If ur 1st husband really loves u, he wouldnt have let u go no matter what. Fact is his love was not strong enough to keep u. He moved on with other women...just goes to show u dont really mean anything to him. U need to let go & move on so u can really focus on ur life.
Nrog koj tu siab thiab hlub koj tus me txiv tsis muaj me nyuam kawg li thiab nawj . Vim nws twb Xaiv tsis tau los yug es neb sib hlub npaum twg los thiaj sib plam rau txoj kev tsis muaj tub ki os ❤❤
Those that can’t have kids, don’t be too sad. Ya ain’t missing out that much. Kids are expensive ass f*ck. Yo hair will turn white or you’ll go bald, once those kids become teens. 😩Just appreciate the hmoov you were given. 👌🏻
You should’ve kept the child support, your 2nd husband didn’t want the children anyway. Don’t go back to your two exes. There’s a reason why they’re your exes. Love yourself and your children and the person in front of you.
Kuv tsi muaj tub ki thiab os viv ncaus kuv yeej xav ntau zaus tia nrauj tiam si kuv tsi muaj niam muaj txiv e nrauj tag tsi muaj lub chaw nyob 😥😥 lam nyob xwb tsi muaj menyuam ce tsi muaj kev hlub lawm os viv ncaus
Cas pheej tos tus txiv lub chaw nyob na? Vim pheej xav tias nrauj tsis muaj lub chaw nyob es thiaj uv kev lwj siab nyob mas. Tsis muaj niag txiv los yus yeej mus nyob taus yus mas
You're absolutely about that. My husband and I been married for 20 years but no children. We are very happy with or without children. We both have good pay jobs and save money to take care of us in our old ages.
Koj lo lus tias “lawv ib txhia tias koj tsis tseem ceeb”. Hais rau koj tias peb sawv daws puav leej yog huab tais ntuj li menyuam peb muaj nuj nqis ib yam nkaus xwb. Do not care what other people say.
Nyob zoo me viv ncaus koj lub neej sib nraujvim tsis muaj tub ki hais txog kuv lub neej sib nrauj vim kuv muaj tub ki kuv sab thiab kuv nkee heev kuv nrauj txiv 2tug lawm os tam sim no kuv nyob nrog kuv 2 tug ntxhais os
Had he loved her enough, no one could have broke them apart. Honestly, me personally I would never listen to what anybody says even if family. He's just a person with bad moral and character. This is what people of no moral and character do best.
Haub yau lawv os lawv aw tej niag me nyuam ntawv es niam yuav hlub yus ntsim nyog qhov uas yus muab ua teeb meem loj txog ntua qhov muab Yus tej niam txiv sib nrauj sib tso this tej niag me ntuam ntawv neb li neb ko os. Tej niag me nyuam ntawv nas ces lam ntshaw ntshaw xwb tab sis thaum luag loj luag laus lawm luag twb tsis K txog yus ua niam ua txiv hlo li os niam yuav tsim nyog qhov ntshaw ntshaw..... me nyuam es yus muab yus tej niam txiv sib nrauj vim yog tsis muaj me nyuam xwb os lawv aw. Lam nkim yus lub neej puas dawb rau tej niag me nyuam no xwb os. Tsis tsim nyog li os nawb.
Adoption isn't for everyone. If their love is strong enough, it's best just to have each other. But her husband didn't love her enough even when it was his fault. Oh well.
Not having kids is a sad life it is a struggle and it's worst when the guy points at you saying its your fault when it's them...😢have been in one and still in one.
Other people: "to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish, till death do us part."...Hmong people: "till no children do us part". It's a blessing to have children if you can and want them. It's unfortunate for couple's who cannot have any (like me). If they choose to leave because of that, they don't love you.
Sister, move on with your life. The love from your ex-husband wasn’t strong enough otherwise he would not have left and let you go. Children are important but love is more important. If his love for you is that much, why would he listen to his parents when he knew he could not have children. It’s a good thing you left for good. If you went back to him after you conceived, he would not love you or your child. It’s not fair to your husband when you’re married to him but in love with your ex. Move on.
Niam Ntsuab teev! Kuv xav noog koj ua muam tsis, Koj xav li cas xwb. Nej cov poj Niam uas zoo li no, Puas yog tías yog tsis muaj Txiv neej es yuav tuag? Es tus poj Niam no thiaj ua rov ua rais zoo li no na los? Kuv paub tías koj thiaj yuav qia tau Kuv nawb. Vim kuv paub tías koj thiaj yog ib tug poj Niam uas koj hais tau koj thiaj ua tau nawb.
I am glad you moved on. I was in your shoes and we stayed together and even adopted 3 children. In the end, he left me for a younger girl. He wanted his own kids. I don’t know if he will get his own kids with a young wife, but I wished I knew the ending. If I did, I would have left decades ago. Don’t regret your decision. Be happy you have your kids to fall back on. I am falling back on mines. I was blessed with 3 beautiful children and with that, I am content with life.
Me ntxhai koj tsi txhob tu siab tas tas thiab mog, yog koj tu txiv hlub koj tiag tiag ce neb yeej tseem nyob tau uake,tiamsis vim koj tu txiv thiab nws cov kwvtij tsi txhob txws txws nws kom yuav niam yau es neb mam nrhiav lwm txoj kev kom tau me nyuam xwb ce neb yeej tseem sib hlub uake tim koj tus txiv thiab txivyawg lawv tsi ntseeg Dr ,lawv xav kom lawv tu tub mus yuav niam yau yeej yog tim koj xwb ce koj tu txiv los nws yeej xav xav yuav thiab es Nws thiaj yuam kev poob koj lawm thum nws paub tseeb hai tia yog tim nws tiag ce nws thiaj ua zajuantxeev rov khuvxim koj xwb os me ntxhai ua ib siab mus yuav lwm tus losyog cia lis tu koj ob tus me nyuam kos xwb ce yog qhov zoo lawm os tsi txhob phov phov kev nyuaj siab ntxiv lawm mog.
Well it’s your ex fault for cheated in the first place by believing his parents instead of Drs! Don’t missed your ex he never loved you enough to begin with that’s why you’re divorced,
In some cultures, no children is a big deal especially being Hmong. Easy for those that can have children to judge but for those that can't, they face a lot of scrutiny and stigma by society. It is far more worse for a barren woman than a man- the way they are still being treated even in today's community.
Wow!! I was crying by listening to your story!😢. How saddening to my heart that you & him already knew that he was the one at fault, he couldn’t get you pregnant, in fact he was not taking, accept the truth responsibility instead of to continue loved you without kept on cheated, hurting you. It’s really hurt my heart in putting myself in your position that I am so glad that he tried so numerous times to cheated, to hurt you so you can moved on to live your life to the fullest but than your 2nd husband turned his back on you again!🤦🏻♀️! Sister please don’t look backwards instead of looking forward to the future, hope you learned the lesson and don’t bother by the 1st/2nd husband, he never loved you completely, only tried to finding his children, knowing exactly that he couldn’t so. Lived your life without a husband, freedom from cheating heart, the pain, men’s telling you what you can or can’t do anything from now until a great new man coming along the way! May you continue to stay strong w/the kids, forget the past mistakes and move forward!!
This story just pissed me off, cuz she can’t move on still play fantasy game with her first husband. It’s really stupid life. Why is her first x husband keep crying like a stupid fool baby boy.
If ur 1st husband really loves u, he wouldnt have let u go no matter what. Fact is his love was not strong enough to keep u. He moved on with other women...just goes to show u dont really mean anything to him. U need to let go & move on so u can really focus on ur life.
Dang I like what you wrote
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Kv yg ib tug g muaj me nyuam thb kv tu siab heev os
Yog lawm zag neej neeg no tu siab raug kiag li kuv lub neej thiab o
Nws tsuas nco tus ncaim thiab khuv xim thaum nws tsis muaj koj lawm xwb.
Koj thawj tus txiv lub siab tsis ruaj tsis khov. Txawm koj tsis nrauj nws los nws yeej yuav nrauj koj thiab ua hluas.
Nws txiav txim siab tsis tau rau nws lub neej. Nws mloog lwm tus tej lus dua lawm neb ua neej mus tsis kawg.
If her first husband loved her, all this wouldn’t happened.
Yus muaj qi thaum nyob tawm luag xwb o
Muab hais los koj ntshaw menyuam tabsi koj lim hiam kawg rau koj tus txiv #2
Cas koj yuav zoo nkauj ua luaj niag Pog dag aws
Nrog koj tu siab thiab hlub koj tus me txiv tsis muaj me nyuam kawg li thiab nawj . Vim nws twb Xaiv tsis tau los yug es neb sib hlub npaum twg los thiaj sib plam rau txoj kev tsis muaj tub ki os ❤❤
Those that can’t have kids, don’t be too sad. Ya ain’t missing out that much. Kids are expensive ass f*ck. Yo hair will turn white or you’ll go bald, once those kids become teens. 😩Just appreciate the hmoov you were given. 👌🏻
😂😂😂…sounds like your kids are a handful.
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You should just let your 2nd husband goes free
Nrog neb tu siab og.
Ca kv lub neej e Muaj me nyuam li thiab e ntxhe kv lub neej yuav zoo li koj lub thiab lo ca os tu2 siab li os
You should’ve kept the child support, your 2nd husband didn’t want the children anyway.
Don’t go back to your two exes. There’s a reason why they’re your exes. Love yourself and your children and the person in front of you.
Vas yuav tham li uas tus poj niam no yog ib neeg uas muab ib puas tsav yam es tus txiv neej no thiaj yuav tuag li na
Good story. Let’s hear his side
Tus niam tsev no Ruam tiag!
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Kuv tsi muaj tub ki thiab os viv ncaus kuv yeej xav ntau zaus tia nrauj tiam si kuv tsi muaj niam muaj txiv e nrauj tag tsi muaj lub chaw nyob 😥😥 lam nyob xwb tsi muaj menyuam ce tsi muaj kev hlub lawm os viv ncaus
Cas pheej tos tus txiv lub chaw nyob na? Vim pheej xav tias nrauj tsis muaj lub chaw nyob es thiaj uv kev lwj siab nyob mas. Tsis muaj niag txiv los yus yeej mus nyob taus yus mas
You are Right! First come love, if not then no matter how many things or kids you got or if you got none. It will not matter! Thanks for sharing ❤
You don't need children to be happy or have happy marriage.
So many children are in horrible divorce homes and no parent wants to take responsibility
You're absolutely about that. My husband and I been married for 20 years but no children. We are very happy with or without children. We both have good pay jobs and save money to take care of us in our old ages.
Kuv ntshaw menyuam ua luaj cas tsis kam muaj tus pojniam kam yug menyuam rau kuv lau
Txiv neej ma xyov li lô tsi muaj mi nyuam lo tiag maum tsho muaj mi nyuam lo nim tiag khoo loj lawm ua nim tsi zoo nyob siab phem tiag2
Koj lo lus tias “lawv ib txhia tias koj tsis tseem ceeb”. Hais rau koj tias peb sawv daws puav leej yog huab tais ntuj li menyuam peb muaj nuj nqis ib yam nkaus xwb. Do not care what other people say.
Nyob zoo me viv ncaus koj lub neej sib nraujvim tsis muaj tub ki hais txog kuv lub neej sib nrauj vim kuv muaj tub ki kuv sab thiab kuv nkee heev kuv nrauj txiv 2tug lawm os tam sim no kuv nyob nrog kuv 2 tug ntxhais os
If it wasn’t for the first husband’s parents encouraging him to find a new wife then I think they would’ve still be together.
Had he loved her enough, no one could have broke them apart. Honestly, me personally I would never listen to what anybody says even if family. He's just a person with bad moral and character. This is what people of no moral and character do best.
Ua cas coj poj niam nuav yuav ruam huaj li os
Haub yau lawv os lawv aw tej niag me nyuam ntawv es niam yuav hlub yus ntsim nyog qhov uas yus muab ua teeb meem loj txog ntua qhov muab Yus tej niam txiv sib nrauj sib tso this tej niag me ntuam ntawv neb li neb ko os.
Tej niag me nyuam ntawv nas ces lam ntshaw ntshaw xwb tab sis thaum luag loj luag laus lawm luag twb tsis K txog yus ua niam ua txiv hlo li os niam yuav tsim nyog qhov ntshaw ntshaw..... me nyuam es yus muab yus tej niam txiv sib nrauj vim yog tsis muaj me nyuam xwb os lawv aw.
Lam nkim yus lub neej puas dawb rau tej niag me nyuam no xwb os.
Tsis tsim nyog li os nawb.
Nrauj txiv tag mus yuav lwm tus txiv lawm los tseem tham tag zaj tag zog tus txiv qub li es leej twg yuav xav hlub koj os hmoob aw….
If kids mattered so much, you both should have adopted. You both could and would love those kids the same.
Adoption isn't for everyone. If their love is strong enough, it's best just to have each other. But her husband didn't love her enough even when it was his fault. Oh well.
Not having kids is a sad life it is a struggle and it's worst when the guy points at you saying its your fault when it's them...😢have been in one and still in one.
Other people: "to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish, till death do us part."...Hmong people: "till no children do us part". It's a blessing to have children if you can and want them. It's unfortunate for couple's who cannot have any (like me). If they choose to leave because of that, they don't love you.
Koj yog ib pom niam ruam tshaj plawm li os
Sister, move on with your life. The love from your ex-husband wasn’t strong enough otherwise he would not have left and let you go. Children are important but love is more important. If his love for you is that much, why would he listen to his parents when he knew he could not have children. It’s a good thing you left for good. If you went back to him after you conceived, he would not love you or your child.
It’s not fair to your husband when you’re married to him but in love with your ex. Move on.
Niam Ntsuab teev! Kuv xav noog koj ua muam tsis, Koj xav li cas xwb. Nej cov poj Niam uas zoo li no, Puas yog tías yog tsis muaj Txiv neej es yuav tuag? Es tus poj Niam no thiaj ua rov ua rais zoo li no na los? Kuv paub tías koj thiaj yuav qia tau Kuv nawb. Vim kuv paub tías koj thiaj yog ib tug poj Niam uas koj hais tau koj thiaj ua tau nawb.
This is repetitive! Think come think go. You wanna go, than go! Do what you like in life that will make you happy. Stop regretting!!
No matter
I have many kids too much headache
Koj mas tug txivneej zoo le caag los pum txhij pum txhua le os.
Tsis yog tim txoj hmoo nas....Tim koj lub eyes xwb mas.
I am glad you moved on. I was in your shoes and we stayed together and even adopted 3 children. In the end, he left me for a younger girl. He wanted his own kids. I don’t know if he will get his own kids with a young wife, but I wished I knew the ending. If I did, I would have left decades ago. Don’t regret your decision. Be happy you have your kids to fall back on. I am falling back on mines. I was blessed with 3 beautiful children and with that, I am content with life.
Nws tsis nco koj os, nws khib qhov tias koj muaj menyuam es nws tsis muaj xwb. Stop being delusional, he don't want you thats why he went off.
Tsis tau tus yog xwb os
Me ntxhai koj tsi txhob tu siab tas tas thiab mog, yog koj tu txiv hlub koj tiag tiag ce neb yeej tseem nyob tau uake,tiamsis vim koj tu txiv thiab nws cov kwvtij tsi txhob txws txws nws kom yuav niam yau es neb mam nrhiav lwm txoj kev kom tau me nyuam xwb ce neb yeej tseem sib hlub uake tim koj tus txiv thiab txivyawg lawv tsi ntseeg Dr ,lawv xav kom lawv tu tub mus yuav niam yau yeej yog tim koj xwb ce koj tu txiv los nws yeej xav xav yuav thiab es Nws thiaj yuam kev poob koj lawm thum nws paub tseeb hai tia yog tim nws tiag ce nws thiaj ua zajuantxeev rov khuvxim koj xwb os me ntxhai ua ib siab mus yuav lwm tus losyog cia lis tu koj ob tus me nyuam kos xwb ce yog qhov zoo lawm os tsi txhob phov phov kev nyuaj siab ntxiv lawm mog.
Why can’t you guys be happy without kids? If kids is so important how come so many people left their kids to be orphan
What you stated are two different matters that should not be grouped into one.
Do u have kids? If you do, you would never understand.
Too many wants and excuses in this story. Don't let history repeat 🙄
Menyuam yog koob hmoov zoo tshaj plaws.
Paub lig lawd !
คนที่หนึ่งไม่ดีกี่คนก็ไม่ดีหรอกครับเพราะคนเราใจมันไม่พอ
Mi sister aw kuv yog koj ces kuv xum rov qab mus yuav Tus ex xwb vim NWS tsis muaj me nyuam es ntshe NWS hlub koj Dua os mog😢
I feel sorry for you both. Its not easy, the turmoil exists on both sides out of desperation.
Coj mus tso taw kiag ces tas ib chapter and continue to the next chapter.
Ruam ruam ruam ualuaj. Twb yog tiam vammeej lawm es tseem ruam npaum ko ntag.
That’s what I said
Your husband didn’t really love you at all. He only used you until he finds another one….lo!
Well it’s your ex fault for cheated in the first place by believing his parents instead of Drs! Don’t missed your ex he never loved you enough to begin with that’s why you’re divorced,
ntuj aw.twb nyob mekag tug menyuam xwb.yuav mug ruam yuav ua tsov ua raig li kom.tsw muaj lwm txoj hauv kev li log cas
Why do you guys treat a marriage like it’s a game?
In some cultures, no children is a big deal especially being Hmong. Easy for those that can have children to judge but for those that can't, they face a lot of scrutiny and stigma by society. It is far more worse for a barren woman than a man- the way they are still being treated even in today's community.
Wow!! I was crying by listening to your story!😢. How saddening to my heart that you & him already knew that he was the one at fault, he couldn’t get you pregnant, in fact he was not taking, accept the truth responsibility instead of to continue loved you without kept on cheated, hurting you. It’s really hurt my heart in putting myself in your position that I am so glad that he tried so numerous times to cheated, to hurt you so you can moved on to live your life to the fullest but than your 2nd husband turned his back on you again!🤦🏻♀️! Sister please don’t look backwards instead of looking forward to the future, hope you learned the lesson and don’t bother by the 1st/2nd husband, he never loved you completely, only tried to finding his children, knowing exactly that he couldn’t so. Lived your life without a husband, freedom from cheating heart, the pain, men’s telling you what you can or can’t do anything from now until a great new man coming along the way! May you continue to stay strong w/the kids, forget the past mistakes and move forward!!
U lie u knew all this.. how did u write a 10k to the brother without knowing for what
Right! I’m never going to write a 10k check to anyone if I have no idea where it’s going for
Why do you keep intruduvibgbyoursel like nobody know who you are.
This story just pissed me off, cuz she can’t move on still play fantasy game with her first husband. It’s really stupid life. Why is her first x husband keep crying like a stupid fool baby boy.
She will never be happy no matter how many times she going to get married cause she will in lust with her first ex