Glad to see an episode like this. I too went through a divorce with a baby who hadn’t reached one years old. Credit was low, had 6-figure debt and was struggling. Now my daughter is older, credit score is 824, paid off 6-figure debt, building wealth and am thriving. I’m so very grateful to God.🙏🏾❤️
The only problem that I have with what she is saying is she speaks faith out of one side of her mouth but the complete opposite when it came to relationships and marriage.
I am listening while in the office and literally almost shouted when Patrice said, "peace & purpose over appearances." In this 40th yr of my life, well last yr at 39, my plan was peace, turning my purpose into profit and genuine happiness going into these 40s!!!
My sister is stuck on the "appearance" of being happily married but her husband is only with her because he was broke & homeless and she was stupid enough to marry him desperate to show people she is married smh 🤦🏽♀️his ex wife of over 20 years gets a huge sum of his money from their divorce and he has told my sister he still loves his ex and wants to be with the ex... Smh I don't understand folks trying to appear to have what they don't to satisfy others🙄
I've spent the past two days in an intensive that Patrice hosted. Her message was a godsend for 'this' time of my life. I look up this a.m. and she's on AO's podcast, I'm tuning in.
Patrice is the truth 💯. Went to HS with her. She's always been kind. I actually took a few of her courses years ago like 10 years ago great information.
Mannnnnn when she didn't answer your question.......😂😂😂 I laughed so hard Then when Patrice said "good for him"😂 I'm definitely re watching this show, the whole interview is a gem 💎
Whew!!! I am recently divorced and listening to Patrice it is crazy how our lives are so similar. I had been with ex husband from late teens/early twenties and we were best friends and then in a relationship and married for almost 14yrs before he decided he wanted to leave; he left at a time when I finally stepped out on faith and started pursuing and walking in purpose. Although I am not at your level of success yet...everything you have said I can relate to! Thank you so much for sharing! Your glow is beautiful and I have always appreciated your authenticity and you are an inspiration for this new season I find myself in! And yes, I am 5 10" and 6 2' 6 3' is definitely my sweet spot!
I’m a little disheartened to hear that she’s now happily divorced. I’m starting to wonder why is it that when black women become quote unquote “successful” their marriages fail? I don’t know all the details but aside from abuse and adultery where are we finding it biblical to divorce? Why can’t we find a way to make marriage work as hard as we work to build a business? Why is building a successful sustainable marriage and family not as important as building a platform? Why is it that black women succumb to their ego at the demise of their marriage? I’m finding that a lot of black women LOVE to use God but deep down all along God is no where in it. God hates pride. The Bible says pride comes before a fall. God humbles the proud. I even understand being married and young but shouldn’t the goal be to grow together versus grow apart. I believe “success”is misleading and deceiving. Money alone does not equate true success. It’s the LOVE of money 💰 that seems to become the primary goal. Material things does not mean God has blessed us. It’s but for His grace and mercy that we even live and breathe. I wish you would have more successful black couples, not single black women singing I’m black. I’m divorced. I’m now single and I’m proud. Whether we need a man or not, it reeks of it’s ALL about me now and it’s ok to neglect my home. The Bible says “A wise woman builds her home. A foolish one tears hers down with her own hands. If black women are getting divorced and only dating and sleeping around, that’s not a come up. That’s not leveling up. It’s leveling down. Some of us are too old (in our 40’s and 50’s) to be reverting back to old ways. That’s not progression. That’s regression. It’s a dangerous and damaging message to the young women coming behind us.
I agree with you, but also if you marry the "wrong" partner, it will never work. I was married to a man who was intimated by my success and abused me financiall. He refused to work, support me or celebrate me. Instead he lived off me, tore me down and mentally abused me, making me feel obligated to hand over my money . I had very big dreams and he called me a dreamer who lived in fantasy land, yet refused to pay bills in 5 years and was cheating every where. HE WAS A HINDRANCE TO MY MIND AND SPIRIT.
I watched the first podcast a few weeks ago and was smiling. I've known Patrice before she was married & she is my fellow Usc alumni...I miss her, love her and look forward to hugging her. I know her daughter who I held as a baby, etc is now in high school 😳. Anthony my new friend (in my mind) I just enjoy your podcast. I'm excited about Israel 🧳✈️. Great show again 💃🤸👍
Finally! Another woman who feels the same way I do about a man being taller than me when I'm wearing heels! 😆 In all seriousness, this was a great conversation!
I understand that she did what she had to do for herself. Her relationship is her relationship. Not everyone’s relationship is the same. The vows was for Better or Worse, not just Better. If that man is not beating you up, focus on you and your family. Just because she decided to get divorced doesn’t mean you have to get divorced too or it’s ok to leave your marriage too. Pray and God will lead you. In every relationship we go through ups and downs. I don’t believe God tells anyone to get divorced except for the reasons he says in the Bible. She hasn’t said WHY she decided to get a divorce. I work in the family law industry. Divorce is not always the answer. She may be well in public. We don’t know how she is in private. Remember, Money isn’t everything. She doesn’t have a husband anymore. So, she can put her ALL into her business and make the money and grow her business. She says she is wife material. Yet, soon afterwards she says she feels it’s fine to live like Oprah and Steadman. First off, no one really knows if Oprah and Steadman are not married. They could have done like Janet Jackson and be married in secret so the public can stay out of their business. So, she sounds good if you don’t really “hear” her. But, it seems she is not fully whole yet. She is speaking from a hurtful experience. She’s not healed at all. Anthony doesn’t even seem comfortable speaking to her about relationships.
Most women don't NEED a man, but a lot of us definitely WANT a man. We want the man to lead. We don't mind being submissive. We want a man that handles his business, that's confident, and knows his purpose. And for me personally, give me a man who follows God, because then I'll know he'll lead us in the right direction. Great Episode!
Not all men can lead according to how they've been raised. Men or women should not be put in a box. When you find one and are happy with each other, grow together.
"Most women don't NEED a man,but a lot of us definitely WANT a man". This mindset is a set up for self sabotage,cuz it is founded on lies and self denial. This is a pertinent question you should ask your own self. When you as a female refers to your SELF, what gender do you think the source of your female projection is based upon? The female nature was given the host of the primary agency of power in nature and equipped with the strategy of hypergamy to do what in and for nature(self).
I truly adore her she is hilarious, I cannot be mad at her attract what you desire. I am hoping to also attract some taller men into my life 5'8 and optimistic.
I was so shocked to see was divorced but she continues to live the pillars. I love Patrice and I'm glad she's thriving. Y'all are two of the best! Great episode.
She lost me with the height requirement. Women who hve a height requiremnt do themselves a disservice bcus our manhood is not defined by our height. AO u should hve asked her how has that height thing worked out for her. She cnt talk abt her peace and will only date guys 6' and higher?
I used to be one of those women that said "I don't need no man". But as I am older now I realized it is this need in me to protect my feelings and feel self sufficient. The societal pressures of "you can't survive without no man" and my pride... I wanted to prove them wrong. It is more about pride than anything. The fear of vulnerability. The word "need" implying almost like breathing... rocks the boat for a lot of women who have been through some stuff. Have compassion it is fear fear fear
I'm with Patrice, I'm 5'11 and you better be taller than me. I need to be able to wear my heels. Enjoy this podcast. Checking into the life insurance, that you advertise Anthony
I really love your channel. I am so glad that this Channel was on my timeline. Great video with lots of value that I truly resonate with. Thank you Anthony for creating this space for yourself and thank you for making this space available for people like myself that enjoy's your content.
I was living under a marriage title and lost in myself trying to hold on to a dying marriage I was unhappy in. I was tired of holding up appearances of happiness when behind closed doors. I was unhappy. Since divorcing, I have actually found myself again and am living more purposeful.
Thank you O'Neal for bringing the right woman with wisdom on your show,this is one of the best show,you have hosted this year keep it up.and thank you for always helping us with the right information we need.
I’m so happy to hear that Patrice is going well. I remember her story and have been following for for years. I love that ❤ she’s still grinding living out her pillars and being real about where she is right now. I remember feeling the same after my divorce saying the same thing she’s saying even years afterwards but it’s been 10 years now and I’d love to get remarried and do life with that one person to love and serve aligned with God’s word. God has a way of changing our hearts along the way. Keep going Patrice much love for you on the journey and praying 🙏🏽 for your success
I love you Anthony, but your focus on the "booty" is hurting you 🤣. I see this occurring where guys have a "type" for looks and zoom in on that of course and then when the real standards they want comes into play the person doesn't meet them. So then it's back to drawing board. Then with some men and also women it becomes well there are no good women/guys out there. Yes there are it's just that some people are hyperfocused on looks first. And seems like Patrice is finding her way in dating scene so if she wants to have height preferences then whatever. I'm sure she will see that is not everything either.
Wait, she ain't married no more? Ngl we got a problem with relationships in our community. I can bet she initiated the divorce. There appears to be absolutely no model of a proper lasting relationship and family in our community, the single mother epidemic is outta control, from the hood to the well educated. Unfortunately the church isn't even exempt from this. Recently saw Marriage and the marketplace by Sarah Jakes, and realized everyone speaking was already on their second marriage, if it even remains that way. It's good to listen to these folks about other stuff, but definitely not about relationships or family 😒.
This is the same women, who was speaking about why she left her husband, for doing nothing wrong ( her words) amd destroyed her daughter's family unit. She is selfish God takes away, that which we mismanage. She has proven that her loyalty and comittment to another, depends on how she feels. She put herself, before her own child
I’m going through a divorce and it’s painful. But I’ve learned a lot and I’m still learning. The scales have fallen off of my eyes. I’m reading the comments and a lot of people are rejoicing over this interview. This isn’t good. I feel bad for her husband based on what she said in another interview. She went up and didn’t and I wouldn’t be surprised if she started looking down at him. She a modern woman with unrealistic expectations. I’m curious to see how her conversation changes when stuff hits the fan and our economy has gone downhill.
I loved this episode and I can totally relate with what Patrice in her season . Vision is key, peace is so important in a relationship, financial management is a must. I have and read Patrice book years ago and this week I am going to find the book because I am going to need her advice in my season at this time. Transition time is here. Thanks again AO !
I was loving it all until the tip part....PLEASE STOP TRYING TO FORCE PEOPLE TO COMPENSATE FOR WHAT A PERSON'S EMPLOYER IS NOT DOING!!!!!! I TOO HAVE WORKED IT THE SERVICE INDUSTRY AND I HAVE BEEN IN THE MILITARY AND NEVER HAVE I FELT LIKE IT WAS THE CUSTOMERS' JOB TO PAY MY RENT NOR DO I GET UPSET IF THAT RESTAURANT CHOOSES NOT TO GIVE ME A MILITARY DISCOUNT.
I highly relate to her and had to make a major life transition myself due to choosing peace and purpose over appearances. I am 100% sure i’ve made the right decision and will be talking about this on my TH-cam soon.
Please be careful when you infer that God is telling people to leave their marriages. God has outlined in his word, the conditions for divorce. If those conditions are not present, then God has not told anyone anything. The will of God for lives is contained within the bible.
I’m In Love With This Woman !!! She has helped me understand who I am and where I may have fallen short of my soon to be ex-wife and more importantly MYSELF. THANK YOU MY QUEEN 👸🏾 😘
Oh no. Just hearing she's divorced 😢 I remember how she talked about her husband being supportive when she didn't even love herself. What happened though?☹️❤️🩹
Curious too. Hoping money and success didn’t drown out God’s purpose for marriage. I believe some women can make the hustle the priority and their marriage and home fall by the wayside.
@4656superman yes she foes . Sounds like she got richer then her husband a couple left . That's selfish. You arrived and left him . He grew you and you left .
Fire episode!!! 🔥 ❤I definitely got some takeaways from this episode on how to embrace loving yourself and become better in this Season which I'm currently working on.
Facts Patrice! I love how you phrased it “…I can date him, but can he date me”. I struggle with the same things you’ve mentioned after my divorce and started to focus on my career and financial growth. Bring “peace and purpose over appearances” to the relationship !!
I love this and Patrica! There is so much here. Thank you so much for your alignment with Self, Queen!! I caught all of that and I can relate. 🙏🙏🙏 Blessings to you!
I LOVE Patrice! Those 6 Pillars are everything. And I feel her about the height preference. Um, I’m 5’10 barefoot as well. Dude has to be 6’3 minimum. Lol I need someone who can see over the steering wheel AND whose shirts/sweaters fit me like an oversized mini dress. Folks just don’t understand.
100%. They Say that until it happens.👏🏾👏🏾 Unfortunately, my experience dating men that aren't clear in there purpose and secure in there own finances/business.
Anthony so real “ she had the booty”. …. I’m calling your mama. Lol. 😂 Patrice is so great! So inspiring to all black women. She is so confident is contagious. Amazing human being. She is not all about money. I hope God bless her with an incredible husband. … Great show
I think that Patrice wanting someone a few inches taller than her isn’t a high expectation at all as long as it is not something abstronomicaI.kind of think it’s unfair for Anthony to say he wants the booty if he’s using the argument that you can miss out on someone great for having that preference🤷🏽♀️ 33:52
I love Patrice I've been listening to her book on audible along with the Budgetnista both of these amazing women have helped me understand wealth and my relationship with money
Patrice youre my new role model 🙌🏼 beautiful inside and out and I get the feeling you bring that optimism and resilience where ever you go👌🏼💗 I need to surround myself with people like you I gotta say it... You two would be a powerful force together! Seems like you are well suited and neither would out shine the other; both driven and secure, got your own things that do alot of good, I cant imagine the impact could be... Just sayin If theres a small height difference but only when a womans got heels on, it was only something that I thought of briefly/in the first few months into the relationship but never beyond the thought crossing my mind even at the beginning. Photos didnt look bad, didnt look obvious or stick out, and it didn't bug (my) Anthony cause he loved when I wore heels... Without heels I was shorter than him, I just love me my tall Louboutins. atleast in my experience far as our height difference went
I was so blessed by your first interview with Patrice. I believe she was still married at the time and shared her story about her financial journey before starting her podcast. I also enjoyed this interview and seeing that she is still on her personal growth journey. Thank you for another awesome interview.
This is the same woman that was in another interview talking about her ex-husband didn't do anything wrong. She literally said he had the intent to love her but not the capacity. She was basically looking for a fairy tale marriage and looks like she's still looking. This woman is crazy and delusional. She ran to the streets and realized they don't want her.
I want to see a woman that has built success in the midst of marriage and kept their commitment to it and the person they committed to. No shade to her and the decision she feels she had to make, but it seems to be so predictable now where women who are building and reach a certain "celebrity " (because if we're being honest, it's not just the wealth) that they'll be divorced in their 40s
Sis, is the truth! I'd love to follow her on her platforms. Thank you for sharing all your truths and all that we can relate to, grow into, and or be relatable to/for others. 💜
YES, every person you meet isnt for a view of marriage. Some are just meant to add to your male friends. It is healthy to have a balance of male and female friendships.
As listen to Patrice, I feel like she is telling my story!! Stayed in a 19 to 20 year marriage since the age of 21 to now (I'm 42) Still waiting for the divorce to wrap up since he is not giving anything to his children financially. God is showing me creative ways to make an income. I'm going through the process still and have started my own podcast as well. My peace is more important than appearances. God has promised me restoration, and I am thankful!!
I am divorced right now, but I stayed for way too long, because I believed that my son needed both parents happily together. But, now we are both better parents living apart
Is there a possibility that your perspective was wrong? Happiness is fleeting. Marriage was never about happiness. Happiness in Marriage is a new concept.
You keep on bringing thought provoking speakers. Brilliant show we just had. Good job Anthony✅✅✅I had to watch this twice.She keeps it real and still remains grounded. That’s beautiful. ❤️❤️❤️
Did you say a Mil saved/invested on a $50k salary??? Where is he living? He only takes home $30-40k after taxes. I'm not saying it can't happen, but......
Thank you for finally leaving that teacher topic alone. I was so over it. Lol. I DM because I was seriously bothered. Love this episode. Love how Patrice walks in her boldness. She is AMAZING!!!
I’m probably gonna get in trouble for saying this and I don’t have anything to gain or lose so hear goes: What I just heard was someone saying that they got better than their husband and justifying it by using the word of God. It also sounds like she couldn’t SUBMIT to her husband anymore and used her financial gain to justify it.
I found Patrice when I was looking for examples of successful divorced, thriving black women, who are desiring the companion God has for them. I’m so empowered by today’s topic and conversation that I’m hitting the ground running. Patrice thank you…. I’m right behind you … moving into that thriving and arriving position…letting God remove things from me and my life that are unnecessary…. In order to bring me into my next and welcome that financially fit, willing to love and work on himself and more man that is made for me.
I heard everything you all said and love this! However, I feel her DESIRE to have a tall guy! I was married to height challenged man and was married for 18yrs and he had height challenged issues
Glad to see an episode like this. I too went through a divorce with a baby who hadn’t reached one years old. Credit was low, had 6-figure debt and was struggling. Now my daughter is older, credit score is 824, paid off 6-figure debt, building wealth and am thriving. I’m so very grateful to God.🙏🏾❤️
If u don't mind me asking, what did you do to change your situation?
@@sherealldavis7189 I started off by cutting a lot of unnecessary expenses then focused on paying off debt and rebuilding my emergency fund.
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@@MomsMoneyMindset congrats!
@@fashionwithoutlabels thank you 🙏🏾
Fam, I’m 11 minutes in and had to start over. Sis is giving a master class. 💪🏽🙏🏽😳✍🏽
Love this!!
Amen!!!
Yes!
Yes!!!
The only problem that I have with what she is saying is she speaks faith out of one side of her mouth but the complete opposite when it came to relationships and marriage.
You really do need a 2 hour show with her. This was so good to my soul. Patrice is the authentic friend that every woman needs. She's the real deal.
I am listening while in the office and literally almost shouted when Patrice said, "peace & purpose over appearances." In this 40th yr of my life, well last yr at 39, my plan was peace, turning my purpose into profit and genuine happiness going into these 40s!!!
My sister is stuck on the "appearance" of being happily married but her husband is only with her because he was broke & homeless and she was stupid enough to marry him desperate to show people she is married smh 🤦🏽♀️his ex wife of over 20 years gets a huge sum of his money from their divorce and he has told my sister he still loves his ex and wants to be with the ex... Smh I don't understand folks trying to appear to have what they don't to satisfy others🙄
Wow
Why are you telling the world? You're dishonoring your sister. Publicly. Stop gossipping.
I've spent the past two days in an intensive that Patrice hosted. Her message was a godsend for 'this' time of my life. I look up this a.m. and she's on AO's podcast, I'm tuning in.
Love this, perfect timing!
Patrice is the truth 💯. Went to HS with her. She's always been kind. I actually took a few of her courses years ago like 10 years ago great information.
Mannnnnn when she didn't answer your question.......😂😂😂 I laughed so hard
Then when Patrice said "good for him"😂
I'm definitely re watching this show, the whole interview is a gem 💎
Whew!!! I am recently divorced and listening to Patrice it is crazy how our lives are so similar. I had been with ex husband from late teens/early twenties and we were best friends and then in a relationship and married for almost 14yrs before he decided he wanted to leave; he left at a time when I finally stepped out on faith and started pursuing and walking in purpose. Although I am not at your level of success yet...everything you have said I can relate to! Thank you so much for sharing! Your glow is beautiful and I have always appreciated your authenticity and you are an inspiration for this new season I find myself in! And yes, I am 5 10" and 6 2' 6 3' is definitely my sweet spot!
I like her. She’s down to earth, honest, beautiful, transparent and intelligent! I just subscribed to her TH-cam!
Love this!
Peace is most valuable! Once you know that, you’ll NEVER desire to have that disturbed!
Come on AO ....another Tia Mowry who " graduated" from her husband😅😅😅
Soul awareness, peace and purpose over appearances,,, great.
Yes life is always speaking to us
This woman right here.... This is the kind of energy that you need on this show all the time.. Great interview!! 🔥
I’m a little disheartened to hear that she’s now happily divorced.
I’m starting to wonder why is it that when black women become quote unquote “successful” their marriages fail? I don’t know all the details but aside from abuse and adultery where are we finding it biblical to divorce? Why can’t we find a way to make marriage work as hard as we work to build a business? Why is building a successful sustainable marriage and family not as important as building a platform?
Why is it that black women succumb to their ego at the demise of their marriage?
I’m finding that a lot of black women LOVE to use God but deep down all along God is no where in it.
God hates pride. The Bible says pride comes before a fall. God humbles the proud.
I even understand being married and young but shouldn’t the goal be to grow together versus grow apart.
I believe “success”is misleading and deceiving. Money alone does not equate true success.
It’s the LOVE of money 💰 that seems to become the primary goal. Material things does not mean God has blessed us. It’s but for His grace and mercy that we even live and breathe.
I wish you would have more successful black couples, not single black women singing I’m black. I’m divorced. I’m now single and I’m proud. Whether we need a man or not, it reeks of it’s ALL about me now and it’s ok to neglect my home.
The Bible says “A wise woman builds her home. A foolish one tears hers down with her own hands.
If black women are getting divorced and only dating and sleeping around, that’s not a come up. That’s not leveling up. It’s leveling down. Some of us are too old (in our 40’s and 50’s) to be reverting back to old ways. That’s not progression. That’s regression.
It’s a dangerous and damaging message to the young women coming behind us.
I agree with you, but also if you marry the "wrong" partner, it will never work. I was married to a man who was intimated by my success and abused me financiall. He refused to work, support me or celebrate me. Instead he lived off me, tore me down and mentally abused me, making me feel obligated to hand over my money . I had very big dreams and he called me a dreamer who lived in fantasy land, yet refused to pay bills in 5 years and was cheating every where. HE WAS A HINDRANCE TO MY MIND AND SPIRIT.
That why God said we should be certain before you marry , marriage is for life except their violence or infidelity
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I love listening to Patrice speak. Always dropping gems. Wishing her the best on this new chapter 🙏🏾
There's always someone watching you with the power to bless you...c'mon now....how are you showing up 😮
I watched the first podcast a few weeks ago and was smiling. I've known Patrice before she was married & she is my fellow Usc alumni...I miss her, love her and look forward to hugging her. I know her daughter who I held as a baby, etc is now in high school 😳. Anthony my new friend (in my mind) I just enjoy your podcast. I'm excited about Israel 🧳✈️. Great show again 💃🤸👍
Finally! Another woman who feels the same way I do about a man being taller than me when I'm wearing heels! 😆 In all seriousness, this was a great conversation!
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
@@Rashaadthegr8 The reason most women aren't married is because only about 15% of men marry--most prefer to impregnate anything that moves.
There are really great men that are under 6 ft! Women are really missing out by passing over men that aren't over a certain height. It's so sad!
I understand that she did what she had to do for herself. Her relationship is her relationship. Not everyone’s relationship is the same. The vows was for Better or Worse, not just Better. If that man is not beating you up, focus on you and your family. Just because she decided to get divorced doesn’t mean you have to get divorced too or it’s ok to leave your marriage too. Pray and God will lead you. In every relationship we go through ups and downs. I don’t believe God tells anyone to get divorced except for the reasons he says in the Bible. She hasn’t said WHY she decided to get a divorce. I work in the family law industry. Divorce is not always the answer. She may be well in public. We don’t know how she is in private. Remember, Money isn’t everything. She doesn’t have a husband anymore. So, she can put her ALL into her business and make the money and grow her business. She says she is wife material. Yet, soon afterwards she says she feels it’s fine to live like Oprah and Steadman. First off, no one really knows if Oprah and Steadman are not married. They could have done like Janet Jackson and be married in secret so the public can stay out of their business. So, she sounds good if you don’t really “hear” her. But, it seems she is not fully whole yet. She is speaking from a hurtful experience. She’s not healed at all. Anthony doesn’t even seem comfortable speaking to her about relationships.
Most women don't NEED a man, but a lot of us definitely WANT a man.
We want the man to lead.
We don't mind being submissive.
We want a man that handles his business, that's confident, and knows his purpose.
And for me personally, give me a man who follows God, because then I'll know he'll lead us in the right direction.
Great Episode!
Not all men can lead according to how they've been raised. Men or women should not be put in a box. When you find one and are happy with each other, grow together.
"Most women don't NEED a man,but a lot of us definitely WANT a man".
This mindset is a set up for self sabotage,cuz it is founded on lies and self denial.
This is a pertinent question you should ask your own self.
When you as a female refers to your SELF, what gender do you think the source of your female projection is based upon?
The female nature was given the host of the primary agency of power in nature and equipped with the strategy of hypergamy to do what in and for nature(self).
I truly adore her she is hilarious, I cannot be mad at her attract what you desire. I am hoping to also attract some taller men into my life 5'8 and optimistic.
I was so shocked to see was divorced but she continues to live the pillars. I love Patrice and I'm glad she's thriving. Y'all are two of the best! Great episode.
37.40 , 40.40 this is the part that ppl fail at miserably ! My existence should not make U feel less than !
Watching from Cameroon and you’ve blessed me so much this year just from watching your talks, I’m glad I found this show🙌🏽
She lost me with the height requirement. Women who hve a height requiremnt do themselves a disservice bcus our manhood is not defined by our height. AO u should hve asked her how has that height thing worked out for her. She cnt talk abt her peace and will only date guys 6' and higher?
How tall are you 😂
@@theherbrand Tall enough to know I dnt define my manhood by my height.......lol😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Why aren't you questioning Anthony's height and body requirement? He's still single too.
I used to be one of those women that said "I don't need no man". But as I am older now I realized it is this need in me to protect my feelings and feel self sufficient. The societal pressures of "you can't survive without no man" and my pride... I wanted to prove them wrong. It is more about pride than anything. The fear of vulnerability. The word "need" implying almost like breathing... rocks the boat for a lot of women who have been through some stuff. Have compassion it is fear fear fear
I'm with Patrice, I'm 5'11 and you better be taller than me. I need to be able to wear my heels. Enjoy this podcast. Checking into the life insurance, that you advertise Anthony
I really love your channel. I am so glad that this Channel was on my timeline. Great video with lots of value that I truly resonate with. Thank you Anthony for creating this space for yourself and thank you for making this space available for people like myself that enjoy's your content.
I'm so glad you are finding value here!
Can we please stop trying to get black women to lower their standards?
I was living under a marriage title and lost in myself trying to hold on to a dying marriage I was unhappy in. I was tired of holding up appearances of happiness when behind closed doors. I was unhappy. Since divorcing, I have actually found myself again and am living more purposeful.
Amen. Same ❤
Space is my problem currently! I have been getting rid things and the more I elevate, the more I find to get rid of.
Love the accountability!
I'm with you girl any man shorter than me is considered my nephew 😂
Patrice was sooooo point on!!!! I relate so much to her and what she is experiencing!
We can learn by our experiences, other people's experiences, reading and listening to other people
Thank you O'Neal for bringing the right woman with wisdom on your show,this is one of the best show,you have hosted this year keep it up.and thank you for always helping us with the right information we need.
I’m so happy to hear that Patrice is going well. I remember her story and have been following for for years. I love that ❤ she’s still grinding living out her pillars and being real about where she is right now. I remember feeling the same after my divorce saying the same thing she’s saying even years afterwards but it’s been 10 years now and I’d love to get remarried and do life with that one person to love and serve aligned with God’s word. God has a way of changing our hearts along the way. Keep going Patrice much love for you on the journey and praying 🙏🏽 for your success
I love you Anthony, but your focus on the "booty" is hurting you 🤣. I see this occurring where guys have a "type" for looks and zoom in on that of course and then when the real standards they want comes into play the person doesn't meet them. So then it's back to drawing board. Then with some men and also women it becomes well there are no good women/guys out there. Yes there are it's just that some people are hyperfocused on looks first. And seems like Patrice is finding her way in dating scene so if she wants to have height preferences then whatever. I'm sure she will see that is not everything either.
Can we talk about how beautiful she is? My girl is GLOWINGGG💓. That kind of glow comes from a beautiful spirit💓.
I bet her ex husband dosent think so...he was a great supportive husband before her book success...
Wow 'our souls are exhausted from lying to ourselves'. Whew just getting started and Patrice is calling me OUT!!
I wholeheartedly love this women!!! Thankful to call her my coach! Needed that reminder today
Wait, she ain't married no more? Ngl we got a problem with relationships in our community. I can bet she initiated the divorce. There appears to be absolutely no model of a proper lasting relationship and family in our community, the single mother epidemic is outta control, from the hood to the well educated. Unfortunately the church isn't even exempt from this. Recently saw Marriage and the marketplace by Sarah Jakes, and realized everyone speaking was already on their second marriage, if it even remains that way. It's good to listen to these folks about other stuff, but definitely not about relationships or family 😒.
This is the same women, who was speaking about why she left her husband, for doing nothing wrong ( her words) amd destroyed her daughter's family unit.
She is selfish
God takes away, that which we mismanage.
She has proven that her loyalty and comittment to another, depends on how she feels.
She put herself, before her own child
I’m going through a divorce and it’s painful. But I’ve learned a lot and I’m still learning. The scales have fallen off of my eyes. I’m reading the comments and a lot of people are rejoicing over this interview. This isn’t good. I feel bad for her husband based on what she said in another interview. She went up and didn’t and I wouldn’t be surprised if she started looking down at him. She a modern woman with unrealistic expectations. I’m curious to see how her conversation changes when stuff hits the fan and our economy has gone downhill.
I loved this episode and I can totally relate with what Patrice in her season . Vision is key, peace is so important in a relationship, financial management is a must. I have and read Patrice book years ago and this week I am going to find the book because I am going to need her advice in my season at this time. Transition time is here. Thanks again AO !
Powerful! This entire episode spoke magnitudes to me!!!! I so needed this!!
I was loving it all until the tip part....PLEASE STOP TRYING TO FORCE PEOPLE TO COMPENSATE FOR WHAT A PERSON'S EMPLOYER IS NOT DOING!!!!!! I TOO HAVE WORKED IT THE SERVICE INDUSTRY AND I HAVE BEEN IN THE MILITARY AND NEVER HAVE I FELT LIKE IT WAS THE CUSTOMERS' JOB TO PAY MY RENT NOR DO I GET UPSET IF THAT RESTAURANT CHOOSES NOT TO GIVE ME A MILITARY DISCOUNT.
I highly relate to her and had to make a major life transition myself due to choosing peace and purpose over appearances. I am 100% sure i’ve made the right decision and will be talking about this on my TH-cam soon.
I like her, a lot ❤. she looks, sounds, and smells so free. It’s very empowering to look at.
Please be careful when you infer that God is telling people to leave their marriages. God has outlined in his word, the conditions for divorce. If those conditions are not present, then God has not told anyone anything. The will of God for lives is contained within the bible.
I have no words…Patrice Washington is an absolute God-send! So are you AO! Another awesome production of a discussion!❤🎉🙌🏽
So you want a triple B?
Remember that Almighty God has a sense of humor… the perfect one may come in a different package.
Sad to hear and shocking because she always spoke so well of her marriage.
"Our souls are exhausted from us lying to ourselves" ... OOOUUUUCCCCHHHH 😳 .... we bout ta get taught ta-day (lbvs)!
I’m In Love With This Woman !!! She has helped me understand who I am and where I may have fallen short of my soon to be ex-wife and more importantly MYSELF. THANK YOU MY QUEEN 👸🏾 😘
STAND TALL, PATRICE!!!
This was extraordinary!! I failed to leave & it's now too late. I believe personal growth is still possible after 60.
It is possible to have personal growth after 60,the possibilities stop when you're 6 ft under. LOL.
This conversation was so powerful. Thanks Patrice for sharing your journey with us.
Oh no. Just hearing she's divorced 😢 I remember how she talked about her husband being supportive when she didn't even love herself. What happened though?☹️❤️🩹
Curious too. Hoping money and success didn’t drown out God’s purpose for marriage. I believe some women can make the hustle the priority and their marriage and home fall by the wayside.
What happens to all women when they start being more successful then their husbands...she wants a better man🤐
@4656superman yes she foes . Sounds like she got richer then her husband a couple left . That's selfish. You arrived and left him . He grew you and you left .
To answer your question, he loved her when she was broken but now she’s good and left him. Clear as day. She mentioned it on another interview.
Fire episode!!! 🔥 ❤I definitely got some takeaways from this episode on how to embrace loving yourself and become better in this Season which I'm currently working on.
I am not mad at Patrice…..some things are non negotiable.
"Soul Awareness" 💡 moment for me! This was sooo good 👍🏾
Thank you both!
Facts Patrice! I love how you phrased it “…I can date him, but can he date me”. I struggle with the same things you’ve mentioned after my divorce and started to focus on my career and financial growth. Bring “peace and purpose over appearances” to the relationship !!
I love this and Patrica! There is so much here. Thank you so much for your alignment with Self, Queen!! I caught all of that and I can relate. 🙏🙏🙏 Blessings to you!
I LOVE Patrice! Those 6 Pillars are everything. And I feel her about the height preference. Um, I’m 5’10 barefoot as well. Dude has to be 6’3 minimum. Lol I need someone who can see over the steering wheel AND whose shirts/sweaters fit me like an oversized mini dress. Folks just don’t understand.
100%. They Say that until it happens.👏🏾👏🏾 Unfortunately, my experience dating men that aren't clear in there purpose and secure in there own finances/business.
Anthony so real “ she had the booty”. …. I’m calling your mama. Lol. 😂
Patrice is so great! So inspiring to all black women. She is so confident is contagious. Amazing human being. She is not all about money. I hope God bless her with an incredible husband. …
Great show
Patrice is a whole vibe. I love her energy of serenity and realness.
I've been listening to this for two days and I HAVE to KEEP pausing and praising with these 💎
Hmmmm...is it me or is there "something" in the air at that table? Just me sitting over here watching the chemistry😇
I think that Patrice wanting someone a few inches taller than her isn’t a high expectation at all as long as it is not something abstronomicaI.kind of think it’s unfair for Anthony to say he wants the booty if he’s using the argument that you can miss out on someone great for having that preference🤷🏽♀️ 33:52
I love Patrice I've been listening to her book on audible along with the Budgetnista both of these amazing women have helped me understand wealth and my relationship with money
She said...Christmas pajama photos--WHEW😳😳😳😳
Love this episode but stopped in also to say she has a gorgeous smile. Wow.
Why is it only 5 minutes in and she is dropping KNOWLEDGE! Thanks for inviting her AO
Patrice youre my new role model 🙌🏼 beautiful inside and out and I get the feeling you bring that optimism and resilience where ever you go👌🏼💗 I need to surround myself with people like you
I gotta say it... You two would be a powerful force together! Seems like you are well suited and neither would out shine the other; both driven and secure, got your own things that do alot of good, I cant imagine the impact could be... Just sayin
If theres a small height difference but only when a womans got heels on, it was only something that I thought of briefly/in the first few months into the relationship but never beyond the thought crossing my mind even at the beginning. Photos didnt look bad, didnt look obvious or stick out, and it didn't bug (my) Anthony cause he loved when I wore heels... Without heels I was shorter than him, I just love me my tall Louboutins. atleast in my experience far as our height difference went
I was so blessed by your first interview with Patrice. I believe she was still married at the time and shared her story about her financial journey before starting her podcast. I also enjoyed this interview and seeing that she is still on her personal growth journey. Thank you for another awesome interview.
Yes he does need to be generous Patrice! He can have a billion and it will be for him and him only.
This is the same woman that was in another interview talking about her ex-husband didn't do anything wrong. She literally said he had the intent to love her but not the capacity. She was basically looking for a fairy tale marriage and looks like she's still looking. This woman is crazy and delusional. She ran to the streets and realized they don't want her.
I want to see a woman that has built success in the midst of marriage and kept their commitment to it and the person they committed to. No shade to her and the decision she feels she had to make, but it seems to be so predictable now where women who are building and reach a certain "celebrity " (because if we're being honest, it's not just the wealth) that they'll be divorced in their 40s
Sis, is the truth! I'd love to follow her on her platforms. Thank you for sharing all your truths and all that we can relate to, grow into, and or be relatable to/for others. 💜
Never ever too late to #REBUILD your Wealth and Health💗💚 loving my gallon of water everyday AO, see you @ the beach!
It would have been nice to hear more about her business and what she does. The dating talk was cute though...
Yes, wealth- well being and happiness.
YES, every person you meet isnt for a view of marriage. Some are just meant to add to your male friends. It is healthy to have a balance of male and female friendships.
This is a masterclass.
I'll watch anything with this duo every time
This episode was amazing….just what I needed
As listen to Patrice, I feel like she is telling my story!! Stayed in a 19 to 20 year marriage since the age of 21 to now (I'm 42) Still waiting for the divorce to wrap up since he is not giving anything to his children financially. God is showing me creative ways to make an income. I'm going through the process still and have started my own podcast as well. My peace is more important than appearances. God has promised me restoration, and I am thankful!!
I am divorced right now, but I stayed for way too long, because I believed that my son needed both parents happily together. But, now we are both better parents living apart
Is there a possibility that your perspective was wrong? Happiness is fleeting. Marriage was never about happiness. Happiness in Marriage is a new concept.
You guys need to get together. You would make a cute couple ❤
She’s still a strong independent woman.
You keep on bringing thought provoking speakers. Brilliant show we just had. Good job Anthony✅✅✅I had to watch this twice.She keeps it real and still remains grounded. That’s beautiful. ❤️❤️❤️
Did you say a Mil saved/invested on a $50k salary??? Where is he living? He only takes home $30-40k after taxes. I'm not saying it can't happen, but......
Thank you for finally leaving that teacher topic alone. I was so over it. Lol. I DM because I was seriously bothered.
Love this episode. Love how Patrice walks in her boldness. She is AMAZING!!!
I’m probably gonna get in trouble for saying this and I don’t have anything to gain or lose so hear goes:
What I just heard was someone saying that they got better than their husband and justifying it by using the word of God. It also sounds like she couldn’t SUBMIT to her husband anymore and used her financial gain to justify it.
I found Patrice when I was looking for examples of successful divorced, thriving black women, who are desiring the companion God has for them.
I’m so empowered by today’s topic and conversation that I’m hitting the ground running. Patrice thank you…. I’m right behind you … moving into that thriving and arriving position…letting God remove things from me and my life that are unnecessary….
In order to bring me into my next and welcome that financially fit, willing to love and work on himself and more man that is made for me.
I heard everything you all said and love this! However, I feel her DESIRE to have a tall guy! I was married to height challenged man and was married for 18yrs and he had height challenged issues
This woman literally lives in my head. Pple look at me weird when I've said the EXACT SAME things 😅👏🏽🙌🏽
40:25... AO.. You're not supposed to date until after you're married! It eliminates all of this. Think about it.