I thought it was just me that started crying. Been really depressed and can barely move. Been trying to clean this rat trap of a room for 3 weeks. I do a little bit then lay back down because that’s all I can muster😢
@@educationhappy5552 depression can cripple you and bring you down like no other. One thing a lot of people sadly don't understand. I get it! I have chronic pain and depression and I can fight through the pain and get things don't easier than fighting through depression to get up and get things done. Depression sucks all the energy out of you, weighs you down so that it's like carrying an elephant on your back any time you try to do anything. It paralyzes you. It's like you have to fight and defeat a monster before you can even get out of bed. Some days we can beat that monster and down and get up and get things done. And other days, it's just not possible. Praying you have some victorious days! Hugs!! ❤️
I didn't know that the brain gets more and more "trained" to do the same again, as we repeat our good or bad habits. After having covid, I stayed weak, unfocused and depressed. And things got more and more difficult as months went by. Happily, at one point, I was told to trained a new positive habit every five days, to replace one of the many bad habits I recently had got. At first it is heavy, it hurts, but repetition is the secret, specially with a method. The book "Atomic habits" from James Clear, is the best I've ever read. A real manual, an award-winning book. Happy and blessed 2024 🌟🎄🙌
Came across this yesterday & then spent hours watching all of the videos. Thank you so much for what you do!! I'm dealing with depression & PTSD from my job as a police dispatcher & off work. I am single, no kids, live alone & my house is always a complete mess. I'm overwhelmed & so disappointed in myself. I've always been messy but I really want to be neat. Its not because I like living in chaos. I don't!! I literally had a cry when you said you were sending a virtual hug, You have no idea how much I need that. I need someone to see me! Thank you!! I wish I could hug your neck & hire you to clean my house lol
I was diagnosed with ADHD last year, shortly after my partner of four years broke up with me and one of the things that caused tension was my messiness and our drastically different approaches to housework. I was literally crying yesterday because my current boyfriend did all my piled up dishes yesterday and I felt like I'd let him down. So everything you said here just made me tear up again. I try so hard and it feels like it's all for nothing. But between this video and all the reassurance my boyfriend gave me yesterday, I do feel a bit better 🥰
I had the same tension in my first relationship (which lasted 2 years). We broke up 6 month before I finally got my adhd and autism diagnosis. My 2 relationships after that went way better regarding the messiness, my partners tried to help me as good as they could, giving me a single task a day on a post-it, or giving me a lot of praise and cuddles when I've managed to get at least a small thing done :) All the best to you
I could never keep a tidy house no matter what I did, highly likely I have adhd or autism as 2 of my sons have been diagnosed. My current husband praises all the little things though which makes a huge difference. I just do one or 2 things and then see how I feel as I become so easily overwhelmed. Hubby will come home and cook dinner if he sees it’s been a floundering day. That support has been so good.
Just discovered you this morning and I’m so glad I have. Thank you for doing this work and being who you are. ❤ It is so meaningful to so many of us. You’ll be keeping me company today as I start to tackle my house.
Thank you for this. I see my home today and am overwhelmed bc it’s not up to my standards. My husband sees it as clean. ☺️ I need to give myself grace, and stop striving for perfection.
This is so me! I can tidy up, but I know what I haven't done. And everyone what thinks it's "clean". I had planned the other day, to take a bubble bath, by my husband's suggestion for my skin. But the universe had other plans that day. So he asked why don't I ever try after getting my housework done. I told him it's never done. Then he said it's clean and I should just go relax in the bath. But I'm still here trying to get the house "clean enough" to feel like relaxing in the bath.
Thank you Remi, you send such a beautiful positive message. True, we never stop trying and out side criticism doesn’t help, as you said we criticise our selves enough. We’ll get there, we also need to be a little kinder on our selves. 💕
I love your video for your honesty and positive attitude. Things can always get better. Just because it looks impossible today, doesn't mean that step by step it can't get done! Thank you for this. We all need to feel understood and supported and that's what you're giving us.
When I had kids I regularly put away toys they were ignoring for a month at a time while they were sleeping, they never missed them and it would give you more room in your house. After a month I’d bring them back out and put another lot away.
Love this, so uplifting and honest. This sort of content will really help people see the day to day struggles of a busy family, while helping those with the busy family feel less critical on themselves!
Thank you for making these videos. You are such a beautiful person. I’ve never had any problems like this until I got older. You encourage me and I appreciate it so much.
Yeah I always kept scrupulously on top of it, so my house wouldn’t become a big mess cleaned up the toys every night etc. And although it was more OCD when I was single, then when I had for young kids, it was still very decently kept then. But once I had some severe back problems even once they got a little better after I lost weight I was so behind and my daughter took over the rest of the house eventually, but my bedroom. I gave myself till tomorrow, noon to get my bedroom and order, and I have been procrastinating all weekend. It’s gonna be a long night. But it really is easy to get overwhelmed once it becomes messy. And then you can get even more depressed. The worst there’s nobody remembers that I was never like that before. I wouldn’t even have company over like that but of course that doesn’t stop my adult children from having company. Here- even one of the two who doesn’t even live here anymore. 😂 on my own kids act like I was always a pig instead of cleaning up after their butts! Anyway, it is very nice to see other people who understand for sure!
Oh, I gained a little weight back and my point is the older we get between the joints, and any possible weight gain, making it harder to move definitely can slow us down.
You’ve helped me a lot ❤ im a single mom with a daughter and sometimes I find thing ain’t overwhelming but your videos have shown me that im not alone x
Thanks for sharing I m not really messy just busy 😊cause I'm in the medical field so I get a little clutter in my Townhouse when I m off work I clean it seems like that is all I do work and clean love the fact that you give encouragement and positive vibes look forward ro more videos!! Thanks Luv❤😊
Oh bless you, my mum and stepdad both work in the medical field too! Sending so much love and admiration to you, and recognition for how bloody hard you work! ❤️
Thanks! You're a motivator and what's nice is that you've opened up your mess for us to see that we aren't the only ones. Lol I tell my hubby that, no need to criticize, I do it to myself.
Hey Remi! I love how you did this Short. It's something different and it's fun to watch things be subtracted from view. I hope you have an AMAZING day! 💕
Thank you… I hurt my knee and have had to have an operation. On my own in a foreign country. Keeping my apartment clean has become so hard and affected me so deeply. So your kindness, grace and compassion is appreciated more than I can say.. take care precious friend.. feeling the hugs .. sending them back to you, sweet mommy ..💖💖💖xoxo
Sending a virtual hug back to you! 🤗 Thank you!!!!! Even though I don't have children, I relate to what you and so many others comment. I try, I really do. I love the feeling of when everything thing is in it's place but i get so disgusted with myself for not being able to get it that way. I don't even let people come in my house anymore because of how ashamed I've become. Remi, you are such an inspiration!!!❤
You are so sweet. Overwhelm never seems to make it into the minimalist/decluttering vids. I found you video on just adding one or two things to the to do list, getting it done, then adding another to do without the expectation of getting everything done really helpful. I have tried this over the last three days and got far more done than I normally do. So thank you. Mini wins are such a relief after feeling like I have had only big failures. ❤
Thank you for encouraging me cause I try daily but there are times my body don't move as much as other times as a disabled woman. I understand what you're saying and I encourage you to continue cause you help us. Bless you Remi ❤
You are very sweet, thank you. I've been going through a depression and am trying so damn hard to get our place in check.Without any help. It takes so much out of me.
I tried the list technique, and I have to say it thrills me to write down what I have already done. Cross it out and move on to the next item. It's pure gold. Having ADHD is very hard on keeping life clutter free. Thanks for sharing this.
I also neary cried. This is the first time in my life that I've ever felt understood (even by myself) I know how hard I try and still my house sometimes looks like a bomb exploded in it. I'm tackling my kitchen as I watch this. It was spotless yesterday but today looks like it hasn't been cleaned in weeks 🤦🏽♀️. You are such an inspiration and so motivating. Just knowing I'm not alone is such comfort and reassurance. Thank you for your kind words and empowering videos ❤❤❤
You are a great Creator and I appreciate you. I went out yesterday on our farm and got a bunch of work done that's been getting pushed back... Feels good knowing I got it done for sure. And I can thank you for the motivation to do it!
Thank you so much. My mother sent me your video with making a short list and adding on after doing some tasks. You helped me to get all of my dishes done and 2 loads of laundry. I always feel so guilty about the mess, but i get so overwhelmed not knowing how to start. Thank you so much, you absolutely get me. Never knew about the term you used, now i know part of my issue. This is the first time ive been told someone was proud, and it was right after i got some things done. Thank you so much 😢❤
Youve got to be the sweetest and most articulate cleaning channel ive found. You have a lot of inisght into how people are feeling. Just found your channel yesterday ❤ love it
“Constantly trying” that one got me 💕 thanks for making us all feel so validated! To look at my house you’d think I just sat around all day eating chips 😂 but I’ve spent the whole day picking up and and cleaning up and crying over all the spilled chocolate milk 😂
Thanks for the hug! I am 64 and still struggle. Many messy people are actually perfectionists! I know it sounds strange but it's true. Fly lady has been helping me lately. If you haven't heard of her, check her out.
Your videos are so helpful to me. I am a ridiculously tidy person, to the point where mess and clutter make me feel insane. But I love some messy people - my sister, my son, and some friends. Hearing you talk about it helps me to understand my loved ones more so I can have more grace and not judge them. Thank you ❤
🥺 thank you... 😭 I sure needed to hear that!! And yes, as you said, I quite capable of generating my own depressions, as well as beating myself over the head. So thanks again. 😘
you're my hero! I thought I was the only one who just gets overwhelmed! I LOVE your videos! I discovered you on TH-cam and now I can watch you on TikTok!!
I am so happy I have found your channel here. I don't have tik tok and finding you on TH-cam has been so enlightening!! To know there are others like me, who have any one of the neurological quirks, that live in a mess but want it organized. You warm my heart and I enjoy all the tips you give. Thank you so much!!
I freaking needed this 😅. I have an almost two year old, an 8 month old, and I’m 23 weeks pregnant. I have ADHD and major depression and anxiety. Sometimes I feel so helpless because every time I clean it looks the same the next day or even the same night. I often feel like no one else’s house ever looks as bad as mine gets especially because of the scattered food on the floor from my toddler. This made me feel like I’m not alone and that my experience isn’t because I haven’t been doing a good job but because that’s just how being a parent is sometimes. I love this a lot.
You are my favorite because u keep it real! I wish u the greatest of success. As u become rich and famous, I hope u will not loose touch with ordinary followers who can relate with u! Like me! Off to take a much needed bath and then will clean with u in the background providing the motivation I need! Thanks
Honestly just stumbled along your channel - have been fighting major health challenges and have kids and feel constantly behind no matter how hard I try. And your channel and realism is a breathe of fresh air! ❤ May you be so greatly blessed today as you are a great blessing!!
Thank you so much!!!! I really needed this today ❤ was feeling overwhelmed by the mess in the house, I went into shut down mode and was feeling so depressed from the shame I felt. I have ADHD and autism and the struggle of staying on top of everything while having 2 small kids (3,5 and 1,5) is real! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!
I really needed this. Im currently doing school with 2 kids and another on the way while my husband is deployed. Ive been having a horrible bout of depression and ive had no motivation or energy to clean and i really needed this
Girl I love your videos. You keep going girl. You are an inspiration to all you put me to shame and I’m 66. Getting old bones getting weak and not able to kneel or bend down as I used to do so therefore my house is not as clean as I used to be able to keep it and that hurts me big time. Anyway honey love your videos keep going. 🥰🏴🥰🏴🥰🏴🥰🏴💋💋💋
I just found your page, and I really love your vibe. We're all trying hard every day, and I am definitely my harshest critic. Thank you for the virtual hug and here's one right back!
Thank you for this ❤ I live alone (well, me and the cat) and I find it hard to keep on top of things around the house. Its shocking how much mess one person can make. I get embarrassed inviting people round sometimes. I work a lot, and also suffer with depression and anxiety. When I have "free" time the last thing I want to do it clean and tidy the house, I sometimes just don't have the mental and physical energy. Your video's make me feel better about the the situation. Thank you so much ❤
I would love to see one video with just cleaning the fridge and freezer. I feel like that's a chore that I need to do but it's tedious to alone. I love listening to your videos. They are super encouraging and motivating
OMG! Thanks for acknowledging what we all feel, Remi. You are an absolute gem for making us feel better about ourselves when others judge us unfairly because they don't understand how hard we try. ,💛🤗
I have crippling depression and executive dysfunction because of it, and its so hard. I want to clean, I don't want to live surrounded by clutter and rubbish, but I only have a tiny amount of energy each day, and it all goes towards basic survival. Most days, I cant even get out of bed, and whenever I can, I try my best to at least tackle some of it. But of course, the people in my life don't understand because "it's so easy to pick things up of the floor", or "it's just wiping down the surfaces". For the past few weeks, I've been working hard to clean and tidy downstairs, and this was the motivation I needed to finally finish taking the rubbish out of the kitchen today. Maybe I could start the dishes today, or do them all tomorrow! Thanks for everything you do, its great appreciated ❤
Huge thanks. I'm so grateful for your content. It's so relatable to me and reminds me to be a little bit kinder to myself. I hope someone is doing the same for you! In case they're not... remember that you're amazing and a blessing to others xxx
Love the ascent i was a cleaner by trade but still get satisfied & freshly motivated watching others clean great job!!! You're family will appreciate all the work you've done in years to come (especially when it's their turn to do it) Love from Australia 🦘😎👍
I am writing to say that I highly appreciate you for your videos and amazing stories you tell. Not only you're motivating but super entertaining. I just love to listen to you talk about your life experiences. You're a fantastic story teller. Thank you so much for making my days better. I wish you all the best ❤️
Thank you so much for this! So relatable! Other TH-camrs don't even have a home that's messy. It's like they are just polishing the counters and putting away groceries. Or I feel like they just stage there homes and make it extra messy for the cleaning video. Your house looks like it's lived in and it looks a lot like mine.
Oh my gosh, this literally made me cry! Thank you! I needed to hear this! ❤️
I thought it was just me that started crying. Been really depressed and can barely move. Been trying to clean this rat trap of a room for 3 weeks. I do a little bit then lay back down because that’s all I can muster😢
@@educationhappy5552 depression can cripple you and bring you down like no other. One thing a lot of people sadly don't understand. I get it! I have chronic pain and depression and I can fight through the pain and get things don't easier than fighting through depression to get up and get things done. Depression sucks all the energy out of you, weighs you down so that it's like carrying an elephant on your back any time you try to do anything. It paralyzes you. It's like you have to fight and defeat a monster before you can even get out of bed. Some days we can beat that monster and down and get up and get things done. And other days, it's just not possible. Praying you have some victorious days! Hugs!! ❤️
😭😭😭🥰
I didn't know that the brain gets more and more "trained" to do the same again, as we repeat our good or bad habits. After having covid, I stayed weak, unfocused and depressed. And things got more and more difficult as months went by. Happily, at one point, I was told to trained a new positive habit every five days, to replace one of the many bad habits I recently had got. At first it is heavy, it hurts, but repetition is the secret, specially with a method.
The book "Atomic habits" from James Clear, is the best I've ever read. A real manual, an award-winning book.
Happy and blessed 2024 🌟🎄🙌
You’re the sweetest and so relatable ♥️
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Came across this yesterday & then spent hours watching all of the videos. Thank you so much for what you do!! I'm dealing with depression & PTSD from my job as a police dispatcher & off work. I am single, no kids, live alone & my house is always a complete mess. I'm overwhelmed & so disappointed in myself. I've always been messy but I really want to be neat. Its not because I like living in chaos. I don't!! I literally had a cry when you said you were sending a virtual hug, You have no idea how much I need that. I need someone to see me! Thank you!! I wish I could hug your neck & hire you to clean my house lol
I hear ya! But trust me buddy, we can’t hire anyone to live our lives for us. So let’s get up and do it!
I was diagnosed with ADHD last year, shortly after my partner of four years broke up with me and one of the things that caused tension was my messiness and our drastically different approaches to housework. I was literally crying yesterday because my current boyfriend did all my piled up dishes yesterday and I felt like I'd let him down. So everything you said here just made me tear up again. I try so hard and it feels like it's all for nothing. But between this video and all the reassurance my boyfriend gave me yesterday, I do feel a bit better 🥰
I had the same tension in my first relationship (which lasted 2 years). We broke up 6 month before I finally got my adhd and autism diagnosis. My 2 relationships after that went way better regarding the messiness, my partners tried to help me as good as they could, giving me a single task a day on a post-it, or giving me a lot of praise and cuddles when I've managed to get at least a small thing done :)
All the best to you
@@Kessik8 so good for you!! ❤️
I have also adhd and autism. Its not always easy!!
I could never keep a tidy house no matter what I did, highly likely I have adhd or autism as 2 of my sons have been diagnosed.
My current husband praises all the little things though which makes a huge difference. I just do one or 2 things and then see how I feel as I become so easily overwhelmed. Hubby will come home and cook dinner if he sees it’s been a floundering day. That support has been so good.
Just discovered you this morning and I’m so glad I have. Thank you for doing this work and being who you are. ❤ It is so meaningful to so many of us. You’ll be keeping me company today as I start to tackle my house.
Thank you for this. I see my home today and am overwhelmed bc it’s not up to my standards. My husband sees it as clean. ☺️ I need to give myself grace, and stop striving for perfection.
It can be so hard to relax when your home doesn’t feel or look how you’d like it. But you’ve got the right attitude, to go easy on yourself! ❤️
This is so me! I can tidy up, but I know what I haven't done. And everyone what thinks it's "clean". I had planned the other day, to take a bubble bath, by my husband's suggestion for my skin. But the universe had other plans that day. So he asked why don't I ever try after getting my housework done. I told him it's never done. Then he said it's clean and I should just go relax in the bath. But I'm still here trying to get the house "clean enough" to feel like relaxing in the bath.
Oh man wish my kiddo would sleep while I clean. Mine just follows me and leaves a trail of destruction 😂
Hahah don’t worry, mine too! Those are the days I don’t film 😂
@@remiclog that makes me feel better😂❤
I just discovered your channel and I absolutely love it! Thank you for your understanding and encouragement! ❤
Thank you Remi, you send such a beautiful positive message. True, we never stop trying and out side criticism doesn’t help, as you said we criticise our selves enough. We’ll get there, we also need to be a little kinder on our selves. 💕
I love your content, you are such a breath of fresh air.
Virtual hug back for being your brilliant motivating self ❤
I love your video for your honesty and positive attitude. Things can always get better. Just because it looks impossible today, doesn't mean that step by step it can't get done! Thank you for this. We all need to feel understood and supported and that's what you're giving us.
When I had kids I regularly put away toys they were ignoring for a month at a time while they were sleeping, they never missed them and it would give you more room in your house.
After a month I’d bring them back out and put another lot away.
Love this, so uplifting and honest. This sort of content will really help people see the day to day struggles of a busy family, while helping those with the busy family feel less critical on themselves!
You are so on point. We all need to be reminded as you have done beautiful here. Thank you.
Thank you for making these videos. You are such a beautiful person. I’ve never had any problems like this until I got older. You encourage me and I appreciate it so much.
You’re so very welcome! So pleased to hear the videos are encouraging 😊
Yeah I always kept scrupulously on top of it, so my house wouldn’t become a big mess cleaned up the toys every night etc. And although it was more OCD when I was single, then when I had for young kids, it was still very decently kept then. But once I had some severe back problems even once they got a little better after I lost weight I was so behind and my daughter took over the rest of the house eventually, but my bedroom. I gave myself till tomorrow, noon to get my bedroom and order, and I have been procrastinating all weekend. It’s gonna be a long night. But it really is easy to get overwhelmed once it becomes messy. And then you can get even more depressed.
The worst there’s nobody remembers that I was never like that before. I wouldn’t even have company over like that but of course that doesn’t stop my adult children from having company. Here- even one of the two who doesn’t even live here anymore. 😂 on my own kids act like I was always a pig instead of cleaning up after their butts!
Anyway, it is very nice to see other people who understand for sure!
Oh, I gained a little weight back and my point is the older we get between the joints, and any possible weight gain, making it harder to move definitely can slow us down.
You’re so sweet!!! Yes! We all need a kind word about where we feel stuck, but with encouragement we’ll climb out of the pit!!!! 💖
Can’t even tell you how much these videos help me
Thank you for the message. It's nice to know there are other people going through the same thing.
Love ur kindness and posotivity❤your sooo sweet
You’ve helped me a lot ❤ im a single mom with a daughter and sometimes I find thing ain’t overwhelming but your videos have shown me that im not alone x
Thanks for sharing I m not really messy just busy 😊cause I'm in the medical field so I get a little clutter in my Townhouse when I m off work I clean it seems like that is all I do work and clean love the fact that you give encouragement and positive vibes look forward ro more videos!! Thanks Luv❤😊
Oh bless you, my mum and stepdad both work in the medical field too! Sending so much love and admiration to you, and recognition for how bloody hard you work! ❤️
Thank you! You have no idea how much I needed to hear that...
Thanks! You're a motivator and what's nice is that you've opened up your mess for us to see that we aren't the only ones. Lol I tell my hubby that, no need to criticize, I do it to myself.
Hey Remi! I love how you did this Short. It's something different and it's fun to watch things be subtracted from view. I hope you have an AMAZING day! 💕
Didn't expect to cry watching a short! This was something I needed to hear, and I thank you for your compassion. Your orchids are beautiful! 💜
Yes! We *are* absolutely constantly trying!!! ♥️😭 Thank you for posting! Its so nice to listen to someone i can completely relate to!
Thank you… I hurt my knee and have had to have an operation. On my own in a foreign country. Keeping my apartment clean has become so hard and affected me so deeply. So your kindness, grace and compassion is appreciated more than I can say.. take care precious friend.. feeling the hugs .. sending them back to you, sweet mommy ..💖💖💖xoxo
Thank you for making me feel better today whilst I look round my messy living room thanks to the kids❤
Sending a virtual hug back to you! 🤗 Thank you!!!!! Even though I don't have children, I relate to what you and so many others comment. I try, I really do. I love the feeling of when everything thing is in it's place but i get so disgusted with myself for not being able to get it that way. I don't even let people come in my house anymore because of how ashamed I've become. Remi, you are such an inspiration!!!❤
Thank you!! I know I'm not alone but sometimes it feels like it. 😊
You are so sweet. Overwhelm never seems to make it into the minimalist/decluttering vids. I found you video on just adding one or two things to the to do list, getting it done, then adding another to do without the expectation of getting everything done really helpful. I have tried this over the last three days and got far more done than I normally do. So thank you. Mini wins are such a relief after feeling like I have had only big failures. ❤
Thank you for encouraging me cause I try daily but there are times my body don't move as much as other times as a disabled woman. I understand what you're saying and I encourage you to continue cause you help us. Bless you Remi ❤
Bless you for your understanding and compassion. I can feel the shame begin to lift just knowing I’m not alone…in fact I’m in good company. ❤😊
You are very sweet, thank you. I've been going through a depression and am trying so damn hard to get our place in check.Without any help. It takes so much out of me.
Yep. That virtual hug had me tearing up a little. Thank you 🫂
You’ve completely changed my outlook on my messy home
I tried the list technique, and I have to say it thrills me to write down what I have already done. Cross it out and move on to the next item. It's pure gold. Having ADHD is very hard on keeping life clutter free. Thanks for sharing this.
This is so me. I am watching you from the USA . I struggle with the exact thing all my life. Thank you for this video. I needed this
I understand you. Been there..still there. Your uplifting and I really enjoy watching you..
I also neary cried. This is the first time in my life that I've ever felt understood (even by myself) I know how hard I try and still my house sometimes looks like a bomb exploded in it. I'm tackling my kitchen as I watch this. It was spotless yesterday but today looks like it hasn't been cleaned in weeks 🤦🏽♀️. You are such an inspiration and so motivating. Just knowing I'm not alone is such comfort and reassurance. Thank you for your kind words and empowering videos ❤❤❤
I love how cosy your little baba looks on the mini bean bag. So cute ❤
I needed this ❤
I need your encouragement right now. Thank you for keeping it real and normal and messy.
Aw ur little boy sleeping in his chair was so sweet 🥺
You are a great Creator and I appreciate you. I went out yesterday on our farm and got a bunch of work done that's been getting pushed back... Feels good knowing I got it done for sure. And I can thank you for the motivation to do it!
Thank you so much. My mother sent me your video with making a short list and adding on after doing some tasks. You helped me to get all of my dishes done and 2 loads of laundry. I always feel so guilty about the mess, but i get so overwhelmed not knowing how to start. Thank you so much, you absolutely get me. Never knew about the term you used, now i know part of my issue. This is the first time ive been told someone was proud, and it was right after i got some things done. Thank you so much 😢❤
Youve got to be the sweetest and most articulate cleaning channel ive found. You have a lot of inisght into how people are feeling. Just found your channel yesterday ❤ love it
This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for putting your life out there for others to not feel alone. ❤
“Constantly trying” that one got me 💕 thanks for making us all feel so validated! To look at my house you’d think I just sat around all day eating chips 😂 but I’ve spent the whole day picking up and and cleaning up and crying over all the spilled chocolate milk 😂
Thanks for the hug! I am 64 and still struggle. Many messy people are actually perfectionists! I know it sounds strange but it's true. Fly lady has been helping me lately. If you haven't heard of her, check her out.
Ok… the whole showing things pop away one at a time- actually shows* how big a difference every little tidy counts. Thank you. Loved this
Your videos are so helpful to me. I am a ridiculously tidy person, to the point where mess and clutter make me feel insane. But I love some messy people - my sister, my son, and some friends. Hearing you talk about it helps me to understand my loved ones more so I can have more grace and not judge them. Thank you ❤
🥺 thank you... 😭 I sure needed to hear that!!
And yes, as you said, I quite capable of generating my own depressions, as well as beating myself over the head. So thanks again. 😘
Love your soft, sweet voice, cheering us on, encouraging us. Bless you ❤
you're my hero! I thought I was the only one who just gets overwhelmed! I LOVE your videos! I discovered you on TH-cam and now I can watch you on TikTok!!
I am so happy I have found your channel here. I don't have tik tok and finding you on TH-cam has been so enlightening!! To know there are others like me, who have any one of the neurological quirks, that live in a mess but want it organized. You warm my heart and I enjoy all the tips you give. Thank you so much!!
You make me 😢...you're right. No one understand this unless they have experience that same mind set. And the constant struggles.
I can’t thank you enough! Your videos and voiceovers make me feel seen and heard ❤
Thank you! I feel like I’m drowning in mess every day and it feels like whenever I finally get it clean, it just becomes a mess right after.
I felt that hug! Thank you 😊
I freaking needed this 😅. I have an almost two year old, an 8 month old, and I’m 23 weeks pregnant. I have ADHD and major depression and anxiety. Sometimes I feel so helpless because every time I clean it looks the same the next day or even the same night. I often feel like no one else’s house ever looks as bad as mine gets especially because of the scattered food on the floor from my toddler. This made me feel like I’m not alone and that my experience isn’t because I haven’t been doing a good job but because that’s just how being a parent is sometimes. I love this a lot.
Thank you for being real. For showing us we are not alone at struggling to keep our home clean and tidy. ❤
Thank you for the time and work it takes for these videos! They are much help for so many 🥰
You are my favorite because u keep it real! I wish u the greatest of success. As u become rich and famous, I hope u will not loose touch with ordinary followers who can relate with u! Like me! Off to take a much needed bath and then will clean with u in the background providing the motivation I need! Thanks
You're just awesome, thank you for your comforting voice and continued honesty. Love you gurl 💓
Honestly just stumbled along your channel - have been fighting major health challenges and have kids and feel constantly behind no matter how hard I try. And your channel and realism is a breathe of fresh air! ❤ May you be so greatly blessed today as you are a great blessing!!
Thank you so much!!!! I really needed this today ❤ was feeling overwhelmed by the mess in the house, I went into shut down mode and was feeling so depressed from the shame I felt. I have ADHD and autism and the struggle of staying on top of everything while having 2 small kids (3,5 and 1,5) is real! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!
Darlin', I send you virtual hugs from across The Pond! You get me. ❤
Youre a lovely person. I suffer from depression and try my best to be tidy. Its difficult and ends up making me more depressed
Thank you. I needed this so much today.
I love your videos so much. I've never seen a TH-camr who is so relatable to my own mental health and situation. You inspire me ❤️
You are a blessing. Recently found you and already feeling inspired and better! ❤
I really needed this. Im currently doing school with 2 kids and another on the way while my husband is deployed. Ive been having a horrible bout of depression and ive had no motivation or energy to clean and i really needed this
You are a wonderful young lady and I have recommended your channel to others ❤ Keep shining that light bright 🎉👏
We’re all proud of you too Remi!
Girl I love your videos. You keep going girl. You are an inspiration to all you put me to shame and I’m 66. Getting old bones getting weak and not able to kneel or bend down as I used to do so therefore my house is not as clean as I used to be able to keep it and that hurts me big time. Anyway honey love your videos keep going. 🥰🏴🥰🏴🥰🏴🥰🏴💋💋💋
Bless you. You understand! It's been so hard!!!
I just found your page, and I really love your vibe. We're all trying hard every day, and I am definitely my harshest critic. Thank you for the virtual hug and here's one right back!
I literally have tears on my eyes thank you
Thank you for this ❤ I live alone (well, me and the cat) and I find it hard to keep on top of things around the house. Its shocking how much mess one person can make. I get embarrassed inviting people round sometimes. I work a lot, and also suffer with depression and anxiety. When I have "free" time the last thing I want to do it clean and tidy the house, I sometimes just don't have the mental and physical energy. Your video's make me feel better about the the situation. Thank you so much ❤
You do way more than me… if I worked as hard as you my gaff would be spotless! But I don’t have any kiddies x
I would love to see one video with just cleaning the fridge and freezer. I feel like that's a chore that I need to do but it's tedious to alone. I love listening to your videos. They are super encouraging and motivating
Have a virtual hug back Remi, you work so hard .❤xx
Thanks Kelly ❤️
OMG! Thanks for acknowledging what we all feel, Remi. You are an absolute gem for making us feel better about ourselves when others judge us unfairly because they don't understand how hard we try. ,💛🤗
I have crippling depression and executive dysfunction because of it, and its so hard. I want to clean, I don't want to live surrounded by clutter and rubbish, but I only have a tiny amount of energy each day, and it all goes towards basic survival. Most days, I cant even get out of bed, and whenever I can, I try my best to at least tackle some of it. But of course, the people in my life don't understand because "it's so easy to pick things up of the floor", or "it's just wiping down the surfaces".
For the past few weeks, I've been working hard to clean and tidy downstairs, and this was the motivation I needed to finally finish taking the rubbish out of the kitchen today. Maybe I could start the dishes today, or do them all tomorrow! Thanks for everything you do, its great appreciated ❤
Thank you it's just hard to keep up with the cleaning and look after the kids and work it's hard
Huge thanks. I'm so grateful for your content. It's so relatable to me and reminds me to be a little bit kinder to myself. I hope someone is doing the same for you! In case they're not... remember that you're amazing and a blessing to others xxx
Thank you ❤ we all out there just trying our best and that is enough
Just found your channel love it thank you for being real ❤
Your back you have helped me to movate
Always a pleasure Remi ❤
Love the ascent i was a cleaner by trade but still get satisfied & freshly motivated watching others clean great job!!! You're family will appreciate all the work you've done in years to come (especially when it's their turn to do it) Love from Australia 🦘😎👍
Thank you! You are so sweet!
You make me feel good! Thank you!😊❤️🙏🇺🇸
I am writing to say that I highly appreciate you for your videos and amazing stories you tell. Not only you're motivating but super entertaining. I just love to listen to you talk about your life experiences. You're a fantastic story teller. Thank you so much for making my days better. I wish you all the best ❤️
I love seeing everything disappear bit by bit!!
I love this short.
Thank you so much for this! So relatable! Other TH-camrs don't even have a home that's messy. It's like they are just polishing the counters and putting away groceries. Or I feel like they just stage there homes and make it extra messy for the cleaning video. Your house looks like it's lived in and it looks a lot like mine.
Thanks for the video and thanks for the hugs.