An Adoption Story: Valentina’s Heartbreaking Discovery and Reunion with Long-Lost Sibling

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  • @cindycreateforlife
    @cindycreateforlife 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Valentina’s son looks like he has a lot of the Baltic region DNA, like her! She is very stoic, beautiful and I totally understand why she wants to know what led to her adoption. I hope she has come to terms with her background and is happy!

  • @carlapaz8722
    @carlapaz8722 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    All my love to Valentina, husband, child, half brother, half sister. Alex, thank you so much for everything you do.

  • @lornaviljoen113
    @lornaviljoen113 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Alex - you are such a humble person. Your kindness has no ends. Keep up the good work with re- uniting families. May you be highly favorited wherever you set foot.

  • @john_carter_of_earth
    @john_carter_of_earth หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Alex, you've done a great job helping them both enter their next chapter together, and have become even more professional with your video work. Well done, and congrats to Valentina & Alexsei.

  • @sharongaymcleod3708
    @sharongaymcleod3708 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Alex, you should be nominated for the Goid as Gold award. You truly deserve.

    • @2_thumbs_up_baby
      @2_thumbs_up_baby 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Good idea

    • @OLDCONNECTION1
      @OLDCONNECTION1 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      What a beautiful young woman. Thank you Alex for helping her ❤

  • @Fibre_finder
    @Fibre_finder หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    How amazing to have found a sibling so close by! It's lucky Valentina was so young when she was taken into care she must have been through a lot as a little person ❤️

  • @kaynewling3455
    @kaynewling3455 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Fantastic Alex, so important for we adoptees to know where we come from, and if possible to meet our birth relatives.

  • @ChristmasAtTheCastle
    @ChristmasAtTheCastle หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    A real story about real people, tragedy, and ultimately uplifting and joyous reconnecting with family

  • @megoodrow6299
    @megoodrow6299 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for sharing and for your work Alex. Valentina, please focus on your beautiful family and the good people that this unfortunate situation brought to you. I had the similar situation and it does rock you to your core - but you are not your bio parents. Very special thanks to your adoptive parents and your husband. Your son of course sees you as perfect - great parents of a beautiful son

  • @HitroLis
    @HitroLis หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Счастья Валентине и её семье. Очень смелые и открытые люди. Она большая молодец, что решилась на поиски родственников. Это смелый шаг.

  • @Studio64-e3b
    @Studio64-e3b หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    wow, great work! You never know what you are going to find, good luck to them all reconnecting.

  • @susanbaio1932
    @susanbaio1932 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Alex I love watching your programs. They are seriously well put together. Very professional indeed.

  • @letitiakearney2423
    @letitiakearney2423 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Well done Alex for all the hard work and time you must have put into finding who her birth parents were. It was like the TV programme Who do you think I am.

  • @amandamentiplay5618
    @amandamentiplay5618 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Valentina is spot on. Adoptees should know their family background. But we have to fight, and pay for, that information. 😢

  • @texasgina
    @texasgina หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a beautiful young woman. Thank you Alex for helping her ❤

  • @nataliek.8352
    @nataliek.8352 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Amazing! Alex, you're doing a very important thing!❤ Valentina and all her adopted siblings were really born under a happy star, because in Russia they would certainly have a pretty different life like in a parallel world, I would say. Happy for all of you!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @christinekeefe9004
    @christinekeefe9004 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Awww I'm so glad Valentina got to meet her brother! Good job finding her family :)

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @texasgina
    @texasgina หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Alex, I could’ve watched another hour of this story. I would love to find out what happens in the future with her brother finding his father and if they get in contact with their other brother, and if they get to meet their sister.

  • @rosemather7130
    @rosemather7130 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Alex your videos are fantastic.

  • @ladybearbaiter
    @ladybearbaiter หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Alex, you are a miracle worker. God bless you

  • @philliparmstrong5421
    @philliparmstrong5421 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Incredible heartfelt journey, a silver lining to the siblings.

  • @irinaodaykina313
    @irinaodaykina313 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Alex, you did a great work

  • @marylott9294
    @marylott9294 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Well done Alex! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year from Solvang,California! ❤

  • @stacycamacho59
    @stacycamacho59 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I can't imagine the abuse her mom must have suffered before she had enough.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      A truly sad situation but I am truly happy that for Valentina she has some closure but also new connections for her.

    • @GregDeman
      @GregDeman 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You're making a lot of unfounded assumptions

  • @kayradford3793
    @kayradford3793 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Brilliant outcome

  • @CaliforniaIK
    @CaliforniaIK 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I saw Valentina, and I knew Valentina is either Latvian or Estonian. I am Latvian, and I can tell you Valentina looks like one of us.

    • @Chuckruu
      @Chuckruu 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As all Europeans !

  • @itsonlystuff
    @itsonlystuff หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great episode! 🎉

  • @3856009
    @3856009 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Думаю Валентине стоит поехать в Россию и посмотреть на прекрасный Псков, узнать немного историю региона, это даст немного представление как жили ее предки. А то что нет родителей это так сложились обстоятельства, она не виновата, зато ее полюбила семья из Новой Зеландии❤

  • @audreymcleod4076
    @audreymcleod4076 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Valentina looks like Kirstin Dunst. Very interesting video.

  • @marywalker2896
    @marywalker2896 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Adopted children are traumatized.i was five years old when taken away from my bio family and adopted..I am now 74 and still grieve..

    • @Susan.I
      @Susan.I หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not all adoptee are traumatized! My daughter was adopted at 90 days of life.

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am sorry for your grief and loss. Even now healing is possible! May you be comforted that you are loved by God❤

  • @sharaimakara9578
    @sharaimakara9578 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are doing a great job

  • @GamerplayerWT
    @GamerplayerWT 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting Nature versus Nurture examples here. Truly fascinating.

  • @graziellamarangone7746
    @graziellamarangone7746 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bellissima storia. Tutta la mia simpatia, va ai genitori che adottano. Ma ho amato la storia di Valentina. Donna molto cosciente, inserita bene nella sua realtà. ❤

  • @sweetgirltohu9210
    @sweetgirltohu9210 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was so beautiful to watch came here from Nz herald😂 congrats guys ❤

  • @Maddie2u
    @Maddie2u 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Some of us would have loved to have been adopted by many of these families......I felt like the outer in my biological family. Now estranged.
    These Russian adoptees care blessed beyond measure.
    ♥️🇨🇦

  • @prairierose1115
    @prairierose1115 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very interesting!

  • @nobillclinton
    @nobillclinton 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Godspeed Alex.

  • @summerlake356
    @summerlake356 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    They literally struggled to put food on the table, in the ex USSR, in the early 90s. It is not any stranger than that. Adults were scared, traumatised and depressed. That is why so many kids were given up.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Very difficult times. I know myself with being an adoptee also from Russia. It was really hard for my birth mother. Happened a lot during this time and throughout the 90s.

  • @joannamacdonald2500
    @joannamacdonald2500 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful

  • @marchegrundmann1232
    @marchegrundmann1232 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The older siblings must have had memories of the parents

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The older sister Viktoria did yes, but was in a boarding school later on, but she definitely remembered the parents. Thank you for watching!

  • @agresticumbra
    @agresticumbra หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Is it me, or do I see some similarities between Valentina’s son & her sister?🖤
    Thank you for helping others, Alex.🤎

    • @korradog81
      @korradog81 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I totally saw it! Valentina's sister and brother look more like each other than Valentina. Valentina doesn't even look like them. More than not females tend to take on more facial features of their fathers. It makes sense she wouldn't look like her brother since they had different fathers. Did they mention if Valentina's sister had a different father than her?

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you both for watching! For Valentina - Yes her sister in Russia has a different father. The sister would often tell us that it was a very difficult time for her as she witnessed a lot that happened. Thank you so much for watching 🙏

    • @willmitchell2553
      @willmitchell2553 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@korradog81maybe the brother and the sister have the same father because they resemble. Valentina probably looks like her father

    • @jocelyneb
      @jocelyneb 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@alexgilbert
      Thank you for your research
      2 half-siblings for Valentina.
      It seems that all 3:
      Victoria, Valentina and Alexei have the same bio Mother but all 3 have different father.
      Is that correct Alex? THANKS a lot.

  • @Mariiieee69
    @Mariiieee69 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow 🥺 I’m crying

  • @gelly5950
    @gelly5950 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s crazy that they will have all maybe grown up together to a certain point as they seem to share the same mother? Good luck to them all in connecting.

  • @peterdietz4481
    @peterdietz4481 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great

  • @carinagrennan129
    @carinagrennan129 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Was she adopted with her birth siblings? Your videos are always so amazing.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not her birth siblings, but other adoptive siblings who were also from the orphanage when she was adopted. Thank you so much for watching :)

  • @estellesmith6418
    @estellesmith6418 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @MissLady-pq4hc
    @MissLady-pq4hc หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👍🏼⭐️🎄

  • @julietchristman1389
    @julietchristman1389 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    can they explain what parent they had the same of.. the mother I guess. and who were the other sibling adopted into the family with her.. real siblings or just other Russian kids.?

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello! Thank you for watching. They were other siblings from different biological families :)

    • @julietchristman1389
      @julietchristman1389 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alexgilbert lots of different sibling.. such a sad situation.. glad most seem to have grown up ok..

  • @wendy77
    @wendy77 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What about thé other brother?

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unfortunately he had disconnected from the family all together. Really unfortunate and sad for the family. But the parents are doing everything that they can on their end. Absolutely.

    • @wendy77
      @wendy77 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢

  • @kasiapek7575
    @kasiapek7575 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I knew she is baltic! :)

    • @HitroLis
      @HitroLis หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To me, she has a typical Russian face. She seems so familiar. It was like we were in the same class or lived next door to each other when we were kids. She looks like a lot of people I know.

    • @jocelyneb
      @jocelyneb 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      From DNA Test Valentina is 69% from Baltic
      Yes one of Valentina's parents is from Baltics region.
      We will know more with Victoria's story...
      Thank you Alex 🎉❤

  • @Lucardis-go
    @Lucardis-go หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you very much for your done.
    Russische Kinderheime haben ihr Bestes getan und kein Kind wurde beleidigt oder beschimpft für das , was ihre Eltern evtl taten. Das ist Russische Ehre ❤

  • @estellesmith6418
    @estellesmith6418 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤