Going my home 고잉마이홈 | Short Film

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 มี.ค. 2022
  • Busan International Short Film Festival : BISFF (2020) - Korean Competition
    Seoul International Pride Film Festival : SIPFF (2019) - Closing Film
    Hong Kong Lesbian and Gay Film Festival : HKLGFF(2020) - Best short film
    #고잉마이홈 #goingmyhome #hiv #lgbt

ความคิดเห็น • 126

  • @dnb8835
    @dnb8835 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    This is the real korea I want to see. Not the uber polished image Kdrama and Kpop want to sell us. Very touching . It's so hard to be gay, but I was fortunate to meet my soon husband and to live a very happy life by his side. He save me and give me a reason to believe un life.

    • @KADUSish
      @KADUSish ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Вы тронули своими несколькими фразами мое сердце. Благодарность вашему любимому!

    • @sarahuseynova5859
      @sarahuseynova5859 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I dont even watch kdramas

    • @kristinaterjanyanc2067
      @kristinaterjanyanc2067 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      скажите пожалуйста названия?

    • @kristinaterjanyanc2067
      @kristinaterjanyanc2067 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@KADUSish спасибо большое

    • @tinapiliouras4103
      @tinapiliouras4103 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      NIce to know you have lowing partner. In this life that is a blessing from the unIverse❤❤

  • @farzanafaiza5913
    @farzanafaiza5913 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    The scene where his father put his hand on his shoulder when he was crying was so strong.❤

  • @hasnat2002
    @hasnat2002 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    This was a very poignant and well made film. Short, but packed in a lot of unshown could be 'befores' and possible 'afters'; wonderful story telling through looks, glances, scenes and pauses. Life can seem, maybe, so unfair, hopeless and pointless sometimes.
    It also made me cry. ❤❤❤❤

  • @leo8383
    @leo8383 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Men in general struggle with the search to find intimacy and love. Sex seemingly helps but its not what's fully needed. You want to be seen, to be wanted, to be valued, to belong, to be needed, to be tressured, to be touched, held, and loved. Thats what you want, and need, and never give up on that. Never stop being open to it. Being gay does not diminish your value. Having HIV does not diminish your value. Coming from a difficult or broken childhood or background does not diminish your value. You are valuable. Nothing will change thst. Please, believe it. ~ Never let anyone tell you that the random conditions you experience in life makes you any less valuable. Even the things that scare you, exist to reveal your beauty. ~

  • @hanaca2010
    @hanaca2010 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    It’s touching. Being gay is a really difficult journey. None of love is going to last long. It’s impossible to make yourself understood, and you suffer everything alone.

    • @ayejay8862
      @ayejay8862 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      True, but it's about perspective too. I'm glad I am gay despite the obstacles. It gave me insight into human nature that many do not get. And a lasting love can happen. I've had one. It was not on the fairy tale level, but it was/is epic.

    • @mharis2197
      @mharis2197 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ayejay8862 👋

    • @fredfonebone5108
      @fredfonebone5108 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’ve been with my husband for 30 years. I’m not alone. Don’t buy into that old homophobic b.s. about gay people always being lonely. It might be tough to meet the right person, but it is not impossible.

  • @samirsigneu3920
    @samirsigneu3920 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Beautiful. Script, direction and sensitive, touching interpretations. Pauses, super filled silences. Necessary themes and subtopics. Inner dramas and conflicts resonate in bodies, in attitudes. I loved!

  • @de-gezel
    @de-gezel ปีที่แล้ว +60

    It’s touching and wonderful to see in reading the reactions how much healing this movie brings 💞

  • @saanmigs
    @saanmigs ปีที่แล้ว +23

    so real so sad but so true aghhh i hope people give more respect and understanding to people living with HIV. Theyre people too like all of us.

  • @riniellechoi7588
    @riniellechoi7588 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This Short film is sad but amazing at the same time.
    Needs more views !!!

  • @user-er1oh4bo2t
    @user-er1oh4bo2t 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    잔잔한 울림을 주는 단편영화네요

  • @anacruz2719
    @anacruz2719 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Just beautiful, strong, specific, sad yet amazing. Thank you for this film.

  • @awoFalase
    @awoFalase ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The wonderful lens to experience this story through. Nicely done.

  • @michaelmagdaleno6604
    @michaelmagdaleno6604 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well acted and extremely impactful.

  • @Brooklynec2
    @Brooklynec2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This short was great. I was crying because the man was sad and lost in this film. the story was a good lesson to learn. Brooklyn ec. April 30,2023

  • @rogerioscorrea3063
    @rogerioscorrea3063 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This dificult journey (just love..) , in this “estigmatized situariam” repeats in the same way around the world. Doesn’t matter the language .. but tomorrow is another day. And the handsome guy (in the picture) has a new message in his phone!!😘

  • @argaarifwangsa4060
    @argaarifwangsa4060 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a beautiful short-movie. Want to watch more like this.

  • @user-jt5nc6cv8b
    @user-jt5nc6cv8b ปีที่แล้ว +8

    잘만들어진 단편이네요 나도 hiv랑 에이즈의 차이를 모른다고 깨달았습니다

  • @dylanpeter1598
    @dylanpeter1598 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    the phenomena was beautifully captured...

  • @ParvaizRaja
    @ParvaizRaja ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This looks so real and so touching. Thanks for sharing. Blessings from Pakistan

  • @florenciadominguez824
    @florenciadominguez824 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    este es el mejor cortometraje que he visto

  • @hereiam2734
    @hereiam2734 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i just want to say that i loved every thing in this .. because there's so many things to say that i might not stop typing once i start

  • @GrotrianSeiler
    @GrotrianSeiler 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That was excellent. So sad. So well done. Wow.

  • @quyluu9257
    @quyluu9257 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Such a beautiful film ❤

  • @dorkeboye
    @dorkeboye หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad I didn’t get the same treatment as him but I have gone through the same emotional journey he has. Great movie and director!!❤

  • @zinatakhi2412
    @zinatakhi2412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No one is your own without your family❤

  • @trixy1823
    @trixy1823 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I gave a friend this perspective… for those of us who struggle in life… it must have been that, before we placed our soul into this physical realm, we asked for the “Spiritual growth no matter how much I suffer” deluxe tour package.
    Constantly battling the self hatred that fear based judgment heaps on the LCTBQ community must be exhausting… even for those with strong support systems that maintains one’s inner strength. To be subjected to such judgements, without support, is pain so intense I want to rise up and protect each and every one of you who suffer such an existence.
    YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOULS ABSOLUTELY DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED BADLY E V E R !!!!
    I would stand between you and anyone. I would fight tooth and nail against anyone cowardly enough to target you. For each and every one of you if I could. Fight them until they understand they have no right to attack anyone. Until they are buried in the shame of considering such abuse against another.

  • @Chelsea-ex3ng
    @Chelsea-ex3ng 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice movie ,so touchy 😢😢 i cried 😭😭

  • @tonyholcombe8193
    @tonyholcombe8193 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent and on-time .

  • @user-fu6uo9px5b
    @user-fu6uo9px5b ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Очень настоящий фильм... Люди, в наши дни, никак не могут понять, что в болезни есть различия... Это всё очень грустно... Спасибо за этот фильм...

  • @phenguinboi5811
    @phenguinboi5811 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    beautiful...!

  • @vicentejouclas2518
    @vicentejouclas2518 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Story spectacularly transported to the cinema. The hero must be going to a support group in the metropolis and life goes on, right?
    Nice relationship with his first family.
    Thanks, STUDIO 7!

  • @hungtran515
    @hungtran515 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A short movie but useful messages. Thanks for your hard working!

  • @rolmaguiland21
    @rolmaguiland21 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    MORE PEOPLE NEED TO C THIS😢😊

  • @janellespangler886
    @janellespangler886 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nicely done.

  • @carlosandre1971
    @carlosandre1971 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Que belo filme!👏🏼

  • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
    @onceforever_on_Twiceland ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It's beautifully done

  • @elliotalderson_
    @elliotalderson_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lindo, um filme que mostra algo real da vida coreana.

  • @genyflores1913
    @genyflores1913 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Protection and education is a must!

  • @Nanda_J_Gaikwad
    @Nanda_J_Gaikwad ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fantastic

  • @danatomlinson3774
    @danatomlinson3774 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    So sad. This really happens more than people understand. The guy should have 100 percent been honest up front and told him the situation about being on meds and undetectable. But the other guy also should not have talked to him that way. I myself would have been just as pissed off and probably cursed him out, maybe been so mad and hit him even, told him to leave, but I would hot have called him those names and said that, there are people that are born infected and people who also transmit it as careful as they may be.

    • @omnip3469
      @omnip3469 ปีที่แล้ว

      If he's on medication you know you cannot get HIV at all. So he doesn't have to disclose it in anyway

  • @Brooklynec2
    @Brooklynec2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love this love. thanks April 30,2023 Brooklyn ec

  • @emenbrayan3078
    @emenbrayan3078 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice movie 😢❤😊

  • @salimkurniawan319
    @salimkurniawan319 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is a short film but very good

  • @taemyway
    @taemyway 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful film. It’s sad that the stigma around HIV still is prevalent today.

  • @sabrimelian8532
    @sabrimelian8532 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Esta si que es una dura realidad😭

  • @blessmeachoomarkmadcity9586
    @blessmeachoomarkmadcity9586 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was too ignorant (or just couldn’t be bothered) before but because of this short movie, I found out the difference between AIDS and HIV.
    Who was the person who texted him in the end? I didn’t catch it.

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was pointed out in another comment that the text message contained the word "oppa", which is a word used by females to address an older male.
      So it was the girl who texted him. 😊

  • @record.retake.repeat7922
    @record.retake.repeat7922 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This short film mirrors how ignorant people are in some parts of the world despits of overwhelming information about Hiv.

  • @v7kok
    @v7kok หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ for more stories like this please

  • @mucrudi
    @mucrudi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    👌👌👌

  • @oliverbyumang
    @oliverbyumang ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If only gay men accept for who they are it can be an easy world for them. I accepted myself at an early age.

    • @nikkotinz
      @nikkotinz ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's not that easy if your parents typical conservative asian parents...
      You suffer with your conditions a lot (but nobody knows & nobody cares) 😩😩

  • @dclassof84
    @dclassof84 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    😢😢😢Mannnnn the Dad was what got me!!!! And the ending, was that his hook up from the night before?😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I also am confused about who texted him at the end.

    • @dclassof84
      @dclassof84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pheelyp I am hoping it was his hookup

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@dclassof84 It was pointed out in another comment that the text message contained the word "oppa", which is a word used by females to address an older male.
      So it was the girl who texted him. 😊

    • @dclassof84
      @dclassof84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pheelyp awww man

    • @CosmosPeony
      @CosmosPeony ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was the woman, I can read Korean, the contact name was spelled "eun-ji".

  • @rend9760
    @rend9760 ปีที่แล้ว +6

  • @user-ff8fp8zp6z
    @user-ff8fp8zp6z หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤From the PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @jhorbedia3588
    @jhorbedia3588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    me encanto

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cool.

    • @LMays-cu2hp
      @LMays-cu2hp ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The actors in this movie were really nice. Thank ypu for sharing this great movie!!!!

  • @user-bn9vd8rr6z
    @user-bn9vd8rr6z หลายเดือนก่อน

    Так что берегите себя,партнеров.

  • @Y3U.55LE
    @Y3U.55LE ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Esto es cine🚬

  • @ZahrianyAz
    @ZahrianyAz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Akhirnya jumpa juga film@, sudah lama aku cari film ini tapi tak tau judul dan tak tau film berasal dari mana, aku hanya melihat cuplikan saja

  • @ClaireMunich
    @ClaireMunich 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    16:45 and I stop watching to read the comments. I know where this is going and I just can't do this right now. Too personal and too painful, will come back to this at some other time.

  • @ichi_san
    @ichi_san 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was heartbreaking.

  • @Izabellamenins
    @Izabellamenins ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Gay Nice film 🎥 from korea 🇰🇷 I m surprised after I watched this 😢 make me cry 😢

  • @kaybunny7836
    @kaybunny7836 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    was it the guy who texted him at the end?

  • @infinity9781
    @infinity9781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But i still like happy endings... Life is hard for different people in different ways

  • @freedomhello9946
    @freedomhello9946 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    덜 외로웠으면 좋겠다.

  • @kameemyeu8623
    @kameemyeu8623 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who messaged him at the end of the film?

  • @spring488
    @spring488 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Feeling bad for him.. How much frustrated and lonely he must have😢

  • @tar7
    @tar7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    cryin' 20:41 😢

  • @ayejay8862
    @ayejay8862 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Powerful! But I'm not sure who texted him at the end. The woman or the guy...? He met them on the same night, I think. It makes a difference.

    • @charles-zw6kn
      @charles-zw6kn ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was the young lady. In the text, she addresses it to him (as "older brother", but it's a catch phrase that could include a man you are going out with or an upper classman in school from the point of view of a girl). I wish the translation of the dialogue could have been a bit fuller.

    • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
      @onceforever_on_Twiceland ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There's a word oppa .....so its a girl who messaged

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@onceforever_on_Twiceland Thank you for pointing out that "oppa" is used by girls and "hyeung" is used for guys. 😊

    • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
      @onceforever_on_Twiceland ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Pheelyp hmm but it's kindaa sad 😢 if the message from boy it would be concluded as happy end but it's not for him

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onceforever_on_Twiceland Ah but prejudice isn't erased in a single encounter.

  • @yanibarra8193
    @yanibarra8193 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    they stay together or not?

  • @kainguru1
    @kainguru1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate to this, especially the family, almost exactly... except i can only sympathize with the HIV part, though lots has improved even in the last 2 years since this was made with treatment of this disease, I wouldn't hesitate to date someone HIV positive.

  • @quachbaoan7883
    @quachbaoan7883 ปีที่แล้ว +5

  • @katiasantos3231
    @katiasantos3231 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Infelizmente isso não é só Coreia, é geral 😢. O preconceito é o grande ainda no século 21. 😢

  • @user-ek3wg4xf6m
    @user-ek3wg4xf6m 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    人们必须处理的令人震惊的事件

  • @videniv8623
    @videniv8623 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    22:30 🥹🥹🥹

  • @kyliealvey7878
    @kyliealvey7878 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did the man have HIV? It's good that they talked about showering and condoms, but I think when it comes to HIV you've got to be open with sexual partners

  • @aliveyyy9931
    @aliveyyy9931 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Там конце ему тот парень написал да? Я не поняла

  • @jokoanwar1513
    @jokoanwar1513 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who sent him text ? Is it the girl?

  • @cecepsupriyadi1966
    @cecepsupriyadi1966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subetle Indonesia please 🙏🙏🙏

    • @mugnisopo4427
      @mugnisopo4427 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Udah ada itu kak

  • @user-hw1hp9yn9c
    @user-hw1hp9yn9c 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    어머니 맛있어 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alejandrocruzaguilarcarril2044
    @alejandrocruzaguilarcarril2044 ปีที่แล้ว

    Todavía ay gente que no se informa sobre este temas bien creo que hartos de.hablar deberían de informase bien para no ofender a la persona

  • @marcchesley3731
    @marcchesley3731 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this didn't end well I was expecting a little more a little disappointed

  • @tar7
    @tar7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    22:30 auhh :((

  • @MariaSantos-st4xw
    @MariaSantos-st4xw ปีที่แล้ว

    6y2

  • @cineziotrindade8421
    @cineziotrindade8421 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sem legenda dublada. Só inglês. Não é legal.

  • @jrc120412
    @jrc120412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2