I’ve battled addiction alone for 6 years. These young men putting their pride aside to aid in her recovery is the purest form of love. Respect to all 3 of them.
I don't know many men who could have done it, matter of fact I think 70% would have sent her over the edge..... She was really blessed to come across them.
All three of these participants are so mature, vulnerable, well spoken, and brave. I’m thankful for their willingness to let this kind of conversation be recorded and shared.
The amount of respect and emotional maturity everyone shares in this room is overwhelming, like I didn't think this was possible, especially given the scenario 😮
I’ve watched Alyssa and Trey from the start and seeing them two grow as individuals really warms my heart 🖤🖤🖤. Although they are no longer together, just from the feel of the video, that genuine connection that they have is still there
the wisdom in these conversations is ridiculous, I mean that in the best way possible. thanks for creating a space to understand the vulnerability & have the courage to lead with it.
I have never sobbed so much through a TH-cam video. The lack of pride these men have, the care, the love they've shown her. THE LETTER. Forever inspired and changed fr
As watching alyssa and trey for years together, this makes me feel good about how much closure they got and how much she got out of her fresh one. It takes a lot and I respect all of them for doing this.
You are all three beautiful people. It’s crazy to see how much you all have been through just in what you talked about in camera. I could tell there was so much more to each individual story. The unconditional respect for one another was so beautiful to see.
i've been watching alyssa and trey's story from the very beginning and to see all the things they've gone through together and continue to still be in each others lives, gives me so much hope and happiness for alyssa. alyssa deserves the world, i'm happy to see her have such wonderful people who truly care so much for her that they choose to be here still even though they aren't in a romantic relationship anymore. trey and adal, you're wonderful and genuine people, thank you for being friends for alyssa.
watching Alyssa back in the day and then now watching this video is just amazing. everyone included in the video is so beautifully spoken and so respectful. I really appreciate the vulnerability showcased. cried like a baby during the letter. love you alyssa! stay strong darling
🖤 Wow. I’ve been a fan of Alyssa and trey ever since their very first TH-cam video after they went viral on Twitter. Being apart of their journey has been such a light of hope in my life even with all of its trials. Now in this chapter here, my love and appreciation for you all has grown , and has gained as well for Adal. Thank you to the three of you for sharing your truth. And that letter at the end wow. Alyssa you were born to be a nurturing human and I’m happy and hopeful to see that that nurturing will start with yourself 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
This episode touched me. Even though she didn't end up with either of them, the composure and closure they assured one another was very fulfilling. The letter at the end to her daughter made me bawl my eyes out even more, much respect for all three of them.
These three souls hv given me hope that this world might not be going to shit after all lol! It was cathartic for me when she revealed who she addresses the letter to. With that letter I won't worry for her. She has learned through her struggles that ultimately, it is pure self love that is the fuel that gives you the power & strength to lasting inner peace & happiness. Noone can give that to you but yourself. Easier said than done.
They’re so mature, I feel like she could be the problem relationally and these guys have a need to fix and care for her as a child which could also be a problem relationally
Wow. Just wow. Mature beyond their years and just an incredibly well put together story of three different lives coming together as one. Thank you to the participants and Nectar for letting them share their stories ❤
omg im crying. what a beautiful letter 😭 it’s amazing to see 2 mature men push their egos aside to help someone they love so much. alyssa you inspire me so much & you deserve the world. im so happy you’re with us & to hear you’re doing better 🖤
i think after high school there should be a class for dating and relationship. For some reason girls and boys that are not even worth getting into relationship are getting into lousy and troubled relationships.
Been here since the start when her and Trey were together and posted their first video then the mid point and afterwards, then her meeting Adal and getting to see her live through another chapter of her life with another loved one. Though her experiences and events differ from mine exponentially, I couldn’t help but feel the vulnerability and nakedness of her life story. I love all 3 of you guys so much and I am moved by how this whole 30 minute video has affected my perception of a loving type of love 🖤
Woooow I’m in tears hearing her write a letter to her future daughter. WOW! What a POWERFUL & life changing thing to do. I’m going to write a letter to my future daughter. Wow💜💜💜
🖤🖤 This one cut deep . It’s been beautiful to watch Alyssa and Trey both mature into young adults over the years . I can’t wait to see where life takes all of you . Wish you all nothing but the best 🖤🖤
The level of emotional maturity those young men possess is absolutely astounding. They are well spoken, kind hearted, and incredibly mature. Given the circumstances of each relationship, it’s nice to see that she was able to attract a partner who wasn’t using, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 stuck by her through that journey to see her come out of it on top. Putting her before himself is incredibly difficult but so very important. It’s nice to see someone else has lived a similar journey to mine.
Jesus Christ loves yall if yall didint know come to Christ repent non denominational KJV John 3:16-17 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
I held it together so good because I knew much of Alyssa’s story already from TikTok but the letter at the end broke me. This was a fantastic episode. May God continue to bless and guide each of them on their journeys.
I’ve been watching Alyssa and Trey since the beginning. Seeing this video was so healing for me so I can’t imagine how healing it was for you 3. I commend you for allowing an outside source be the one to edit and share this story because I’m sure that it is so hard not knowing if your story will be portrayed truthfully. And the respect Trey and Adal have for each other is so incredible. Alyssa, I hope when you have the capacity to watch this and you’re able to see how much growth you’ve all gone through. 🖤🖤🖤
It’s so interesting to see people who express their wholesome. deep, past memories. Part of it is very beautiful but also so strange because I can tell I’d never hang around these people but they have their own lives with crazy stories you know? Just so fascinating. And people can look at me and say the same haha, life is so interesting
Even tho jubilee;You really put content that from my outer mindset and my country’s culture.you really did a job at explaining this situation that i will never see.Much love from 🇯🇴
🖤🖤🖤 I’ve been watching Alyssa since the very beginning. I’ve never met her, and I hope one day I do, but I genuinely feel so much love for you alyssa. She’s inspired me so much and because of her and watching her handle similar situations I too have experienced I’ve grown and strived everyday to be better. You’re so loved.
What pure hearts and connections all three have. I am so sorry for all the hardship you all have gone through. The letter is one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard. Wishing you all peace and happiness.
If you can compartmentalize to a point where you can erase your attraction for someone you said you loved and did everything with then I don’t think I can trust you.
This video was posted 31 minutes ago. You posted 27 mins ago….. you barely watched anything before you commented. That’s extremely unfair. It says this comment is about you and your experiences rather than the people in the video.
@@annen22 i responded to the title of the video, not the content of it. In my opinion if you can go through all these experiences with someone and then at the end you can confidently say you can continue to be friends with them without any risk of that attraction coming back or even becoming a little jealous when they move on then I don’t know if I can trust you. How do you remove that attraction so easily unless the case is that you weren’t really as emotionally attached as you said?
@@carefreeblackboy7995Stop shaming people’s preferences and standards, if someone doesn’t like your friends with an Ex it should be understandable. Just as if someone is okay with being friends with an Ex. We gotta stop labeling everything toxic just because it doesn’t fit our criteria. If someone wants to forget about an Ex and a lover let them be who are you?
I feel like they failed the question about a regret with a previous relationship. Yeah they dated before but really? Made it about that situation? Sounds like they didn’t really learn. But I guess.
do you think it’s okay to be friends with an ex? lovecommanectar.co/4bKT6qT
Yeah
In this case it makes me very happy that they stayed friends with their exes.
Yes
Hell no, Let that shit go.
Hell no 2:07
I’ve battled addiction alone for 6 years. These young men putting their pride aside to aid in her recovery is the purest form of love. Respect to all 3 of them.
988 is always there to text or call if you ever need it man
I don't know many men who could have done it, matter of fact I think 70% would have sent her over the edge.....
She was really blessed to come across them.
Whoever edited this needs a raise.. this felt like a movie
Me crying with Trey and Alyssa when they’re talking ab Alyssa’s mom
I’m literally bawling my eyes out
All three of these participants are so mature, vulnerable, well spoken, and brave. I’m thankful for their willingness to let this kind of conversation be recorded and shared.
this is my favorite episode by far, its so deep, and all three people are so mature and profound
That letter moved me to tears, what a beautiful episode
It’s the best one yet
The amount of respect and emotional maturity everyone shares in this room is overwhelming, like I didn't think this was possible, especially given the scenario 😮
Damn, she needs to make her story into a movie. It's very dynamic and emotional.
I teared up watching Alyssa and trey’s part and the letter :(
the letter was so beautofully writen im crying.
literally im crying rn
Crying because I’m inspired to write something in my own words
"I realized that the most important legacy I can leave for you was not a tale of being rescued but one of self-rescue" instant tears!! the letterrrrr
Damn this shit got real deep real fast. Only half way through 😅 but Loving the vulnerability.
Agreed I had to take a break to look at the comments cause it was so intense
I’ve watched Alyssa and Trey from the start and seeing them two grow as individuals really warms my heart 🖤🖤🖤. Although they are no longer together, just from the feel of the video, that genuine connection that they have is still there
the wisdom in these conversations is ridiculous, I mean that in the best way possible. thanks for creating a space to understand the vulnerability & have the courage to lead with it.
I have never sobbed so much through a TH-cam video. The lack of pride these men have, the care, the love they've shown her. THE LETTER. Forever inspired and changed fr
As watching alyssa and trey for years together, this makes me feel good about how much closure they got and how much she got out of her fresh one. It takes a lot and I respect all of them for doing this.
You are all three beautiful people. It’s crazy to see how much you all have been through just in what you talked about in camera. I could tell there was so much more to each individual story. The unconditional respect for one another was so beautiful to see.
you’re so strong and i wish you nothing but the best in life 🖤
i've been watching alyssa and trey's story from the very beginning and to see all the things they've gone through together and continue to still be in each others lives, gives me so much hope and happiness for alyssa. alyssa deserves the world, i'm happy to see her have such wonderful people who truly care so much for her that they choose to be here still even though they aren't in a romantic relationship anymore. trey and adal, you're wonderful and genuine people, thank you for being friends for alyssa.
When she said “they were my beautiful chapters…..” awwww man 🤧
watching Alyssa back in the day and then now watching this video is just amazing. everyone included in the video is so beautifully spoken and so respectful. I really appreciate the vulnerability showcased. cried like a baby during the letter. love you alyssa! stay strong darling
I was not planning to cry on a Saturday morning 😭 this was so good
These young people are so motivational. You never know what life throws at you!
Ugh I love how raw and emotional and just open and loving this all is. I’m sobbing. Thank you for sharing ❤
I was not ready for the roller coast of this video. The letter at end broke me, but in the best way.
🖤 Wow. I’ve been a fan of Alyssa and trey ever since their very first TH-cam video after they went viral on Twitter. Being apart of their journey has been such a light of hope in my life even with all of its trials. Now in this chapter here, my love and appreciation for you all has grown , and has gained as well for Adal. Thank you to the three of you for sharing your truth. And that letter at the end wow. Alyssa you were born to be a nurturing human and I’m happy and hopeful to see that that nurturing will start with yourself 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
This episode touched me. Even though she didn't end up with either of them, the composure and closure they assured one another was very fulfilling. The letter at the end to her daughter made me bawl my eyes out even more, much respect for all three of them.
These three souls hv given me hope that this world might not be going to shit after all lol! It was cathartic for me when she revealed who she addresses the letter to. With that letter I won't worry for her. She has learned through her struggles that ultimately, it is pure self love that is the fuel that gives you the power & strength to lasting inner peace & happiness. Noone can give that to you but yourself. Easier said than done.
They’re so mature, I feel like she could be the problem relationally and these guys have a need to fix and care for her as a child which could also be a problem relationally
Wow. Just wow. Mature beyond their years and just an incredibly well put together story of three different lives coming together as one. Thank you to the participants and Nectar for letting them share their stories ❤
As someone who lost her mom 2 months ago and watching this during first mother’s day without her…I bawled 🥺😞
You are going to make me cry
i lost mine 6m ago. I’m right there with ya. keep going, you’re doing great ❤️🩹
@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug 🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕
@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕
So sorry. Hang in there. It will b alright
got me sobbing and reflecting on my own life fr 😭
The letter to your future daughter 🥹🖤
🖤🖤🖤
I’m crying. I felt all the emotion in this
omg im crying. what a beautiful letter 😭 it’s amazing to see 2 mature men push their egos aside to help someone they love so much. alyssa you inspire me so much & you deserve the world. im so happy you’re with us & to hear you’re doing better 🖤
i think after high school there should be a class for dating and relationship. For some reason girls and boys that are not even worth getting into relationship are getting into lousy and troubled relationships.
There’s already a class for that and it’s called “sex Ed” 😂😂😂
Been here since the start when her and Trey were together and posted their first video then the mid point and afterwards, then her meeting Adal and getting to see her live through another chapter of her life with another loved one. Though her experiences and events differ from mine exponentially, I couldn’t help but feel the vulnerability and nakedness of her life story. I love all 3 of you guys so much and I am moved by how this whole 30 minute video has affected my perception of a loving type of love 🖤
Woooow I’m in tears hearing her write a letter to her future daughter. WOW! What a POWERFUL & life changing thing to do. I’m going to write a letter to my future daughter. Wow💜💜💜
🖤🖤 This one cut deep . It’s been beautiful to watch Alyssa and Trey both mature into young adults over the years . I can’t wait to see where life takes all of you . Wish you all nothing but the best 🖤🖤
Then talking about Virginia Street made me so emotional ❤
The level of emotional maturity those young men possess is absolutely astounding. They are well spoken, kind hearted, and incredibly mature. Given the circumstances of each relationship, it’s nice to see that she was able to attract a partner who wasn’t using, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 stuck by her through that journey to see her come out of it on top. Putting her before himself is incredibly difficult but so very important. It’s nice to see someone else has lived a similar journey to mine.
Best episode ever! The ending kinda confused me though and left me with questions…I kinda hope you have her on again.
They are all so strong, much love and appreciation for all of them❤️
what a beautiful letter
Jesus Christ loves yall if yall didint know come to Christ repent non denominational KJV
John 3:16-17
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
Her and trey have so much chemistry
I hope they get back together
People will debate about this question for forever
7 mins in and im teary
that letter was beautifully written.
I remember meeting them in Cali in 2018, and they were such kind people.
I held it together so good because I knew much of Alyssa’s story already from TikTok but the letter at the end broke me. This was a fantastic episode. May God continue to bless and guide each of them on their journeys.
her type is guys with chest tats
Didn’t expect to cry today 😭❤️
🖤 sobbing. So proud of how much you’ve overcome and extremely happy for the support you have. 🖤
love you alyssa, that letter was so beautiful 😢🖤🖤🖤
🥺 they love them I hope they’re doing well with their lives. Just glad that they still have each other during their hardest times.
this was so beautiful, my heart.
I’ve been watching Alyssa and Trey since the beginning. Seeing this video was so healing for me so I can’t imagine how healing it was for you 3.
I commend you for allowing an outside source be the one to edit and share this story because I’m sure that it is so hard not knowing if your story will be portrayed truthfully. And the respect Trey and Adal have for each other is so incredible.
Alyssa, I hope when you have the capacity to watch this and you’re able to see how much growth you’ve all gone through. 🖤🖤🖤
man seeing her letter made my heart hurt. ive had a few exes that saved my life. some im still talking to others i hurt too much to be friends with
um.. this is beautiful ?😭😭
Alyssa is a beautiful writer
50sec ago is crazy
this was ducking beautiful. thank you so much.
It’s interesting how everyone’s type looks like siblings.
The ending letter was so powerful
this was so beautiful🥺🥺
this was beautiful to watch.all so strong, mature, and open minded. definitely expected to cry watching these 3.
It’s so interesting to see people who express their wholesome. deep, past memories. Part of it is very beautiful but also so strange because I can tell I’d never hang around these people but they have their own lives with crazy stories you know? Just so fascinating. And people can look at me and say the same haha, life is so interesting
This is deep
Yeah I'm tearing up it's crazy
i cried sm watching this omg
Alyssa and Trey have been my favs for years 🥹🫶🏽
I feel fruity vibes
From adal
God this broke me & healed me in so many ways
Even tho jubilee;You really put content that from my outer mindset and my country’s culture.you really did a job at explaining this situation that i will never see.Much love from 🇯🇴
I hope her and Trey rekindle. ❤
I didn’t realize Trey was from Monterey County! don’t know how I never noticed the 831 tat
This was one of the best and deepest episodes on this channel yet! Just wow..
sending alyssa love 💙 and virtual hugs🤗🤗
Hi, just letting y'all know that GOD gave HIS son, Jesus for us. He lives you so much.❤❤
🖤🖤🖤 I’ve been watching Alyssa since the very beginning. I’ve never met her, and I hope one day I do, but I genuinely feel so much love for you alyssa. She’s inspired me so much and because of her and watching her handle similar situations I too have experienced I’ve grown and strived everyday to be better. You’re so loved.
just because there wasn’t a relationship connection doesn’t mean that theres no human connection ❤️
9:18 is so relatable ! Those moments and time will definitely always play in ur mind ❤
a beautiful episode 🥺 and the letter 🥺🖤
My biggest fear is also losing my mom and it already happened also 😞
feels weird to be this early
I was literally crying with you guys. You've come soo far, keep going🖤
What pure hearts and connections all three have. I am so sorry for all the hardship you all have gone through. The letter is one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard. Wishing you all peace and happiness.
Alyssa the letter was so beautiful🖤🖤🖤🖤
So... Did Alyssa and Trey broke up, because of her drug addiction problem?
No, because of her miscarriage. He says it.
This video had so much layers to it and I just appreciate how these three beautiful people were able to share their stories and experiences. 🖤
There are still good people out there!!!!
Wait so are they saying they are developmentally disabled or have a mental condition, because they lived in that one house?
I may be wrong but i believe her mom was a caregiver for those pts and they all lived at the home together
So sad living in a car what a fantastic women living in a house so sad lost that her mom both beautiful people so nice to.
If you can compartmentalize to a point where you can erase your attraction for someone you said you loved and did everything with then I don’t think I can trust you.
This video was posted 31 minutes ago. You posted 27 mins ago….. you barely watched anything before you commented. That’s extremely unfair. It says this comment is about you and your experiences rather than the people in the video.
@@annen22 i responded to the title of the video, not the content of it. In my opinion if you can go through all these experiences with someone and then at the end you can confidently say you can continue to be friends with them without any risk of that attraction coming back or even becoming a little jealous when they move on then I don’t know if I can trust you. How do you remove that attraction so easily unless the case is that you weren’t really as emotionally attached as you said?
@@carefreeblackboy7995Stop shaming people’s preferences and standards, if someone doesn’t like your friends with an Ex it should be understandable. Just as if someone is okay with being friends with an Ex. We gotta stop labeling everything toxic just because it doesn’t fit our criteria.
If someone wants to forget about an Ex and a lover let them be who are you?
@@30__ You're shaming his preferences right now. His comment is his preference of opinion and thought process. Let people have their own ideas.
Its a coping mechanism
why is Alyssa doing 50 blind dates. I hope she works on herself before getting into another relationship.
I WAS BAWLLLLLING!
I feel like they failed the question about a regret with a previous relationship. Yeah they dated before but really? Made it about that situation?
Sounds like they didn’t really learn. But I guess.
There's no right or wrong way with how they interpret the questions
I WAS NOT prepared for this tea
I’m not crying it’s allergies