity and Stoicism's virtue ethics is striking.
You just told a book about myself😮
Same here bro. When i came across this. I get excited someone describe me lol
They can keep their claws and fangs to themselves 🧐
This is me man...thank you
Because on the road to riches it's a lonely walk,to get to the top we understand it's lonely there, therefore we have to be cold blooded to get cold hearted cash,and a women comes with a lot of time wasting,and time is money💯💯💯,but I'm still angry wit ya azz for exposing us bro😤
Now, i found that i am in a category. Thanks for the name.
woman talk talk an say nothing waste of time an money wheelchair larry
S/O to us!!
Great video! I for sure know that I'm a sigma male. I was like how does this man know me so well. WOW, that was an amazing video about the truth of a sigma male, and the truth of who I am.
I think you're unsure and contradicting.
Cross overs with avoidants, fear of attachment.
There is no such thing as Sigma.. There's Beta and Alpha, that's it.
🤣🤦♂️
Hello, alpha. Having a problem with the nuances? Not surprising.
@@jeffvalasek4774 Nothing bothers me, I find it very amusing how "people" will subcategorize things to fit in when they are in-between or undecided about what they want or who they are. Good luck with your Sigma status though! haha
This video is 100 %. Correct....
I am infinita male
What the F is a sigma male?
1000%💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
This is not only for men I am a woman and I can relate to all the numbers in this video!!! Great post thank you 🤍🐺
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Recondite: A very accurate description of who we are.
I am definitely not a sigma. But I sure as hell detach myself from everyone like a sigma.