@@lliw_ I'm happy someone finds this helpful. Don't hurt yourself because somone doesn't want you. They don't know what they are missing, but you can't always blame them for having their opinion because we all have our own opinion. But I assure you, you will find the real person soon to be with you. 💕
I have literally told someone I have a crush and I like them rn it'll be the 4th time if I get rejected. You know I don't believe in curses but. It could start persuading me if it happens
I was rejected by 2 girls in a row...but like all things, the pain will pass. Rejection may knock me down but I will keep getting back up. Stay strong everyone!😁
Remember rejection is redirection. And it's never about your value as a person. Rejection means that THAT thing or person wasn't mean to be in your life because you deserve something else, something better for you❤️
A lie. All the people who rejected me are doing much better in life than me. It's like they didn't deserve me, not the other way around. I've yet to see any good come out of my rejections. Rejection is a failure, not a redirection.
My biggest challenge after a romantic rejection is trying to process the strong and affectionate feelings that I've developed for someone. I'm still not sure what helps.
This is exactly what I’m feeling right now. I have a crush and I’m pretty sure they know I like them. I’m certain that they’ll reject me because they are already dating someone and they show no interest in me. Struggling with those feelings are really difficult for me, and I assume you also. I just want you to know there are always other opportunities and other people
I still have plenty affection for my partner who disappeared after an argument. I've realised I don't have to fight my feelings and feel much better that way. I accept that he doesn't want to be with me. That's ok. I want to be with me so yes this is goodbye. I also accept my love for him, love is not painful when it comes with no expectations from the person.
As someone who has been rejected multiple times I can say that these tips are very accurate and helpful, never be afraid of new opportunities, always work on yourself and try to be the best version of yourself
Ive had men who i liked reject me, later they came around again trying to get me to give them another chance. It generally doesn’t work out like that for me, i just send them back from where they came from. I don’t like being thought of as a second choice only for a guy to give someone the shot, attention, and thoughtfulness to someone else. They didn’t give me the same consideration when we were dating.
I always keep in mind that rejection is just a redirection and that has really helped not take rejection to heart. I used to cry whenever I was rejected, whether professionally or personally and with that mindset, it happens less often!!
I've learned to get through that with EMDR therapy. Great thing is that I'm at the point where I'm desensitized by people who reject me. Yeah, it sucks, but I look at it and say "Well, looks like something's going on with them right now" Granted, it's a hit below the belt, but it's what you do about it that makes a difference! 😁👍
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
A lot of people say the worst thing your crush can say is no, but the worst thing they could probably say is "your ugly" or "ew" or "no your werid" so.... be glad that they rejected you nicely (if they rejected you nicely)
A guy rejected me in a romantic way. I decided to keep him as a friend. Now, he is the best friend I have ever had. He is the exact opposite of a toxic person. So, this opinion is biased by your own experiences, maybe, what do I know...
1. accept the answer 0:48 2. distance yourself from the situation 1:23 3. allow yourself to feel 2:11 4. spend time with friends, family, or in therapy 2:50 5. do something you love 3:28 6. practice self-care 4:14 7. work on yourself 5:06 8. learn from the experience 5:56 9. put the rejection into context 6:37 10. explore other opportunities 7:23 I hope I could help! :D
Sadly everyone has to go through this at some point. I just recently did and I was so embarrassed and my heart wouldn’t stop pounding. The next day I had an idea that I should send my crush a long message explaining things. I thought that if he read that, it would make me feel better and less embarrassed when I would have to see him again. I planned the whole message and thankfully I had the guts to send it. He replied later very respectfully and mentioned that I didn’t need to feel embarrassed at all. Even though he friend zoned me very hard, I felt relieved that I could finally relax and not stress. I have so much anxiety and didn’t know exactly how to handle it but reaching out to him really helped me. So the moral of this story is that THERE IS A WAY. YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH THIS. As I am writing this, I still haven’t seen him since he found out that I liked him. I am dreading when I have to. However, I’m going to keep my head up and have fun with my friends. I’m not going to worry about what him and his friends are doing. I feel like if I didn’t text him my hugeeee message, then when I see him again, I would’ve had a panic attack and been so embarrassed. But I’m ok now and I know I’m going to get through this. So if you’re in this situation right now too I’m here for you. It really hurts but you will get through it. Don’t cry over them, they aren’t worth your time. However, if you want to do something about it, you can always do something like me. I texted them and cleared everything up and it made me feel better. You shouldn’t have to keep feeling the way you do. I woke up and was done with how I felt and I wanted to make a change and I did. I admire my courage. That was the bravest thing I think I have ever done. You can do that too. It’s so easy. Don’t let other people bring you down. Rise against it. Rejection and friend zoning sucks but that’s ok. That just means that that person isn’t the one for you. Give it time. One day you’ll meet someone who will love you endlessly and would never want to do anything to hurt you. For now, I’ll be here waiting with you and know that there are other people around you that understand how you’re feeling right now. So talk to them. Even though they can’t do anything to help the situation, they can be there for you. Sometimes that’s all you need. Comfort. And trust me, it will pass. Mine hasn’t even been a week long and I feel great. I had a unbelievably huge crush on my crush and I thought I’d never get over him. I’m not sure if I have since I haven’t seen him so Idk if I’ll stop getting those feelings when I’m around him, but I do know that I feel free and so happy. Maybe it was a blessing in disguise. Now I can move on. Sry that was a lot but you’re strong and I believe in you. IT IS POSSIBLE. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS.
I read it all. im so happy it went well for you and that u are strong. sadly i was rejected early in my life and im 27 now and never been in a relationship and pretty much have given up hope in that regard. oh well thats life. Anyways have a great day!
@ PieceO'Cake aww I’m so sorry. But don’t worry I’m sure the right person will come when you least expect it. Sometimes it just takes a long time. But it seems like you’re happy and living life to the fullest and I admire that. I wish the same for me as I get older.
Rejection (as much as it sucks), is all natural. We take it so personally cause we feel the want and need to be accepted! After facing so much of it especially last year, I'm at the point of judt being desensitized by it that it really doesn't bother me anymore. I hot the few who are still here, and those who want in are more than welcome to prove it, just as I will. Rejection is nothing personal, so it's time to take back your power and don't take it so personally!
I've got too many rejections in my life. Last year I've got a heartbreak. And the one who I called my friend,break my trust. My family also rejected me until I've got a little bit of success. But watching this video just made me relax a bit from my problems. Thanks,Psych2Go🙂
Damn, that must be really hard to go through. Even if we don't know who you are, or able to feel exactly as you feel, remember that there's always people out there that's proud that you're still here, including me! Don't be sad too much, there's still much positivity left to be explored. All you need to do is change your perspective on everday things and everything should be going to be even better! Keep going, buddy!
My parents thought me this when I got rejected from a girl . “Accept and Respect the reject don’t get Upset and there is always more to people to be Met.”
tip for anyone worrying: its really awkward at first if you keep seeing them but thousands of people go through it and tbh you get over it after a few days and life just goes back to normal
Most people in the comment section are talking about romantic rejections, but honestly I think professional or career related rejections hurt the most. Today I received a rejection email from a program that I was really hoping to be a part of, I even imagined myself traveling for that opportunity. The rejection email really broke my heart and life seems a little hopeless right now.
i truly agree with you. Job rejection is so painful and soul crashing. At first i thought i was fine with it but after so many rejections it can be so demoralising. I hope things have gone better for you.
@@ws7009 I completely agree with you. Reading this comment made me revisit all those emotions. I got rejected for the same program again but this time I am mentally and financially at a way better place. Although, rejections hurt but I am still going to apply for the programs that I am passionate about.
I am starting a business selling stuff to other businesses and get about 10 rejections a week. Lot's of those rejections I am going to go and try again.
I just got my rejection letter for a scholarship. It was the third time (all different scholarships). I hope everyone who is experiencing the same kind of pain that I am right now, feels better. And always keep this on your mind "Do not make their words, your reality". In essence, it is just a rejection, it is not you. Keep fighting and keep on going, I can't promise that something would happen eventually but it is hope that makes us human. Keep moving forward. 😌
Do what you like, that really works. Cars saved me from depression, some of my friends asking me why do I spend so much time and money on my car. I just tell them my car will never friendzoned and reject me, she accepted me for who I am and taught me a lot of mechanically things which I like to learn.
This really pretty girl with an amazing personality which I have become really good friends with just rejected me and I’m not sure how interacting with her from now on will be
@@naton9423 hi. I understand your feelings. It’s hard to cope with it. But overtime it will be better. Luckily I didn’t put 100% of my feelings on him. So I got over it just fine.
I just got rejected from my friend and idk how to keep my friendship going on, you know. I want him in my life but I feel like I am trying too hard and making myself hurt even more. Do you have any advice?
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks on each men. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situation. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
@@odnuu hi. Although we are still friends I can sense that he is avoiding me. Since we are working in a same building he can’t avoid me 100%. We still talk to each other. I just pretend I never confessed to him. Even if it’s hurting me I keep reminding myself I don’t want to lose our friendship. Hope it’ll help you
I applied for a job recently and didn't get it. I noticed that it was causing me anxiety and panic attacks (waiting for the answer and the fear of rejection) so I prepared myself for getting the bad news and immediately started to reflect about what I can improve for the next time I also thought about the good things I won't miss for being unemployed. I started taking care of my body as well, so I feel like I handle rejection in a good way and I'm proud of it. At the end, it's not big deal being rejected and you learn from the experiences, maybe next time you'll get something better than the opportunity you didn't get.
I'm on therapy dealing with all this because I kinda create traumas with this kind of rejections and losses... Sometimes you need a hand from a mental health professional.
I was rejected in the past but my feelings didn't fade. In fact, I was obsessed. After some time, my feelings were gone and so I thought. The next thing I knew, those feelings came back but I really didn't do anything about the situation. Everytime that I think about it, I can't help but to feel hate and disgust to myself.
I hope you will feel better soon. Genuine feelings will always remain in our hearts - as long as we don't do bad things to justify what we feel, it's only human to keep feeling and remembering. I still obsess about my crush almost 20 years back 😅. Being rejected again recently is making me worried I will keep obsessing for the next 20 years 😅😅😅
@@cherryblossom548 Thank you for the response dear. You're right, we are just faulty humans after all but it still sucks to be in this situation. It feels so pathetic and I still can't forgive myself for that past. The best I can do is to suck it up. I hope the best for you in life. 😊
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
Everyone makes mistakes even the hardest one in relationships or friendships. Its up to you as the person to change in a good way but to know what's wrong
I just got rejected today. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. Then this showed up and it's been very insightful. I'm hurting really bad now and I really hope I can get through this. Thank you psych2go for this video. I love you guys.
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex or crush back forever, he helped me too immediately without stress and delay, he have solution to all problems💯.
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
My best friend rejected me. What happened was I asked him out and he said, "I think we are just friends" that stung me. What he did after was he dated different girl in front of me to make me feel worse. When all this happened it felt like a million bullets shot my heart into a million pieces and my heart would never heal. I also thought, "Why is life so unfair. Love sucks. I built up courage for 4 years and I get rejected. " I felt so alone with no one to talk to.
I can relate to you , I liked this guy for 3 years and confessed today but he is in a relation with a junior . He said I am like his little sister and the worst fact that he knew about my feelings since 3 years.
Its okay bud. I got rejected yesterday by a girl that i liked and i can relate. Don't worry tho we'll get through this. I believe that YOU can do this and you WILL. Sending virtual hugs to everyone!!
Just got rejected for the first time by someone, and it feels like we're still gonna be friends which is what I was hoping for if she said no. But ultimately, I feel so happy that I was able to be true to myself and actually live a little
so real. i got rejected but didn't feel sad. i felt happy that we would at least stay friends and that i took that leap of faith. i feel relieved and like i can breathe again
Today I got rejected by my first love he told me that he love someone else and his friends was mocking me . Now I understood that I can live without him. I just need my friends.never gonna fall for another one
accept the answer distance yourself from the situation allow yourself to feel spend time with others do something you love (hobbies) practice self-care work on yourself learn from the experience put the rejection into context explore other opportunities
The best way to handle rejection, and anything else actually, is to work on your self-concept. It all comes down to personal beliefs about yourself or about different situations in life.
Nice to watch this and realize that I have already been doing this against the recent big rejection. Immediately after rejection, I accepted it and then started looking what I can do to meet my needs instead of trying to change the rejector’s opinion. Of course, I wanted to know why the rejector rejected me in the first place, so I approached her for that, but she could not tell. So I had to reflect on my own and find out actually rejection can be just part of life no matter how excellent you are as a person. I think this rejection helped me realize what I am good at and make me appreciate/value people who can see my value much more!
I had to reject a friend, and she's still struggling with her feelings for me... I care so much about her that sometimes I wish I was in love with her just to make her happy. But I don't know how to help her because I also just don't know what being rejected and loving someone feels like yet.
@@linde4649 that's honestly crazy omg. ive heard stories of the other party over time liking the person back. im so happy for you too and hope it works out!
From my past failed relationship, it been taught me that never put high hope and expectation on your partner. We can't controll what other people feel and want. Moving on made my life so much better. I'm so happy working with my hobbies and my family after that. Its very hurt on the beginning, but trust me it much better after that.
Try removing the rose colored frame & see the people who rejected you for who they really are. You may not only be turned off but even completely disgusted. Works every time 🙃
For me, I've experienced feelings of rejection growing up and in my early adulthood. It is not fun and can destroy a person's soul but learning and growing from them can serve to make you stronger and more resilient. I no longer expect much from people and thus, I have little sense of disappointment and feeling rejected. I have become an indifferent person - that means to a large extent, I care very little about anything and anyone. I love myself and I love my cat (and my kids lol) and that's about all that matters to me. Disappointments and rejections and setbacks happen for a reason - it wasn't meant to be and maybe something better is waiting (I am not a negative person at all - just very logical and reasonable!) LOL.
I don’t have kids… and therefore don’t love anyone outside of myself….. but when you don’t feel much of anything…there isn’t much to love. So I’m likely going to go through life without ever feeling alive.
I can't not feel guilty about it. It's both drama and sadness, like I'm working to be rejected. I can't do something if not for someone or with someone. When doing for myself I only get anxious, think who left and who still is here and what I've done so I won't do this again to the next person. This gets more important than my studies, career, jobs... been so many years like this
The most memorable rejection I experienced was rather recent. I got rejected by a close friend who now doesn't want to speak to me again over some disagreement we had. I have been rejected before, but it's never cut that deep until this happened. I'd rather not explain what the disagreement was all about because I fear I might be judged for it. But what I can say is, I knew it was going to happen one day and I knew that this type of rejection tends to happen in my lifestyle, so it let me have a taste of it - let me see what it's like. I knew it was going to be painful, but I didn't expect it to be THAT painful... I'm mostly over it by now, but ngl, a teensy bit of anger is still around. Though that'll pass with time. I'll get over it - I always do.
I always take a break from my social accounts. They kinda suck your energy out sometimes. A good early Morning walk cheers me up. Though waking up before the crowd gathers is tough 🤔
Cry, take a distance from the situation and work out help me a lot ! being sad took me a few days but i prefer allow myself feeling the whole thing rather repress it
but that’s life! rejection feels sucks for sure but that’s how you live and grow if u got rejected that’s just means that that job or project or person is simply not for you or not good for you to begin with so live and do things don’t just sit after one rejection and shut yourself from the world and amazing opportunities waiting or you :( and sorry if my english is bad
Lmao true, im considering of shutting up since I just can’t seem to accept rejection of some sort, but then again, it’s not a healthy way of dealing with it either.
Thanks Psych2Go for this video. I think I supported or suggested the idea of how to deal with rejection one day, it doesn't matter how it was, what matters is that you guys listen to your community and I personally feel heard when I suggest topics and I feel incredibly good when you cover them. It really helps me with what I'm struggling with.
Dealing rejection is hard, but most important lesson here is how you handle it. You got this! Have you watched 8 Signs Someone Misses You th-cam.com/video/sgH1328Ie2s/w-d-xo.html ?
@@ranapratap4650 basically what happened is I met this guy and we became friends. He asked me if I liked him, I said I wasn’t really sure since we’d only been talking for a little while but I said I really liked talking to him. He said he didn’t have a crush on me and then I realized that I did have a crush on him and I was really sad. Then a few days later he said that he wanted to change what he said and that he agreed with the way I felt. Still not really sure what’s going to happen but wish me luck!!
Everyday in the lottery, in Las Vegas & on game shows like "The Price is Right", people are "rejected" constantly without a second thought. Love is absolutely no different. Some will win in this game. But others must lose. We cannot all win, fate won't allow it. The solution is to walk away from the toxic area, and find substitutions. The smart & the wise know this.
@@The_Guy33 already confessed lol, I wasn't rejected But also, my confession wasn't accepted, she simply just questioned me why I liked her but we retained our friendship (I can even say that it grew stronger) . So I guess it went well for me in the end?
Wow, thank you so much. Sometimes I feel like I get called out in some of your videos and they hurt because they are a little to true but this video was very helpful. Thank you for expanding my options!
Take your time to feel good again. We work a lot in ourselves to be how ans who we are (in a good way) that when someone just rejects us, we feel a full body slap in our brain and is hard to understand how you can reject someone's hard work. Is the way it happened to me the las 3 rejections. Take a break to release the emotions and seek help if it feels too heavy to carry on. Wish you the best
Rejections should be offset by atleast some successes. Constantly struggling and going nowhere leaves a bigger scar in your mind. Ive lost everything career love etc and nothing makes me happy anymore. I dont have 'close friends' to hold my back either.
So yesterday i confessed to the girl that i liked for MONTHS because i saw some signs of her that she may like me but she rejected me. She was very sweet about it which i appreciated very much. Now trying to get over it but i won't be easy. Thank you so much for your advices and im so lucky that i found your channel!
Love the video! So glad I found Psych2Go! What about advice for overcoming the fear of rejection? I end up choosing not to take the risk to avoid the pain of rejection, but I also self-deny potential opportunities for success.
Yesterday my crush told me he liked me back. Today his friend told me that my crush doesn’t want to have a relationship with me and he only said that he liked me because he felt guilty. I felt heartbroken. I can’t believe this kind of people exist. I hope my “crush” knows what he done.
My brain always causes the “turn it around effect” It is basically that my brain causes me to loose interest in thst person, so much that within a week i wonder why I ever liked her. This only never happened with my best friend, she rejected me 2x but I still kinda like her. But my mind tries to distract me from it by causing crushes on other girls
Rejection is painful and tough to cope with, but with loving friends and family, it’s much easier. Don’t feel embarrassed or scared, just know that it’s a common thing which comes across everyone. Accept your emotions and move on. Everything happens for a reason.
I'll often ask someone with the expectation of getting rejected. If they suprise me and say yes, that's a bonus. Just steel yourself first, then the hit will be less severe. Rejection has occurred all over the world throughout history. We're not alone in the experience. My great grandfather probably experienced it. Nobody is spared of it.
I watched this video before I asked my crush out, sadly she said no, but thanks to this video, I learned to say, "ok, cool." Set the phone on the counter, and sit on the couch and watch TV. This is an amazing video for tips.
this definitely will help me. ive had this feeling for so long and i rlly wanna get rid of it. imma try and look for better goals and spend time with people i rlly enjoy hanging out with
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex or crush back forever, he helped me too immediately without stress and delay, he have solution to all problems💯..
I didn't even realize how much I needed this video right now, I thought I already figured all of it out now, but some things you said helped me to look at this situation of mine from a yet different perspective and see the positives in it. Thank you for that.
Chill, I feel u...Always get rejected if i ever found someone I like no matter how many times I tried, really wish something great really great is just waiting for me out there
I don't understand how and why. I always thought he (let's call him buttercup) liked me back and all the your videos regarding crushes showed those signs too. He clearly complimented me too and once we had a group project, he joined my team saying that I'm the best. And we used to have online meetings everyday (actually we didn't practice mostly cause most people didn't even join, it was just me, him and my other classmate). In those meetings we usually just talked and had fun. And he made me laugh sooo much and always said 'please don't end the meeting now, I m havin fun' and stuff. And even though our exams were going on at the same time, i joined the meeting everyday and spent 1 or 2 hours. Usually I am very stressed during exams but that time i was just soo much at ease, I didn't have any stress. Normally, i wouldn't waste my time like that during examinations but this time it was different. And i secured excellent marks too. He just took all that stress away from me. And even in class he was always telling me jokes, and if I was doing my maths sums wrong, he'd correct me. One day the teacher told both of us to check someone's English literature notebook. He came over to my desk and sat next to me with the notebook. And oh boy that kid's English was horrible. We were checking his essay and giggling at the silly mistakes. And sometimes even our legs were touching. We were soo close looking at that notebook our heads almost touched. When he went back to his seat (which was right in front of mine) he turned back to take something from his bag and i repeated a very funny line from that essay. He laughed and I swear I saw him blush. It is devastating to know we are in different classes this year. We don't talk anymore (at all). It's just a quick glances now. And today i got indirectly rejected by him. So basically his best fren is in my class and we talk (a lot cuz he's my fren too). I dun hv feelings for his best fren ofc. But we were chatting online today when he asked 'Whats your type, i mean who would you like as a bf' I said 'as long as they're not total idiots and uk kinna smart'. He replied ' u mean someone like buttercup and daffodil (another smart and good looking guy)'. I said 'maybe'. He said ' if daffodil proposes to u would you accept him'. I said ' I'll hv to think about that cuz uk he's kinna extroverted and he dances in class and one time he cried just bcuz he missed his presentation, other wise he's good and understanding'. Buttercup's best fren said 'lol then you would definitely accept buttercup' I said ' um....i would'. He said ' that will never happen though'. I said ' i know'. He said ' I cannot control my laughter after this'. I was shook. I think I misread everything or whut. He always sat with/near me. A kid (less call him orchid) sat behind me in class. Buttercup sat with him for maths period and said that orcid needs help with maths work while he kept talking to me all the time. He didn't go back till the next 2 periods. He even took my pencil and in exchange for his pencil. And did I mention he's a greatttt artist. He did maths work with my pencil and afterwards when I came to return his pencil he be like your pencil is very good, I wanna keep it. I said I have many of those pencils u can keep one. He drew somthing fabulous with it and later on he came and said 'this pencil has potential. YOU CAN DRAW' and returned it to me. Now how can someone not be flattered by that. Or atleast me . Well, i m still tryna get over him......I hope nothing bad happens tomorrow. I just can't believe how he played with my heart
I have a little problem....after I get rejected or an embarrassing incident occurs, I obsess over it. I can’t stop thinking about it over and over again and I start to punish myself by not eating. 😞
So I have some ideas for videos. I don't know all the videos you've already made, but these are just some video topics I thought might help myself and others. I love how you explain things and I love that your videos are short and to the point. Video ideas: Types of rejection, types of healthy and toxic sibling relationships, how to deal with generalized anxiety thoughts/worries, types of unhealthy coping, difference between panic attacks and panic disorder, difference between social anxiety, social phobia, and agoraphobia, healthy coping skills and how to do them, how to stop intrusive/irrational thoughts/thinking, ways you can help someone you worry/care about, how to deal with stress and test anxiety, how to overcome generalized anxiety thoughts, and how to deal with social anxiety.
The Point 5 make me cry, because for my all whole life I follow this to cure myself from the rejecting of the life. Those saves me from depression when I got separated from my most valuable ex girlfriend, so I absolutely give to all people to concentrate on hobbies when we are sad for any bad things or the life
Remember rejection is not fatal, it is merely someone's opinion.
My RSD disagrees
What if they rejected your life threatening surgery...
Ummmmmmmmm...
Well, best of luck to ya! XD
thank you this made me feel better
@@lliw_ I'm happy someone finds this helpful. Don't hurt yourself because somone doesn't want you. They don't know what they are missing, but you can't always blame them for having their opinion because we all have our own opinion. But I assure you, you will find the real person soon to be with you. 💕
@@estherkissoon4956 thank you again ☺️ you are very kind 😌
Rejection is easier to live with than regret. A "no" is better than not knowing.
Right always better to try and find out the truth.
True
Yes definitely! Much easier to deal with it
Exactly what I said very true :)
Love this :)
Remember, if they don't reciprocate the same feelings towards you.. they're not "the one" so don't dwell too much over rejections.
But he was
I have literally told someone I have a crush and I like them rn it'll be the 4th time if I get rejected. You know I don't believe in curses but. It could start persuading me if it happens
I was rejected by 2 girls in a row...but like all things, the pain will pass. Rejection may knock me down but I will keep getting back up. Stay strong everyone!😁
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Im at 5, with the last one being today and hurting the most because she admitted she had feelings too but she's already in a relationship
Try going to the gym. Look good. You will get a yes.
@@athan_valentine that means that you're close to finding the one, I can feel it
@@andygotthebass6525 i'm gonna take a while to heal and move on to someone else but thanks, it means a lot to me
Virtual hugs to literally everyone. Even to the people who don't need ittttttt 🖤
Yesss!! Thanks for sharing your virtual hugs! - Cindy
*Huggg*
Hug ❤️
Thank you
Thank you for doing this.
Remember rejection is redirection. And it's never about your value as a person. Rejection means that THAT thing or person wasn't mean to be in your life because you deserve something else, something better for you❤️
Thank you!
A lie. All the people who rejected me are doing much better in life than me. It's like they didn't deserve me, not the other way around. I've yet to see any good come out of my rejections. Rejection is a failure, not a redirection.
@@scaboi I hope you will heal one day
Actually rejection CAN be about your value as a person.
@@IvanRichards-k2f holy shit what is wrong with you..."thoughts and prayers" read the room
Rejection is about you not meeting their criteria. Just because you don't meet one person's criteria, doesn't mean it'll be the same way for everyone.
What if it’s the same way for everyone?
@@BriannaGibbsLovatictaylorcyrus then you can adjust but usually there are some people who accept you.
Dear Mr. Lemon, your comment was better than the video, thank YOU
@@nadaaaaaaa707 no problem
@@AutomaticDuck300 What if your not attracted to the people who accept you?
When one door is closing , another one is opening. Our potential is limitless. Stay safe. Stay blessed and stay healthy
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Thank you for this reminder. 🙏🏻🍀
So true
😃♥️
So wholesome. Thank you. Im really hurting.
My biggest challenge after a romantic rejection is trying to process the strong and affectionate feelings that I've developed for someone. I'm still not sure what helps.
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I’m in the same phase especially when that person reach out to u first and liked u so bad now there distant and act as if nothing ever happened 🤷🏾♂️
This is exactly what I’m feeling right now. I have a crush and I’m pretty sure they know I like them. I’m certain that they’ll reject me because they are already dating someone and they show no interest in me. Struggling with those feelings are really difficult for me, and I assume you also. I just want you to know there are always other opportunities and other people
@@josephleal529 no
I still have plenty affection for my partner who disappeared after an argument. I've realised I don't have to fight my feelings and feel much better that way. I accept that he doesn't want to be with me. That's ok. I want to be with me so yes this is goodbye. I also accept my love for him, love is not painful when it comes with no expectations from the person.
As someone who has been rejected multiple times I can say that these tips are very accurate and helpful, never be afraid of new opportunities, always work on yourself and try to be the best version of yourself
Thank you for your feedback! Glad you find them helpful!
You still got your right hand there.. don't complain lol.that One never rejects you lol
Amen
Her voice feels like a warm hug 💕
She does! Glad you loved her voice. - Cindy
@@Psych2go 😊
Agreed. The narrator here has a very warm and soothing voice.
Ive had men who i liked reject me, later they came around again trying to get me to give them another chance. It generally doesn’t work out like that for me, i just send them back from where they came from. I don’t like being thought of as a second choice only for a guy to give someone the shot, attention, and thoughtfulness to someone else. They didn’t give me the same consideration when we were dating.
Yeah exactly like why would let them back when they couldn’t see you the same when you did like them.
Me too!
Some people have called me selfish for thinking like this but damn! Letting people come back after their fun is degrading.
*back to where they came from ,
Yea Yea correcting just for fun :p
That happend when a girl is fat or Ugly face..
I always keep in mind that rejection is just a redirection and that has really helped not take rejection to heart. I used to cry whenever I was rejected, whether professionally or personally and with that mindset, it happens less often!!
I've learned to get through that with EMDR therapy. Great thing is that I'm at the point where I'm desensitized by people who reject me. Yeah, it sucks, but I look at it and say "Well, looks like something's going on with them right now" Granted, it's a hit below the belt, but it's what you do about it that makes a difference! 😁👍
Ammen
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
A lot of people say the worst thing your crush can say is no, but the worst thing they could probably say is "your ugly" or "ew" or "no your werid" so.... be glad that they rejected you nicely (if they rejected you nicely)
They did you a favor. Imagine actually being in a relationship with someone that immature.
I think they called me ugly...
Look at the positive part of rejection, you will not have to get rid of people in the future.
Sometimes rejection brings u closer to what ur goal by knowing what u should focus on
But not everybody who rejects you is a bad or toxic person.
@@MindNow that's true as well!
Not everyone who rejects is toxic
A guy rejected me in a romantic way. I decided to keep him as a friend. Now, he is the best friend I have ever had. He is the exact opposite of a toxic person. So, this opinion is biased by your own experiences, maybe, what do I know...
"Rejection is not The End. It's The Start of a New Opportunity"
1. accept the answer 0:48
2. distance yourself from the situation 1:23
3. allow yourself to feel 2:11
4. spend time with friends, family, or in therapy 2:50
5. do something you love 3:28
6. practice self-care 4:14
7. work on yourself 5:06
8. learn from the experience 5:56
9. put the rejection into context 6:37
10. explore other opportunities 7:23
I hope I could help! :D
Thank you
Thanks u saved my time 🙂
I needed this i really can't cope at rejection i feel too much
I practice death
Thank you! 😊
Let's be honest... Every one watching this channel needs this
You too
Sadly everyone has to go through this at some point. I just recently did and I was so embarrassed and my heart wouldn’t stop pounding. The next day I had an idea that I should send my crush a long message explaining things. I thought that if he read that, it would make me feel better and less embarrassed when I would have to see him again. I planned the whole message and thankfully I had the guts to send it. He replied later very respectfully and mentioned that I didn’t need to feel embarrassed at all. Even though he friend zoned me very hard, I felt relieved that I could finally relax and not stress. I have so much anxiety and didn’t know exactly how to handle it but reaching out to him really helped me.
So the moral of this story is that THERE IS A WAY. YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH THIS. As I am writing this, I still haven’t seen him since he found out that I liked him. I am dreading when I have to. However, I’m going to keep my head up and have fun with my friends. I’m not going to worry about what him and his friends are doing. I feel like if I didn’t text him my hugeeee message, then when I see him again, I would’ve had a panic attack and been so embarrassed. But I’m ok now and I know I’m going to get through this.
So if you’re in this situation right now too I’m here for you. It really hurts but you will get through it. Don’t cry over them, they aren’t worth your time. However, if you want to do something about it, you can always do something like me. I texted them and cleared everything up and it made me feel better. You shouldn’t have to keep feeling the way you do. I woke up and was done with how I felt and I wanted to make a change and I did. I admire my courage. That was the bravest thing I think I have ever done. You can do that too. It’s so easy. Don’t let other people bring you down. Rise against it. Rejection and friend zoning sucks but that’s ok. That just means that that person isn’t the one for you. Give it time. One day you’ll meet someone who will love you endlessly and would never want to do anything to hurt you. For now, I’ll be here waiting with you and know that there are other people around you that understand how you’re feeling right now. So talk to them. Even though they can’t do anything to help the situation, they can be there for you. Sometimes that’s all you need. Comfort. And trust me, it will pass. Mine hasn’t even been a week long and I feel great. I had a unbelievably huge crush on my crush and I thought I’d never get over him. I’m not sure if I have since I haven’t seen him so Idk if I’ll stop getting those feelings when I’m around him, but I do know that I feel free and so happy. Maybe it was a blessing in disguise. Now I can move on.
Sry that was a lot but you’re strong and I believe in you. IT IS POSSIBLE. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS.
Jeez sorry that was a lot. Good job to whoever read that all
I read it all. im so happy it went well for you and that u are strong. sadly i was rejected early in my life and im 27 now and never been in a relationship and pretty much have given up hope in that regard. oh well thats life. Anyways have a great day!
@ PieceO'Cake aww I’m so sorry. But don’t worry I’m sure the right person will come when you least expect it. Sometimes it just takes a long time. But it seems like you’re happy and living life to the fullest and I admire that. I wish the same for me as I get older.
@@katie2872 thank you. I try to not let it make me bitter. And I try not to give up hope but I cry a lot cause I'm alone
@ PieceO'Cake aww that hurts me to hear. But I think we are all like that😢 the world can be a lonely place. Stay safe out there. I wish you the best.
Rejection (as much as it sucks), is all natural. We take it so personally cause we feel the want and need to be accepted! After facing so much of it especially last year, I'm at the point of judt being desensitized by it that it really doesn't bother me anymore. I hot the few who are still here, and those who want in are more than welcome to prove it, just as I will. Rejection is nothing personal, so it's time to take back your power and don't take it so personally!
True! Thank you!
We usually take it personally if the rejection was done in a hurtful way.
I've got too many rejections in my life.
Last year I've got a heartbreak.
And the one who I called my friend,break my trust.
My family also rejected me until I've got a little bit of success.
But watching this video just made me relax a bit from my problems.
Thanks,Psych2Go🙂
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This is sad to hear. BUT : you got this far, you'll make it through.
Damn, that must be really hard to go through. Even if we don't know who you are, or able to feel exactly as you feel, remember that there's always people out there that's proud that you're still here, including me!
Don't be sad too much, there's still much positivity left to be explored. All you need to do is change your perspective on everday things and everything should be going to be even better!
Keep going, buddy!
@@TheOneAndOnly004 Yeah!
But still,I'm trying to be fine😊
Also I hope you're doing fine,too🙏🏻
U to this flora, we believe in u!
My attitude is that "if I'm not good enough for them," ... then, "they are not good enough for me, either." 😉👍
My parents thought me this when I got rejected from a girl . “Accept and Respect the reject don’t get Upset and there is always more to people to be Met.”
amazinggggg
tip for anyone worrying: its really awkward at first if you keep seeing them but thousands of people go through it and tbh you get over it after a few days and life just goes back to normal
Most people in the comment section are talking about romantic rejections, but honestly I think professional or career related rejections hurt the most. Today I received a rejection email from a program that I was really hoping to be a part of, I even imagined myself traveling for that opportunity. The rejection email really broke my heart and life seems a little hopeless right now.
i truly agree with you. Job rejection is so painful and soul crashing. At first i thought i was fine with it but after so many rejections it can be so demoralising. I hope things have gone better for you.
@@ws7009 I completely agree with you. Reading this comment made me revisit all those emotions. I got rejected for the same program again but this time I am mentally and financially at a way better place. Although, rejections hurt but I am still going to apply for the programs that I am passionate about.
In my life this is happening simultaneously. I've been rejected romantically and professionally.
@@shumilefatima7851 ❤️
I am starting a business selling stuff to other businesses and get about 10 rejections a week. Lot's of those rejections I am going to go and try again.
I just got my rejection letter for a scholarship. It was the third time (all different scholarships). I hope everyone who is experiencing the same kind of pain that I am right now, feels better. And always keep this on your mind "Do not make their words, your reality". In essence, it is just a rejection, it is not you. Keep fighting and keep on going, I can't promise that something would happen eventually but it is hope that makes us human. Keep moving forward. 😌
Do what you like, that really works. Cars saved me from depression, some of my friends asking me why do I spend so much time and money on my car. I just tell them my car will never friendzoned and reject me, she accepted me for who I am and taught me a lot of mechanically things which I like to learn.
I was rejected a month ago. Still feel sad about it but it gets better. Sometimes I will cry when I think about it. We are still friends though.
This really pretty girl with an amazing personality which I have become really good friends with just rejected me and I’m not sure how interacting with her from now on will be
@@naton9423 hi. I understand your feelings. It’s hard to cope with it. But overtime it will be better. Luckily I didn’t put 100% of my feelings on him. So I got over it just fine.
I just got rejected from my friend and idk how to keep my friendship going on, you know. I want him in my life but I feel like I am trying too hard and making myself hurt even more. Do you have any advice?
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks on each men. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situation. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
@@odnuu hi. Although we are still friends I can sense that he is avoiding me. Since we are working in a same building he can’t avoid me 100%. We still talk to each other. I just pretend I never confessed to him. Even if it’s hurting me I keep reminding myself I don’t want to lose our friendship. Hope it’ll help you
I applied for a job recently and didn't get it. I noticed that it was causing me anxiety and panic attacks (waiting for the answer and the fear of rejection) so I prepared myself for getting the bad news and immediately started to reflect about what I can improve for the next time I also thought about the good things I won't miss for being unemployed. I started taking care of my body as well, so I feel like I handle rejection in a good way and I'm proud of it.
At the end, it's not big deal being rejected and you learn from the experiences, maybe next time you'll get something better than the opportunity you didn't get.
Rejection is something that I can’t handle
Nobody likes rejection but it's an important lifelong skillset to learn. You got this! - Cindy
@@Psych2go Monica yesterday and Cindy today 😃
Easier said than done. Very hard😭 but I got it
I'm on therapy dealing with all this because I kinda create traumas with this kind of rejections and losses... Sometimes you need a hand from a mental health professional.
Same, I dwell on it for months😭
To the person that’ll read this: you’re cool and adorable, stay safe!
Thank you bb 💕
I was rejected in the past but my feelings didn't fade. In fact, I was obsessed. After some time, my feelings were gone and so I thought. The next thing I knew, those feelings came back but I really didn't do anything about the situation. Everytime that I think about it, I can't help but to feel hate and disgust to myself.
I hope you will feel better soon. Genuine feelings will always remain in our hearts - as long as we don't do bad things to justify what we feel, it's only human to keep feeling and remembering.
I still obsess about my crush almost 20 years back 😅. Being rejected again recently is making me worried I will keep obsessing for the next 20 years 😅😅😅
@@cherryblossom548 Thank you for the response dear. You're right, we are just faulty humans after all but it still sucks to be in this situation. It feels so pathetic and I still can't forgive myself for that past. The best I can do is to suck it up. I hope the best for you in life. 😊
@@sonzai5162 i also wish you all the best. This is life - we gotta move on and plod through it, hoping to never repeat the same mistake. 💪🏻😊
The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
Me who literally just confessed to my crush today and got a date-
Edit: thank you so much to everyone wishing me good luck! 🥺
Wish you the best!
@@7tkto_n thanks a lot! It’s my first date so I’m pretty nervous
Good luck ‼️ you got it ✨
@@haileygg6 thank you ❤️
CONGRATULATIONS!
Everyone makes mistakes even the hardest one in relationships or friendships. Its up to you as the person to change in a good way but to know what's wrong
So true!
I just got rejected today. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. Then this showed up and it's been very insightful. I'm hurting really bad now and I really hope I can get through this.
Thank you psych2go for this video. I love you guys.
Hello dear, true love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost ❤.
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The women in United States are useless and ultra mega superficial about looks. In Portugal and Italy it happens the same situatioon. women in those country only go with handsome men (all ugly and average men are rejected constantly if they are poor). no chance to get a girlfriend there... The best solution it's move to Mexico for United States men, and for Portuguese men move to Africa.. Mexican/colombian/panama women don't care much about looks and are more focused in enjoy life. You live pretty close to mexico so take a flight and move. That's my advice
My best friend rejected me. What happened was I asked him out and he said, "I think we are just friends" that stung me. What he did after was he dated different girl in front of me to make me feel worse. When all this happened it felt like a million bullets shot my heart into a million pieces and my heart would never heal. I also thought, "Why is life so unfair. Love sucks. I built up courage for 4 years and I get rejected. " I felt so alone with no one to talk to.
I can relate to you , I liked this guy for 3 years and confessed today but he is in a relation with a junior . He said I am like his little sister and the worst fact that he knew about my feelings since 3 years.
Its okay bud. I got rejected yesterday by a girl that i liked and i can relate. Don't worry tho we'll get through this. I believe that YOU can do this and you WILL. Sending virtual hugs to everyone!!
i’m going thru this rn and i feel the same pain. It hurts like a bullet wound exactly like you said
@@stevo999 hey how are u feeling now
Just got rejected for the first time by someone, and it feels like we're still gonna be friends which is what I was hoping for if she said no. But ultimately, I feel so happy that I was able to be true to myself and actually live a little
Oh gosh I relate to this so much
so real. i got rejected but didn't feel sad. i felt happy that we would at least stay friends and that i took that leap of faith. i feel relieved and like i can breathe again
Today I got rejected by my first love he told me that he love someone else and his friends was mocking me . Now I understood that I can live without him. I just need my friends.never gonna fall for another one
Same only im still a little sad I did not have a emotional outburst and now feel like the hopes I had were for nothing
accept the answer
distance yourself from the situation
allow yourself to feel
spend time with others
do something you love (hobbies)
practice self-care
work on yourself
learn from the experience
put the rejection into context
explore other opportunities
The best way to handle rejection, and anything else actually, is to work on your self-concept. It all comes down to personal beliefs about yourself or about different situations in life.
Agree
Nice to watch this and realize that I have already been doing this against the recent big rejection. Immediately after rejection, I accepted it and then started looking what I can do to meet my needs instead of trying to change the rejector’s opinion. Of course, I wanted to know why the rejector rejected me in the first place, so I approached her for that, but she could not tell. So I had to reflect on my own and find out actually rejection can be just part of life no matter how excellent you are as a person. I think this rejection helped me realize what I am good at and make me appreciate/value people who can see my value much more!
This video reflects every single one of my “friends.”
Except for my one real best friend who I’m so lucky to have
I had to reject a friend, and she's still struggling with her feelings for me...
I care so much about her that sometimes I wish I was in love with her just to make her happy.
But I don't know how to help her because I also just don't know what being rejected and loving someone feels like yet.
I understand you. I've been on both sides though.
@@pepiluci75 it's been 9 months and we're actually together now, has been a long hard period though
@@linde4649 damn how did u get together did she still pursue you even if u rejected her?
Hi
@@linde4649 that's honestly crazy omg. ive heard stories of the other party over time liking the person back. im so happy for you too and hope it works out!
From my past failed relationship, it been taught me that never put high hope and expectation on your partner. We can't controll what other people feel and want. Moving on made my life so much better. I'm so happy working with my hobbies and my family after that. Its very hurt on the beginning, but trust me it much better after that.
It's funny how I haven't learned how to deal with rejection even though I get rejected so often
This time is your turn to shine! :) - Cindy
Try removing the rose colored frame & see the people who rejected you for who they really are. You may not only be turned off but even completely disgusted. Works every time 🙃
Thanks for this, just got rejected. I think this will help ease the pain 🙂
For me, I've experienced feelings of rejection growing up and in my early adulthood. It is not fun and can destroy a person's soul but learning and growing from them can serve to make you stronger and more resilient. I no longer expect much from people and thus, I have little sense of disappointment and feeling rejected. I have become an indifferent person - that means to a large extent, I care very little about anything and anyone. I love myself and I love my cat (and my kids lol) and that's about all that matters to me. Disappointments and rejections and setbacks happen for a reason - it wasn't meant to be and maybe something better is waiting (I am not a negative person at all - just very logical and reasonable!) LOL.
I don’t have kids… and therefore don’t love anyone outside of myself….. but when you don’t feel much of anything…there isn’t much to love. So I’m likely going to go through life without ever feeling alive.
I can't not feel guilty about it. It's both drama and sadness, like I'm working to be rejected. I can't do something if not for someone or with someone. When doing for myself I only get anxious, think who left and who still is here and what I've done so I won't do this again to the next person. This gets more important than my studies, career, jobs... been so many years like this
This channel has taught me SO much and has helped me significantly improve my self-esteem. I just want to say thank you.
I feel like I've gained more knowledge through watching Psyc2GO rather than attending school 🙄 Thank You for these amazing vids ❤️❤️❤️
The most memorable rejection I experienced was rather recent. I got rejected by a close friend who now doesn't want to speak to me again over some disagreement we had.
I have been rejected before, but it's never cut that deep until this happened.
I'd rather not explain what the disagreement was all about because I fear I might be judged for it.
But what I can say is, I knew it was going to happen one day and I knew that this type of rejection tends to happen in my lifestyle, so it let me have a taste of it - let me see what it's like.
I knew it was going to be painful, but I didn't expect it to be THAT painful...
I'm mostly over it by now, but ngl, a teensy bit of anger is still around.
Though that'll pass with time. I'll get over it - I always do.
I’m curious what conversation did U have ?
@@Zoegottiy Rather not say for fear of being judged. Trying to move on, though I don't blame you for being curious.
@@timdaferretmailman7297 I mean it’s not like we personally know u but I understand
I always take a break from my social accounts. They kinda suck your energy out sometimes. A good early Morning walk cheers me up. Though waking up before the crowd gathers is tough 🤔
Cry, take a distance from the situation and work out help me a lot !
being sad took me a few days but i prefer allow myself feeling the whole thing rather repress it
Step one: just don't talk to anyone to begin with. You can't get rejected if you don't talk to people :]
but that’s life! rejection feels sucks for sure but that’s how you live and grow if u got rejected that’s just means that that job or project or person is simply not for you or not good for you to begin with so live and do things don’t just sit after one rejection and shut yourself from the world and amazing opportunities waiting or you :(
and sorry if my english is bad
Lmao true, im considering of shutting up since I just can’t seem to accept rejection of some sort, but then again, it’s not a healthy way of dealing with it either.
@@connorblair765 wow I understand you so much I also have adhd and being around friends has always been hard for me. I take medicine every day for it.
@@connorblair765 🙁
Haha I wish
Thanks Psych2Go for this video. I think I supported or suggested the idea of how to deal with rejection one day, it doesn't matter how it was, what matters is that you guys listen to your community and I personally feel heard when I suggest topics and I feel incredibly good when you cover them. It really helps me with what I'm struggling with.
Dealing rejection is hard, but most important lesson here is how you handle it. You got this! Have you watched 8 Signs Someone Misses You th-cam.com/video/sgH1328Ie2s/w-d-xo.html ?
Thanks!
AH TY
I just got indirectly rejected and unrejected within a matter of days and I’m so confused rn
Your comment itself is kinda confusing 🤣🤣🤣
Confuse your Confusion perhaps
@@ranapratap4650 your reply adds to my confusion lol
@@ranapratap4650 basically what happened is I met this guy and we became friends. He asked me if I liked him, I said I wasn’t really sure since we’d only been talking for a little while but I said I really liked talking to him. He said he didn’t have a crush on me and then I realized that I did have a crush on him and I was really sad. Then a few days later he said that he wanted to change what he said and that he agreed with the way I felt. Still not really sure what’s going to happen but wish me luck!!
@@ohmyohasparagus441
Interesting but yes, a bit confusing 🤣.
I wish you very good Luck for the future 🌟
@@ranapratap4650 I hope all goes well in life for you too!!! 😁
Everyday in the lottery, in Las Vegas & on game shows like "The Price is Right", people are "rejected" constantly without a second thought. Love is absolutely no different. Some will win in this game. But others must lose. We cannot all win, fate won't allow it. The solution is to walk away from the toxic area, and find substitutions. The smart & the wise know this.
Planning to confess to my 3 year crush and one of my friends, just here to prepare for the worst case scenarios
I'm probably late but good luck brother.
@@The_Guy33 already confessed lol, I wasn't rejected
But also, my confession wasn't accepted, she simply just questioned me why I liked her but we retained our friendship (I can even say that it grew stronger) . So I guess it went well for me in the end?
For whoever is reading this: I wish you the best 2021! Don't let anyone change you! Your so beautiful !!!
Lol posting right around Valentine’s, I see you
This is a skill we need to learn. Rejection is part of our life.
Wow, thank you so much. Sometimes I feel like I get called out in some of your videos and they hurt because they are a little to true but this video was very helpful. Thank you for expanding my options!
No problem! We hope this video helped you! Which tips from this video did you find most helpful? :)
Can I just say the voiceover person has a amazing and calming voice.
Isn't possible, how can this video came just in the moment I had been reject yesterday, thank for you exist ❤️
You’re welcome 😊! Things will get better regardless what kind of rejection you had to go through :) - Cindy
Agreed
Take your time to feel good again. We work a lot in ourselves to be how ans who we are (in a good way) that when someone just rejects us, we feel a full body slap in our brain and is hard to understand how you can reject someone's hard work. Is the way it happened to me the las 3 rejections.
Take a break to release the emotions and seek help if it feels too heavy to carry on. Wish you the best
@@Mtz2604 Well, it was the worst kind of rejection, love, it was the fourth time I tried and keep on counting
Honestly needed this, life truly sucks when you go through alot 😪
Rejections should be offset by atleast some successes. Constantly struggling and going nowhere leaves a bigger scar in your mind. Ive lost everything career love etc and nothing makes me happy anymore. I dont have 'close friends' to hold my back either.
Your voice itself is so calming.. It had already reduced some part of the rejection pain
My friend got rejected, so I’m trying to help him.
So yesterday i confessed to the girl that i liked for MONTHS because i saw some signs of her that she may like me but she rejected me. She was very sweet about it which i appreciated very much. Now trying to get over it but i won't be easy. Thank you so much for your advices and im so lucky that i found your channel!
Love the video! So glad I found Psych2Go! What about advice for overcoming the fear of rejection? I end up choosing not to take the risk to avoid the pain of rejection, but I also self-deny potential opportunities for success.
Yesterday my crush told me he liked me back. Today his friend told me that my crush doesn’t want to have a relationship with me and he only said that he liked me because he felt guilty. I felt heartbroken. I can’t believe this kind of people exist. I hope my “crush” knows what he done.
I became a time-traveler by accident and there's no going back.
No one cares
How?
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How did you do that?
Ok
Rejected by one I love is the hardest feeling I've ever had to deal with... It hurts everyday caring about him and he doesn't even care.
I was diagnosed with ADHD recently and I'm struggling with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria.
im dealing with so much rejection rn, your timing is literally perfect 😭😭
You got this! Everyone gets rejection once in awhile. It's very normal, but most importantly is how you handle it. - Cindy
Psych2Go thank you! ive been feeling so down these last few weeks and the video + you replying made me feel so much more motivated! 🤍
Hi
How are you?
After the 21st rejection and the death of my ex am starting to think something is wrong in my life
I am watching this before I even know the answer in preparation for the possibility of rejection. Someone is going to ask her in a few weeks...
My brain always causes the “turn it around effect”
It is basically that my brain causes me to loose interest in thst person, so much that within a week i wonder why I ever liked her.
This only never happened with my best friend, she rejected me 2x but I still kinda like her. But my mind tries to distract me from it by causing crushes on other girls
you have no idea how much that helps
Rejection is painful and tough to cope with, but with loving friends and family, it’s much easier. Don’t feel embarrassed or scared, just know that it’s a common thing which comes across everyone. Accept your emotions and move on. Everything happens for a reason.
I'll often ask someone with the expectation of getting rejected. If they suprise me and say yes, that's a bonus. Just steel yourself first, then the hit will be less severe.
Rejection has occurred all over the world throughout history. We're not alone in the experience. My great grandfather probably experienced it. Nobody is spared of it.
I watched this video before I asked my crush out, sadly she said no, but thanks to this video, I learned to say, "ok, cool." Set the phone on the counter, and sit on the couch and watch TV. This is an amazing video for tips.
Its frustrating that noone will love me like a lover. Im smart and beautiful but none will see that except friends.
this definitely will help me. ive had this feeling for so long and i rlly wanna get rid of it. imma try and look for better goals and spend time with people i rlly enjoy hanging out with
We hope this video will help you! You got this! - Cindy
I got rejected by my crush to be my valentine! 😥
But it's okay, I'm going to hang out with my best friends. 💖💖
Same here. 😔
Same..
Hello dear, true love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost ❤.
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I didn't even realize how much I needed this video right now, I thought I already figured all of it out now, but some things you said helped me to look at this situation of mine from a yet different perspective and see the positives in it. Thank you for that.
All I have ever been in my life is rejected, so this video didn't help much lol. The hatred I have for myself runs so deep, it can never be repaired!
Chill, I feel u...Always get rejected if i ever found someone I like no matter how many times I tried, really wish something great really great is just waiting for me out there
Thanks for the help, I've been through rejection twice in a short time and it's really hurts, but a little better now
Simple yet effective
Dont ask anyone out
I don't understand how and why. I always thought he (let's call him buttercup) liked me back and all the your videos regarding crushes showed those signs too. He clearly complimented me too and once we had a group project, he joined my team saying that I'm the best. And we used to have online meetings everyday (actually we didn't practice mostly cause most people didn't even join, it was just me, him and my other classmate). In those meetings we usually just talked and had fun. And he made me laugh sooo much and always said 'please don't end the meeting now, I m havin fun' and stuff. And even though our exams were going on at the same time, i joined the meeting everyday and spent 1 or 2 hours. Usually I am very stressed during exams but that time i was just soo much at ease, I didn't have any stress. Normally, i wouldn't waste my time like that during examinations but this time it was different. And i secured excellent marks too. He just took all that stress away from me. And even in class he was always telling me jokes, and if I was doing my maths sums wrong, he'd correct me. One day the teacher told both of us to check someone's English literature notebook. He came over to my desk and sat next to me with the notebook. And oh boy that kid's English was horrible. We were checking his essay and giggling at the silly mistakes. And sometimes even our legs were touching. We were soo close looking at that notebook our heads almost touched. When he went back to his seat (which was right in front of mine) he turned back to take something from his bag and i repeated a very funny line from that essay. He laughed and I swear I saw him blush. It is devastating to know we are in different classes this year. We don't talk anymore (at all). It's just a quick glances now. And today i got indirectly rejected by him. So basically his best fren is in my class and we talk (a lot cuz he's my fren too). I dun hv feelings for his best fren ofc. But we were chatting online today when he asked 'Whats your type, i mean who would you like as a bf' I said 'as long as they're not total idiots and uk kinna smart'. He replied ' u mean someone like buttercup and daffodil (another smart and good looking guy)'. I said 'maybe'. He said ' if daffodil proposes to u would you accept him'. I said ' I'll hv to think about that cuz uk he's kinna extroverted and he dances in class and one time he cried just bcuz he missed his presentation, other wise he's good and understanding'. Buttercup's best fren said 'lol then you would definitely accept buttercup' I said ' um....i would'. He said ' that will never happen though'. I said ' i know'. He said ' I cannot control my laughter after this'. I was shook. I think I misread everything or whut. He always sat with/near me. A kid (less call him orchid) sat behind me in class. Buttercup sat with him for maths period and said that orcid needs help with maths work while he kept talking to me all the time. He didn't go back till the next 2 periods. He even took my pencil and in exchange for his pencil. And did I mention he's a greatttt artist. He did maths work with my pencil and afterwards when I came to return his pencil he be like your pencil is very good, I wanna keep it. I said I have many of those pencils u can keep one. He drew somthing fabulous with it and later on he came and said 'this pencil has potential. YOU CAN DRAW' and returned it to me. Now how can someone not be flattered by that. Or atleast me . Well, i m still tryna get over him......I hope nothing bad happens tomorrow. I just can't believe how he played with my heart
I have a little problem....after I get rejected or an embarrassing incident occurs, I obsess over it. I can’t stop thinking about it over and over again and I start to punish myself by not eating. 😞
I asked a girl out In my gym class today, you can tell the answer. She had a boyfriend. Thanks for making this.
I know how constant rejection feels. Rejection is like a flu shot, it stings at first, but it also helps in the long run. Stay strong everyone🤠
6 months later and I still feel the rejection. It is what it is and this video (along with all your other) helped.
I just rejected yesterday and I embrace it it’s okay to be rejected
i was literally just rejected by my crush, she told me she had a bf and was not interested in girls and didn’t want to be my friend
It helped a lot, but I'm still stuck in anxiety.
So I have some ideas for videos. I don't know all the videos you've already made, but these are just some video topics I thought might help myself and others. I love how you explain things and I love that your videos are short and to the point.
Video ideas:
Types of rejection, types of healthy and toxic sibling relationships, how to deal with generalized anxiety thoughts/worries, types of unhealthy coping, difference between panic attacks and panic disorder, difference between social anxiety, social phobia, and agoraphobia, healthy coping skills and how to do them, how to stop intrusive/irrational thoughts/thinking, ways you can help someone you worry/care about, how to deal with stress and test anxiety, how to overcome generalized anxiety thoughts, and how to deal with social anxiety.
I was rejected by a friend I met online. Most all these tips were exactly how I handled the situation. The cons outweighed the pros so it was okay.
The Point 5 make me cry, because for my all whole life I follow this to cure myself from the rejecting of the life. Those saves me from depression when I got separated from my most valuable ex girlfriend, so I absolutely give to all people to concentrate on hobbies when we are sad for any bad things or the life
The voice of the video make me cry also meanwhile I listen point 5-6-7
I got rejected today on Valentine's day😭😭