Secret# 592~ Saib Tsis Taus Tus Hlaus Nraug Kab Duj~ 05/20/2024~
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
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Story description: She met a smaller built guy and thought he is weak but once she wrestles with him, she found out she can't even beat him. A funny secret story!
Your priority as a mother is to provide for your kids and ensure their mental and physical safety. If a man truly loves you, he will support what's most important to you. You know the answer as to what you need to do.
No matter if your kids in the future will stay with you or their biological father doesn’t matter. You are their mother and you should always pick your kids over anyone else. Your kids only have you as a mother. You should protect them and raise them because you gave birth to them.
Ib tug txiv hlub koj tiag mas txawm yog tub ntxhais los nws yeej tsum nrog yus hwj xwm kom txog hnub lawv muaj cuab yim tas thiaj yog tus txiv muaj lub siab hlub tiag os
Q1: doesnt matter if the boys will go back to their father when they are grown. If you love them, they will continue to love you even if they go back to the father. And a parents' job is to raise their kids. When they are grown, they can decide to do whatever with their life.
Sister don’t ever choose a man over your children. He doesn’t want your children so that means he does not love your children. He only wants you. It’s better now to takeoff.. tell him to return his kids to his wife. See how he feels.
#1...hlub koj cov me tub koj thiaj li muaj chaw nyob....koj tu txiv tshiab cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj nawb....koj ua tau niam ces koj cov me nyuam muaj chaw nyob xwb....xaiv koj cov me nyuam zoo dua
Q1: NOBODY WILL LOVE YOUR CHILDREN MORE THAN YOU AS A MOTHER. ua niam txais tog txiv txais ntas tshav ntuj nram kwj ha ces yog li no. ib leeg muaj ib pab me nyuam tiam sis txiv neej ma yeej xav kom yus hlub lawv cov xwb yus cov lawv tsis nrog yus hlub nawb mog. thats the truth. only 1% of divorce guy with kids will love your kids otherwise the 99% gonna give you stress and headache later on in life if not now. You rather choose ur kids over him. txij nkawm you can always replace but your children and ur parent you can never replace them. gL.
Tus poj niam ko ces nws tseem hluas ces nws twb tsi xav yuav koj li nws hais lus hla hlo koj lub taub Hau lawm nws twb saib tsi tau koj li os koj txawm yuav hlub nws ua nws qhev tuag kiag los tsi muaj nqes rau nws li os me neeg zoo aw
Yog koj hlub koj cov tub lawm thiab lawv paub xav mas lawv yeej tsis mus raws lawv txiv vim tus twg hlub lawv, lawv yeej yuav nrog los nyob nrog tus ntawd. Menyuam yeej muaj siab muaj ntsws thiab. Yog koj tus txiv ntawd hlub koj tiag ces nws yeej tsis hais li ntawd rau koj.
#1 peb nyob tiam tshiab no lawm yog yus hlub, txhawb thiab nta ces me nyuam yeej tsis quav ntsej lawv txiv lawm os. Those who run back to their father only when you refuse/neglected your kids.
Tus viv ncaus awd!! Yus av tsij xaiv yus cov me nyuam os nyob lub teb chaws no tsi yog li koj tus txiv hais os yog nws tsi nyiam yus cov menyuam ces muab nws pov tseg xwb koj tsi yuav koj cov menyuam ces lwm hnub koj laus ces koj tus txiv cov menyuam yuav tsi hlub koj rau yav laus av tsij xaiv koj cov menyuam nawb tsam koj tsi tau chaw nyob rau yav laus os.
Sister aw, luag tej laus twb piv lus tias pojniam rog nphaws tsis cuag tus txiv neej qhaws raws no naj.
Me ntxhai peb hmoob ce yeej muaj lub siab phem tsi xav yuav cov me nyuam uas tsi yog lawv yug lawv tsi hlub kiagli nawbtamsim no peb nyob rau tebchaws vammeej lawm yus yuavtsum tau saib xyuas yus cov me nyuam ua ntej tsi pub leejtwg tsimtxom yus cov me nyuam nawb yus yeej yuav txawj lau yav lau lawvthiaj yuav hlub koj nawb koj twb tsi paub hai tia ib tus txiv yog tsi nyiam yus cov me nyuam ,lawv puas yuav hlub koj tiag nawb koj tsi txhob muab koj cov me nyuam tso povtseg nawb.
#1, sister, if I was you , i would let him go, stay with my children, my children is my life ❤,
Q1: tus tug cov menyuam los yog ob leeg li. Peb nyob tebchaws vam meej txoj caiv nyob ntawv peb lub qhov ncauj xwb. Thaub laus hlwb 75 lam keb tsis xav ntav koj cov tub xwb. Cov menyuam tiam no tsis ruam li cov niag laus 75. Tus tug hlub lawv ces li hnub lawv rov hlub tus ntawv vim lawv tsis coj li cov niag ruam 75 es caim xeem.caim pab. Caim pawg.
Q2 Tus txiv tsev koj yuav tau qhia thiab sib ceg nrog koj tus maum dev nws ua li ko saib tsis taus koj lawm, vim koj yog ib lub taub hau txiv yog nws twb paub koj ruam ua haujlwm company xwb ua cas ho yuav koj thaum pib. Ua niam txiv yog tsis sib hwm ces yeej tsis muaj kev kajsiab li os nawb.
If he truly love your child, they will stay with him even when they are grown. He just doesn’t want them. Protect your child, and don’t give them childhood trauma.
Q. 1 thaum lawv tseem yog menyuam ces koj xav tias lawv yuav mloog koj hais tab sis thaum lawv tiav txiv lawm ces lawv yuav mus nrhiav lawv kwv lawv tij yog li koj Cia li ua no yog lawv yuav poj niam ces lawv txiv tuaj ib nrab koj tuaj ib nrab txhob muab lub nra rau koj tus txiv tshaib txawm nws cov los ib yam
last story I'm sad for the mute girl
#2...tu poj niam ruam ces yog koj tu ntag....kom koj tu poj niam mus ua hauj lwm...koj ua tsaus ntuj...poj niam ua sawv ntxov neb sib loog zov me nyuam kom nws thiaj li paub txog kev ua hauj lwm hauv company...yog koj tu poj niam tsis yog neeg kawm ntawv nws thiaj li tsis thuam koj kav tsij kom mus ua hauj lwm 12:52
Koj tus txiv nws tsuas hlub taus koj xwb..nws tsis hlub koj cov me nyuam os..nws thiaj li ntshai tsam tau nta poj nta sev rau koj cov me nyuam uas tsis yog nws yug xwb
Haha tos nws tsis tuaj saib koj lawm los koj tso paus es ntshe nws xu2 siab rau koj lawm os
Q1: Your second husband should be more understanding if your boys want to stay with you. Why worry about tomorrow when it hasn’t come yet? And even if your boys go back to their dad in the future, they will still remember the hands who fed them. You might lose them if they go back now. Traditions are there but always room for adjustments.
Story 1 - Koj yeej meem xa koj cov tub mus rau koj tus qub txiv yuav mas koj lub neej nrog txiv tshiab thiaj tsis tawg vim txiv tshiab tsis xav ua li cov Hmoob Meskas laus (qhov quav ntsws) pheej tuam choj rau cov nkauj los nraug Hmoob Lao mos ab tuaj. Story 2 - Dev yeem noj qhuav hos npua yeem noj xua. Koj ntshaw tus hluas ces koj yeej meem nyiaj ntxeem nws tej lus tsis hwm koj ntawv txog hnub koj thev tsis taus dhuav nws. Thaum no koj ho xav yuav no ces koj yeej meem thev mus ntxiv. Yog koj dhua dhau qhov dhua, koj cia li muab nws txhem tawm xwb.
Q2. She just using you. She is planning something else. You are not her plane.
Q1. Yog tias koj tus qub txiv yog ib tug good father no ces cia lawv rov mus nrog lawv lub family nyob. Lawv muaj ib lub family uas lawv feel love and belong. Koj tus new husband yuav hlub npaum twg los, lawv wish to be with their cousins, aunties, uncles and more. I saw in my own eyes.
Q1: While your new husband demonstrates a proper grasp of Hmong cultural norms and the upbringing of Hmong boys, his viewpoint as a man reveals certain flaws. He appears to harbor insecurities about the future and uncertainties regarding his role in providing love and emotional support to your children - crucial responsibilities that are integral to being a devoted husband and father.
Koj tus poj niam ko twb ze qhov nws yuav muab koj lawb lawm os tus kwv tij aw...txog txij nws hais li ntawd rau koj ces nws lub siab twb tsis nyob nrog koj lawm os..koj tsis ntseeg los koj saib mus seb puas yog nawb
Secret #1: Muab pob tw xiab lub truck txhais tau li cas na haha
"Tam li kuv xav yog yus hlub yus cov menyuam ces thaum loj tuaj los lawv yeej nrog yus nyob", lady don't think or xav. You need to observe the Hmong culture also. Xav means nothing. It seems that you are not living in the Hmong world. Your new husband has a concern that most of Hmong boys will return to the father's family because of the dab qhua and blood lines. However in America it may not matter much. Children today live wherever they have better job, home and community. You should not worry too much if they would return to their father's family, and I feel that they should for keeping the male blood lines. You should only be concerned with raising your children and be good mother when they need you. When they are grown up, children now may not live with you anyway even if you and their father are still together and married. Your new husband should also not be concerned. Both you and your new husband, in my opinion, should encourage all children to be active with their father and his side of family. Children are happy when they are supported by both families and be part of both families. Your husband is culturally selfish, which is true. But we should learn not to be so selfish in our American society now.
Yes. Because he doesn’t want to help u. But the choose is up to the kids. Why didn’t he say anything before u guys get married
Brother, if your wife disrespect you and shamed you all the time and in front of other people that woman doesn't love you. She is just using you. Divorce her and let her go. She's toxic asf and doesn't deserve you and your love.
Why don't you treat her the same way she treats you. The more she disrespect you, start looking outside for your happiness. Stop wasting your time on her. Stop supporting her and doing for yourself and leaving her to herself. Put your needs and love before her. Do things or go places without her. Separate from her. Best thing is just divorce her and save your sanity and happiness
The story about the short boyfriend. My husband and i are the same height.. but i am chubbier than him so he looks shorter than me. Weve been together for over 10 yrs and i love him more and more everyday. Hes my short king with the biggest heart. ❤
1st question sister he doesn't want your children. Do not trust him around your daughter. Listen to her. If she feels uncomfortable around your husband you better beware and set up hidden cameras. Especially when you're not home to check and see how he treats your children. Since he doesn't want your children and keeps telling you to send them to their father you need to rethink your marriage. Sell that house and divorce him.
Q1: Your husband is right. When your boys reach 18 and up, they will side with their real dad. Doesn't matter if it's in America or not, they will go back to their dad with one exception if their dad treats them terribly now.
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Hahahahahahahaha Txhob lam saib g taus cov yuag o nawb ..!
Q1: He needs you to love his kids but he doesn’t want your kids. He’s too stingy. It has to be two ways, not one way.
Q2: Your wife needs to go to work. She’s so smart, she needs a job.
For the marriage couple for 5 years already. If he keep telling you to send your son to there dad meant for me mean he don't like your kids. He don't want to raise them and at the end when they are grown and able to help there self then he afraid that your kids won't financially help him. Due to he not there dad. But in hmong if ya call there spirit to become his kids then he do have a right to become his culture. If he want to used the hmong thing against you. So over all he just don't want your kids.
Q2: I'm a woman. If I disrespect my husband to the point where I'd say those hurtful things your wife say to you in public without any remorse, it can only mean ONE thing: I don't love him, never did! Your wife DOESN'T love you, she NEVER loved you, and she only married you to use you for your money! Surely you must know this, even when you first married her---her behaviors would have been fake and exaggerated when it came to showing you her "love"! When are old Hmong people going to get it through their heads that old person marrying young person DOESN'T equal real love?!!! You did this to yourself, only you know what is best for you and the solution you need.
story 1. leave his azz divorce now story 2. honey no money then baby girl don't like you no more
Question2 koj pojniam yuav respect saib taus koj vim zoo phem los koj yog tus khw xwb. Koj pojniam nyobtsev xwb, nws tseem saib tsis taus koj thiab.
Q1. Sister pls do not abandon your kids. It’s only 5 years with the man but it will be a lifetime with your kids. They don’t have to love the kids like their own but they must respect you and help support you to be a good mother. You can’t get that then it’s time to move on and protect your kids. I feel bad for your little one.
Q1. He don’t want to spend any money on your kids. A lose/lose situation for you. He is Hmong when it’s convenient for him and he remembers he is American when it convenient for him.
Q2. You answered your own questions, if she had a choice she would not be with you. You better reassign your life insurance and money to your kids or someone else before you die and cannot tu siab anymore.
#1 yeej yog li koj tus txiv hais. Tab sis yog lawv txiv yeej tsis tsob zeem lawv lawm ces koj tus txiv yuav yeej yuav ua siab loj. Tab sis yog koj tus qub txiv tseem xav tau koj cov tub Tab sis tim koj tsis pub rau koj tus wub txiv xwb no ces koj yuav tau tso lawv rov qab mus thiab vim thaum lawv laus lawv yeej yuav rov mus brhiav lawv txiv.
Hahah.. this story is funny about the farting part 😂
Sister, that guy only said crap and pretending to cared about your kids to get you to let your guards down. He doesn't want your children. He wants you to accept his children and care and mother his children but behind your back he treats your children like crap. You didn't believe your baby girl. Once you married him he's already telling you to send your children to your ex-husband. Big mistake trusting him and believing in him.
1st question- It doesn’t matter what culture now it’s the new generation… seems he doesn’t like your kids so he is just trying to find excuses…
2nd question- seems your wife has no respect for you… it’s tough there needs to be an understanding between you both and maybe try explain to your wife how you feel and come to an understanding.. if that doesn’t help then things may take a different route..
#1 He never loved your kids. He love that you took on Mommy duties and less work for you. He’s made it clear he doesn’t want your sons and the responsibility of being a father to them. I’m not saying for you to divorce him. After my divorce, my kids are with me. I’m remarried now and my MeKas Husband understands the responsibilities before asking for my hand. Along the years he has set money aside for car-college-wedding for each kiddos. If he wasn’t like this I would have never married him. It’s better to live a “happy” single mommy life with my kids. Who knows all the adult(s) in the home loves them.
#2 your wife is half your age, what did you expect. If you two didn’t have a strong connection in the beginning, you won’t have it now. If you give her more kids, she’ll do what she wants to do. If she leaves you, you have more kids to watch or child support to pay.
Koj tus txiv siab pim nas xwb
thaub tej tus pojniam zoo li koj tus ko ces koj tsoob nws qhovquav tsoob qhovncauj tag ce rho ncawstaw ntsia loo nws qhovquav ces coj nws mus nrauj phem xwb moj..koj g ua li no 1me pliag tig los ua rau koj ntag hos.....lmfao..nej cov tham2 cov neejneeg na...nej haislus mas hais kom raug2 naw...simneej no tus ntawv g muaj leej twg yuav kawm tag li na? kawm tiav no mas muaj, thiab dhau ib ntus....
No he doesn’t like your sons
Q1- Koj tus txiv hais Yog lawm .
Q2- You should expecting all of things when you married to a young wife. Shouldn't be a surprise.
Koj nuagvtziv tshiab siab me tsis kam yuav koj cov tub es nws kam muaj tej ntawv los keb xwb. Tsis yuav los tau lawm
Q1: at this point you just havw to think that the father married you and not the kids. Just tell him "ok each for their own. You take care of your i take care of mines"
Secret #1.. Ua neej nyob, yog peb pom thiab paub lub neej tom ntej, ces ua neej yeej yooj yim os sister. Peb ua niam ua txiv nyob ces yuav tau ua siab loj xwb. Yog lwm hnoob lawv hlob tuaj es lawm ho rov mus raws lawv txiv los it's fine. As a step father or mother, you have to be the bigger persons. You love all children as you are able to. It's true, Hmoob culture often dictate that boys should follow their father's bloodline.
Ntuj es txaus luag ua luaj, tsaus ntuj xuas dub ces kawg li no tiag!