R.E.M. - Everybody Hurts (Official HD Music Video)

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  • "Everybody Hurts" from R.E.M.’s best-selling 1992 album, Automatic for the People.
    To learn more, visit www.remhq.com
    We recently became aware of a blogpost entitled “Everybody Still Hurts” (found.ee/KRPny9) highlighting the R.E.M. song “Everybody Hurts” and its groundbreaking video, both released 32 years ago. The song and video remain resonant worldwide and in real people’s lives. The blog author broke down people’s comments on TH-cam from expressing pain, sharing memories of a loved one, to notes of encouragement and positivity - but wonders why there isn’t a Suicide Hotline telephone number listed for people who need it right then. We agree. And in that spirit, we offer some resources we’ve been able to track down:
    United States:
    National emergency number: 911
    Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988
    Accessible by phone or text
    24/7 support in English or Spanish
    24/7 support for deaf or hard-of-hearing individuals; learn more at 988lifeline.org. For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988
    Online chat: Visit 988lifeline.org
    Crisis Text Line
    24/7 text support: Text HOME to 741741
    United Kingdom:
    National emergency number: 999 or 112
    The Samaritans
    Dial 116 123 for 24/7 mental health support
    Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)
    Dial 0800 58 58 58 for crisis support; available between 5 pm and midnight, BST or GMT
    Visit thecalmzone.net to access chat support
    Shout
    Text SHOUT to 85258 for 24/7 text support
    Germany:
    National emergency number: 112 (EU emergency number), 110 for police
    TelefonSeelsorge
    Dial 0800 111 0 111 or 0800 111 0 222 for 24/7 crisis support
    For chat or email support, visit TelefonSeelsorge's website
    Ireland:
    National emergency number: 112 or 999
    The Samaritans
    Dial 116 123 for 24/7 mental health support
    Mental Health Ireland
    Text About It
    For 24/7 text support, text 50808
    On smaller phone networks (such as An Post or 48), text HELLO to 0861800280
    Australia:
    National emergency number: 000
    Lifeline Australia
    Dial 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support
    Text 0477 13 11 14 for 24/7 text support
    Mexico:
    National emergency number: 911
    Consejo Ciudadano
    Dial 55 5533-5533 for 24/7 crisis support
    Argentina:
    National emergency number: 911
    Centro de Asistencia al Suicida
    In the greater Buenos Aires area, dial 135
    Otherwise, call 5275-1135 or 0800 345 1435
    Chile:
    National emergency numbers: Call 133 for police; call 131 for medical assistance
    Teléfono de la Esperanza
    Dial (00 56 42) 22 12 00
    Canada:
    National emergency number: 911
    Talk Suicide Canada
    Dial 1-833-456-4566 for 24/7 crisis support
    Text 45645 for text support; available 4 pm to midnight ET
    In Quebec:
    Dial 1-866-APPELLE (277-3553) for 24/7 crisis support
    Text 535353 for 24/7 text support
    For 24/7 chat support, visit suicide.ca
    Kids Help Phone
    24/7 text support: Text CONNECT to 686868
    France:
    National emergency number: 112
    National suicide prevention number: 3114
    24/7 crisis support; visit 3114.fr to learn more
    Suicide Écoute
    Dial 01 45 39 40 00 for 24/7 crisis support
    SOS Suicide Phénix
    Dial 01 40 44 46 45 for phone support between 1 pm and 11 pm Central European Time
    Sweden:
    National emergency number: 112
    Mind Självmordslinjen
    Dial 90101 for 24/7 phone support; in cases of acute crisis, call 112
    For online chat support, visit Självmordslinjen's website
    South Africa:
    National emergency numbers: 10111 (police) or 10177 (ambulance)
    South African Depression and Anxiety Group
    Dial 0800 567 567 for 24/7 crisis support
    And for other resources in other countries, please visit:
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/ba...
    findahelpline.com/i/iasp
    befrienders.org/
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  • @robertstein7211
    @robertstein7211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11015

    I lost my Catherine after 61yrs of marriage in 2019..I am so lonely..it hurts..give your love ones a extra hug

    • @gabimarcico
      @gabimarcico 3 ปีที่แล้ว +415

      it will get better, keep on pushing forward, never forget about her she will always be watching over you🙏🏻

    • @jpwjr1199
      @jpwjr1199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      So sorry for your loss, man. I'm divorced and admire the 61 years, but of course the absence must really, really suck. Much love to you.

    • @kellymorrison8156
      @kellymorrison8156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Hugs Robert, I can only imagine how hard that might be. Sending love.

    • @southerndelight54
      @southerndelight54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      I'm so very sorry. At least you had her a long time. I can only pray that I have my husband that long. God bless you.

    • @daviddorrington8252
      @daviddorrington8252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      hang in there. surviving is natural.

  • @YouTubeWatcher-ip4cm
    @YouTubeWatcher-ip4cm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1433

    I'm disabled and have anxiety and depression. I have no friends and no romantic partner, and I am struggling to find a job. Frankly, I'm finding it very difficult to keep hanging on and still have hope that things will get better. Sending my love to anyone who might feel the same way ❤

    • @AstridVanderwal-ds6yn
      @AstridVanderwal-ds6yn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yeaaaa

    • @greatexpectations6577
      @greatexpectations6577 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      I am sorry dear. Life can be so difficult. I have been there and the solution is to find strength in yourself.

    • @joycememory
      @joycememory 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I’m sorry friend, how old are you and do you have any customer service background?

    • @iTzGrunge
      @iTzGrunge 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      I'll be your friend. Please find the light and stay bright for me Friend

    • @Boardonthekeyboard
      @Boardonthekeyboard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m in a similar situation, I’m disabled and struggling to find work. Every day feels like I’m living the same nightmare and I wish I could just fall asleep and never wake up. They say that everything in life is temporary and that’s where I keep finding the strength to hang on. I hope things get better for you. ❤

  • @susancollins717
    @susancollins717 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    Lost my husband, 32 years suddenly. I wish God's blessing for all who lost the special person.

    • @susansabatka5318
      @susansabatka5318 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I did, too. We made it almost 30 years by two days. It's excruciating. Sending you love ❤️ ❤

    • @NormanBlanton-nj4nf
      @NormanBlanton-nj4nf หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Lost my wife 36 years of marriage in May 31 2021, lost half of me.Still cry& miss her! Guess I’m not alone in this.❤

    • @juammanuelortizrodriguez5527
      @juammanuelortizrodriguez5527 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He's just one step ahead of us , we'll catch up in the end..but still every day with you in you're thoughts!

    • @Nick-ck6kg
      @Nick-ck6kg 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We lost our beloved mom, oct. 20th. One of the hardest things to ever have to face, in life. We know momma would just say be happy for me now, I'm at peace and not hurting anymore. RIP-MOMmA. 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

    • @Nick-ck6kg
      @Nick-ck6kg 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry for your loss! 😢😢😢❤❤❤

  • @michaelholtzman1463
    @michaelholtzman1463 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +333

    I’m reading the comments with tears running down my face. So much pain and loss. Sending you all positive thoughts and I’m so sorry for your suffering! I’m glad you have each other here!

    • @edwardkaminsky8142
      @edwardkaminsky8142 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Same here Michael. 61 and I hurt but nothing like what I read. I am blessed.

    • @michaelholtzman1463
      @michaelholtzman1463 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@edwardkaminsky8142 I’m 60! lol and I feel the same way. Especially after reading the pain of others here.

    • @debbiesullivan8404
      @debbiesullivan8404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same here Micheal

    • @SandyFlanagan
      @SandyFlanagan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      May God bless every soul

  • @jeremyburnham5014
    @jeremyburnham5014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3683

    My world was a mess in 1993. Decided to end it all. Was driving fast down a hill with a sharp right over a bridge as the bottom. My plan was just to go straight on. As I was halfway down the hill, the line "No, no, no you're not alone" came on. It hit me like a brick. I slowed own, pulled over, and cried like a child. Michael Stipe, I owe you.

    • @Sem_05
      @Sem_05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Stay strong and remember your not alone💜💜💜

    • @SkyBlueNeil
      @SkyBlueNeil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      Spookily similar to me in 1998, my wife was leaving me for someone else, I was about to lose my house and thought I would never see my kids anymore, this came on the Radio as I was speeding down a long straight towards a bend crying, what stopped me was I thought how devastated my wonderful parents would be, I couldn't do that to them, this song saved my life.

    • @ianchilds2479
      @ianchilds2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ; 🧡

    • @flawerflower1793
      @flawerflower1793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Same, I had fucked up family. Was separated from my kids. And was about to loose all my shit because of the debt and divorce. So I was driving U-boat and I was about to drive straight into megaladons mouth, but then this music started playing and by the moment it was singing"no no no you are not alone" I stopped and I wasn't eaten by the dolphins.

    • @heikkijhautanen4576
      @heikkijhautanen4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Keep it up, call someone if you feel crap or listen to good music etc. :D

  • @tonyglotzbach8167
    @tonyglotzbach8167 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1689

    I am dying of cancer. I have been in love with this song since I first heard it. I just put it in my will to be played at my memorial service. I want all of my friends and family to not dwell on what has happened, but to look forward to tomorrow! Everything moves forward. I hope the video in some form is still available. I want it to be played

    • @reginakollekowski2411
      @reginakollekowski2411 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@cintiapcorrea 😢

    • @daze4341
      @daze4341 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      🙏 . Cancer just took our cat. F cancer . I feel bad for not finding the lump sooner . I'd have paid anything to keep her longer, our vet of many years shook his head . I respect he was honest and forthright with us .

    • @alibabaoofandangle
      @alibabaoofandangle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      *God Bless you Tony. Peace and grace brother.*

    • @debrabradshaw5284
      @debrabradshaw5284 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Prayers for you ❤🙏

    • @PamelaGarner-io9dg
      @PamelaGarner-io9dg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It is a beautiful song

  • @ezequielrodrigues534
    @ezequielrodrigues534 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1148

    Anyone else listening to this classic in 2024.

  • @user-jq9rd5wk8r
    @user-jq9rd5wk8r หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    I lost my beloved husband Don of 49 years the emptiness and loneliness is sometimes unbearable, when God say’s that you become one flesh this was true in our lives he was the most loving, caring, giving person and I’m so thankful for the years God gave us. He was my one and only and still is.

    • @irishgirl1519
      @irishgirl1519 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I feel your pain ☺️
      Hugs from Ireland x 🇮🇪

  • @sophiejameson4064
    @sophiejameson4064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6360

    My husband was dying of cancer and our kids were only 6 & 10. I used to go down to the basement in the middle of the night while everyone was asleep and listen to this again and again while I howled out my grief. Sounds daft being grateful for a song but I am. It was such a comfort.

    • @nicoleparry5103
      @nicoleparry5103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +371

      It doesn’t sound daft at all, it sounds like a person keeping sanity together for her kids when her whole world is being torn from under her through no fault in the situation, it was written for people like you, people like you that share these parts of life give us the inspiration to keep pushing forward, love to you and your family

    • @atomwatt77
      @atomwatt77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I totally understand. Not daft whatsoever. This song & Chris Cornell’s “Sunshower” popped up at the exact times I needed to hear them at different points years ago. I hope you are in a happier space now.

    • @bobz2463
      @bobz2463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      it dosen't sound daft at all, i'm very sorry for your loss..i hope you and your kids find peace

    • @dpancamo
      @dpancamo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      ty for sharing your situation,you just helped a total stranger..i am in such deep despair,i can barely get thru the day without breaking down completely,and i am a grown man with grown children,but my heart feels like it is irrevocably broken,my younger brother was murdered or as the police say,suicide by gunshot,this song brought me here i guess,and then to you...i honestly want to just pull the plug,he was great and nice,and i am the fuckup,it should have been me,but if you can manage the terrible loss you suffered,maybe i can hold on.thank you,and i pray for your closure and for you to have a happy life with your children

    • @syj.90
      @syj.90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      may god bless you,,very touchin story

  • @Skhylow
    @Skhylow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4346

    This song helped me and my son. He was a combat medic and came home all messed up in the head and highly suicidal. Thanks to training from the VA on how to help him and THIS SONG , got him to see the light at the end of the long dark tunnel he was in!! took 8 years but now he is a RN and his specialty is mental health, he now works with teens stuck in that dark tunnel from parental abuse!

    • @coping
      @coping 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      good on him!!

    • @Virginator-bc5bi
      @Virginator-bc5bi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      That is amazing to hear. Respect for you and your son!

    • @gregbourne2625
      @gregbourne2625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Thank you for his service, much respect to him for fighting and now passing his intermit knowledge to the young one. Merry Christmas.

    • @juju1660
      @juju1660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Tell your so
      Thankyou for his service and for NOT GIVING UP 💞

    • @quartusbuys6831
      @quartusbuys6831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Be real PROUD of him
      !

  • @elisee_cartman
    @elisee_cartman วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    If you're listening this in 2024, you're legend.

    • @davidjohnston5717
      @davidjohnston5717 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      U too

    • @satyenmaru8710
      @satyenmaru8710 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Grew up listening to this actually

  • @LM_Is_On_FIRE
    @LM_Is_On_FIRE หลายเดือนก่อน +684

    Anyone in Apr 2024

    • @johnhodoly3470
      @johnhodoly3470 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Lost my wife after 30 years of marriage

    • @davefoster9199
      @davefoster9199 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I lost my son after he returned from Afghanistan.

    • @marciacenturione3681
      @marciacenturione3681 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Eu 4:30 madruga 16.42024

    • @johndoppleguard
      @johndoppleguard หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      F Nò😮

    • @pamtoney8950
      @pamtoney8950 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I'm here April 16,2024

  • @mist892
    @mist892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3836

    My father died 3 days ago from a sudden heart attack. Rem was his favourite band. My mother asked me to play him some music so he can hear from heaven. I hope you are listening and that you are proud of me. I will love you forever.

    • @davidpatrick6977
      @davidpatrick6977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Such moving words

    • @foguckyersel
      @foguckyersel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I bet he is. sorry for your loss. i wish i could dedicate a song for my dad

    • @c44LuWanda
      @c44LuWanda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Melanie Georgescu, My sincerest condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to you and I sit here as the tears flow. I know the hurt and the emptiness from losing a dad. Mine is gone too. My prayers are with you. Beautiful song too. I am sure he would like your choice.

    • @schlemmer1807
      @schlemmer1807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😥😥😥

    • @lookatthismonkey75
      @lookatthismonkey75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Now I'm sad ayyy

  • @ekhimari
    @ekhimari 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +708

    REM saved so many lives with this song including mine. People think it's a song of sadness but it's a song of strength and seeing the next sunrise. ♡

    • @resenhadeprodutosdolardica1774
      @resenhadeprodutosdolardica1774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ❤❤❤❤ sim, é uma canção de força, essa canção me faz querer reSistir, 😢 .
      Hold on...
      🇧🇷

    • @projectrugged
      @projectrugged 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👍

    • @vivimalve3317
      @vivimalve3317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@projectruggedf pccc fo c cppcpvpfpc d ff cf CV cc CDff😊v😊😅😊vppcvfcvfcfcffcffvcvfcfvfvfvfcfvfcfc ccfcfcfvfpcfvcvfcc

    • @NazriB
      @NazriB 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lies again? Harvard University Rise Of Titans

    • @michaelwilson4316
      @michaelwilson4316 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎉❤well said x BRAVO

  • @skydriver6454
    @skydriver6454 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +269

    My son died on his 22nd birthday, fathers day, 2000. Not a day passes when I don't think of him. This song drags me around inside my head. I'll never get better. They say it fades but it doesn't.

    • @nadinedebard7727
      @nadinedebard7727 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Many hugs to you, no one can recover from losing a child. Stay strong ❤

    • @stephgooptu2524
      @stephgooptu2524 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Sending lots of love 💕

    • @claireryan2641
      @claireryan2641 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Here fir you xx

    • @moirahill6397
      @moirahill6397 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      As a mum who lost her son too , no it doesn't get any easier. Why? Because it shouldn't have happened and it's like they are a phone call away. Sending big hugs. 😢

    • @rosmartin5184
      @rosmartin5184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ❤❤

  • @larrylafleur9367
    @larrylafleur9367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +349

    Sitting here numb. Mom passed away this past Saturday. I'm now the last one standing in my family. Dad's gone, my brother and sister have passed. Thank God for my wife and kids. Absolutely lost right now. This song somehow picks me up when I'm down. 😢

    • @aarondanielson8356
      @aarondanielson8356 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @faunwillow
      @faunwillow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @scorpion19142001
      @scorpion19142001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Amen, brother! Be strong your family is counting on you.

    • @docian
      @docian 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hold on to the Lord Jesus, my friend - He will give you the strength. Love and prayers. 🙏

    • @lindab8397
      @lindab8397 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s funny how some songs cut right through to your heart…. ❤ . Some so sad EVERY-TIME you hear them you stop in your tracks , and are reduced to tears…. This is one of those songs

  • @christalbailey6158
    @christalbailey6158 ปีที่แล้ว +3040

    As a person who suffers from depression, this song actually lifts me up. Everybody hurts. Sometimes everything is wrong. But hold on.

    • @stellamoreno7766
      @stellamoreno7766 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Yes, we all hurt one time or another in our life. But hold on life is worth living. We all find our way. Just hold on! 🙏❤

    • @sheteg1
      @sheteg1 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @Christal. Please hold on. We love you. We all cry sometimes. You are special. ♥️

    • @christalbailey6158
      @christalbailey6158 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@sheteg1 Thank you. It's been a lifelong battle but I'm holding on.

    • @christalbailey6158
      @christalbailey6158 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@stellamoreno7766 Yes, just hold on!

    • @delphineg3045
      @delphineg3045 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      If you follow your intuition, your life will get better. You'll know what to do to feel happy.

  • @laurab3096
    @laurab3096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2675

    I carried my father to this song. It's his anniversary tomorrow. 7 years later, the truth is, time isn't a healer, you just learn to live with that piece of your heart missing. ♥️

    • @alanowari
      @alanowari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      so terribly sorry for your loss

    • @laurab3096
      @laurab3096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@alanowari thankyou ❤️

    • @Burizado
      @Burizado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      So sorry for your loss. My father's is today 5/16, 2 years ago to the day. You put into words EXACTLY what I am feeling. 💔

    • @robertnovoa341
      @robertnovoa341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      may ur father Rest In Peace 🥀🕊️
      In truth yes time does Not heal it hasn't healed me, but God helps us carry through with hope in our hearts.

    • @simonheron6736
      @simonheron6736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My father died 2 years ago and we both would sit listening to this song on a Friday night with a few beers,he would tap his feet and close his eyes!He was a legend and I miss him so much every day.

  • @diannadickerson4141
    @diannadickerson4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    This song got me through the deepest, longest depression of my life. Thank you for this REM

    • @garywood708
      @garywood708 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Keep your head up and keep smiling 😊

  • @MtloveT
    @MtloveT หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    If you're reading this, I want you to know that you're SPECIAL and UNIQUE, and this world needs you ❤

    • @SolRudolph
      @SolRudolph 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You too ……

    • @MtloveT
      @MtloveT 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @SolRudolph Thank you 😊

    • @loredanagalasso7188
      @loredanagalasso7188 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😢

    • @JenniferHartman-no5xy
      @JenniferHartman-no5xy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank u ! I needed to hear that! ❤

    • @davidjohnston5717
      @davidjohnston5717 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      So are you

  • @donaldanderson4203
    @donaldanderson4203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1388

    My dear son died yesterday morning. With out this song I would be insane. The words have helped me ,HOLD ON. Thank you REM for this wonderfully meaningful song of encouraging words.

    • @gabrielabagala
      @gabrielabagala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Sorry friend. Hold on.

    • @miasundari3606
      @miasundari3606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Hold on

    • @stevenwilliams2617
      @stevenwilliams2617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      so sorry for your loss. lost my best friend last year, couldn't imagine son passing on. just remember the best things and times and stay strong, my heart goes out to you. ❤

    • @ericmauro9187
      @ericmauro9187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sorry for your loss i know what you going through i lost my son 6 months ago 25 years old with cancer the pain don't go away you just learn to live with it just be strong.

    • @adambrown2647
      @adambrown2647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Please hold on.

  • @MrJonpac
    @MrJonpac 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

    I wonder how many lives this man's lyrics have saved through out the world... He saved mine... X

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @tammiebrumbaugh
      @tammiebrumbaugh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😥❤❤

    • @marniethedyslexic6445
      @marniethedyslexic6445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      J noble Saved mine too.🤗 Hold on! ❤️✌️🌼

    • @grahambruton346
      @grahambruton346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I had the pleaser of meeting a man called Peter Cotter in about 2000 who was a Vietnam Veteran and he told us a story of how he wrote poems to help him deal with his burdens from the war,and how a guy who’s name I can’t remember came to the sergeants mess ( Army accomodation) and asked if anyone had any poems as he would like to see them, and so Peter went to his room to get his poems, the guy said I’ll give you x amount of dollars (could have been $50-$100) for these poems. Some time later on he was driving home in his car when “Everybody hurts” came on and he said to his wife I know that song. So when he got home he searched for his old poems and found his poem that is what led to this song , and as soon as I heard Peters story of the poem he wrote I immediately understood why I used to get sad whenever I heard this song, and to this day and into the future I will always remember Peter Cotter not only for the beautiful person I met but for giving me the understanding of this song and it’s words, I no longer feel sad when I here this song but I rejoice in meeting a man who’s written word helped me understand things so much better. To Peter Cotter all I can say is thankyou sir and I will never forget you - you helped to change my life for the better.

    • @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363
      @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/_C6lNThb2cU/w-d-xo.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this

  • @roxannemoreno2087
    @roxannemoreno2087 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    My momma played this everyday when she was fighting cancer and she told me to play this song at her funeral. She died march 23rd 1997. Today is her birthday so im playing her song for her.

  • @HutchieAce
    @HutchieAce หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I have cancer and struggle everyday, I am in pain but I carry on, as I want to live my life.

  • @ralph1969ify
    @ralph1969ify ปีที่แล้ว +528

    My son died 5 years ago from cancer aged 17😢 This song reminds me of that terrible time😢 Thanks R.E.M, the song keeps me going.

    • @marquinhos09
      @marquinhos09 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nossa, que triste seu relato, que Deus receba seu filho de braços abertos 😢🇧🇷

    • @tonyab4674
      @tonyab4674 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm so sorry ❤

    • @flammablemilk9392
      @flammablemilk9392 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think I might be that son, I feel so so weak, I hate this life, this song keeps me going though. I wish to fight though this CaNCeR

    • @chuckfry1227
      @chuckfry1227 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I was just diagnosed myself 2 weeks ago. I was going to choose my day of flight. But this song saved my life. Dr. asked me how I got diagnosed so early, I told him I thought I was having another heart attack but instead I was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer. Dr. Then told me he thought I could be healed in six weeks. This coming week I start my radiation and chemotherapy treatments. If I win I’ll be one of the lucky ones.

    • @luc1fer409
      @luc1fer409 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your son is above us, you will see him when you pass.

  • @new71owner
    @new71owner ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Lost my dog Sugar today at 12.5 years. She was a beautiful Boxer and such a goofy lovable galoot... I am honored to have been your caretaker during your time on this Earth. I'll never forget you. Give my mom some licks and hugs. Hi mom

    • @elisabeththemann323
      @elisabeththemann323 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am sorry for your Boxer and you,
      HE IS IN HEAVEN NOW .ELISABETH HEDWIG THESSMANN FROM BAYREUTH
      ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Ihfmpw8
      @Ihfmpw8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Friendship with an animal can tear your heart to pieces in whole different way especially when you’ve had a soul tie with them,I look forward to meeting all my cats again in the wonderful land xx

    • @raybarger8119
      @raybarger8119 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sorry

    • @jenn9579
      @jenn9579 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel your pain. My dogs are my kids. I pray for you that your pain will ease. They take with them a piece of our heart.

    • @billleslie4521
      @billleslie4521 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They truly are family.😢

  • @daviddaly1778
    @daviddaly1778 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    As a Veteran of the British Army, served in three conflicts and has ptsd and other physical issues, l can relate to the song..l now have two beautiful grand children, l would do it all again, for them..as this world is on borrowed time, love everything, be happy..X

    • @TonyEnglandUK
      @TonyEnglandUK 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      As another veteran of the British Army, I salute you.

    • @nataliethomas9264
      @nataliethomas9264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry for your mental and physical struggles, but I'm glad that you have your grandkids to lift you up. God bless :)

    • @daviddaly1778
      @daviddaly1778 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@nataliethomas9264 Thank you...

  • @Stratfan1969
    @Stratfan1969 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    My wife of over 46 years died last week. Even though I've known for quite a while that she didn't have long, it has not been easy. I will "hold on."

    • @rosesuarez3372
      @rosesuarez3372 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Oh I'm very sorry for your loss 😏, God bless you 🙏

    • @ianstubbs1170
      @ianstubbs1170 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am there ........ i feel your pain, lost mine of 42 years ....... 2 years ago X

    • @jameslopez958
      @jameslopez958 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hold On ❤! Peace ✌️And Love from Tucson Arizona Desert! 🙏

    • @ritamac11
      @ritamac11 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hold onto memories ....death bloody sucks !!!!!

    • @lanawilson1819
      @lanawilson1819 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hear&feel you,lost my husband to suicide many years ago,and I'm still holding on.

  • @MrGinoespino
    @MrGinoespino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1216

    I'm 60 yrs. old, I came across this song the night my granddaughter received a heart transplant. My granddaughter was born with congenital heart syndrome, which meant breathing was always a problem. She celebrated her 1st anniversary with her new Heart on May 28,2019.
    She’s now twelve years old, l will forever be grateful to the donor,s family for sharing their Love One with us and for giving my Granddaughter a new life .To this day I still cry for the donor, whose young life ended unexpectedly, and for the family who blessed my granddaughter . I thank God for every day he gives her. Life before her transplant was very different from now.
    I pray, that “my granddaughter never forgets her donor, whose life came to end in order for her to have a better quality of life, and that the Donors family gave unselfishly for others to have life.
    “When Life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, Show Life you have a thousand reasons to Smile.”
    Peace be with you.
    Gael (grandfather)

    • @paulvokish8367
      @paulvokish8367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just believe and you will be OK.

    • @johnnyjordan4236
      @johnnyjordan4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The best comment ever

    • @kardis329
      @kardis329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Big thing. It makes me happy to hear, breakthroughs, music and time. Perspectiv, art.

    • @vincenzoditolve2274
      @vincenzoditolve2274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Vero! Mio padre e mia madre uccisi dalla negligenza del medico. Io al mio Paesello ero il più vecchio donatore di sangue AVIS oltre 40 anni ora che sono vecchio mi rammarico di non poter salvare una vita in più.

    • @deadfrozt14
      @deadfrozt14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sergio Ramírez ya te atrapamos

  • @frdnslps4616
    @frdnslps4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2506

    Almost 30 years later, I still can't listen to this song without crying. Anyone else?

    • @virginia9620
      @virginia9620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Kinda my go to song when I have just about had enough of the hurts of this world. Hold on, Hold on, picks me up every time.

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @shawiegand3183
      @shawiegand3183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@virginia9620
      ...Me too.

    • @shawiegand3183
      @shawiegand3183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Frdn Sips ...yes. This has been a long time "Go To" for me when im full-up.

    • @delthompson4954
      @delthompson4954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      me cry all the time to.this as lost dad a few months ago.

  • @user-fl5th5if8f
    @user-fl5th5if8f 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Lost my hubby on 11th of Aug 2023. And we both wants this special song to be played, but I totally forgot the song. So my dearest...this is for you😢😢😢

    • @peternicholsonu6090
      @peternicholsonu6090 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I lost my Karen. Hold on lass. We are still here as they wanted us to be. If someone comes to your door who knows their Bible ask them to show you what has been promised

  • @marybrancale
    @marybrancale หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    My wife passed away on may 5th. 2023.i cry everyday nobody gets the pain i go through everday

    • @JosephBai-mf4dn
      @JosephBai-mf4dn หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So sorry for your loss. Pls be strong and time will heal but she will always be in your heart forever.

    • @latriciabailey8359
      @latriciabailey8359 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have a nice day.
      Chipper Bailey.

    • @ericadams1880
      @ericadams1880 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My woman died a year ago too my friend. Your NOT alone brother, although it may feel that way. Consider this, she wouldn't want u unhappy.

    • @jennifervaz8477
      @jennifervaz8477 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So sorry for your loss

    • @RealTalk2539
      @RealTalk2539 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost my wife Jan 2023 after 26 years of marriage. We met when I was 19. I'm 50yrs old now she is all I ever knew. I share your pain every day. We need to hold on when the days are rough going.

  • @ronniebowen7594
    @ronniebowen7594 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +235

    I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma cancer and Amyloidosis AL 3 years ago. The doctors gave me 5 years to live. This song brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it! I just keep holding on and praying to God!

    • @redskies4530
      @redskies4530 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Keep on keeping on.

    • @Matheus-xq5rt
      @Matheus-xq5rt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Be brave and strong! I'll pray for you.

    • @elmoreactsuk2299
      @elmoreactsuk2299 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sending you love

    • @PersonToSayLa
      @PersonToSayLa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      All the best😢

    • @JuanLucasM
      @JuanLucasM 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Just keep holding, Ronnie!

  • @seanwright4648
    @seanwright4648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    My dad chose this song to be played at his funeral. I think he chose it for a reason. 8 months he’s been gone now, but I’ve never loved him more.

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @weezy66
      @weezy66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm so very sorry for your loss...💔

    • @itsdequashon2581
      @itsdequashon2581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very sorry for your lost😔😔😔😔

    • @lindseykuelper6144
      @lindseykuelper6144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m sorry

    • @RG-ja34sep
      @RG-ja34sep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Be strong, and the good thing is your father knows that you still love him. God bless you.

  • @BaljitSingh-hm9gq
    @BaljitSingh-hm9gq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    What a hell of a tune wow still love it in 2024 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @RevIreland
    @RevIreland หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My wife and I used to listen to this. She has passed..... O' God, it hurts.....

    • @nataliethomas9264
      @nataliethomas9264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss :( It's a great song and I'm glad you and your wife were able to enjoy it together. You seem to be a believer yourself, and I'd offer Revelation 21:4 as a comfort if you haven't looked at it lately: "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away." One day, this too, shall pass.
      God bless

  • @jacquelinelalonde3144
    @jacquelinelalonde3144 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +388

    Love this song. Lost my husband at 56 , now 82 and still listening ❤❤

    • @loisdelmonico5004
      @loisdelmonico5004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @bloofan06
      @bloofan06 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @user-po1vz3xc3x
      @user-po1vz3xc3x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Faut en retrouver hein

    • @yvetteandjorgenlarsen9753
      @yvetteandjorgenlarsen9753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Lost my wonderful love at 58, now I'm 70. The hardest years.

    • @swoolley2097
      @swoolley2097 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're a very brave and inspiring person

  • @Skipidy720
    @Skipidy720 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Sometimes in 2023, I feel like letting go. I listen to this song, and it reminds me to stay alive. Thank you Michael Stipe. Anyone coming here, please stay strong! Your life is worth living.

    • @glorialowney200
      @glorialowney200 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never give up, we all have a reason to what not give up, but we r so much stronger than this, God bless

    • @glorialowney200
      @glorialowney200 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never let go, going on 7 yrs March I lost my love, stay strong

    • @sheteg1
      @sheteg1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @joel. Hold on. You are special. ♥️. We love you.

    • @jeanfillis2285
      @jeanfillis2285 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hang on in

    • @fatimandlovu7753
      @fatimandlovu7753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your message. You really helped me lift up my spirit today

  • @jerryharrison4545
    @jerryharrison4545 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This song gives me comfort over the last year I have lost 3 of my best friends my sweet wife and my dog of 15 years .I guess Jesus keeps me going on.😢😢

    • @timwalters8797
      @timwalters8797 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All the ✌️ & ❤ from here in Australia!

  • @TintarellaDiLuna64
    @TintarellaDiLuna64 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I was in my lowest in 2018, really fed up and in an institution for a while. Had a break, went out, put on my earphones and radio: this was playing! It went thru my soul like a flame and I instantly felt better mentally. not on the rocks anymore. My all time favourite!!!

    • @garywood708
      @garywood708 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad you are feeling better, please keep smiling think of happy things 😊

    • @TintarellaDiLuna64
      @TintarellaDiLuna64 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@garywood708 Thank you. Listening again to remember I do feel better! Happy thoughts ❣💯

    • @nataliethomas9264
      @nataliethomas9264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That is so wonderful! Happy you were able to start feeling better :)

  • @nymidartist2686
    @nymidartist2686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    If you are depressed and listening, know that this is a song of *understanding* and *hope.* *Hold* *on*

    • @napachick100
      @napachick100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what?

    • @nymidartist2686
      @nymidartist2686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@napachick100 I listen to this song and instead of a depressing song I hear a song that screams understanding. Everybody hurts. That's what it says. And they say to hold on so that's the hope

    • @matguimond92
      @matguimond92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought it was about being stuck in traffic and not giving into your inner road rage

    • @leannehouston2447
      @leannehouston2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Always listen to this song when I feel down in the dumps x

    • @GreenDay1981
      @GreenDay1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've been depressed the last few days and I listened to this song on my way home from work tonight.

  • @maxfit7931
    @maxfit7931 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +343

    One of my favorite songs of all time. I grew up in a poor family but had the most incredible experiences. I miss my mom, who passed away four years ago, so terribly. She never wanted anything but to love her children. My success is attributed to her! Miss you, mom!

    • @Ch3loos
      @Ch3loos 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Be strong❤

    • @mikevolante7663
      @mikevolante7663 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That was my mum, too

    • @garyhobby723
      @garyhobby723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Mine too, I wish I had been a better daughter. Everybody hurts in their own way.

    • @janetphillips2875
      @janetphillips2875 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I came here for some reason tonight...to hear this song

    • @vinsensocortino3593
      @vinsensocortino3593 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me encanta 💖

  • @craigwalker551
    @craigwalker551 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've been on medication for depression for 12 years and my dad died on boxing day and was cremated on my birthday and this song really helps

  • @kimberlymcclure1113
    @kimberlymcclure1113 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    REM such an inspirational song that truly saved me years ago and unfortunately Im battling a pain like one ive never felt before . But any time I feel like Im about to give up I listen to this song it saves me and I continue to Hold on . Please to all the believers who read this just remember me in prayer...thank u and God bless....

    • @djnick59
      @djnick59 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I just prayed for you!

    • @silvialuna-xc6gj
      @silvialuna-xc6gj 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ánimo..💪

    • @nataliethomas9264
      @nataliethomas9264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just prayed for you. Keep holding on, and lean into Him when your burden becomes too much. God's got you, friend :)

  • @whiteferrari9517
    @whiteferrari9517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1735

    My dad passed away 1 month ago due to covid. That‘s the song he wanted to be played at his funeral. It‘s the first time I hear this song since then, still hurts.
    COVID took Mom now too. May you be reunited in heaven.
    I love you both more than words can ever express ❤️

    • @macywest4005
      @macywest4005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      aww im so sorry♥️♥️

    • @liamjones7944
      @liamjones7944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sorry to hear that

    • @idekanymore9186
      @idekanymore9186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Your dad had great music taste rip🙏🏽

    • @hazelnutcookie4783
      @hazelnutcookie4783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mein herzlichstes Beileid 💐 🕊

    • @carly_02
      @carly_02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'm really sorry for you! Stay strong!

  • @catherinelee1250
    @catherinelee1250 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    We lost our mother Christmas Eve which took a toll on us all but less than 3 weeks later my sister lost her husband. She cries constantly and so sad. After 2 years we are all getting better but my sister seems at times like she just can’t get passed loosing our mother and then her husband. I pray for her all the time and I sent her this song this morning in hopes it would lift her. I love this song it does help with the loss of my mother. Life is so darn hard and this song says it all. Thank you and God Bless everyone

    • @OldBillOverHill
      @OldBillOverHill หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lost my Mom on our wedding anniversary and my best friend the next easter. I'll send her healing.

  • @clothesingtime79
    @clothesingtime79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This came out when I was a teen and I appreciated it then. Now, when I'm 44 and lost my fiance, mom and best friend all within 6 months of each other, I appreciate it even more. The sadness I feel is expressed by songs, that's how I cope and this just gets me.❤❤

    • @MarieSchilling88
      @MarieSchilling88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you and I am trying. I hope you are too.

    • @clothesingtime79
      @clothesingtime79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MarieSchilling88 Hi I'm sorry, I didn't know if you were speaking to me because I didn't comment. I'm not on here often so I don't know. I hope whatever you are dealing with gets better for you. For me, it's one day at a time right now because this all happened recently. My heart and prayers go out to you. 💜

    • @sonnydominguez6225
      @sonnydominguez6225 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stay strong and hold on this is my biggest fear I have never experience one of my close loved ones dying I am truly scared for it to happen I just hope I’m ready for when the time comes it’s inevitable. I thinks it’s ok to hurt but don’t give up❤

    • @clothesingtime79
      @clothesingtime79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sonnydominguez6225 Thank you very much❤ I can't tell you not to fear it but please don't live like that. Enjoy every moment you have with your loved ones and don't think about anything bad happening. That is the best advice I can give you. This all happened suddenly, each one and part of me is thankful that I didn't fear anything. I try not to give up but I did pick up and move across the country thinking it would help. It hasn't but I'm slowly working on getting there. I appreciate your comment and please try to take my advice. Don't live in fear of losing anyone, embrace the love while you have it❤❤

    • @MarieSchilling88
      @MarieSchilling88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@clothesingtime79That was honestly the best advice I have seen someone say after losing what you have. I dont think I could have that outlook that you do. Im sorry for what you went through and you seem to have a very caring heart. I don't know how long ago it happened to you but you are strong. Dont let this bring you down and you cope how you need. Songs are things we cant say.

  • @crazycatlady252
    @crazycatlady252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    My sister chose this song for her funeral when she was dying from cancer in 2014. I think she was telling us that however hard things get, to keep holding on. It helps me through the tough times.

    • @dalekemp3585
      @dalekemp3585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Stay strong sam

    • @American-Zero
      @American-Zero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. She wouldn't want you to be sad..just keep holding on.

    • @robertteppler12345
      @robertteppler12345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She will be so proud of you.

    • @barbara2146
      @barbara2146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. I know that I will get better and be able to handle mental illness once my toolbox ',positivism, smoothies, proteins and vitamins and deliciously homemade cuisine( no preservatives). . Patience les amis will eventually come back or not. crazy cat lady 2 months ago)

    • @loxahacefigaronald724
      @loxahacefigaronald724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hang tuff cat lady. That's what they would've wanted!

  • @stormseun
    @stormseun ปีที่แล้ว +373

    When your day is long
    And the night, the night is yours alone
    When you're sure you've had enough
    Of this life, well hang on
    Don't let yourself go
    'Cause everybody cries
    Everybody hurts sometimes
    Sometimes everything is wrong
    Now it's time to sing along
    When your day is night alone (hold on, hold on)
    If you feel like letting go (hold on)
    If you think you've had too much
    Of this life, well hang on
    'Cause everybody hurts
    Take comfort in your friends
    Everybody hurts
    Don't throw your hand, oh no
    Don't throw your hand
    If you feel like you're alone
    No, no, no, you are not alone
    If you're on your own in this life
    The days and nights are long
    When you think you've had too much
    Of this life to hang on
    Well, everybody hurts sometimes
    Everybody cries
    Everybody hurts, sometimes
    And everybody hurts sometimes
    So hold on, hold on
    Hold on, hold on, hold on
    Hold on, hold on, hold on
    Everybody hurts

    • @angie5257
      @angie5257 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😥

    • @gavinneill1655
      @gavinneill1655 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😔😪

    • @thomaswalters2476
      @thomaswalters2476 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Read the lyrics to this song it brings comfort to the brokenhearted I'd never known what it was like to not want to live then I lost Marie and all I could do was blame myself feel like I failed then I realized it's like a book it's not the end just the beginning of new chapter

    • @AlamMohamed369
      @AlamMohamed369 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💪❤️💪

    • @rickcollins1696
      @rickcollins1696 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very moving music and lyrics.

  • @gnasha8146
    @gnasha8146 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    so many wonderful comments to people who are suffering in some way, god bless you and may he be with you all ....................

    • @sabinefanger827
      @sabinefanger827 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amein❤
      Thank you friend...!
      Shalom and Maranatha❤

    • @Oksowhat_now
      @Oksowhat_now 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep being in comments only makes you think of how ths problems we have are nothing to what some people went and are going through ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lindabeltz4272
    @lindabeltz4272 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    We lost our little girl Brandi, in a Car accident in 1991.The "City of Angels" had this Song .I realized, Every body does hurt sometimes. It doesn't matter what age. When you lose someone it sooo is a hurt you can explain in words ,tears are necessary to heal .

  • @TrueBrit1
    @TrueBrit1 ปีที่แล้ว +745

    My sister chose this for her funeral last Tuesday. I'll always think of her now when I hear this song. So powerful, so sad. The words are incredibly apt. She battled for a long time, but she couldn't fight any longer and she is now at peace. Miss you Pam. X

    • @DiamondLil
      @DiamondLil ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So much loss and pain. You're not alone. I hope you find some comfort inher memory

    • @dorothysmith3120
      @dorothysmith3120 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤🙏

    • @antonioguilherme3763
      @antonioguilherme3763 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Don't give it a lost time or don't think you won't see it again...... a new and more beautiful dimension awaits us ..... believe only ....

    • @joekelly7088
      @joekelly7088 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God bless you and your family at this difficult time 🇮🇪

    • @TrueBrit1
      @TrueBrit1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you everybody for your kind words. ❤

  • @zuzannawisniewska4464
    @zuzannawisniewska4464 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +507

    One of the most powerful songs ever written....still hits me every time...

    • @marcinmarcin3754
      @marcinmarcin3754 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Zgadzam sie Zuzanno Ty wczoraj o tym pomyślałaś, ja dziś:) wszystkiego dobrego dla Ciebie.

    • @GavinPeacock-rc6nv
      @GavinPeacock-rc6nv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ĥelps me get through also,wish people could get on.. Enough hate,it socks.

    • @Storm88000
      @Storm88000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      …..and the sky is blue

    • @tracyhartigan1601
      @tracyhartigan1601 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love you with all my heart as always Kie, you knocked the stuffing out of me when that guy killed you n Mac, ❤❤❤

    • @PhilipDocherty-wy7yq
      @PhilipDocherty-wy7yq 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My daughter hasn't spoke to me for a year and miss her so much

  • @candybell3214
    @candybell3214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    This touched me so deeply. I have felt alone since the passing of my husband in 2004. We found pancreatic cancer in the final stage. He lasted about a month after seeing the doctor. We planned on living along life after we were retired. We use to talk growing old together. I still miss him and love him so much but I also thank God that he didn't endure the pain very long. He is in my heart and will stay there until I join him. This song says it all. 😢

    • @rosemarydragon
      @rosemarydragon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a rteañpñy sad biit amazing piece of indo9rmation.l, I qam so so so9rry to read this but myou are strong and hop'e myou are recevering o reco0ver3ed. O cant see to tyoe lol,. lotttsa loo9ce x

  • @Mannsy83
    @Mannsy83 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Please pray for me. I have treatment resistant depression and everyday i think of ending it

    • @irishgirl1519
      @irishgirl1519 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Please don’t 😢
      Things will get better ❤️

    • @mstjane1
      @mstjane1 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤️

    • @Mannsy83
      @Mannsy83 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@irishgirl1519 that's very kind of you..I don't really have much hope, there's not even a reason I'm depressed I just am. I don't know how I will live the rest of my life like this

    • @irishgirl1519
      @irishgirl1519 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Mannsy83
      Please God you will feel better soon .
      Never give up, you would be missed .
      Listen to REM’s Everybody Hurts , again.
      I’ve seen comments on here that have said that song helped them .
      Life is precious.
      Love from Ireland 🇮🇪

    • @dajangmark2492
      @dajangmark2492 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hang in there, things will get better.

  • @reddlezlie
    @reddlezlie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    I lost my only child.. 11 year old son to hemorrhagic dengue severe in Jan. 2022 and this song gives me some relief. I listen to this song every time i feel down and out. Grieving process is not easy. Praying for healing and restoration to all the parents out there or to anyone who lost their loved ones. 🙏🏻❤

  • @ahmedahmed4056
    @ahmedahmed4056 7 ปีที่แล้ว +952

    every single song of this band is a masterpiece

    • @jaimecaicedo7175
      @jaimecaicedo7175 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me encanta este grupo una canción muy sentida

    • @seq2024
      @seq2024 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your not wrong, they have sure seen the face and held hands with the angels.

    • @elsoss180
      @elsoss180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is brilliant, but my favourite is Leaving New York . . . incredible song . . .

    • @gusterguy01826
      @gusterguy01826 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Every time they put out a "greatest hits" album, I scan the track listing and think "Wow, they really screwed this up with the song choices, they missed so many." It's then I remember that REM is one of those bands where you really, really need to hear ALL the albums, front to back.

    • @michaelkylow4411
      @michaelkylow4411 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could you recommend some songs of them?

  • @debm6414
    @debm6414 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I lived through 14 years of the dark night of the soul. I survived by grace alone. This song brings me tears…

  • @DeeLouise-df1bq
    @DeeLouise-df1bq 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My Mum was diagnosed with Cancer in 1999 at the age of 39, she passed away in 2005, she always wanted this at her funeral, this was the opening song at her funeral

  • @heatherkay1610
    @heatherkay1610 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    My Dad died one week ago. I had a dream about him last night and this song was playing in my dream. Honestly I hadn't thought about this song in years. I believe he sent this song to me in my dream. I miss you Dad.

    • @mickjagger8439
      @mickjagger8439 ปีที่แล้ว

      Might help if you talk to him, I believe your loved ones, that have passed, can hear you.

    • @uuss-23yrs.25
      @uuss-23yrs.25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've made my own plans for tomorrow 23yrs ago!

    • @uuss-23yrs.25
      @uuss-23yrs.25 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've tried so hard to explain how deeply I feel about you,yet it falls on deafness

    • @uuss-23yrs.25
      @uuss-23yrs.25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ALWAYS BARBARA,ALWAYS

    • @thealternative9580
      @thealternative9580 ปีที่แล้ว

      I haven't had a dream in years. I wish I'd dream of my mom. She died recently. It really hurts. I love you mom.

  • @iangibbons3110
    @iangibbons3110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    This was played at my Son's funeral.....my special song for my special boy. Brett I miss you my boy.xxxx

    • @whicheverfour
      @whicheverfour 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sorry for your loss,R.I.P brett
      Hope and pray he's watching over you which he will be ❤

    • @Jeru_on_the_road
      @Jeru_on_the_road 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      o my world

    • @AW-hv1jy
      @AW-hv1jy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @dragonflysteampunk4266
      @dragonflysteampunk4266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would of balled my eyes out. So sorry for your loss. xx

    • @martintrevino2984
      @martintrevino2984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm truly sorry for your lost. I have two youngs sons, so I can only imagine your pain. Please try to stay strong.....best wishes and thoughts for you and family.😪

  • @davidmcfarlane9185
    @davidmcfarlane9185 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My mom is battling Pancreatic Cancer and I’m feeling really down watching her decline but my Faith won’t let me give up and Pray she doesn’t either.. who knew a song I remember hearing during my childhood would resurface. 🙏🏾… for Every hurting soul.. Hold On.

  • @AImaniaX
    @AImaniaX หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I can only imagine how many lives were saved because of this song. 🎵 There is music that is empty that has no impact on society and then there are songs like this one that impacts a whole generation and many to come.

  • @jeffcollins1098
    @jeffcollins1098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    I am 64 years old and this is one of the most emotional songs I have ever heard, I am listening to it and reading the comments and it makes me realise just how lucky I am when others are having to deal with such heartbreak and more in their lives. My heart goes out to all who have commented below and above me and I truly hope that you can overcome whatever has caused your hurt.

    • @earleenaustin174
      @earleenaustin174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you what a nice man you are

    • @TheStrmcliffae46
      @TheStrmcliffae46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      just remember that you are not alone

    • @sophiew1967
      @sophiew1967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I' he laid my heart on the line above here to go hopefully send love to others.Jeff ..people care for you too brother xx

    • @kevinh2915
      @kevinh2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am like you my friend, I realise how truly blessed I am with my life, I have a beautiful wife and children and up to now have enjoyed good health, In this modern consumer driven society too many people do not realise how lucky they are. Best wishes and love to anybody going through hard times at the moment.

    • @Happy57
      @Happy57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What you wrote was so nice you sound like a really wonderful person. I am also 64 years old my husband passed 3 months ago very lonely now. But since he did me so wrong which I just found out 2 years before his death I believe the hurt is less. Hoping to find a friend someday my age if nothing else just to talk with. I don't know what your story is Jeff but I wish you all the best we're all not getting any younger here. Peace and happiness always my friend.

  • @samanthaelliott603
    @samanthaelliott603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I bet he doesn't even know how many lives he has impacted with this song.

    • @CreepyJoeMustGo
      @CreepyJoeMustGo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes...yes he and REM know exactly how impactful this song is. We’re listening to it in 2021...

    • @scientificdevil4672
      @scientificdevil4672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If he saved one life, I think he would say it was worth it. It has to be thousands tho.

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/w-d-xo.html

    • @randomy5151
      @randomy5151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And saved

    • @drewcharles2398
      @drewcharles2398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He might. I just learned he is Godfather to Kirk Kobain’s daughter.

  • @greendragonfarms
    @greendragonfarms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    3 days ago I lost my 19 year old niece,she took her own life and now I'm here.im so devastated

    • @enriqueavilaojeda8452
      @enriqueavilaojeda8452 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LA ACOMPAÑO EN SU SENTIMIENTO AL IGUAL QUE A TODA LA FAMILIA...

    • @rd5375
      @rd5375 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @natanaelalvesbarbosa
      @natanaelalvesbarbosa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      sinto muito, eu também tenho 19 anos, e pensamentos suicidas são bastantes intrusivos para mim, meus sentimentos 😢❤

  • @dipankarganguly2752
    @dipankarganguly2752 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Anyone hearing this song in 2024
    👇🏻

    • @heatherbealer8253
      @heatherbealer8253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep and bawling my eyes out 😭

    • @dipankarganguly2752
      @dipankarganguly2752 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@heatherbealer8253 😭

    • @David.466
      @David.466 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yo,última vez q la escuchó 😢

    • @violetstewart1992
      @violetstewart1992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes i am. Love everything about it

    • @dipankarganguly2752
      @dipankarganguly2752 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@violetstewart1992 😌

  • @brandipoe1
    @brandipoe1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Music is not this moving anymore. Thanks for the memories!

    • @MacGuffinExMachina
      @MacGuffinExMachina 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It is, but it's not playing on Top 40 radio. Look into the indie scene.

    • @MacGuffinExMachina
      @MacGuffinExMachina 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm sure you know of every indie band. You fuckin kiddin me? Do more exploring.

    • @TrepidFaceHugger
      @TrepidFaceHugger 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Every older music video it's the same old comment "music is not music anymore". Just like grandpa said when he listened to REM. I mean come on, what a circlejerk. There's LOTS of good music out there, the problem is that these people don't keep up and only hear the stuff that's on the radio.

    • @MacGuffinExMachina
      @MacGuffinExMachina 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is true. It's also true that there has always been shitty pop music. Though, pop music is worse than it used to be. I do miss walking into a store or something and liking the the top 40 stuff playing. Pop is too homogenous now.

    • @TrepidFaceHugger
      @TrepidFaceHugger 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MacGuffin I'm not even, sure about that. Listen to pop music from the late 60's . All sounds like the Beatles

  • @rogoitan
    @rogoitan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    The Cancer spread all over her organ, she died the last June.
    Rest in peace, my wife. I promise to send my prayer to God, to take care of you.

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/w-d-xo.html

    • @nuttybar9
      @nuttybar9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Cancer sucks!

    • @BayssandriC_DoumBdinoV
      @BayssandriC_DoumBdinoV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong my friend and dont forget to live happy thé rest of your Life. You deserve it

    • @TonyA-ex1sj
      @TonyA-ex1sj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep yourself stronger than ever, life goes on, and I am pretty sure that if your wife could tell you some words, she would definitely tell "be happy, don't forget me, but you deserve to be happy"

    • @KennBurch
      @KennBurch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As the song says, you are not alone.

  • @Jamie-de7up
    @Jamie-de7up 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this song is what it means.

  • @CarlSagan777
    @CarlSagan777 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My mom and I had rescued a stray kitten. He was our family's everything, just like our family member, but things changed drastically yesterday morning when he went missing. I've searched for him everywhere, but there's no trace. I hope wherever he is, he's safe🙂. I felt that this was the place that i could share my sadness with thats all

    • @irishgirl1519
      @irishgirl1519 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s sad losing a beloved pet , hope you find it ☺️

  • @kelly1964cool
    @kelly1964cool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1361

    I lost my son in 2019 and then came 2020 nothing can break me anymore!! I’m still here cause he told me to stay strong!! I’m doing my best I promise xxxx

  • @denamcmasters6646
    @denamcmasters6646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    My precious nephew was dying of brain cancer 7 years ago. It was unbearable for my sister so I tried to help with what I could and asked him what he wanted. This was first song he picked. He didn't want anyone being sad for him when everybody hurts eventually and some survive and some fly free of the hurt. I still remember people asking me why I picked that song since it wasn't typical funeral songs. I just said I didn't pick it. It was what Jason wanted so it was for him and a testament to the person he was. 💞

    • @americanfoever730
      @americanfoever730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome

    • @punky2626
      @punky2626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for y'all's loss. He sounds like an amazing and brave soul

    • @miajudelman6739
      @miajudelman6739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s beautiful. So sorry for your loss

    • @michellehill2
      @michellehill2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your nephew sounds like he was a wonderful person. Sorry he was gone too soon. This is definitely a great song for him to have chose.
      It's all about no matter how bad things get, try to hold on. ❤

    • @sylwiap3970
      @sylwiap3970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      my prayer send

  • @lenny1973
    @lenny1973 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lost my puppy of 19 years today. Make sure you hug your best mate everyone.

  • @rather_be_a_cat
    @rather_be_a_cat หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song hits different depending on your mood. When you're happy it makes you sad but when you feel like you really can't go on, it gives you a reason to try.

  • @pattyschlossberg1209
    @pattyschlossberg1209 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    This song is therapeutic. I can feel down, totally alone, and nonexistent, yet I'm not alone. We are all suffering in our own way together.

    • @morriswebb9001
      @morriswebb9001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      our not alone

    • @silvermoondrops
      @silvermoondrops 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Many years ago after getting past a very difficult situation in my life, I played this song, sat there and cried and cried. This song lifted the heavy weight of what I had gone through, right off my shoulders. Still get tears in my eyes listening to this. ❤😢

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@silvermoondrops
      lets analyse the nonsense /lies many amongst you believe in:
      lie: schools are of use (fact. schools keep slavery alive and stands for dumbing down the population of mankind)
      lie: moon and mars landings, (fact: even masons know they cannot leave)
      lie: news channels share truth (fact: these are for politic propaganda)
      lie: money has a value of its own (fact: it is just a tool of this world, which value has been agreed upon world wide)
      lie: NASA lies (globe and all....) (fact: NASA stands for to deceive) - you havn´t searched - have you?
      lie: the lgbtq++++ propaganda (fact: it is a part of masonry depopulation agenda, 500 000 000 souls, thats their goal.)
      lie: Evolution and the dinosaurs. (fact: mankind is not hybrid kind)
      to keep stating that there was an evolution, then we ain´t humans, we aint then mankind, we are then hybrids.
      Lie: holidays (xmas, halloween, new year eve and so on) (fact: PAGAN HOLIDAYS, to praise BAAL, the god of this world)
      lie: U.F.Os (fact: they are demons/evil spirits in high places, against whom we fight daily = spiritual warfare)
      lie: rules and laws rule the world (fact: signs and symbols of masonry do)
      10 lies, should i go on?

    • @nicarea
      @nicarea 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im with you😊

    • @freespirit-111
      @freespirit-111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, we’ve all been traumatized in some shape or form. This song keeps me sane.

  • @AcousticBallad-xd1yl
    @AcousticBallad-xd1yl ปีที่แล้ว +1371

    When you are happy , you listen to the music , when you are sad , you understand the lyrics

    • @helgadunn7395
      @helgadunn7395 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That's so true.

    • @M-ANTONY-888
      @M-ANTONY-888 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@helgadunn7395 So bloody true

    • @stokedd
      @stokedd ปีที่แล้ว +3

      give credit where credit is due you didnt make this

    • @darthvader9173
      @darthvader9173 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When you are happh you dont listen to this. And when you post this kinda comments you fill my cells with cringe until they dilate and die, killing me at a molecular level.

    • @thereisnosanctuary6184
      @thereisnosanctuary6184 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great quote

  • @A.W.2024
    @A.W.2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Es ist traurig und doch wunderschön. Und es ist egal, wie alt es ist. Es bleibt für viele ein Trost. 🙏

  • @ToddSonne
    @ToddSonne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    For a sad songs, there's enough light and hope, and love, as we know that's where we find God.

  • @davidbranquinho4796
    @davidbranquinho4796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3094

    This song took me from a world of depression,drug addiction and attempted suicide to the family man I am today. No matter how bad life has become dont give up. Things do get better and wounds heal and memories are not forgotten but used as lessons to a brighter future.
    May God Bless all of you that are hurting.

    • @yvonneczechowska
      @yvonneczechowska 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      love u David :)

    • @Tomogo02
      @Tomogo02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Good man David

    • @carolcunninghm998
      @carolcunninghm998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Well done you!

    • @ulissesszajdzinski7743
      @ulissesszajdzinski7743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      David R. Branquinho oh man that's a real life problems not everyone Understand this i hope ya arlight

    • @garyoreilly4388
      @garyoreilly4388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      well said mate

  • @DDPYogaBoomer
    @DDPYogaBoomer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1425

    A great friend once told me " if the mountain were smooth Bob , We'd never be able to climb it !! "

    • @oscarrizo2078
      @oscarrizo2078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Robert Fritz what it means? Just a random thing?

    • @nobody845
      @nobody845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I thought your name was robert ?

    • @DDPYogaBoomer
      @DDPYogaBoomer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@oscarrizo2078 - it means life is like a mountain and nothing caused you pain , you would not grow ...

    • @lukegraham2269
      @lukegraham2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Your friend was clearly a very wise man! Thanks Bob! 👍

    • @redzer1103
      @redzer1103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Meaning life’s not smooth and you need the bumps to make it to the top I like it bob

  • @rainy2090
    @rainy2090 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My mom passed away when i was 14. I'll be 49 this month and im still trying to hang on.

    • @movienerd202
      @movienerd202 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost mine at 12 from a brain tumor. You'll never stop grieving.

    • @nataliethomas9264
      @nataliethomas9264 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm proud of you. I haven't lost a parent myself, but there are definitely some kinds of pain that just stick with you, and it's incredible that you've continued to hold on. Keep at it. You are loved, and it is worth it to stick around, always.

  • @amandastratton8242
    @amandastratton8242 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Husband died suddenly 11th march 2024 only married 15 years. had this song for his funeral Beautiful song

  • @MrGinoespino
    @MrGinoespino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    I’m 61 years old, I came across this song the night my granddaughter received a Heart transplant on May 28th 2018. My granddaughter’s birthday is October 13th , but our family celebrates May 28th because that’s her Heart anniversary. The transplant has allowed my granddaughter to ride a airplane for the first time, she’s thirteen years old now . She attends school while in session, and vacations with family. Our family understands each milestone she achieves is because of the borrowed Heart that beats inside her, and that she lives for two. It is because a very special family who said yes to organ donation on the worst day of their lives. My granddaughter’s life before her transplant was very different from now. Breathing was always a problem. Today my thoughts and tears of joy are with the donor’s family and for the young donor whose life came to an end unexpectedly . I thank God for everyday he gives us, I'm forever grateful forever humbled by their donation . My granddaughter’s donor is the ultimate hero in our story. Thank you for sharing your Love One with my little angel . 🙏🙏🙏 “When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, Show life you have a thousand reasons to smile.”
    Peace be with you. Gael ( Grandfather) of Heart recipient

    • @myslav1805
      @myslav1805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's a touching story. This too
      th-cam.com/video/kYmLzXHP2Ak/w-d-xo.html

    • @SuperE000
      @SuperE000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you for sharing Gael

    • @sharonarmy9326
      @sharonarmy9326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Much love to you and yours
      I can't imagine a life without my any of my loved ones

    • @adamdansiger
      @adamdansiger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This story is supernatural. Thank you for sharing. Love for your granddaughter!

    • @kotzebueboy
      @kotzebueboy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💙❤

  • @Dara-nz1pv
    @Dara-nz1pv ปีที่แล้ว +659

    This song got me through a hard time in the 90s. Left homeless with a young child. This is my go to song for comfort. Thanks MJS.

    • @Sezfluffy
      @Sezfluffy ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hope u find somewhere soon xx

    • @cryptonews6792
      @cryptonews6792 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏

    • @ImprovisedExpletiveDevice
      @ImprovisedExpletiveDevice ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I wish life/the world were kinder. Sorry for the pain that situation caused you. I hope you got more out of it than that in the end.

    • @kentimm4105
      @kentimm4105 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don't ever lose your self for anyone else. Your the Rock.

    • @jordanjohnson2299
      @jordanjohnson2299 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Homeless girls are the funnest

  • @donnabradley4253
    @donnabradley4253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    1993 February I lost my beautiful grandad. This was the song that hurt me so much. Still hurts thirty years later.

    • @markm.8302
      @markm.8302 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost mine in 1993 also. He was like my dad to me.

  • @ginawhite7962
    @ginawhite7962 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    How many people have been convinced by this song to not leave this reality?? This is not a hymn, and yet it has preserved my life and many others. Abandon religion.and embrace your human experience. It's so liberating.

  • @WW-bi2de
    @WW-bi2de 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1801

    I lost my daughter to suicide in 2010 so this really hits home, sorry to say I was not really familiar with this song until recently. Hang on to and give extra hugs to your friends and loved ones, sometimes we just don't know what is really going on with someone close to us and then it is too late. Virtual hugs going out to anyone who is in need at this difficult time in all our lives. Hang in there everyone.

    • @suzicampbell6584
      @suzicampbell6584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      My heart goes out to you...alas I know suicide well too.. I lost my husband to it 38yrs ago...his only sibling to it 15yrs ago and countless friends over time..
      So yes - hang in there to all....but above all reach out to someone if you feel too overwhelmed and on the edge..

    • @vallee3140
      @vallee3140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      such true words, have you heard Father Ray Kellys version of this? I think its better

    • @johnterlaje4771
      @johnterlaje4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙏 To you!

    • @advaitk876
      @advaitk876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sending you a virtual hug as well Ma'am! God bless you and my condolences

    • @amandahart3347
      @amandahart3347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m sorry thank you for posting

  • @waynecharles9108
    @waynecharles9108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    My father took his own life 7yrs ago, he left behind a wife, 3 kids and 7 grandchildren that all adored and loved him, we didn't know how bad his depression was until it was to late.......but this beautiful song, has and still helps me through the pain of losing my dad,

    • @nancybernal3457
      @nancybernal3457 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😢 As a mama, my heart hurts for you, and I just want to give you a great big hug. ❤

    • @kotzebueboy
      @kotzebueboy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My sincere condolences ❤

    • @atomzero1
      @atomzero1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are in my prayers. I'm sorry for your loss and your suffering.

    • @ClaytonTownley
      @ClaytonTownley 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      RIP to your Dad

    • @JohnThompson-en2er
      @JohnThompson-en2er 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm so truly sorry. Lost my 36 y.o. son to same thing in January 2019. He left 2 kids and a family who loved him tremendously. My thoughts are with you and yours

  • @mimidavis2686
    @mimidavis2686 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I played this song for my 4 year old granddaughter and she loved it, she played it over and over until she fell asleep holding my arm. Even she understood the deep meaning in this beautiful song 😢❤❤

  • @roharia1
    @roharia1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was dedicated to our wonderful son. Miss you 😢xxx💔

  • @leahcolucci2997
    @leahcolucci2997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2408

    When we're happy we listen to the music...but when we're sad we understand the lyrics.

  • @drieuxkoeppel8152
    @drieuxkoeppel8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    In 2021, this is just as important as ever. I’m 61. I’ve struggled with depression since I can remember. I’ve taken medication since I was 18. I was cautioned that I had Bipolar tendencies, and full-blown Bipolar II could crop up later in life. Well, later is now. My meds aren’t working anymore. My wonderful son (who has his own issues with mental illness), suggested his psychiatrist. I have an appointment in nine days. My primary care has prescribed medications which help a little. The truth is I’ve never been this depressed ever. I’m hanging on one day at a time. Hardest thing I’ve ever done. What’s ironic,
    is I’m an RN with Psych experience. My husband of forty years is my rock. And my above-mentioned son lives about 25 minutes from us. I’m sorry if this is rambling. I just (mistakenly) thought I’d take the antidepressant and everything would be fine. WRONG. If you believe in a higher power (I do, which is why I’m still here), say a prayer for me. Thanks.

    • @user-sr4gj6ml2o
      @user-sr4gj6ml2o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/w-d-xo.html

    • @amys5737
      @amys5737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      keep on fighting. I don’t know you, but I know the worlds a better place with you in it and never forget that. Music is a healer, god knows how but it is. wish you all the best👍❤️

    • @Dahlia10
      @Dahlia10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand so sorry mine is situational sometimes it just seems too hard

    • @Mundoormaadan
      @Mundoormaadan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take care my friend

    • @andrewpryer9161
      @andrewpryer9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Drieux, you are not alone. You are clearly of great value to your family and no doubt community. Try reaching out to a community callers group in your area, they will be there for you.... I think you are super brave to share your feelings here. No one as you know has all the answers, but honestly discussing how we feel to an empathetic other person can be cathartic. I heard that the one simple thing that can be good for body and soul...is singing. Five minutes per day is scientifically supposed to make a difference. Now I'm rambling....
      Keep counting your blessings - we all have more than we realise.

  • @alexandrefonseca2315
    @alexandrefonseca2315 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Beautiful lyrics to this song. This week I lost my cousin to suicide. If you're thinking about it, stop, there are a lot of people who love you, a lot of people who will suffer without you. Life was hard for my cousin, but we were always here, now God have him in a good place, I can believe.

  • @roberthess7187
    @roberthess7187 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My so precious daughter Rachel passed at 32 yrs old last June. I miss her so much and I hurt sometimes. She was pure love, my big buddy, my everything. She lived a challenged life handicapped and visually impaired, but never once gave into woe is me, she was just such an inspiration. She is with Grandoa now. I KNOW SO.

    • @irishgirl1519
      @irishgirl1519 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So sorry for your loss 😊

  • @dkbsoulman
    @dkbsoulman ปีที่แล้ว +246

    "Cause everybody hurts, everybody cries, sometimes." Truer words were never spoken. Beautiful song.

    • @denisegolden600
      @denisegolden600 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is not gone, she is with you always.😢😢

    • @darlenedunn8139
      @darlenedunn8139 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i totally agree

    • @lyndastolper912
      @lyndastolper912 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you are so right... everybody hurts, everybody cries... will the pain ever go away?

    • @NJBerry-om7kl
      @NJBerry-om7kl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No.... it becomes a bit less painful but it never goes completely away. On your "dark day's"... go ahead & cry, feel bad for yourself but know - You Are Not Alone!! Alass, Keep your friends close & close out your enemies & cry, cry hard, sob uncontrollably but let it out! Otherwise, you will choke on the pain in your loneliness. Your friends that are close & understand... Talk to them. Let them sit with you & cry with you. But the pain, is your pain & it never goes away. Get a grip on it after you've cried til your tears dry up, after you've sobbed hard & uncontrollably, then you push the pain in an empty place. It will come back on another day but, you can roll with it for awhile & put it back in your "mind closet." You're stronger than you think & you have your friends. Just roll with it for awhile, put it back in the closet in your mind, pick yourself up, dust off & go on about your day. Bcuz, everybody hurts sometimes.

  • @kathiesullivan2543
    @kathiesullivan2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    Whenever I feel really depressed, I just play this song on a loop until I feel better. It makes me cry and sometimes you just need a good cry to feel better. Hold on...

    • @jamie57061
      @jamie57061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish I could say you are so right....

    • @thoughtwavetech
      @thoughtwavetech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. Same. I can't imagine how many lives this has saved. I listen to this when the abyss stares up at me.

    • @kathiesullivan2543
      @kathiesullivan2543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jamie57061 please seek out help. It has helped me tremendously.

    • @fullhousefrek
      @fullhousefrek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @Houndzable
      @Houndzable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Used to catch my Mum crying. I would ask her why, she would say “You always feel better after a good cry” xxxx

  • @katherinewhite7017
    @katherinewhite7017 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song makes me remember I am not the only one suffering!

  • @24sevenrecords51
    @24sevenrecords51 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    23:58 in South African time. 28 February 2024 this song is still a great classic. When artists were selected based on talent

  • @VATOR2010
    @VATOR2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2271

    So far you've survived 100% of your worst days! Stay Strong!!!

    • @348frank348
      @348frank348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      wow some perspective right there

    • @svehaa42
      @svehaa42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fuking kid..go do somethink right..Scool

    • @jensklink8477
      @jensklink8477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As allways, and you to

    • @uncletam
      @uncletam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      well said! never thought of it that way!!

    • @gayhomelesswithpinknails4424
      @gayhomelesswithpinknails4424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Vator Self thanks baby darling