Everyone hated me; family, teachers, other kids. Everyone! I cooked my own meals at 5. Before microwave ovens were in every house! I had to stand in a chair to reach the stove! By 8, I wanted to go live in the woods by myself. It was easier than dealing with people. I'm pushing 60 today, but still don't fit in. Nor do I care! At last, I have peace and quiet!!! That's enough for me!!!
@@rumblehat4357 anyone isn't really alone. Just unique. Think about it. If i can say mine about it, don't fall on the thinking that you are alone, it create a bad sense of loneliness that can take away the best part of life: Living with joy and fullfill your life everyday with new experience. At least that's what i've learned in my life till now. Sorry for too many words. Hope you understand what i want to say.
The only person I think a sigma could truly be friends with on that level that we need. Is another sigma. Most of the people I talk to would never be able to grasp what I think. And to find someone that can accomplish that is so rare. Holy Spirit of Humanity
Outside looking in is how I felt. Also, people always expected more of me. My friends and brothers always came to me for answers to questions. More responsibility laid upon me. For years I tried to fit in but still saw the eorld differently. Finally, only s few months ago I came across this site and it opened my eyes.
This is me 💯 %. Had to get a job to help my younger siblings for school clothes. Started running as a teenager, got hooked at age 27, and trained 5 years to complete my Ironman Triathlon journey. My 30,s got divorced with one child. True Sigma fashion " Gave her everything & pd futures child support. Broke my back In 03 lost everything again & my health 💔 15 years of very hard work. & a weight gain & loss of 189 lbs over those 15. For the last two years, I've working on the finished product. I saw my Dr yesterday. "It looks like you're ready to start training again." I looked at him & and said, " I don't wanna run 50 yards" in all those years all of that True Sigma fashion." we never complained. It needs to get done. " Love u guys
I almost never do what you suggested, because it sounds like gossip to me, plus I realize I can always be wrong. The most memorable time I had with what you said, is a big time national charity was yearly coming by the place I worked at, and I didn't want to contribute to them because they were pressuring us (a charity pressure you? Ohhhh yeah). I told my boss's boss they were crooks, and that's the primary reason I won't contribute. Naturally this B tried to make me believe "everybody else in contributing", and yes, that almost uniquely disqualifies me from doing it, because I know the hell of what everybody else allegedly does. Next year, oddly enough, they didn't come around to steal from us. Why? Because that local chapter had been closed down due to corruption charges. Odd how I was right and "everybody else" was wrong.
@@charles2241I don’t gossip, but I will tell someone what someone else did to me and let them decide for themselves if they should pursue a relationship.
as a senior in high school I was told by my counselor that clearly I was not college material but that he had a friend who owned the gas station and was willing to hire me. I went on to earn 4 University degrees culminating with a PhD , of all things, in Clinical Psychology. This was instrumental in me understanding the "Whys" of this world. A SIGMA INTJ .
@richardlgayphd6099 my Jr. High algebra teacher said, in front of the class, I would never get into college. Phuck him. Graduated with a B.A. in Psychology.
I went through the EXACT same experience - HS counselor told me I had no business going to college and should look at a trade school. I also went on to earn 4 university degrees, a Doctorate in Education but worked as an I/O psychologist.
As a 100% Sigma Male (51 in 2024), on our "internal scoreboard," we have a LOT of "I Told You So's," that we can throw at other people. We also have a LOT of people who tell us, "You were right about such and such or so and so." I just throw my arms up, and say, "When I state the obvious, I'm right 90% of the time."
I connect dots, they call me a "conspiracy theorist". I then explain they have been unburdened by intelligence. From there, the conversation usually goes kinda sideways.
Actually, it's probably born of the same way of thinking they always do. If something requires just a bit of deep thought, they'll never get it, because everything is supposed to fit real neatly into their little vase of easily recognizable and surface level things. What I think is dangerous about connecting the dots, however, is that many who do it let their egos get involved with it, to where something that substantially contradicts their view, they'll completely ignore. It's like they're on some crusade to become famous by the one small thing they're talking about. It's having zeal for the truth, but then thinking the truth is only in what you observe, and that some of it, even a very large portion of it, can evade you.
The Sigma child MUST ABSOLUTELY have extremely perceptive parents. A Sigma child with parents who have little to no parenting skills is in trouble. ...and an idiot teacher is perhaps more destructive than the parents😳.
It happened to me at school the made me skip grades call me a gifted kid born to parents with no education and mentally challenged with chidhlood traumas had no support either home or school (in Mexico).immigrated to the USA 🇺🇸 at 21 after working 5 years in Mexico as labor in factories spend 4 years learn the language became a truck driver and here I’m at 51 dreaming still how never became a scientist coming up with new medicines to help people ( my dad was sick and nobody was able to help).
@wellnesscoach73 your still young. There is no such thing as time...only distance. Time is an illusion created to keep you confined within the matrix. Whatever that invention you imagined as a bright eyed kid, GET YOUR THOUGHTS TOGETHER AND MAKE IT HAPPEN! Most of the world is going to hell on a hand basket! Unpack your God given gift and focus!! Great luck my friend 👍👍!
I was born to kids myself.... They never grew up.... How I relate to sigma is fiercely independent. That would be me.... Many of the perhaps contrived atributes attributed to sigmas I don't seem to fall one for one on.
This was 100% my experience growing up. As a successful manager in various roles (I didn't crave leadership), I produced results in ways that confused others and was often told I was a maverick, as if this would hit me as criticism. I accepted that with pride.
My childhood ended at the age of ten. I have huge problems with humans that can't keep up. When I hear humans complain about working I just laugh. I started working at 10 years old and I haven't stopped since and I'm 52 now. The only person I follow is Jesus because he was kind not because he died on a cross. Seed to a sigma that makes no sense to celebrate the death of Jesus you are happy he died because you didn't want to go to hell for your own sins. That'll make sense to a sigma. A sigma what a pulled his ass off the cross or not even allowed an innocent man to go to jail and death. Walking the sigma life is a lonely life but it's only one way to people who don't understand a sigma. Holy Spirit of Humanity
I'm a Sigma. One of my several superpowers is to see danger coming long before anyone realizes it's coming, or to see things happening soon that others don't see coming. I've had people laugh at me and tell me I'm wrong, and boy, were they surprised when they saw that I was right. I can also quickly suss out people, figure out their motives and see right through them, often before they realize that I've already scoped them out from a distance. I also have a pretty good built-in bullshit detector. And the ability to think outside the box and connect the dots in ways other people can't understand. And 'the little adult syndrome'? Yep, I found myself in that position when I was a kid from time to time.
I like to know “why?” Because if I need to explain it to someone else, I need to know the subject inside and out, not just repeat verbatim and say “it’s just how it is.” If you don’t understand why, you can’t properly explain things.
Later you realized just how much of the population is only surface level, and there's no way they want to hear all the detail you learned. You couldn't explain beyond "it's just how it is" if you wanted to, because they're already turning away or going to sleep.
The desire to teach others is inherent in me as well. Like @charles2241 was saying, a big chunk of the population don't want to know. But you will occasionally run into people who are eager to learn. So don't be discouraged to teach. Just work on knowing when ppl actually want to learn from you.
This describes my sister, she had to watch my little brother and I, and wasn't seen as the leader by my mother and father, I was the apple of everybody's eye, I was always skeptical, but I wasn't focused and on point, until I became grown, and the jealous environment, that I moved to, became a battle of wits, street knowledge etc, and people comparing themselves to me, or trying to put me in their boat, to make themselves feel better, I used everything thing from my childhood to my adult to rise, my parents was patient, with me, tougher on my sister and older brother, my sister and i connect because we saw each other's grind, great video, it describes my sister to the T( I teach her patience and wisdom, she teaches me about the ruthlessness of the world/ and be aggressive when necessary.
@@boxxjumper82 oh ok! But you turned out fine, though as an only child how did it feel? Did Your parents spoiled you, or it felt lonely? Just interested, if you don't mind me asking.
@CONQUERMORRIS It was tough, my grandparents were super strict on me in the 90's. I also didn't understand why me and my sister were living apart, why my mom and dad parents didn't get along. This is when " Family First" went out the fucking window at the age of 9. I would ride my bike to go see my sister, since the parents and grandparents were stuck on stupid.
I ran away from kindergarten when I was 4 and Prison Break is a sucker compared to that ;))) I spent two weeks searching and analyzing the way to escape ...
Watch, listen and learn. The day you stop learning is the day you die. Watch how you treat others because they are not you. Listen to other’s words you might find a path for yourself to move forward. If you’re a sigma, you understand.
I was "parentified" as a child. My mom suffered from mental health issues. So as a 7 year old a child I took care of her. I kept track of her appointments, medication dosage. I administered her medication that I kept away from her. When I was about 6 my mom attempted suicide. She swallowed a whole bottle of phenobarbital (yes, I could read then, as well as I do now.) I called my grandma and the police. That's after my mom smashed the phone into multiple pieces. I literally with my mom's life hanging in the balance figured out how to re-wire the phone to get a dial tone. Matching and twisting wires back together to call for help. How this Google algorithm figured out that I was a Sigma male is amazing. I have to say, I fit all the categories.
@@urrywest No, it's just an example of what Sigma child would do under the circimstances. Also, most kids would haven't been able to fully process what happened. Like my big brother who was 3 years older. He ignored our mother's suicide attempt, he went out and played like an average kid.
@@inquizative44 To me it means reflective and independant.... To me sigmas are generally deeply flawed.. For the life of me I don't know why I get so much attention from girls.
Connecting the dots and needing to know the how and why- if im a sigma this is soo true. My learning curve is very steep for this reason. Frustrating ad hell
It's just a high IQ that makes a sigma. I thought I didn't fit in till I took the military education test. Not the asvab. They told me I understand how and why at the same time and if I don't understand the how and why. I detect that as false/dangerous/skeptical. You won't know unless you made it to the further testing stations at MEPS. I thought I was struggling because everyone had left already and I was still playing with blocks and looking at pictures on a computer screen.......
Oh my goodness, I see now as I look black over seven decades. Why so much of this weird stuff happened to me. The fact that much of the stuff presented here applies to me, I am astonished, and I feel that if I'd known sooner, then life would have been easier.
Everyone hated me; family, teachers, other kids. Everyone!
I cooked my own meals at 5. Before microwave ovens were in every house! I had to stand in a chair to reach the stove!
By 8, I wanted to go live in the woods by myself. It was easier than dealing with people.
I'm pushing 60 today, but still don't fit in. Nor do I care! At last, I have peace and quiet!!! That's enough for me!!!
I can relate to this
I always looked at it as being born in the wrong time.
You catched the same exact thought that i've got for the entire life and still having now.
Wow! Never heard anyone use my line, lol. I swear I should have been born 100’s of years ago, like I am the Highlander or something. 😂😊
I guess I’m alone in this.
@@rumblehat4357 anyone isn't really alone. Just unique. Think about it. If i can say mine about it, don't fall on the thinking that you are alone, it create a bad sense of loneliness that can take away the best part of life: Living with joy and fullfill your life everyday with new experience. At least that's what i've learned in my life till now. Sorry for too many words. Hope you understand what i want to say.
I disliked school and the people in it. They bored me. It was a drone factory and I wouldn't play their games.
The “invisible barrier” is 100% spot on how I felt as a kid.
Well congrats. You’re not the one.
Same here
The only person I think a sigma could truly be friends with on that level that we need. Is another sigma. Most of the people I talk to would never be able to grasp what I think. And to find someone that can accomplish that is so rare. Holy Spirit of Humanity
Outside looking in is how I felt. Also, people always expected more of me. My friends and brothers always came to me for answers to questions. More responsibility laid upon me. For years I tried to fit in but still saw the eorld differently. Finally, only s few months ago I came across this site and it opened my eyes.
This is me 💯 %. Had to get a job to help my younger siblings for school clothes. Started running as a teenager, got hooked at age 27, and trained 5 years to complete my Ironman Triathlon journey. My 30,s got divorced with one child. True Sigma fashion " Gave her everything & pd futures child support. Broke my back In 03 lost everything again & my health 💔 15 years of very hard work. & a weight gain & loss of 189 lbs over those 15. For the last two years, I've working on the finished product. I saw my Dr yesterday. "It looks like you're ready to start training again." I looked at him & and said, " I don't wanna run 50 yards" in all those years all of that True Sigma fashion." we never complained. It needs to get done. "
Love u guys
dont be so hard on yourself
I always warn people about other people, and turn out to be correct more than I’d care to be.
💯 I warned my friend that her gf is a cheater but, he held a grudge and fast forward they separated for infidelity
I almost never do what you suggested, because it sounds like gossip to me, plus I realize I can always be wrong. The most memorable time I had with what you said, is a big time national charity was yearly coming by the place I worked at, and I didn't want to contribute to them because they were pressuring us (a charity pressure you? Ohhhh yeah). I told my boss's boss they were crooks, and that's the primary reason I won't contribute. Naturally this B tried to make me believe "everybody else in contributing", and yes, that almost uniquely disqualifies me from doing it, because I know the hell of what everybody else allegedly does. Next year, oddly enough, they didn't come around to steal from us. Why? Because that local chapter had been closed down due to corruption charges. Odd how I was right and "everybody else" was wrong.
@@charles2241I don’t gossip, but I will tell someone what someone else did to me and let them decide for themselves if they should pursue a relationship.
you're not alone to this
I'm trying to embrace it but I don't see it as a gift.
I only like being right on the rare occasion its positive
as a senior in high school I was told by my counselor that clearly I was not college material but that he had a friend who owned the gas station and was willing to hire me.
I went on to earn 4 University degrees
culminating with a PhD , of all things,
in Clinical Psychology. This was instrumental in me understanding the
"Whys" of this world.
A SIGMA INTJ .
@richardlgayphd6099 my Jr. High algebra teacher said, in front of the class, I would never get into college. Phuck him. Graduated with a B.A. in Psychology.
I went through the EXACT same experience - HS counselor told me I had no business going to college and should look at a trade school. I also went on to earn 4 university degrees, a Doctorate in Education but worked as an I/O psychologist.
"Matilda" came out in the mid '90's and although I'm a male, that movie seemed to be written about my life. Still my favorite movie.
@@MagicalCreations-fw7pj this is one of my faves because I could relate but “The Sixth Sense” way more so it’s my fave of the genre.
As a 100% Sigma Male (51 in 2024), on our "internal scoreboard," we have a LOT of "I Told You So's," that we can throw at other people. We also have a LOT of people who tell us, "You were right about such and such or so and so." I just throw my arms up, and say, "When I state the obvious, I'm right 90% of the time."
I'll bet marriage is one of them.
I agree. Now I just tell the minions, “ but you can’t be told anything”
People who cannot connect dots are incredibly frustrating to me.
I needed to see the words together because that's exactly how I feel just didn't know how to word it, thank you
Hallelujah
Puzzle solvers unite
I connect dots, they call me a "conspiracy theorist". I then explain they have been unburdened by intelligence.
From there, the conversation usually goes kinda sideways.
Actually, it's probably born of the same way of thinking they always do. If something requires just a bit of deep thought, they'll never get it, because everything is supposed to fit real neatly into their little vase of easily recognizable and surface level things. What I think is dangerous about connecting the dots, however, is that many who do it let their egos get involved with it, to where something that substantially contradicts their view, they'll completely ignore. It's like they're on some crusade to become famous by the one small thing they're talking about. It's having zeal for the truth, but then thinking the truth is only in what you observe, and that some of it, even a very large portion of it, can evade you.
The Sigma child MUST ABSOLUTELY have extremely perceptive parents. A Sigma child with parents who have little to no parenting skills is in trouble. ...and an idiot teacher is perhaps more destructive than the parents😳.
It happened to me at school the made me skip grades call me a gifted kid born to parents with no education and mentally challenged with chidhlood traumas had no support either home or school (in Mexico).immigrated to the USA 🇺🇸 at 21 after working 5 years in Mexico as labor in factories spend 4 years learn the language became a truck driver and here I’m at 51 dreaming still how never became a scientist coming up with new medicines to help people ( my dad was sick and nobody was able to help).
@wellnesscoach73 your still young. There is no such thing as time...only distance. Time is an illusion created to keep you confined within the matrix. Whatever that invention you imagined as a bright eyed kid, GET YOUR THOUGHTS TOGETHER AND MAKE IT HAPPEN! Most of the world is going to hell on a hand basket! Unpack your God given gift and focus!! Great luck my friend 👍👍!
I wanted my dad gone before I was 8 I knew my narcissistic mom didn't really really care my brothers sisters knew too .
Sounds like my childhood
And accurate depiction of my world. 👍
I’m a female and I related to all of this.
There is such a thing called the Sigma Female!!! For real! 😘
Welcome to the club👊
Sigma female 🦾🦾❤️❤️
My sister relates also
I was born to kids myself.... They never grew up.... How I relate to sigma is fiercely independent. That would be me.... Many of the perhaps contrived atributes attributed to sigmas I don't seem to fall one for one on.
This was 100% my experience growing up. As a successful manager in various roles (I didn't crave leadership), I produced results in ways that confused others and was often told I was a maverick, as if this would hit me as criticism. I accepted that with pride.
My elementary school report card always said, "Doesn't play well with others." No shit.
This one made me laugh. Thank you! 😂😂😂
mine always said "attitude needs improvement"
😂😂 yep
My childhood ended at the age of ten. I have huge problems with humans that can't keep up. When I hear humans complain about working I just laugh. I started working at 10 years old and I haven't stopped since and I'm 52 now. The only person I follow is Jesus because he was kind not because he died on a cross. Seed to a sigma that makes no sense to celebrate the death of Jesus you are happy he died because you didn't want to go to hell for your own sins. That'll make sense to a sigma. A sigma what a pulled his ass off the cross or not even allowed an innocent man to go to jail and death. Walking the sigma life is a lonely life but it's only one way to people who don't understand a sigma. Holy Spirit of Humanity
By age 12 I already had a subscription to Psychology Today magazine
I'm a Sigma. One of my several superpowers is to see danger coming long before anyone realizes it's coming, or to see things happening soon that others don't see coming. I've had people laugh at me and tell me I'm wrong, and boy, were they surprised when they saw that I was right.
I can also quickly suss out people, figure out their motives and see right through them, often before they realize that I've already scoped them out from a distance. I also have a pretty good built-in bullshit detector. And the ability to think outside the box and connect the dots in ways other people can't understand.
And 'the little adult syndrome'? Yep, I found myself in that position when I was a kid from time to time.
Yes I agree, but for me these thoughts were more subconscious
I like to know “why?” Because if I need to explain it to someone else, I need to know the subject inside and out, not just repeat verbatim and say “it’s just how it is.” If you don’t understand why, you can’t properly explain things.
Later you realized just how much of the population is only surface level, and there's no way they want to hear all the detail you learned. You couldn't explain beyond "it's just how it is" if you wanted to, because they're already turning away or going to sleep.
The desire to teach others is inherent in me as well. Like @charles2241 was saying, a big chunk of the population don't want to know. But you will occasionally run into people who are eager to learn. So don't be discouraged to teach. Just work on knowing when ppl actually want to learn from you.
I remember being told after a while not to ask too many questions. This happened in school and in the workplace.
Thank you for the content!
This is strong affirmitation 🎉
This describes my sister, she had to watch my little brother and I, and wasn't seen as the leader by my mother and father, I was the apple of everybody's eye, I was always skeptical, but I wasn't focused and on point, until I became grown, and the jealous environment, that I moved to, became a battle of wits, street knowledge etc, and people comparing themselves to me, or trying to put me in their boat, to make themselves feel better, I used everything thing from my childhood to my adult to rise, my parents was patient, with me, tougher on my sister and older brother, my sister and i connect because we saw each other's grind, great video, it describes my sister to the T( I teach her patience and wisdom, she teaches me about the ruthlessness of the world/ and be aggressive when necessary.
At least you weren't an only child. 😅
@boxxjumper82 oh you had no siblings? Cousins though correct?
@CONQUERMORRIS i did, we grew up in separate homes in the same city.
@@boxxjumper82 oh ok! But you turned out fine, though as an only child how did it feel? Did Your parents spoiled you, or it felt lonely? Just interested, if you don't mind me asking.
@CONQUERMORRIS It was tough, my grandparents were super strict on me in the 90's. I also didn't understand why me and my sister were living apart, why my mom and dad parents didn't get along. This is when " Family First" went out the fucking window at the age of 9. I would ride my bike to go see my sister, since the parents and grandparents were stuck on stupid.
I ran away from kindergarten when I was 4 and Prison Break is a sucker compared to that ;)))
I spent two weeks searching and analyzing the way to escape ...
What specific sources were drawn from for this video?
AI online research through human request...
VERY TRUE...............
Exactly this...
Understanding is everything, and learning is fun.
I look at learning as a recreation.
I can onlu speak for myself. Understanding is everything!
On the outside looking outside!
Watch, listen and learn. The day you stop learning is the day you die. Watch how you treat others because they are not you. Listen to other’s words you might find a path for yourself to move forward. If you’re a sigma, you understand.
Its almost time
I was "parentified" as a child. My mom suffered from mental health issues. So as a 7 year old a child I took care of her. I kept track of her appointments, medication dosage. I administered her medication that I kept away from her. When I was about 6 my mom attempted suicide. She swallowed a whole bottle of phenobarbital (yes, I could read then, as well as I do now.) I called my grandma and the police. That's after my mom smashed the phone into multiple pieces. I literally with my mom's life hanging in the balance figured out how to re-wire the phone to get a dial tone. Matching and twisting wires back together to call for help.
How this Google algorithm figured out that I was a Sigma male is amazing. I have to say, I fit all the categories.
Are we really sigmas just because we were born to people who never grew up?
@@urrywest No, it's just an example of what Sigma child would do under the circimstances. Also, most kids would haven't been able to fully process what happened. Like my big brother who was 3 years older. He ignored our mother's suicide attempt, he went out and played like an average kid.
@@inquizative44 To me it means reflective and independant.... To me sigmas are generally deeply flawed.. For the life of me I don't know why I get so much attention from girls.
@urrywest I think your searching for compliments and validation.
@@inquizative44 You got mine... Your cute.
As an adult now.
I cry when i think of the child i once was.
Stolen Innocence!!!
Then..
Sent to WAR!
Connecting the dots and needing to know the how and why- if im a sigma this is soo true. My learning curve is very steep for this reason. Frustrating ad hell
🤘🔥
It's just a high IQ that makes a sigma. I thought I didn't fit in till I took the military education test. Not the asvab. They told me I understand how and why at the same time and if I don't understand the how and why. I detect that as false/dangerous/skeptical. You won't know unless you made it to the further testing stations at MEPS. I thought I was struggling because everyone had left already and I was still playing with blocks and looking at pictures on a computer screen.......
Wow.. 56seconds in and this is spooky.. 🎃
Oh my goodness, I see now as I look black over seven decades. Why so much of this weird stuff happened to me. The fact that much of the stuff presented here applies to me, I am astonished, and I feel that if I'd known sooner, then life would have been easier.
be for watching the video... i was bullied 1st class to the last one. i give it back to them allso and i was that who got panisment :/
i played chess with my mother when i was 5year old.
👍
*sigh* well I'm sort of convinced though it kinda makes sense
How do you know every detail about me LMFAO
That's me I grew up like that I am a single male thank you I love❤
omg im so sigma like my idol patrick bateman
A true sigma does not comment here. You are fooling yourself
How is 14 years old when my mom got in a car accident and broke her back.
She became paralyzed and that's when I learned how to cook.
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How do you know all this ! No sigma will tell you…
I think he’s a sigma; he’s simply sharing his thought process, which is why it resonates with people who have a similar mindset.
❤cOOL..
Now they gon destroying kid now.
I like dogs.
I would love to watch and listen Sigma Females as a child 😊❤✨🙏 thanks
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1 asset is worth more than 100 liabilities.
That's what I heard.
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