I LOVE this show. I need you guys every day in my life. I need you guys to be on a big network show doing this. Joe, I love how you sit back and give your wife the room to express herself. Most men would try to take over and over talk. Zarah is a well-spoken, smart, articulate, and educated black woman. I love how she expresses herself and how she uses words to explain herself. Joe, I can ssy the same abiut you. I just love both of you. I am new to you both. I am an older man. Both of you could be my children. My oldest is about to tien 35, and my other daughter just turned 32. To hear young people speak like you do is refreshing. I need to find 2 Joe's for my girls. We love in Dallas, and both my girls complain about how bad dating is in Dallas. I need to get them married off.
Yesssss Zar, y'all watch Afterparty, Ikechi does not like to be questioned and only wants to be questioned at certain times and in certain ways. He explained on Afterparty this felt like a set up to him because a conversation him and Emem had the day before. The thing is, he is not feeling Emem like that and he is not giving her much in his answers for her to get to know him. And this guy uses words for fun, so he full well knows how to say what he is thinking.
Even though Camille workin our "black" nerves lol! They are our only hope this season! Camille and Thomas for the win! Honorable mention to Juan and Karla, i still like them and want them to work!
Of all of the Couples reviewers I like Joe the best. He gives realistic and valuable comments. Too many of the other men play the fool with their constant stupid jokes. Thank you!
I’m not watching MAFS this season, but I watch every episode you guys post. I love you guys as a couple and Zar, you’re my best friend in my head 😂. Like the way you describe just wanting to exist while Joe feeds you grapes is exactly how I feel about life. Again…yall just need to start a relationship podcast!
Zarah, you are 1000% correct, and Joe, you are 1000% wrong. I will give a full detail on why and I say the reason why is not an opinion it's a fact. I'll give a brief here. I have to get back to cooking. If you didn't watch the After Party, you have to go back to watch. Ikechi had 3 women questioning him, and he was visabling getting upset and wanted to run off the set. His hands were shaking and were clearly irritated. You have to watch and listen closely to everything. Even one of the guests said I have many questions but said she's not sure if she should ask. You have to go back to the first meeting Ikechi had with the cousin. The guy is just asking normal questions, and then Ikechi was not happy and pushing back on the cousin. The next meeting was with the friend again asking normal questions, and Ikechi snapped on her, then telling her this was not a normal situation but N this was what you signed up for. You moved from Houston Chasing to Be on this show. Ikechi had already set the tone for the next time he meets with the cousin and the friend or anyone else who had questions for him. Before they arrived at the apartment, he had already turned up asking Emem if the cousin was coming and ssuing he wasn't scared of him. They show up and like any family or friends. You're going to ask questions. Now we hear the reason why he says Emem and her cousins are aggressive, and he says the questions she's asking and says the same to the cousin. A new wife on this should shoukd have a million questions and you as the man shoukd answer them woth out getti g irritated or upset. Ikechi hates for people to question him about anything and will go from frustrated to anger if you keep asking him questions. The same thing happened on the After Party. Ikechi is a frown man. He should have no issues answering questions from people who are just trying to know him as a new member of their family. Once the cousin realized Ikechi was on 10, he turned up because he knew as a man it was going to set Ikechi off, and that's what happened. Ikechi has some serious and deeply emotional issues. You can see it in his interactions with Emem. Joe I don't understand why you can't see this. You are comparing Ikechi to you. You are a cool dude. Yes it was Ikechi that came to the conversation wanting all the smoke not the cousin and not the friend. They were happy to engage him in some spirited conversation, but neither of those people disrespected him in any way. It was a conversation, and Ikechi snapped.
Being an educator and saying you’re not used a series of questions is hilarious. That tells me one of two things: he’s a liar OR he’s an asshole in all parts of his life and shuts down his students with his demeanor and “boundaries”. As an educator myself, it’s impossible to avoid series of questions whether it’s from admin, students, parents, etc. What he means is nobody questions HIM because he talks so much that people don’t get the chance to. He makes his energy big to give less chance for people to get in depth with him (which he thinks his conversational topics are deep when they’re actually still surface). The minute another person (the cousin) has bigger verbal energy, he’s intimidated. Same way he’s quietly intimidated by Emem after learning how she’s runs her life. It’s too big for him. Now, he’s defensive which is common for those who are intimidated.
I feel like Enem class masculine energy. She comes off like a homie. I feel like she needs to work on her sexuality because she’s an absolutely beautiful woman, but she doesn’t know what to do with it.
I got it all figured out. lol Juan is a weirdo and Karla's friend Yinka (sp?) looked like he smelled something off with Juan. Madison is a nice nasty Michelle. Michelle is terrible and needs therapy for her childhood trauma. She's focused on running from poverty. Camille is young and offensive. Ikechi is FOS. He chased the show to sell that book. He's pressed about questions because it goes off the script he's crafted in his mind. I don't wanna hear one mickeyfickey thing about that Chicago woman being too much for him. He's the one who moved north to "get married."
Has Ikechi ever dated before and meet the parents/family? They usually questioned, I don’t understand why he is so offended by her family checking him out. He wants to talk aimlessly with no substance. He came on this show to sell that book lol.
I feel like Enem class masculine energy. She comes off like a homie. I feel like she needs to work on her sexuality because she’s an absolutely beautiful woman, but she doesn’t know what to do with it.
I LOVE this show. I need you guys every day in my life. I need you guys to be on a big network show doing this. Joe, I love how you sit back and give your wife the room to express herself. Most men would try to take over and over talk. Zarah is a well-spoken, smart, articulate, and educated black woman. I love how she expresses herself and how she uses words to explain herself. Joe, I can ssy the same abiut you. I just love both of you. I am new to you both. I am an older man. Both of you could be my children. My oldest is about to tien 35, and my other daughter just turned 32. To hear young people speak like you do is refreshing. I need to find 2 Joe's for my girls. We love in Dallas, and both my girls complain about how bad dating is in Dallas. I need to get them married off.
Yesssss Zar, y'all watch Afterparty, Ikechi does not like to be questioned and only wants to be questioned at certain times and in certain ways. He explained on Afterparty this felt like a set up to him because a conversation him and Emem had the day before.
The thing is, he is not feeling Emem like that and he is not giving her much in his answers for her to get to know him. And this guy uses words for fun, so he full well knows how to say what he is thinking.
Zar done told us before, "drop your keys" ladies! I'm a damsel too Zar!❤😊
Even though Camille workin our "black" nerves lol!
They are our only hope this season! Camille and Thomas for the win!
Honorable mention to Juan and Karla, i still like them and want them to work!
Of all of the Couples reviewers I like Joe the best. He gives realistic and valuable comments. Too many of the other men play the fool with their constant stupid jokes. Thank you!
I’m not watching MAFS this season, but I watch every episode you guys post. I love you guys as a couple and Zar, you’re my best friend in my head 😂. Like the way you describe just wanting to exist while Joe feeds you grapes is exactly how I feel about life. Again…yall just need to start a relationship podcast!
Zarah, you are 1000% correct, and Joe, you are 1000% wrong. I will give a full detail on why and I say the reason why is not an opinion it's a fact. I'll give a brief here. I have to get back to cooking. If you didn't watch the After Party, you have to go back to watch. Ikechi had 3 women questioning him, and he was visabling getting upset and wanted to run off the set. His hands were shaking and were clearly irritated. You have to watch and listen closely to everything. Even one of the guests said I have many questions but said she's not sure if she should ask. You have to go back to the first meeting Ikechi had with the cousin. The guy is just asking normal questions, and then Ikechi was not happy and pushing back on the cousin. The next meeting was with the friend again asking normal questions, and Ikechi snapped on her, then telling her this was not a normal situation but N this was what you signed up for. You moved from Houston Chasing to Be on this show. Ikechi had already set the tone for the next time he meets with the cousin and the friend or anyone else who had questions for him. Before they arrived at the apartment, he had already turned up asking Emem if the cousin was coming and ssuing he wasn't scared of him. They show up and like any family or friends. You're going to ask questions. Now we hear the reason why he says Emem and her cousins are aggressive, and he says the questions she's asking and says the same to the cousin. A new wife on this should shoukd have a million questions and you as the man shoukd answer them woth out getti g irritated or upset. Ikechi hates for people to question him about anything and will go from frustrated to anger if you keep asking him questions. The same thing happened on the After Party. Ikechi is a frown man. He should have no issues answering questions from people who are just trying to know him as a new member of their family. Once the cousin realized Ikechi was on 10, he turned up because he knew as a man it was going to set Ikechi off, and that's what happened. Ikechi has some serious and deeply emotional issues. You can see it in his interactions with Emem. Joe I don't understand why you can't see this. You are comparing Ikechi to you. You are a cool dude. Yes it was Ikechi that came to the conversation wanting all the smoke not the cousin and not the friend. They were happy to engage him in some spirited conversation, but neither of those people disrespected him in any way. It was a conversation, and Ikechi snapped.
23:50 - 28:50 A word.
Being an educator and saying you’re not used a series of questions is hilarious. That tells me one of two things: he’s a liar OR he’s an asshole in all parts of his life and shuts down his students with his demeanor and “boundaries”. As an educator myself, it’s impossible to avoid series of questions whether it’s from admin, students, parents, etc. What he means is nobody questions HIM because he talks so much that people don’t get the chance to. He makes his energy big to give less chance for people to get in depth with him (which he thinks his conversational topics are deep when they’re actually still surface). The minute another person (the cousin) has bigger verbal energy, he’s intimidated. Same way he’s quietly intimidated by Emem after learning how she’s runs her life. It’s too big for him. Now, he’s defensive which is common for those who are intimidated.
I feel like Enem class masculine energy. She comes off like a homie. I feel like she needs to work on her sexuality because she’s an absolutely beautiful woman, but she doesn’t know what to do with it.
I got it all figured out. lol Juan is a weirdo and Karla's friend Yinka (sp?) looked like he smelled something off with Juan. Madison is a nice nasty Michelle. Michelle is terrible and needs therapy for her childhood trauma. She's focused on running from poverty. Camille is young and offensive. Ikechi is FOS. He chased the show to sell that book. He's pressed about questions because it goes off the script he's crafted in his mind. I don't wanna hear one mickeyfickey thing about that Chicago woman being too much for him. He's the one who moved north to "get married."
Has Ikechi ever dated before and meet the parents/family? They usually questioned, I don’t understand why he is so offended by her family checking him out. He wants to talk aimlessly with no substance. He came on this show to sell that book lol.
😂💪🏾❤
I feel like Enem class masculine energy. She comes off like a homie. I feel like she needs to work on her sexuality because she’s an absolutely beautiful woman, but she doesn’t know what to do with it.
I can 100% see this, and think this had to have been a consistent issue in her past relationships
She is definitely always the "homegirl"