Is There Hope For Me / Trying to Live a Simple Life / Who Am I? (Over 60
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- Is Nanny having doubts that she can ‘pull off’ this SIMPLE LIVING’ ? Has she lived too long loving her maximalistic life and loving it? Is it too late for her to achieve? Join her introspective conversation today …and see what her mindset is at this moment.❤️
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You are a teacher (still), you are an encourager, and you are a joy and a delite to all of us and the world is a kinder gentler place with you in it
Thank you, Sharon..❤️
Yes, she is . I agree. I love to see her videos. Such inspiration.
Amen!!,❤
This episode was amazing!!!! You should really be on TV regularly..
Glad your energy levels are back in business again❤❤
I would not worry about getting a housekeeping help. For most, cleaning is no fun ☺️
A robot vacuum cleaner, the round one, could fix the floors.
Glad the doctor agreed veggies are healthy!!!! And that electrolytes are fine, despite the dehydration😊
I wonder if you could have a cat door through a window. Into a big box, containing the cat toilet..
Nanny l am 80 and just love your videos, we have a lot in common apart from I am good at clearing out my wordrobe ,perhaps cos I love buying new ones 😂 not expensive , Bonmarcha and M&S ,I wait till I am on holiday in Llandudno ,love the sea and shops. Like you my family will always help if needed .my 17 year old grandaughter will vac all through once a week ,for spending money. My 86 year old husband was ill on holiday last week,two of them came down on the train, one ordered a big shop to be deliver there. all kept in touch , they looked after my mum at home she us 98 ,if I could afford it I would deffo get a cleaner once a week ,we do have a gardener every other week to cut grass , dig etc.I love dead heading planting etc.and we have a window cleaner too.we downsized 8 years ago.in the same area ,we love it.Good Luck with your new you nanny ,but you seem perfect to me.😂🎉❤
My Mom had a plaque in her kitchen that read " My house is clean enough to be healthy, and dirty enough to be happy". 😁
Love this statement!
Yes.my father gave me this one too..love it
I love it
Love this!
Love that saying!!!! My Mom used to say if you want to come and visit me come anytime ….if you want to come to visit my house call me two weeks ahead.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Creative minds have trouble slowing down
So true!
I'm 76 now and realized my yard work is taking me 4 times as long to complete. Not sustainable. So I've hired young people to help me. It's about 85% in perfection. So I have also adopted the phrase it's good enough. For the inside of my house, my motto has gone from perfection to tidy. Spend 20 min a day doing a little something. But do certain things every day like dishes, clean bathroom, making my bed and keeping things picked up. It looks ok. Dusting and wood floors Don't do that often. May end up delegating at some point. I would rather spend my energy doing the things I love than having a perfect clean house. It's good enough works well for me.
We are in the same boat.
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I am turning 80 this month. So hard to believe but feeling grateful that I can. Your videos are a wonderful inspiration , cooking, cleaning, being good enough, learning to relax, and enjoy life as it comes. All so important. Thank you.
I hired a cleaning lady 10years ago and it was the best presant I ever gave myself..I found her through friend's recommendations. Now
I need someone to help declutter my house because at 80 i cant do it myself.
Hallo from amsterdam
Thank you for your kind words about Amsterdam and the Dutch!
I am 70 years old
My system for decluttering is:
Every Sunday or Saturday I grab a garbage bag and walk randomly through my house and fill the bag to the top
Clothes admin cups etc etc
When the bag is full
I am done
This system works for me
I did my best!
I think you still look fantastic! I love your positive outlook at life!
You are a brave little soldier!(dutch saying)
Found that a cleaning service with 2 or 3 ladies takes such a short time that you and Moose can be in the bedroom and then move to the living room when it is time for them to do the bedroom. These wonderful cleaners are so good and fast. Once a month is plenty and gives you peace of mind that every 4 weeks your cottage will be refreshed and you can stop stressing about the little stuff. We also at one point had a wonderful woman to clean the whole house but it took all day and that can be very inconvenient. An automatic litter box and a robot floor cleaner can be wonderful and life changing!! Seriously , when the floors are done the rest seems easy. You have a solution for the summer, but think about hiring a cleaning service. Believe me they will clean and dust all your precious belongings right where they are ,no purging or declutering. Love to you both,Liz
Are lives have been enriched knowing you, Nanny. I am personally in awe....
Thank you, Wendy…❤️
A few years ago, at the age of 75, I broke my ankle, finding myself unable to clean my studio apartment, so hired a lady ( recommended by my neighbor) who literally cleaned around me as I sat in my recliner. It felt weird, but the end result really boosted my mood. Do the research, ask friends and family, and you will find someone who will work perfectly for you.
I get so excited when I see another Nanny video. It ALWAYS cheers me on!
I’m 77 Nanny and I love the saying , I’m not perfect but good enough. Thank you, I love to watch and listen to you.
Nanny, you are great just as you are. I am totally amazed at how good your videos are. I understand it takes hours and hours for each. one please don’t beat yourself up. And don’t change this late in the game.
Nanny, I'm 83...basically in the same position as you...I purged my closet...hung everything in the back room on a rack..put a dozen purses in a laundry basket...as of today all but two jackets and a pair of pants are back in my closet..as are four purses !! I have intentions of decluttering but I love my 'stuff' ! I'm pretty sure I have conquered the art of spending hours on my Kindle and reading mystery novels and ignoring dust ! Looking forward to joining the Making Life Simple group ! Lead on !!!
Hi from England
I’m the same purge and then most of it goes back in my wardrobe. I love my clothes too.
I know the drill,Patricia…too well, I’m afraid…❤️
Oh Nanny-good enough is good enough. I was a "houseaholic" because I knew that was what pleases my deceased husband and also a "cookaholic" because his Mother was-I loved her-she was a wonderful mother-in-law-. I am almost 87-live in a condo and I don’t care if my house isnt perfect. My husband and I raised four children and I also worked many jobs and tried to be involved in their schools and our church and my community. Now I just do what I feel like- I love having friends in- do a weekly Bible Study-still love "fun shopping" and I love my stuff!!! Love moving things around in my home🥰 My children are great and I can rely on them which many don’t have that blessing. Bought a new car this year and go places-and oh, y the way-I don’t always make my bed every day cause sometimes I don’t want to. Love your videos!
I do the same
I'm 77, and last fall I hired someone to help every other week with my housework. I've cared for my 97 year old mother for 2 1/2 yrs and some chores at her home which is close to mine. Before that, I was also caring some for my dad before he passed away. Between covid and dealing with aging parents, my mother's ill health of many years, I'm weary. My husband and I cope, but it's best to take help where you can get it. Aging isn't easy, but we serve where we're called to. Blessings.
@terryruiz7417 You have done a magnificent thing for YOURSELF by getting help around the house. Congrats on the self-care move. 🎉
Blessings to you, too, Terry….take some time out for you, too❤️🙏
I am 76years old l have tried to be a perfectionist? Exactly, doesn't exist,l have wasted so much time trying to prove my worth,no more l am enough,do enough,achieve enough. Please stuff is held within your heart,not scattered around just halving some of the stuff will give you a surprising lift. Leave room for the butterflies. Love you and Moose xxx
Love your descriptions of the butterflies , Fran..
Just be you Nanny. Keep your treasures You are Not one of those hoarders. You can get around your small cottage. Enjoy your twilight years.
Nannie, I simply don’t see how you ever moved from a 5000 sq ft house to where you are now in such a tiny little cottage. I am so thankful to live in a 4000 sq ft home and hope that I never have to be worried about downsizing to a smaller place. I just completed a large purge and I told my husband that this is as organized and simple as we are ever going to be!!! I am just not going to worry about it any more!!!!! I will be 70 next March, so hopefully it will be a long time before I will need any domestic help. Both my husband and I clean and tidy things up as we go and luckily we are both very neat people who rarely make a mess. If I were you, I would concentrate my efforts on not worrying about purging any of your possessions-concentrate on enjoying you life as it is and learn to be happy with your home the way that it is. Getting some help with household chores is wonderful. I totally and absolutely think you need to get some help with household chores; but, if you love your collections and can’t bear to part with sentimental items-don’t do it-and stop worrying about it!!! You have no reason whatsoever to feel guilty about loving your collections or being a maximalist!!! For those who want to be minimalist, that is absolutely fine-but to become a minimalist at your age, especially after already giving up so much to live where you live now, is just an absurd idea-at least this is my opinion. Love your things!!! Stop overthinking this!!!
Go with the flow. I hate a bunch of junk, like having nick knacks everywhere. I prefer a clutter free existence. Our children don't want that stuff. When we leave this earth we surely can't take it with us.
We downsized to a villa…1700. Sq ft. ….2We love it, we are both 80 and married for 58 years. Enjoying the simple life. I love to sew and craft, play Mah Jongg and sing in choirs with hubby, life is good…do not need a large home to care for….yay!
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I love a small home , I don’t need things to make me happy, I love crafts to take up time and family an a few friends to gather with ; love a simple life.
I agree with everything you say, W…actually when we moved (20 years ago) from the family home…each of the 6 kids filled a van with furniture and treasures…I’ve rearranged my thinking to stop the worrying..and just purge enough to Simplify my life…the kids already know what ‘s ahead of them….Hugs, 😂❤️
You would be the perfect sister . . . The one we always wanted. You share your wisdom, experience and humor with us so freely. Thank you.
Nanny, I think you should just enjoy all your treasures and not worry about purging or trying to simplify your life. You don’t need the stress of all that in this stage of your life. Just enjoy your hobbies and your beautiful yard and have fun with your family. Your treasures are who you are and you need to keep them and enjoy their beauty. I admire your spirit and hate for you to worry about purging. You are the best old gal I know, and I love listening to your stories.
Hi nanny first keep up hobbies they will keep you interested in life,second I'm trying to declutter ten things a day ,today it was just make up,,it will be slow but we will get there,I'm also looking at a lot of my ornaments and think do I still love it still ,it's surprising what I thought I loved I don't anymore ,you can do this ,once we purge we will have less to clean 👍
I just make the best of every day,i don’t look very much at my outward self only my inward self so as to live a life pleasing to my Creator God
Good morning Nanny. You are always a inspiration to me since the first time I saw your videos 3 years ago. Love you. God bless you all.
At 82, I have simplified, Nanny. I will tell you it’s an ongoing process but each little bit helps to open and expand my life. You have already taken bags out of the house. So you are already simplifying. This is not a race.
Your honesty is so respected! The challenges in this 3rd/3rd of Life are large and oh so deep.
Do your passions. Be a mover and a shaker. And rest as well. And make sure you let someone else do the mundane - like house cleaning.
I’m in the process of looking for a once a month housekeeper right now for my 450 sq ft. Not a team! Because my little things are precious. But someone who can take on the tedious with gentleness, and leave me the passions.
That sounds great…❤️
Thats a good idea cooking with premade foods and changing it up a little for us that don't know how to cook. Simple meal making.
Hi Nanny and Moosie
I am 77 and I just love you and your channel. You are so stylish and beautiful you can wear anything and you look beautiful❤️
You advice is so wonderful and you encourage us all as we are aging and trying to navigate life. Thank you and keep up the good work.
Nanny, you say you're a sewer, collector, crafter, fasionista, etc. Those are your FORMER labels. That’s not who you are today! Begin this journey by confessing the NEW Lables: You are a quasi-Maximalist. You are a Master down-sizer. You are the Queen of Simplicity! You are what you say you are. I believe in you, Nanny
@JanetMcBride-yc8ff Well said‼ I agree.
I agree…Janet…I will try to be what I can handle from here on in❤️
I love you in red..I think red is your color lovely lady ♥️🇨🇦
Hi, Nanny. I’m also ‘Nanny’ to 6 grands & soon to be 71. While my energy level is still pretty good, I have a lot on my plate as my 93 year old mom with dementia broke her hip. I go to her rehab every day and stay with her 10 hours a day. It keeps her calm & reassured while being in a strange place as she recuperates. I had to share with you that we,too, downsized moving from our big home of 35 years to a very small beachfront condo. This was 15 years ago. I gave away 90% of my beloved antiques and collectibles to family and friends. We lived happily in our little place for 11 years. In that time I started collecting again and our tiny home became very full just like your casita. 4 years ago we purchased a Craftsman cottage 2 blocks from the beach. It’s double the size of the condo with a garage and tiny yard. And it’s filling up too. I guess I am a maximalist at heart and can’t be happy with clean tables tops and sparse mantles. It’s just not me. I’ll let my kids do the purging when I’m gone. I’ll leave them $$ to pay for the dumpster. 😂❤
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Oh yes Nanny tell us about the trip .♥️
Hi Nanny, I’m 63 and I just love hearing about your wonderful stories and adventures and family and life for you and your hubby. Thank you for sharing. 🤗❤️ God bless you too!
What a nice surprise. I am 74, a widow for 10..a caretaker for 8. Then I moved back home and took care of my most wonderful mother who suffered from parkinson's. Story continues...but I am alone for first time in life...but not lonely 🤗. You are a great joy and encouragement to me. Be blessed
Blessings to you, too,, Debbie🙏❤️
I’m 71, I also had to downsize and purge after my husband passed away. Sometimes I lay awake at night and think of all the things I had to get rid of, I then slap myself lol and tell myself to stop it, I can’t take it with me! 🥴
I am 80 irish women watch you all the time best wishes from Ireland
My daughter in law is a professional cleaner and I can tell you it is HARD work to do it right and their supplies are expensive. She does a GREAT job and makes really good money doing it. People love her work and has many repeat clients. Good on you for getting help. You ARE good enough and then some! ❤
Good enough…. The perfect comment, you are a delight, 80 here and
Loving life…finally able to say “no”!
Hello again dear Nanny! I believe that you could never by a minimalist "simplist"
.....you are so multi-faceted, have so many interests that your home and many 'projects' are an extension of yourself. Minimalism works for some and that's great, but so much of the items that we cherish are reminders of our life experiences....the years that have flown by and all that has brought us to where are at the moment. Now, I hope this is not a negative view or discouragement in your attempt to purge! To de-clutter is one thing and to purge is another. To carefully take a little time each day to decide what items we truly want to keep and those we can live without is a process....it can be very tiring and even emotional. It cannot be hurried or done when we feel tired or overwhelmed. Donating items that no longer have a 'heart string' can be happily given to charity or any other re-use-it type of organization. In doing this we feel a sense of 'happy elimination' and a knowing that these items will find a good home and be appreciated and cared for. Cleaning out the refrigerator is without a doubt the easiest of 'purging' chores for there is no emotional attachment to stale cheese or browning lettuce! But special keepsakes and clothing are another matter all together. Each time we moved and there were quite a few....I was faced with 'purging' and getting rid of excess. The hardest move was from a beautiful old farm house that of course was filled with life's many collectibles. Now the strange thing is that after several moves and downsizing, the many things that I eliminated are pretty much forgotten. In the end, it is our memories that can never be purged or eliminated...they are the 'decorations' and precious keepsakes that are forever in that special shelf of keepsakes of the heart....and they do not fade or get dusty. And yes, I still am a bit of a maximalist...changing things for the season, getting out sweet reminders of past holidays and decorating my little mantles....there is less, but that which remains is what is best. A bare house has no warmth or story to tell.
So true and so well written.
So much of what you are saying makes such good sense,Charlotte..”what is left is best” ……and I love the refrigerator cleanout analogy! Thanks for the wisdom.❤️
Oh Nanny, I don’t know if it is more common for women, but as nurturers and pleasers ( I too never wanted to disappoint my parents) we are the hardest on ourselves. As we celebrate more birthdays, God willing, we must give ourselves the grace we so easily give to others. Not sure at our age we will truly change who we are, our innate characteristics, but we can be kinder to ourselves. Those who want to help us, do so because it is their way of giving back. It is ok to let them. Please don’t change who you are at heart, but perhaps just a bit of adapting😏 Take very good care.❤🌻
Thank you, Bobbie…I always feel so good after reading your comments…❤️
ALWAYS stay true to yourself ❤
Hello Nanny, I discovered your channel this morning. I love it!! I'm 62, retired and learning to grow old gracefully. We need mentors like you that are willing to share your journey with. My aunt Lillian used to say "everyone should move every five years, just to clean house". I've only moved three times, but she was right. So happy you have young family that can help you with household chores. It is good for our young people to learn how to make and keep a home. Please share your skin care routine with us. If you do, maybe some vendors will send you free products to try. Let's keep encouraging each other. With Love from N. Florida.
Hi Susan…welcome to our channel and thanks for being here with us…I have almost 500 videos on our HOME PAGE…and frequently do Makeup and Hair .Videos sharing products and techniques..Go to Nanny and the Moose You Tube and click on videos…you’ll find lots..❤️
Quentin Crisp said ..why worry about housework....After the first 4 years the dirt doesn't get any worse.
He was right ❤
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Oh nanny. What a great video. I’m like you. I collect, craft, read, paint, etc. I’m going to be 80 in June. I need to purge. It’s hard for me because I have issues with my back and strength. It’s taking me forever. I love my things, but I’m not the healthiest, and I don’t want my children to have a nightmare getting rid of stuff. My house is not cluttered, but I’m for sure not a minimalist. Those soups look great! I may get some. I just have to watch what I eat being a cardiac patient. Yes, cats are messy. I have two and even tho I love them to pieces, uggh! The cat box!!!! I can’t afford a housekeeper, and my grandkids are mostly in different states, so I do the best I can. Getting rid of stuff will also make it easier to clean. You always make me feel good about being a senior, and you always look fabulous.❤
Thanks,Carolyn…❤️
God bless you and Moosie, Nanny. xxx
I sometimes feel like my mind is racing. Trying to keep up with birthdays (family and friends) funerals, church, small flower garden, sick friends, i just am having trouble doing it all not to mention taking care of the house
the way it should be. I just have to slow down. I love to read a good book but i feel guilty doing that because i have so much to do. I am a mess. Like Scarlet always
said " tomorrow is another day or
something like that!! Tomorrow i am going to clean off my kitchen counter. Love you Nanny!
I guess taking it one day at a time …and nor feeling guilty…is the way to go Carol…❤️
❓❓❓❓ nanny. I love the videos with your daughters when you all go Thrifting, you and Deb and you and Colleen and when you and Margie do succulents I’d like to hear more about your daughters and it’s just refreshing to see you all together and I love the hat videos and I’d like for you and Debi to do a purse video.👛👛👛👛👛
I’m trying to simplify things too, easier meals, less grocery shopping, trying to purge, I will be starting cancer treatment in a few weeks and know I need to make things easier. I think most definitely you should have some help with your cottage, you’d have more time to enjoy your garden and hobbies and for all of us❤️
iam wishing you well as you begin treatments, Marcia…hugs,❤️🥰
You are an orchid in a field of onions, Nanny. Greetings from a US expat in Quito, Ecuador. 😊
Thank you for being here,my friend…❤️
I hear you Nanny. I’ve been feeling the same way. I have been going thru things….”stuff”…..getting rid of what I can. Trying to keep in mind that we all have more than we need. I love your videos. ❤️
I’m 79. I have 2 ladies clean once a month. Got their name from my hair stylist because she hears who is good from clients. They are bonded and insured.
I’m so happy when they are finished!
I admire your ambition!
Thanks for your videos. I enjoy so much ❤.
Nanny you are simply. Enough ❤
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I completely understand what you are talking about. I am almost 71 years old, and have been thinking so much about ridding myself of so many things that I have had for years. Unfortunately, most of it is in storage. So much to go through and get rid of. I think about it quite often. But, I am still working pretty much full time and by the time I get off work, I am ready to just come home and sit. Hopefully soon I will be able to get this job done. I'm sure that it will make me feel so much better and lighter. I know that you will do what you can to get things done. Take care and God bless.❤
Yes, Sharon…I guess the key is to do what you can handle…and not worry about the rest…blessings to you, too.❤️
Nannie’s y’all can get home health care through the VA. If moosie is in the Veterans Administration program . I am a veteran, and they send a lady whom I have grown to love very much she comes three times a week for three hours a day to take care of my house and me you should check into that it won’t cost you anything for her services. VA pays for it 100%. I hope this helps you..
I could have made this video Mary Ellen. We wear so many hats and have so much stuff! I’ve purged my makeup and am now working on jewelry with a long long way to go. xoxo patti 🌸🌿
I’ve been pulling stuff out of my closet today, Patti…AGAIN! ..it’s a revolving door job..it’s on the bed now …and so am I..if I don’t get it out of here today, it will go back in…just so we can go to sleep tonight! I think I’m a lost cause! 😂😂🥵
Nanny, you mustn't be so hard on yourself. No one is 100% perfect, The one thing you can do, though, is allow yourself to miss some of the deadlines we all put on our shoulders as this can add to the stress. My mother-in-law hired a neighbour's teenage daughter to clean her small home every second thursday. It helped her and gave pocket money to the student. I wanted to have a lady come in to clean our place as I find it difficult to do so due to mobility issues but my husband refuses to have a stranger come in. As I get older. I decided to choose my "battles" and let the other "stuff" slide as much as I can. Be kind to yourself. 💕
Nanny I right along with you. If I dont. Love it its going!
Sorry to hear that you have been unwell. I am glad you are able to make adjustments that will make things easier for you. I have just found a new channel new to me that is but I thought it may be of interest to you as well the name is The Crafty Nana she thrifts clothes and shows how she puts outfits together. She also goes on her travels and does videos where she goes. If you don't know her already she is very relaxing to watch and I would say inspirational. Well Good bless and I hope you are feeling better and more rested soon.xx
Don’t forget to tell about your time in Scotland . You are doing great with all your tips on how to stretch soups etc. 👍💕
I JUST FOUND YOU ON MY SMART T V.I am 79 years old now and you really make a difference in our thoughts of getting older.I don't feel my age either.Keep up the good work.
Welcome, my friend, and thanks for being here with us..❤️
You fascinate me with your beautiful life, family and stories, please keep them coming, I so enjoy them. God continue to bless you and Moosie, and your precious family. 🌺🌻🌷❤🙏
Hello Nanny, you're a joy to watch and listen to! You really cheer me up, I'm on my own now my wonderful husband and soulmate has recently passed, so I'm so pleased I found you, thank you!
I’m so sorry for your loss, Ishbel…sending hugs.❤️
Hi Nanny! I am 77 and love to hear about all your escapades and life goings on. We live in a 2200 square foot house with a garden, dog and a yard. I like our life but it is getting harder to keep up with life demands. Your situation is real, and it does take decision making and real thought. Keep doing what you are doing. You are an inspiration!
We all just adore you both
I'm a hoarder just because so many things are absolutely eye candy to me too! I love my stuff but I purge and then I start re-collecting 😂❤🎉
"Is there any hope for me.." I know you well enough to know you will get the job done! I know it is heart wrenching, but if you feel it is your choice, you will no doubt do it❤❤
Reg. Cleaning and your collection of smaller items, I was thinking you could look for some tall beautifull cubbards with glass doors. Put the smaller objects in them. Then the house help won't knock them over..
And they won't block the cleaning of tables etch.
I am 76! Live alone in house in Michigan, with a big yard and garden! I watch you at lunch or dinner. You help me to try to balance my life. I sure hope I do as well as you are doing. keep it up!
I will be 77 in June and I love watching your videos. In the last five months, I moved from a spacious house to a small condominium, so purging was a must. the thought of going through my house was inundating so I started slowly going through one drawer or one shelf a day, and before you know it, I went through the entire house. I don’t even remember some of the things that I discarded so I guess it goes to show that I didn’t need to hang onto all of that “stuff” anymore. Keep up the good work and take it one day or one drawer or shelf at a time. Stay well and God bless.
I’m also going to be 77 in June!! Your suggestion of one drawer,etc a day sounds like the miracle solution! I’m going to
Do it.
God bless you, too,Barbara…slow and steady wins the race! ❤️
All of our tchotchkes (I had to look up the spelling) are our memory aids. We walk around the house looking at them and they reinforce our memory of different people and places. I consider them medicine for a happy life.
Dear Nanny so wonderful to see you so well. You do inspire all of us no matter our age, am still in my 70s. A gentleman who's 100 at nursing home i visit though in a wheelchair his mind is as sharp as a tack. Anyway he says I'm in the prime of my life. That's a seceret; no matter what age the outlook & attitude needs to be we're in the prime of our lives.
I too am trying to live a simpler life. I too am a maximalist but don't have your creativity. Maybe shopping what we have rather than a thrift store will keep us from adding more. If I bring in a new item I have to get rid of 3 (donate). I think I need more than I do or save things for someone but really it's our perception. You fortunately have wonderful family around which some of us don't ( like me). But from what I hear from those who also do...leaving a whole lot for them to deal with is a bit of a burden. That they want to lovingly support you ( parents & grandparents) they don't want to say please stop adding to your things & purge. Maybe start to separate what you'd like to gift in a sense have an estate revelation week where they come in and take the items they'd love to have when we go on next journey. This was from a ladies group where they are willing to leave all as is rather than upsetting or disappointing parents. In reality a few of them are concerned about the work it will take to clean out their mom's or parent's home when they pass. Just sharing the input. So am going through the bit I have separating it and out of love preparing for my next journey whether this year or years ahead. Anyway. My vote is getting help especially in physical part for purging even with your overlooking is worth the cost. Being a stranger ( well checked out & recommended) may be a benefit of not having prejudice as far as not wanting to rock the boat etc. Blessings to you. God bless you & yours 💕🙏.
God bless you, too, my friend…thanks for sharing…❤️
So glad you are better. I had a similar experience with fatigue and heaviness in my chest. I'm 83 almost 84. Took my husband's advice and went to the doctor. Had all manner of tests and am OK, but was advised to go to the ER if I should feel that way again. I published my first novel at 78. At 81 enrolled in my community college for a screenwriting class to adapt my novel. I was in classes with 20, 30, 40, and a few 50 year olds. I could have been their mother or grandmother. The professor asked me to be her teaching assistant next year. I said yes - however, in my everyday life, I live simply with plenty of rest, thinking, reading mysteries. My closet is full of beautiful cocktail dresses from days gone by. I'm a fashionista like you . Purging, decluttering is always on my mind, but I get tired, sad, and unmotivated quickly as the things of my younger life need to move on, and I can't seem to let them go. I still love my creative mind and my teaching (35 years in public schools), so that is my one energy outlet. I've accepted my world is smaller. I spend my energy on what I love and then rest, rest, rest. Love you Nanny. You're a balm for my soul in this crazy world of aging.
Thanks for sharing, my friend❤️
Nanny you’re a beautiful woman both inside and outside. Call Senior Options and apply for someone to clean for you. I have a woman that comes every Friday for 3 hours and cleans my house. Since I’m a widow I don’t have to pay a penny. I also have a bad back and use a walker .
Im a loaner by nature but I love watching your videos. They are the highlight of my week. Please tell Moose hello. Please keep the videos coming . Your rabbit hole stories are awesome. Have a blessed Sunday!
Linda Smith
Thank you, Linda❤️
Nanny, I understand the perfectionism. I have a feeling you went to Catholic school too. 😊 However, I love that you're getting housekeeping help. Me too. I realized no matter what I did, I wasn't perfect either. I just wore myself out being mother and father (sick husband, died young). I also taught, crafted, painted, worked. And, I was a clean freak. I wore myself out. Nowadays, I do only the things I love or can. I had to get sick to learn to rest. Don't do that. Eat your breakfast. Learn to say no. And, you're lucky to have Moose. Love heals. You're his caretaker and he is also yours. God blessed you both. 💕
God bless you, too, Angela…thanks for being 8here.❤️
Hi Nanny one thing I’ve noticed at 75 is I used to think “oh when I get older I may not be able to do certain things.” Now that I am older I realize a lot of those things I really don’t want to do any longer lol…I don’t want to wash walls and paint every room in my house lol. A few of my friends have hired people to come in and clean, especially spring and fall cleaning, I’m toying with that idea. We live in Rhode Island and we have to change our wardrobe seasonally, as you do this is one thing that drives me crazy, lugging clothes up and down the stairs. I need to purge more. 🫤🫤🫤….We all love you Nanny you’re so wise and beautiful in and out. Take care, do things you love doing. ❤️
Does dust and dirt really matter ??? The happiest people I know don't care about housework....my mom used to say the dust will be there long after I'm gone....
It's difficult getting a cleaner in...I had one years ago...she spent most her time talking to me...I hadn't the heart to tell her to do her job....it was better for me in the end to either do the best I could in the house or ask my children occasionally to blitz the place.
Your happiness and peace of mind matters most...who on earth cares about 2 inches of dust...?
Hopefully you'll figure it out ❤
Aw Nanny. I just love you, yours and your channel. I am 66 and you inspire me. ❤🇨🇦
I am a maximilist as well. Like you, I thrift, collect, create and facing the need to purge. We are caring for our disabled adult daughter who needs accessablility. It is a process. I am taking little steps and allowing myself to grieve and cherish all the emotions invested into those things that jog my memory. Blessings.
Blessings to you, too, Becky🙏❤️
So wonderful to have your grandchildren help around the house. It will be such a stress reliever. Blessings 💓
I’m a lot like you with the getting rid of my things. It’s just so overwhelming. I know I need to. I think you’re wonderful with all you do. Thanks Nanny.❤
You hit the nail on the head my dear! We are enough & always have been. We just woke up ❤❤
Inspirational, you are to me. I'm 71 and have been disabled all of my life so living a simplified life has been essential to my well being. I can understand the struggle you are encountering in your senior years though, having to let go of the norms and expectations you have been able to do so well at is kind of like saying good-bye to the status quo.
Anyway, you'll succeed, that's a given, try not to stress but rather embrace the new challenge. Seasons change and we adapt, as always. God bless you and Moosie.
Thank you for your encouragement, Hannah, and God bless you, too.❤️🙏
Oh Nannie, 53 thousand. Congratulations 🎊🎉
It was a nice surprise to find this video tonight. I loved hearing what Martha had to say. It's nice to think that maybe I can relax now and know that I, too, have been good enough. As for your cleaning it's nice you'll be getting help, but don't worry; you can always pile the dishes into a wheelbarrow and push it out to the patio again! 😘
Oh….you remembered that, Denise…How shameful I was,right? Hugs.❤️
@@crushingtheir80snannyandmoose Not shameful at all! More like genius! 😂
Silly you, there is abundant hope for you!!! Love to watch your videos and listen to your thoughts. Always a pleasure, pretty lady!! 😍
I''m 82, live alone in a 1500 square foot condo, (I don't need that much space but can't face moving) and I have a sweet young woman who cleans for me every 2 weeks I found her through a cleaning service, she eventually branched out on her own. I have health issues, am on supplemental oxygen, so have little energy. I have found that there are many "normal" things that just wear me out now. The body can't keep up with the brain and heart sometimes.
Thank you for sharing, Ruth…enjoy the ‘rest time’ and be good to yourself…❤️
sounds like simi home made that is a good idea
Hi Nanny and Moose “Letting Go “ is our biggest problem as we age In the twenty years since I’ve lost my hubs who did all the donkey work as they say I’m suffering with health problems which makes me angry some days as I’ve worn out my body as I still think I can do it all and at 87 I can’t My garden I loved I can’t manage but try to do some but have to sit as my probs are what you to be inside is now outside and that’s after operations I’m sure a lot of us out there will do that job once the pain subsidies and then we are down for a few days Is it good to have all that RESILIENCE not for the poor body My family don’t see half the things I do 😳God Bless ❤️❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻
I am 67 and am similar as you are with purging or the lack thereof. I am very sentimental and have kept things ever since HS. I too am a Maximeista and enjoy thrift shopping too. I try to set a timer for 10 minutes to start organizing my cards and letters kept for decades into decorative keepsake boxes with labels - i.e. Family, Friends, etc. I have oodles of photography too and need to organize them and perhaps make those photo books up. When you did yours, did you still keep the original photos? Also, what company did you use? I think it's great you are getting help. Eventually, I will be doing this too. So hard to keep up. I too have a cat that I love but his fur gets everywhere, etc. So much cleaning. Love you lots, your Scorpio friend, Cindy ❤
I ❤️ your videos. They are always so interesting. Thank you so much. 😊
Dear Mary Ellen, This was ONE of the most helpful videos with you, ever! You so well explained yourself (and me!). Your heartfelt honesty was so obvious. I am so happy to be on this journey with you, and Moose, and the whole family! God bless you all! Patricia
I understand your problem with maintenance so well! And of courss, professional cleaning teams can be very expensive when they charge by the hour and by the number of workers. But I'm absolutely against using children for the job, even if it seems to be voluntary. You will get used to the monthly deep clean by a professional service.
Dear Nanny,
Even though I’m the same age as some of your daughter’s, you have been a real Friend and Encourager to me these past years.
Listening to your Life Stories of Moose and Yourself has been an Honour and a Privilege.
I too have traveled around the world and have lived in Dublin as well as Glasgow.
I have been Blessed to
visit most of Europe, Israel and Australia.
Like yourselves, I have been to Bruges and Amsterdam.
Your Travelling Tales would be Wonderful to hear.
Especially, on a Barge in Amsterdam.
I just Love your Cooking Tips and Makeup and Hair Segments too.
I still do my Housework.
But some days can be a struggle.
I’m 65 years young and you have been an Inspiration to me.
Your Honesty and Kindness comes across so well during your Video’s Nanny.
Please keep up the Great Work.
God Bless you Both.
Lot’s of Love, Cathy 🏴 xxxx
Thanks ,Catherine for always being here with us.❤️
Nanny, something that has helped me to give things away is that we have a huge resale store in town that donates almost all the proceeds they make to humanitarian causes around the world. Last year they were able to donate a million dollars because of people’s generosity of clothing and household donations. It’s easier to let things go knowing the money they make off of it goes to help people in need. I don’t know if that helps. 😊
Yes, Verna, that does help…thank you.❤️
I understand all too well. You are so lucky to have such great grandchildren show up for you. You and Mossie have done such a good job bringing up your children. I remember when my wise teenage child was laying on the couch one afternoon while I was vacuuming, one among the many choirs I laid out for myself for the day. In my frustration I asked him if he was going to lay around all day, he answered, "if you want help, why don't you just ask for it." I'll never forget that. I tried to be perfect at everything and that didn't include asking for anyone's help. Finally, being retired and living away from family, I am living a simple life with my husband, who helps me so much. We clean our rented condo together when we are both in the mood. Thank you for all the great tips. I think prayer will help a lot. We love you too.
Thanks for sharing,Patsy…❤️
Nanny. GET a regular person you can trust, outside the family. I have a girl that I ph & when she’s free she will come & do wonderful job. I do pay her well We deserve to spend money on ourselves too
We tip away in between. But love when this lady does a”job “ on our home 🌹🌹🇮🇪
I love all the things you are i would just do what u can and not worry about being simple jyou are what ypu are u are doing great !
Yes I was surprised and happy to see you.
If you wanted to declutter-downsize what ever you want to call it. Think of the items you get rid of or donate as Blessing others with your abundance. Bless someone that can use the items that you are not using on a regular basis.
I’m glad you are getting some help… there is no reason to feel bad about that. I think you’ve earned that. You are an inspiration to me… I’m 72 and don’t do anywhere near as much as you do. I love your wedding/engagement ring. I know there must be a story there… it’s so unusual ❤️
Nanny! I needed to hear Martha’s message! This is my new mantra, too! I’m on this journey with you! I will look for these soups and add ins. Love, love your content! - Belinda
I definitely hear you Nanny…I am 76 and this is the first year that I can say my energy level is zapped. Have to pick and choose my chores for the day. ❤
I’m right there with you, Liz…❤️
You have to hire someone you trust Nanny . I have a lady for the last 30 years who came 3 times a week when my son lived home . Currently she comes twice a week . I can’t clean bathrooms & floors in my seventy. Love you Nanny I am glad you are getting help from your grandkids.