Narcissists say you've changed~ what they really mean

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ย. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 66

  • @Dad_Bod_E
    @Dad_Bod_E หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Always remember the only people who get upset when you set boundaries are the ones who benefited when there were none.

  • @mandalovescatspandas1781
    @mandalovescatspandas1781 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Imagine not talking to someone since 2007 and finding out 15 years later theyre obsessed with you 😂😂

    • @cynthiahughes5504
      @cynthiahughes5504 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Run😮

    • @nopereradicator
      @nopereradicator หลายเดือนก่อน

      They stalk us from the shadows, forever.

    • @AboutThat_LIFE
      @AboutThat_LIFE หลายเดือนก่อน

      She did for 15 years 😂

  • @Hodijo
    @Hodijo หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Of course we've changed, because we apply what we learn and grow from it. We won't be falling in the same ditch twice.
    They're stuck in the same loop since childhood, they can't understand maturity.
    Good morning, uncle Jessseeeeee ❤❤☀️🌞🌻

  • @prunelle9051
    @prunelle9051 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Heheheh... so true. They are afraid of us, especially when we are silent and they have no access... but even more so when you've become a soldier that has join the ranks on the front line of shared awareness.
    ( Shhhhhh 😆 ) Thank you Jessie.

  • @Cat-sx6ep
    @Cat-sx6ep หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I've learned to stand strong and flee when someone attempts to dominate me. Now, I dictate the game. Enduring years of abuse, and most recently being conned out of hard-earned funds as a single mother, was devastating. Please, single mothers, be cautious; they can stoop lower than dirt, even those raised in two-parent homes.

    • @369-b1f
      @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Cat-sx6ep yerp, got suckered real bad as a solo mumma

  • @cherobinson6371
    @cherobinson6371 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I had a narcissistic Neighbour try engaging me with really disrespectful and disturbing behaviour a few months back. When I would respond? He rushed at me about 3 times like a Charging Beqr and Screamed What Changed! What Changed! I knew what he was saying is why won’t you let me gaslight You anymore? I Need You! He literally went Red and literally Scoffed and evn made a Growling sound when my Wife asked him Hey Buddy? Leave us alone absuNever Ever say a Word TonUs again. Holly Crap! They go Mad Badger when U say NOPE! I’m Done!

  • @scrunchy7528
    @scrunchy7528 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    They don't have hobbies, you are their hobby 😂😂😂😂😂that's why they have nothing interesting to talk about besides people and their problems (with them, when they are those problems and the causes of the problems)

  • @mommaluvsrrbutluvsdkmore8129
    @mommaluvsrrbutluvsdkmore8129 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Ya I changed. When they changed and I saw boogyman, I changed too. 😂😂

  • @987sh
    @987sh หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Begging for my freedom, my life, your life, their life etc etc. As u know too Jesse 🖤,

  • @francinesustaita4410
    @francinesustaita4410 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Jesse, you are a true Warrior and I'm so grateful to our Father in Heaven for allowing your video to come into my YT list.
    January 1st 24'
    When I first heard you I was shocked, ( in a good way) with your delivery, but so relieved to know you understand truly this NIGHTMARE that I lived.
    So sad to see how someone could be so horrible and appear so innocent and charming at the same time.
    Your words are true and bring clarity to those who've been exposed to this reality.
    I can't express the severity of trying to stay to make it work, because it will NEVER WORK!
    Having children with such an entity is dangerous, they will surely impact your children so decietfully, so much so that your children will grow to hate you. They also win over your immediate family.
    My father was the one who had my back. I miss him dearly. My mother still lives, and she loves the ex and rents a room from him, as well as my sister. They all adore him. My life is nothing like I dreamt it to be.
    However, my Father in Heaven has been with me throughout my life. I choose to live free, and finding myself. It's taken time, but I know that strong woman is inside me and becoming who she was created to be.
    Thank you again Warrior, for your commitment to this mission.
    Princess Warrior,
    Daughter of The Most High Elohim

  • @AskAuntChina
    @AskAuntChina หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You better preach Chico! Oohh wee … walls finally starting to cave in on that coworker
    They want me to give them a “clean slate”
    Bih please❤❤😂

  • @findingdori442
    @findingdori442 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for helping me & millions. 💛

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Coach they are creeps
    Divine intervention u the gals tht were on here before
    Therapy a truck load of friends me discarding & moving & it's been 2 yrs thank the heavens above
    Wldnt put it past him to attempt to hunt me down
    It's a game all a game to them ❤

    • @JustMe-uw6yd
      @JustMe-uw6yd หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love a self motivated
      War matchine
      Called a
      WARRIOR
      Who went thru Jesse's boot Camp
      & hv chosen to pass it forward often ❤

    • @JustMe-uw6yd
      @JustMe-uw6yd หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Whole workds upside down❤

  • @lwaokageyasha500
    @lwaokageyasha500 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Watching everyone grow successfully and move on without them is scary for the narc, this explains some parents not wanting kids to leave the nest....

  • @AngelEyes-xm7el
    @AngelEyes-xm7el หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true!!! He kept the bride and groom glasses.

  • @maryamallahverdian3753
    @maryamallahverdian3753 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dear coach Jessie you are awesome thanks for teaching us. God bless 🙏❤️

  • @kimlorraine369
    @kimlorraine369 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    And Thank You JesseChicoCabrera ❤

  • @rockbrigade414
    @rockbrigade414 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thanks for more gold Jesse.

  • @ericajohnson4682
    @ericajohnson4682 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I swear God chose you to speak the truth about the Narc

  • @lisawells9905
    @lisawells9905 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    After I asked narc neighbor why she kept coming over after she had threatened to call the police on me if I came near her again, she said that she thought "we" were past that. She also that day I been yelling at her and throwing the things I returned that she had given me. I didn't of course. I let her know that NO "we" weren't and would never be past that day! 19:48 19:52 19:56 19:57

  • @icalotdonthide2646
    @icalotdonthide2646 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Grease Lightning 😂😂😂, looks cool❤

  • @kimlorraine369
    @kimlorraine369 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Winner 🎉

  • @Tr4nsphobic
    @Tr4nsphobic หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're awesome! Thanks for your speech.

  • @salettamyers8845
    @salettamyers8845 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Save/dry some of those strawberry leaves to enjoy some of your own strawberry tea this winter Coach- or dry them & make a extract with them to enjoy even more bestest this winter💙 Father will always take the best care of you! Even your wstermellon leaves will give you a beautiful healthy extract once you find out their "medicinal benefits"- A cheap vodka will make a beautiful extract once it has set for at least 8 or more weeks in a dark place- zuchinni leaves too will blow your mind of their medicinal benefits once tinctured- nasturtium leaves & flowers too- natures antibiotic- stock up on a quart or 2 or more for this winter- Gotta protect our tribe💪👊👊

  • @rosalindwhelan_actressANDmodel
    @rosalindwhelan_actressANDmodel หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Popping in to see your happy smiley face :-) nearly 3.5 years no contact. It’s true… they see everyone succeed who they screwed over and/or discarded. The two videos I’ve just watched from you to catch up (I only watch you if I need a pick me up) hit differently. Mine lied for absolutely no reason at all. He also boasted about what he did. He set things up and in fear of thinking I’d missed it (photos changed, items in different places) would point them out, which was great confirmation in my silence….he said to me that I was his last chance at a relationship… clearly I didnt really hear what he was saying. But on reflection he was telling me that he just can never make things work. In the broken 2 years that I knew the man I knew that all his exes bar one hated him and didn’t speak to him even tho they had children with him. I saw him fuck over his ex (the one he was still speaking too - and she just let him do those things and still continued to talk to him) then he fucked me over and he got a newbie - new supply - in my confusion at the end where he was triangulating me I worked out that she and me were now being fucked over. I was so confused that I blew up the bridge. I couldn’t actually take anymore confusion and needed a permanent break. I was so tired from being a detective on everything he said (like you said in your video) his patience to drop small bits of information to let marinade in permeate is in some way ‘incredible’ - he must have been doing it constantly as I can’t have picked up on all of them? I know that he has to watch ALL his exes (and there’s a lot …) move on and settle down…. There’s only so many of that before a human will get bitter and angry - ‘we’ as in, all his exes eventually move on as we can’t take it…. He liked me cos I was apparently ‘strong’… maybe he thought I could take it like a mother has unconditional love for her son. No, my love wasn’t unconditional….. my love is conditional and I’m proud of that. I can’t love if someone if they have fucked me over - only a mother is capable of unconditional love. His mother was CLEARLY a narcissist from the stories I heard about her when she was alive. She beat him with bamboo when he was 5-6 years old and her own mother tried to kill her in the bath tub. I sometimes look at the situation and try to be at hands length compassionate, because he never stood a chance…. But I do believe that humans still have choices. He continues to fuck people over - ALL people - not just lovers - and he will only be able to start new relationships with strangers as all the people who know anything about him CANT have any type of relationship with him. It’s impossible to have a connection with him. He’s just too horrible. He has no control at all - he can’t control his behaviour in anyway which makes him lose everything. It baffles me how someone who can actually build extremely quickly and get so very high quality stuff CANT keep any of it. It must be the hits of dopamine that they are after rather than keeping stuff and mine is bankrupt and has a VERY long string of failed relationships which most if not all (if she’s woken up) don’t talk to him. I’ve decided to take the ‘good’ bits of it and forever move on. I am who I am because of it and can help others if they get fucked over by one of these people. My alerts have been heightened which is probably a safe thing to have in life anyway as I was naive and inexperienced before him (hence why I was there in the first place) I feel I was unlucky enough to be in his presence, like 100s of other people have been and will be. I was just unlucky to meet him. But just because I’ve shared the same 5 meter area of air with someone who is like this doesn’t mean my life should be ruined forever. No. It’s him that acts badly and I was just unlucky to meet him. I have had excellent relationships with ‘people’ all people, since and I have a stable romantic relationship of over 3 years now where the man CARES about me. He actually cares and I can feel it. Casting my mind back it’s just all about ‘care’ - these people don’t ‘care’ about you in anyway shape or form. You can’t believe it and won’t believe it - but you have to realise they don’t and can’t and will never ‘care’ about you. It’s not even about love - it’s about care. They don’t care about you AT ALL…. Get sick and you’re fucked ….. if you can’t give to them or provide it’s ice cold and that’s when you must WAKE UP and smell the ‘they don’t care about me coffee’

  • @joycehagins9900
    @joycehagins9900 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great message!

  • @987sh
    @987sh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Fun yeah, thanks 🤣

  • @lwaokageyasha500
    @lwaokageyasha500 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    More golden nuggets.... This one hit hard brother, I had to stop 🛑 WTF I'm doing and look at you when you said that alter I instantly realized what you meant.... Peace to all

  • @369-b1f
    @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the way you do the things you do Mister Jesse ❤ even when I disagree, that's me safely held by you when I am standing in my truth fully vulnerable.. You, Chico, and The Girls In The Office, thank YOU 😊

  • @lisaariottiart
    @lisaariottiart หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Whoaaa you hit this one Hard!! 🎉

  • @bobbobbing4381
    @bobbobbing4381 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alhamdulillah, thanks Jesse. Namaste!
    You make me want to continue on this path to be a better person, but in an intelligent way. I mean truth and love together, the discernment here and which I struggle with both with respects to escaping harmful others, but also with matters regarding my own heart, thoughts and deeds.
    Bless you bro.

  • @Clevergirl2006
    @Clevergirl2006 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the only channel that is actually helping people with not telling them again and again that I told you so, but ok you here this is why and you know now so we’re here and throw the shame that was put on you by the shameless, but stop thinking they’ll change
    Only the best in you will get you your best life 😂
    Jessie best one I heard I must send it you
    But a classic one liner was , you won’t change! , you might change for yourself but you won’t change for me! 😂😂😂😂

  • @zeljkokrajcer523
    @zeljkokrajcer523 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ♥︎&peace from croatia brother ❤

  • @bobbobbing4381
    @bobbobbing4381 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thought a lot about your piece to camera since I last commented. "What are you? Boo! I'm [insert name I cant spell but want to google it] [...]". I have spent a lot of my life in fear of what I might be, because I am not sure myself and often feel an enigma to myself, as they say. Those lines struck a chord with me accordingly. A proper deep one. Natural resonance stuff.
    That I have often panicked to work out what is the right thing to do too, not for reward but just because it is the right thing to do and that is uplifting, well, I thought that would have helped ease my own fears about myself. I'm still not sure but yes, I see the baboon in me too and I feel it.
    I also feel the weight of the present moment, and that my decisions in the coming days, weeks and months, might resolve this for me. That I can then answer when asked what are you? I know what I want to be and I am being given a choice, apparently. I am trying dude, really trying. Ra is really shining, eh, that sun light so piecing; 'mad dogs and Englishman go out in the *checks watch* 1900 hour evening Sun, apparently.'
    Salaam.

  • @lwaokageyasha500
    @lwaokageyasha500 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Scary thought there is an alter in this "home" three corners are 😮 filled with keeps sakes and crap, and the Narc ex had a box filled with "friends picture" they were affairs she had

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    A NARCISSIST KNOWS INTO HER
    CORESELF BEING ,
    FROM DAY ONE TO TODAY ,
    👉 THIS MAN ( APU ) 👈 ,
    NEVER EVER CHANGED HIMSELF .
    SHE ALSO KNOWS IT VERY WELL ,
    WHAT A NORMAL HUMAN SEEKS ,
    👇
    EVEN , WITHOUT SEEKING
    ANYTHING AT ALL , EVER ,
    APU GETS IT ALL ,
    COMPLETELY FREE ,
    FROM CORNERSTONE .
    HER HARDCORE QUESTION
    TO HER OWNSELF IS :----
    WHAT IS APU ???
    A HUMAN OR ANYTHING ELSE ?
    🌈
    🌟 .

  • @BookThumper1589
    @BookThumper1589 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good stuff as always, Jesse. Thanks again.

  • @BonsanJuri_
    @BonsanJuri_ หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this today. Thank you.

  • @bevfaria3300
    @bevfaria3300 หลายเดือนก่อน

    DAM MITT!!! .. JESSE .. I'VE LOVED YOUR STREET CRED .. YOUR HUSTLE .. YOU GOT MY GROOVE ON EVER SINCE WE MET .. HECK YEAH .. GOTTA GIVE CREDIT WHERE IT'S DUE .. STAYING THE COURSE .. HOLDING ON WAS NO EASY TASK .. THE BREATHTAKING BEGINNING AND KEEPING THE FAITH .. STEP BY STEP .. I GUESS FINALLY HOLDING THE LINE THE HEART KNOWS WHAT IT'S WANTS AND WORTH .. YOU'VE BEEN A SILLY GOOSE AND AN INVALUABLE LECTURER.. ALWAYS STAY THE COURSE .. YOU'RE INVALUABLE .. INCREDIBLE .. MUCH LOVED .. RESPECTED .. WE NEVER SAY NEVER .. ❤ .. BEV .. XOXO ❤

  • @lwaokageyasha500
    @lwaokageyasha500 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Had to watch this twice, really gotta go back to other vids to refresh as well; might've missed some Gold nuggets Believe It!

  • @pattyrooney1323
    @pattyrooney1323 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, coach.

  • @kimlorraine369
    @kimlorraine369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂 more cool ❤❤ blessem

  • @Clevergirl2006
    @Clevergirl2006 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesse there could be a business opportunity in there somewhere if only fans gts?
    We can promise salvation for the narcissist he has to sign up for minimum term and then we switch up on em 😂😂

  • @369-b1f
    @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dars wude Chico 😮😂😂😂😂

  • @369-b1f
    @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂
    Ahhhh 😂😂 be fkd 😂😂
    Kale..
    😂😂
    Kelp
    😮
    😂😂
    Popdamn 🎉🎉

  • @nileoracle
    @nileoracle หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    uh huh ..I am BABA YAGA,

  • @ericajohnson4682
    @ericajohnson4682 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤!!!!!

  • @Clevergirl2006
    @Clevergirl2006 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I se the videos saying get revenge on the narcissist etc but I can’t be assessed wit dat
    But to know the fact they are concerned about how I could f em up or tell dis n dat on em but I ain’t 😂
    Iguessits like knowing that someone wants to beat you up and they don’t know when or where that will happen
    Watcha back jack 😂😂

  • @masculinemindset6509
    @masculinemindset6509 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is a guy I grew up with who's girlfriend liked and wanted to bump with me that I never touched. And he's still mad at me. That was 1997

  • @findingdori442
    @findingdori442 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯💪

  • @nileoracle
    @nileoracle หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥🧹

  • @Danny.Murillo
    @Danny.Murillo หลายเดือนก่อน

    💎

  • @nancysmith9665
    @nancysmith9665 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bobba yaga?

  • @cogermaureen1957
    @cogermaureen1957 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That is what me oldest daughter said to me in 2015 "YOU CHANGED" but before that she told me she can do what she wants with her baby sister who lived with me in Florida and she lives in New York and made reservations for her sister without my permission(REALLY NOW WHERE ARE YOU AND YOUR LITTLE SISTER BECAUSE NEITHER ONE OF YOU CAN COME IN MY PRESENCES).

  • @Healerinyou888
    @Healerinyou888 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ☺🤣🤣

  • @zero012345678910ten
    @zero012345678910ten หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    :}

  • @Mimi-in2bw
    @Mimi-in2bw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Jesse. Haha, Rambo famous words. I have coined this, and they simply go MIA 😅

  • @nezlquasie
    @nezlquasie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤫🤫🫣🤔