People can only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves
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This title is so real. The good or bad you can see in a person is a reflection of yourself. We're all so different, yet so similar...
Yes, as a man, this is what I experienced in my personal life. People love you based on their level of awareness, and not in the same way you imagine in your personal world.
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The beauty you desire from the world is your own world. This sometimes makes you feel lonely, but you will accept that with time, this is the nature of difference.
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Haha, I have always imagined that those around me look like me on the inside, and I discovered that people are more diverse than I can comprehend. This is what sometimes pushes me to understand the worlds around me with a passion independent of myself.
this almost made me cry. i've pondered along this vein for so long but could never find someone who has understood this level of depth in myself (and often being able to see it in others) that is often difficult to match. i've been ok with it, this almost feeling of disconnected sentience with others, because as long as i understand it, there is a level of inner power from the self-assurance. but to have someone understand and view it the same is incredibly comforting. in the depths of my soul, i know i'm a romantic who loves divine partnership and union, especially with someone/people who can "meet me there", but i know it needs to be rare to be special and be a heartfelt connection.
liza, you are beautiful. thank you.
We see each other Bianca 🫶🏻🫶🏻 That's beautiful
♥️♥️♥️ and I see you both🌠 (understand)
Wow!! If that’s not 100% true, I don’t know what is. If we all were taught more self-awareness and emotional regulation, we’d all understand each other on a very deep level. I’m fascinated by both self-awareness and emotional regulation. I’m determined to get proficient in both!! I’ve been told I’m self-aware but I want to understand myself deeper. The same can be said for my emotional regulation. Human behavior-my own included-has always endlessly fascinated me.
Same! I've always been more self-aware than most. But was still very blind to some things untill a later age. I'm sure I'll have the same thoughts a few years later 😅.
I've always wondered if consciousness and self awareness is also on a spectrum just like intelligence. And even though I'm sure we can all learn to improve I wonder if our genetics influence the ceiling as in how far we can go.
What I've been working on a lot is my emotional regulation. But as I'm suffering from a lot of longterm trauma's, paired with ADHD and some other disorders its somewhat of a tall order.
I hope you'll be able to find what you seek and wish you a lot of luck in your journey!
P.s. I believe that selfawareness can also be a great pitfall sometimes. Its all about balance.
@@DeltaNovum Thank you!! I appreciate the compliment. It sounds like we’re on similar paths with regard to self-awareness and emotional regulation. We’ll get there! (Talking about emotional regulation). Yes, I agree. Self-awareness can have it’s pitfalls but balance is the key, like you mentioned. Please keep up the great work on this journey of life! You got this!
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You speak the truth like you’ve lived 1000 years. You are so wise 🙏
So sweet thank you
"people can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves" it hits hard. Fuck it's so brilliant... Why I haven't heard it before?...
This is part of the healing journey understandings our true nature coming to terms with it and finally returning to ourselves.
Man, I didn’t think I would be hearing so much wisdom today. It almost hurts to hear, yet feels so good knowing that there’s even just one person that shares the desire for true authenticity and is willing to share their wisdom on it so openly. I really hope that more of us will eventually get to the point where we can be as open and loving as possible with the world around us and stray away from actions that would be complacent.
we are just two years apart, but everything you’re saying is what I’ve learned this and last year. I don’t know how you got to that point of awareness at such a young age, but you should be proud of yourself, and I really hope you become an even bigger person with the same heart
Thank you love
You’re naming things people usually keep to themselves and I’m so excited for whoever learns something from you ❤️
I'm trying not to go into details when describing my personal experiences but sharing definitely helps others and me 🫶🏻
You are here to change the world.
Your a beautiful soul. Blessings 🙌
Thank you so much this is so kind wow 😭
We all can be🌠
I also feel like this about her
You had me at “Reflect” 😌😊
Luv the Vibe/Message in this video, truly an old SOUL💯🙌🏼
“God BLESS your soul sister”😇
please please please please please, Jesus.
I cry out to you with all my soul...
bring into my life my twin-flame,
and a tribe of real friends.
I cannot bear to continue to be alone...
Ok, I’m a man in my mid thirties, and, honestly, I am shocked (in a good way) with the fact that I’m enjoying your videos and finding them so relatable. I’m on the self reinvention journey myself right now, and I acknowledge the fact that I’ve wasted quite some years, and am lagging behind in a few aspects of life. At the same time, I know everybody’s story is different and unique, and there really is no point in comparison to others. But man, what did your parents feed you with? Lol sorry, I’m just amazed at how brilliant, wise and warm-hearted you are at only 18. To me, it’s a crazy sight to witness. You have a bright future, for sure.
Also, not that I’m a big horoscope person, but pieces see pieces ✌️
Not a huge horoscope person as well but I know for a fact a pisces will always recognize a pisces!
OMG I AM ALSO PISCES WELCOME❤❤❤❤❤
You have a very wise old soul, and so self aware at such a young age! However, im guessing you look tounger than you actually are. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, to someone who is much older than you lol 🙏
One aspect of real self love and self-knowledge is that you become independant. Independant from being seen; you don't need reflection of who you are. That is freedom. 😊I love these times because young people like you are so wise. Thank you❤As to attraction... Perhaps it is worth manifesting your twin flame.
god will save us. you're so cute, i'm so so glad to see someone who express exactly what i've been thinking this year. sending u love ❤️
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe - 'No one has ever properly understood me, I have never fully understood anyone; and no one understands anyone else'
Legitimately life changing.. feels like a weight has been lifted off of me. You speak with so much honesty. Thank you ♥
Thank you 🥹
We are absolutely not equal, but we are equally worthy (of being) imho. Its our differences that make us better as a whole. Its just that a lot of us don't have the best way of interacting with differences. I hope we'll be able to evolve past this.
Gurl this video just popped up in my recommended. After 9 minutes immediately subscribed lol. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I'm so happy to hear that 🥹🥹❤️
Dude you are spot on!!!! I've made a lot of mistakes and damaged a lot of relationships by not navigating the things you talk about very well. I wish I had all of this wisdom earlier in life.
I'm flabbergasted and even revere, how you and some other youtubers are able to be so cognisant and full of wisdom at such a young age.
I hope you'll be able to be grateful for it and for who you are. Knowing even 0.01% about you I'm sure you are ^^.
Edit: Srsly your content is incredible. I'd like to advice you to go and watch some lessons or interviews by "Robert Sapolsky". I've been kinda thinking like him since I was 14 and often found a lot of misunderstanding around me when I tried to communicate about it. Finding him a few years back and watching his views on punishment and guilt etc was very cathartic. Some of the things you talk about in this video and some of the viewpoints you shared are very relevant to his views. I also happen to agree with everything you say.
Wow breathtaking, loved listening to this video, i appreciate the message and looking forward for more of this 💯✅
Thank you🫶🏻
This so beautifully worded and well said. Thank you so much for sharing, i understand it all and i love love love it
While watching this video, one thought has been born in my mind: beauty is limited for every single person. I don’t know can i be right or wrong, but this is what I’ve been thinking and writing about in my e-diary, discussing with myself
Your videos started randomly popping up in my recommendations and I'm here for it. 🙌🏽 Keep doing what your doing!
Thank you so much!
Found you on my "for you" youtube page. My Gooood i need to stay, you are speaking my language ;)
Hahah so sweet. I quite literally speak your language bc I'm from Poland❤️
You’re channel is very inspiring !
I’ve been wanting to make a channel like this for years but I’ve always had trouble releasing the content. I’m happy for you and I can’t wait to see you blowup 👑
You’ve restored my faith that I will meet a beautiful woman on the same frequency as me while being around my age (as you know that’s very hard haha) Sending love from the states ❤️
You remind me a lot of Shawna Della Rica !
That's so sweet🥹 Just checked out who she is SHES SO PRETTY
@@lizabashkova Ikr ❤️
Same I also think about making a channel, and I can tell you. You will find a person on your level. I finally did with 22 almost 23.
And now I am 23 :)
It just takes time but when you live your authentic self you meet the best people
I love your video's and your view on things so much!! I am glad I got one of your video's recommended
Thank you for watching ❤️❤️
I really loved how relatable this was and the timing it came!
Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I'm pretty out of balance rn and physically sick from it, and this was a lovely reminder that 'no, I do need to take care of myself and give compassion to myself, it' s okay that nobody here understands and they probably think I'm an idiot for being fragile'. Waiting for people to feel for me and give me permission to take and break and heal is a dead end; I need to listen to my body and stop the shit show. I feel like I've already understood these things back when I was 17 and before I started to try and fit in more with the "normal" people. I really neglected myself a bit lately... Thank you for doing your thing girl❤ And I thank TH-cam comment sections for giving space to rant this lol
Absolutely ‼️ sending lots of healing energy your way
i just found my new favorite youtuber. you are a blessing, liza. much love 💕
Much love !☺️
Beautifully said.
genius! - crystal clear and true!
As a 32 M guy, you have much more wisdom than your physical age lets on. I know people older than me who could not even yeild an ounce of this wisdom in the title of your video alone. Consider me subscribed from Down Under 🇦🇺
Haha thank you! Wow we reached the Aussies already so cool
Hearing this was medicine for me today! Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
such a beautiful video! I love the way you explained everything. thank you so much!!🥰❤️
Thank you sweetheart
i haven't even watched the video yet, but that statement, omg, sums it all up so accuretaly !!
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You just made my day!!!!
hiii i watch your old videos it help a lot thanks, make a video on self love or self taking care of yourself
Wrote it down thankss
i don't understand what you want to say pls explain it pls
I wrote down your idea thank you for suggesting it ❤️
@@lizabashkova ohh i understand 👍 , thanks for replying back to back love your videos 🌠
sorry for disturbing you but can we get touch on insta
Never give up!
Hey I can see you getting sooo successfull❤ continue✨️ love your channel I feel connected with youu
Thank you so much for the support 🥹
@@lizabashkova you're welcome✨️☀️
@@lizabashkova sometimes I just see people I connect to and I love supporting These people ✨️
Had to come back to this video. Tell me. Who is your greatest influence in your thinking? You have so much depth in your messages and I'm wondering who or rather what is your greatest source of influence? What's your story? I'm intrigued.
Overthinking a lot of thinking and pain full experiences. I relate with her
so young so wisdom
That's your own speculations and their own
Very wise!
thank you 🩷
“We reflect everything that is around us”
Great video. You're a deep thinker. Wonderful, very attractive trait for all Human Being.
She's regurgitating what she has read/heard from somewhere. It's not her own perspective, but a borrowed perspective. Hope that makes sense
Is anything that enters your mental space "your own" or maybe your mind is a collection of borrowed concepts that resonate in your heart?
@@lizabashkova I rest my case...
And yes, people do have the ability to conjure up original ideas that aren't cliche - just look at some Philosophers that have existed. Try separating yourself from concepts for those concepts are not you. So in essence you are living through a false identity and perceiving yourself in concept - for you are not truly existing your own self but as someone else's thought/concept.
That… is an excellent title
Bardzo lubię Cię słuchać. Jestem pod wrażeniem, że tak szybko to ogarnęłaś. Mi to zajęło znacznie dłużej ale może to jest właśnie ta różnica między mężczyznami a kobietami ;) keep calm and evolve bliźniaczko ✌️
Dzieki twin☺️
@l777za When we are looking for balance we look for moderation. Conversely when we are off balance it changes our perceptions. We don’t always choose our points of view. Sometimes we have to go to the uncomfortable in order to grow. We resist the uncomfortable and we also try to embrace change. Change in the only constant. We learned what worked when we were children. As we age and adult we have to love the inner child and the adult. From both directions. Love is light, love is water. The divine light is kindness. Be present. Create.
Unconditional is the compromise. Fear reigns over ego. Even in the subconscious and the hormonal. Breathe
thank you 🙏
I agree with what your saying but people who don’t care to change don’t deserve that level of empathy, love and authenticity. Those people will unconsciously continue their patterns and they will harm you, don’t be naiive to the fact that evil people do exist. Only give ur energy to people who are worth it, like the people who come to your videos to grow. Not everyone wants to change. Nonetheless I love the purity.
Luke 9: 23-25 GNV
23 ¶ And he said to them all If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross [l]daily, and follow me.
24 For whosoever will save his life, shall lose it: and whosoever shall lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it.
25 For what advantageth it a man, if he win the whole world, and destroy himself, or lose himself?
Matt 16: 23-26 GNV
23 [y]Then he turned back, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, [z]Satan: thou art an offence unto me, because thou [aa]understands, not the things that are of God, but the things that are of men.
24 [ab]Jesus then said to his disciples, If any man will follow me, let him forsake himself: and take up his cross, and follow me.
25 For whosoever will save his life, shall lose it: and whosoever shall lose his life for my sake, shall [ac]find it.
26 For what shall it profit a man though he should win the whole world, if he lose his own soul? or what shall a man give for recompense of his soul?
Mark 8: 34-37 GNV
34 ¶ [r]And he called the people unto him with his disciples, and said unto them, Whosoever will follow me, let him forsake himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.
35 For whosoever will save his life, shall lose it: but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the Gospel’s, he shall save it.
36 [s]For what shall it profit a man, though he should win the whole world, if he lose his soul?
37 Or what exchange shall a man give for his soul?
To find yourself it's going to make you more self-centered, and you will ignore the needs of others, because you will be focus on you only in your life.
Please 🙏
Go speak to highscoolers
You have so much to offer to the youth and everyone. Because a speaker. You will change lives, the world
Thank you Leisa
You remind me of Celine from Before Sunrise. I love it!
Agree in 100% 😊
So deep. :)
There's a story I'm currently busy writing and I'm so scared of publishing it because I know that not everyone will fully understand it because, like you said, people can only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves. However, seeing you in this one video has made me realize that you are one of the few people who will actually understand me the way I would like to be understood after reading that story, regardless of us not knowing each other. With that being said, when I finally publish the story I've mentioned, may I share it with you? If you're open to reading it, how do I share it with you?
Yes you can send it to me through instagram @l777za
@@lizabashkova I will do so. When I send it, I'll just send a screenshot of my comment and your reply here, followed by the link to the story so you can make a connection to it. Hope you see it when I finally share it with you in a few weeks time and your thoughts on everything I talk about throughout the story will be greatly appreciated. In fact, we can even have a meaningful conversation about what you would have read.
Thank you Angel ❤
This video is powerful, but there’s something i really disagree with. You’ve mentioned that. You can give someone pure love and they can vibrate on the same frequencies as you but in all reality they see is ”red” once they know they have an advantage on your soul. Humans are innately selfish, and envious of each other so all of the influences that encourages negative behavior to make them feel good when things get “Hard”will inspire an individual well. Nowadays,(speaking for men) even the smallest voice couldn’t even be heard if there’s no major influence via social media or fame. There could be someone right in front of you that can create the bridge from failure to success and you can most definitely overlook that individual. In today’s society, tribalism is so major and if it takes you more than a decade of adulthood to evolve due to you not trusting your own intuition , that’s kind of a dangerous mindset to have long term. The odds of you finding someone at a later age is a lot lower and the “dating game” will become more strict. We lack genuine men leaders because woman truly think there more powerful and strong men shouldn’t have influence. Simply, it’s not cool to be “married” or “monogamous” due to the influence people have on each other in today’s society. If we simply don’t start respecting leaders that influence truth in the right way no matter how much “status” you have, then all of this talk can truly become obsolete.
And before anyone attacks me for being “negative”, understand that actions are more powerful than words and look at the actions we take everyday to make someone else feel more insecure or not loving themselves on a genuine level. *cough* Social Media
Also I got you in my recommendations as well ❤
Hey Thankyou for the video your words were amazing i am 1st time here and you are looking like a Fairy. Hope you will see my comment😇😇😇😊😊
Thank you
bravo
Do you have any book recommendations that deal with this topic or topic that are related to this?:))
The mountain is you by Brianna Wiest
Tell me what do you wanna from me actually?
It seems you have somehow experienced practically that you are not this physical body..
Thank you for this profound level of insight. It was greatly refreshing. Subbed
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Making sensing 1:51 😂
Matt Kahn :)
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Love you Family 🫶🏻
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Are you a Christian if you mind me asking?!❤😊
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😮 my guru
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i'm just too deep, you wouldn't understand
Sum like that
@@lizabashkova yeah i get what you mean in the video it's just that i think you also have to be sort of careful with thinking of yourself as not being on the same level of depth as other people or whatever cause it can turn into egocentric self-obsession and make it harder to meet new people instead. like, someone might have a deep understanding without being able to communicate that effectively, so it's also sort of up to eachother to look at what is in the other person instead of what isn't in them, and give them the benefit of the doubt.
الله يهديك يارب
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You are amazing, just please look at us not in yourself when you talking cause is so distracting :) Thank you
Hablas tonteras..!!
Just started liking my own face then saw u and my day is ruined
thank you 🙏