My testimony!! I let my TF go after almost 5 yrs!!! It took work!! I can finally stop obsessing over him and I honestly wish him only the best in life. My life have changed drastically in one year after I fully submitted to the process. I no longer have this yearning for this man and I’m so much more aware of things and I’ve learned to let my ego go more and more everyday but it takes work! I was meant to meet this man to make myself better and that is what is happening. I have three wonderful international trips this year, retired from my job and I’m not even 40. I have all the time in the world to be in the present and just continuing to learn more about my soul. Submitting to the process is hard and we will try to fight it but I remember I woke up one day and the heaviness of him went away. If I see him again, wonderful, but I got the gift of seeing myself because of him. I hope he’s happy and working on himself because he needs it but now it’s my time. Good luck everyone!!
@@divinebeldelarosa it’s so hard 😭. Even though I let my TF go I still have mild symptoms of longingness, I don’t think that’s even a real word! You have to challenge your thoughts. Every time I think about him I know it’s the ego mind. I have to remind myself that this journey isn’t about him or being with him, it’s about me. I’m the one with anxiety, stress and sadness, him too maybe 🤷🏽♀️. He entered my life for me to love myself, in loving him I learn to love myself. Feed your soul. I love to travel so I booked a few trips this year and boy does it make my soul happy. I listen to Eckhard Tolle on TY and really take it all in. You mind will want to resist, oh boy, does my mind f me up a lot, but I combat it by inviting all my thoughts and feelings in. I think of it like inviting all my anxiety to dinner. They’re all allowed to sit at the table and I allow myself to feel uncomfortable. The pain is what you need to feel in order to move on. I will likely never see my TF again and it’s painful but I know I will be reunited in another lifetime. For now I will feed and nourish my soul and take care of my needs. It’s never easy and you have to work on it everyday but it’s possible.
I thought that was happening to me I was convinced they were thinking about me (I still am) but she chose an “easier” option (more her age, which was kinda the elephant in the room anyway I’ll be honest she is somewhat younger than me) and now I’m devastated like never known this pain before and getting pretty desperate! Help 🙏
The obsessive thinking is insane!! I find myself going around in circles, I'll go a few days without thinking of him then boom the obsessive thinking is back
Even though I recently discovered that my Twin Flame is in another relationship, I tried to release and forget about her, only to be greeted by synchronicities that instantly reminded me of her. I truly wish her the best but until then, I will focus on my growth and have faith in the divine! 🙏🏻
Yes! whenever I try and get him out of my life,the universe kicks my ass by the sycronicties ,it can be non stop until I back down and accept him totally in me,I was obsessed with a sign I saw 2years ago,I actually made it Wednesday for my kitchen I've sat there looking at it,it's amazing,IT HAS HIS INITIALS in it😳
We are not in each other’s life and I want it to stay that way. He’s a great man and I wish him nothing but the best. I’m married and have kids and it’s been a long journey to be able to get to this point. I came here because I get frustrated when out of nowhere he appears in my dream, and those things and feelings from the past come flooding back. I woke up from that to then see the notification for this video. Does anyone else go through this where you feel like you’ve done enough, you’re in a good place and then bam - you just had to have a dream about them. It was a nice interaction but it feels frustrating that it seems it’ll always be like this
I get random feelings and dream of him often. I feel it’s our way of communicating but it’s hard. I get in my feelings and I have to remind myself that it’s not about him, it’s about me. I know I won’t get him this lifetime and I’ve made peace with it. I can finally see pictures of him without breaking down. It takes work to constantly mentally remind yourself but it can be done. Focus on now and distract yourself with your family, find gratitude in everything. ❤️
@@MPD_dogmom resonate with what you’re saying and that helps knowing others are in this same boat, making peace with it all but still dealing with the struggle at times of this connection. Thank you for sharing x
Once I realized I had a spiritual awakening, that was enough for me. Although I experienced the obsessive thinking about her, I honestly felt more connected to my higher power and life in general. There's more joy than before, and even though I still see her and we talk from time to time, I'm perfectly fine not being with her. She has her own life and mind, as do I, and I hope other's going through this realize how lucky they are to have had a spiritual awakening. I personally have found a strong sense of peace, and I don't remember the last time I had anxiety, even while thinking of her. Once I started watching Eckart Tolle, Sadhguru and other spiritualists and their views on life and conscientiousness, my focus shifted. It was that easy.
Finally letting go after 13 years of this crazy journey. I don't want him anymore and I don't need that person, he is my soul and I'm good. I understand that our energies will always stay together and our physical persons will be living their lives separately. He is happy with his soulmate, I am happy with my husband. Feeling at peace.
I have diagnosed OCD and the obsessive thinking was exponentially more intense than my “naturally” occurring obsessive thoughts to the point that I could hardly function. Your explanation of how “it’s like it’s happening TO YOU” is SO accurate. •side note• As someone who has died and was brought back to life, hearing the things you explain about ancient zen spiritualism COMPLETELY explains what I experienced when I died P.S. Yes, I did remain conscious even though I stopped breathing, my heart stopped, and I lost all brain activity P.S.S. There’s a legitimate medical study that proves that people remain conscious after death that I think was published in or around November 2021
I suffer with OCD and it makes this journey much more difficult. I will overthink and I tell myself get out of your mind!! Stop thinking! 😂😅 let it go! Let it go! Interesting what you experienced…. After my Hubby passed in his sleep… at the funeral home I touched his hand and got an electrical feeling that went to the middle of my back. I insisted to the funeral dude that he is still alive. He said it is impossible… no blood in veins. That area of my back itches a lot now. And he reaches out to me quite a bit with blinking lights, birds, feathers, songs, pennies….Freaks me out. This whole journey freaks me out 😬🤯🥴😅
This is a new perspective and the only thing we as a group can do is document and with truly honest research we can have a true pathway to guide us all
I surrendered about 6 months after separation (1 year after meeting; soul recognition) I'd like to think my whole process was fast tracked. This week one year ago was the week I met my Twin, and here I am happy and in a relationship with my soulmate 😊 there is happiness on the other side when you focus on your soul and your spiritual journey, that's it! I couldn't have done it without Kurt!!!! 💜
I have this problem, I don’t know if he is my twin flame or what but he left 14 months ago and lives in my head rent free. It’s so miserable that I’ve often thought about taking my life just to make it stop! Nothing has worked l have been in therapy, seen a reiki, did cord cutting, spiritual baths, meditation, you name it… Every single day I claim out loud that I pull my energy from him yet he still here.. 😢 Meanwhile he is moving in his girlfriend he left me for over a year ago. He is happy. I’m happy for him. But I can’t get him out of my damn head…
Over three years now and not for one second has she left my mind…. She is getting on with her life and so am I in separation but the thought of just her never leaves. It does my head in I don’t want too get bk in union. Thanks for the message ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Interesting... in another sense, regarding some of the other channels on here that talk/"teach" about identifying our twin flame (exactly as you pointed out) claiming we know we've met ours -- it's the feeling of home; they're so much like me; etc.. But the one thing (I'm discovering after finding you and watching 5 or 6 vids now) is that too many tarot readers or other producers of spiritual content are turning us into TF-repellent. They show us how to do the exact opposite of what we oughta be doin. Including: the importance of talking to our spirit guides or angels; manifesting our TFs back into our lives; etc. Daily they read our spreads and inform us TF regrets not committing or that they will return this week, next month or two. Everything to make sure we give 'em free, unlimited space in our brains... Run, Twin Flame, RUN!!!
Most people confuse karmic relationships with Twin flame relationships. I've been in a karmic contract where I just couldn't stop thinking about the other person, was very drawn to them, obssessed over them and couldn't get them out of my head. He ghosted me and it was worse. I've been in relationships before but this was so new to me and back then, I didn't even have the guidance. It took me 3 years to get over it. Now that I'm much more intuitive, I know that he was a karmic. If Twin flames really are one soul, two bodies, then letting them go would be letting go of a part of yourself. When we are trying so hard to surrender or let go, it is still attracting a lot of trying and struggle according to the Law of Attraction. The easiest way I know and what helped me is to know yourself, go within, shed light on the shadow parts of yourself, focus on your well-being and goals, what you want from your partner, the relationship you want and how you would like to be treated. All that love will ultimately come back to you. Wake up everyday and say to yourself in the mirror, I love you. I wish for nothing but the best for you. For the other person, say, I'm happy with or without you. I'm doing well. But, you can't pretend. You have to mean it!
Haha! I think I manifested this video because I was asking myself this very question today even when I keep myself busy he pops up in my head! Thanks Kurt 💕
I think that I get it now. It’s like meeting yourself in another multiverse. Meeting yourself in another’s persons body with another personality’s sound like line a creepy sci-fi story, but now I get that’s how you should start seeing the twinflame journey. I think if we started seeing it this way we would stop romantacizing it so much and just start seeing it as a quantum espiritual physical experience.
All I can say now is God bless my soul ❤there’s no need to feel sad anymore just because the other body of my soul is not around,you’re so damn right about the obsessive thinking,yeah like you mentioned before like the drug addicts! Is crazy!
You’ll never get them in an obsessive state. Bc of the law of detachment. It’s hard to stay away but it’s best to find them once you do the inner work and soul work. I’ve had so much trauma that I had to balance my chakras, work with a spiritual healer, and am now doing the soul work that is suggested here. Although through the love vibration I was able to manifest my hearts desires (physical transformation) I wasn’t able to manifest my two flame while obsessed bc obsession creates resistance. I’m glad I am doing the soul work now.
It's been over 2 years, and although I'm in a realtionship with a soulmate, every DAY, my other self's physical image/memories of the Time we spent together, comes into my mind. I've gotten to the place I don't focus on it, but admittedly, it's like it's happening to me, and the mind reel just keeps going!
Wow I’m Soo Blown Aaway By This Information!! I’ve Been Suffering And Didnt Understand Why I Can’t Stop Thinking About Him and Obsessively Been Watching Taro Readings! I Feel SO Relieved to Hear This Information! Thankyou Sooo Much I’ll Be Following ♥️
My twin flame has been coming in and out of my life for the past 3 years since we first met. Im more aware of the connection and recently hes just came back into my life after i have left a relationship. I feel like im more the runner in this dynamic but have changed to chasing. Only now have realised my energy and have withdrawn that and wanting to put that into my own healing journey. Hes been telling me hes been thinking about me everyday, and has been stalking my socials (ive blocked him on every platform) and now im starting to think about him everyday. Its annoying cause i want to let him go😢
I had a great example of the push pull of thinking happen to me. The other night I thought to myself, let go of him, stop thinking that he is going to message me or waiting for him to message me every night. So I just let go of the idea of him messaging me because he never does message me so what would be different tonight. Completely let it go in that moment. When I next looked at my phone he had messaged me. So weird. The moment I let go waiting for him, he then contacts me.
They know when you've shifted your focus, your energy off of them and onto something else, so if they're running they suddenly stop and say hey! Why aren't they they chasing me anymore which can trigger their Awakenings
I definitely understand everything that you say. This is honestly my first spiritual experience in my life so I had to do a lot of research to get to this. You do make a lot of sense and are the best I’ve seen. I just keep thinking of the concept of twin flames in general. So I came up with this theory now hear me out.. if we are one soul in two bodies how come one body or (one half of the soul) is experiencing these signs like dark night of the soul, excessive thinking, ect but the other half of the souls experience nothing. So I begin to dig into it more and I truly think that the DF has to work from the inside out and the DM works from the outside in hints why they usually turn to a third party to fill the same void that the DF feels does. And they keep themselves busy with friends and work to keep their mind of if the other so there not obsessing like the other is. They also receive signs but they are to caught in the ego to them. Because to say one half of the same soul feels nothing doesn’t make sense Again just a theory lmk what you think
Let me tell you what's going on, let me tell why the other half of the soul experiences the symptoms, the purpose of this whole thing is so that the soul can "grow" or awaken, so the soul already incarnated as 2 bodies, in order for the soul to awaken it needs some form of a trigger to do that, a trigger could be anything, death of a loved one, loss, illness, so in this case the soul chose to go a direct experience between you and your twin as a form of trigger , one twin must be a sacrificial lamb for an awakening to happen and the other twin must help to spark a trigger that's how it is, if both twins were to experience ego death, then this awakening would not be possible or useless because, if both twins were obsessing over each other, who will lead the awakening, think about this🤔, Would it make sense? Of course not , that's the reason why one twin must sacrifice for a awakening and the other must help to spark an awakening, DM must initiate and DF must lead , the more DF focuses on DM , the more the awakening get delay or hinders growth of consciousness, thats the reason why the DM keeps running over and over because the awakening had to be fulfilled, if DF keeps on obsessing on DM ,the the slower the growth and the pain( dark night of the soul) keeps on hunting the DF up until DF do the right thing, the DM already done the job( initiating the awakening ) and the DF must lead the awakening, if DF denies to lead the awakening by continuing to make the DF the goal, the dark night of the soul shall hunt him or her until the awakening is fulfilled by force
It's one complete soul there is no "half of the soul." The one that awakens is the one that remembers who they are. One is the trigger and the other is the one that awakens in a mental sense. It gets complicated trying to "understand" with the mind. It's also duality, one is the trigger and the other is waking up, a lot like the Yin and Yang or DF and DM. Our bodies and minds are different but the soul is the same one; one soul. Isn't it also a separation mentality to see the soul as half and not one. But we have an inner knowing this is soul stuff. To add to this, you are still thinking with the mind and the mind loves to ask questions and it comes up with thought forms and theories.
He is right about the push and pull and to stop the obsessive thinking and get out of separation consciousness bc you are never separate but trust me they are thinking about you just as much.
His always in my head but it’s now not obsessive, more like his my best friend and I wonder how he is etc, and his always growing in my heart.. His married and I don’t interfere with that but that’s a whole other story.. I stopped messaging him awhile back and he has messaged me twice since which has surprised me.. I don’t hold any expectations anymore. I’m so blessed to have met him, I’ve grown and learnt so much since meeting him.. His definitely the male version of myself and it’s pretty cool 😎 if we are meant to be we will be..
Oh boy. As much as I wish this would have found me years ago, I trust that it found me at the exact time I was ready to receive this message. Needed this. Hell yeah. Game changer!!! Thank you!!!
Thank you.. I had no idea what a twin flame was. I am going through a breakup and I have been so overwhelmed with thoughts and feelings for him. It's not like me. We haven't known each other 6 months. It's all comes together and just feels right. The only person I said with no thought that I was going to marry him. I just know.
Good morning so I'm driving to work today and I'm looking for a tarot card readings listen to while I'm going to work. And I come across one of your tarot readings and I say to myself I don't want to listen to Kirk today because all he's going to say is this has nothing to do with the person this is your spiritual awakening an instantly I realize what I just said and I'm excited to say that yes this is my Spiritual Awakening and it has nothing to do with the person thanks Kurt
I think we can’t truly let them go unless we are not letting go of who we truly are. If we see ourselves as those who are letting their TF go,then it is still our ego identification which is the cause of separation reflected outside of us. Everything begins and ends within us. We as a soul would never let them go. It is still the illusion of the mind.✨
Very well said! We never truly let them go, on a soul level it's impossible and we shouldn't try to. That only made me sick every time. And if we dream about them, that shouldn't be a disturbance either from this point of view. It's more a reminder and a way of contacting. This must not raise expectations. I used to mix this up a lot with wanting to have him somehow in my life or wanting to have some kind of real contact. That's a whole other plane and many of us don't unite physically in this lifetime and we don't need to. By the way in the video it's told that we're or were the only ones who were obsessing, but my counterpart was just as much obsessing and he still is.
So true...my TF lives near me, he tries to conversate but I just smile & walk off fast as if I'm in hurry. He always looks so confused like a lost puppy dog but the energy between us is something I've never experienced. It's as if he stares at me like he knows me & my soul jumps with joy everytime I see him, which makes me think wtf is wrong with me???? I recently went out with a guy in hopes of a deep connection like what experienced but nope nothing on my end but he likes me... all I keep thinking about is this TF. Here I am searching feelings I can't describe & stumbled up this TF phenomenon. Will I ever had the courage to conversate back? At this point I'm insecure about a connection this deep!
@@winninginlife hey man, life is short. I really think you should go for it. He could die tomorrow and you would be left feeling the pain of their absence. Don’t be scared, fear is only holding you back. It’s NOT your friend.
we’ve been in and out of each other’s lives for almost 20 years and he is the negatively polarized one for sure. We found each other again after i said i was going to forget about him and i went to the clubs looking for someone else and there he was. we hung out and talked for about a month. it was like we were reflecting back on each other different wounds and desires, very interwoven. I planned this whole beautiful day at the aquarium and i thought we had a good time but then he disappeared the next day, haven’t seen him in like a month now…i just realized this is what it was, now i’m letting go see what happens. It was very pseudo romantic but nothing sexual happened. Very bizarre experience. Everytime we are together ppl think we are dating, husbands etc, like we are complete, but he doesn’t admit he’s attracted to me in some fashion so i’m stopping the obsessive thinking and seeing what’s best for this physical body or whatever. 😅 i almost always see him first from a far in random places and i always have the thought should i approach?! when i do approach he almost always has something he needs my assistance with, then he reflects back at me something i need to work on in myself. it’s very crazy.
I’m convinced now I met my twin. It triggered a dark night of the soul, he’s the runner, I turned into an anxious little bee I hadn’t experienced ever. I have tried to cord cut 3 times because I keep thinking it’s a trauma bond. I’ve done so much work around him and Still, he is on my mind so much it’s making me angry.
@simoneevans6824 I’m not in a position to take any courses people offer so I’m self teaching. I learned you can’t cut cords for TF which is what makes me think he actually is. It’s so annoying.
It happened to me , on November 18th 2022 ,met a woman at my work place and she was a security guard that was hired for covid purposes at my hospital and when we looked into each other's eyes it started instantly, I had no idea what I was going through, but videos like yours is giving me insight on my spiritual awakening and my twin flame journey, everything your taking about I'm going through it all....
My experience is almost like yours Kurt but this thinking is different. Maybe he doesn't think about me but he looks every my story on social. Two years we met, one year without taking except wishes for birthday. I once put 10 picture to see and he was only one who looked them all till last one.😊
It's been over 12 years since I broke my twin flames heart. 😩 I didn't mean to he would have been my first boyfriend and he asked me in front of his family and I got embarrassed and told him no. Fast foward through the years he has been within his current girlfriend shortly after that which will be about 11 years now. They have 2 children and heard he suppose to be getting married soon. My heart is broken 💔 but I'm engaged and love my fiance but my heart still beats for that one particular ex. Everytime we see eachother its like the world stand still and we still act like two teenagers lovers. We only spoke about 3 times in that 12 year period. But it's crazy everything I listen to , everything I see think or breathe I think of him. I miss and love him still to this day but its not healthy 😔
Your videos have been very helpful, I think I have met this person accidentally and I think we did realize it but could not believe it, but we kept getting drawn to each other even when we live in opposite land on the world and top, to that he tried to Con me but I knew and its hurting badly.
I got out of the obsessive thinking, I am living in the present, I let go of my ego, I am wishing my tf the best, I met a soulmate, we are in a relationship for about a year. He really makes me happy. He is everything I asked for. Recently my tf messaged me again. He send me money with a message since I blocked him everywhere. It was the only way to get to me. I didn’t reply, I just ignored it. I found out he has been telling bad rumors about me. People I used to call my friends blocked me on social media because of the rumors. Don’t know what to do. My tf haunts me and speaks bad about me even tho we haven’t been in contact for two years I know I shouldn’t be triggered by this. But it’s been hard
@@corelltemple2939 that’s ok if you are surrendering. Kourt said it’s my choice if I want to be with them, or with a soulmate, or even alone. It’s my choice. This is the first time I have left a comment about my tf. I came out of the obsessive thinking. I heard about the rumors he has spread about me. I was wondering if someone else has experience about that with their tf. So I was „rambling“ It was very hurtful and it triggered me in some way. He is engaged with someone else. Still spreading rumors with his fiancé even tho we haven’t been in contact for over two years. I know I shouldn’t talk about my tf. I am creating the life I want. Being with my tf isn’t the goal. It’s the BEING. We are already one. We aren’t separated. Like kourt said it’s about being which results in feeling better. I am trying my best to be present. Living a healthy lifestyle. Trust me I am not running away, but I know if I would respond to his messages rn he would run away again. I had the knowing he would come back and he did. I am trusting my intuition. And this is my opinion.
somedays are `worse` than other days.. and as time goes on its been less.. like i still cant top thinking about him.. but its less intense then when he just ``left`` me. though i have written down all the negative things my brain... or mind has been telling me.. and burned that paper.. is that a good thing? it helped me release all those things...
I accidentally saw a video. It was a tarot reading saying that I will meet my twin flame after a month and I started to see the number 11:11 for the first time in my life, I went and read about what the twin flame means. Show me that the other pole of me. I am a female, so I thought my twins would be a boy. After a month, I met a girl and I loved her very much, but I did not expect that she would be my twin, because the twin must be male. When I met her, my life changed. I left religion because of her, because she made me know love, and I saw that love is religion, so I became a non-religious person, who derives his teachings from his heart. But after a year, she only spoke to me every two months or more, and without telling me the reason..I started thinking about her obsessively and watching tarot videos a lot...but 5 months ago, I saw the number 17 in the conversation between us on Telegram, and I started seeing the number 17 wherever I went. In Tarot videos, they say that she is my twin flame, so I started watching your videos to help me, but I don't know if she is my twin or not? But this is not important, as your words apply to all relationships. Obsessive thinking is attachment in reality, and this happens in other relationships as well. In addition, your words help a lot in spiritual awakening, and this is what is important.
I met someone from another part of the world nearly 50 years ago - it didn't last long&ended badly. I still think of this person, could this person be a twin flame? It's a mixture of love+hate for this person. Thank you.
My twin was desperately and I mean desperately trying to get me, but I didn’t care and I split. We’ve been in separation about 8 months and I’m obsessively thinking of her. So I guess the chaser/runner dynamic has switched.
@@ZazzyGee social media has literally killed multiple generations of real HUMANS. How are they even looking that 3D BS? It’s all fake. He’ll know exactly what he lost but right now he’s choosing low vibe so he doesn’t have to change. His problem not mine
I get more done just not concerning myself with his actions- I’m with him in my reality ❤ I like to laugh at him because he laughs along every time he checks back in or whatever he is doing 😂
One thing that both my soul mate and my twin flame possess and that is an insane amount of obsessiveness It comes off in the form of urgency. However there is no doubt that my twin flame's thoughts are very powerful. I get a brake because my twin is focused on many people so I am not always in my twin flames sites. I do know when I am. By the way I have always felt that I am the only one and for reasons of my past experience my existence never ends. It really dose not matter that a physical being is running away from me here. However I would like to know what messages I left myself to hear in this realm. c];-)
If this works both ways, that means when he focuses on me, I focus on anything but him? When he pushes, I pull away? So how can twin flames live together in harmony? Thank you for your answer Kurt.
I dont know if he is a twin flame. But I have the obsessive thoughts and its been 13 years since I had a realisation of unconditional love. But my energy was too much and he ran away and we grew apart. Now I have dreams with him in it, of us just hanging out. Sometimes I don't even plan to think about him but when I remember I get into a painful obsession and I want the cycle to end 😫
I catched her thoughts, that's what confuses me. I take her thoughts for mine... and then i do things that are actually her plans (e.g. clearing because she s moving) What are my plans ? The same, will i decide to move as well because of that? My soul does not care aboit that... Just loving it all.
I don’t understand how you said at the beginning we know we’ve met our twin flame by obsessive thinking but then one of the flames isn’t thinking about them.
So my question is how did we find each other with a billion people in this world? Where we magnetized to each other? Do I have more then one twin flame? Is finding your twin flame very rare? Please I need to know😊
I can only speak for my experience, which is that I had never heard of Twin Flames before I met mine. It was the overwhelming side effects that led me to furiously search the internet to explain what was happening to me. Astrology couldn't help, but it was a door, because one site mentioned that common twin flame matchups in astrology are Cancer and Capricorn. That's when the lightbulb went off and I finally had a title for the phenomenon. I've heard often that you meet your twin later in life and it's quite normal that both of you are in other relationships when it happens. I think meeting him in my 40s added to the mysteriousness because I have had plenty of crushes, obsessions, and was married when I met him. I had plenty of life experience to compare the twin flame experience to and nothing matched it. This is not something I'd wish for a person, because although the unconditional love is profound, if you can't share it with your Twin, it feels hopeless.
This is a divine orchestration, wether you were aware of it or not it was going to happen anyway, it was not a coincidence, you were meant to meet this person at the right time, no mistakes at all, the soul chose to go through this experience of awakening this "life time". Before you were born, the divine already knew that this meeting was going to happen , since there is no such thing as time
So when we release them, are we not abandoning ourselves as well? Or are we just making space for us to fill up the rest of our soul without them coming forward...🤔 hmmm He definitely triggered my Ascension process LOL back in 2020, could possibly just be a soulmate catalyst...
We can learn from everybody if we are willing. Some give us important life lessons to go deeper others just like to push buttons and challenge us. The harder you try to understand, do or acting obsessed/insane (victim mentality)... think logically it creates a opposite dynamic. I've seen it in my personal life on different levels. Not to label people or dynamics but it's so sad actually... Learn to give less fucks & be more appreciative towards the people who are making baby steps efforts to keep you in their lives. Switched from empathy to sympathy with healthy boundaries, I hope it doesn't make me a bad person! 😜 I just don't need the push/pull dynamics which is based on borderline (feminine energy) & (masculine energy) narcistic. I don't want any of it 💯😁 Does this make me a syzygy 😂? Excuse me for my psychological talk... Still love your teachings on being and Samadhi, it's the ultimate blissful state of consciousness!
Exactly It is happening to me ....I can't stop this .... exactly I ask this wats happening with me ,n it happened for the first time with me ... I don't even like that person at first 😂 but now idk wat happened 😑
I have a question... After your TF is in permanent union with you, do you still practice this awareness of being? Is it like now you focus on her, she tends to pull away ?
So in my case, I haven't met my twin on this physical plane. Though he has certainly let himself be known through reoccurring dreams (on a subconscious level) with the things he's said and expressed to me. Now I am constantly reminded of him though signs, music and imagery. Is it just really me talking to myself on the phone, hearing my own echo. Or is this smartass now playing games with me, lol. Well I am not competitive.. That's duality I suppose. Is that why they say opposites attract?.. as they are truly one.
But what if they are chasing you and thinking about you just as much as you are thinking about them? Can it work from the get go? Like I'd be thinking about him, and then I'd immediately get a text saying "can't stop thinking of you". This has been going on for so long. What do you know, he just texted me now lol saying he misses me. Honestly I think I was the runner more times than not.. but.. because I've learned to follow my heart and not my head, I've found I can accept it. All of it. I've grown so much in my life. Maybe we are ready.
Yea i freaking hate it, im a scorpio so i dont commit or attach.....frightening the crap out me.....its making me uncomfortable and out of control of my emotions and no man has ever done that to me....Whats worse is hes a male version of myself 😫 its so messed up 🤯😖
Yes it is true. It was at a low level for the past few days, but it has increased since yesterday. I don't understand how to control this obsessive thinking. My headaches are also caused by these things. When I feel like he's reminding me, I feel my body suddenly heat up. Does anyone have this kind of experience..? 🤔🤔
If this theory is true, or weather it's demons of lust....either way it's insane! I'm done! I'm not accepting anything less than what I deserve and def not sleeping with someone who's gonna bounce on me! I know better! It's to intense to delve all the way if the other is not even awake to this concept! Or love for that matter! We have the missing key but they are afraid so take that fear somewhere else. If it's a twin I'll meet him again. And that ain't the first time I met him either. Weird shit but you can keep all this bs
Hi, is anybody in the same situation like us? I"m the Yin conscious of the TF link and my Other Self is the Yang who is running! It seems to be more current situation nowadays but the question is... If the yang emitting energy runs, is thete achance of his returning? He doesn't probably need my energy? Well, hope you got the sense... Thank you in advance for your comments. If Kurt can respond, that'll be really great! Have a nice year and sorry for my English. 😊
So I should just keep going on with my life and my 3d goals and not let these obsessive thoughts and desires of being in a relationship with him crawl back in my mind and then he will start initiating more contact, etc. ? Although I dont even know if I'm the runner or the chaser because I am obsessing over him now (after he got back in my life and ran again) but I never initiated contact with him and am actively avoiding him when he is contacting me. Also when something more is about to happen I distance myself and run immediately while at the same time wanting to be with him. We were in separation for 6 years when he reached out this year. For these 6 years I wanted to contact him so so bad but I don't know how I found this strenght in me to not say a word to him.
It’s been a year already, I am the DF, I know I have to love my self, I know we are one but why he keeps popping on my head! I really want it to stop!!! I’ve being doing activities and try to get busy as possible but he keeps popping in my head 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am starting to hate this!!! This have never happened to me before!!!!! I can’t find more things to try to stop thinking of him!!!
My testimony!! I let my TF go after almost 5 yrs!!! It took work!! I can finally stop obsessing over him and I honestly wish him only the best in life. My life have changed drastically in one year after I fully submitted to the process. I no longer have this yearning for this man and I’m so much more aware of things and I’ve learned to let my ego go more and more everyday but it takes work! I was meant to meet this man to make myself better and that is what is happening. I have three wonderful international trips this year, retired from my job and I’m not even 40. I have all the time in the world to be in the present and just continuing to learn more about my soul. Submitting to the process is hard and we will try to fight it but I remember I woke up one day and the heaviness of him went away. If I see him again, wonderful, but I got the gift of seeing myself because of him. I hope he’s happy and working on himself because he needs it but now it’s my time. Good luck everyone!!
So beautifull 💓
That is what I'm going for and yea its super hard
Happy for you
How did you do it?
@@divinebeldelarosa it’s so hard 😭. Even though I let my TF go I still have mild symptoms of longingness, I don’t think that’s even a real word! You have to challenge your thoughts. Every time I think about him I know it’s the ego mind. I have to remind myself that this journey isn’t about him or being with him, it’s about me. I’m the one with anxiety, stress and sadness, him too maybe 🤷🏽♀️. He entered my life for me to love myself, in loving him I learn to love myself. Feed your soul. I love to travel so I booked a few trips this year and boy does it make my soul happy. I listen to Eckhard Tolle on TY and really take it all in. You mind will want to resist, oh boy, does my mind f me up a lot, but I combat it by inviting all my thoughts and feelings in. I think of it like inviting all my anxiety to dinner. They’re all allowed to sit at the table and I allow myself to feel uncomfortable. The pain is what you need to feel in order to move on. I will likely never see my TF again and it’s painful but I know I will be reunited in another lifetime. For now I will feed and nourish my soul and take care of my needs. It’s never easy and you have to work on it everyday but it’s possible.
We split 27 years ago the road led us back to a beautiful reunion Like we never missed a beat.
That's beautiful 💞
From my experience, the uncontrollable thoughts were the result of my twin also thinking about me.
Interesting! Have they validated this to you?
I wanna knw
I thought that was happening to me I was convinced they were thinking about me (I still am) but she chose an “easier” option (more her age, which was kinda the elephant in the room anyway I’ll be honest she is somewhat younger than me) and now I’m devastated like never known this pain before and getting pretty desperate! Help 🙏
Life ends, obsessive thinking begins. Forces you to investigate why it's happening and then you meet Kurt! Makes it worth the journey 😊
So beyond true lol 😂
It all works out! I’m so happy with who I became and I’m so beautiful and abundant. Baby boy ran cuz he was scared but it’s okay I’m sill happy ❤
Facts on facts 😂
🤣🤣 that’s exactly what happened
Who's kurt?
The obsessive thinking is driving me crazy lately... Im yelling into thin air "LEAVE ME ALONE! I DON'T WANT TO CRY ANYMORE!!!" 🤪
The obsessive thinking is insane!! I find myself going around in circles, I'll go a few days without thinking of him then boom the obsessive thinking is back
I just wish the obsessive thinking would just go away. it feels so unfair..
Even though I recently discovered that my Twin Flame is in another relationship, I tried to release and forget about her, only to be greeted by synchronicities that instantly reminded me of her. I truly wish her the best but until then, I will focus on my growth and have faith in the divine! 🙏🏻
How do you wish them the best?
Yes! whenever I try and get him out of my life,the universe kicks my ass by the sycronicties ,it can be non stop until I back down and accept him totally in me,I was obsessed with a sign I saw 2years ago,I actually made it Wednesday for my kitchen I've sat there looking at it,it's amazing,IT HAS HIS INITIALS in it😳
Same here. My twin flame is in love with someone else. Its definitely hard to get him off my mind but I have been trying so hard
Same here, I had a baby with my twin flame but he rather plays step daddy to his girlfriend’s daughter and ignores us. How do you handle that?
The best thing in this case I realize is to stay celebat till I figure this shit out
We are not in each other’s life and I want it to stay that way. He’s a great man and I wish him nothing but the best. I’m married and have kids and it’s been a long journey to be able to get to this point. I came here because I get frustrated when out of nowhere he appears in my dream, and those things and feelings from the past come flooding back. I woke up from that to then see the notification for this video. Does anyone else go through this where you feel like you’ve done enough, you’re in a good place and then bam - you just had to have a dream about them. It was a nice interaction but it feels frustrating that it seems it’ll always be like this
I get random feelings and dream of him often. I feel it’s our way of communicating but it’s hard. I get in my feelings and I have to remind myself that it’s not about him, it’s about me. I know I won’t get him this lifetime and I’ve made peace with it. I can finally see pictures of him without breaking down. It takes work to constantly mentally remind yourself but it can be done. Focus on now and distract yourself with your family, find gratitude in everything. ❤️
@@MPD_dogmom resonate with what you’re saying and that helps knowing others are in this same boat, making peace with it all but still dealing with the struggle at times of this connection. Thank you for sharing x
Once I realized I had a spiritual awakening, that was enough for me. Although I experienced the obsessive thinking about her, I honestly felt more connected to my higher power and life in general. There's more joy than before, and even though I still see her and we talk from time to time, I'm perfectly fine not being with her. She has her own life and mind, as do I, and I hope other's going through this realize how lucky they are to have had a spiritual awakening. I personally have found a strong sense of peace, and I don't remember the last time I had anxiety, even while thinking of her. Once I started watching Eckart Tolle, Sadhguru and other spiritualists and their views on life and conscientiousness, my focus shifted. It was that easy.
Finally letting go after 13 years of this crazy journey. I don't want him anymore and I don't need that person, he is my soul and I'm good. I understand that our energies will always stay together and our physical persons will be living their lives separately. He is happy with his soulmate, I am happy with my husband. Feeling at peace.
I have diagnosed OCD and the obsessive thinking was exponentially more intense than my “naturally” occurring obsessive thoughts to the point that I could hardly function.
Your explanation of how “it’s like it’s happening TO YOU” is SO accurate.
•side note•
As someone who has died and was brought back to life, hearing the things you explain about ancient zen spiritualism COMPLETELY explains what I experienced when I died
P.S. Yes, I did remain conscious even though I stopped breathing, my heart stopped, and I lost all brain activity
P.S.S. There’s a legitimate medical study that proves that people remain conscious after death that I think was published in or around November 2021
I suffer with OCD and it makes this journey much more difficult. I will overthink and I tell myself get out of your mind!! Stop thinking! 😂😅 let it go! Let it go!
Interesting what you experienced….
After my Hubby passed in his sleep… at the funeral home I touched his hand and got an electrical feeling that went to the middle of my back. I insisted to the funeral dude that he is still alive. He said it is impossible… no blood in veins. That area of my back itches a lot now. And he reaches out to me quite a bit with blinking lights, birds, feathers, songs, pennies….Freaks me out. This whole journey freaks me out 😬🤯🥴😅
I'm glad you're here, you matter! Thx for sharing your testimony 🙏 ❤️
I hope he keeps running. He’s caused me so much pain after pretending to be exactly like me.
This is a new perspective and the only thing we as a group can do is document and with truly honest research we can have a true pathway to guide us all
I surrendered about 6 months after separation (1 year after meeting; soul recognition) I'd like to think my whole process was fast tracked. This week one year ago was the week I met my Twin, and here I am happy and in a relationship with my soulmate 😊 there is happiness on the other side when you focus on your soul and your spiritual journey, that's it! I couldn't have done it without Kurt!!!! 💜
when did you meet your soulmate and how did you know?
Omg I cannot stop thinking about him…. It’s insane….. 😮 my body aches
You explain it very well, which my soul can innerstand. There is a beautiful space behind that open door. Thank you.
I have this problem, I don’t know if he is my twin flame or what but he left 14 months ago and lives in my head rent free. It’s so miserable that I’ve often thought about taking my life just to make it stop! Nothing has worked l have been in therapy, seen a reiki, did cord cutting, spiritual baths, meditation, you name it… Every single day I claim out loud that I pull my energy from him yet he still here.. 😢 Meanwhile he is moving in his girlfriend he left me for over a year ago. He is happy. I’m happy for him. But I can’t get him out of my damn head…
Maybe try Kurt's paid coaching if you can. See if that helps.
I really like your energy and the way you break things down! Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
Over three years now and not for one second has she left my mind…. She is getting on with her life and so am I in separation but the thought of just her never leaves. It does my head in I don’t want too get bk in union. Thanks for the message ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Omg the way you explain it just made my mind explode. Heard it sooo many and never understood until right now that I am not my emotions and thoughts.
Interesting... in another sense, regarding some of the other channels on here that talk/"teach" about identifying our twin flame (exactly as you pointed out) claiming we know we've met ours -- it's the feeling of home; they're so much like me; etc.. But the one thing (I'm discovering after finding you and watching 5 or 6 vids now) is that too many tarot readers or other producers of spiritual content are turning us into TF-repellent. They show us how to do the exact opposite of what we oughta be doin. Including: the importance of talking to our spirit guides or angels; manifesting our TFs back into our lives; etc. Daily they read our spreads and inform us TF regrets not committing or that they will return this week, next month or two. Everything to make sure we give 'em free, unlimited space in our brains...
Run, Twin Flame, RUN!!!
Most people confuse karmic relationships with Twin flame relationships. I've been in a karmic contract where I just couldn't stop thinking about the other person, was very drawn to them, obssessed over them and couldn't get them out of my head. He ghosted me and it was worse. I've been in relationships before but this was so new to me and back then, I didn't even have the guidance. It took me 3 years to get over it. Now that I'm much more intuitive, I know that he was a karmic.
If Twin flames really are one soul, two bodies, then letting them go would be letting go of a part of yourself. When we are trying so hard to surrender or let go, it is still attracting a lot of trying and struggle according to the Law of Attraction. The easiest way I know and what helped me is to know yourself, go within, shed light on the shadow parts of yourself, focus on your well-being and goals, what you want from your partner, the relationship you want and how you would like to be treated. All that love will ultimately come back to you. Wake up everyday and say to yourself in the mirror, I love you. I wish for nothing but the best for you. For the other person, say, I'm happy with or without you. I'm doing well. But, you can't pretend. You have to mean it!
Haha! I think I manifested this video because I was asking myself this very question today even when I keep myself busy he pops up in my head! Thanks Kurt 💕
I think that I get it now. It’s like meeting yourself in another multiverse. Meeting yourself in another’s persons body with another personality’s sound like line a creepy sci-fi story, but now I get that’s how you should start seeing the twinflame journey. I think if we started seeing it this way we would stop romantacizing it so much and just start seeing it as a quantum espiritual physical experience.
All I can say now is God bless my soul ❤there’s no need to feel sad anymore just because the other body of my soul is not around,you’re so damn right about the obsessive thinking,yeah like you mentioned before like the drug addicts! Is crazy!
Obsessive thinking is really incomprehensible, and you are so helpless not to blurt it out to other ,I was agonizing quietly.
BEST EXPLANATION EVER OF TWIN FLAMES. Thank you sooo much
Even after 12 years… it’s insanity.😢
You’ll never get them in an obsessive state. Bc of the law of detachment. It’s hard to stay away but it’s best to find them once you do the inner work and soul work. I’ve had so much trauma that I had to balance my chakras, work with a spiritual healer, and am now doing the soul work that is suggested here. Although through the love vibration I was able to manifest my hearts desires (physical transformation) I wasn’t able to manifest my two flame while obsessed bc obsession creates resistance. I’m glad I am doing the soul work now.
It's been over 2 years, and although I'm in a realtionship with a soulmate, every DAY, my other self's physical image/memories of the Time we spent together, comes into my mind. I've gotten to the place I don't focus on it, but admittedly, it's like it's happening to me, and the mind reel just keeps going!
Oh this video made me smile so much! Exactly what I needed- THANK YOU
Wow I’m Soo Blown Aaway By This Information!!
I’ve Been Suffering And Didnt Understand Why I Can’t Stop Thinking About Him and Obsessively Been Watching Taro Readings!
I Feel SO Relieved to Hear This Information!
Thankyou Sooo Much I’ll Be Following ♥️
My twin flame has been coming in and out of my life for the past 3 years since we first met. Im more aware of the connection and recently hes just came back into my life after i have left a relationship. I feel like im more the runner in this dynamic but have changed to chasing. Only now have realised my energy and have withdrawn that and wanting to put that into my own healing journey. Hes been telling me hes been thinking about me everyday, and has been stalking my socials (ive blocked him on every platform) and now im starting to think about him everyday. Its annoying cause i want to let him go😢
I like your tough love blunt style! 🙏
I had a great example of the push pull of thinking happen to me. The other night I thought to myself, let go of him, stop thinking that he is going to message me or waiting for him to message me every night. So I just let go of the idea of him messaging me because he never does message me so what would be different tonight. Completely let it go in that moment. When I next looked at my phone he had messaged me. So weird. The moment I let go waiting for him, he then contacts me.
Lol yes that is how it works LOL I noticed you had nine likes, that is my number with my twin flame, so it caught my eye
They know when you've shifted your focus, your energy off of them and onto something else, so if they're running they suddenly stop and say hey! Why aren't they they chasing me anymore
which can trigger their Awakenings
I definitely understand everything that you say. This is honestly my first spiritual experience in my life so I had to do a lot of research to get to this. You do make a lot of sense and are the best I’ve seen. I just keep thinking of the concept of twin flames in general. So I came up with this theory now hear me out..
if we are one soul in two bodies how come one body or (one half of the soul) is experiencing these signs like dark night of the soul, excessive thinking, ect but the other half of the souls experience nothing. So I begin to dig into it more and I truly think that the DF has to work from the inside out and the DM works from the outside in hints why they usually turn to a third party to fill the same void that the DF feels does. And they keep themselves busy with friends and work to keep their mind of if the other so there not obsessing like the other is. They also receive signs but they are to caught in the ego to them.
Because to say one half of the same soul feels nothing doesn’t make sense
Again just a theory lmk what you think
Let me tell you what's going on, let me tell why the other half of the soul experiences the symptoms, the purpose of this whole thing is so that the soul can "grow" or awaken, so the soul already incarnated as 2 bodies, in order for the soul to awaken it needs some form of a trigger to do that, a trigger could be anything, death of a loved one, loss, illness, so in this case the soul chose to go a direct experience between you and your twin as a form of trigger , one twin must be a sacrificial lamb for an awakening to happen and the other twin must help to spark a trigger that's how it is, if both twins were to experience ego death, then this awakening would not be possible or useless because, if both twins were obsessing over each other, who will lead the awakening, think about this🤔, Would it make sense? Of course not , that's the reason why one twin must sacrifice for a awakening and the other must help to spark an awakening, DM must initiate and DF must lead , the more DF focuses on DM , the more the awakening get delay or hinders growth of consciousness, thats the reason why the DM keeps running over and over because the awakening had to be fulfilled, if DF keeps on obsessing on DM ,the the slower the growth and the pain( dark night of the soul) keeps on hunting the DF up until DF do the right thing, the DM already done the job( initiating the awakening ) and the DF must lead the awakening, if DF denies to lead the awakening by continuing to make the DF the goal, the dark night of the soul shall hunt him or her until the awakening is fulfilled by force
@@ChangeYourLife1122 Yes!! The job is done & let life begin!
It's one complete soul there is no "half of the soul." The one that awakens is the one that remembers who they are. One is the trigger and the other is the one that awakens in a mental sense. It gets complicated trying to "understand" with the mind. It's also duality, one is the trigger and the other is waking up, a lot like the Yin and Yang or DF and DM. Our bodies and minds are different but the soul is the same one; one soul.
Isn't it also a separation mentality to see the soul as half and not one.
But we have an inner knowing this is soul stuff. To add to this, you are still thinking with the mind and the mind loves to ask questions and it comes up with thought forms and theories.
He is right about the push and pull and to stop the obsessive thinking and get out of separation consciousness bc you are never separate but trust me they are thinking about you just as much.
Thanx for explaining this, my confusion is sorted👍😊
His always in my head but it’s now not obsessive, more like his my best friend and I wonder how he is etc, and his always growing in my heart.. His married and I don’t interfere with that but that’s a whole other story.. I stopped messaging him awhile back and he has messaged me twice since which has surprised me.. I don’t hold any expectations anymore. I’m so blessed to have met him, I’ve grown and learnt so much since meeting him.. His definitely the male version of myself and it’s pretty cool 😎 if we are meant to be we will be..
Oh boy. As much as I wish this would have found me years ago, I trust that it found me at the exact time I was ready to receive this message. Needed this. Hell yeah. Game changer!!! Thank you!!!
Even after they died I still can't get over em !
Thank you.. I had no idea what a twin flame was. I am going through a breakup and I have been so overwhelmed with thoughts and feelings for him. It's not like me. We haven't known each other 6 months. It's all comes together and just feels right. The only person I said with no thought that I was going to marry him. I just know.
Good morning so I'm driving to work today and I'm looking for a tarot card readings listen to while I'm going to work. And I come across one of your tarot readings and I say to myself I don't want to listen to Kirk today because all he's going to say is this has nothing to do with the person this is your spiritual awakening an instantly I realize what I just said and I'm excited to say that yes this is my Spiritual Awakening and it has nothing to do with the person thanks Kurt
I think we can’t truly let them go unless we are not letting go of who we truly are. If we see ourselves as those who are letting their TF go,then it is still our ego identification which is the cause of separation reflected outside of us. Everything begins and ends within us. We as a soul would never let them go. It is still the illusion of the mind.✨
Very well said!
We never truly let them go, on a soul level it's impossible and we shouldn't try to. That only made me sick every time. And if we dream about them, that shouldn't be a disturbance either from this point of view.
It's more a reminder and a way of contacting. This must not raise expectations.
I used to mix this up a lot with wanting to have him somehow in my life or wanting to have some kind of real contact. That's a whole other plane and many of us don't unite physically in this lifetime and we don't need to.
By the way in the video it's told that we're or were the only ones who were obsessing, but my counterpart was just as much obsessing and he still is.
So true...my TF lives near me, he tries to conversate but I just smile & walk off fast as if I'm in hurry. He always looks so confused like a lost puppy dog but the energy between us is something I've never experienced. It's as if he stares at me like he knows me & my soul jumps with joy everytime I see him, which makes me think wtf is wrong with me???? I recently went out with a guy in hopes of a deep connection like what experienced but nope nothing on my end but he likes me... all I keep thinking about is this TF. Here I am searching feelings I can't describe & stumbled up this TF phenomenon. Will I ever had the courage to conversate back? At this point I'm insecure about a connection this deep!
@@winninginlife hey man, life is short. I really think you should go for it. He could die tomorrow and you would be left feeling the pain of their absence. Don’t be scared, fear is only holding you back. It’s NOT your friend.
So the caption says why we can’t stop thinking about each other , but then said u think about them and they don’t think about you.
That is actually on the point...very good explained
we’ve been in and out of each other’s lives for almost 20 years and he is the negatively polarized one for sure. We found each other again after i said i was going to forget about him and i went to the clubs looking for someone else and there he was. we hung out and talked for about a month. it was like we were reflecting back on each other different wounds and desires, very interwoven. I planned this whole beautiful day at the aquarium and i thought we had a good time but then he disappeared the next day, haven’t seen him in like a month now…i just realized this is what it was, now i’m letting go see what happens. It was very pseudo romantic but nothing sexual happened. Very bizarre experience. Everytime we are together ppl think we are dating, husbands etc, like we are complete, but he doesn’t admit he’s attracted to me in some fashion so i’m stopping the obsessive thinking and seeing what’s best for this physical body or whatever. 😅 i almost always see him first from a far in random places and i always have the thought should i approach?! when i do approach he almost always has something he needs my assistance with, then he reflects back at me something i need to work on in myself. it’s very crazy.
I’m convinced now I met my twin. It triggered a dark night of the soul, he’s the runner, I turned into an anxious little bee I hadn’t experienced ever. I have tried to cord cut 3 times because I keep thinking it’s a trauma bond. I’ve done so much work around him and Still, he is on my mind so much it’s making me angry.
@simoneevans6824 I’m not in a position to take any courses people offer so I’m self teaching. I learned you can’t cut cords for TF which is what makes me think he actually is. It’s so annoying.
Yes it's insane!!!
WOW! So True!
Without this person ❤Man it’s so intense
Thank you for spreading such positive energy😘 I learned a lot in these few minutes😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
It happened to me , on November 18th 2022 ,met a woman at my work place and she was a security guard that was hired for covid purposes at my hospital and when we looked into each other's eyes it started instantly, I had no idea what I was going through, but videos like yours is giving me insight on my spiritual awakening and my twin flame journey, everything your taking about I'm going through it all....
And the next day she was transferred to another hospital, never seen her since nov.18 2022...,but can't stop thinking of her all day long ....
Same here. 18 is a special number, at least for me. The date when you meet is not just a coincidence! You will need it later..
When is your birthday?
Soul=desire to do the right thing. I'm studying kabbalah for 20 years.
This is incredible, thank you.
My experience is almost like yours Kurt but this thinking is different. Maybe he doesn't think about me but he looks every my story on social. Two years we met, one year without taking except wishes for birthday. I once put 10 picture to see and he was only one who looked them all till last one.😊
It's been over 12 years since I broke my twin flames heart. 😩 I didn't mean to he would have been my first boyfriend and he asked me in front of his family and I got embarrassed and told him no.
Fast foward through the years he has been within his current girlfriend shortly after that which will be about 11 years now. They have 2 children and heard he suppose to be getting married soon.
My heart is broken 💔 but I'm engaged and love my fiance but my heart still beats for that one particular ex.
Everytime we see eachother its like the world stand still and we still act like two teenagers lovers. We only spoke about 3 times in that 12 year period. But it's crazy everything I listen to , everything I see think or breathe I think of him. I miss and love him still to this day but its not healthy 😔
It all works out! I’m so happy with who I became and I’m so beautiful and abundant. Baby boy ran cuz he was scared but it’s okay I’m sill happy ❤
I wanna meet him again, but im so scared that i even start running myself
Your videos have been very helpful, I think I have met this person accidentally and I think we did realize it but could not believe it, but we kept getting drawn to each other even when we live in opposite land on the world and top, to that he tried to Con me but I knew and its hurting badly.
In the beginning when you said they just don’t give af that’s funny 😂😂😂 like why
And they come back when we start to not give a fuck about them 😂makes sense
beaultifulllll
I am tired Kurt!! 😂
Please help shut these thoughts down.
When I make an effort not to think during the day, I have very lucid dreams at night. There's nowhere to run. 😢
you opened my eyes.. thank you so much..
I got out of the obsessive thinking, I am living in the present, I let go of my ego, I am wishing my tf the best, I met a soulmate, we are in a relationship for about a year. He really makes me happy. He is everything I asked for.
Recently my tf messaged me again. He send me money with a message since I blocked him everywhere. It was the only way to get to me. I didn’t reply, I just ignored it. I found out he has been telling bad rumors about me. People I used to call my friends blocked me on social media because of the rumors. Don’t know what to do. My tf haunts me and speaks bad about me even tho we haven’t been in contact for two years
I know I shouldn’t be triggered by this. But it’s been hard
@@corelltemple2939 that’s ok if you are surrendering. Kourt said it’s my choice if I want to be with them, or with a soulmate, or even alone. It’s my choice. This is the first time I have left a comment about my tf. I came out of the obsessive thinking. I heard about the rumors he has spread about me. I was wondering if someone else has experience about that with their tf. So I was „rambling“ It was very hurtful and it triggered me in some way. He is engaged with someone else. Still spreading rumors with his fiancé even tho we haven’t been in contact for over two years. I know I shouldn’t talk about my tf. I am creating the life I want. Being with my tf isn’t the goal. It’s the BEING. We are already one. We aren’t separated. Like kourt said it’s about being which results in feeling better. I am trying my best to be present. Living a healthy lifestyle. Trust me I am not running away, but I know if I would respond to his messages rn he would run away again. I had the knowing he would come back and he did. I am trusting my intuition. And this is my opinion.
somedays are `worse` than other days.. and as time goes on its been less.. like i still cant top thinking about him.. but its less intense then when he just ``left`` me.
though i have written down all the negative things my brain... or mind has been telling me.. and burned that paper.. is that a good thing?
it helped me release all those things...
I'm always thinking of him it drives me up the wall🤣
I accidentally saw a video. It was a tarot reading saying that I will meet my twin flame after a month and I started to see the number 11:11 for the first time in my life, I went and read about what the twin flame means. Show me that the other pole of me. I am a female, so I thought my twins would be a boy.
After a month, I met a girl and I loved her very much, but I did not expect that she would be my twin, because the twin must be male.
When I met her, my life changed. I left religion because of her, because she made me know love, and I saw that love is religion, so I became a non-religious person, who derives his teachings from his heart. But after a year, she only spoke to me every two months or more, and without telling me the reason..I started thinking about her obsessively and watching tarot videos a lot...but 5 months ago, I saw the number 17 in the conversation between us on Telegram, and I started seeing the number 17 wherever I went. In Tarot videos, they say that she is my twin flame, so I started watching your videos to help me, but I don't know if she is my twin or not? But this is not important, as your words apply to all relationships. Obsessive thinking is attachment in reality, and this happens in other relationships as well. In addition, your words help a lot in spiritual awakening, and this is what is important.
Thank you for sharing. She can be a female body too.
I met someone from another part of the world nearly 50 years ago - it didn't last long&ended badly. I still think of this person, could this person be a twin flame? It's a mixture of love+hate for this person. Thank you.
My twin was desperately and I mean desperately trying to get me, but I didn’t care and I split. We’ve been in separation about 8 months and I’m obsessively thinking of her. So I guess the chaser/runner dynamic has switched.
Even though he’s being a huge jerk, he’s still thinking about me? I doubt it. He seems to be just fine flirting all over social media again 🤣🤣
😂🤣right. The men these days and the hookup sites.
@@ZazzyGee social media has literally killed multiple generations of real HUMANS. How are they even looking that 3D BS? It’s all fake. He’ll know exactly what he lost but right now he’s choosing low vibe so he doesn’t have to change. His problem not mine
I get more done just not concerning myself with his actions- I’m with him in my reality ❤ I like to laugh at him because he laughs along every time he checks back in or whatever he is doing 😂
One thing that both my soul mate and my twin flame possess and that is an insane amount of obsessiveness It comes off in the form of urgency. However there is no doubt that my twin flame's thoughts are very powerful. I get a brake because my twin is focused on many people so I am not always in my twin flames sites. I do know when I am. By the way I have always felt that I am the only one and for reasons of my past experience my existence never ends. It really dose not matter that a physical being is running away from me here. However I would like to know what messages I left myself to hear in this realm. c];-)
If this works both ways, that means when he focuses on me, I focus on anything but him? When he pushes, I pull away? So how can twin flames live together in harmony?
Thank you for your answer Kurt.
yes，obsessive thinking keeps a year and I think that would stay with me all my life. I love him.
I dont know if he is a twin flame. But I have the obsessive thoughts and its been 13 years since I had a realisation of unconditional love.
But my energy was too much and he ran away and we grew apart.
Now I have dreams with him in it, of us just hanging out. Sometimes I don't even plan to think about him but when I remember I get into a painful obsession and I want the cycle to end 😫
I cant stop thinking about my twin flame but I am married and I feel bad about my twin and about my wife and I know my twin flame feels the same way.
I catched her thoughts, that's what confuses me. I take her thoughts for mine... and then i do things that are actually her plans (e.g. clearing because she s moving) What are my plans ? The same, will i decide to move as well because of that? My soul does not care aboit that... Just loving it all.
I miss my best friend
Fucking brilliant!! Thank you ! Damn ! I thought some mofo put a spell on me!! Sigh... ❤️❤️❤️
Good night mare 😂❤❤❤❤ love hate!! Hate to love
Thank you
I don’t understand how you said at the beginning we know we’ve met our twin flame by obsessive thinking but then one of the flames isn’t thinking about them.
And what is soul stuff? 😅 Just not identify with an Ego?, but what to do instead?
So my question is how did we find each other with a billion people in this world? Where we magnetized to each other? Do I have more then one twin flame? Is finding your twin flame very rare? Please I need to know😊
I can only speak for my experience, which is that I had never heard of Twin Flames before I met mine. It was the overwhelming side effects that led me to furiously search the internet to explain what was happening to me. Astrology couldn't help, but it was a door, because one site mentioned that common twin flame matchups in astrology are Cancer and Capricorn. That's when the lightbulb went off and I finally had a title for the phenomenon.
I've heard often that you meet your twin later in life and it's quite normal that both of you are in other relationships when it happens. I think meeting him in my 40s added to the mysteriousness because I have had plenty of crushes, obsessions, and was married when I met him. I had plenty of life experience to compare the twin flame experience to and nothing matched it.
This is not something I'd wish for a person, because although the unconditional love is profound, if you can't share it with your Twin, it feels hopeless.
This is a divine orchestration, wether you were aware of it or not it was going to happen anyway, it was not a coincidence, you were meant to meet this person at the right time, no mistakes at all, the soul chose to go through this experience of awakening this "life time". Before you were born, the divine already knew that this meeting was going to happen , since there is no such thing as time
Can my other self feel my zen when I’m meditating
Do both feminine and masculine both have the same obsessive thoughts?
So when we release them, are we not abandoning ourselves as well? Or are we just making space for us to fill up the rest of our soul without them coming forward...🤔 hmmm
He definitely triggered my Ascension process LOL back in 2020, could possibly just be a soulmate catalyst...
We can learn from everybody if we are willing. Some give us important life lessons to go deeper others just like to push buttons and challenge us. The harder you try to understand, do or acting obsessed/insane (victim mentality)... think logically it creates a opposite dynamic. I've seen it in my personal life on different levels. Not to label people or dynamics but it's so sad actually... Learn to give less fucks & be more appreciative towards the people who are making baby steps efforts to keep you in their lives. Switched from empathy to sympathy with healthy boundaries, I hope it doesn't make me a bad person! 😜 I just don't need the push/pull dynamics which is based on borderline (feminine energy) & (masculine energy) narcistic. I don't want any of it 💯😁 Does this make me a syzygy 😂? Excuse me for my psychological talk...
Still love your teachings on being and Samadhi, it's the ultimate blissful state of consciousness!
Exactly It is happening to me ....I can't stop this .... exactly I ask this wats happening with me ,n it happened for the first time with me ... I don't even like that person at first 😂 but now idk wat happened 😑
I have a question... After your TF is in permanent union with you, do you still practice this awareness of being? Is it like now you focus on her, she tends to pull away ?
So in my case, I haven't met my twin on this physical plane. Though he has certainly let himself be known through reoccurring dreams (on a subconscious level) with the things he's said and expressed to me. Now I am constantly reminded of him though signs, music and imagery. Is it just really me talking to myself on the phone, hearing my own echo. Or is this smartass now playing games with me, lol. Well I am not competitive.. That's duality I suppose. Is that why they say opposites attract?.. as they are truly one.
But what if they are chasing you and thinking about you just as much as you are thinking about them? Can it work from the get go? Like I'd be thinking about him, and then I'd immediately get a text saying "can't stop thinking of you". This has been going on for so long. What do you know, he just texted me now lol saying he misses me.
Honestly I think I was the runner more times than not.. but.. because I've learned to follow my heart and not my head, I've found I can accept it. All of it. I've grown so much in my life. Maybe we are ready.
Yea i freaking hate it, im a scorpio so i dont commit or attach.....frightening the crap out me.....its making me uncomfortable and out of control of my emotions and no man has ever done that to me....Whats worse is hes a male version of myself 😫 its so messed up 🤯😖
Yes it is true. It was at a low level for the past few days, but it has increased since yesterday. I don't understand how to control this obsessive thinking. My headaches are also caused by these things. When I feel like he's reminding me, I feel my body suddenly heat up. Does anyone have this kind of experience..? 🤔🤔
Yes I been through that,with headaches,it was so bad.
How this differs from limerence? Have anybody asked about that before?
If this theory is true, or weather it's demons of lust....either way it's insane! I'm done! I'm not accepting anything less than what I deserve and def not sleeping with someone who's gonna bounce on me! I know better! It's to intense to delve all the way if the other is not even awake to this concept! Or love for that matter! We have the missing key but they are afraid so take that fear somewhere else. If it's a twin I'll meet him again. And that ain't the first time I met him either. Weird shit but you can keep all this bs
Hi, is anybody in the same situation like us? I"m the Yin conscious of the TF link and my Other Self is the Yang who is running! It seems to be more current situation nowadays but the question is... If the yang emitting energy runs, is thete achance of his returning? He doesn't probably need my energy? Well, hope you got the sense... Thank you in advance for your comments. If Kurt can respond, that'll be really great! Have a nice year and sorry for my English. 😊
7:10 if i feel from heart space just (quickly...not holding on to it) unconditional "I love you" is that also creating push pull?
So I should just keep going on with my life and my 3d goals and not let these obsessive thoughts and desires of being in a relationship with him crawl back in my mind and then he will start initiating more contact, etc. ? Although I dont even know if I'm the runner or the chaser because I am obsessing over him now (after he got back in my life and ran again) but I never initiated contact with him and am actively avoiding him when he is contacting me. Also when something more is about to happen I distance myself and run immediately while at the same time wanting to be with him. We were in separation for 6 years when he reached out this year. For these 6 years I wanted to contact him so so bad but I don't know how I found this strenght in me to not say a word to him.
It’s been a year already, I am the DF, I know I have to love my self, I know we are one but why he keeps popping on my head! I really want it to stop!!! I’ve being doing activities and try to get busy as possible but he keeps popping in my head 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am starting to hate this!!! This have never happened to me before!!!!! I can’t find more things to try to stop thinking of him!!!