Mike + The Mechanics - The Living Years (Official Video)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 มี.ค. 2018
- Official video for "The Living Years" by Mike + Mechanics. Released in 1989, this single reached number 1 in Australia, Canada, Ireland and the US, while it was number 2 in the UK, where it went Silver.
The song has been covered many times including interpretations by Alabama, Chris De Burgh, West End theatre star Michael Ball, Marcia Hines, Engelbert Humperdinck, James Last, The London Symphony Orchestra, Christian artist Russ Lee, Rhydian, John Tesh, Russell Watson, the London Community Gospel Choir, the Newsboys, The Isaacs, The Katinas, Japanese singer Kaho Shimada, Italian band Dik Dik and Michael English.
In 1996 the legendary songwriter Burt Bacharach declared "The Living Years' is one of the finest lyrics of the last 10 years." It was nominated for 4 Grammy awards in 1990 and won the prestigious Ivor Novello award for Best Song Musically & Lyrically in 1989.
Lyrics:
Every generation
Blames the one before
And all of their frustrations
Come beating on your door
I know that I'm a prisoner to all my father held so dear
I know that I'm a hostage, to all his hopes and fears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years
Crumpled bits of paper
Filled with imperfect thought
Stilted conversations
I'm afraid that's all we've got
You say you just don't see it
He says it's perfect sense
You just can't get agreement
In this present tense
We all talk a different language
Talking in defence
[Chorus]
Say it loud (say it loud)
Say it clear (say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late (It's too late)
When we die (oh, when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It's the bitterness that lasts
So don't yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different day
And if you don't give up, and don't give in
You may just be okay
[Chorus]
Say it loud (say it loud)
Say it clear (say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late (It's too late)
When we die (oh, when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
I wasn't there that morning
When my father passed away
I didn't get to tell him
All the things I had to say
I think I caught his spirit
Later that same year
I'm sure I heard his echo
In my baby's new born tears
I just wish I could have told him
In the living years
[Chorus]
Say it loud (say it loud)
Say it clear (say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late (It's too late)
When we die (oh, when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
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I have terminal cancer less than 4 months to live. Went from a 220 pound ripped bodybuilder who ran half marathons to a 98 pound skeleton. Thought I would live to a good age I am only 42. Everybody live your life to the fullest.
Call out to Jesus-- you'll be in a far better place!
My thoughts are with you
God bless you
Jesus saves ! Call out to him. I did. It was like life from the dead . Depression hit me hard but I prayed to him and was saved. All glory to him !
Sending you all the love and light in all the world for you.
This song will always send shivers down your spine. For anyone reading this if you still have the chance no matter how old you are, never be afraid to tell your dad you love him. Don’t wait till it’s too late. Trust me. Hopefully my dad is watching me write this. Thank you for everything you taught me. Love you.
I Never Got To Say Goodbye To My Dad. Too Much Bitterness On My Part, But I Have Lost Two Sisters Since He Passed Away and I Believe They Told Him I Finally Grew Up And God Blessed Me!
Very much the same with me. I had my chance with years to spare. Did not say enough. If your Dad is watching you write, than my Dad is Too. I'll pray for that. God Bless.
@@deborahkeefe3389I’m sure they did but I’m sure he seen for himself.
@@user-ov5uu5nn3rthat’s all we can do my friend.
God’s Blessings
Lost my dad March 6, 2024 & this song right here opens the floodgates of tears for me. Truly beautiful song. ❤
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏻
So sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sending much love and prayers hoping for you to find some comfort and peace. I share your pain amongst many others here.
My Pop passed away 54 years ago and I still think of him while I listen to this song. Love You
Yes, I lost my dad when I was 14 in 1978, but reading all of your comments here is making me realize just how similar our lives are. I'm sorry for your loss brothers and sisters. We are all in this together.
So sorry for your loss as well! Those of us that have had a special, loving, relationship bond with our fathers/dads/pops & they unfortunately passed away for whatever reason & left us all behind. . . . . .we all share a special, unique, bond that we all truly & are able to understand what that is, & it goes beyond love & what they taught us in life. . . . . . we have to lift one another up & encourage one another & to stay strong & keep our fathers/dads/pops alive in our memories & in our hearts! God bless each & every one of ya! Stay strong! We all will get through this! Let the Good Lord guide us all each & every day!!!🙂🙂🙂
Undoubtedly without question, one of the greatest written songs of all time.
yesssssss
Yes , sometimes God chooses musicians to deliver His heart and truth.
Especially when they Not your Biological parents
Absolutely agree! I lost my mentor, friend, and role model in 2011, but thankfully, we had no issues whatsoever. Every time I hear this beautiful and poignant masterpiece, I feel so very grateful for that...especially knowing that so many others do. This song brings me to tears every time I hear it...
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I remember thinking as a teenager, one day this song will hurt - I wasn’t wrong.
God I miss my Dad.
I know exactly what you mean, Brother!! 🙏
True that....
I lost my dad 6 wks ago I'm devastated xxxx
@@jacquelinewilliams6289 hang in there love xxxx
Absolutely! I miss my Dad too. 🌻
My Dad was taken from me 10 years ago this year. I never could see eye to eye with him then, but now that I have a son, I have so much more compassion for my Dad looking back, and could not be more grateful for how hard he worked to take care of me the best he could, and to help me grow up to be a good man.
I promise I’ll do my best for your grandson, Dad.
Dude I'm about to leak
This hits home so hard. Near identical situation. 😢
It goes both ways. I lost my son in April of 2023. He was 25, and i miss him every day. So many things i thought I had time to say. As dad i tried to be stern yet loving. Never miss an opportunity to tell someone how much they mean and how much you love them. He knew, but there was still more .
I'm so sorry for you, but I bet he knew you loved him. Sometimes, we forget all the times we showed love! And being stern isn't always bad if necessary. We don't let our children run into the street or put their hand on a hot burner. A certain amount of discipline is what gives kids direction. They need & like that bcs it shows them that you care. Be blessed, ericfairchild5431
Lost my dad today. I miss him already. I love you, Daddy. I'm so sorry I wasn't there.
😞 😔 sosorry
I hope you are holding up okay and remembering all the things you loved about your dad and all the times you had together. That’s what I try to do. It’s been 10 years almost for me. Sending love and positivity, from far away.
My biggest regret also, not being there. But experience can teach us perspective. 20 years later, When my brother was dying I lived at his house the final week of his life so I could be there. Best decision ever. Grateful my sister in law allowed me to
I was there, I watched my father die.
It's ok that you weren't there.
That will just be one of a million things you'll think of in the coming months, and try to beat yourself up with it. Don't.
I was young, 13. I would dwell and agonize over stupid stuff like having spent the night with a friend instead of at my dad's.
Let that shit go as soon as you're able. No one wants their loved ones to suffer like that, I'm sure your loved one wouldn't want you to either.
Your grief will threaten to drown you every time it comes... Let it engulf you, feel it all, and as soon as you're able put it away. It'll come back, you gotta let it.
My heart goes out to you.
Hope you're doing ok❤
I cannot listen to this song without bawling my eyes out. I lost my dad when I was 13. He was only 39. Now, I’m almost 37 with three kids of my own. He’s been gone for so long, but I still miss him everyday. If you still have your dad in your life- call him up, go visit him, and tell him you love him. I wish I could.
So sorry for your loss my friend! Sure hes with you, look at your children...peace
My Dad and Dad in law are both gone. But I pray to them every day' I'm 71 and and remember . Keep the faith.
Keep him in your heart and he will be there forever. That's what keeps me alive. He is listening
After reading this heartfelt statement I have the chills because it's so confronting. I'd better go meet old ye olde man this weekend. :)
Hi - I'm with you on this!
My father passed away on Saturday January 13,2024. And it hurts. He was a great man As I am listening to this song I am crying. My father taught me a lot. And it made me the Man I am today.
So very sorry for your loss!
Sorry for your loss brother
My Dad died on 14 january. 71 years old. I missed him so much.
So sorry for your loss. My father passed 21st June 1977 when I was 22. I still miss and love him and I’m sorry that I wasn’t there that morning when my father passed away
I am sorry for your loss. My father also died nearly 2 yrs ago.
I wasn’t there that afternoon when my father passed away-May 21, 1967-I still miss him. If you have a living parent, give them a hug.
Sorry for your loss, would seriously endorse your message, it hurts people when its too late💔🙏🌹
Sorry for ur loss, no matter when it was, it can be as raw as yesterday ♥️
My mum n dad are still alive my mum.has alzheimers/ dementia titaly gone in the head she dosent know us anymore..she is 81 and my dad is 82 and he loves her as when they 1st fell in love..i tell them both all the time i love them n hug them.always
It was 1988, I was in theJr high school choir when we learned this song. My father was dying from melanoma skin cancer. He was being cared for by Oregon science and health in Portland Oregon. He was at this last concert and I sang this song with every ounce of strength I had. My tears and his flowed freely that night
Rebeca Rivera. So Sad. . God Bless your Family. . Love From PUERTO RICO. . Prima. . Take care. 😉😉🌸💝💝
😞🙏🙏
I am so sorry 😢
Hugs ❤️
X.
What a song, older u get more you realise the meaning
Absolutely 💯
And no matter what age , life is to short with our loved ones .lost my mom last year at age 92 and this makes my eyes leak bad…
@@pamkammann1176 completely understand young lady, hoping you have a lot of family support because of what I experienced with losing my mom it took me about 10 years to understand and accept passing away I was 23 at the time I just didn't understand. Cling to someone who loved her as well that will help. Peace ✌️ and blessings.
i knew when i was young when i heard this it was important and as i get older and in a few weeks i turn 34... and have read the comments that this is incredible song and should be on of those songs to reflect on time
AMEN TO THAT.
Dad! I’m going on seventeen years clean and sober at the end of the month! I was just working on the black 89 TownCar and just had to listen to this song again because it never grows old! RIP!
Well done 😊 your dad will be proud 😊
@emmacolledge828 Thank You! Your comment means a lot to me! I am almost by myself now that both my parents are gone but they will never be forgotten!
well done bro am 6 months got the chance xmas took moved away life great self imployed bro keep going promise its worth it av drank drugs heavy once 31 years bro keep it up you got my backing by you bro
It wasn't my dad, it was my brother. We'd had a big stupid argument, and I acted out terribly. I'm lucky that it was my fault, because it makes it easier to apologize when there is less ambiguity. I eventually admitted my fault, we put it behind us, and it was such a relief. We lost him a year later. I'm so thankful I made amends. I can't speak to those who have been wronged, but if you were one who was wrong, and it's just pride keeping you from admitting fault, please make the move. I'm so thankful I did. Love you forever, Bro.
I was in the same boat, my brother was also my best mate and , well we had words over something stupid and didn't speak for months , on several occasions i tried to fix things but he just kept throwing it back in my face until i gave up, then in the early hours of one morning i got the call he was being taken to hospital , as his executor and only family member i had the unenviable task of removing his life support after a week, the guilt i carried nearly drove me to suicide, i'm so glad i had someone who noticed and helped me back, that's 11 years now and i still miss him terribly.
Hands down one of the best songs ever written. True masterpiece.
100% agree!!
Agree! ❤️🙏
Agree!
quite the compliment lol
Agreed
67 Years old and still cry for a father I lost when I was 12
Wow your as old as my dad. I'm so sorry for your lost too. I'm sure he's in a better place now although it would be better if he was with you . Bless you 🙏
Same, but I was 9 or 10 at the time. He was only 42, or something like that when he passed away. Now I'm pushing towards 50, and have already lost one of my two siblings, my sister (oldest of us 3), who was also my best friend. She beat cancer, only to die of heart failure at the height of the lockdown, so I was sure it was covid, but nope. She just collapsed on her way home from the grocery store, and called emergency services on her phone for help, but it was too late. She didn't even get to turn 50, which would happen only a couple of months later, had she lived. That was 2 years ago now. R.I.P., sis, I'll miss you until my number is up...
I’m 60 and lost my mother to cancer when I was 13. It is hard somedays.
Sorry you lost your dad at such age, I just lost my dad 3 days ago and I’m 61 and I’m so crushed I can’t imagine you at age 12 that’s so heartbreaking 💔 😢
Bless you
Music that will never die, 36 years ago and it still sounds great in 2024 😢, take me back to when music was nice like this..
Amen To That!!!!
Today's music is all rehashed
Amen Brother
Amen. It'll be 35 years this year that i lost my father and i still miss him each and every day.. love to all fathers❤
I called my father one night. I was so stoned. I was crying having listened to this song. I thanked him for everything he had done for me, sobbing like a fool. I asked him what he was doing, I was on speaker phone with my uncles. Haha. I was so humiliated for so long.
Then he passed away two years later. I was so happy I said what I needed to.
Thank God.
So sweet. I’m glad you got to tell him.
Ive had those calls many times from one of three daughters. Daddies are a safe place for their girls. I pray many blessings over you, and you are a good girl. Keep reachin! ❤
Sorry for your loss but so glad that you made peace ❤
You will never regret it and think of the joy you gave him!!
a kid stoned AF just killed 6 people in a van in a head on collision.... DUI
Dad I made it. I'm sober and clean 5 yrs now, you'd be proud I miss you. RIP Dad we miss you so much.
Your dad would be so so proud of you he's smiling down now saying good girl trust me ❤
Im so proud of you and positive your dad is as well 💕😊
Keep going he is looking down upon you.
He would be proud. He is.
Great for you! Keep it up! 👍👍👍👍👍
After you lose your parents, this song takes on a whole new meaning...
certainly does ...
Also your grandparents
Amen.
...or a beloved niece or nephew... it covers every emotion and then some...
It really does
Thanks for the reminder
Crying. I miss you Dad. You adopted me but YOU were my dad. I’m sorry for our struggles. Jesus has you. I’ll see you soon in Heaven. Thank you Mike for writing this song and helping me grieve. 🛡
you make me cry 😢
God bless you…🙏
This is LD's partner Bob. I was adopted too, and I can concour with everything you said. This song hits far to close to home for me. I cry like a baby everytime I hear it. I swear I could have written your message myself. Thank you, God bless you.
@@ladonnaghareeb4609
Thank you for sharing this. Very nice of you. Keep going. We’re gonna make it🛡!
It’s just biology anyway. He was your dad absolutely. So sorry for your loss I really am. I do believe you’ll see him again one day. Bless you.
I was fostered
Never heard my father saying to me " I love you ". I make sure every day that history is not repeated.
I have never liked so many TH-cam comments. Prayers for everyone that has lost a loved one.
There is nobody who ever has lost nobody.cheers.
A really nice comment. Thank you.
I lost my dad today, I couldn’t bear to see his final 3 days laying in a hospice surrounded by my dysfunctional family who never really cared about him wallowing in their self pity. Me and my dad had an unbreakable bond. I will always feel the most incredible sadness for him as the people who should have treasured him treated him so badly. The only solace I have is that I never did him any harm and he loved me and my children unconditionally 😢
Your shouldn't say "only" solace, because that is actually quite a big one, don't you think?
I do.
As an 80yo with three adult children I feel for you. I'm fortunate enough to have a beautiful relationship with all of them. Not boasting, just stating what I believe to be a fact. I think this is because I remained in the background of their lives as they bloomed to adulthood, had their own families, and built their own lives. I live in Perth, WA and from your moniker I assume you do also. If so, flick me a response and possibly I can help.
What more can you ask for he was with those who loved him.
Beware of what is to follow. I fell apart after my dad died.
Unfortunately we cant pick who we are related to, hope your doing well.
My Dad wasn't the easiest person to grow up with. But I loved him. I miss him everyday.
I hear You!!! 😔😔😔😔
My Dad passed July 28, 2011 he was 97 years old. I think at that age you expect and have tried for a long time to prepare for the passing of a a parent. But you cannot ever prepare for such a loss.
It has been 13 years since, and my sisters and I still feel the pain but what comes now is the good memories and all he taught us. Now we are trying to pass it to our grandchildren and hope that we are remembered as we remember dad. We love you daddy, Till we meet again.
You see the train coming, and you know it will come. Even expecting it, it hits hard just the same. Whether it's even a blessing or not, the moment impacts and the feelings wash over. With time, the warm memories and the love takes over, healing our hearts. This song, so expressive and says it all indeed
So sorry to hear that. 97 is some age. My father 👨 died 2 yrs ago at 83. Only for my mother 👩 looking after him he could have died 20 years ago.😢 😊
I lost my hero and father to pancreatic cancer yesterday. They gave him only 6 months and he fought hard for three years. It doesn’t feel real. And I don’t know how to handle it. As a kid in the 80s, this song always brought me to tears. The lyrics are so poignant and I was always so scared of losing my parents. I am just glad I was able tell him how much I loved him in the living years.
Sam Cvets. . Condolences on the loss of your father. In a strange way I hope this song comforts you.
Mate I’m so so sorry - I lost my mother in law(that I knew for 29 years)11 months ago of that same damn cancer, I hope you’re ok
God bless you, just lost my father January 28th from pancreatic cancer.
This song sums our relationship perfectly.
It's painful and healing at the same time.
I thank God he was able to pass at home with me there till his last breath.
@@mitchellforsythe8482 it’s such a HORRIBLE damn cancer, I’m sorry for your loss
Thank you Sam, sorry for your loss as well brother.
I heard this song right after my Dad died. I'm still tear up everytime I hear this. I have no regrets. I was his little girl. Love you dad in Heaven.
He’s still with you. He always will be.
Blessings Sister, as has been said. Our relative remain with us and we will See them again. Much love.
My mother used to sing along to this song when it played on the radio. I lost her in 2011 after battling cancer for 4 years. She was divorced and a widow with myself as her only child. She and I were basically all that we had in the world. We were on the best of terms when she passed. I feel your sorrow. Peace.
@@DDEENY I hope your ok and living a good life 👍🏻
Few months after my dad passed- while driving home after visiting mom; a voice internally said" I have to cross over now, but everything will be ok"-- felt ephoric love all over, peaceful... Your dad will be there waiting for you...
So true to life ,, I never saw eye to eye with my dad , I was a rebel but he stood by me ...RIP gone but not forgotten,,
Im 72 and cry every time I hear it! Miss you Mom and Dad
My dad was diagnosed with cancer in 2002. I went to visit him every single day for the rest of his life. One year of "I love you's"! And it still wasn't enough. He took a piece of my heart with him. We will meet again. This song says it all.❤ Tell your loved ones you love them! You can never say it too much.🤟
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You’re lucky in many ways, remember that! X
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😢beautiful comment ❤️
Amen ❤❤❤
My father said across the dining room table when I was 16 did he love me, his answer was no. Those words were devastating even to this day I'm 70. The day before he died in the hospital he grabbed my hand pulled me close and said he loved me. Those were the last words he spoke. I have multiple homes and plenty of money but I would give it away to here him say those words again.
Thank God you were there to hear him my friend. ❤️
My father told me he wished I’d never been born and he wanted me aborted.I’m 38 and he as been passed for 6 years now.I never did no why my sister was wanted and I wasn’t
I’m glad he did that and did love you x
@@jessicapearshouse1728 that is so hard and will stay with you forever. Good to know that our heavenly Father does love all His children. God loves you and that is something you can be sure of. Feel loved Jessica.
I felt sick when I read your post. I can't imagine how painful it would have been for my Daddy to tell me he didn't love me. Have peace with yourself.
I grew up in a very strict household. My dad and I were not close when I was growing up. The last time I saw him was two months before he died at the age of 97. It was a beautiful and sweet visit. I think of him every day and miss him horribly.
His love for you formed who you are and I am sure y'all in your family did your best to build one another up during his life in your family. May his memories support, transform and keep you❤🙏😇🕊
About the same here. I formed a closer bond with my dad after I finished high school and was out on my own.
My Dad loved this song. I dedicate this to you Dad.
One of the most profound songs ever written.
❤️❤️
Truly.
this song will forever stand the test of time, an absolute classic
Yes!
Real truth spoken
In my humble opinion this has to be one of the greatest songs ever written.I lost my mum and dad when I was relatively young.
It brings tears to my eyes
Thanks Mike and the Mechanics.
agreed. What a beautiful song 😍
Without a doubt. I miss real heartfelt easy listening pre mid90s synth soft rock
Totally agree
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@gra…I know exactly what you’re talking about..I too loss my Parents early in life…this song like you said was a very good song..but what gives me some splice is thinking of the time I did get with them..it was full of joy peace and security and they gave me and my brothers their very best…so I’m Thankful for that part.
30 years....30 YEARS, I've been angry at my dad after he and mum divorced and split the family.
Then you grow up and one day it hits you that Dad was doing the best he could. I don't want to be left full of regret one day.
Not just because of my own selfish emotions but I want my dad to know before he goes that I'll always be forever grateful for the times we had. I believe hes still hurting. My dad, the middle-class working man, family man, the real tough guy of society who never has gotten the recognition he deserves from the kids of his first marriage.
I have made contact with him and am on the path of reconciliation.
If you still have a chance, please dont wait until its too late.
u just gave it to him
I wish my son could see that 😢😢
Thank you for sharing
Those are words of wisdom.
My father passed away in 2017 and think of him every day. I had the chance to tell him everything. For those that are reading this spend as much time with your loved ones as possible. Much love and peace to all.
My mother just passed away this evening, a few hours ago. She liked this song. Dedicated to you, Mom.
My Mom passed away 5 days ago an I don't think my life will ever be the same without her see I took care of my mom an I really enjoyed those times together that were very precious an dear to me an listening to the music de raised us makes me feel even closer too I love you Mom an miss you
I’m praying for your mothers 🙏🏽 and I praying for you to understand the dynamics that are so difficult to embrace when we lose a loved one. It is a tough request - try to focus only on the wonderful times spent with your mothers. Only the positive and bright things, no guilt, no loss. Only love for what you DID get the opportunity to experience by having a mother. ☮️
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I used to not like songs my parents liked. They were old fashion songs. Now I realize so many songs have relevance regardless of the era and this is a beautiful song.
The part you loved has gone back to God, the body was the container,this is life
I was with my father when he died .. I stared into his eyes as the lights went out .. Fortunately, I get to see him reflected in my mirror everyday .. Masterpiece
May his memory be a blessing. Play this music to keep him within you forever. I played this over and over when my dad passed away in 1992. I am 71 now. He is still with me.
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Na een hypnosesessie was ik gisteren in de mogelijkheid mijn ouders te zien. Maar neem altijd de tijd om 1 seconde stil te staan bij mensen in nood, voor ons duurt het maar even, voor hen een leven lang en ik heb nu het voorrecht gehad om mijn ouders terug te zien om me te bevrijden.
Deze muziek heeft me al zo vaak geholpen. Bedankt hiervoor
@@lindarottiers6235 wow
Das ist das was Unsterblichkeit bedeutet oder!?
My father passed in 1988 of lung cancer. As a family we made his last days as comfortable as we could, given the circumstances; I even gave him his last shower; went with him on his last ride.
Those were the hardest 3 weeks of my life.
After he passed I was too exhausted to fully appreciate what had occurred.
I was numb for nearly a year....until this song aired in 1989. The floodgates opened.
Not being funny, but I couldn't listen to this song
My dad smoked for 40 years and died of emphysema in 1992. Breathing on one lung likely caused his heart to fail. I sure miss our talks about our interests such as football and the old days of the 1940s and '50s which was his favorite times in life.
My dad passed on 20th May 2022. We never really had a relationship but my heart aches hearing this. I wish our relationship was different. I miss him I love him, I know he's in heaven with our Lord God but I wish I could just tell him I love him so so much 😢
My Dad and I did see eye to eye, and we said "I love you" about two hours before he unexpectedly died. I kept going, Dad. I hope you're proud of me.
I said goodbye to my Dad the night before he died when I visited him in the hospital. Don't ask me how but I knew I would never see him again. When my phone rang the next morning, I didn't even need to answer it, I knew what it was about. I also saw eye to eye with him and loved him dearly. Not a day goes by when I am not grateful to have had him in my life.
Yes, I believe they are proud of us.
Stay safe!
Your father will be proud of you. God bless. He will be okay. Love to you. Stay safe
me and my dad was like cat and dog, when in my teens. this always reminds me of the good times on the farm.
He is, he always will be
He is ,rest assured
A master piece of the 20th century. “It’s too late when we die.” People need to understand the seriousness of that lyric.
The bible tells us not to go to sleep with unsolved arguments and bitterness but to put it right before you sleep
Exactly!
My Dad will be 83 this coming Dec, yet I STILL have tears in my eyes every time I listen to this track. I can ONLY Dread the day that he passes. I've made inroads to bridge the gen-gap, but there's STILL miles to go & a short time to get there......
Too late tp get saved from judgment and eternal hell - where everyone is headed - without Jesus Christ as their Savior!
You are absolutely right .only Jesus christ can save us from a christless eternity he alone as power to save
My father passed away 24 years ago. He lived to see me get married and complete graduate school . He visited me from the Caribbean.I remember driving downtown with him and smiling at how amazed he was that I was driving a car and I knew exactly what I was doing and where I was going. He kept asking me how I knew where to go . We sat in my poorly furnished apartment and my eyes welled up with tears because I could tell that he was ill. Months later he would be gone.
I played this song and lingered in my grief. My dad is gone but what he taught me lives inside of me.
Talk to him spirits hear us ... Blessings
YES!This song carries you and in the case of those of who stood by our parents,comforts you.Honor them and cherrish them.Thanks Mike+The Mechanics.
This is, certainly and after 32 years of its release, the most underrated song of the 80s.
It's one of my all-time favourites because it's so poignant and remembers us of what is really important.
The 80s were, musically, a tremendous experience and I'm lucky enough to have lived it.
Hello Manuela how do you feel when listening to this beautiful song.?
I couldn't describe it better... 🤍
@@steventyler7528 fantastic musician and person
@@nicoleschrepfer4701 Hello, how are you doing? It is nice seeing you here.
So so true
Arguably one of the most beautiful songs to come out of the 80's, or EVER. The lyrics are untouchable .
INDEED!
God's truth.
The 80s had the best music..but I think this song is at the top and alot can relate to it..class
yep you are so right..
Amen.
"I think I caught his spirit later that same year. I'm sure I heard his echo in my baby's newborn tears. I just wish I could have told him in the living years."
No other song lyric has ever been as much of a tearjerker as this.
This song is the one regret I have in life I never got to tell my mother how much I loved her, 40 years ago.I miss her every day.
I lost my dad this week and ever since I was a little kid this song has resonated with me as I didn't want to ever lose my dad with regrets. He died knowing he was loved and I was loved by him. It was all said. I am thankful for that.
God bless. In my thoughts. My Dad is 95 hard work.
😢😢😪😞💓💓💓
Divine and blessed you didn’t let him go before making it all worth it ❤️
God bless and sorry for your loss. I know the feeling I lost my dad 6 years ago last april.
Thats a great gift! You will always missed him, it is so.
This song is a warning. If we resist telling those we love how we feel long enough, the thief known as death may rob us of the chance. Kind words may be fleeting, but regrets can last a lifetime. If you need to clear the air with someone you care about, do it now, because nobody knows what tomorrow holds.
Specifically father and son.
It's a very unique bond
Words of wisdom 🙏
So true…..and it’s something that some of us dread, but can’t do……..😢
I didn’t say enough to my dad and now I regret it so badly but I’m sure he’s been back in my dreams.
no truer words have been spoken
Mom and Dad are both gone now. And all I can do is keep moving forward.
I'm really glad I had my parents as long as I did but there has been times when I wished I could have talked with them for a bit, for some advice. But we can't talk anymore. 😭
Never leave anything between you unsaid. Never leave one another angry because you never know when it's their time to go and you can't take back those harsh words.
God Bless and keep all of you. 🙏
My father is still with us. This song always reminds me to talk to him.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ pls Show him all the love you can
As a father now, this is the greatest song of all time for me now!
My son is now 24 and he has never called me father or dad, he has always called me buddy! I am truly blessed, and I want you all to know that I call him buddy too and he gets very upset when I don't. God bless you all and thank you for your time if you read this.
Very respectfully,
DugEphresh
That's brilliant buddy.
I greatly admire your "buddy" system!
I always wanted love from my abusive father, who himself was abused. Time [and work] can heal all wounds 🙏🏻
@@WISE1 So TRUE, God bless!
@@stevenherberts968 Thanks!
Greatest song ever written. I lost my best mate (Dad) on 02/02/2003. When I went to see him in hospital he looked at me and saw my tears and he said “ Don’t cry son ive had a good run” I still cry when I hear this song.
My dad was my best friend. I lost everything when he died. I feel you brother.
I lost my dad 35 years ago and my brother 26 years ago and I still cry listening to this song.
Mine looked at me like a 4-year-old child and asked me " Am I about to die?" Hearing that come from your hero will crush your soul.
Yes, I lost my father 23 yrs ago but I think about him when I hear this song as well. It pulls at my heart, especially the part about not being there “the day he passed away.” I would like to have been able to have held his hand at that time. 😔
I was born on 02/02. This year 02/02/2024, on my birthday my dad was admitted to hospital. He was suffering for many years with multiple sickness. Imagine my shock and pain when he died 4 days later just after we took him home. He told me he doesn’t want to be alone. We buried him a few days ago and I wish I could die too. The pain and grief is indescribable.I miss him so much. Hugs to you ❤
With out a doubt this is one of the best, if not the best, song written about parental relationship, regret, wisdom and hope.
It should be listened to by every man who becomes a father , every son before they become a man , every father and son before they regret.
I know it's about a father and son but it should be a reminder of being appreciated for everyone you have on your life even the ones you cut off fix it before it's too late and make peace
I got to share this song with my dad well before he died suddenly at 65. I’ll never have the chance to tell Mike, but what a gift this song is.
I wish I had a daughter that cared for me
@@richhunter5013 I wish you did too. My dad was a hero. A quiet, honorable, generous, kind man. He taught us, “ If not me, who? And if not now, when?”. The worst thing I ever heard him say about anyone was “ He don’t know nothing, and he don’t know he don’t know nothing”. 22 years in the air force, but teaching was his love. He retired with honors from over 30 years teaching young sight and hearing impaired people trades. 30 years as captain of our local volunteer rescue squad. The world lost the best when he died.
He l feel writing these lyrics came to the realization that in one way or another we all have difficult moments with each other dad,mom, brother,...whoever one verse is deeply upsetting and in the next it is forgiving. What a beautiful piece of work one that for many will go down as a truly touching song that in one way or another is one of the greatest masterpieces ever brought forth to all of us in one way or another.
The chap singing in the video is the actual writer Paul Carrack. He sang and wrote the hit "How Long" for the group "Ace" in the 1970's
Isn't this about Mike and his father so I was told that's why hes in the clip but it was too hard for him to sing it himself
People who didnt live through the 80s can't possibly understand the sheer volume of music that was created in that decade.
Yes, and the sheer volume of BRILLIANT music!
They also don't understand what our music was about. Most of it has a deeper meaning than the obvious lyrics. This is the music of my childhood, and I return to it now to sooth myself.
❤
Damn right. Release the hounds on this shit that passes for music today. It’s all shit. And they wonder why we are pissed off. Can’t believe what this world came too
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This song touched my heart so deeply. I was able to forgive my Dad for all the abuse I lived with as a child. With the help of Jesus I loved my dad for the last 4 years of his life. This song was the catalyst that started it all. I will be forever grateful.
We should never hate who bring us hay our mother and father always forgave dem
That is beautiful that you got to enjoy his last year with him. ❤
Beautiful. May God bless you for forgiving him. No one is perfect.
My dad passed when I was 8 years old 1961...one day i woke up and it was 50 years later and i realized i couldn't hardly remember anything about him. Tears rolled down my face. Time fades memories but it never really heals all the pain of loss
I am the woman I am today because of my father. He'd say to me you're the daughter I prayed for. I'm an extrovert and he was my total opposite. His smile was always a sign of approval whenever I'd say a speech in public. To this day I'm still rooted in his teachings. 7 years later, he's still very much alive in my heart. I'll forever be daddy's little girl.❤
Mooi verwoord
Me too.
He's still proud of you... Believe me....
This is the most beautiful message of appreciation to dad, to remember him in a beautiful way❤
That's beautiful ❤️
My dad past away the day after my daughter was born. This song meant so much to me! 27 years later still makes me cry. The message is everything!
Amy, you are so beautiful to have to suffer any pain. Hope all is better for you
❤❤
My dad died just before I found out my wife was pregnant. This news was not as good as it should have been as he did not know still think about that.
So much love to you for your loss and for your daughter. I hope you share all the wonderful memories of your da with her.
😥
I was so full of bitterness at my father for not beign there in my growing years that i carried my grudge against him till he departed......And the tears😭😭 wont stop falling whenever i hear the words" i just wished i could have told him in the living years" because they remind me of all i should have told him before he left this world.... "Dadddy, i love you"......😭😭😭😭.
I'm so sorry mate your dad can hear you and as. Much as you carry guilt I bet he's smiling up there he knows you love him peace hugs and love mate ❤
@@BellaXX69
Awwww. Thanks a lot 🙏🙏 Those are the exact thoughts that i console myself with..
@@fatimaahmed7249 your welcome 🤗 anytime you wanna chat you'll find me 😊
I know how you feel bro same here I never met him he died in gaol
My dad worked me like a borrowed mule here on a dairy farm in mountains of east Tennessee. He also kicked my arse regularly but I loved him even when we didn't see "eye to eye" and had our falling out when I joined the military. We made up later in the ways that men make up...with grunts and shared labors. He died too young of Alzheimer's at age 66. I am 60 now and glad that we had those caveman grunts and labors together. I regret that he didn't remember me when he passed. Soon I will follow him. I hope my children remember me as fondly as I remember him and forget my mistakes and errors.
I hope to see you in heaven dad.
Regards,
6 out
Grew up without a Dad. My Mum was both, whom I love dearly. Thank you Mum for being a Dad and Mum. You are awesome Old Gal xo
My Dad listened to this song just after losing his father. I'm now listening to it after losing him. I miss him very much.
So sorry..x
may he rest in peace 🖤💙 Im sending you love
Catherine Cross Ms. Cross, we are of different times, you and me. However, the pain of loss is not unique to the generations. Blessings to you. Never, ever forget him!
I lost my father 11 years ago and this song explains it perfectly
My dad did the same thing for his father and now here I am two days after my dad passed
This song will always have a special meaning to those of us who have lost our mum's and dad's.
"Grief isn't a sign of weakness or a lack of faith....It's the price of love."
soooo true
@@lynellvickerman893 Painfully true Lynell 😢
I agree
Lost my dad still miss him
I don’t think I have ever read anything more true.
With age comes wisdom, with wisdom comes knowledge, with knowledge comes perspective, with perspective comes humility and with humility comes understanding.
BEAUTIFUL PUT!!!!❤
Perfectly said
May dad, passed away from cancer , 2017.. Amd it still hurts. This song , have helped me a lot! Take care of your beloved ones...❤
My father passed away this morning. I'm dedicating this song in his memory.
William Pruitt I'm so sorry, for your loss, this damn song. made mom lock up the brakes and burst into tears I was 15 (1988) this is just one of those songs like a hand granade. In a strange way it kind of was the reason my mom reconnected with her family.
this morning f me r you clearing the house out and sharing the item's and planning a funeral and wake instead of wasting ya time with strangers on TH-cam.
A week's a good time to get over all the things that I mentioned?
Im so sorry bro...lost my dad in march...u can't express to people how the loss of a father affects the son....its a timeless bond....rip pop...cya on the other side
you are not alone. Mom and Dad 40 years ago and it still hurts. Cry it helps
God bless you and your family
The saddest part of life is when the person who gave you the most memories becomes a memory.
So TRUE !!!
very well said !!!! 💕
wow powerful words so so so true
@@alwaysmiserable "not all the time", but-t-t-t,
stuff happens to all of us, what matters is what you make of it 👍
@@alwaysmiserable I'm so sorry. Hope you know you are not alone. ⚘
it is 11 months to the day that my dad lost his battle with cancer. We were not as close as I wanted, but I got to tell him I loved him and was there until the very end. This song was on his youtube history when I came to deal with his affairs, and it is my go to song to think about him. RIP Dad xxx
Played at my father’s funeral 11 years ago . Miss him so much everyday and cry every time I listen to this song.
I loved my father so much, and I miss him every day. I'm crying at 64 remembering the greatest man I have ever known. I hope my 2 sons' feel the same when I pass. Thank you, Mike & The Mechanics, you said it all.
I'm sure they will .
I'm 74 and feel the same. My father was patient & understanding for all the crazy things I did as a kid. Thanks dad, I miss you.
This song is the best ever to describe that your parents are the most important 2 persons in the world. I lost my dad 2 years ago and now, my mother has Alzheimer and she barely recognize me. Tell them often that you love and thank them for what they do for you before they go away for always.
Same here my father was 72 and passed away from a brain aneurysm,I was 50 but you would think I was a little kid and for 8 days was a living hell watching my best friend and the best father anyone could ask for and miss him everyday and always shed tears when I think of him.
I'm 35 yrs my father passed away last year December 25 .my dad was everything in my life ooh god I cry every day since he passed on .lalah uphimule skhakhane mboma
Profound lyrics. I'm 64, and this reminds me of the relationship between my father and me. He died when I was 17...I regret that I didn't appreciate his love, hard work, and sacrifices. I wish I could have told him in the living years.
I know this is a late response, but don't beat yourself up with regret. You were 17. A lot of us don't or didn't understand or appreciate what our parents did at that age. 😉
Listen... Life is full of regret,but also feelings that are not shared... Your loved one knew how you felt... Never doubt that...XXX much love
Am almost 67 and a wish a could av told my Dad that he was the greatest man av ever known after many mishaps he was going be Grand dad and then gone av never got over the loss of my Dad possibly never will the nicest man ever a true Gentlman
Me too
@@davidbarber4709 Ttuth is you most likely will never get over your loss. I'm still missing my Dad nearly 9 years later. You have to keep the great memories,their yours and His.
Miss my grandparents...always hear this when i think of them...😢
A deep song from the golden ❤80‘s❤
I missed the chanced to say goodbye to my Mother. But when she was alive, we shared the most precious moments I will never forget. This song always brings me back to those great memories.
This song never fails. It always brings me to tears
@steveashby2266
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i just read this and burst into tears. DAD died in 1989 and i still miss him. I"m 69
@@steveashby2266 we will always miss our loved ones but it won't be long we can see them again. Not only that , they know exactly how you feel and where your heart is. It is part of their job to guide you through this life without banging your head on the table too much. People don't realize even though they didn't get this be there with their parents or loved ones. They know your feelings because they do communicate with us when the time is right. Just remember they love you. You can talk to them and tell them different things, but learn to listen and a quiet surroundings. This is not impossible even though Hollywood makes it seem that way.
Same Same😢
Same here. My father was always so busy trying to provide for the family that we rarely did things together, and we were never close. I would have liked to have had one decent talk with him about a lot of things, but when he fell ill at age 73, it was sudden and he never regained consciousness. He's been gone for 21 years, and I miss him.
The very last words (as the song is fading out) are the ones that resonate with me the most. "Don't give up, don't give in, and don't wait till it's too late"
This song was played at my dad's funeral on the 17th March 2021. He passed away on the 18th February 2021 from dementia and parkinsons. This was one of his favourite songs to listen to, because it reminded him of the relationship between him and his father. RLP dad.
Rest In Peace--Dad--Grand Dad and Joanna, no matter where your are !! 💕
My father passed away on the 26th of April 2021, i didnt have the chance to say good bye. He was a great father. Miss you Dad, always in my thoughts and prayers. I still cant believe he is gone, i guess i just lock things up inside.
so sorry girl......Peace be with you
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Parkinson's is a vicious disease. I am calling my dad.
Ahhhh, Joanna! So sorry! Lost my Dad as well!
Cant wait to see my parents again and tell them im sorry and thank you for the wonderful life they gave me😢
My Dad died when I was 8 years old at boarding school. He was dead and buried before I ever found out. At which point I burst into tears. I never had a chance to complete my relationship with him and bid him farewell. Just like this song.
Life is not fair. If you can change that for future generations, then you have achieved so much.
lost my Dad 6 days ago, in about 2 hours is the service for him, Im sitting here at his house in front of his computer listening to the song. He was the best man I ever known, I do not mourn, I honor him, and his memory by trying to be a good man everyday, he will be missed, thanks Dad for everything you taught me
O.Livia 8 I am so very very sorry for your fathers death I hope you made it through the service ok I will hold you in my heart and prayers You have a pal in me always 😊😘🌟✨
So sorry for you. There is no 'feeling better' magic. Grief is just there. I had no issues with my late Dad but this song is not just about yours or my dad, it's about grief. We all have unresolved things going in with a person who has passed. And their passing shuts off any possibility of squaring our differences. Being a better person is the best thing you can wish for in memory of your dear Dad.
0ur Dads passed about the same day, #respect, agree 100%
@@scottmcgill2127 Im so sorry to hear of your loss I have been there The pain is raw The only thing i can say is hang on in there It really does get a little easier to cope Bless you I will hold you in my heart and prayers 😌💫🌟✨
Big hugs and my condolences! I lost my Father 4 years ago next week. God bless you and your family!
The vocals, lyrics and music all make me cry every time i hear this song. My dad passed away in 97, i cry every time i hear this, even now, going into 2024. What a message in these lyrics, and Paul had a voice as smooth as silk. Thank you Mike and the Mechanics.
Just lost my dad last week and I am hurting, but he knew I loved him and I knew he loved me. Part of my chest got ripped out of me but I know he isn't in pain anymore. I love you daddy
Sending prayers 🙏
My Prayers and Love are with you and your family!!
God bless.
Lost my dad when I was 17, I'm 31 now, think about him every day. This is one of the most beautiful songs ever written. Miss you Dad x
An amazing song. I lost my dad in 2005. I think of him every day.
@Helen Robson My Dad was my best friend. He left us much too soon; I still think of him.
😢😢
I was also 17 when my Dad passed, 40 years ago now. I miss him every day.
Was
We dont look for these beautiful songs we look for the memories we got from them!
This is a timeless masterpiece! My mom passed away in 2019. I’m so thankful for her blessings and the love she showed me growing up. I’m her youngest of 3. She was my hero! My dad is still with us in 2022! Be sure to tell them you love them as much as you can. Love conquers all! I miss you mom! ❤
My mom also died 2019. I was pregnant with my lovely twins. So sorry that she didn't saw them at least ♥️💙
I know . ❤
love. always love.
The first time I heard this song I was four years old and that was in 1988 my family cause this song, the Christmas song and also this song goes out to all the people around the world not just to the USA but also to people who are living in United Kingdom God bless you guys and ladies stay safe and let’s have a great 2023
Sad some don’t see what they have with you while you’re living.They need to open their eyes and grow up. See what you do have and be grateful! 😪💙
"I wasn't there that morning, when my father passed away" gets me every time, 💙
I hear ya
I think a few of us have went through that experience
Me either sadly
It tugs at the heartstrings, I lost my dad in 1990, I’ve never got over it, my mum died inside that day, our lives were never the same, I’m so glad he got to hold and know his grandson this song instantly takes me back to that day❤️🥲🥲
It was just evening for me...I hear ya..
My dad and I never got on we don't talk and never will it's a shame I love the song and it makes me cry
I lost my 27yr old son didn't get to even say goodbye to him if anyone reads this dont take your family for granted tell them how much you love them
I don’t like this at all but I pray you find comfort in your pain
Ich verlor meinen Sohn vor 13 Jahren, er war damals 18 Jahre und ein guter Junge. Es hört nie auf!
One of the greatest songs ever sang. I lost my dad when he was 97. I'm 68 now, and each time I hear this song, I cry, cry, and cry. I wasn't there that Monday morning when he died at my brother's farm. And I will miss him until I die.
my gran (she raised med) died at 97, that was 2012, im still crying
God bless you my African brother. God bless your family.
Very powerful words
Likewise my good friend
Thank you for sharing god know
I loved my father dearly. Didn't know how deeply until he passed. I mourned him for years. This song makes me cry everytime I hear it.
I wish i am considered half the man he was.
Michael. Amigo. Lamento . . de verdad. So Sad.. Love From. PUERTO. RICO. . lo lamento amigo. .
I know exactly what you mean, my Father was the best man ever, for me. His Father is a close second, love them both and miss them so much.
And I bet you don't know how deeply your dad loved or how proud he was either!
Sometimes it doesn't matter how hard you try to get close to your father, some of them are just plain narcissistic. So you live with that pain of never feeling loved to the point of feeling hated. You must break that cycle if you have sons' of your own. I may never know what it feels like to have a father who cares, but my sons' and grandsons' damn sure do. I really don't know how I'm going to feel when my father dies, I think I will finally be at peace.
😮😮Not only your father but all your family.....at 77, parents have been long gone!! Knowing that I may not have that many years ahead of me!!
I always tell my daughter & granddaughters how much I love them!!!
This wonderful song came out around the time that my Mom died. She was 52. I was 26. I was devastated, and this song was a reminder to spend as much time as possible with loved ones while they are still with you. Take heed of this people. ☹️😢
Indeed! Life is too short. We never know when death. Comes. So enjoy l life with loving kindness.
I moved back home from San Diego in 1990 to help my parents out. Was going to move to Las Vegas after college in 96 but for reasons that never happened. I continued to help my parents. My dad died in 07 and I was taking care of my mom . She had a stroke and died in 2013. I was lucky to spend all that time with them. Even though I had some issues with turning the machines off for my dad and I saw my mom’s stroke which both left me with with some mental issues I wouldn’t change the time I was able to spend with them. Miss them every day ❤❤❤.
I'm sorry for your loss. I've been seriously, melancholy since my Mom passed away in 2020. But this song reminds me of the relationship with my Dad. It makes me cry, love him dearly, however we never see eye to eye! So to be healthy mentally, I must adore him from a distance. TRULY SAD!
Moira Moore. God. Bless hoy. . Take care. . Love From a Gentelmen From .. Puerto Rico. . Moira .. Soo cute.
Me too. Mom had cancer in 89 and died in 90. I actually talked to her about this song. Wrote out the words to it. Never let things go too far and then they die. Always put others first.
How can a song sound so warm or kind and yet have the tip of a spear against ones heart?
A masterpiece...
Well said.
Very well said Amen! ❤
Well spoken❤
Grown old with these guys,the song is a masterpiece I’ll be 80 this year had a wonderful wife and 3 wonderful boys,sadly lost my wife 15 years ago and my oldest son 11 years ago I’m an old man now with a head full of memories I speak to my 2 sons mostly every day on phone and the oldest now is 55 and when we end our call he always says love you dad that means so much to me,I wasn’t there when my dad died and I really regret that so never lose touch with who you are and where you come from
My dad was the best. We always expressed our love, I never wanted to regret like this.