A Kid with Tourette's, OCD, and Anxiety
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ม.ค. 2024
- Benvolio is diagnosed with Tourette's, OCD, and anxiety. His tics started when he was just 2 years old, but were first misdiagnosed. Benvolio wants others to know that you can still accomplish great things while living with Tourette syndrome.
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Benvolio has a TH-cam account where he dreams of one day having 20 subscribers. You can check it out at www.youtube.com/@benvoliosawesomechannel7712
Just subscribed! What a smart and funny young man.
I just subscribed!
It's only been a half hour since upload and he already has more than double his goal. I think his channel is gonna thrive, just like him!
Subscribed! Can't wait to see what you show us!
Hi Chris I wish I can meet you guys love your videos and I can be your videos ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Nephew!!! He has always been such an amazing, bright, loving kid and so so brave! So proud of you!!!
Cool 👍🏻
You are a lucky aunt!
I am such a lucky Aunt to watch him grow and become the fantastic kid he is today!
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Indeed you are 👍🏻
it seems like he is surrounded by really good people, it makes sense he would turn out so well spoken and kind!
This kid is so smart. He has a wisdom that typical 9 year olds don’t have. Despite his diagnoses, this young man is going places. I’m sure if it
He’s so cute💖
He’s very well spoken
He is so sweet
Typically children with OCD are more "mature" or "wise" because we're very deep thinkers that compartmentalize our thoughts. I remember by the age of 7 I was deeply thinking into things like death, the afterlife, overall the world around me.
Except for telling people to eat raw cookie dough 😂
Your one courageous kid!! I have tourette syndrome, ocd and anxiety also. I am 45 years old and I was diagnosed in 2nd grade. I've had to overcome alot in my life. Don't ever think that this stuff will hurt your life in society. It only makes you stronger!
You hang in there brother!!
Genuinely proud of you for all you’ve overcome!
I struggle terribly too and always have I know it VERY well!
Much love! ✊
Respect
Only to be helpful:
I have deleted your syndromes in other people, and it was straightforward.
Now you fear losing your diagnosis, but life is much better without it.
It's not a diagnosis. It's an installed program that can be disabled.
In every way act normal, not despite the syndrome, but because it never happened.
Never relate a single thought to the syndrome, turn around and do something normal.
That was fantastic advise for that young boy! I don't like when people judge others bc everyone is beautiful in their own way!! Your both beautiful people!!!❤❤
me too but i dont have tourettes just ocd and anxiety
Oh my. It is like watching me and my son. My son has Touretts, OCD and anxiety. The same tics. I had the same reaction to his diagnosis as this mom... Wow. My son is now 20, almost tic free, studying for an engineering degree, has lots of friends, never had a problem with his condition despite my worries. Anyway. This kid is awesome. I wish him all the best.
I had the same thing growing up. I’m almost 26 now and pretty much tic free!!!
Thank you both for sharing, your messages might be comforting for people who is struggling.
Could I know what kind of support he received growing up? My nephew may have all these things and I want him to lead a fulfilling life, he is 8 currently :(
Genuinely curious, did your son grow out of the Touretts or is there medication he takes? Can new tics develop even now after he's almost tic free?
@daniellewallace1996 There isn't really any medication for Touretts. We were lucky our son grew out of it. Not completely, he still has a subtle tics, however, only we can notice as we know. Otherwise, there are not noticable at all and are very random. He was on medication for his anxiety only for about a year, otherwise he has not been on any medication. His OCD and anxiety are pretty managable as well now.
I'm so grateful to you for giving this brave, funny, intelligent young man an opportunity to fight some of the stigma around this misunderstood syndrome! Most people think Tourette's is just "that thing that makes people swear," and they don't know about the underlying anxiety or other forms it takes. I experienced constant tics and twitches as a kid, coupled with relentless anxiety. I was never diagnosed with Tourette's, but I've wondered for a long time whether I might have it, or OCD, or what. All I know is that even as an adult I have tics and compulsive behaviors that I cannot control, and I'm still an anxious, high-strung person.
"brave, funny, intelligent young man" I hope you understand people like yourself are the reason I can't accept compliments from anyone because none of the compliments feel genuine and deserved and because I am disabled does not mean you gotta say I am the smartest dude on planet earth.
Great insightful comment, dearly beloved! God bless you!
Hats off 🎉🙏 ❤ There's always a bright side to every single thing that comes at us 💯 ❤
He’s a beautiful boy and so smart.
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OMG!!! I am bawling! He is my 9 year old self. I'm 55 and have had all 3 my whole life. It gets better, Ben! Trust me, it does.
I’m on the autism spectrum buddy, and I have a very good sense of justice too!
You’re gonna do great things, bud!!
You just hang in there and you stay your authentic self! ✊
My boyfriend is also on the spectrum and has a strong sense of justice 😊
But how do you cope when there is so much injustice?
I find i become exhausted because i get so emotionally charged by injustice and then i collapse rather than doing something constructive. Any suggestions?
@@windwhisprz I’m not sure if it’s autism ALWAYS, but I also have an incredibly strong sense of justice. It compels me to be…basically really mean back to people who are mean to others first (this is the one I notice the most just because I’m online a lot).
I don’t feel better if I DON’T do that, to be honest. Like if I see someone say something positive, and someone comes around to say something negative, I go out of my way to do whatever I can to get “revenge” for said person. If it’s a situation where it’s not what someone said, but rather DID? And I can’t do anything? Yeah it eats me up. I think about getting cut off like, HOURS after the fact. Or people not using their blinker or doing things the “Right” way.
So, no advice really, my man. Just solidarity.
@@QuantumMecha If you think about getting cut off for hours then you may want to talk to a mental health professional about it because that's a bit extreme. It's also important to remember that in that specific situation, people aren't always intentionally doing things like that. They're too focused on changing lanes, etc. and some of the time don't even realise what they've done. In addition, the best response to mean people isn't to become like them, and by responding on their level you're often reacting the way that they want. Removing emotional language and sticking to the facts removes fuel for those kind of people to feel justified in being awful people and the action of taking a breath and writing in an emotionally neutral way is a step that helps calm you so that once you choose to finish commenting it helps you put it aside and not dwell on it.
Thanks for giving this interview Benvolio! When your mom called you smart at the beginning I though "oh, all moms say that about their kids", but then when I heard you were only 9 I realised that was no empty boast! You very well-spoken and wise for your age.
As someone diagnosed with anxiety and OCD, I felt him when he said things dont feel right in his body if everything isn't perfect! He is so mature beyond his years, what a gift to his parents! You're wonderful Benvolio, and your name is pretty cool too! 😊👍🏿
He looks just like his momma. What a bright and wonderful boy. I hope he has a happy and successful life
I can't believe he is just 9 years old. He is way beyond his years. An old soul. He is incredibly smart and handles his diagnoses in stride. He's going to be a great adult!
The way he is able to articulate what he is dealing with, especially the anxiety and mental health struggles, is incredible at that age.
His parents should really be proud of getting him there and clearly being good listeners/advocates.
Yeah he’s very well spoken
diagnosis is so important in living with illness. he has a great understanding on his tourette's and comorbidities and is able to understand himself with a love that isn't as available without diagnosis
I don’t agree with your last statement, dearly beloved! His love from others and towards others, with or without the correct diagnosis, is strong!
It is love that helps us through the uncertainties, and keeps us grounded! He is greatly loved, and his confidence and intelligence reflect this truth!
1 Corinthians 13:13
And now abideth faith, hope, charity (love), these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
@@carolynnunes3922 it's so rude to force your religion. People who aren't religious deserve love and happiness as well.
@@sleepyote Force my religion?!? One quote is NOT “forcing my religion!”
My comment is positive, and there is NOTHING whatsoever rude about my comment!
You are so angry, and reactive, yet there is nothing to get upset over!
There are so many sayings that come from the Bible! Like “by the skin of our teeth,” “a drop in the bucket,” and more!
@@carolynnunes3922I was not commenting on this person’s love. I meant that it is more difficult without accurate diagnosis (self diagnosis or otherwise) to understand and love oneself so wholly.
My daughter also has Tourette’s, anxiety and OCD and also ADHD. It’s great to spread awareness of these conditions.
My daughter asked has to be the last to say ‘I love you’ and ‘bye’ and she sleeps with light and noise too!
@@blake4604she sleeps with light and noise? That’s strange lol
@@person4436 I know!
My daughter is 12 and has tics and is on the spectrum. Most people get so annoyed by her and it hurts my heart bc she's so normal but gets treated like she's a weirdo. She does the throat clearing, too. For 3 years she was on different allergy meds and it was all for nothing. Thank you so so much for sharing this precious boys story!!
We had a similar situation (allergist sent us to neurology. She had seen neurology as a toddler w sensory issues prior but we have had such a similar experience)
May God make her life easier and surround her with loving and caring friends always ❤
@@LoveIslam100 Bless you, and thanks so much for your kindness ❤️
@@AlphaFemmeXtine
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Also, there's always kind and mean people, so try making your daughter confident so that nobody can make her sad💪🌹
What a cool kid, he seems really chill.
Thank you for sharing, Benvolio! My 9 year old also has Tourettes, with ADHD, Autism, and Anxiety. He was so excited to watch you share your story and know there are other kids like him.
I 19 years old have Tourettes, OCD, Autism, ADHD, Anxiety, and type 1 diabetes sadly, it’s hard to live with it but I pull through.
My son had it so severe around 6-13 spectrum, ocd, tics he's 17 now and doesn't tic anymore, stay positive
What sweet kid.. Best of luck to you buddy !
The kid speaks 100% facts about that cookie dough...he looks just like his mom....glad his peers accept him and his exceptionality...😎😎
My goodness! This kid is wise beyond his years! Hearing him talk was like hearing a little adult talk.
I was diagnosed with tourettes as an adult. When he said that having tics was neutral (Rather than good or bad), it took my breath away a little. What a smart little man, thanks for reframing my own diagnosis in a way that makes me feel more at ease
Benvoilo reminds me of my brother. He was diagnosed with the same disorders as a young child and went through some very hard times. Less was known about these disorders back in the 1990s so he dealt with a lot of stigma and ridicule. I remember some terrible advice given by his doctors… for example, that he needed life long institutional care. That said, he’s about to turn 40 this year, has over come a lot of those challenges and lives a normal life - he’s married and has 2 young kids of his own. His experiences have made him a more considerate, empathetic person than you’d typically meet and he translates this into everything he does. Benvolio is a fantastic young man and no doubt he will also live a wonderful and fulfilling life!
What a smart, brave, and amazing kid!
I was his 21st subscriber, so he could be even beyond his goal! Yay for Benvolio!! 😁 Also straight up cookie dough is amazing!!
I'm glad to have someone like Benvolio on this planet. What a thoughtful person!
Okay, just know that you are never unwanted on this earth, not even in your darkest moments.. sending love your way.
He described anxiety so well. It literally just happens to you one day, and you’re usually not doing anything different to what you normally would. It just drops on you like a sandbag from the sky and it turns your entire life upside down until you can get help or figure out how to cope. It destroyed my health the summer before high school and I wasn’t “better” until the following year. I’m so proud to see a younger person have the vocabulary and knowledge to express how he feels so easily. That’s such an amazing skill to have at his age. From another anxious person, I love you Ben! You make me feel less alone. ❤❤❤
I was just like this kid. At 25, this really takes me back. I struggled with all of this as a kid, having comorbidities is so difficult but it truly does give you insight no one else your age would have. They just don't have to try to think through everything like we do and come to all these conclusions.
I know he'll do amazing things ❤
What a great kid! And a terrific mom! I subscribed to your channel Benvolio!
What an absolutely wonderful young man. And an incredible mother.
This kiddo is great. I see an awesome future for him.❤
I think this child is so adorable and funny ! He must have a lot of friends. He just handles every question so well. His mother must be very proud of him.
So chill and self aware. All the love to this boy
What a beautiful well mannered child may god bless him (even more) and his family x
Among many of the diagnosis, I also have anxiety and OCD. They can be so difficult but I know this kid is tough, he's got this. 💪
I appreciated this interview! My daughter had all these dx's; she is now in her 30's and is a BCBA (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) and is SO good at what she does. She totally loves all the kids she works with. Also has a broad social live. Just want to confirm that your experiences will make you extra great at whatever you choose to do with your life. Go Benvolio!
This kid is so bright, waaaaaay beyond his years. And beyond 10! What a kind and smart and funny would, I would be so proud to have my kid grow up to be anything like him
Holy moly! My daughter has the same bouquet! Tourette’s, OCD, and anxiety. We are gonna sit and watch this together; it helps when kiddos know they’re not alone, so thank you for sharing!
Benvolio- you’re such an awesome kiddo!! Persistence and strength are super powers and you have them in droves!! Keep smiling- life is what you make it and you’re making it awesome!!
Your strength is not what makes me cry. It’s your façade... it’s the way you deal with the handicap when you’re with a complete stranger OFF CAMERA and without anyone noticing... your vulnerability to trust. To me it’s a bit similar to meeting a small frightened kitten and when I befriend you you show me your true colors. Meeting a handicaped frightened and then reassured person in total intimacy is the greatest gift I wish anyone could experience ... and I know you don’t give that easily. Thank you for existing. My world turned upside down.
So cool to see such a young kid getting the proper early intervention he deserves! I'm only diagnosed Tourettes at 17 when it's at its worst, then ADHD and anxiety at 19. Took a damn long journey just to have some sort of confirmation, but it's worth it. Now pursuing a nursing degree so I can help better the healthcare system of my country and help even more people like us. ❤
Omg he’s soooo INTELLIGENT. I love how he articulate his feelings and words❤️So smart. Good job mom❤️I know you’re really proud of him🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
SO I am one third in and am amazed at how mature, smart and self-aware Benvolio is - just wow! The world needs more people like him!
Proud to be his 20th subscriber!😇
Great parting words from Benvolio! Thank you for sharing Benvolio.🥰🥰
“he has a strong sense of justice” very profound! that is not something you can say about every kid his age! it’s a very admirable quality and i hope he continues to develop it as he ages. great kid.
This is so comforting to watch, as someone with OCD, i was diagnosed during my highschool years when i was having a serious episode. I wish i had the privilage to be diagnosed way earlier in life, just like him. Everything would be much better, i would have peace instead of wasting my highschool years
Amzing video.
By far the best video i hace watched on tourette syndrome.
My name is Matthew, im 24 years old and was diagnosed with tourette syndrome atthw ag of 12.
I have only just started accepting myself for who i am after watching your video.
My tourettes has become alot worse in the past 6 months and started feeling alone and depressed and not brave enough to talk ask for help and to talk to someone about it. I also worry about the things that my tics have been affecting such as driving and having conversations with people even my own family memebers. I also have ocd that bothers me alot before I go to bed and have co e to realise why i become so frustrated and agrivated so easily over such small things, only now realizing that its a comorbidity of my tourettes.
Thanks you soo much Benvolio for sharing your tourettes.
Wonderful mother and son, I enjoyed hearing about their story and I'm sure many people will ❤
I also have Tourette's, which I didn't realize until I was 40! (I also have OCD, so I can relate to this young man.) I wish I had known the reason for my tics when I was as young as Benvolio; my childhood would have been a lot better. Hang in there, Ben, I'm rooting for you! Things WILL work out OK, I promise. Your future is so bright, you gotta wear shades! 😎
This is such a cool kid, so straightforward and honest. The way he said "I don't mind" when the interviewer asked if he likes talking about this stuff was so cool.
He's awesome.
BENVOLIO is an amazing name. Enjoyed learning from his experience thank you 😊
what a rad kid!! he’s so well spoken for his age as well. as someone who’s been dealing with anxiety like benvolio since i was a kid he really does hit the nail on the head with a hammer about it.
This kid's mum is great. Like maybe its been a learning process, but its extremely refreshing to see a mum not sigh and "glace knowingly" to the camera when talking about her son's specific routines. Too many times I see mum's thinking thier kid is just being unnecessarily fussy.
Wonderful accepting energy with this mom and this son. ❤
It's always so warming when the child is able to say lovely things about their caregivers, and watching those reactions :) Benvolio is a charming guy and I know he's gunna be stellar in the future
this kid is so smart and aware! hes going places!
What an incredible young man. I love his attitude. Such a fantastic interview! Positive all the way around.
Wow, he speaks and explains everything better than some adults. He seems like such a great kid and is going to have a wonderfully happy life 😊
He’s so sweet, smart and adorable! I wish him all the best in his life always! ❤
I was diagnosed with OCD just last week and this kid has more of a nonchalant attitude about it than I could ever have. Inspiring!
He is so gorgeous, brave and well spoken! Beautiful mother too. 🖤
I'm an adult with tourettes, anxiety, ptsd, and a few other things. I've had it since I was 15. Finally on a new medication that helps so much. It's all aout communication with people, especially with me working in customer service.
I applaud his parents !!! He’s such a great kid and going to be one handsome man but beyond that he’s going to go places and the world is such a better place with him in it !!!
Keep doing you !! ❤
He's so articulate and confident! Such an awesome kid ❤
I was diagnosed with Tourette’s around the same age. My tics have gotten better with age but do get worse when I’m stressed. I’m so proud of him for educating others. We can live happy, normal lives. I’m now 33 with a husband and two kids. I’m praying this isn’t passed onto them but if it is, that is totally ok. Proud of you buddy!
What a sweet and courageous boy! Thank you for sharing your story! My son was on sbsk a couple years ago for his tourettes as well and it helped him so much to see other people with similar situations. Such an encouragement! We don't have tourettes in our family either except for him and he started at age 2 as well! Keep up the good work! You are amazing and I'm so proud of you!
Hi Benvolio!
Thank you for this interview. It was so informative. I know about Tourette's but hadn't thought about other issues that could go with it like OCD and anxiety.
You are so handsome! You are the spitting image of your Mom.
I think the most important thing to take away from this interview is that eating cookie dough is amazing!
I hope that he continues to do well.
Benvolio's intelligence, charm, and appealing nature are great assets for overcoming social obstacles that he may come across. Not all with Tourette's are so well equipped to deal with the challenges it can present. His mother must be very proud of how mature and thoughtful he was during this interview.
That's one hell of a combination! Hope he enjoys life to the max!
There are people who have a lot of conditions more than him
Such a mature boy for his age 🤗 super proud of you 👏 and june baby like me 🎉 . Massive hug to mum and you u
, ur both amazing 💜👍
He looks so much like his Mama!! What a sweet child.
Thanks for sharing your story Benvolio! I also have Tourette's and anxiety and I spread awareness for it! It's so great to see you and mom so understanding and accepting of it at your age! I hope you enjoy your birthday coming up!
He is one of the strongest guys I have ever seen. Keep on keeping on buddy.
I love your channel. You are such a caring human and have restored my faith in humanity. Thank you
Hey, Benvolio is a great kid! I’m a teacher of lots of kids his age and actually watching this am thinking that one might have this combo. I may bring it up to his current teacher.
His description of anxiety is so on point and astute for a single digit human. It spikes over seemingly nothing, you feel dumb for crying (yes, even as a grown-up) or acting out, and people are more understanding but only sometimes. In my case it weirdly turns into a “superpower” in a crisis…like it got good practice in over simple things, like worrying about my kinder kids liking my lesson.
Fun similarities between my own neurodivergent kids (they’re 21, 18, and 13) and this kiddo:
-my oldest who might have ASD but has sensory processing issues and anxiety agrees about vanilla!
-my middle kid with ADD and dyspraxia is very justice oriented too! Her nickname is Miss Justice League!
-my youngest with ADD and anxiety describes a lot of her physical sensations the same way (also a proper extrovert so it bugs her too).
I’m sure it is a struggle to stay on track but some of us with older/adult kids describe “finding their tribe” as the eventual thing. These are the ones who just accept you for you, no matter what and even on the worst days. ❤
He has the same diagnoses as me. I once read something that called comorbid TS and OCD "Tourettic OCD", and that made a lot of sense to me. It can be hard to tell where the disorders each start and end--there is a lot of overlap, especially with tics and compulsions.
What a beautiful boy. Sounds like he has a wonderful family life and will do great things in the world with that incredible attitude!
The ending was 💯
Very nice interview all in all, what a nice kid
Im very glad benvolio got to tell about his experience with tourettes! hes such a smart kid! I have tics too, a motor tic disorder, and they happen pretty frequently. Im saying this because I really like to see other people be open about their tics and experiences with it. i relate to a lot of what benvolio said, and im glad information about tics can spread more! so thank you for sharing your story. Im wishing you the best and all kindness for the future!
He´s such an amazing, smart and sweet kid. Awesome family, I think there´s a promising future waiting for him. Happy that you can show us people with these kind of features, so grateful.
What a precious child! Absolutely adorable and he has a great personality! Anxiety is tough to go through. His mom looks like a very kind caring sweet lady. God bless all of you ❤️
Benvolio, you are a very bright, well spoken young man. You will go very far in life. Sending you much love and respect. ❤️
To your Mom, as well.
I loved how Benvolio described anxiety! Thays exactly how I experience it as well. Thank you for te interview as always much love ❤
This channel is just amazing
i love hearing a kid advocate for himself at such a young age! benvolio, you have such a good manner of speech even at your young age and i can see how much you accept yourself for who you are. and i LOVE seeing a kid see their disability as neutral already so early in life. this early knowledge and self-confidence will take you far!
This kid is so mature and smart for his age! He’s sooo cute, sending him many blessings ❤
Benvolio, you are an amazing young man, so intelligent and kind and well mannered, I have enjoyed your interview a lot. You are amazing and I wish you the very best in your life!
So happy about the TS representation! And it was explained wonderfully as well!
He was so well spoken & well educated about his diagnosises. I have OCD, Anxiety & TD (Tardive Dyskenesia) similar tics like Tourettes & I understand him. He's so brave to do the interview. Good luck in your life, Sweetie! You'll be okay 😊! Just take it one day at a time.
Seems like a great kid and a very supportive mom. All the best to you.
he is so sweet and smart. what a lovely kid!
I just LOVE your channel. These are beautiful people. Benvolio is super smart and well articulated. And charismatic. His Mom is the same. And you are doing a great job as an interviewer ❤ cheers from Kyiv, Ukraine 🇺🇦
What a cool and humble kid. It's always great to see kids have such a cool demeanor when it comes to themselves. A natural confidence, I suppose.
Also, Benvolio is an awesome name.
You’re doing great man. Keep your head up, you this. Day at a time.
What an awesome kid and such a handsome young man!! I think you're pretty much a rock star!! Thank you for doing this interview 😊
wow Benvolio is so well-spoken.....anxiety makes you feel scared and that affects your stomach...He explains anxiety so well...He reminds me of a wise man!! What a precious jewel
From the mouth’s of babes, his feelings on anxiety are inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story! ❤ (subscribed! )
What a long journey into the diagnosis. I admire the commitment to continue pursuing medical help.
This kid is so nice and so kind. Well done