Yes, we still have a sex life. My acrobatic skills aren't what they used to be but it's definitely still doable. I'm still kicking around the idea of making a video about sex after injury. Don't expect any porn though.
Lady Heart: I'm so sorry to hear your story. It sounds like you hold a lot of resentment and regret for the decisions you made. Sadly, I know a lot of able bodied people that could relate to your emotions as well. I hope you don't misplace the blame of your failed marriage on your husbands injury.
Lady Heart wow u could’ve just said congratulations and kept the rest of ur awful and sad story to urself!!! What a way to break bf people down. Debbie Downer much!!!
Hi lady heart. A very close friend of mines husband broke his neck 15 years ago and has been paralyzed from the neck down. Total quadriplegic. He is right at this moment in the hospital because tomorrow he is having his right leg amputated because of severe reoccurring infections which can no longer be controlled with antibiotics. He also has stage 4 butt wounds and also one on his hip. I have watched my friend live thru this hell for 15 years and you are right that it never gets better. She said she isn't his wife, only his caretaker because he treats her as the hired help. And all of that and she still works a full time job so he has medical insurance. I cannot imagine going thru the hell she and you have endured. Time passes by so fast, life is too damn short to be miserable. I wish you all the best.
Lady Heart - I'm so sorry to hear your story. I think it's important for people to realise wheelchair or no wheelchair, it's the person. Unfortunately your experience hasn't been positive. I was married to an able bodied man who was also incapable of not only loving me for who I was (always wanted me to be better, I was never good enough, realised years later nothing I ever did would have been good enough) but didn't know how to appreciate it live in the moment. I like to be random, keep it edgy you know, see what today will bring, do crazy stuff just for the heck of it 😁 but found I was being tut tutted. I was so bored, it was like being married to my father lol I left and I was the happiest I'd ever been in my life. And guess what, other guys were clawing to get at me 😉 Divorce is hard, particularly when you know you face family vitriol, my father was NOT happy with my decision but eventually came to accept it. Do what it right for you. You're not his slave. I wish you all the best and hope you find the happiness you deserve xx
I'm really not sure how I found your channel but I'm glad I did. I've watched several vids now. Congrats on the amazing proposal, your wife is beautiful and seems very kind and caring. Good luck on yalls journey to conceive through IVF. Praying for you and your family :)
Congrats! U are one lucky guy. I have been a para T4 for 23 yrs. and met a wonderful person 3 yrs. later after my accident and got married. We tried to get pregnant for years and just gave up coz of financial problems. 16 yrs. later tried to get pregnant again by going to a fertility doctor and fiinally... a beautful baby girl! Still going strong after 19 yrs. of marriage. Wish you the best of Luck!
Lady Heart Can you shut the fuck up and let other people choose their happiness? Fine! Boohoo you! You are fucking miserable with your disabled husband! You're old and tired! You only have your childen to live for! Contented now?!
This is the sweetest marriage proposal I've ever seen. I must say you are VERY handsome :-) I hope your wife is not so jealous! ;-) ! I think you BOTH are very lucky to have one another. I would feel very blessed if I had such a brave man with me, I am not disabled but I definitely wouldn't mind getting married with someone with some physical disability. I was looking for a video of the wedding...but I guess that's quite private... anyway... May God bless you...all the best :-)
This made me cry. I know the emotions, joys and struggles that come with being in love with an injured person. The love of my life is a quadriplegic with a successful career and I can only hope we get this far together and beyond one day. Congratulations! even though it's a late congrats lol. I hope you two go far together in life
@Lady Heart Give it a break already. Yes it's harder with age but let others be happy. Mutual love makes a huge difference. Every relationship is different so please keep your negativity to your self.
OK so I came across this clip whilst watching your motor cycle video. I'm sat here in the UK crying my eyes out its so nice. My partner and I were already engaged before his accident (T12 complete) We are 10 months on from his injury and just trying to change/adapt our wedding plans to include the wheelchair. That is a lovely way to propose I am enjoying the clips and your advice as its everyday things we don't always get told how to do once you are home from the spinal unit. Thank you
I really love your channel. I am dating a man who is a paraplegic and your channel has been helpful to give me more insight into his experiences. He is very open when I have questions, or will explain things even if I don't ask, but I never think to ask when I'm spending time with him because, obviously, I'm only focused on spending time with him and enjoying him, haha. Loved seeing this proposal video, even though I know you two are now married. Thanks again for all the information you put out to help people understand! (Also, go Buckeyes! I'm originally from Ohio)
Congratulations 🎉 8 years later but still tearing up 😭 lol, so sweet ❤️. My husband and I were actually married 3 months earlier the same year you two got engaged.
This was immensely hard to watch for me, too! American women are gold diggers. Always expecting the man to drive a sleek, shiny luxury sports car or even a stretch limousine, expecting him to go from zero to 900 miles an hour in 3 seconds, expecting him to own a mansion as big as the World Trade Center and a cabin cruiser the size of the Costa Concordia. I can easily guarantee there are no more than maybe 20 women in the entire United States of America that are as physically beautiful, friendly, and loving as Tiffany, and who would marry a disabled man who truly can not financially support her by himself and can never afford a luxury sports car, or a McMansion, or a luxury cabin cruiser, or a super yacht, or the ability to give her everything on a sparkling gold platter.
TheBurwi this man has proven to me that if you don't give up on living just because of of the battles we face in life some people have physical some have mental issues that they battle but as long as you don't give up on living life has a awesome way of coming back around
I can't stop crying😭😭😭😭😭 thanks for letting us be a part of it too!! What a magnificent proposal, if she had said no, I would have married you!!! Lol Congratulations!!!!!
I've watched this a few times and it always gets me. you've inspired me like no one has before and I am so thankful for that. thank you so much for you posting everything you do you've touched so many people
From one Para(T-7,8,complete) to another may GODS' blessing thru your whole life and with happiness right behind both of you. AND WHO SAID IT CAN'T BE DONE!!! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS---Peace
It's good to see that there is a bond of acceptance and to feel accepted is a blessing. For this Young lady, She seems very accepting and this Young man will have someone to care for Him.
Your videos are inspiring. At first they helped me to write my book ( in French ! ) then as my husband has always been a biker , I was amazed by what you can still do with your Kawasaki. You are a great man! Congrats to you and Tiffany from a Miami fan!
omg that was so sweet, her reaction was priceless! my b/f and I have been together for 10 1/2 years this month, he's a T5, he had a motorcycle accident 19 years ago, a truck was driving too close behind him, so he upped his speed, come to a turn went to slow down, hit gravel in the turn, and as he tells, made friends with a boulder the size of a chevette. he is my best friend, we do plan to marry...someday...lol..but this was so cute, I love it!! congrats on your engagement! keep us posted!
I have been watching ur videos for a while now but this one is one of my favourite , I know it's late but congrats u deserve every happiness such an inspirational person keep the positivity...
....+++***Congratulations on your engagement!!!!***+++.... I am a Paraplegic since 5/12 and not easy to go through as you know! When i first say the video give me hope that i be able to take my kids to the park, movie and ect. just need to be patient in learning thing in P.T. CONGRATULATIONS and thank you!
Congratulations to you both. It is obvious how much you love each other. Best wishes for a long and happy marriage. Hope you both will be reviewing this video on your 50th Anniv. Thanks for sharing. Appreciate the educational videos. Kind of you to do them.
I know this is a bit late but.....Congrats! You did a very unique proposal. Love you included the family! Just found your channel. I'm sure you are helping others that may be experiencing the same type of accident you had. Love the Internet!! 💜👍😁
That was a sweet & unique marriage proposal. Congratulations on your engagement, blackpearlv6. I just started watching your videos today. You have really informative videos. It's a good thing, what you're doing with your videos. You have helped people on TH-cam by being open, friendly, & honest. I like that. I like learning new things. it's nice how you put people at ease talking about your adaptations. You have a great lady, & I can see how touched she was with the marriage proposal. Congrats!
Congratulations on your engagement! It was a very sweet proposal. I have watched about all your videos and they are very informative. I have a friend that is a complete paraplegic, weakness on his hands the way he was injured. He has been like that for 3 1/2 years.
Congrats to you and your new bride to be! I can't wait to see more videos! Hopefully there will be a few clips from the wedding! Thank you for sharing this very intimate moment with all of us! :)
Congratulations! I envy you...my husband shows me very little affection since I have become paralyzed. He sleeps upstairs in our old room and I sleep in a little room off the livingroom. I hope to have a nice home like yours one day...maybe then things will be different. God Bless!
your videos are really inspiring, i too am not able to walk. it can be depressing at times not being able to walk like i used to, but i have my beautiful girlfriend by my side to help me get thru the worst. congrats on your marriage and i hope one day i'll ask her to marry me as well! :)
My boyfriend as well is in a wheelchair . When I’m with him, i feel like I’m HOME !!!! He’s the man of my dreams 🥺🤍 I TOTALLY LOOK PAST THE WHEELCHAIR !!!
Aw! That was awesome! She's adorable. She had me tearing up. I'm glad you had the camera pan back to show us what it was she saw. That was really, really cute. Congratulations! Hope you'll be very happy together.
with the same condition my mother is in a wheel chair too.... its easy to watch those people but its really difficult for them to survive after having test of an easy life.
Yes, we still have a sex life. My acrobatic skills aren't what they used to be but it's definitely still doable. I'm still kicking around the idea of making a video about sex after injury. Don't expect any porn though.
Lady Heart: I'm so sorry to hear your story. It sounds like you hold a lot of resentment and regret for the decisions you made. Sadly, I know a lot of able bodied people that could relate to your emotions as well. I hope you don't misplace the blame of your failed marriage on your husbands injury.
Ples contact nick vucujik in cal.he wil b glad to help u.good luck.8 cycles of iui then twins.from ny.
Lady Heart wow u could’ve just said congratulations and kept the rest of ur awful and sad story to urself!!! What a way to break bf people down. Debbie Downer much!!!
Paralyzed Living still waiting
Hi lady heart. A very close friend of mines husband broke his neck 15 years ago and has been paralyzed from the neck down. Total quadriplegic. He is right at this moment in the hospital because tomorrow he is having his right leg amputated because of severe reoccurring infections which can no longer be controlled with antibiotics. He also has stage 4 butt wounds and also one on his hip. I have watched my friend live thru this hell for 15 years and you are right that it never gets better. She said she isn't his wife, only his caretaker because he treats her as the hired help. And all of that and she still works a full time job so he has medical insurance. I cannot imagine going thru the hell she and you have endured. Time passes by so fast, life is too damn short to be miserable. I wish you all the best.
My boyfriend is in a wheel chair too, I love him for who he is I see past the wheelchair
Lady Heart - I'm so sorry to hear your story. I think it's important for people to realise wheelchair or no wheelchair, it's the person. Unfortunately your experience hasn't been positive. I was married to an able bodied man who was also incapable of not only loving me for who I was (always wanted me to be better, I was never good enough, realised years later nothing I ever did would have been good enough) but didn't know how to appreciate it live in the moment. I like to be random, keep it edgy you know, see what today will bring, do crazy stuff just for the heck of it 😁 but found I was being tut tutted. I was so bored, it was like being married to my father lol I left and I was the happiest I'd ever been in my life. And guess what, other guys were clawing to get at me 😉 Divorce is hard, particularly when you know you face family vitriol, my father was NOT happy with my decision but eventually came to accept it. Do what it right for you. You're not his slave. I wish you all the best and hope you find the happiness you deserve xx
Amen!!! Probably the best husbands out there! So many men abusive and just disrespectful to women.
blessing
I'm really not sure how I found your channel but I'm glad I did. I've watched several vids now. Congrats on the amazing proposal, your wife is beautiful and seems very kind and caring. Good luck on yalls journey to conceive through IVF. Praying for you and your family :)
Congrats! U are one lucky guy. I have been a para T4 for 23 yrs. and met a wonderful person 3 yrs. later after my accident and got married. We tried to get pregnant for years and just gave up coz of financial problems. 16 yrs. later tried to get pregnant again by going to a fertility doctor and fiinally... a beautful baby girl! Still going strong after 19 yrs. of marriage. Wish you the best of Luck!
True love understands no boundaries.
Dean Ryan Martin Amen!
Lady Heart
Can you shut the fuck up and let other people choose their happiness? Fine! Boohoo you! You are fucking miserable with your disabled husband! You're old and tired! You only have your childen to live for! Contented now?!
Crying so much right now. Such a clever proposal :-''''')
I'm a T6 level paraplegic. I love your videos bro and Congratulations. Your wife is beautiful. I hope I'm as lucky as you someday.
Thanks for the comment! You will get lucky. Just keep being positive. It's very attractive to women!
You will be! My boyfriend is a T5/6 para, and I feel like the luckiest woman on the planet to have met him!
This is the sweetest marriage proposal I've ever seen. I must say you are VERY handsome :-) I hope your wife is not so jealous! ;-) ! I think you BOTH are very lucky to have one another. I would feel very blessed if I had such a brave man with me, I am not disabled but I definitely wouldn't mind getting married with someone with some physical disability. I was looking for a video of the wedding...but I guess that's quite private... anyway... May God bless you...all the best :-)
This made me cry. I know the emotions, joys and struggles that come with being in love with an injured person. The love of my life is a quadriplegic with a successful career and I can only hope we get this far together and beyond one day. Congratulations! even though it's a late congrats lol. I hope you two go far together in life
i''m also paralysed your video boost my motive that I too can find my love.
+Zeeshan Alam finding a woman is easy, keeping her is hard
+SurviventheOnslaught I know that but love can find a way of life.
CONGRATS you too!!!
my husband is in a wheelchair to and I love him❤️
@Lady Heart Give it a break already. Yes it's harder with age but let others be happy. Mutual love makes a huge difference. Every relationship is different so please keep your negativity to your self.
*squeals like a sixteen year old girl who just got her license* That's so sweet. I wish you all the happiness in the world.❤️❤️❤️
Very sweet! Your wife is beautiful. Love your videos. You have such a positive attitude and very thoughtful of you to educate others.
OK so I came across this clip whilst watching your motor cycle video. I'm sat here in the UK crying my eyes out its so nice. My partner and I were already engaged before his accident (T12 complete) We are 10 months on from his injury and just trying to change/adapt our wedding plans to include the wheelchair.
That is a lovely way to propose
I am enjoying the clips and your advice as its everyday things we don't always get told how to do once you are home from the spinal unit. Thank you
Jenni you got this. Thanks for the message. Glad i could help. :)
jus discovered this video I am a c6 quad with a wonderful family and that jus gives me even more hope
I really love your channel. I am dating a man who is a paraplegic and your channel has been helpful to give me more insight into his experiences. He is very open when I have questions, or will explain things even if I don't ask, but I never think to ask when I'm spending time with him because, obviously, I'm only focused on spending time with him and enjoying him, haha. Loved seeing this proposal video, even though I know you two are now married. Thanks again for all the information you put out to help people understand! (Also, go Buckeyes! I'm originally from Ohio)
+Caroline Kurtz Glad you like the vids! I hope they have been helpful. :)
Caroline Kurtz ...yes, he is de Bomb!!! Does more from wheelchair than most could imagine...he is definately inspiring..!!!
YEAH..!!! 🏆🏆🏆
Congratulations 🎉 8 years later but still tearing up 😭 lol, so sweet ❤️. My husband and I were actually married 3 months earlier the same year you two got engaged.
man this was hard to watch with so many feels. so happy for you I hope for the best of both of you. this was absolutely incredible.
This was immensely hard to watch for me, too! American women are gold diggers. Always expecting the man to drive a sleek, shiny luxury sports car or even a stretch limousine, expecting him to go from zero to 900 miles an hour in 3 seconds, expecting him to own a mansion as big as the World Trade Center and a cabin cruiser the size of the Costa Concordia. I can easily guarantee there are no more than maybe 20 women in the entire United States of America that are as physically beautiful, friendly, and loving as Tiffany, and who would marry a disabled man who truly can not financially support her by himself and can never afford a luxury sports car, or a McMansion, or a luxury cabin cruiser, or a super yacht, or the ability to give her everything on a sparkling gold platter.
This may have saved my life. Can't stop crying and hoping.
+TheBurwi Hang in there and never say never.
TheBurwi this man has proven to me that if you don't give up on living just because of of the battles we face in life some people have physical some have mental issues that they battle but as long as you don't give up on living life has a awesome way of coming back around
I can't stop crying😭😭😭😭😭 thanks for letting us be a part of it too!! What a magnificent proposal, if she had said no, I would have married you!!! Lol Congratulations!!!!!
I've watched this a few times and it always gets me. you've inspired me like no one has before and I am so thankful for that. thank you so much for you posting everything you do you've touched so many people
Those tears said it all....wishing you both all the best in Christ.
From one Para(T-7,8,complete) to another may GODS' blessing thru your whole life and with happiness right behind both of you. AND WHO SAID IT CAN'T BE DONE!!! GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS---Peace
Thanks for the kind words Carlos! You are absolutely right.
i was married for 4 months when i was paralized t4 was divorced soon after.you are a lucky man.good luck
Sweeeet! How could she have said no..? Man, that was the real deal...and such a perfect timing!
Brian & Tiff Forever...!!! 💘💘
It's good to see that there is a bond of acceptance and to feel accepted is a blessing. For this Young lady, She seems very accepting and this Young man will have someone to care for Him.
Your videos are inspiring. At first they helped me to write my book ( in French ! ) then as my husband has always been a biker , I was amazed by what you can still do with your Kawasaki. You are a great man! Congrats to you and Tiffany from a Miami fan!
Thank you for being open with your experiences... i am newly using a chair and grateful to stumble on your channel
i am crying watching this..wish someday i can find somebody who love me with all her heart
i am so happy to get pin from you..do you have facebook or instagram?thank you
It's been 3.5 years since the proposal and I think you are already married! Congratulations!
+Yue Wu Yes, we got married in June of 2013. She probably would have left me if I stalled that long. lol Thanks for the congrats!
omg that was so sweet, her reaction was priceless! my b/f and I have been together for 10 1/2 years this month, he's a T5, he had a motorcycle accident 19 years ago, a truck was driving too close behind him, so he upped his speed, come to a turn went to slow down, hit gravel in the turn, and as he tells, made friends with a boulder the size of a chevette. he is my best friend, we do plan to marry...someday...lol..but this was so cute, I love it!! congrats on your engagement! keep us posted!
I have been watching ur videos for a while now but this one is one of my favourite , I know it's late but congrats u deserve every happiness such an inspirational person keep the positivity...
DA SA Thanks for the great comment!
....+++***Congratulations on your engagement!!!!***+++.... I am a Paraplegic since 5/12 and not easy to go through as you know! When i first say the video give me hope that i be able to take my kids to the park, movie and ect. just need to be patient in learning thing in P.T. CONGRATULATIONS and thank you!
Brian, I am so happy for you and Tiff....You make a great looking couple....Here's to a lifetime of total bliss...(clink)
Wow, i cried so.
Congratulation Zack you and her are amzing.
Love you guys, show us your wedding video.
I've commented before, but I have to say again that this is the best proposal ever!!! I love it!
Your proposal made me cry it was just so beautiful, sweet and planned out perfectly
Congratulations to you both. It is obvious how much you love each other. Best wishes for a long and happy marriage. Hope you both will be reviewing this video on your 50th Anniv.
Thanks for sharing.
Appreciate the educational videos. Kind of you to do them.
I know this is a bit late but.....Congrats! You did a very unique proposal. Love you included the family! Just found your channel. I'm sure you are helping others that may be experiencing the same type of accident you had. Love the Internet!! 💜👍😁
That was a sweet & unique marriage proposal. Congratulations on your engagement, blackpearlv6. I just started watching your videos today. You have really informative videos. It's a good thing, what you're doing with your videos. You have helped people on TH-cam by being open, friendly, & honest. I like that. I like learning new things. it's nice how you put people at ease talking about your adaptations. You have a great lady, & I can see how touched she was with the marriage proposal. Congrats!
Congratulations.....your a great guy who helps so many via your videos....and I'm sure many many more in person.
Just saw the video. Fantastic Couple! Good Luck to the both of you. I live down the coast in Saugatuck
My bf is also on a wheelchair and I love him for who he is, he keeps me inspired everyday❤
Congratulations on your engagement! It was a very sweet proposal. I have watched about all your videos and they are very informative. I have a friend that is a complete paraplegic, weakness on his hands the way he was injured. He has been like that for 3 1/2 years.
Certainly it will be one great love making lesson. Tons of joy to you always. You got it all.
Congrats to you and your new bride to be! I can't wait to see more videos! Hopefully there will be a few clips from the wedding! Thank you for sharing this very intimate moment with all of us! :)
That video was just awesome! Thanks for sharing!
Congratulations! I envy you...my husband shows me very little affection since I have become paralyzed. He sleeps upstairs in our old room and I sleep in a little room off the livingroom. I hope to have a nice home like yours one day...maybe then things will be different. God Bless!
Wow..what a great video... I hope you both are happy and healthy !!
Great women..! did not hesitate to say YES..!!! Congrats bro..! she is a beautiful women...i wish you BOTH the very Best...FOREVER..!!! 💍💋💍💋💕
That’s beautiful I am crying😭 wishing u two!!
So awesome! Congratulations man! I was just up at the lighthouse a few weeks ago! :D
Probably the best proposal I've ever seen!
So sweet! 😍
Excellent Brian!! Best Wishes!! Keep the video's coming.
Congrats man! Thanx for all the videos, they've helped out alot.
Your girl is very lucky.
She is. Brian is one extraordinary man.
Stick with your negativity! Don't throw it around like tantrums!
congrats! inspiring. love is alive and well in our world
your videos are really inspiring, i too am not able to walk. it can be depressing at times not being able to walk like i used to, but i have my beautiful girlfriend by my side to help me get thru the worst. congrats on your marriage and i hope one day i'll ask her to marry me as well! :)
This was really a great and moving video and happy that she said "YES". When is the big day and will you be showing more of your engaged life?
Congratulations!!! Very cool way of doing that.. Best wishes!!!
Foarte frumos! Să fiţi fericiţi şi fie ca norocul să vă însoţească totdeauna când veţi avea de luat hotărâri importante.
My boyfriend as well is in a wheelchair . When I’m with him, i feel like I’m HOME !!!! He’s the man of my dreams 🥺🤍 I TOTALLY LOOK PAST THE WHEELCHAIR !!!
WOW ! CONGRATULATION :) You really helped many people by sharing this, THANK YOU.
Congratulations man! That is so awesome! I just asked my gf of 8 years to be my wife a few weeks ago!
OMG you two are so positively adorable!!!!!
Congratulations and much love
Beautiful couple and God bless you both forever and always!!!!🌹🌼❤🌼🌹
congratulations, finally we see who was filming your vides ;)
Congrats! Your fiance is a lucky woman. Most girls would love to get proposed to like this
Aw! That was awesome! She's adorable. She had me tearing up. I'm glad you had the camera pan back to show us what it was she saw. That was really, really cute. Congratulations! Hope you'll be very happy together.
Congratulations, very touching indeed, I'm not priest but... God bless you and Tiffany! thanks for sharing, oscar
This is so sweet! You should do a q&a with your wife
i hope u guys happiness and God blessing u together 4ever :-*
I’m so happy for you both...your a lovely couple. Xxx
Congratulations! I wish you both all the best.
beautiful!! such a cute way to propose!!
that was really touching, i wish you the best of luck.
Congrats. Awesome idea!
with the same condition my mother is in a wheel chair too.... its easy to watch those people but its really difficult for them to survive after having test of an easy life.
Wow I almost cried lol I'm happy to see this bless you both
awww... this is ahhmazing I'm happy your happy GOD bless your union
Aw that's so touching congratulations!
That was awesome bro! Congrats!
What a beautiful couple! Congratulations :D
Congrats mate !!
She's beautiful and kind
Peace.
Very cool how you pulled off your marriage proposal Brian.
Congrats!!! I was happy to see that!
that's awesome .. congratulations and I wish you two the most amazing life together!! CONGRATULATIONS!!
Thanks so much. She definitely is a special lady. :)
You're the man! God bless you guys!
OMG! JUST CRIED MY EYES OUT!
I know I am way late but this was beautiful how you ask her to marry you..
Wow youre incredibly lucky brother. Congratulations!
So beautiful !
Congrats and best wishes to you both!!
that made me all teary! yayyy! congratulations!
Awesome man! Congratulations!
Je suis très contente de vous et sa me donne beaucoup de joie.
Que l'Éternel Dieu bénisse vos foyer. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️
Omgosh, I cried. Congratulations. :)
WOW , I wish yall all the best