Can we just talk about how genuinely positive Desi's comment section is? There is not one hate comment in sight, everyone just complimenting each other and making people laugh, because that's the type of energy Desi vibes to her audience. I love it so much
That's because Desi is a positive person that encourages positive vibes to her subs unlike some other problematic youtubers. I want to be as positive as Desi this 2018
Close to 600 likes....all good vibes here. I also think that it's better here too because Desi ALWAYS communicates with us & appreciates our commentary and love. There are so many big influencers out here these days that do not love any of their comments, like them, or respond.
Hey Desi!! My sister had a miscarriage a few months back. She didn’t tell many people because she had only announced her pregnancy to her immediate family. It was of course difficult for all of us to get through and to overcome the pain. People are always asking her, “why aren’t you pregnant yet?” or “are you trying to get pregnant?” The whole experience opened our eyes, and made us realize that you can’t ask people personal questions like that, because no one knows what that person has gone through before you asked. I love you so so so much ♥️
Mary Frances 🙌🏼❤️ I feel like people need to stop asking those personal questions, you’re right about people not knowing what that persons has been through or if that person has been trying. I’ve been following Desi for a long time and eveytime I see those comments I just wish people didn’t 🙁
Mary Frances I just went through the exact same thing about 4 months ago. It broke my heart, the first time I was out in public after the miscarry.. At subway, a girl asked me why I haven't gotten pregnant yet, and when I planned to have kids. It hurts, you just never know what another person is going through. I'm sorry about your sister too. 😔
This comment! ❤ You never know what someone is going through! I have seven sisters & four of them went through miscarriages, so has my own mother. Luckily they have been blessed with many children but you'd think they would be more understanding towards asking me that "isn't it about time you guys had kids" question. We've been trying for 5 years to have a child & everytime they ask that question it's like a punch to the gut. 🙁
I know how you feel. I lost my first born a few hours after he was born I was barely 19 it was very hard thing to go through. After that it was hard seeing other people having there babies. I feel like time never heals wounds. This was 4 years ago till this day I thin about it and it’s the same pain every time.
The pregnancy pressure is the worst. My husband and I lost a baby and no one really knew about it. During the “healing” time, people kept asking and my heart was just broken. After some time, we tried again and now expecting a little one in June. It’ll happen when it happens Desi. I know it’s hard to wait, but there a special one waiting for just the perfect time. ❤️ you.
It’s been tough for my husband and I to become pregnant and it seems like all I hear are stories from women saying oh I got pregnant on the first try and so on. It was so refreshing to hear you say that it’s a touchy subject for some women!! And reading all the comments of the other women saying it was nice to hear also has made me feel so comforted. Thank you!
one thing that i love about desi’s videos is that that she properly tells what she does. in a lot of tutorials people say that i am going to put this eyeshadow but desi actually tells us how she puts it on. i love u desi ❤️❤️
yes desi preach !!! pregnancy is a super touchy subject that people just like the throw at you. getting pregnant isnt easy for some females (me being one of them). 3 years ago i lost my son when i was 5months pregnant and everybody likes to ask when ima have another and it seems like ijust cant🤷🏽♀️ but ilike to leave it in gods hands🙏🏽 thank you for opening up so much to us, just know that little angel of yours is looking dwn at you and is very proud of the strong hard working woman that you are.
I agree with you on that. It is honestly a touchy subject for me. It’s a really big responsibility and can take a toll on you physically emotionally and mentally. I am currently going through the situation where I’m getting pressured for a kid and I’m only 21. Don’t get me wrong, having a child can be a blessing but I’m just not ready for it. By the way best wishes for you in the future ❤️
Yea, can definitely understand how it can be a touchy subject. Granted it isnt anyone's business about nearly everything but I feel the best way for people to get through sensitive topics is to simply be open and own it. Kind of like how you were just open. Life seems a lot better when one doesnt allow sensitive topics to affect their feelings. In a way its like running away from internal issues... So sorry for your loss. Its not a pain I would wish upon anyone and can be lifechanging... kind of makes me miss the old 'annoying' responses/phrases; if its meant to be it will be, if its in the cards...
I have been pregnant 6 times and have 2 kids. Those 4 miscarriages really affected me and I felt pressured by everyone to have a baby, but I couldn’t stay pregnant. I finally saw a high risk doctor and he put me on progesterone right away. As soon as I became pregnant he put me on it for the first 13 weeks until the placenta took over. He told me that I probably wasn’t producing enough progesterone and that the babies were dying because they weren’t getting oxygen. I would either miscarry or the baby’s heart would stop beating between 8 and 11 weeks. I never announced I was pregnant right away because I never knew if I was going to miscarry. You look gorgeous! 🎉❤️
LetitiaLaura I Have a similar issue babe. I have something called a bicornuate uterus. I have also had four miscarriages. My first baby that survived ended up coming at 28 weeks. I finally switched doctors and got put on progesterone and went full term. I went from thinking I’d never be a mom to having two kids. I remember wondering what was wrong with me....that my body couldn’t even do what a woman’s made to do.
If some of you guys don't know, desi and Steven had a miscarriage few years back. I think that subject is a bit sensitive to desi in a way. And I don't think she will announce her pregnancy if she does get pregnant until she knows it's safe to announce. But God will bless them when he knows they're both ready
lissette centeno thank you! I just believe that God will know when it's time to bless them with a family. God always knows what he's doing and we just have to trust in him and believe that what he's doing it's for the best for us. Desi and Steven will be blessed with a beautiful baby one day. We just have to respect them and not constantly asked them when they're getting pregnant since last time they had a miscarriage... and they told their whole family they were expecting and then they had to tell them that they had a miscarriage.
I love this look! You make any look so effortless! Btw the pregnancy part stuck out to me the most. I’m currently 6 months with my rainbow baby. I suffered 2 miscarriages last year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through losing two babies.. I was depressed and not myself for so long. I feel for women trying to get pregnant and not succeeding or having trouble having healthy pregnancies/losing babies like myself. I agree it’s such a touchy subject and people should be so much more considerate because you never know what someone is going through or what they’ve been through with pregnancy. There’s so many things that can happen that people don’t realize. Infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, the list goes on. I feel for all the ladies out there going through troubles getting pregnant. Now that I’m finally having a healthy baby boy here in April I’m just so thankful and appreciative. I was so scared it would go wrong again, but it didn’t. Pray pray pray and God will answer and bless you. Praying for any ladies out there trying to conceive. 💙
As a former Spanish teacher who did not grow up speaking Spanish but grew to love the language, I would love to see you do a make up tutorial in Spanish. Anybody who would make fun of you isn’t worth your time anyway!
Yes! Thank you for bringing up the pregnancy thing! Hopefully more people say this so it can circulate!! No one wants to hear it when they have issues with fertility.
GabriellaGlamour no one wants to hear it period, the women also who don't want kids don't want these questions asked. Why do people ask??!!! It's no one's business!!!
Not just for fertility issues though! The average time it takes to get pregnant when you're actively trying is between 6 months to a year.. as someone who is trying to get pregnant it's great to have support but so pressuring and stressful when people constantly ask.. like Desi said, when a pregnant woman is ready to announce it she will, and until then it is no one's business to ask!
I don’t think you realize just how important you are to many people Desi! You are an amazing role model/inspiration and I’m so touched by your soul! I GENUINELY LOVE YOU!!
Thank you !!! For Anyone who struggles with infertility it is one of the most hurtful things to be asked ! I love that you use this platform to mention that to some people who just do not think about it in a sensitive matter !
I hate when ppl ask the pregnancy question. You never know what ppl are going through. If they can even have babies. Last year my husband and I finally went to a fertility specialist and I found out I was the reason we weren't getting pregnant. People asking, just made me sad, and reminded me of what the specialist told us. I always just say "cuando Dios quiera". I have so much faith, that one day God will give us the child our hearts desire💜 Please don't ask ppl this question. Its very sensitive, especially for couples that can't. 💋
Jessica Jimenez girl you just spoke my feelings! I have pcos and people don’t understand how hard it is to have it. But like you say, cuando Dios quiera and el tiempo de Dios es perfecto! Prayers girl and stay strong!
Alejandra Mejia Castro & Jessica Jimenez - I hope this year treats the both of you beautiful women extremely well, and also brings with it many blessings ❤️❤️
I could not agree more! I was told I can't get pregnant the week before Mother's Day last year. I was devastated. And being asked when we're going to have a baby was like a knife to the heart. I have pcos and severe endometriosis. I know God is 100% in control and if it's his will, I will have my baby. But for now my husband and I are overjoyed with the idea of adopting a baby/child and giving them an opportunity to grow up in a loving home.
Thank you for addressing the pregnancy thing. I still suffer from depression about wanting a baby and it not happening for me after so long and heavy medical intervention. People just talk about it so casually like it’s so easy to get pregnant. Some of us ladies really, really have a hard time achieving pregnancy and society constantly reminds us how we don’t measure up if we can’t pop out a baby 😞
Love that eye shade. Same about pregnant questions . My hubby and I tried for 3 years and even went through infertility . It never worked , so many people asking when we having kids , and wow, we thought u all would have tons of kids , u all love kids.... So , we finally became foster parents. We're for 6 years . We have 4 adopted kids and it is just how God planned . Perfect and wouldn't want it any other way. Blessed !!
It took me and my husband 6 years to have my son. So many pregnancy tests we wasted, meanwhile everyone from close friends and family to distant family constantly asking when we were having kids. That question burned a hole deep in me every time I heard it. Just keep on keeping on girl.
Hi Desi! I'm a silent follower and just wanted to say I'm so with you about pregnancy! I commented on Anna's (from DOSE) video she posted a while back about this too, but I'll never get tired of saying it...pregnancy questions can be ALOT!! People don't seem to take into consideration that a good chunk of us would love to have started a family already but it just hasn't happened. As I told Anna, it's something my husband and I cry and pray about all the time. So when I have my family and friends asking all the time, it gets so overwhelming. I feel broken lots of times. I try my best to be positive because I can break down in 0.2 seconds over this topic and I feel a little selfish sometimes because I know it's something my husband is so excited about too. I also know it's something he talks and cries to God about on his own time. Anyway thank you for acknowledging the topic being a little sensitive to some of us, and I just wanted to wish you and your family all the best and many blessings! Ps. I loved your whole collection with Katy and DOSE!! (idk how to add emojis rom my computer so lets pretend there's hearts lol)
I agree 100% about pregnancy. Literally moments after my husband got married about having kids. Now that we have been married for a year and a half we are trying and currently struggling to get pregnant so it's very hard when people pressure us.
I was close to tears when you mentioned the pregnancy topic and how it will happen when it is meant to. That’s what I tell people every time they ask me. I hope I can start a family this year too, but it is in God’s hands. ❤️❤️❤️
Girl I feel you with the pregnancy comments! I’ve never been pregnant but due to reproductive issues I’ve been told I’ll have fertility problems. To add insult to injury I was diagnosed recently with an infectious disease that I could pass on to my unborn child if I were to get pregnant. It has caused me a mass amount of health problems and the risks outweigh the idea of trying. When someone asked me if I wanted kids and I told them no, I was called selfish. It actually made me cry. It bothers me when people put others down for not being able to have kids or making the decision not to carry due to health reasons. Don’t get discouraged Desi, your time will come 😊 even if you can’t conceive there are so many alternative options! ❤️
It's funny that you said you are venturing out and watching other tutorials out of your subscription feed before bed because that is exactly what I am doing with this tutorial. I am inspired, subscribed !
Pregnancy is a personal topic that I wish many people would stop prying about. You never know what someone is going through or what emotions your questions may trigger. People must become more compassionate, empathetic, and aware of this. We lost our baby girl a few months back at 17 weeks. It's brutal and heartbreaking to go through. Many of us are with you girl! Huge fan. Huge hugs. Xoxo
as someone who's gone through 2 chemical pregnancies and a hispanic family who constantly asks during holidays, birthdays, parties etc when we're going to have a baby I completely understand how you feel. It's such a sensitive subject and it hurts every time i get the question. If it were up to me it would of been the first time we got pregnant but obviously that wasn't in Gods timing. I really hope people get that pregnancy is a personal private matter that shouldn't be forced on someone because you never know the couples circumstances.
Honestly so disappointed in anyone that asks people those pregnancy questions, it’s so rude. You never know what someone could be going through, and you never know if they’ve been trying and it just hasn’t happened yet... people need to learn some manners and stop asking. Love you Desi, wish your family the best this year ❤️
Giiiirlll I cream contoured today and I forgot to blend under my jaw 😫 Didn't notice until my lunch date pointed it out 😭😭😭 I needed to share, send moral support 😵
Sif Snorradottir 😭😭😂😂 oh no!!!!! Honestly I’ve done that before when I was spot concealing pimples and I just didn’t blend them out and I was just walking around with them while running errands
I've always felt like a close friend when I watch your videos, Desi! You are so open and honest about your fertility struggles, that it give me so much comfort to face mine too. Thank you for reassuring me to leave it in God's hands. I always tell myself this, but it's nice to hear it from someone else too. ❤
Agreed on the pregnancy topic! My hubby and I have been married for 6 years and that question has been asked all the time since forever 😩 it’s like “we’re not ready!” We’re only 25 so it’s not like we’re old or anything...it’s just awkward. Obviously if it happens we would be super happy but we like to go out and we’re just enjoying life at the moment. I know it’s not the same as asking someone who’s gone through miscarriage or has lost a child because that’s more emotional but we don’t live in an time where you’re expected to just pop out babies and be a stay at home mom. People just need to wait til a pregnancy is officially announced. P.S. a Perkins baby would be exciting whenever the time comes 👶🏽
I appreciate you talking so openly about pressure to do certain things at a certain time in life - especially when it comes to having a baby. I have always wanted to foster/adopt with no desire to physically have my own child, but I constantly have people telling me that I need to get pregnant for my husband or my family or whatever other reason & I just want to scream that it’s my decision and to leave me alone. Praying for your home search & your desire to grow your family 💜
you as a mom would be amazing,and the baby would also be so beautiful with such gorgeous parents😩from the bottom of my heart i hope that whatever 2018 has in store for you,it better be something that makes you happy cause you deserve it.sending lots of love from greece❤️
It's so crazy how people who deserve to have children have such a hard time. Then there's these low lives popping them out left an right -_- I pray that day comes for you Desi! You and Steven would make great parents and beautiful babies ♡♡♡
I think it’s rude when people pressure other people to get pregnant, because what if that person can’t have children, or has tried but it’s difficult for them. No matter when you decide to have a family we’ll always support you girl ❤️
I agree about that pregnancy question. I feel like people THINK they are showing love but it is a very personal thing and can be a sensitive issue for people. Like you said when someone is pregnant and the want to announce it...they will. Anyway I wanted to let you know I recently became a subscriber and I think ur a beautiful person inside & out! 😊😍
I hear you on the pregnancy thing. I talked about pregnancy with one of my friends, who is pregnant with her third child. She stated that she does not ask people about pregnancy or do they have children anymore because you do not know if that person is trying or may have some health issues that prevent them from getting pregnant.
I know how you feel. On July 26, 2017 I delivered a stillborn baby. She weighed 4 pounds 6 ounces. This was mine and my husbands first baby together after being married for almost 5 years and both of us having children from previous relationships. It took me a long time to finally say yes to having a baby but it did not work in our favor. Our hearts have been completely shattered and even though it’s been 5+ months, people still ask me when am I going to try again like if it’s just a game. I know people mean well (most of the time) but it still hurts because I wanted her, I wanted that baby, that pregnancy. I think people ask because that’s what they want for you... they want you to feel that love they have for their own children. I know you and Steven will be wonderful parents. When it’s your time, it will happen. I have to tell myself that also 💞
AshleeArtistry my heart goes out to you also. I feel like no one truly understands until they’ve been there. I’m sure we are both going through the same battles. 😔
I lost my daughter July 31, 2016 she was born on July 29th she was having complications and she is forever my first baby. People always told me don’t worry I’ll have another one and it’s fine. My aunts baby girl was born on the day she passed away and she had the audacity to ask for MY daughter clothes and baby items. She even said luckily it wasn’t her baby. I still dislike her for that comment. I am currently pregnant with baby no.2 it isn’t the same it’s hard it still hurts and sometimes I think so negative and think it’ll happen again and I’m not fit to be a mother etc.. I’m excited and scared wasn’t really expected but still wanted. People just don’t really understand how sensitive baby talk really is.
So true on the pregnancy questions. All you can say is: we would love to have kiddos and God willing. It almost becomes awkward at times. You are awesone and i love watching your tutorials!
Desi, thank you! It took a lot of treatments for me and my husband to have my son, and it happened much later than we wanted it to. It broke my heart every time someone would ask me why I wasn’t pregnant yet. I wish more people talked about how hard it can be to conceive a baby. It doesn’t always happen instantly and when you want it to. Praying God grants you the dream of starting your family in the right time! ❤️
Stress from pressure can prevent you from getting pregnant. My best friend tried for a year before deciding to take a break from stressing about It. She had worried she wouldn’t be able to have children....but then BAM! As soon as she took her break, pregnant.
Totally understand your when it comes to people asking about getting pregnant😔especially when you've been through a miscarriage. Have faith and God will bless you with a baby when it's time. Love you girl😙
I had some pregnancy issues and I 100% agree when you say people need to be more sensitive. Not saying or assuming that is your case but just all around people are so outspoken and inquisitive when it comes to pregnancy and it is such a personal and private thing that I think the more you speak on it the more people will maybe understand not everyone has the same story. Not everyone is so open about their journey and so untouched by pregnancy questions. It deeply affects some people and it is just insensitive to continuously ask people about.
She said she had a miscarriage long time ago in a past video. So idk why people would ask her when is she going to get pregnant after knowing what trauma she went through.
100%. As a woman who is struggling with infertility. I understand everything you’re saying about the pregnancy pressures. I wish you nothing but the best. All the baby dust to you. ❤️
i have gone through a miscarriage too and i understand how scary it is to think things can wrong again. just so you know, when i was going through my miscarriage i always kept in my mind what you said during the q & a you and steven did a long time ago. it helped me get through it. whenever your time comes, i pray you have a healthy pregnancy ❤️
Hey Desi! For your makeup tutorial in spanish I'd love for you to do a simple day to night look using neutral colors explaining what each step does. My mom has been getting into makeup aince she sees me doing mine and you would be the perfect youtuber to show her. (She doesn't understand much English and I would rather have a pro explaining what each step does instead of me lol). Love you!
I totally feel you about the pregnancy topic! My husband and I have tried for like 3 years and people were always insensitive about it...like they don’t get it! But thank God it seems like we’re finally getting that blessing we’ve been waiting for and at perfect timing🤗 love you Desi!!
You talking about the pregnancy part hits so damn close to home, my fiancé & I lost a baby last February and people always ask when are you guys gonna try again and stuff like that and it makes me so damn uncomfortable...like people I LOST my child, being pregnant again scares the shit outta me. When did people lose their manners and start asking things like that ):
I agree with you about pregnancy, people need to take a step back and realise it’s such a personal topic and for some people it’s not as easy as others! Every single body is different ❤️
GIRL... I was mid ordering the the drive thru at whataburger and I saw this a screamed hell YES and they lady thought I was crazy IDK... I’m a happy girl got my whataburger and a new desi video!! 💕💕
You put it so well. I have been married for 5 years and since before my husband and I got married everyone would ask when are you getting pregnant. Its a pretty sensitive subject because it hasn’t really happened for us. When people people ask me now I either tell them I haven’t been able to get pregnant or we time to ourselves before having kids. I don’t want to make people uncomfortable sometimes so it’s easier to say that but I’m hoping it does happen for us. The pressure doesn’t help
Could you do a full face foundation, primer, highlight ya know all that? For beginners? Affordable please! With like different tools too! Which is best for what? Beauty blenders, the painter brush, fingers, The stipple brush. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I feel like so many people haven’t been around long enough to know about the video you made and where you revealed what happened when you had gotten pregnant and it didn’t work out and that’s how you started on instagram. I’m so happy that you’ve created such beautiful art and I agree more people should be sensitive about the subject, especially those who have seen your sadness in that video. I hope God gives you a chance to start a family and everything works out for you. 💖
I feel like the people that constantly always keep asking “when we u getting pregnant, you should get pregnant, ect” are new followers 🐓🐓And it makes me sad because they don’t know what you’ve been through. I’ve been following you for a while now and I just wish people can STOP with the pregnant comments 😏 I love you Desi and I know that when it’s time it’ll be time ❤️ Dios es grande 🙏🏼 😘
the only negative thing ima say is .... I want Desi and Katie and if I don’t get more of you together in videos ... I will probably still watch but be a little frustrated thinking of that .......... hahaaaaa ily both
Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your spanish!! It's great that you can speak even a bit of it, especially since so many people don't have the opportunity to learn the language(s) their parents, grandparents, etc. speak. Language is so hard to learn--be proud!!
Desi Gabriel Zamora did a GRWM video with his mom where they spoke Spanish the entire time and I’m not fluent and it moved me and I thought it was beautiful and the video blew.up. Be proud of your heritage and culture!!! I would love to see a video of you doing your Tia’s makeup and just speaking Spanish 😍😍😍
Yes desi... the pregnant thing! It’s not always are choice! It’s always the same tho from being young. When u getting a partner, when u moving in, when u getting engaged, when u getting married, when u having a baby etc xx
It’s like I’ve been married over two years all my friends have kids since I was like 16 I’ve wanted a baby, when people ask me I’m always like well it’s not always so simple is it!! (I have a problem) holding someday tho xxx
I feel also as Latinos we have so much pressure as women to get married asap and pop a kid out(not saying other people don't go through this but from personal experiences) personally i don't want kids and am highly considering adopting it its possible to do so! Lots of love Desi 💕
The Emperor's New Groove is one of my favorite movies and I've watched it a million times. I always do impersonations of characters around the house and my sister always knows what movie they're from too.
I’m so sorry people come at you with all the pregnancy questions all the time. But all I know is you’re gonna make a BEAUTIFUL mother Desi! ❤️ What you’ve been thru you deserve it so much! I hope a beautiful baby comes your way this year! 🙏🏼
that's what happened with my mom and her best friend from middle school! I'm named after her too lol. I've been lifelong friends with Kelli (my mom's friend's daughter) and I couldn't be happier. Best wishes for you and your friend!
I legit love you so much. The way you speak, you are so sweet and genuine. I feel like I connect with you - like you are one of my girls having a conversation with me. Please don't ever stop being an amAzing woman ❤️ thank you for being so inspirational ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Desi connects with us at a more personal level... I genuinely cannot be more happy for any other person about their success in this community than I am when I think of good wishes for Desi 🙄 One of the girls and Katy and everyone else in her life are so lucky, as are we. She gives me hope that not everyone in this world is turning plastic these days LOL 😊
I’m so happy you talked about the pregnancy thing. I was super private with mine in the beginning due to previous miscarriages. So I waited a long time to announce it. People need to be aware of how sensitive this subject is ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, pregnancy is such a sensitive subject. I suffered with infertility for 6 years. At every family gathering I was hounded about having a baby. I know they don’t mean any harm but it always hurt deep inside me. Thankfully we were blessed with an amazing baby boy 3 weeks ago!
The depth & detail in your videos is on another level from tips and tricks to the brush guide! You literally always teach me something new. I am a beginner and imroving a lot. Thank you
It’s horrible that a lot of people think it’s okay to talk about pregnancy. Like when did my life, my uterus, and my reproductive system become any of your business? You have to do things in your time. When I got married at 19, almost everyone instantly asked if I was pregnant and when we were having kids. People just don’t know how to leave others alone and mind their own business.
I HAVE MISCARRIED THREE TIMES. With no answer from a Dr or Specialist! I know exactly how you feel about the pressure and I’m sick of it!!! People need to realize they need to stop asking/saying these comments!
Hey girl! I just saw your tutorial, I loved it! I can feel you got back the excitement for making new vids as you used to have some time ago, that passion gets noticed! Please don't let it go away and don't listen the noise , you're such an amazing artist ! Besos from Venezuela
Can we just talk about how genuinely positive Desi's comment section is? There is not one hate comment in sight, everyone just complimenting each other and making people laugh, because that's the type of energy Desi vibes to her audience. I love it so much
Ary Rosa *I’m not crying 😭😭😭
Ary Rosa I totally agree! One of many reasons why she is so awesome!
That's because Desi is a positive person that encourages positive vibes to her subs unlike some other problematic youtubers. I want to be as positive as Desi this 2018
Ary Rosa yasssssssss good vibes only for our girl
Close to 600 likes....all good vibes here. I also think that it's better here too because Desi ALWAYS communicates with us & appreciates our commentary and love. There are so many big influencers out here these days that do not love any of their comments, like them, or respond.
Hey Desi!! My sister had a miscarriage a few months back. She didn’t tell many people because she had only announced her pregnancy to her immediate family. It was of course difficult for all of us to get through and to overcome the pain. People are always asking her, “why aren’t you pregnant yet?” or “are you trying to get pregnant?” The whole experience opened our eyes, and made us realize that you can’t ask people personal questions like that, because no one knows what that person has gone through before you asked. I love you so so so much ♥️
Mary Frances 🙌🏼❤️ I feel like people need to stop asking those personal questions, you’re right about people not knowing what that persons has been through or if that person has been trying. I’ve been following Desi for a long time and eveytime I see those comments I just wish people didn’t 🙁
Mary Frances Same thing happened to me in October. I was 8 weeks. Broke my heart. 😢
Mary Frances I just went through the exact same thing about 4 months ago. It broke my heart, the first time I was out in public after the miscarry.. At subway, a girl asked me why I haven't gotten pregnant yet, and when I planned to have kids. It hurts, you just never know what another person is going through. I'm sorry about your sister too. 😔
This comment! ❤
You never know what someone is going through! I have seven sisters & four of them went through miscarriages, so has my own mother. Luckily they have been blessed with many children but you'd think they would be more understanding towards asking me that "isn't it about time you guys had kids" question. We've been trying for 5 years to have a child & everytime they ask that question it's like a punch to the gut. 🙁
I know how you feel. I lost my first born a few hours after he was born I was barely 19 it was very hard thing to go through. After that it was hard seeing other people having there babies. I feel like time never heals wounds. This was 4 years ago till this day I thin about it and it’s the same pain every time.
The pregnancy pressure is the worst. My husband and I lost a baby and no one really knew about it. During the “healing” time, people kept asking and my heart was just broken. After some time, we tried again and now expecting a little one in June. It’ll happen when it happens Desi. I know it’s hard to wait, but there a special one waiting for just the perfect time. ❤️ you.
It’s been tough for my husband and I to become pregnant and it seems like all I hear are stories from women saying oh I got pregnant on the first try and so on. It was so refreshing to hear you say that it’s a touchy subject for some women!! And reading all the comments of the other women saying it was nice to hear also has made me feel so comforted. Thank you!
one thing that i love about desi’s videos is that that she properly tells what she does. in a lot of tutorials people say that i am going to put this eyeshadow but desi actually tells us how she puts it on. i love u desi ❤️❤️
yes desi preach !!! pregnancy is a super touchy subject that people just like the throw at you. getting pregnant isnt easy for some females (me being one of them). 3 years ago i lost my son when i was 5months pregnant and everybody likes to ask when ima have another and it seems like ijust cant🤷🏽♀️ but ilike to leave it in gods hands🙏🏽 thank you for opening up so much to us, just know that little angel of yours is looking dwn at you and is very proud of the strong hard working woman that you are.
i hope god blesses you to have another child i really do hope the best for you❤️
I agree with you on that. It is honestly a touchy subject for me. It’s a really big responsibility and can take a toll on you physically emotionally and mentally. I am currently going through the situation where I’m getting pressured for a kid and I’m only 21. Don’t get me wrong, having a child can be a blessing but I’m just not ready for it. By the way best wishes for you in the future ❤️
Bless you 🙏🏼
Yea, can definitely understand how it can be a touchy subject. Granted it isnt anyone's business about nearly everything but I feel the best way for people to get through sensitive topics is to simply be open and own it. Kind of like how you were just open. Life seems a lot better when one doesnt allow sensitive topics to affect their feelings. In a way its like running away from internal issues... So sorry for your loss. Its not a pain I would wish upon anyone and can be lifechanging... kind of makes me miss the old 'annoying' responses/phrases; if its meant to be it will be, if its in the cards...
ivette rios. May God bless you! Whether that be with or without a child. Life is still an amazing journey & I wish you the best! 💚💚
I have been pregnant 6 times and have 2 kids. Those 4 miscarriages really affected me and I felt pressured by everyone to have a baby, but I couldn’t stay pregnant. I finally saw a high risk doctor and he put me on progesterone right away. As soon as I became pregnant he put me on it for the first 13 weeks until the placenta took over. He told me that I probably wasn’t producing enough progesterone and that the babies were dying because they weren’t getting oxygen. I would either miscarry or the baby’s heart would stop beating between 8 and 11 weeks. I never announced I was pregnant right away because I never knew if I was going to miscarry. You look gorgeous! 🎉❤️
LetitiaLaura I Have a similar issue babe. I have something called a bicornuate uterus. I have also had four miscarriages. My first baby that survived ended up coming at 28 weeks. I finally switched doctors and got put on progesterone and went full term. I went from thinking I’d never be a mom to having two kids. I remember wondering what was wrong with me....that my body couldn’t even do what a woman’s made to do.
If some of you guys don't know, desi and Steven had a miscarriage few years back. I think that subject is a bit sensitive to desi in a way. And I don't think she will announce her pregnancy if she does get pregnant until she knows it's safe to announce. But God will bless them when he knows they're both ready
Stephanie Sandoval this comment was so beautiful and uplifting!
lissette centeno thank you! I just believe that God will know when it's time to bless them with a family. God always knows what he's doing and we just have to trust in him and believe that what he's doing it's for the best for us. Desi and Steven will be blessed with a beautiful baby one day. We just have to respect them and not constantly asked them when they're getting pregnant since last time they had a miscarriage... and they told their whole family they were expecting and then they had to tell them that they had a miscarriage.
Stephanie Sandoval absolutely! And even if he decides they’re not ready for a baby, he’ll bless them in other unimaginable ways!
Stephanie Sandoval how do you know she suffered a miscarriage?😔
ItsLeiaxo she has said it in a video
I love this look! You make any look so effortless! Btw the pregnancy part stuck out to me the most. I’m currently 6 months with my rainbow baby. I suffered 2 miscarriages last year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through losing two babies.. I was depressed and not myself for so long. I feel for women trying to get pregnant and not succeeding or having trouble having healthy pregnancies/losing babies like myself. I agree it’s such a touchy subject and people should be so much more considerate because you never know what someone is going through or what they’ve been through with pregnancy. There’s so many things that can happen that people don’t realize. Infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, the list goes on. I feel for all the ladies out there going through troubles getting pregnant. Now that I’m finally having a healthy baby boy here in April I’m just so thankful and appreciative. I was so scared it would go wrong again, but it didn’t. Pray pray pray and God will answer and bless you. Praying for any ladies out there trying to conceive. 💙
As a former Spanish teacher who did not grow up speaking Spanish but grew to love the language, I would love to see you do a make up tutorial in Spanish. Anybody who would make fun of you isn’t worth your time anyway!
Yes! Thank you for bringing up the pregnancy thing! Hopefully more people say this so it can circulate!! No one wants to hear it when they have issues with fertility.
GabriellaGlamour no one wants to hear it period, the women also who don't want kids don't want these questions asked. Why do people ask??!!! It's no one's business!!!
Sometimes you want to ask because there comes a time when the belly gets hard to hide
Stephanie Montenegro if they want people to know you’ll know
Not just for fertility issues though! The average time it takes to get pregnant when you're actively trying is between 6 months to a year.. as someone who is trying to get pregnant it's great to have support but so pressuring and stressful when people constantly ask.. like Desi said, when a pregnant woman is ready to announce it she will, and until then it is no one's business to ask!
The Rock does Desi’s makeup 😂😍
Chanelle Eniero yes please 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
That would be so freaking cool! I have a feeling is going to happen. 🤗😊💪🏼💄
yesssss
Iconic
Chanelle Eniero how do you tag the rock??
I don’t think you realize just how important you are to many people Desi! You are an amazing role model/inspiration and I’m so touched by your soul! I GENUINELY LOVE YOU!!
agree!
HAPPY NEW YEARS!💛 From a small TH-camR! I’m almost at my goal!
why is no one talking about how cute it was when Desi put on her blush and Markie was like "oh yes!" :D
Aweee 😂❤️
Thank you !!! For Anyone who struggles with infertility it is one of the most hurtful things to be asked ! I love that you use this platform to mention that to some people who just do not think about it in a sensitive matter !
I hate when ppl ask the pregnancy question. You never know what ppl are going through. If they can even have babies. Last year my husband and I finally went to a fertility specialist and I found out I was the reason we weren't getting pregnant. People asking, just made me sad, and reminded me of what the specialist told us. I always just say "cuando Dios quiera". I have so much faith, that one day God will give us the child our hearts desire💜 Please don't ask ppl this question. Its very sensitive, especially for couples that can't. 💋
Jessica Jimenez girl you just spoke my feelings! I have pcos and people don’t understand how hard it is to have it. But like you say, cuando Dios quiera and el tiempo de Dios es perfecto! Prayers girl and stay strong!
Alejandra Mejia Castro & Jessica Jimenez - I hope this year treats the both of you beautiful women extremely well, and also brings with it many blessings ❤️❤️
Alejandra Mejia Castro I haven’t gone to get checked for pcos but people have told me I could possibly have that /:
kriselitaa96 I know it sounds horrible...but trust me, it’s better to go to the doctor now than later.
I could not agree more! I was told I can't get pregnant the week before Mother's Day last year. I was devastated. And being asked when we're going to have a baby was like a knife to the heart. I have pcos and severe endometriosis. I know God is 100% in control and if it's his will, I will have my baby. But for now my husband and I are overjoyed with the idea of adopting a baby/child and giving them an opportunity to grow up in a loving home.
Workout routine!!!! I would love to see what you and Katy do at the gym
I don't think you guys are ready to see this limp noodle in action
I just died 😂
Desi Perkins If a limp noodle can do it, so can I! 😂😘
Haley Rutherford such a great idea!
Haley Rutherford yesssss!
Don’t worry about pregnancy pressure... you already have all us chickens as your kids! #momgoalz #chickensquad 🐓
🐤🐤 couldn’t agree more
Shit I’ll even move in and call her momma 😂
🐣🐥
Yaaaaasss #chickencoupinfulleffect
Thank you for addressing the pregnancy thing. I still suffer from depression about wanting a baby and it not happening for me after so long and heavy medical intervention. People just talk about it so casually like it’s so easy to get pregnant. Some of us ladies really, really have a hard time achieving pregnancy and society constantly reminds us how we don’t measure up if we can’t pop out a baby 😞
Love that eye shade. Same about pregnant questions . My hubby and I tried for 3 years and even went through infertility . It never worked , so many people asking when we having kids , and wow, we thought u all would have tons of kids , u all love kids.... So , we finally became foster parents. We're for 6 years . We have 4 adopted kids and it is just how God planned . Perfect and wouldn't want it any other way. Blessed !!
It took me and my husband 6 years to have my son. So many pregnancy tests we wasted, meanwhile everyone from close friends and family to distant family constantly asking when we were having kids. That question burned a hole deep in me every time I heard it. Just keep on keeping on girl.
Shelby Haynes I know how you feel 😞 so happy you were blessed with ur baby boy! That makes me happy
omg this gives me hope I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 3 years and I’m still young! But honestly I’m leaving it in God’s hands.
All I can say is ignore everyone, have fun, don't get stressed out and it will happen when it's right ♥ baby dust to you both. 👶 😊
Hi Desi! I'm a silent follower and just wanted to say I'm so with you about pregnancy! I commented on Anna's (from DOSE) video she posted a while back about this too, but I'll never get tired of saying it...pregnancy questions can be ALOT!! People don't seem to take into consideration that a good chunk of us would love to have started a family already but it just hasn't happened. As I told Anna, it's something my husband and I cry and pray about all the time. So when I have my family and friends asking all the time, it gets so overwhelming. I feel broken lots of times. I try my best to be positive because I can break down in 0.2 seconds over this topic and I feel a little selfish sometimes because I know it's something my husband is so excited about too. I also know it's something he talks and cries to God about on his own time. Anyway thank you for acknowledging the topic being a little sensitive to some of us, and I just wanted to wish you and your family all the best and many blessings! Ps. I loved your whole collection with Katy and DOSE!! (idk how to add emojis rom my computer so lets pretend there's hearts lol)
the more i think about it desis skin is so clear and healthy she doesn’t even need foundation 🙄 who agrees?
I agree 100% about pregnancy. Literally moments after my husband got married about having kids. Now that we have been married for a year and a half we are trying and currently struggling to get pregnant so it's very hard when people pressure us.
I was close to tears when you mentioned the pregnancy topic and how it will happen when it is meant to. That’s what I tell people every time they ask me. I hope I can start a family this year too, but it is in God’s hands. ❤️❤️❤️
Girl I feel you with the pregnancy comments! I’ve never been pregnant but due to reproductive issues I’ve been told I’ll have fertility problems. To add insult to injury I was diagnosed recently with an infectious disease that I could pass on to my unborn child if I were to get pregnant. It has caused me a mass amount of health problems and the risks outweigh the idea of trying. When someone asked me if I wanted kids and I told them no, I was called selfish. It actually made me cry. It bothers me when people put others down for not being able to have kids or making the decision not to carry due to health reasons. Don’t get discouraged Desi, your time will come 😊 even if you can’t conceive there are so many alternative options! ❤️
stay strong beautiful 💗
It's funny that you said you are venturing out and watching other tutorials out of your subscription feed before bed because that is exactly what I am doing with this tutorial. I am inspired, subscribed !
I’ve honestly never commented on your videos but I absolutely love how genuine you are!
Pregnancy is a personal topic that I wish many people would stop prying about. You never know what someone is going through or what emotions your questions may trigger. People must become more compassionate, empathetic, and aware of this. We lost our baby girl a few months back at 17 weeks. It's brutal and heartbreaking to go through. Many of us are with you girl! Huge fan. Huge hugs. Xoxo
as someone who's gone through 2 chemical pregnancies and a hispanic family who constantly asks during holidays, birthdays, parties etc when we're going to have a baby I completely understand how you feel. It's such a sensitive subject and it hurts every time i get the question. If it were up to me it would of been the first time we got pregnant but obviously that wasn't in Gods timing. I really hope people get that pregnancy is a personal private matter that shouldn't be forced on someone because you never know the couples circumstances.
Cristina Marie exactly !
Honestly so disappointed in anyone that asks people those pregnancy questions, it’s so rude. You never know what someone could be going through, and you never know if they’ve been trying and it just hasn’t happened yet... people need to learn some manners and stop asking. Love you Desi, wish your family the best this year ❤️
Giiiirlll I cream contoured today and I forgot to blend under my jaw 😫 Didn't notice until my lunch date pointed it out 😭😭😭
I needed to share, send moral support 😵
Sif Snorradottir sending prayers your way girl... we support you 🙌🏽
Sif Snorradottir 😭😭😂😂 oh no!!!!! Honestly I’ve done that before when I was spot concealing pimples and I just didn’t blend them out and I was just walking around with them while running errands
Lol I did that once and went to work. One of my male coworkers thought it was blood!
I can’t explain how much I appreciate your comment on pregnancy ❤️
I've always felt like a close friend when I watch your videos, Desi! You are so open and honest about your fertility struggles, that it give me so much comfort to face mine too. Thank you for reassuring me to leave it in God's hands. I always tell myself this, but it's nice to hear it from someone else too. ❤
Agreed on the pregnancy topic! My hubby and I have been married for 6 years and that question has been asked all the time since forever 😩 it’s like “we’re not ready!” We’re only 25 so it’s not like we’re old or anything...it’s just awkward. Obviously if it happens we would be super happy but we like to go out and we’re just enjoying life at the moment.
I know it’s not the same as asking someone who’s gone through miscarriage or has lost a child because that’s more emotional but we don’t live in an time where you’re expected to just pop out babies and be a stay at home mom. People just need to wait til a pregnancy is officially announced.
P.S. a Perkins baby would be exciting whenever the time comes 👶🏽
I appreciate you talking so openly about pressure to do certain things at a certain time in life - especially when it comes to having a baby. I have always wanted to foster/adopt with no desire to physically have my own child, but I constantly have people telling me that I need to get pregnant for my husband or my family or whatever other reason & I just want to scream that it’s my decision and to leave me alone. Praying for your home search & your desire to grow your family 💜
you as a mom would be amazing,and the baby would also be so beautiful with such gorgeous parents😩from the bottom of my heart i hope that whatever 2018 has in store for you,it better be something that makes you happy cause you deserve it.sending lots of love from greece❤️
zamoetcetera thank you 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
It's so crazy how people who deserve to have children have such a hard time. Then there's these low lives popping them out left an right -_- I pray that day comes for you Desi! You and Steven would make great parents and beautiful babies ♡♡♡
I think it’s rude when people pressure other people to get pregnant, because what if that person can’t have children, or has tried but it’s difficult for them. No matter when you decide to have a family we’ll always support you girl ❤️
I agree about that pregnancy question. I feel like people THINK they are showing love but it is a very personal thing and can be a sensitive issue for people. Like you said when someone is pregnant and the want to announce it...they will.
Anyway I wanted to let you know I recently became a subscriber and I think ur a beautiful person inside & out! 😊😍
I hear you on the pregnancy thing. I talked about pregnancy with one of my friends, who is pregnant with her third child. She stated that she does not ask people about pregnancy or do they have children anymore because you do not know if that person is trying or may have some health issues that prevent them from getting pregnant.
I know how you feel. On July 26, 2017 I delivered a stillborn baby. She weighed 4 pounds 6 ounces. This was mine and my husbands first baby together after being married for almost 5 years and both of us having children from previous relationships. It took me a long time to finally say yes to having a baby but it did not work in our favor. Our hearts have been completely shattered and even though it’s been 5+ months, people still ask me when am I going to try again like if it’s just a game. I know people mean well (most of the time) but it still hurts because I wanted her, I wanted that baby, that pregnancy. I think people ask because that’s what they want for you... they want you to feel that love they have for their own children. I know you and Steven will be wonderful parents. When it’s your time, it will happen. I have to tell myself that also 💞
Shanon,,Im so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine what you have been through.
Shanon Madrid my heart goes out to you as I relate so so much having lost our baby 4 months ago. Lots of love your way.
AshleeArtistry my heart goes out to you also. I feel like no one truly understands until they’ve been there. I’m sure we are both going through the same battles. 😔
ChocolatePumpkinCurlyGirl thank you ❤️ it truly is unimaginable.
I lost my daughter July 31, 2016 she was born on July 29th she was having complications and she is forever my first baby. People always told me don’t worry I’ll have another one and it’s fine. My aunts baby girl was born on the day she passed away and she had the audacity to ask for MY daughter clothes and baby items. She even said luckily it wasn’t her baby. I still dislike her for that comment. I am currently pregnant with baby no.2 it isn’t the same it’s hard it still hurts and sometimes I think so negative and think it’ll happen again and I’m not fit to be a mother etc.. I’m excited and scared wasn’t really expected but still wanted. People just don’t really understand how sensitive baby talk really is.
I’m expecting “the rock does my makeup” in 2018
YESSSS!
This needs to happen!
I say the 2.8 million of us make this happen via twitter
Or “The Rock” does my voiceover 😂
the rock does my makeup is a must
Just found your channel two days ago and now I'm obsessed!
TheElsaAlvarado welcome to the squad!!!
You’ve literally found the second coming of Christ! Bless you and welcome 🙏🏽
this can only be a good start to a new year :)
Welcome! You should definitely follow her on IG and snapchat! :)
she is the best!
So true on the pregnancy questions. All you can say is: we would love to have kiddos and God willing.
It almost becomes awkward at times.
You are awesone and i love watching your tutorials!
Desi, thank you! It took a lot of treatments for me and my husband to have my son, and it happened much later than we wanted it to. It broke my heart every time someone would ask me why I wasn’t pregnant yet. I wish more people talked about how hard it can be to conceive a baby. It doesn’t always happen instantly and when you want it to. Praying God grants you the dream of starting your family in the right time! ❤️
Stress from pressure can prevent you from getting pregnant. My best friend tried for a year before deciding to take a break from stressing about It. She had worried she wouldn’t be able to have children....but then BAM! As soon as she took her break, pregnant.
Samantha McCoy that's kool people really put pressure on people I never do bc you don't kno their situation you kno
Same with my sister and she got twins lol
Tatayx0x0 kool
I always tell people this!!
Totally understand your when it comes to people asking about getting pregnant😔especially when you've been through a miscarriage. Have faith and God will bless you with a baby when it's time. Love you girl😙
Jazmine Gonzalez she had a miscarriage?
reezy love I had a miscarriage
I had some pregnancy issues and I 100% agree when you say people need to be more sensitive. Not saying or assuming that is your case but just all around people are so outspoken and inquisitive when it comes to pregnancy and it is such a personal and private thing that I think the more you speak on it the more people will maybe understand not everyone has the same story. Not everyone is so open about their journey and so untouched by pregnancy questions. It deeply affects some people and it is just insensitive to continuously ask people about.
Mercedes LeeAnn agree 100%
She said she had a miscarriage long time ago in a past video. So idk why people would ask her when is she going to get pregnant after knowing what trauma she went through.
This look is goals! I am so obsessed with this color!
100%. As a woman who is struggling with infertility. I understand everything you’re saying about the pregnancy pressures. I wish you nothing but the best. All the baby dust to you. ❤️
I think if you did a video in spanish. It would be amazing! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Adriana Gomez Thank you 🙈❤️
I don't speak Spanish but I would totally watch😁
Now I've gotta learn Spanish for the new year lol
learose pugh 💙💟
Damn marky called you out lol again waiting on that video for destressed denim
MakeUp By Sush 😭😭😭
MakeUp By Sush what distressed denim? Can you explain? I missed it
Adriana Rodriguez Reza ripped jeans that's how I spell it
MakeUp By Sush he means the backstory.
i have gone through a miscarriage too and i understand how scary it is to think things can wrong again. just so you know, when i was going through my miscarriage i always kept in my mind what you said during the q & a you and steven did a long time ago. it helped me get through it. whenever your time comes, i pray you have a healthy pregnancy ❤️
there's something so...*soothing* about watching you do your makeup. Also you look like a pretty mermaid!
Whattt I thought you had your face makeup in the beginning
Por favor haz un vídeo en español soy de Puerto Rico y me encanta tu canal! Muchas bendiciones 😙
Hey Desi! For your makeup tutorial in spanish I'd love for you to do a simple day to night look using neutral colors explaining what each step does. My mom has been getting into makeup aince she sees me doing mine and you would be the perfect youtuber to show her. (She doesn't understand much English and I would rather have a pro explaining what each step does instead of me lol). Love you!
I totally feel you about the pregnancy topic! My husband and I have tried for like 3 years and people were always insensitive about it...like they don’t get it! But thank God it seems like we’re finally getting that blessing we’ve been waiting for and at perfect timing🤗 love you Desi!!
I love your videos your honesty, your skills. Just you, you’re so sweet!
OHHHHH IM PUMPED FOR THE SPANISH VIDEO YESSSSS
You talking about the pregnancy part hits so damn close to home, my fiancé & I lost a baby last February and people always ask when are you guys gonna try again and stuff like that and it makes me so damn uncomfortable...like people I LOST my child, being pregnant again scares the shit outta me. When did people lose their manners and start asking things like that ):
Girl u know I’ll still b watching your tutorial in Spanish even tho I don’t understand a word! It’s all in the visual 😍🐓
You and Steven would be amazing parents whenever you’re ready and whenever it’s meant to happen!! Love you so much❣️❣️
I agree with you about pregnancy, people need to take a step back and realise it’s such a personal topic and for some people it’s not as easy as others! Every single body is different ❤️
That beauty blender squish was way more aggressive than I was expecting. 😂
phamabam 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
GIRL... I was mid ordering the the drive thru at whataburger and I saw this a screamed hell YES and they lady thought I was crazy IDK... I’m a happy girl got my whataburger and a new desi video!! 💕💕
You put it so well. I have been married for 5 years and since before my husband and I got married everyone would ask when are you getting pregnant. Its a pretty sensitive subject because it hasn’t really happened for us. When people people ask me now I either tell them I haven’t been able to get pregnant or we time to ourselves before having kids. I don’t want to make people uncomfortable sometimes so it’s easier to say that but I’m hoping it does happen for us. The pressure doesn’t help
Desi, the more I watch you the more I like you. You're so natural and real and drama free ❣️
I'm always like...is she wearing foundation right now?? or is this her natural skin??
I would die for your skin desi! 😍👏🏼
😭😭😭 You are too sweet!! Thank you.
Could you do a full face foundation, primer, highlight ya know all that? For beginners? Affordable please! With like different tools too! Which is best for what? Beauty blenders, the painter brush, fingers, The stipple brush. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
A techy video would be nice. What equipment you use-cameras, editing, lighting, etc. 😊 Also gives Steven a chance to geek out in front of the camera.
U are def the one who got me using small compact mirrors to do my makeup. Before then i always felt like I needed a big ass mirror lol
AlanaB Beauty 🙄 same
I'm currently 3 months postpartum and this is the first video I've watched to get me back to my glam self!!!
I feel like so many people haven’t been around long enough to know about the video you made and where you revealed what happened when you had gotten pregnant and it didn’t work out and that’s how you started on instagram. I’m so happy that you’ve created such beautiful art and I agree more people should be sensitive about the subject, especially those who have seen your sadness in that video. I hope God gives you a chance to start a family and everything works out for you. 💖
I feel like the people that constantly always keep asking “when we u getting pregnant, you should get pregnant, ect” are new followers 🐓🐓And it makes me sad because they don’t know what you’ve been through. I’ve been following you for a while now and I just wish people can STOP with the pregnant comments 😏 I love you Desi and I know that when it’s time it’ll be time ❤️ Dios es grande 🙏🏼 😘
Do a video in Spanish with Karen
the only negative thing ima say is ....
I want Desi and Katie and if I don’t get more of you together in videos ... I will probably still watch but be a little frustrated thinking of that .......... hahaaaaa ily both
Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your spanish!! It's great that you can speak even a bit of it, especially since so many people don't have the opportunity to learn the language(s) their parents, grandparents, etc. speak. Language is so hard to learn--be proud!!
Desi Gabriel Zamora did a GRWM video with his mom where they spoke Spanish the entire time and I’m not fluent and it moved me and I thought it was beautiful and the video blew.up. Be proud of your heritage and culture!!! I would love to see a video of you doing your Tia’s makeup and just speaking Spanish 😍😍😍
Yes desi... the pregnant thing! It’s not always are choice! It’s always the same tho from being young. When u getting a partner, when u moving in, when u getting engaged, when u getting married, when u having a baby etc xx
It’s like I’ve been married over two years all my friends have kids since I was like 16 I’ve wanted a baby, when people ask me I’m always like well it’s not always so simple is it!! (I have a problem) holding someday tho xxx
I feel also as Latinos we have so much pressure as women to get married asap and pop a kid out(not saying other people don't go through this but from personal experiences) personally i don't want kids and am highly considering adopting it its possible to do so! Lots of love Desi 💕
I feel this 2x as a Latina-Asian. The pressure is real :((
The Emperor's New Groove is one of my favorite movies and I've watched it a million times. I always do impersonations of characters around the house and my sister always knows what movie they're from too.
Jamie Smith NOT THAT LEVERRRR
I’ve been scrolling through the comments trying to find who else knew Emperors New Groove!!! Haha
You speaking in Spanish is so beautiful, I watched that part over and over!! ILYSM
I love watching these types of videos late at night. It makes me feel relaxed especially because you have a soothing voice and not loud and obnoxious.
I’m so sorry people come at you with all the pregnancy questions all the time. But all I know is you’re gonna make a BEAUTIFUL mother Desi! ❤️ What you’ve been thru you deserve it so much! I hope a beautiful baby comes your way this year! 🙏🏼
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Amen!
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I feel like you and katy would probably end up pregnant at the same time 😂 that’s how me and my best friend are now..
It’s like you don’t have to feel bad bc you both can’t drink and you always have someone to go out to eat with 😂
Me, my sister, and my husbands sister were all pregnant together. Lol
Lmao same thing happened to me 😊
Same thing happened wit me & my sister. I had my daughter first than two weeks later she had her daughter! 😄
that's what happened with my mom and her best friend from middle school! I'm named after her too lol. I've been lifelong friends with Kelli (my mom's friend's daughter) and I couldn't be happier. Best wishes for you and your friend!
I legit love you so much. The way you speak, you are so sweet and genuine. I feel like I connect with you - like you are one of my girls having a conversation with me. Please don't ever stop being an amAzing woman ❤️ thank you for being so inspirational ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Desi connects with us at a more personal level... I genuinely cannot be more happy for any other person about their success in this community than I am when I think of good wishes for Desi 🙄
One of the girls and Katy and everyone else in her life are so lucky, as are we. She gives me hope that not everyone in this world is turning plastic these days LOL 😊
HAPPY NEW YEARS!💛 From a small TH-camR! I’m almost at my goal!
I’m so happy you talked about the pregnancy thing. I was super private with mine in the beginning due to previous miscarriages. So I waited a long time to announce it. People need to be aware of how sensitive this subject is ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, pregnancy is such a sensitive subject. I suffered with infertility for 6 years. At every family gathering I was hounded about having a baby. I know they don’t mean any harm but it always hurt deep inside me. Thankfully we were blessed with an amazing baby boy 3 weeks ago!
You are such an inspiration, Desi. I love you so much! 🇵🇭💕💕💕
Haha Desi. When people ask me if I'm having kids, I just ask if they're going to help with the bills and it generally goes silent after that. :-)
“Love looking like I just ate a bucket of KFC.” 😂😂😂🐓
Love your personality! And thank you for the pregnancy talk, the pressure is unreal! 💕💕
The depth & detail in your videos is on another level from tips and tricks to the brush guide! You literally always teach me something new. I am a beginner and imroving a lot.
Thank you
It’s horrible that a lot of people think it’s okay to talk about pregnancy. Like when did my life, my uterus, and my reproductive system become any of your business? You have to do things in your time. When I got married at 19, almost everyone instantly asked if I was pregnant and when we were having kids. People just don’t know how to leave others alone and mind their own business.
Taylor Wood this comment!!!! I got married at 18 and all we were asked if we were pregnant. Or when.
Such a beautiful face and more importantly a beautiful mind💓
I HAVE MISCARRIED THREE TIMES. With no answer from a Dr or Specialist! I know exactly how you feel about the pressure and I’m sick of it!!! People need to realize they need to stop asking/saying these comments!
We will have our babies one day! So will you! ❤️
Hey girl! I just saw your tutorial, I loved it! I can feel you got back the excitement for making new vids as you used to have some time ago, that passion gets noticed! Please don't let it go away and don't listen the noise , you're such an amazing artist ! Besos from Venezuela
You're skin is so bomb. And giiiiiirrrrllll. Can we talk about how perfect your eyebrows are. You deserve all the success you can get!