4 types of men you can choose from for marriage

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  • There are more types I know but I broke it down to this:
    a boy
    a player
    a confused
    a real man
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  • @someone-uw8fg
    @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    As women we have to raise the real men, don’t forget that my dear sisters!!

    • @ozhoneybadger
      @ozhoneybadger 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      THANK YA IM A REAL MAN

    • @mrmsali7689
      @mrmsali7689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Someone understood.

    • @someone-uw8fg
      @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Ekaterina Atanasova of course
      I don’t know what’s your definition of „best“ but the best men will love and respect their mothers
      Who were the best men? The Sahaba
      And they obeyed their mothers

    • @someone-uw8fg
      @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Ekaterina Atanasova my first comment above was about mothers raising real men, not wives raising their husbands🤦‍♂️
      You got it wrong

    • @xacute2937
      @xacute2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I realized I am more of a boy. Sad lol

  • @muslimeen1930
    @muslimeen1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    My late father was the best husband to my late mom AlghamduLillah and so my brothers followed my dad's example

    • @OromoAkh
      @OromoAkh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ma sha Allah that’s a blessing to have may Allah bless your parents. My father wasn’t good to my mother in which they got a divorce because she was tired of his abuse. Made me grow up knowing I will never be like him.

    • @muslimeen1930
      @muslimeen1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OromoAkh Ameen JazaakahAllah brother , so sorry to hear about your ordeal , may Allah reward your mom for her patients and forgive your dad's shortcomings too Ameen , it's a fact that boys who experienced such cases , turned out to be the best husband and father to their own family , and I'm confident you are going to be THE best husband and father Ameen

    • @jasminethomas4734
      @jasminethomas4734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is the best example he can set for you as his daughter don't forget, because you know what real marriage looks like and you will not settle for less.

    • @muslimeen1930
      @muslimeen1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasminethomas4734 I agrees with you 100 % we also can't expect everyone must be the same , each of us has our own personalities ,

  • @ShakeOneOfficial
    @ShakeOneOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Mash'Allah
    Brother Gabriel is going viral in the United Kingdom

    • @goldenemitte2245
      @goldenemitte2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

    • @muslimeen1930
      @muslimeen1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So happy AlghamduLillah may Allah increase his knowledge and ours too Ameen

    • @ShakeOneOfficial
      @ShakeOneOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@muslimeen1930 Ameen

    • @iimiboy
      @iimiboy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because we aren't little scared sissies like most US Muslims, we have power in many regions and sadly in the streets and prison system but that came from hardship and having courage

    • @aldeen9190
      @aldeen9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean I m from Serbia I dont know what are you talking about

  • @qasis42
    @qasis42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    It's all due to upbringing and tarbiyyah we received or didn't receive at home growing up. A proper father figure is crucial in raising real men. Most of us didn't have the correct tarbiyyah and wasn't taught real life skills. Some fathers are good providers but don't have any time or patience to teach their sons how to be men

    • @Bilal-ys6df
      @Bilal-ys6df 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So take the prophet Muhammad ﷺ as instead of a father role. Try to be less selfish and look for good friends that remind you of his sunna ﷺ and to learn proper conduct from. May Allah make it easy for us

  • @MuNiqab
    @MuNiqab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Do 4 types of women next.
    Hit us up!

    • @someone-uw8fg
      @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes InShaAllah please

    • @miss_S
      @miss_S 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He already did women

  • @enqureshi
    @enqureshi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you so much for this Gabriel. May Allah reward you for this truly helpful content. My daughter is going to be of married age and I pray every day for her to be married to a truly righteous man. But I don't know how to decipher between appearances and the real content of character.

    • @dom3073
      @dom3073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You will not be able to decipher. Men can be very deceiving if we want a certain girl so badly. We will lie and put on a face just to marry the girl, by the time she finds out, its too late. Best thing is to leave it to Allah and just tell your daughter to pray Istikhara. If someone is not suitable for your daughter, Allah's qadr will force you signs or put obstacles that will make it very hard to marry the guy. Allahu Alam.

    • @OromoAkh
      @OromoAkh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The best candidate would be a guy whom you and your husband knows. It could be someone she grew up with or if you have a son maybe his friends. Because I married my friends sister and I got married at the age of 23 and now I’m 32 almost 10yrs with my wife and it’s still a blessing. Also the guy has to be on his deen meaning at least finished the Quran reading and spent some time learning deen from shiekhs. And is also good to his parents

    • @aliay2743
      @aliay2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dom3073 i agree

  • @saintshaggy1372
    @saintshaggy1372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    17yo here and as much as i hate to admit, i would fall more or less under the first category. Not too late rn to begin learning though.

    • @xacute2937
      @xacute2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro I am 21 and I fall under number 1 big time. I love my mums and my cod.

  • @OddlySatisfyingPets
    @OddlySatisfyingPets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    May Allah make it easier for everyone to find a good spouse.

  • @kaiteross6596
    @kaiteross6596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This brother is real .

    • @coolboy969
      @coolboy969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brothers and sisters convey the message of Islam to France 🇫🇷 Pakistan 🇵🇰 Afghanistan 🇦🇫 Indonesia 🇮🇩 USA 🇺🇸 India 🇮🇳 Brazil 🇧🇷 Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 and whole world 🌎 it’s your duty and my duty and all of us duty to convey the message of Islam to them may Allah guide you and me all of us ameen make duwa for you and me all of us everyday because all of us creations of Allah so we all of us belong to him and we all should return to him ☝️☝️ May Allah make you and me and all of us Ambassador of Islam . ☝️please brothers and sisters be aware of this France 🇫🇷 or China 🇨🇳 or Israel 🇮🇱 any other countries are not our enemies at all. our biggest enemy is shaytan so please be aware of shaytan always . May Allah increase more knowledge and iman for you and me all of us ameen.☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️and convey the message of Islam to Muslims and non Muslims🌎 🇦🇫🇦🇽🇦🇱🇩🇿🇦🇸🇦🇩🇦🇴🇦🇮🇦🇶🇦🇬🇦🇷🇦🇲🇦🇼🇦🇺🇦🇹🇦🇿🇧🇸🇧🇭🇧🇩🇧🇧🇧🇾🇧🇪🇧🇿🇧🇯🇧🇲🇧🇹🇧🇴🇧🇦🇧🇼🇧🇷🇮🇴🇻🇬🇧🇳🇧🇬🇧🇫🇧🇮🇰🇭🇨🇲🇨🇦🇮🇨🇨🇻🇧🇶🇰🇾🇨🇫🇹🇩🇨🇱🇨🇳🇨🇽🇨🇨🇨🇴🇰🇲🇨🇬🇨🇩🇨🇰🇨🇷🇨🇮🇭🇷🇨🇺🇨🇼🇨🇾🇨🇿🇩🇰🇩🇯🇩🇲🇩🇴🇪🇨🇪🇬🇸🇻🇬🇶🇪🇷🇪🇪🇪🇹🇪🇺🇫🇰🇫🇴🇫🇯🇫🇮🇫🇷🇬🇫🇵🇫🇹🇫🇬🇦🇬🇲🇬🇪🇩🇪🇬🇭🇬🇮🇬🇷🇬🇱🇬🇩🇬🇵🇬🇺🇬🇹🇬🇬🇬🇳🇬🇼🇬🇾🇭🇹🇭🇳🇭🇰🇭🇺🇮🇸🇮🇳🇮🇩🇮🇷🇮🇶🇮🇪🇮🇲🇮🇱🇮🇹🇯🇲🇯🇵🎌🇯🇪🇯🇴🇰🇿🇰🇪🇰🇮🇽🇰🇰🇼🇰🇬🇱🇦🇱🇻🇱🇧🇱🇸🇱🇷🇱🇾🇱🇮🇱🇹🇱🇺🇲🇴🇲🇰🇲🇬🇲🇼🇲🇾🇲🇻🇲🇱🇲🇹🇲🇭🇲🇶🇲🇷🇲🇺🇾🇹🇲🇽🇫🇲🇲🇩🇲🇨🇲🇳🇲🇪🇲🇸🇲🇦🇲🇿🇲🇲🇳🇦🇳🇷🇳🇵🇳🇱🇳🇨🇳🇿🇳🇮🇳🇪🇳🇬🇳🇺🇳🇫🇰🇵🇲🇵🇳🇴🇴🇲🇵🇰🇵🇼🇵🇸🇵🇦🇵🇬🇵🇾🇵🇪🇵🇭🇵🇳🇵🇱🇵🇹🇵🇷🇶🇦🇷🇪🇷🇴🇷🇺🇷🇼🇼🇸🇸🇲🇸🇹🇸🇦🇸🇳🇷🇸🇸🇨🇸🇱🇸🇬🇸🇽🇸🇰🇸🇮🇬🇸🇸🇧🇸🇴🇿🇦🇰🇷🇸🇸🇪🇸🇱🇰🇧🇱🇸🇭🇰🇳🇱🇨🇵🇲🇻🇨🇸🇩🇸🇷🇸🇿🇸🇪🇨🇭🇸🇾🇹🇼🇹🇯🇹🇿🇹🇭🇹🇱🇹🇬🇹🇰🇹🇴🇹🇹🇹🇳🇹🇷🇹🇲🇹🇨🇹🇻🇻🇮🇺🇬🇺🇦🇦🇪🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🇺🇸🇺🇾🇺🇿🇻🇺🇻🇦🇻🇪🇻🇳🇼🇫🇪🇭🇾🇪🇿🇲🇿🇼🌎🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲May Allah Make you one of the best ambassador of Islam to convey the message of Islam to Muslims and non Muslims around the world ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲brothers and sisters iman can go up and down so be careful always about shaytan.🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

    • @sergeyastov5339
      @sergeyastov5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Really , I thought he was a AI

    • @kaiteross6596
      @kaiteross6596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sergeyastov5339 ?

    • @mm-wiz2256
      @mm-wiz2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sergeyastov5339 😂🤣

    • @_Ruhul10
      @_Ruhul10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaiteross6596 he is just messing with you small joke if I say so :D lol

  • @mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
    @mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Narrated by Abu Huraira ( May Allah be pleased with him) The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said " No prayer is heavier upon the hypocrites than the Fajr and Isha prayers " Sahih Bukhari Hadith No 657
    ( Just quoted the part of hadith)
    May Allah rectify our inwardly and outwardly affairs ameen...

  • @johannaamin332
    @johannaamin332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ma sha Allah. It's just unfortunate that these single real men are limited edition. Lucky for those sisters who already have them.

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet(SAW)his companions and entire household❤️❤️❤️

  • @atiqueraza9514
    @atiqueraza9514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A very similar video about women would be appreciated. In sha Allah.

  • @SqwareCircle10
    @SqwareCircle10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Gabriel, you are the Muslim version of the Real Men Real Style TH-cam channel.

  • @HmTradez
    @HmTradez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would clean and help at home. He would see to his needs himself rather than demanding his wife. He would clean and see to his clothing himself.
    Without being asked, if the couple help each other in day to day activities, it will make one appreciate the other. Likewise, one should try his best not to demand his/her spouse to do things too much. Whatever one can do himself, he should do. We need to be considerate of the spouse. The wife works tirelessly all day. So if the husband was to be considerate and realize his wife works hard, this will touch the wife. Likewise, if the wife was to go out of her way to see to the needs of her husband being considerate, it will induce a great spark of love between the two.

    • @mspacey6230
      @mspacey6230 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're right
      But the Prophet sallallahu wa alayhi wa salam wasn't doing that Always and it wasn't 50/50. If he had nothing to do, then he would help his wives

  • @Kichidakatsumi
    @Kichidakatsumi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very well said! I know a lot of "boys" and "confused men"

  • @navidahmed7922
    @navidahmed7922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    SHUKRAAN, PLEASE MAKE A VİDEO ABOUT MARRİAGE MEETİNG

    • @lr5984
      @lr5984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you want naseeha sessions on TH-cam have quite a few on that topic, really good videos allahumma barik lahum.

  • @coolboy969
    @coolboy969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Brothers and sisters convey the message of Islam to France 🇫🇷 Pakistan 🇵🇰 Afghanistan 🇦🇫 Indonesia 🇮🇩 USA 🇺🇸 India 🇮🇳 Brazil 🇧🇷 Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 and whole world 🌎 it’s your duty and my duty and all of us duty to convey the message of Islam to them may Allah guide you and me all of us ameen make duwa for you and me all of us everyday because all of us creations of Allah so we all of us belong to him and we all should return to him ☝️☝️ May Allah make you and me and all of us Ambassador of Islam . ☝️please brothers and sisters be aware of this France 🇫🇷 or China 🇨🇳 or Israel 🇮🇱 any other countries are not our enemies at all. our biggest enemy is shaytan so please be aware of shaytan always . May Allah increase more knowledge and iman for you and me all of us ameen.☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️and convey the message of Islam to Muslims and non Muslims🌎 🇦🇫🇦🇽🇦🇱🇩🇿🇦🇸🇦🇩🇦🇴🇦🇮🇦🇶🇦🇬🇦🇷🇦🇲🇦🇼🇦🇺🇦🇹🇦🇿🇧🇸🇧🇭🇧🇩🇧🇧🇧🇾🇧🇪🇧🇿🇧🇯🇧🇲🇧🇹🇧🇴🇧🇦🇧🇼🇧🇷🇮🇴🇻🇬🇧🇳🇧🇬🇧🇫🇧🇮🇰🇭🇨🇲🇨🇦🇮🇨🇨🇻🇧🇶🇰🇾🇨🇫🇹🇩🇨🇱🇨🇳🇨🇽🇨🇨🇨🇴🇰🇲🇨🇬🇨🇩🇨🇰🇨🇷🇨🇮🇭🇷🇨🇺🇨🇼🇨🇾🇨🇿🇩🇰🇩🇯🇩🇲🇩🇴🇪🇨🇪🇬🇸🇻🇬🇶🇪🇷🇪🇪🇪🇹🇪🇺🇫🇰🇫🇴🇫🇯🇫🇮🇫🇷🇬🇫🇵🇫🇹🇫🇬🇦🇬🇲🇬🇪🇩🇪🇬🇭🇬🇮🇬🇷🇬🇱🇬🇩🇬🇵🇬🇺🇬🇹🇬🇬🇬🇳🇬🇼🇬🇾🇭🇹🇭🇳🇭🇰🇭🇺🇮🇸🇮🇳🇮🇩🇮🇷🇮🇶🇮🇪🇮🇲🇮🇱🇮🇹🇯🇲🇯🇵🎌🇯🇪🇯🇴🇰🇿🇰🇪🇰🇮🇽🇰🇰🇼🇰🇬🇱🇦🇱🇻🇱🇧🇱🇸🇱🇷🇱🇾🇱🇮🇱🇹🇱🇺🇲🇴🇲🇰🇲🇬🇲🇼🇲🇾🇲🇻🇲🇱🇲🇹🇲🇭🇲🇶🇲🇷🇲🇺🇾🇹🇲🇽🇫🇲🇲🇩🇲🇨🇲🇳🇲🇪🇲🇸🇲🇦🇲🇿🇲🇲🇳🇦🇳🇷🇳🇵🇳🇱🇳🇨🇳🇿🇳🇮🇳🇪🇳🇬🇳🇺🇳🇫🇰🇵🇲🇵🇳🇴🇴🇲🇵🇰🇵🇼🇵🇸🇵🇦🇵🇬🇵🇾🇵🇪🇵🇭🇵🇳🇵🇱🇵🇹🇵🇷🇶🇦🇷🇪🇷🇴🇷🇺🇷🇼🇼🇸🇸🇲🇸🇹🇸🇦🇸🇳🇷🇸🇸🇨🇸🇱🇸🇬🇸🇽🇸🇰🇸🇮🇬🇸🇸🇧🇸🇴🇿🇦🇰🇷🇸🇸🇪🇸🇱🇰🇧🇱🇸🇭🇰🇳🇱🇨🇵🇲🇻🇨🇸🇩🇸🇷🇸🇿🇸🇪🇨🇭🇸🇾🇹🇼🇹🇯🇹🇿🇹🇭🇹🇱🇹🇬🇹🇰🇹🇴🇹🇹🇹🇳🇹🇷🇹🇲🇹🇨🇹🇻🇻🇮🇺🇬🇺🇦🇦🇪🇬🇧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🇺🇸🇺🇾🇺🇿🇻🇺🇻🇦🇻🇪🇻🇳🇼🇫🇪🇭🇾🇪🇿🇲🇿🇼🌎🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲May Allah Make you one of the best ambassador of Islam to convey the message of Islam to Muslims and non Muslims around the world ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲brothers and sisters iman can go up and down so be careful always about shaytan.🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

    • @yenthusiast
      @yenthusiast 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAUDI ARABIA?

    • @yenthusiast
      @yenthusiast 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      they're the best Muslim nation

  • @muslimeen1930
    @muslimeen1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm a new subscriber I have gain much knowledge from this videos AlghamduLillah

  • @nbow7085
    @nbow7085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Gabriel, please do questions to ask on the talking stage. JazakaAllah

  • @shortclips4267
    @shortclips4267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope Mr Gabriel can address the pandemic of arab or south asian women / men preferring white women/ men as a result of inferiority complex. This is prevalent especially in western countries

  • @Abdullah12794
    @Abdullah12794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Masha’Allah I look forward to your videos everyday Ustadh Jibril. Keep them coming 🙌🙌

  • @aliay2743
    @aliay2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There is some study that has shown (i once read in a book), Girls tend to accept husbands that are similar to their fathers. Perhaps because of a sense of familiarity and upbringing. So please girls choose wisely. My ex-husband later started to get up for Fajr after twenty years of marriage, Finish two Qurans in Ramadan but not be nice to me but oppress me.

    • @ozhoneybadger
      @ozhoneybadger 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      IS HE A REAL MAN

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by oppression here ? Does not he pay for your bills ? Does not he feed you ? Or do want to be free spirit ?

    • @aliay2743
      @aliay2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mark-go7qm immature, mammas boy, jokes a lot, on the phone.

  • @TheMrpalid
    @TheMrpalid ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Avoid the gold diggers gentlemen. I dodged a bullet .

  • @mhamdxamax2423
    @mhamdxamax2423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    سلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

  • @someone-uw8fg
    @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow you look almost exactly like Tim Humble btw

    • @afraas7176
      @afraas7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love and respect both these brothers but I think you're wrong here xx

    • @shahee6579
      @shahee6579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't see it

  • @idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162
    @idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How’s your testosterone level based on the Quran and Sunnah?

  • @Lopez6
    @Lopez6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aman is a builder who is addicted to building he wants to build a family, a business, a country .............

    • @justCommando
      @justCommando 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like the way you put that.

  • @afrazali2855
    @afrazali2855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Allah.. I love my Deen.. But I don't know what's happening to me.. May Allah please help me and protect me from my self.

  • @youyou64000
    @youyou64000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You should make the same video for women.

  • @arabicwomannamedsahar1114
    @arabicwomannamedsahar1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I didn't know him before, we are married in a traditional way’i didn't get the chance to know him .

    • @shafiullahnoory2268
      @shafiullahnoory2268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Haarith Al-Awwal she is talking about her husband, not Gabriel

  • @again2081
    @again2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If hair starts to thin or fall out it’s your thyroid

  • @aldeen9190
    @aldeen9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bros take this as naseha and try to become 4th type even if you are different type

    • @xacute2937
      @xacute2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro called me out. I love my mama to much.

  • @esthellakomerl8084
    @esthellakomerl8084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhana Allah.. I'm looking for my daughter these days.. Now I know why I'm finding it difficult.. Most men are of the first type.

  • @gardenerr.o.m7828
    @gardenerr.o.m7828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe everyone planned the best for our marriage, a man normally will sacrifice everything to get the best for her wife, for me even my marriage only last for a month and few weeks, I always redha on the Qada Qadar on Allah SWT have planned.

  • @bintzubair
    @bintzubair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May Allah bless all pious women with real men as husbands. Aameen. Today there are hardly any real men around I think.

    • @absolutelynobody3837
      @absolutelynobody3837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hardly any good anti feminazi Muslim girls either.

    • @bintzubair
      @bintzubair 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@absolutelynobody3837 true.

    • @ak205
      @ak205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@absolutelynobody3837 I say this as a male, but how women behave should not affect us as males.
      If we’re confident in ourselves and Allah, then the right one will come along.
      We need to get out of our heads as men and shape our own reality.

    • @muhammadkhan9041
      @muhammadkhan9041 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      not in the west anyways. In tradational societies a good number still exist.

  • @umerjavednisar
    @umerjavednisar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh crap, I'm the first type🥲

    • @Abdullah12794
      @Abdullah12794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

    • @salmanahmed4262
      @salmanahmed4262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣
      You are not alone

    • @aldeen9190
      @aldeen9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stop playing call of duty and start doing your real duty

    • @umerjavednisar
      @umerjavednisar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aldeen9190 I have a job alhamdulillah. It has more to do with the mama's boy part

    • @aldeen9190
      @aldeen9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@umerjavednisar That is duty to to help islam and your community

  • @ak205
    @ak205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Br. Gabriel, you have very clearly outlined some reasonable personalities in our community.
    Can you explain how these happened though?
    In my opinion, there is reverse causality here;
    Feminism creates weaker men -> and weaker men strengthens the claims of feminists.
    In other words, it’s a feedback loop.

  • @MAhmed-zs2vp
    @MAhmed-zs2vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JazakAllah brother, I found this really informative

  • @murtazapakhtun2424
    @murtazapakhtun2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am the confused one

    • @someone-uw8fg
      @someone-uw8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      May Allah give you strength and direction!

    • @murtazapakhtun2424
      @murtazapakhtun2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@someone-uw8fg بارك الله فيك و جزاك الله خيرا

    • @sophiesumleen7872
      @sophiesumleen7872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @murtazapakhtun2424
      @murtazapakhtun2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sophiesumleen7872 not that confused,get out of here,I dislike those unicorns with a passion.

    • @sophiesumleen7872
      @sophiesumleen7872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@murtazapakhtun2424 I am radical super straight ⚪🔵

  • @JewelAhmed23
    @JewelAhmed23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So if the confuse guy finds his direction in life, then does he become a real man?
    So basically if all of these 3 guys learn to grow up, be faithful and find direction in life. Then do these guys also become real men?

    • @aliay2743
      @aliay2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No.. its difficult because people do not change.

    • @Ubaydah.
      @Ubaydah. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes inshallah they would

    • @Ubaydah.
      @Ubaydah. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aliay2743 maybe from your personal experience, however I have witnessed many people change including myself after accepting Islam. If Islam doesn't change you for the better then are you really practising it?
      Wa Allahu Alim

    • @shafiullahnoory2268
      @shafiullahnoory2268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes they will be real men if they change.

    • @shafiullahnoory2268
      @shafiullahnoory2268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aliay2743
      Its not difficult if people like you dont go around spew negativity and discourage people and put hopelessness in people's hearts 🙂 .
      People change, some turn good some turn bad.

  • @amuahmed1036
    @amuahmed1036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nr1 was a complete description of me , give me advise man. how do I develop myself from a boy into a man. I wanted to get into martial arts but here in Sweden they make you rustle with girls so it was not an option for me but I do go to the gym.
    jezak allah khier, pls help. or even anyone that has been successful in this regard, drop your advise inshaallah

    • @ak205
      @ak205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s no single “thing” you can do to “transform”. It’s not a binary thing, where you take a pill and you become a man overnight, lol.
      It’s just a collection of behaviours that you need to embrace. Key word here being “embrace”.

    • @kingsentertainment786
      @kingsentertainment786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      go to afghanistan or tough countires spend time there

    • @muhammadkhan9041
      @muhammadkhan9041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Assalam O Alaikum brother. I have also had this problem. I still have it but to lesser degree. The thing that I realized and start to work toward is that western/modern societies are very 'pampering' you have everything you need etc. and this is very unnatural. In older times men were created out of hardship and tough circumstances i.e. from very young age they had to go out and put food on the table or had important responsibilities etc. so what helped me is one must try to push ourself into the 'real world' start a side business. start dealing with people go out and find people to help. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. One idea maybe to even go to ur local mosque and try to join the commitee that runs the mosque affairs try to take responsibility anywhere you can where u have to face the real world and real issues. Going to gym and exercising is important and all but that will not make you a 'man' in the context we are talking about. we see so many non muslim im gym with huge bodies but inside they are boys. I hope this help. It helped me atleast. Assalam O Alaikum

    • @derpymemes9694
      @derpymemes9694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is where becoming a firm strong man with standards and morals come in hand, you can simply go train jujitsu and firmly state that you will not roll with other females, you can train in the same place as them but make it clear that you won’t be rolling with them or doing any kind of physical training with them. You will probably get looks and people calling you a sexist or many names but you shouldn’t care about what the creation say and only care about the Creator Allah عز وجل
      Don’t let something like that stop you from training mma, people will even respect you even more when they see how strong you are standing by your morals and religion.

  • @muneebibnimtiaz9879
    @muneebibnimtiaz9879 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all people who are saying tarbiyyah of woman this and that
    Thats right that th mom tarbiyyah is more effective but the father smokes and swears thats not right
    Men need to step up And follow Sunnah Of Muhammad SAW
    Simple

  • @redberdz5061
    @redberdz5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is not properly titled as it suggests that these are the types of men that a woman might want to marry. Instead it's about the difference between a good and a bad type of husband. A better title would be "Types of men to avoid for marriage and what the ideal should be".

  • @ilm_seeker
    @ilm_seeker ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well done akhi. May Allah bless your efforts and bless you in this life and the next, Ameen.

  • @afrazali2855
    @afrazali2855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salaam.. Gabriel.. You made me confused.. I'm like one of the person you just described.. And it's just I don't know now.. Am I a bad person?? Am I ruining my family's future.. Caz it's just happening right now with me.. And my wife with my kids.. I do not know what to say now..
    P. S
    I love you brother.. Don't think I am saying anything against you..

  • @again2081
    @again2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey man, I notice your eyes are darker. Have you got a broken nose or maybe you have a thyroid issue. If thyroid please get it checked as you will start to lose hair, hairs been looking a bit thin in previous videos

  • @kisha6906
    @kisha6906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great thanks!

  • @shortclips4267
    @shortclips4267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These four types sound more like four types of guys in dating and not in marriage

  • @shafiullahnoory2268
    @shafiullahnoory2268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't agree with "not a real/enough man because of not praying Qiyaam/Tahajjod" . Qiyaam/Tahajjod is highly recommended as we all know, but after all it is Sunnah/Nafil and not obligatory to consider someone "not enough man" because of not praying Qiyaam/Tahajjod . Kindly take this part out .

    • @itwasaizensplan007
      @itwasaizensplan007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its the same as these men who say that those who partake in polygamy are 'real men' even tho thats only sunnah too not obligation

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wa aleikom ASsalaam wa ra7matullah wa barakatuh

  • @an-dv8ul
    @an-dv8ul 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah swt reward you for shedding light on this topic! Haven't found such a helpful video about this specific matter till now Alhamdulillah.

  • @mohammedismail201
    @mohammedismail201 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost it when he said mama's boy 😭😭😂😂😂😂

  • @muhammadaliraza8074
    @muhammadaliraza8074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most authentic Sunna
    👈اشْهَدُ انْ لّآ اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ وَاَنَّ مُحَمَّدً رَسُولُ اللہ* (اخرجہ بخاري حدیث نمبر462,3861 و اخرجہ مسلم‎ حدیث نمبر 93- یشْهَدُ انْ لّآ اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ وَاَنَّ مُحَمَّدً رَسُولُ اللہ)
    👈لا إله إلا الله* (اخراجہ بخاري حد یث نمبر-44 ومسلم11)
    * Note. these kalimas are most authentic prophet and their compenions alway recite it.
    __________________________________
    unauthentic,Bedha
    👈لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول الله *
    (اخرجہ فی ضعیف الحدیث من البيهقی و طبرانی)
    *Note. this kalma is clear innovation prophet and their compenions never ever recite it.

  • @OmairKhan-x6m
    @OmairKhan-x6m ปีที่แล้ว

    BarakAllah feek akhi. 💯 right

  • @ashakhan5218
    @ashakhan5218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have communicated with lots of men who were potential partners and unfortunately all of them were the first 3 and I have given up on the last 4th. I have stopped looking for a husband because I dont want to deal with the first 3 categories anymore! Sad truth..

  • @zahraosman3504
    @zahraosman3504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakhulah khar brother

  • @fasilatsanusi7431
    @fasilatsanusi7431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can you know the quality egg among the eggs?

  • @AsimKhan-hz5kr
    @AsimKhan-hz5kr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother gabriel well said 👏🏾👌🏾

  • @smartinvestor2756
    @smartinvestor2756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a 3.5 not a 3 or a 4...hoping in a few years i become a 3.75 or 4

  • @lowe7372
    @lowe7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is this based on? opinion?

  • @nadaaltamimipharmd
    @nadaaltamimipharmd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to differentiate before marriage/ nikah?

  • @ibrahimablack4774
    @ibrahimablack4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love ur content but this one is not good cuz all 4 can just be in 1 or in 2 Persons . If i would do it i would say there is ...1 Typ of man who is working on the Front (the real Man) 2 Typ who is Lerning to be a real man if Situation appear, he will become a man 3 the man who is just going with the flow, he has no Intention to be 1 or 2 he will say something like i just want placidity and no problems and 4 the guy with a looser mindset he starts everything with a disadvantag mindset, sometimes he doesnt even start.
    See our Prophet sws. was always 1 he brought us islam and the way to practice it, thats the Sunna ! so for us Muslims we need to be 1 or 2 .
    Now if the question is asked which one should get marryed, i would say 1-3 cuz u will find good in all 3 of them. But never marry 4 cuz its contraproductiv 4 the umma

    • @bl4ckx977
      @bl4ckx977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      as salam u aleikum akhi, as he mentioned in this video. The criteria he took was from his experience as a councler and the work he did. So yeah, there are more than 4 types in our society, for example the one you mentioned whose Mindset is from the beginning bad or the one who goes with the society flow and has no opinion. For me he mentioned the important ones, I think he hit the nail with it.
      I don´t agree with him in one part, that was @09:08 by saying you are not a real man because not of praying Tahajjood. Tahajjood is a good thing, but indeed it´s a Sunnah after all and not obligatory.

    • @ibrahimablack4774
      @ibrahimablack4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bl4ckx977 wa aleykum selam rahmatullahi wabarakatu akhi, you might be right Allahualem, but I love that this brother Gabriel is working on the community, may Allah bless him for his effort and may Allah bless and guide us. Aaamin

  • @hamzahahmad153
    @hamzahahmad153 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    very good point brother

  • @afraas7176
    @afraas7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    But how do we get to know so much about a potential groom through the traditional arranged marriage where parents choose spouses based on religion and profession ?

    • @crunchybeatsia2112
      @crunchybeatsia2112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe have a halal courtship first. Let your parents know you want to meet up with this potential guy.

  • @hamzaali7426
    @hamzaali7426 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where do us boys go? I'm 22 and a boy according to this videos. Breaks my heart

    • @saintshaggy1372
      @saintshaggy1372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      By brother. 17 here. Same with me. Im confident and can do pulic speaking. But the main thing we gotta work on is discipline and taking responsibility.

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look for the areas for improvement and work on those to become an alpha. Or at least be the spouse you want to marry. May Allah make it easy :)

  • @nolifesakeof5697
    @nolifesakeof5697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    am a combined of the 4

  • @mr.t.1237
    @mr.t.1237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😕

  • @abdula16
    @abdula16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's really not that complicated. and you can be a good husband without having to do these extra sunnah things and without even having a beard, and without even waking up for qiyaam, etc etc.....and miss me with this 'he knows how to please a women blah blah'. its not hard to please a woman sexually. sure some men may have a problem, but if there is a problem its more likely cause is the women, simply because the sexual passed of the modern woman has more effect of the female than on male.

  • @fatimaali-nt7yi
    @fatimaali-nt7yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is much needed advice for a sister looking to get married

  • @HmTradez
    @HmTradez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The women shouldn’t be cleaning the house what are you talking about

    • @absolutelynobody3837
      @absolutelynobody3837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then who should?

    • @ghafranhaque7161
      @ghafranhaque7161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then who? Should the man go out and work and come back and also do the house work???

    • @TheMrpalid
      @TheMrpalid ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Modern day feminist speaking

  • @melmoonin5656
    @melmoonin5656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The women shouldn't always clean the house, he should too

  • @ImmiSuccess
    @ImmiSuccess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you are neither the above. I have virtual wives. Is that halal ?

  • @justCommando
    @justCommando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So you're a Muslim that's practicing Islam, or you're a boy. This video is nonsense. I'm a man. A man takes care of his family and keeps them well, physically and emotionally. A man provides a place for his family to thrive, whether he's poor or rich, he'll do whatever he can to make sure there's food on the table. A man has pride and finds every good way of making money or providing for his family himself, borrowing money for a man is a last resort.
    I think you should expand on these things. Being man has nothing to do with religion. There's men and boys in all walks of life.

    • @justCommando
      @justCommando 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      By the way, that dislike wasn't me, I left a like because I like some parts of your channel.

    • @mohamedsr5817
      @mohamedsr5817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      01:17

    • @ImranKhan-gc1tl
      @ImranKhan-gc1tl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tariq ibn Shihab reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “Verily, we were a disgraceful people and Allah honored us with Islam. If we seek honor from anything besides that with which Allah honored us, Allah will disgrace us.”
      Source: al-Mustadrak 214
      Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

    • @justCommando
      @justCommando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ImranKhan-gc1tl that's all fine, but are we saying theres no such thing as a manly man unless he's a Muslim?

    • @ImranKhan-gc1tl
      @ImranKhan-gc1tl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@justCommando Yes