Aqua lady.. sooooo true.. i would like to also add, if you do communicate/conversate/compromise with us.. make sure to actually do what we agree on. Dont just say some thing to agree or claim like you understand.. i have to actually see and feel like you truly understand and get what im seeing, because whatever we came to a compromise on, im going to follow that.. if you dont, im going to feel your just talking cause you got lips and then not trust you and eventually loose the respect that i once i had.. i can go on and on.. #teamaquarius #onpoint
I love aquarius. But sometimes the stonewalling does hurt my feelings. Only because I don't tend to "overreact" to things and sincerely want to reach resolution. But I understand that everyone deals with things on their own time :)
I won't go into debate or go full argue mode because I know I can say some cut throat stuff REAL QUICK and If I go there with you I will not apologize because I will feel like you deserve it. I'll know how to and when to hurt you but will just chill completely out and not even let you take me there, so respect my silence. It's for you not me.
I'm a Libra and you're correct great connection with my Aquarius Man, talks through issues like you do and he's my peace he can calm me down in seconds But we have that connection of spirituality the mental and the physical the only thing thats hard and I'm learning to deal with is the zoning out but I understand that more it's either drowns out the negativity or his mind is in that creative state of being and yes you must give Aquarians alot of space otherwise you might think they're about to go ghost on you! Ha! Hope that never happens.. I love the way you explain things and calm and peace ora you have about you it's very pleasurable and he has that same type of Ora. Thank you for you blog I'm learning even more about the Aquarian every day
The opposite is true in my relationship. I'm an Aquarius & my boyfriend's a Libra. We've been together for a lil over 5 yrs now & I'm the one who loves to talk things out & hear each other out & he won't have it. Or if we argue I'm quick to forgive & makeup while he pushes me away & stews @ least a day before wanting to make up. I recently got my chart done as well & come to find out I have Aries in my moon sign so that explains my getting heated & my liking to fight/disagree. So there's a lot of factors @ play. He also wasn't raised to discuss issues & to voice his concerns while I on the other hand grew up in a family where there's was basically nothing we couldn't talk about.
That's a very difficult situation, but the bottom line sounds similiar. The two of you have to learn and/or exercise better communication skills if you really want to stay together. Any relationship can work theoretically. As long as there isn't abuse of any kind, I always try to work on it as hard as I can.
The worst arguments I have had were with Libras( shocking,right?), Scorpios and Sagittarius. Aquarius doesn't deal with BS emotional diarrhea or victim playing, blame games and gaslighting. We smell manipulation tactics from afar. That's when we shut down and give silent treatment. After that we either kick you to the curb, block you or ghost you. I don't need no drama in my life. I HATE drama.
Also, I love the Love the Languages, they helped me a lot, especially when I owned a restaurant and I had staff to lead and deal with. Helped me get less irritated and be more loving and understanding
I'm Aquarius, was married to a Libra man for 18 yrs, we had a great friendship, still do actually. We didn't argue too much but, after so many years of being together, the passion was gone. We are divorced, but we still talk every once in awhile and I consider him to be one of my best friends. Dated a Sagittarius off and on for ten years, now THAT one was complete turmoil all the time... had to leave.
As a leo im gradually learning to relax since meeting my Aquarius. Even if i argue i always know i seem more angry them him but he just hides it a bit more. They have such a clean mind for the first part. Of course i met him after i lost my mind lol but he hasnt given up on me and i think realizes the strong help and influence hes had on my life.
Hello, You're such a Beautiful spirit... I'm a Cancer dating an Aquarius, crazy about him! He has told me that he loves me ... but,Do I believe him?! Can u please make a video based on Aquarius In love & what are the signs! Thanks ❤
I don't argue it disrupts my peace and once I have spoke my feelings and then it's still the same problem then it's a choice and I just wont keep entertaining it I'm just really done . I hate liars and cheats and my boyfriend is Aquarius too and if anyone should know it should be him I will cut u off but second time it's wrap
I agree arguing you just look for a response you dont listen. I think the best thing would be to say not yell, say your side and feelings and she say hers. Bullet points idek but all that u feel, and she say all that she feel. Then say whats a resolution for this. Let her spk and in a way in the converdation sidr let her be top bc its harder to get it out alot of the times.
Here's another thought, I experienced a lot of verbal abuse most of my life, and understanding how those words hurt I am very careful about what I say while in conflict. I refuse to say something out of my fired up Aquarius emotions and I wait till I'm calm and can be in my calm Aquarius logical mind. Now how long that takes depends on what and how that conflict is. I may take 2 weeks to settle myself before I say something because I don't want to injure someone with words like I've been injured.
Hi i am a Leo female n smitten for an Aquariun male...hv bn watching all ur videos to understand how u all think etc...excellent advice...could u plz mk a video on leo n Aquarius love compatibility..thanks in advance..peace n blessings
You spot on about me....i know a Libra female who keeps trying to argue but I just don't give her a minute of my time because I don't care what she has to say....it just not worth my time... Necey Collins Aquarius Jan 23
I do that sometime with my husband! Sometimes I can dish it but can't take it. A major flaw of mine but I'm becoming more conscious of it and I catch it before it gets too deep!
@@QueenAusetHeruhas this divorce video been posted yet? I’m not rushing you but rather want to ensure I’m not overlooking it. I’m interested in your thoughts on this one for sure! Thank you for all you’ve shared over the years!
M exactly like that#aqua# if u argue with me and dnt wanna listen. I shut down. N u wanna talk to me? come n talk n undrstand. Then i vl b like frends again
Well, when i asked him to talk things out because i was bothered that he didn't say much. he acutally admitted something "we never said we were exclusive" "we are just just talking" he also asked me "what is wrong with you?" I then responded "its alright no animosity. We're clear now" (We had sex and everything, he even asked me to go stay with him at some point so i thought there was something) It hurt like someone dabbed a hot pike into my chest so i left it at that. He hast yet to reply 😒
Hello I am new here and I absolutely love my Aquarius I had a miscarriage and he cheated with two women over the phone just talkin I still said is cheating I really don't understand why you're Aquarius sometimes he ghost me sometimes he calls me and now he has more communication with me but I always feel like I'm not good enough for him said he loves me sometimes when he gets around his boys he does not talk to me and I do not understand why I know we're not compatible but I'm going to change my ways and he's willing to change his i just need to know what i need to do
Funny that you mentioned it? Had to back out of a contract because the worker did not like my place were my special need is living. Who cares!her job is to find medeator so l can have a break ones in a while. It's no sence in arguing with her I'm done.im detaching.
trustedpsychicmediums.com/aquarius-star-sign/aquarius-how-to-deal-when-someones-just-not-that-into-you/ I ran into this article about Aquarius women and it honestly had me thinking about if this is really how I view relationships. I’ve have constantly been the person someone almost dated and maybe this may be why. Im kinda curious to what your thoughts would be on this article?
Let's just say it's a over exaggerated beat down on how Aquarius women are doormats, which is funny because I don't think that is a star sign only thing and or exclusive to " Aquarius women", this article is offers no help
Sista. I have never heard a person who was 100% accurate about the water bearers....you are amazing. I love you! I finally feel understood.
Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I always say that nobody understands us, but us!
@@QueenAusetHeru I understand Aquarians. I am a Leo Sun and Gemini Rising.
I understand Aquarians.
Oh and I rather be alone,than with bad company.
I mean you’ll never get me to do things your way lol
One thing about me,I am not a people pleaser!!
Aqua lady.. sooooo true.. i would like to also add, if you do communicate/conversate/compromise with us.. make sure to actually do what we agree on. Dont just say some thing to agree or claim like you understand.. i have to actually see and feel like you truly understand and get what im seeing, because whatever we came to a compromise on, im going to follow that.. if you dont, im going to feel your just talking cause you got lips and then not trust you and eventually loose the respect that i once i had.. i can go on and on.. #teamaquarius #onpoint
Sometimes when we know what others don't they mistakenly think we just want to be a know it all because we know it!
I love aquarius. But sometimes the stonewalling does hurt my feelings. Only because I don't tend to "overreact" to things and sincerely want to reach resolution. But I understand that everyone deals with things on their own time :)
Shutting off can be annoying and counterproductive. But, it does give you time to cool off.
I won't go into debate or go full argue mode because I know I can say some cut throat stuff REAL QUICK and If I go there with you I will not apologize because I will feel like you deserve it. I'll know how to and when to hurt you but will just chill completely out and not even let you take me there, so respect my silence. It's for you not me.
Aquarius understands the concept of universal love, we are advanced lovers
Heyoka Stingray yes but sadly people don’t understand this because they don’t have this higher consciousness
Heyoka Stingray ‘advanced lovers’....I like that.
Wow you’re really out here on point in explaining my ways, wowwww
I'm a Libra and you're correct great connection with my Aquarius Man, talks through issues like you do and he's my peace he can calm me down in seconds But we have that connection of spirituality the mental and the physical the only thing thats hard and I'm learning to deal with is the zoning out but I understand that more it's either drowns out the negativity or his mind is in that creative state of being and yes you must give Aquarians alot of space otherwise you might think they're about to go ghost on you! Ha! Hope that never happens.. I love the way you explain things and calm and peace ora you have about you it's very pleasurable and he has that same type of Ora. Thank you for you blog I'm learning even more about the Aquarian every day
ty for watching, commenting, and being here! Your words and energy mean the world to me!
holy shit. now i really do be understanding how i really am after a debate/conversation.
The opposite is true in my relationship. I'm an Aquarius & my boyfriend's a Libra. We've been together for a lil over 5 yrs now & I'm the one who loves to talk things out & hear each other out & he won't have it. Or if we argue I'm quick to forgive & makeup while he pushes me away & stews @ least a day before wanting to make up. I recently got my chart done as well & come to find out I have Aries in my moon sign so that explains my getting heated & my liking to fight/disagree. So there's a lot of factors @ play. He also wasn't raised to discuss issues & to voice his concerns while I on the other hand grew up in a family where there's was basically nothing we couldn't talk about.
That's a very difficult situation, but the bottom line sounds similiar. The two of you have to learn and/or exercise better communication skills if you really want to stay together. Any relationship can work theoretically. As long as there isn't abuse of any kind, I always try to work on it as hard as I can.
I'm in love with you Queen lol . All your videos are so on point. 😃 I finally feel like someone else gets it .
ty K love!!! I feel te same way about yall!
The worst arguments I have had were with Libras( shocking,right?), Scorpios and Sagittarius. Aquarius doesn't deal with BS emotional diarrhea or victim playing, blame games and gaslighting. We smell manipulation tactics from afar. That's when we shut down and give silent treatment. After that we either kick you to the curb, block you or ghost you. I don't need no drama in my life. I HATE drama.
Oh my goodness...you and I think so much alike, so weird...but I am an Aquarius. This video was very very true to heart.
Also, I love the Love the Languages, they helped me a lot, especially when I owned a restaurant and I had staff to lead and deal with. Helped me get less irritated and be more loving and understanding
Bobbi, I cant find your number. Can you please email me your number? askanaquarius007@gmail.com
@@QueenAusetHeru Sure thing☺
🤣🤣🤣🤣I never do what anyone says and we are so intellectual etc and I don't argue with anyone. I'm 💯♒
You have us figured out to the tee man seriously 😅
I'm Aquarius, was married to a Libra man for 18 yrs, we had a great friendship, still do actually. We didn't argue too much but, after so many years of being together, the passion was gone. We are divorced, but we still talk every once in awhile and I consider him to be one of my best friends. Dated a Sagittarius off and on for ten years, now THAT one was complete turmoil all the time... had to leave.
As a leo im gradually learning to relax since meeting my Aquarius. Even if i argue i always know i seem more angry them him but he just hides it a bit more. They have such a clean mind for the first part. Of course i met him after i lost my mind lol but he hasnt given up on me and i think realizes the strong help and influence hes had on my life.
We march to our own drum. Period
FACT.Amazing , I Am Panamanian so happy you went there having fun♥☆★★☆.
Mind blown! Thank you.
Hello, You're such a Beautiful spirit... I'm a Cancer dating an Aquarius, crazy about him! He has told me that he loves me ... but,Do I believe him?! Can u please make a video based on Aquarius In love & what are the signs! Thanks ❤
I don't argue it disrupts my peace and once I have spoke my feelings and then it's still the same problem then it's a choice and I just wont keep entertaining it I'm just really done . I hate liars and cheats and my boyfriend is Aquarius too and if anyone should know it should be him I will cut u off but second time it's wrap
Lol. That mmm OK, That is me all day everyday! That means that I am not going to waste my time or energy on whatever it is going on
I agree arguing you just look for a response you dont listen. I think the best thing would be to say not yell, say your side and feelings and she say hers. Bullet points idek but all that u feel, and she say all that she feel. Then say whats a resolution for this. Let her spk and in a way in the converdation sidr let her be top bc its harder to get it out alot of the times.
Here's another thought, I experienced a lot of verbal abuse most of my life, and understanding how those words hurt I am very careful about what I say while in conflict. I refuse to say something out of my fired up Aquarius emotions and I wait till I'm calm and can be in my calm Aquarius logical mind. Now how long that takes depends on what and how that conflict is. I may take 2 weeks to settle myself before I say something because I don't want to injure someone with words like I've been injured.
Yes! True!
Seriously. I will try to come at someone peacefully but they just want to keep arguing. I just shut it down. I will block someone in a minute.
So....spot on.
So true
Ugh I have lots of experience with this.
What about if my moon is Aquarius? I feel the same way.
People wit a moon in Aquarius will have very similiar feelings and expressions.
Yup I'm Aquarius with a moon in Taurus....
@@trumellbradford9220 me2
Spot on!
Hi i am a Leo female n smitten for an Aquariun male...hv bn watching all ur videos to understand how u all think etc...excellent advice...could u plz mk a video on leo n Aquarius love compatibility..thanks in advance..peace n blessings
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 im an Aquarius and most of my exes have been leos we are attracted to Leo's. But we fight to much
You spot on about me....i know a Libra female who keeps trying to argue but I just don't give her a minute of my time because I don't care what she has to say....it just not worth my time...
Necey Collins
Aquarius Jan 23
For real! Truth!
You are so correct.
Yup I'm Aquarius with a moon in Taurus....#RollerCoaster
clairvoyant
My Aquarius partner starts arguments and then shuts down once i get angered and basically ignores what makes me uncomfortable so explain
that's a major communication issue...see a couples therapist....
I do that sometime with my husband! Sometimes I can dish it but can't take it. A major flaw of mine but I'm becoming more conscious of it and I catch it before it gets too deep!
I love this Never 🥴🥴😂❤️ we don’t care yep so true .
PREACH!
I do the same thing .Oh boy and my boyfriend fiancee was a libra
that is very true
Indeed. 💓❤
Thank you
Girl u know us‼️
Hi Queen can you please make a video on what makes an Aquarius want a divorce if you haven't yet thanks love 🤎....
Awesome idea! Ok!
@@QueenAusetHeruhas this divorce video been posted yet? I’m not rushing you but rather want to ensure I’m not overlooking it. I’m interested in your thoughts on this one for sure! Thank you for all you’ve shared over the years!
You r the best
Thank u so much!! :)
M exactly like that#aqua# if u argue with me and dnt wanna listen. I shut down. N u wanna talk to me? come n talk n undrstand. Then i vl b like frends again
What?!! Aquarians are debaters! Fighters!
Only when we are young. We become more diplomatic as time goes on.
QueenAusetHeru I can see that... I must be behind hehe
I started in my 30s. Maturity set in slowly and I realized that most of my fights were irrelevant.
QueenAusetHeru absolutely!!! I often find myself looking @ younger Aquarius ♒️ thinking....I was like that 10 years ago.
Why would anybody want to be constantly arguing?
Ppl do it often. Frustration with their lives I suppose.
I love u I love u I don’t know u but u you really do know what you’re talking about
ty love!!!
Yazzzzzz!
I’m in a relationship with an actuarial. I am a gemini
Acquarian
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Omg that is so me and I am Leo haha
What part of Panama ?
I was in an area called "the crab".
QueenAusetHeru Not familiar,it's been so long!!
When i try to negotiate with my aquarius he basically shuts off its frustrating. Im a libra
Im sure it is......have u told him so? he needs to work on it
Well, when i asked him to talk things out because i was bothered that he didn't say much. he acutally admitted something "we never said we were exclusive" "we are just just talking" he also asked me "what is wrong with you?"
I then responded "its alright no animosity. We're clear now"
(We had sex and everything, he even asked me to go stay with him at some point so i thought there was something)
It hurt like someone dabbed a hot pike into my chest so i left it at that. He hast yet to reply 😒
Acguarius / gemini
I DONT CARE. PREACH!
Girl can we hang out lol I’m serious
On God 🙏
Hello I am new here and I absolutely love my Aquarius I had a miscarriage and he cheated with two women over the phone just talkin I still said is cheating I really don't understand why you're Aquarius sometimes he ghost me sometimes he calls me and now he has more communication with me but I always feel like I'm not good enough for him said he loves me sometimes when he gets around his boys he does not talk to me and I do not understand why I know we're not compatible but I'm going to change my ways and he's willing to change his i just need to know what i need to do
Email me for a reading. Askanaquarius007@gmail.com
We gotta be twins. Is your B day Feb 7th?
feb 13
Aaaay birthday twins
Funny that you mentioned it? Had to back out of a contract because the worker did not like my place were my special need is living. Who cares!her job is to find medeator so l can have a break ones in a while. It's no sence in arguing with her I'm done.im detaching.
trustedpsychicmediums.com/aquarius-star-sign/aquarius-how-to-deal-when-someones-just-not-that-into-you/
I ran into this article about Aquarius women and it honestly had me thinking about if this is really how I view relationships. I’ve have constantly been the person someone almost dated and maybe this may be why. Im kinda curious to what your thoughts would be on this article?
Summarize it for me.
Let's just say it's a over exaggerated beat down on how Aquarius women are doormats, which is funny because I don't think that is a star sign only thing and or exclusive to " Aquarius women", this article is offers no help
Oh crap,i hope my comments didn't go to the wrong post. I don't see it.
I just approved the comments.
Every time you say you are in South América I wonder if you speak Spanish at all. It would be interesting to hear you
muy poco 🤷🏽♀️