The audacity of the ex husband for guilt tripping Op into giving up her parental rights, because of her mental disorder. Ignoring the fact he has a mental disorder himself. Crazy.
I found the story on reddit and James parents are also on OP's side. They are helping her with the cost of the lawyer and kicked James out (now he's staying at their old house with Karla which is also awful) and OP was allowed to take what she wanted.
If anything his mental health issues would be worse than hers... Like what? And you know she was the one making care of the baby the most. I think he just wants to hurt her and actually doesn't want the kid.
I feel bad for the girl. Karla is clearly sabotaging their marriage and the husband should know better. And it was obvious he is cheating. Even if he isnt physically, and it feels very much like he is emotionally cheating.
Does this man seriously think he can just take a child from a mother? Oh how naive of this evil creature because he's going to feel the wrath of two mothers. His ex-wife and his own mother. Never underestimate the power of sisterhood. It's a force to be reckoned with.
I feel so bad for her. Imagine being with someone when you were 15, growing up with them and marrying them and then the one person who you trusted the most cheats on you because he was horny. What surpises me the most is he saw his own mother going through it yet he did what his father did. I really hope James regrets this and realises he ruined his own life. That'll be his karma
The dude is about to get disowned by his own mother and never be able to see his child just because he couldnt be bothered to be honest with his wife about his issues in the relationship - which are stupid in comparison to almost dying after giving birth to your child
For this Story: If I understood that right, the husband said it was Ok if the best friend of OP sleeps in the same bed as them?! For me that would be a absolute No Go. To me, the Husband sounds like a absolute*******. And OPs "Best Friend" isn't better. I hope the OP is getting the Parental Rights for her child.
Poor James! He accepted a man's responsibilities, but he was still a boy. It's hard to be a husband and a father and he just couldn't cut it. Looks like all that "for better or for worse", "for richer, for poorer", and "in sickness and in health" stuff went out the window. So, his wife's medical problems meant that they weren't going to have as many children as they wanted? Welcome to the club. It's called real life. Not all of your dreams will come true. You work through things together, and "together" means as a couple, not a threesome. Under no circumstances should the ex-wife relinquish her parental rights. He may get custody, but she should make him fight for it and make him pay dearly. I'd like to hear what the judge has to say about him inviting another woman to snuggle up in their marriage bed. Yeah, family court judges usually have a real thing for cheaters, and not in a good way.
The fact that surprises me the most is how she knew him for 11 years and still got cheated on. You would assume this happens in new puppy love relationships but not in these mature ones..I will continue to get surprised i guess.
Not sure how much real growing up and experience of other people happened, yes? What other relationships has OP had, to measure her husband against? Just one guy. One romance, one liaison, one major interaction. And with someone who isn't regarded as entirely socially functioning either. Yes we can observe others, but not from the inside of their dynamics. Also troubled childhoods don't make for healthy adults.
how could james do that tho...your wife almost died and ur upset you cant have sex with her? man wtf..im kinda glad this came into an sooner but then again i feel so bad for op but i hope she knows that none of this is her fault and she didnt do anything wrong
Karla and James should both be ashamed of themselves! They are disgusting. Please let us know if there are more updates on the first story. Poor, poor OP! She doesn't deserve any of that nastiness. They are cruel beyond belief.
Theory. The 'friend' couldn't handle OP (the one with a fast food job that came from a broken home etc.) getting married and having a baby before her so she participated in all of this, because the husband doesn't sound like a prize.
I don't think the husband would even be able to argue for primary custody just based on the wife's mental disorder, especially when he himself has them as well! That's ridiculous! Side note: I don't think cheating really makes much of a difference when fighting for child custody, only when it majorly affects the kid while it was happening. Like, if the cheating has a negative effect on the child's relationship with that parent.
I truly think the OP best friend used the ex autism to manipulate him. He is clearly wrong but being autistic myself I can see where he was naive to think she just needed to talk.
I'm also autistic and sure if talking was it I'd agree but they also did physical stuff and he agreed to try and force her to lose rights to her child?? No there's only so much that can be explained this is clearly him being evil. Further proved because in another edit she confirmed his own parents are on HER side and helping her with a lawyer and stuff.
I agree with her cause, it is a red flag. Cause, why would the best friend call her friend husband to vent out her problems with him instead of venting her problems with his wife instead.
There's a thing when it comes to talking to somebody and if you have to go to my husband every single time you as a grown female have issues to me it just doesn't seem appropriate now that doesn't mean like if that was his sister I mean what am I going to say but. You know he would raise Cain if he had this situation reversed and she was chatting with a male friend of hers that long. Okay after I just saw the update drop em both
I would talk to karla and ask her to tone it down cuz I'm uncomfortable. If they dont stop, imma also go find a new guy to hang out with to show him how it feels. If he still doesn't realise it and gets defensive and keeps doing it, then he can go be with karla. At that point, it's either karla or the marriage. Ultimatums are generally wrong, but it seems correct in this situation.
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James has more psychiatric disorders than she does. Bi-polar disorder can be very difficult to manage, especially if the patient goes off their medication. He hasn't got any grounds for sole custody, especially because he cheated.
How are you doing my dear sweet friend? How are you feeling? I hope wonderful!! In the very first story, the main protagonist's so-called best friend really needs to back off and stop trying to break up their happy home. The best friend needs to find her a man of her own. How dare the best friend just up and call the main protagonist's husband like because that is just so rude, disrespectful, and she is completely overstepping her boundaries too. Karla just asking to cuddle with the main protagonist and her man should've have been the end of their friendship right then and there because Karla knows exactly what she's doing. James is probably sneaky around with Karla behind the main protagonist's back, and Karla isn't even James's friend so why is she even calling him like that in the first place. I automatically knew that they were having an affair from the start because James aand Karla really never had anything at all to talk about, but yet he would be on the phone with her for hours. That is easily a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship right there. James and Karla are both just so some dirty, low down, good for nothing cabrones. James and Karla can both go tto infierno for even trying to take the main protagonist's baby away. This was an amazing story!! I love you!! Have a nice day!! Stay safe!!!
Her ex husband is an absolutely horrible human being, along with her ex best friend. How are you going to claim to be “unsatisfied” with your wife not feeding your sexual needs when she PHYSICALLY CANNOT DO IT from complications giving birth to YOUR baby???
I wonder if he has narcissism on top of Autism? Also sounds like he has Borderline Personality Disorder and not OP. Good she found out so she can move on. He should have only supervised visits, I don't trust him and ex best friend. Sound like they'd steal the baby. As autistic myself this pisses me off!!!! We already get looked down on as it is. Don't need this so called man making it worse.
even more disgusting. they could've adopted and worked together to regain their sexual activities. he and karla are trash. i truly hope that op gets the chance to get full custody
First story: If the "best friend" is in college, how does she have time to be on the phone several times a day, for hours - and still get passing grades? Maybe her lack of scholarly habits is what's bothering her dear old dad. The bombshell at the end!😳 Get a good lawyer! See if any of your law professors can help/recommend someone.
The audacity of the ex husband for guilt tripping Op into giving up her parental rights, because of her mental disorder. Ignoring the fact he has a mental disorder himself. Crazy.
I found the story on reddit and James parents are also on OP's side. They are helping her with the cost of the lawyer and kicked James out (now he's staying at their old house with Karla which is also awful) and OP was allowed to take what she wanted.
How can he even make her give up the kid due to her mental disorder when he himself has mental health issues?
If anything his mental health issues would be worse than hers... Like what? And you know she was the one making care of the baby the most. I think he just wants to hurt her and actually doesn't want the kid.
@@TBH13579 yeah there are so many stories where the cheater only wanted the child to hurt the ex partner
Last ditch effort. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Chances are will win anyway
I feel bad for the girl. Karla is clearly sabotaging their marriage and the husband should know better. And it was obvious he is cheating. Even if he isnt physically, and it feels very much like he is emotionally cheating.
Being in love with your best friend’s husband could cause so many problems-
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Could?! It will
Does this man seriously think he can just take a child from a mother? Oh how naive of this evil creature because he's going to feel the wrath of two mothers. His ex-wife and his own mother. Never underestimate the power of sisterhood. It's a force to be reckoned with.
Preach!
I feel so bad for her. Imagine being with someone when you were 15, growing up with them and marrying them and then the one person who you trusted the most cheats on you because he was horny. What surpises me the most is he saw his own mother going through it yet he did what his father did. I really hope James regrets this and realises he ruined his own life. That'll be his karma
Humanity doesn't exist in him anymore, nor does it exist in that bicth of a friend.
Hope his mom disowns him for this and even if he has children with carla, they should get nothing
The dude is about to get disowned by his own mother and never be able to see his child just because he couldnt be bothered to be honest with his wife about his issues in the relationship - which are stupid in comparison to almost dying after giving birth to your child
For this Story: If I understood that right, the husband said it was Ok if the best friend of OP sleeps in the same bed as them?! For me that would be a absolute No Go. To me, the Husband sounds like a absolute*******. And OPs "Best Friend" isn't better. I hope the OP is getting the Parental Rights for her child.
The Laws are different in every Country. Most of the time the Mother gets Custody.
Poor James! He accepted a man's responsibilities, but he was still a boy. It's hard to be a husband and a father and he just couldn't cut it. Looks like all that "for better or for worse", "for richer, for poorer", and "in sickness and in health" stuff went out the window. So, his wife's medical problems meant that they weren't going to have as many children as they wanted? Welcome to the club. It's called real life. Not all of your dreams will come true. You work through things together, and "together" means as a couple, not a threesome. Under no circumstances should the ex-wife relinquish her parental rights. He may get custody, but she should make him fight for it and make him pay dearly. I'd like to hear what the judge has to say about him inviting another woman to snuggle up in their marriage bed. Yeah, family court judges usually have a real thing for cheaters, and not in a good way.
i wanna see how the judge will come at him for citing op's mental health diagnosis when he in fact has his own comorbidities🤡
The fact that surprises me the most is how she knew him for 11 years and still got cheated on. You would assume this happens in new puppy love relationships but not in these mature ones..I will continue to get surprised i guess.
Not sure how much real growing up and experience of other people happened, yes? What other relationships has OP had, to measure her husband against? Just one guy. One romance, one liaison, one major interaction. And with someone who isn't regarded as entirely socially functioning either. Yes we can observe others, but not from the inside of their dynamics. Also troubled childhoods don't make for healthy adults.
Humans suck, and trust is a waste of time. Welcome to Earth.
how could james do that tho...your wife almost died and ur upset you cant have sex with her? man wtf..im kinda glad this came into an sooner but then again i feel so bad for op but i hope she knows that none of this is her fault and she didnt do anything wrong
Hope she gets full custody!
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Karla and James should both be ashamed of themselves! They are disgusting. Please let us know if there are more updates on the first story. Poor, poor OP! She doesn't deserve any of that nastiness. They are cruel beyond belief.
Sometimes showing where your loyalties lie can be quite difficult.
I just read this on reddit days ago. Op deserves better 😢
Theory. The 'friend' couldn't handle OP (the one with a fast food job that came from a broken home etc.) getting married and having a baby before her so she participated in all of this, because the husband doesn't sound like a prize.
I don't think the husband would even be able to argue for primary custody just based on the wife's mental disorder, especially when he himself has them as well! That's ridiculous!
Side note: I don't think cheating really makes much of a difference when fighting for child custody, only when it majorly affects the kid while it was happening. Like, if the cheating has a negative effect on the child's relationship with that parent.
I truly think the OP best friend used the ex autism to manipulate him. He is clearly wrong but being autistic myself I can see where he was naive to think she just needed to talk.
I'm also autistic and sure if talking was it I'd agree but they also did physical stuff and he agreed to try and force her to lose rights to her child?? No there's only so much that can be explained this is clearly him being evil. Further proved because in another edit she confirmed his own parents are on HER side and helping her with a lawyer and stuff.
I agree with her cause, it is a red flag. Cause, why would the best friend call her friend husband to vent out her problems with him instead of venting her problems with his wife instead.
There's a thing when it comes to talking to somebody and if you have to go to my husband every single time you as a grown female have issues to me it just doesn't seem appropriate now that doesn't mean like if that was his sister I mean what am I going to say but. You know he would raise Cain if he had this situation reversed and she was chatting with a male friend of hers that long.
Okay after I just saw the update drop em both
I wonder what MIL has to say about this
if my husband was entertaining other women I’d be mad too but I really wouldn’t know what to do in this situation
holy shit I posted this before the update but he’s a sick person
Get your financial ducks in a row. ASAP.
I would talk to karla and ask her to tone it down cuz I'm uncomfortable. If they dont stop, imma also go find a new guy to hang out with to show him how it feels. If he still doesn't realise it and gets defensive and keeps doing it, then he can go be with karla. At that point, it's either karla or the marriage. Ultimatums are generally wrong, but it seems correct in this situation.
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James has more psychiatric disorders than she does. Bi-polar disorder can be very difficult to manage, especially if the patient goes off their medication. He hasn't got any grounds for sole custody, especially because he cheated.
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Let me tell you this it sounds like your husband and your best friend is getting busy.
How are you doing my dear sweet friend? How are you feeling? I hope wonderful!! In the very first story, the main protagonist's so-called best friend really needs to back off and stop trying to break up their happy home. The best friend needs to find her a man of her own. How dare the best friend just up and call the main protagonist's husband like because that is just so rude, disrespectful, and she is completely overstepping her boundaries too. Karla just asking to cuddle with the main protagonist and her man should've have been the end of their friendship right then and there because Karla knows exactly what she's doing. James is probably sneaky around with Karla behind the main protagonist's back, and Karla isn't even James's friend so why is she even calling him like that in the first place. I automatically knew that they were having an affair from the start because James aand Karla really never had anything at all to talk about, but yet he would be on the phone with her for hours. That is easily a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship right there. James and Karla are both just so some dirty, low down, good for nothing cabrones. James and Karla can both go tto infierno for even trying to take the main protagonist's baby away. This was an amazing story!! I love you!! Have a nice day!! Stay safe!!!
Her ex husband is an absolutely horrible human being, along with her ex best friend. How are you going to claim to be “unsatisfied” with your wife not feeding your sexual needs when she PHYSICALLY CANNOT DO IT from complications giving birth to YOUR baby???
I wonder if he has narcissism on top of Autism? Also sounds like he has Borderline Personality Disorder and not OP. Good she found out so she can move on. He should have only supervised visits, I don't trust him and ex best friend. Sound like they'd steal the baby. As autistic myself this pisses me off!!!! We already get looked down on as it is. Don't need this so called man making it worse.
even more disgusting. they could've adopted and worked together to regain their sexual activities. he and karla are trash. i truly hope that op gets the chance to get full custody
I want to know how the mil reacted, she’d def be disappointed seeing that her husband is just like his father
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First story: If the "best friend" is in college, how does she have time to be on the phone several times a day, for hours - and still get passing grades? Maybe her lack of scholarly habits is what's bothering her dear old dad. The bombshell at the end!😳 Get a good lawyer! See if any of your law professors can help/recommend someone.
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Oof. Why would you not say something to your bff as well as your husband
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Divorce him!! He will cheat on you when time comes and it’s sooner then you think. He is a cheater too and they don’t change