Submission is not stupidity its actually a strength, thats what feminine women use to get what they want. If only sisters can learn the trait of being submissive they can go anywhere. There is nothing that disarm a man (Any Man) than a respectful woman if you are educated thats even better.
agreed I get weird looks when I say im submissive to ladies in my group. They say Im a gold digger bcuz Im provided for. we are not hanging out anymore sadly
@Yasmine I feel like when you are with a H.V.A.M submission comes naturally. Im dating a m.d. now and just feel like submission comes naturally when he is taking the lead.
@Yasmine Yes, and some women think submission is the anti Christ. But it comes naturally and you are more compatible in your natural place. Some women think if you are submissive to your man ....you are weak or he is stepping on you. Im happier submissive and him leading its a load off of me
@@murderbynumbers311 thank you. Smh. This guy sounds so desperate to get womens attention and make us believe the bs that we need men to survive because he is inadequate and low value and he knows it.
@@dejaserenity493 Hey, for the majority history, women have needed men, and men have needed other men, aka a community FOR SURVIVAL.. For the first time in history, we have become individualistic and are less happy because of it. Men need woman to reproduce.. So what? We need eachother... What's the issue??
Requirements: Femininity, affectionate, submissive, able to cook, loving, supportive, sexual, & loyal Rewards: Loyalty, love, attention, kids, a home, car, vacations, shopping, lots of sex, & security. Oh, no degree required... Why does it have to be hard? Women, men aren't hard to please.....
Kids aren’t necessarily a reward. Neither is everything else on that list if it’s not what the person is in the relationship to receive. Also, it’s femininity (not femenity) - you don’t require a degree and, apparently, you may not require literacy either.
There you go you really has lost qhwn u submitted to an adult size boy. He runs away whwn he finds out u pregnant knowing he been smashing u week after week. He sont wanna raise his own children knowing that he's now responsible for another life. He don't wanna get new skills and stay abreast with how he can steer himself and his family forward. He complains and make excuses to do drugs, Run the streets, and lip profess Without taking care of his own seeds or himself. Then if possible u happen to move on with life with a better guy who is willing to step in as stepdad .... Aaaaaallllllllllll of a sudden he want smoke! He was not real to begin with. Now when he see another man doing with his kids what he should be doing! Nooooowwww he really in his boyish feelings. Ha ha ha ha ha ha
So because he does something we could do ourselves? No! Its not enough to have a salary. As a HUSBAND he is supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. He is supposed to protect her- not abuse her. That salary means nothing if he can't do those other two things. Its better to go make more than him, be single, and love and protect yourself than be abused and betrayed by a man who is doing okay and worship him for doing okay.
Uncle Kevin you've changed the way I look at intimate relationships. I no longer want to play the "hope" strategy; hoping and wishing women fall in line. I'm going to pay my way and be the boss, because beauty costs. These power moves you've been teaching us are extraordinary, and are lost to our community. Thank you kindly; much love.(Pause)
mike, I know you put your comment in a long time ago, but I think you just articulated the secret to a happy life. You should write a book. I would buy it.
@@Storm-lg4mx thank you . I think it’s just a college of knowledge from great teachers and books I’ve already read. They echo the same sentiment. Focus on the things you can change and accept those which you can’t.
Kevin not only do the top Men marry, but the earning potential increases even higher after marriage. High value men have been groomed since adolescence on who, what and why they should pick a certain Woman as a wife. Because although the term “dowry” is no longer apart of society. Your wife is supposed to bring you value in marriage. That’s why your focus should not even be dating or marriage if you still have work to do. Your focus should be to GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER! About an hour in and this is Gold. Love it!!
I joined the Air Force at 17 to get out of my hometown. Picked up a skill, leadership training and experience. Retired from the Air Force at 40 and now I make well into the six figure range. Depending on your career field in the military, you can make it work. On top of that, it makes you stay in shape and the physical attraction from the ladies is another benefit, before they even find out your financial status.
So glad I found this channel. Such great perspectives that I’ve been resonating with for a while now. I’ve fallen in love with a high value man on this journey of becoming a high value woman. 👸🏾🤴🏾💫 Ladies focus on yourself. Whatever you’re seeking make sure you’ve nurtured that within yourself.
I agree! That’s why I like Kevin more than the red pill community already because instead of adjusting to how women are, he’s teaching men to fix themselves in detail to not only live your best life and upgrade but attract a quality woman. There’s a small percentage of quality women but to get them, you have to be the 1% of the men that’s high value
This is my first time listening in on your program. I am a 59 year old female, and my hat goes off to you. That was a rather difficult conversation, yet you were able to keep your composure. That in itself is the essence of a real gentleman. Great topic!
Listen to this man he is absolutely right. I was talking to this very attractive woman online the kind of woman most guys would trip over themselves to please. The more we talked the more she started trying to tell me how to act what not to say etc. It was a huge turnoff so much so that politely told her I would be ending our conversation right then and there. I decided to take the less attractive girl on a date instead and she was very pleasant to be around we had a great convo laughed our asses off it was great. The hot girl didnt even cross my mind anymore. Most guys dont realize that there is more to looks. The state of mind people you surround yourself are in today will be the outcome of your tomorrow.
I’m an attractive woman - so I’ve been told - but I have a lot of other good qualities as well. I’m nice, feminine intelligent can carry a conversation, laugh and an am laid back and have my own interests. But many men seem to want only bitchy women.
He's right. Whenever I wear the brand Effie's heart dresses and I go out in public, it doesn't matter if a man is white, black, old or young they fight to open the doors for me. My son has witnessed older biker men bowing to me, LOL! There is power in being feminine.
I need this playlist! This is my type of music! Very classy, laid back, smooth, grown and sexy, and house type of music. I need this playlist for my open houses.
Okay so...I am 57 minutes into the first video I have ever seen of this gentleman and all I have to say is Thank You! I stopped listening to these relationship "guru's" a while ago because I felt that they were only pandering to black women, understanding that this is a lucrative market. This gentleman, however, is speaking facts and putting everyone in check - male and female. There ARE things that we women need to change to get the quality man we deserve. There are things that men need to change as well. I appreciate that he is addressing both. Godspeed
I love men but I don't think the men you speak of love women...I want to be with a man who values me and listens to me...the way that you relate to women seems crass and dismissive. A man who raises his voice and speaks to me as a child...how can this be healthy. Submission is not a problem but, it warrants kindness and temperance.
Your not listening to the content and or intent of this information. I see your own terminology of what life is getting in your way. Since your happy, good for you. This channel does not apply to you.
@@lydiaharp3393 How did you come to the conclusion that KS wants women to be "self actualized" and feel whole? He clearly stated a woman's purpose is to be a helpmate NOT a partner. Man=Pilot, woman=CoPilot.
In my 20’s, I used to be a hardcore feminist~ very independent, which can be a good, individual trait to have but not to bring in to any partnership. During the early days of dating my now husband, my colleague (older European lady) told me I was “too independent”. I think it stems fro. My upbringing - my dad was our “mr. mom” but I couldn’t depend on him emotionally and he always complained every time he did something for our mom. Anyhoo, I was all into the “Beyoncé,/I am independent, don’t need anybody” persona. It wasn’t until I realized that this feminist attitude was part of why we would get into fights; it was an ego thing. I think there’s a good balance of doing your own thing as an individual woman but when you are in a serious partnership or marriage, you really gotta let your guard down. One advice I got was that you have to treat your partner like a king for him to treat you like a queen, as you should naturally want to because you love him. It stops when he takes you for granted but that doesn’t last long 😉 I see my sister who is into this new age feminist movement and she’s still single. Again, I believe in doing things for yourself, working hard, having goals but you gotta lay it down and let your femininity be alive during your marriage.
Yes, true. I’m surprised your husband continued dating you. Women need to be independent and gave a career but men are still men - the woman shouldn’t act like a man and too many now do.
Discoved the red pill got upset then thought being married was no chance , that's until I stumbled upon you while on the Donovan Sharpe show now I know that I have fun control of my romantic destiny thanks again bro for the tough love God Bless you
I love being girly with my nails and hair done. I love wearing dresses and heels! I love my manly man protecting me and providing. I love being submissive and obedient to him. OMG I love it!
Glad I found your page. Your commentary helped me to see that my feelings and concerns are legitimate and valid. It doesn't feel good to know that the man you've married is not dependable. I'm there. I wish I knew then what I know now. Smh
The only time you can get a "High value virginal woman" Is when you are a genuine Bible believing male. Who obeys not just believes what God says. You are then able to filter the garbage from Solid woman. And she will be patient as you grow your competence. Make no mistake, God calls us towards Excellence and to work unto him. By default we are to give it our all every day.
I’m a married woman and I’m not sure how your video appeared on my recommended list but I started watching and wanted to share a few versus my brother. Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” And Genesis 2:24... the Bible does not say that man can or should be by themselves. I’m not sure if you’re a practicing Christian but if you’re going to reference the Bible please read it. God bless you
I'm glad someone said it! In the Garden both Adam and Eve fell into sin. Eve ate it first but Adam didn't have to eat the fruit. He chose to and even after God tried to give them another chance he choose to blame eve and not take accountability. We aren't equal but God created man and woman for a reason. We need eachother and we can't live without eachother.
Submission is not loosing. It’s entrusting responsibility to someone else which frees you to focus on other things that could be important to you. It’s like getting a relaxing ride in the passengers seat so long as you TRUST the driver. 🤗 Less stress trust me. Submitting to the right one is Fun 🥰🥰🥰 Grandma told me “there’s POWER in the shut up.”
@@abj9837 Im also learning its better to listen and disarm a man with understanding and soft words. Ask him what else is on his mind then voice your concern. Don't brake a mans will just gently steer it on the desired direction
@@artlife6022 You can't really change an adult. For changing someone, he has to be influenced by you, and have similar goals as you want. Else steering soneone in right direction becomes nagging.
Adam WAS NOT doing fine in the garden Gen 2:18 “and the Lord God said, it is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an helpmeet for him.” It was NOT good. You do not get to pretend like the Bible supports your unbiblical view that women are superfluous. If God viewed women as necessary for men, who are you to say He is wrong?
What about people who don't believe in your version of a God? or a God at all? How about Men provide and the women that want him and a family, do what i takes to assist him.
The superbowl comment hit me hard. I am a 9 in looks and body and have NO problem attracting wealthy and high-value men but was always afraid of a high-value men due to daddy issues. I have a powerful, but abusive, father and I've carried that fear into my adult relationships with high-value men. Not all wealthy men are terrible and have a very dark shadow side that is manipulative and narcissistic. My walls always come up with these good men when they get to know me. Woo. I need to work on this.
Kevin is right, there is a ranking system amongst men. I am one of those six figure earning law enforcement officers. If not for the government, my income might have been very different. I realized this fact a long time ago and I no longer have insecurities about it. I used my high income to invest in real estate and now own millions in cash flowing rental properties.
I have dated that type of man... but because I was a low value woman I missed my opportunity. I’m talking about net worth 75Mil 🤦🏽♀️ he didn’t see me as wife material because I was conducting myself like a LVW... he still contacts me but is not to take me out for a date but a booty call. I rather let that go and try to find me another one ☝️ but now acting like a high value woman. 😊☝️
The military thing i disagree with because there's some high powered skills you can pick up. Learning IT and getting thrown into high powered courses and getting access to rare info is another way to break 6 figures
I grew up religious and submission wasn't taught to me as a losing situation. However, it was told to me to be with a man I would being willing to be submissive to...so that day he says pack your bags and go to this location, I'll do it with no questions asked because I have taken the time to learn him before and during marriage so I know how I can trust him and just move when does tell me to do something.
Thank you so much for your knowledge truth. I learned about you a few days ago and am a new subscriber. The knowledge that I have gained has impacted myself and my current relationship in such a positive way.....Thank you!!!!!
Awesome content...Kevin...enjoyed this segment so very much...especially your perspective on the "high earner not rich yet"...as well as, the high value type of male...Came across your channel and will definitely subscribe
01:35:00 The problem isn't when women date many men. That's expected *especially* if they are attractive. The problem is when women *give themselves* to many men.
@@jsan5631 no it doesn't work both ways and it's not supposed to be both ways. Men like women for different reasons than women like men. Additionally, a woman obtaining a lot of sexual partners has a different meaning and a different set of requirements than a man that obtains a lot of sexual partners. It takes *no effort* for a woman to have sex with a lot of men. No matter how unattractive/undesirable a woman is, there is *always* a man willing to have sex with her. That means in order for a woman to have sex with a lot of men, she has to have LOWER standards and discretion. There is no such thing as a woman "incel", only women with standards too high that don't match her actual attractiveness. Alternatively, for a man to obtain a lot of sexual partners it requires EFFORT and the less naturally attractive the man is the more effort it requires. There are men out there so unattractive and undesirable that they are practically invisible, or even worse, repulsed by women where no woman would sleep with them(without them paying for it)... Only the most physically attractive or wealthiest of men have the ease of obtaining sexual partners and it still required more effort than the least attractive of women... Women with a lot of sexual partners signals a lack of standards and discretion. Men with a lot of sexual partners signal an increase of effort. Simple as that. Men and women are different no matter how "equal" people try to trick you into believing.
I agree with women not giving themselves to lots of men but at the same time if you don’t sleep with a man early they accuse you of playing games and lose interest. It definitely seems men don’t value classy women and just go with whoever sleeps with him early.
@@nooshi6698 "they lose interest" That's a good thing. That means you've filtered out the right men you needed to. *If* they are actually interested in you for something more than sex, they will persist pursuing you. I married the only woman that took me more than a month(took about 3-4 months with her) to hook up with. Every other woman was anywhere from 1 day to 1 week and therefore pretty much lost my desire for a serious long-term commitment with them.
KS, you need to let women answer without interrupting, and not get offended when they are still talking. They are not talking over you at times, they just can’t hear you because of the technology. You can be rude at times with the pretense that you’re just being straightforward.
He would never speak to a man in person like he does women on his channel. The whole 'theres always a possibility of physical confrontation with men' and all. He knows he can beat up a woman so he's happily rude.
I dont agree with your assertion and here's why: here's the thing its his platform so its his rules its just that simple have an issue create your own podcast or whatever dont make nobody no never mind. Like he always says: Monday knows who Tuesday is and Thursday know that Wednesday left her draws over there
@@docfada1701 I don’t need my own podcast, so I come to listen to conversations. If I don’t like the content I make a suggestion or move on. I’ve unsubscribed.
@@SallySallySourScream you probably haven't been following him for long go check out Rank yourself and men lead with their wallet videos or some more of his earlier content then you'll get it peace ✌✌✌
I agree I also think Kevin has no room for grey not everything is so black and white. Women work for various reasons not just because they don’t want to depend on a man. There are some women that can handle a career or hobbies without neglecting their family or husband it is possible. Children eventually go to school and their is only so much house to clean and food to cook. I just wish he wasn’t so linear with his thinking.
Yeah, it talks down to anyone making $100k or less but positions it as motivating when called out. You can follow someone on youtube and not always agree.
Kemit Trill I disagree not all promotions equals less time with your family. Often times the higher up you go the more flexibility and autonomy we obtain. Times are changing and with this pandemic working from home will be our new normal. I believe a wives first priority should be at home I also feel that a woman having a job can greatly improve the economic and social condition of her family. This can be simultaneously done. A man should not feel threatened or in competition of his woman working. It doesn’t take anything away from him or his role. If a woman can’t handle both then by all means focus on your family. There is no shame in either one and what works for one family does not work for another.
Marriage and staying with it builds strong safe environments for families (children and the adults) and communities. Can't build a strong community without strong families. Let single parent households and divorces be the exceptions. Not the rule
Henry’s do marry because it’s part of the equation to get the outcomes they want. Feminism has led to a socialized devaluing of the feminine. Submission is not what modern women think it is. Henry’s want to build with a woman who understands the value of her role in the family.
02:25:45 "Your father isn't strong enough to protect you AND YOUR BROTHER WANTS TO BE YOU" Wooooow I almost spit my coffee everywhere laughing at that.
@@ebonymalone8371 Did she even sound dominate to you? She sounded anything but dominate, in fact she sounded extremely shy and giggling. She sounded like she was a shrinking violet...Hardly a dominate person. Go back and listen to her. This is why I call it Fake.
I'm happily married with a so called high value man here ( 6' tall, about 100k income when I got married, now K250sh, no kid ) for 13years Now with 2 beautiful children). Ladies, please listen to Kevin for yourself and your children. What he’s saying is true!!!
Thank you for helping us to wake up from the coma spell we've allowed ourselves to fail under. The infection can only be cleaned once the band-aid is removed. Cleaning a wound is painful, and a dirty business for everyone involved. Thank you for having the strength and fortitude to lead us on this front.
Hey Kevin love your shows. Man you spit wisdom direct from a God given spirit of discernment. I watch a lot of your videos. You are quite entertaining and usually on point. But I take issue with your spill on military service. Frankly you are misinformed. Here's why: 1. After serving 36 months, a service member is worth over $1,000,000 in benefits: VA Home loan Guaranty $424 - 620,000; $400,000 life insurance (day 1 actually); $100,00 salary earned over 36 months; $100,000 plus medical and dental benefits; $60,000 education benefit (911 GI Bill) - veterans benefits for life. 2. Additionally, if one so chooses he or she can enter service at 18 and retire at 38. That's usually the earliest entry age. What other business entity offers those benefits. As you often say please stay in your lane. Military recruiting and national defense is top priority and rightly should be so. Please don't disparage military service. Love your shows. If you were preaching, I'd join your church.
Dear Godfather you helped me realize what my problems were and helped me realize what I need to be looking for in a man. I don’t see why women get offended by these videos. It’s the truth. I am a single mother and even I wasn’t put off by this show I respect truth.
Like Kevin said, men who are high value move different, with a different type of confidence. Men who are lower earners, have confidence issues, so I believe thats why they fulfill them with women. They Hurt the women that love them because they aren’t satisfied with their life. That’s why regular people aren’t married. Life is hard enough, to have to share a life with someone that doesn’t respect their relationship.
She doesn't want to depend on a man....she should just acknowledge that...its a valid choice especially at her age...everyone doesn't have to practice hypergamy....perhaps she can find more happiness in a nontraditional partnership
I went to private school and even though my mom was imperfect, I was so happy to come home to her instead of nannies. My friends who were raised by nannies agree, but don’t fault their parents for putting work first. Everyone is different.
@@pablo369 that’s a lie I have too many of my best friends who are wealthy and their husbands and them work and have their businesses separate. And they have been together for 10 years plus. It depends on who you marry and who you are. I know me and my partner we both want our own separate businesses and we still love each other so that doesn’t make any sense don’t put your beliefs on to other people.
You did bring up a valid point about the fear of women being with a man who would totally support them. I think it's important for women to know that they will ought to still have standards of how they want to be treated and that's kind of established before you get the wedding ring and you do have deep conversations about the life that that potential man in your life is used to or is aspiring to. Because you do want to feel safe once you commit. It will be our responsibility as women to pay attention to how that man treats women how he talks about women in order for you to know you are safe with that man. Yes safety is really important. But if you are confident woman you should be able to use some wisdom to figure out what kind of man you're dealing with.
Military work aint what it was back in the day. U join today, get ur education paid for while in thr service, leave and start a career in tech or consulting, etc and wala...$100k or better. DC is filled woth 30 yr old men who have successful business owners and career men who started in the service. If u join today be strategic. Its not the pit that it was for our elders who had no choice. Be wise men.
I was talking to this black high valued man ... when other women found out I got words of how he only like white women and they he was married and so on! It made me reserving... and he kept it moving because he was for sure looking for marriage! I let that go right under my hands
Kevin, as a veteran, I appreciate and respect your opinion about the military and the police. I agree the nuanced conversation we need regarding how to appropriately budget for the police and military got lost in the bumper sticker meme "Defund The Police!" Yes, we do not need cops to show up to everything, just like we do not need the number of cops to show up to everything. A fender bender in the large city in which I used to live would have at the minimum the fire department and the police show up. It was courageous to say this, and again, as a veteran, I often felt the "support" we received from people was mostly just a version of "thoughts and prayers."
Submission is not stupidity its actually a strength, thats what feminine women use to get what they want. If only sisters can learn the trait of being submissive they can go anywhere. There is nothing that disarm a man (Any Man) than a respectful woman if you are educated thats even better.
agreed I get weird looks when I say im submissive to ladies in my group. They say Im a gold digger bcuz Im provided for. we are not hanging out anymore sadly
@@therealsouthernbelles shouldn't be a sad thing. Can't hang around them type women too long, their stupidity will eventually rub off...
@Yasmine I feel like when you are with a H.V.A.M submission comes naturally. Im dating a m.d. now and just feel like submission comes naturally when he is taking the lead.
@Yasmine HIGH VALUE ALPHA MALE
@Yasmine Yes, and some women think submission is the anti Christ. But it comes naturally and you are more compatible in your natural place. Some women think if you are submissive to your man ....you are weak or he is stepping on you. Im happier submissive and him leading its a load off of me
The problem is many women are submitting to men that don’t intend to marry them
Did you hear him say men are superior to women? That they don't need us but we can't survive without them?
We don't need you but I disagree that women need men to survive lol
@@murderbynumbers311 thank you. Smh. This guy sounds so desperate to get womens attention and make us believe the bs that we need men to survive because he is inadequate and low value and he knows it.
And that more Her fault than his! Two years! Within that time, frame she would know!
@@dejaserenity493 Hey, for the majority history, women have needed men, and men have needed other men, aka a community FOR SURVIVAL.. For the first time in history, we have become individualistic and are less happy because of it. Men need woman to reproduce.. So what? We need eachother... What's the issue??
Requirements: Femininity, affectionate, submissive, able to cook, loving, supportive, sexual, & loyal
Rewards: Loyalty, love, attention, kids, a home, car, vacations, shopping, lots of sex, & security.
Oh, no degree required...
Why does it have to be hard? Women, men aren't hard to please.....
I love this!
They sleep with too many men and never can slow down..she’s everybodies bitch
Flashh you were with the wrong girl
Agreed! It’s so simple
Kids aren’t necessarily a reward. Neither is everything else on that list if it’s not what the person is in the relationship to receive. Also, it’s femininity (not femenity) - you don’t require a degree and, apparently, you may not require literacy either.
Submission is ONLY losing when you submit to the wrong man, i.e. an adult sized boy.
Yup! Been there, done that.
@@jaybae7315 you and me both!
Ha ha ha ha ha ha lol soooo true . Ha ha ha habha ha alot of adult sized boys out here.
@@seventhz777z sounds like you have issues and you definitely don't know what the term "adult sized boy" means. 😳🙄😒
There you go you really has lost qhwn u submitted to an adult size boy. He runs away whwn he finds out u pregnant knowing he been smashing u week after week. He sont wanna raise his own children knowing that he's now responsible for another life.
He don't wanna get new skills and stay abreast with how he can steer himself and his family forward.
He complains and make excuses to do drugs, Run the streets, and lip profess
Without taking care of his own seeds or himself.
Then if possible u happen to move on with life with a better guy who is willing to step in as stepdad .... Aaaaaallllllllllll of a sudden he want smoke!
He was not real to begin with.
Now when he see another man doing with his kids what he should be doing!
Nooooowwww he really in his boyish feelings. Ha ha ha ha ha ha
When a woman works for a man she obeys him because he PROVIDES a salary. Women will submit to a man that can provide profess and protect her. Period.
So black women who work know how to submit. the question is the man worth submitting to?
@AO does he have a plan (mission)? No submission without a mission.
Good point and facts. Because a woman summits to a man if her is her boss.
So because he does something we could do ourselves? No! Its not enough to have a salary. As a HUSBAND he is supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. He is supposed to protect her- not abuse her. That salary means nothing if he can't do those other two things. Its better to go make more than him, be single, and love and protect yourself than be abused and betrayed by a man who is doing okay and worship him for doing okay.
agree;
Uncle Kevin you've changed the way I look at intimate relationships. I no longer want to play the "hope" strategy; hoping and wishing women fall in line. I'm going to pay my way and be the boss, because beauty costs. These power moves you've been teaching us are extraordinary, and are lost to our community. Thank you kindly; much love.(Pause)
Agreed
@JAY BLAZE Then I can't be the boss.
JAY BLAZE That’s cool; that’s apart of the contract/ situation. It’s all about power; no guessing.
Reese Johnson you have the right mentality. It costs to be the boss. If you lead with a solid plan your wife will follow.
"Alright, this is the hand I'm dealt...how can I win?" That's how you gotta look at life. Learn the game, know the rules, and apply it.
Yup! ALL DAY!
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mike, I know you put your comment in a long time ago, but I think you just articulated the secret to a happy life. You should write a book. I would buy it.
@@Storm-lg4mx thank you . I think it’s just a college of knowledge from great teachers and books I’ve already read. They echo the same sentiment. Focus on the things you can change and accept those which you can’t.
Kevin not only do the top Men marry, but the earning potential increases even higher after marriage. High value men have been groomed since adolescence on who, what and why they should pick a certain Woman as a wife. Because although the term “dowry” is no longer apart of society. Your wife is supposed to bring you value in marriage. That’s why your focus should not even be dating or marriage if you still have work to do. Your focus should be to GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER! About an hour in and this is Gold. Love it!!
Dowry is definitely part of my society. Iam a Muslim in my community this still stands.
Makeda Findlay I should have specified Western Society. My apologies!
@@GreenEyedScentGuy That's ok with me brother.
This is true, even in the bible it states "when a man finds a wife he obtains favor from the lord" meaning increase..
Keith O'Neal facts!!!
Kev that kick in the nuts 99% of us need. Men should always be striving and conquering. I haven’t been off since April because I gotta get it.
Good for you for not being offended!
I really like that you give a reality check to both women and men.
I joined the Air Force at 17 to get out of my hometown. Picked up a skill, leadership training and experience. Retired from the Air Force at 40 and now I make well into the six figure range. Depending on your career field in the military, you can make it work. On top of that, it makes you stay in shape and the physical attraction from the ladies is another benefit, before they even find out your financial status.
Greetings... Mr.Wright... Thank you for your service... it is wonderful to hear positive stories such as yours...brings hope to others listening
Thank you for your service. And yes I agree. My brother (RIP) created a life for himself like no other . Google him
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Yeah with the military topic he missed the mark and that's due to misinformation!
Missed the mark by a mile. My leadership skills and experience I gained after 16 years in the military landed me a six figure job as well.
What do you personally look for in a woman?
So glad I found this channel. Such great perspectives that I’ve been resonating with for a while now. I’ve fallen in love with a high value man on this journey of becoming a high value woman. 👸🏾🤴🏾💫 Ladies focus on yourself. Whatever you’re seeking make sure you’ve nurtured that within yourself.
From a Black sista to another, congratulations! I can hear the wedding bells.
Amen
Yeah! 🍀🍀
Put your man first and Stay silent and play the background .. That’s how our grandmothers kept their husbands for a lifetime! 😎
Amen 🙏🏽
This was a great episode! Thank you Kevin!! I'm a married woman and you've taught me how to be a better wife to my husband :))
I think more women would be submissive if they could trust who they're following.
AMEN sister! Trust is everything. 👍🏻
I agree! That’s why I like Kevin more than the red pill community already because instead of adjusting to how women are, he’s teaching men to fix themselves in detail to not only live your best life and upgrade but attract a quality woman. There’s a small percentage of quality women but to get them, you have to be the 1% of the men that’s high value
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This is very true!!
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Your videos put me back in my feminine place 🌺🥰🌺
Ty Mr. Samuels
Why are u thanking him he would rate u average at best a 5 and tell you no one high value would be looking for you
😂😂😂 abuse puts everyone in place.
She lying
Wait till the custody battle starts lmao
This is my first time listening in on your program. I am a 59 year old female, and my hat goes off to you. That was a rather difficult conversation, yet you were able to keep your composure. That in itself is the essence of a real gentleman. Great topic!
Submission is not losing. As a woman the smartest thing you can be is an educated housewife.
Thank you because I’m so confused I feel like I have to be everything but not too much of this or that…
@@Lovergirlstudiio yes girl. I am educated and have a good job but I keep a submissive tone to me with partners.
@@tommiegreen cause a woman that brings nothing to the conversation is pointless
This one right here hit home with a good dose of reality and a slice of humble pie. God Father Kevin does it again.
Listen to this man he is absolutely right. I was talking to this very attractive woman online the kind of woman most guys would trip over themselves to please. The more we talked the more she started trying to tell me how to act what not to say etc. It was a huge turnoff so much so that politely told her I would be ending our conversation right then and there. I decided to take the less attractive girl on a date instead and she was very pleasant to be around we had a great convo laughed our asses off it was great. The hot girl didnt even cross my mind anymore. Most guys dont realize that there is more to looks. The state of mind people you surround yourself are in today will be the outcome of your tomorrow.
When i was young i chose beauty and it was awful existence. Cost me dearly to get out.
I’m an attractive woman - so I’ve been told - but I have a lot of other good qualities as well. I’m nice, feminine intelligent can carry a conversation, laugh and an am laid back and have my own interests. But many men seem to want only bitchy women.
He's right. Whenever I wear the brand Effie's heart dresses and I go out in public, it doesn't matter if a man is white, black, old or young they fight to open the doors for me. My son has witnessed older biker men bowing to me, LOL! There is power in being feminine.
Yes this man yelled out the window HELLO EMPRESS LOL
Yessss. Even if you tell them it’s okay to let the door close before you get there they I insist on waiting for you to enter the door. I love it.
@@DivineProphecy HELLO EMPRESS!
I need this playlist! This is my type of music! Very classy, laid back, smooth, grown and sexy, and house type of music. I need this playlist for my open houses.
Okay so...I am 57 minutes into the first video I have ever seen of this gentleman and all I have to say is Thank You! I stopped listening to these relationship "guru's" a while ago because I felt that they were only pandering to black women, understanding that this is a lucrative market. This gentleman, however, is speaking facts and putting everyone in check - male and female. There ARE things that we women need to change to get the quality man we deserve. There are things that men need to change as well. I appreciate that he is addressing both. Godspeed
I love men but I don't think the men you speak of love women...I want to be with a man who values me and listens to me...the way that you relate to women seems crass and dismissive. A man who raises his voice and speaks to me as a child...how can this be healthy. Submission is not a problem but, it warrants kindness and temperance.
Your not listening to the content and or intent of this information. I see your own terminology of what life is getting in your way. Since your happy, good for you. This channel does not apply to you.
@@lydiaharp3393 How did you come to the conclusion that KS wants women to be "self actualized" and feel whole? He clearly stated a woman's purpose is to be a helpmate NOT a partner. Man=Pilot, woman=CoPilot.
If you want someone to listen to you, that’s what your girlfriends are for.
Well said.
Agreed
Gymrat: " I prefer a bachelor lifestyle"
Kevin .S: " your broke"
Preach. 🤣
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@Cap’n Cooks Krystal Ship Go back to sleep 💤 😴
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But Kevin is a bachelor
To get what you want in life you go out and get it, you don't wait for it to come to you.
Kevin gives high-value rules and regs for getting it right.. Im joining up. Thanks Kev
In my 20’s, I used to be a hardcore feminist~ very independent, which can be a good, individual trait to have but not to bring in to any partnership. During the early days of dating my now husband, my colleague (older European lady) told me I was “too independent”. I think it stems fro. My upbringing - my dad was our “mr. mom” but I couldn’t depend on him emotionally and he always complained every time he did something for our mom. Anyhoo, I was all into the “Beyoncé,/I am independent, don’t need anybody” persona. It wasn’t until I realized that this feminist attitude was part of why we would get into fights; it was an ego thing. I think there’s a good balance of doing your own thing as an individual woman but when you are in a serious partnership or marriage, you really gotta let your guard down. One advice I got was that you have to treat your partner like a king for him to treat you like a queen, as you should naturally want to because you love him. It stops when he takes you for granted but that doesn’t last long 😉 I see my sister who is into this new age feminist movement and she’s still single. Again, I believe in doing things for yourself, working hard, having goals but you gotta lay it down and let your femininity be alive during your marriage.
Yes, true. I’m surprised your husband continued dating you. Women need to be independent and gave a career but men are still men - the woman shouldn’t act like a man and too many now do.
Thank you for talking about the balance of it all.. I’m so confused on what men actually want…
Your comments on military and police were SPOT ON! Most don’t want to hear it but you spoke the gospel truth.
“No room for bullshit.” I can tell and I love it. #highvalueman Absolutely love your message. Thank you 💕🌈
I discovered the channel yesterday. I looove it. Ready to learn and grow
Discoved the red pill got upset then thought being married was no chance , that's until I stumbled upon you while on the Donovan Sharpe show now I know that I have fun control of my romantic destiny thanks again bro for the tough love God Bless you
Dear Kevin....the calls are EVERYTHING!!!!!
I love being girly with my nails and hair done. I love wearing dresses and heels! I love my manly man protecting me and providing. I love being submissive and obedient to him. OMG I love it!
Ok… what they need to
Post it though.
Same!
Good girl
Same but I’m a dude 😅
That DOES NOT mean you’re “girly” ma’am 🙄
Submission is your Super Power. 💯
Hi 👋🏾 Mr. Kevin! I’m a new subbie. Thanks so much for sharing all the valuable information. Have a blessed weekend
Very powerful topic and discussion. I will share this with my single friends. They need this...
Glad I found your page. Your commentary helped me to see that my feelings and concerns are legitimate and valid. It doesn't feel good to know that the man you've married is not dependable. I'm there. I wish I knew then what I know now. Smh
Im start calling these shows Humble Pie presented by the Godfather!
The only time you can get a "High value virginal woman" Is when you are a genuine Bible believing male. Who obeys not just believes what God says. You are then able to filter the garbage from Solid woman. And she will be patient as you grow your competence. Make no mistake, God calls us towards Excellence and to work unto him. By default we are to give it our all every day.
Let’s do a Bible study ?
I’m a married woman and I’m not sure how your video appeared on my recommended list but I started watching and wanted to share a few versus my brother. Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” And Genesis 2:24... the Bible does not say that man can or should be by themselves. I’m not sure if you’re a practicing Christian but if you’re going to reference the Bible please read it. God bless you
My point exactly!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Stephanie&CO it also says that a man that finds a wife finds a good thing
Stephanie&CO thank you 🙏🏾 intelligent and wise point.
Thats the first verse that came to my mind when he said that
I'm glad someone said it! In the Garden both Adam and Eve fell into sin. Eve ate it first but Adam didn't have to eat the fruit. He chose to and even after God tried to give them another chance he choose to blame eve and not take accountability. We aren't equal but God created man and woman for a reason. We need eachother and we can't live without eachother.
This was your BEST video by far 💎🍾🏆
Submission is not loosing. It’s entrusting responsibility to someone else which frees you to focus on other things that could be important to you. It’s like getting a relaxing ride in the passengers seat so long as you TRUST the driver. 🤗
Less stress trust me. Submitting to the right one is Fun 🥰🥰🥰 Grandma told me “there’s POWER in the shut up.”
Yes! My mom tells me to shut up often when my husband and I are at it and I think I'm right. I'm learning though!
@@abj9837 Im also learning its better to listen and disarm a man with understanding and soft words. Ask him what else is on his mind then voice your concern. Don't brake a mans will just gently steer it on the desired direction
@@artlife6022 You can't really change an adult. For changing someone, he has to be influenced by you, and have similar goals as you want. Else steering soneone in right direction becomes nagging.
@@joy-ow4eyANYONE can change.
This episode is good. He is fairly assessing both men and women. 👏🏾👏🏾
I low key needs his Playlist tho🥰
Ha ha don't we all
Been searching myself lol
So fiyaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️🥰
I need that playlist
Real talk tho
This one hit hard. Should be most viewed. True content.
Adam WAS NOT doing fine in the garden Gen 2:18 “and the Lord God said, it is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an helpmeet for him.”
It was NOT good. You do not get to pretend like the Bible supports your unbiblical view that women are superfluous. If God viewed women as necessary for men, who are you to say He is wrong?
What about people who don't believe in your version of a God? or a God at all? How about Men provide and the women that want him and a family, do what i takes to assist him.
Kevin, good women WILL submit, but there must be trust in the man.
Exactly
That’s not a man’s responsibility. Find a trustworthy man duh
So you with men you can’t trust
Thanks for all you do Sir. I can’t appreciate it enough
The superbowl comment hit me hard. I am a 9 in looks and body and have NO problem attracting wealthy and high-value men but was always afraid of a high-value men due to daddy issues. I have a powerful, but abusive, father and I've carried that fear into my adult relationships with high-value men. Not all wealthy men are terrible and have a very dark shadow side that is manipulative and narcissistic. My walls always come up with these good men when they get to know me. Woo. I need to work on this.
What's your IG?🤔💰
Blame yourself not your father
Kevin is right, there is a ranking system amongst men. I am one of those six figure earning law enforcement officers. If not for the government, my income might have been very different.
I realized this fact a long time ago and I no longer have insecurities about it. I used my high income to invest in real estate and now own millions in cash flowing rental properties.
You the man brother!! Let me borrow a couple of dollars.
Same.
Well done!! Make that money work for you. Hope you retire from that job early. 🙏🏾😎
I have dated that type of man... but because I was a low value woman I missed my opportunity. I’m talking about net worth 75Mil 🤦🏽♀️ he didn’t see me as wife material because I was conducting myself like a LVW... he still contacts me but is not to take me out for a date but a booty call. I rather let that go and try to find me another one ☝️ but now acting like a high value woman. 😊☝️
girl this was me too , i got blessed or lucky at 39 , but if i knew what i know now i would of being blessed long time ago
But he’s still hitting you up for booty calls, as a single or married man? Are you ladies comprehending what KS is saying?
The military thing i disagree with because there's some high powered skills you can pick up. Learning IT and getting thrown into high powered courses and getting access to rare info is another way to break 6 figures
Great information uncle Kevin. I'm definitely learning so much from you. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I grew up religious and submission wasn't taught to me as a losing situation. However, it was told to me to be with a man I would being willing to be submissive to...so that day he says pack your bags and go to this location, I'll do it with no questions asked because I have taken the time to learn him before and during marriage so I know how I can trust him and just move when does tell me to do something.
But in Religion don't it says men honor your wife. And women submit to your husband?
@@ramelhagins6698 yep
This is another channel I'll recommend to my sons
Thank you so much for your knowledge truth. I learned about you a few days ago and am a new subscriber. The knowledge that I have gained has impacted myself and my current relationship in such a positive way.....Thank you!!!!!
Thank you for the Sexy playlist! Your wisdom is appreciated!🥰
I’m from Albania 🇦🇱 and your personality attracts me to see your episodes like it’s the Vikings episodes 😎
Much love
Absolutely on point & Loving it... ❤🙌🏽
Awesome content...Kevin...enjoyed this segment so very much...especially your perspective on the "high earner not rich yet"...as well as, the high value type of male...Came across your channel and will definitely subscribe
01:35:00 The problem isn't when women date many men. That's expected *especially* if they are attractive. The problem is when women *give themselves* to many men.
It's supposed to be both ways tho...men can't be with a lot of women and be upset with women with a lot of men
@@jsan5631 no it doesn't work both ways and it's not supposed to be both ways. Men like women for different reasons than women like men. Additionally, a woman obtaining a lot of sexual partners has a different meaning and a different set of requirements than a man that obtains a lot of sexual partners.
It takes *no effort* for a woman to have sex with a lot of men. No matter how unattractive/undesirable a woman is, there is *always* a man willing to have sex with her. That means in order for a woman to have sex with a lot of men, she has to have LOWER standards and discretion. There is no such thing as a woman "incel", only women with standards too high that don't match her actual attractiveness.
Alternatively, for a man to obtain a lot of sexual partners it requires EFFORT and the less naturally attractive the man is the more effort it requires. There are men out there so unattractive and undesirable that they are practically invisible, or even worse, repulsed by women where no woman would sleep with them(without them paying for it)... Only the most physically attractive or wealthiest of men have the ease of obtaining sexual partners and it still required more effort than the least attractive of women...
Women with a lot of sexual partners signals a lack of standards and discretion. Men with a lot of sexual partners signal an increase of effort. Simple as that. Men and women are different no matter how "equal" people try to trick you into believing.
I agree with women not giving themselves to lots of men but at the same time if you don’t sleep with a man early they accuse you of playing games and lose interest. It definitely seems men don’t value classy women and just go with whoever sleeps with him early.
@@nooshi6698 "they lose interest"
That's a good thing. That means you've filtered out the right men you needed to. *If* they are actually interested in you for something more than sex, they will persist pursuing you. I married the only woman that took me more than a month(took about 3-4 months with her) to hook up with.
Every other woman was anywhere from 1 day to 1 week and therefore pretty much lost my desire for a serious long-term commitment with them.
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel nowhere did I mention anything about inferiority.
KS, you need to let women answer without interrupting, and not get offended when they are still talking. They are not talking over you at times, they just can’t hear you because of the technology. You can be rude at times with the pretense that you’re just being straightforward.
He would never speak to a man in person like he does women on his channel. The whole 'theres always a possibility of physical confrontation with men' and all. He knows he can beat up a woman so he's happily rude.
I dont agree with your assertion and here's why: here's the thing its his platform so its his rules its just that simple have an issue create your own podcast or whatever dont make nobody no never mind.
Like he always says: Monday knows who Tuesday is and Thursday know that Wednesday left her draws over there
@@docfada1701 I don’t need my own podcast, so I come to listen to conversations. If I don’t like the content I make a suggestion or move on. I’ve unsubscribed.
@@tsukujinaan4381 good for you👍
@@SallySallySourScream you probably haven't been following him for long go check out Rank yourself and men lead with their wallet videos or some more of his earlier content then you'll get it peace ✌✌✌
DAMN!! Mr. Samuel's you going in deep so spot on sir
I really try hard to listen to your videos, but it gets hard when you act so petty with people you disagree with.
I agree I also think Kevin has no room for grey not everything is so black and white. Women work for various reasons not just because they don’t want to depend on a man. There are some women that can handle a career or hobbies without neglecting their family or husband it is possible. Children eventually go to school and their is only so much house to clean and food to cook. I just wish he wasn’t so linear with his thinking.
Yeah, it talks down to anyone making $100k or less but positions it as motivating when called out. You can follow someone on youtube and not always agree.
@@CornellG it's not a average Joe platform he is not targeting regular men.
@@jazzyone1986 hobbies are good career is different. Career means promotions more work less time for oneself.
Kemit Trill I disagree not all promotions equals less time with your family. Often times the higher up you go the more flexibility and autonomy we obtain. Times are changing and with this pandemic working from home will be our new normal. I believe a wives first priority should be at home I also feel that a woman having a job can greatly improve the economic and social condition of her family. This can be simultaneously done.
A man should not feel threatened or in competition of his woman working. It doesn’t take anything away from him or his role. If a woman can’t handle both then by all means focus on your family. There is no shame in either one and what works for one family does not work for another.
Thank you
My eyes are wide open
Marriage and staying with it builds strong safe environments for families (children and the adults) and communities. Can't build a strong community without strong families. Let single parent households and divorces be the exceptions. Not the rule
I like that quote “ let’s stick to the topic!”
I just started watching your Channel and I love it. You give great advice to both genders and you are funny 😄
I appreciate Kevin also validating the women who are girly and enjoy men who are men.
Henry’s do marry because it’s part of the equation to get the outcomes they want. Feminism has led to a socialized devaluing of the feminine. Submission is not what modern women think it is. Henry’s want to build with a woman who understands the value of her role in the family.
This has been a blessing for me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love how Mr. S puts everyone in their place. This is HIS show.
Omg I love him go older ladies lol
I verbatim said that in my head!
Thought this was going to be Mgtow channel, but he addresses both sides. Lots of nuggets
Same here love it
Yes! it's just like if someone came to your house wanting to do as they please.🙄
100% TRUTH, That's a FACT !
I just stumbled upon your channel (fragrance video review). My question is this: can you please create a music playlist of your intro music selection?
The Godfather has spoken
This channel is incredible
Some military veterans coming from a poor background take advantage of college education opportunities via the G.I. Bill etc..
Get the likes up people!🙏🏽
Me raising and waving my hand proudly 👋🏾✋🏾👋🏾🙋🏾♀️
02:25:45 "Your father isn't strong enough to protect you AND YOUR BROTHER WANTS TO BE YOU"
Wooooow I almost spit my coffee everywhere laughing at that.
I had to pick my whole jaw off the floor
Blessing's sir love the truth your sending out🙏🏽
She is 37 yrs old she will not depend on a man ever godfather she is wasting your time.
This was a Fake caller.
Lol no way you think so and why?
@@ebonymalone8371 Did she even sound dominate to you? She sounded anything but dominate, in fact she sounded extremely shy and giggling. She sounded like she was a shrinking violet...Hardly a dominate person. Go back and listen to her. This is why I call it Fake.
She's set in her ways=To old to mold.
I'm happily married with a so called high value man here ( 6' tall, about 100k income when I got married, now
K250sh, no kid ) for 13years
Now with 2 beautiful children). Ladies, please listen to Kevin for yourself and your children. What he’s saying is true!!!
This Information Was So Informing, Thank You So Much👏🙌
You are so articulate and eloquent with a nice accompanying swag...
Thank you for helping us to wake up from the coma spell we've allowed ourselves to fail under. The infection can only be cleaned once the band-aid is removed. Cleaning a wound is painful, and a dirty business for everyone involved. Thank you for having the strength and fortitude to lead us on this front.
Martial Arts for boys is an excellent idea.
Spot-on as usual
I love the commentary he speaks facts. So why do i keep laughing.
Everything Kevin says about historical mental health, the police, and social allocation is spot on.
“Buffalo Bills” WHY does that crack me up so much?? 😂 😆
Hey Kevin love your shows. Man you spit wisdom direct from a God given spirit of discernment. I watch a lot of your videos. You are quite entertaining and usually on point. But I take issue with your spill on military service. Frankly you are misinformed. Here's why:
1. After serving 36 months, a service member is worth over $1,000,000 in benefits: VA Home loan Guaranty $424 - 620,000; $400,000 life insurance (day 1 actually); $100,00 salary earned over 36 months; $100,000 plus medical and dental benefits; $60,000 education benefit (911 GI Bill) - veterans benefits for life.
2. Additionally, if one so chooses he or she can enter service at 18 and retire at 38. That's usually the earliest entry age. What other business entity offers those benefits.
As you often say please stay in your lane. Military recruiting and national defense is top priority and rightly should be so. Please don't disparage military service.
Love your shows. If you were preaching, I'd join your church.
Dear Godfather you helped me realize what my problems were and helped me realize what I need to be looking for in a man. I don’t see why women get offended by these videos. It’s the truth. I am a single mother and even I wasn’t put off by this show I respect truth.
You just haven’t seen the right episode yet
Like Kevin said, men who are high value move different, with a different type of confidence. Men who are lower earners, have confidence issues, so I believe thats why they fulfill them with women. They Hurt the women that love them because they aren’t satisfied with their life. That’s why regular people aren’t married. Life is hard enough, to have to share a life with someone that doesn’t respect their relationship.
She doesn't want to depend on a man....she should just acknowledge that...its a valid choice especially at her age...everyone doesn't have to practice hypergamy....perhaps she can find more happiness in a nontraditional partnership
Exactly, plenty of wealthy couples where both the woman and man have a business. These same families have nannies, private tutors, etc.
I went to private school and even though my mom was imperfect, I was so happy to come home to her instead of nannies. My friends who were raised by nannies agree, but don’t fault their parents for putting work first. Everyone is different.
If you don't want to depend on a man, that's fine, but you'll never get married with that mindset
@@pablo369 that’s a lie I have too many of my best friends who are wealthy and their husbands and them work and have their businesses separate. And they have been together for 10 years plus. It depends on who you marry and who you are. I know me and my partner we both want our own separate businesses and we still love each other so that doesn’t make any sense don’t put your beliefs on to other people.
You did bring up a valid point about the fear of women being with a man who would totally support them. I think it's important for women to know that they will ought to still have standards of how they want to be treated and that's kind of established before you get the wedding ring and you do have deep conversations about the life that that potential man in your life is used to or is aspiring to. Because you do want to feel safe once you commit. It will be our responsibility as women to pay attention to how that man treats women how he talks about women in order for you to know you are safe with that man. Yes safety is really important. But if you are confident woman you should be able to use some wisdom to figure out what kind of man you're dealing with.
Kevin said “OOOHH MY GOD” I spit up my drink 😭
Military work aint what it was back in the day. U join today, get ur education paid for while in thr service, leave and start a career in tech or consulting, etc and wala...$100k or better. DC is filled woth 30 yr old men who have successful business owners and career men who started in the service. If u join today be strategic. Its not the pit that it was for our elders who had no choice. Be wise men.
I was talking to this black high valued man ... when other women found out I got words of how he only like white women and they he was married and so on! It made me reserving... and he kept it moving because he was for sure looking for marriage! I let that go right under my hands
Kevin, as a veteran, I appreciate and respect your opinion about the military and the police.
I agree the nuanced conversation we need regarding how to appropriately budget for the police and military got lost in the bumper sticker meme "Defund The Police!"
Yes, we do not need cops to show up to everything, just like we do not need the number of cops to show up to everything.
A fender bender in the large city in which I used to live would have at the minimum the fire department and the police show up.
It was courageous to say this, and again, as a veteran, I often felt the "support" we received from people was mostly just a version of "thoughts and prayers."
Rip Godfather...I'm sure taking notes of your teachings Sir...😇
Man I love this guy