As a Filipino(who’s fluent in Tagalog), 90 day fiancé definitely misunderstood Rose. She wasn’t flirting with Big Ed. She was just responding. She wasn’t reading into his hidden agenda. To Filipinos, English is straight forward.
Eds incapability to even hear others opinions is wild! It always had to be about him, jeez. And even when he's confronted with facts and timestamps, he gets stunlock and then blames others. He's a vile human.
Rose is engaged! Or at least in a committed relationship. Ed was persuing her and she was just responding. I genuinely think Ken is misreading Rose on this one, it did not seem open to me at all. It seemed bare minimum polite, which is common in her culture.
up on this especially being filipino it felt mistranslated on her end and us filipino just kindda understood what she actually meant.. She wasn't open to anything our culture is just so different here and they are reading it as if it was someone from their own culture
Rose is in a committed relationship. I noticed that they kept on insisting since last time that Rose mentioned that he can come and Rose is interested. Rose isn't interested in the slightest. English is not her first language. She meant that The Philippines (which was previously on lockdown around the time of Ed's message) is currently opening its boarders for foreign visitors. Not everyone in our country could understand the nuances and the underlying meaning of what Ed meant. Filipinos treat the English Language very straightforwardly and translates word for word. The direct translation of Ed's message (without considering what ed literally meant) is "gusto ko pumunta ng pilipinas para makita ka kung bukas na" and if you translated that in english, it's going to be "I want to come to the Philippines to see you if it's open". A lot of the message would be lost in translation if someone not fluent is reading/translating it.
Ed is the type of person that will use and say things against Liz to “punish” her. “I’m not going to give her back the ring.” “Are you crying? You are preforming” (when she was probably super frustrated and sad). Talking over Liz but letting others speak for Liz. She mentioned that she can go to the gym for as long as she wants, that’s Ed rewarding her. He is trying to condition Liz to behave the way that he wants, and when Liz steps out of line, he manipulates and gaslights until she “behaves”.
It’s pretty clear to tell that this dude suffers from a severe case of narcissism. He’s forever the victim of his own actions, never the cause of them. He doesn’t know how to take responsibility for anything and constantly pushes blame onto others. The reason he’ll never have a healthy relationship is because he’s not capable of putting anyone else’s needs above his own.
He doesn't know how to take responsibility he always deflect because he can't handle the consequences of his actions clearly he was never held accountable as a kid
@@smoxthybweh He has said before that he always gets out of trouble and his mother always blames others for the failure of his relationships because of their “young age” or because they are not “the one” or the “right one” for him.
Coming from a Philippine native that speaks tagalog, what Rose said last episode was pretty lost on translation. The translator said the direct translation of exactly what Rose said but not really what she meant. Tagalog is a pretty loose language which can be easily mis translated. To us people who actually understood what Rose was saying in our native language, Rose was pretty much just spitting out info last time and did not even gave a hint of interest in Ed. The thing is TLC obviously is taking advantage of the language barrier to create a good story.
@@victoriawilliams2786 right? They got to be a dime a dozen. Ed's birth defect is what makes him stand out from the other d-bags. If he was nice, I wouldn't pick on him for it. Dude kinda makes himself an easy target for that one. He doesn't give a sh*t, he's waddling all the way to the bank. 🤣
Rose's texts aren't her really trying to flirt with Ed. It's just her inviting Ed to visit her country since no one can really stop him from just visiting and trying to manipulate another girl
As someone who was in a cheating narcissistic toxic relationship, it's understandable why at this point she doesn't cry. she either expected this to at some point AGAIN or she's so used to it that it doesn't phase her anymore. Plus if she does cry or storm off because shes frustrated and wants to remove herself from the situation, she gets told she's "performing"
I feel this in my soul. I 1000% agree with you. The blame on everything is always on the person they’re manipulating. And like you said after a while you just expect it. I’d describe it as going numb too. I was so mentally exhausted from his constant crap I just couldn’t react most of the time. And when I finally had enough and kicked him out he cried and begged me to stay with him with all these promises to “change”… those kind of people never change. I’m so glad I dumped his ass. Now I’m with a loving husband and never treats me like that and has always been respectful.
Ed - What Liz has done is unforgivable 😡😡 Also Ed - You have no forgiveness in your heart😞😞 Also it's pretty funny as to what his "call" is when he's lying. He starts blinking faster when he lies, trying to cry for sympathy. Even still though, he can't get any tears to come out. Dude's such a sleeze ball, man.
Rose is already successful and has a partner. the interpretation wasn't accurately said. and when she said that Ed is welcome, it did not mean that she welcomes him, it just meant that you can come to PH if you want. Filipinos are just really polite, and keep in mind she is not fluent in english, so she couldve just written it inthe most simplest way possible.
When you say she "left it open" the actual translation is like if she said in a sassy tone, "I can't keep you from coming to the Phillipines". Like in a way saying (I can't tell you what to do, come or not I don't care.) I don't think the translator was clear about that.
- Politely introduces herself and compliments Ed’s most recent victim - Learned from her last tell all and brought receipts - Watched the wall of shame fall on him ensuring his already terrible reputation to fall off its last leg. - Politely leaves
Rose didn't leave him "open". She just mean she can't stop him from visiting the Philippines as a country. That's it. She has no intent on getting back with Ed
Yeah, humans are nuanced and some may use therapy to become better manipulators or just tell their perspective so they can be told that what they are going through is valid. But that in no way means that it's a blanket statement and that it is always one way or the other. If it makes things easier for you, then fine. But I wouldn't go spreading that kind of misinformation for everyone else.
@@lisarodriguez6966 everyone’s perspective are valid. That’s pretty fair. If I’m going through something, and you said that is not valid, you’re just minimizing what I’m going through.
@@lisarodriguez6966 it’s a hyperbolic statement. In other words, it’s exaggerating something to make a point. It isn’t meant to be taken literally or as a blanket statement that applies to everyone, even all narcissists. It’s not “misinformation” by any means. Why is it that people are so lacking in their ability to detect nuance?
What I thought Rose meant by answering yes to if Ed could come, is that he's free to come to her country. Now what I'd do is say "yes please come" and not show up and leave him hanging at the airport
Ed's denial reminds me of the Narcissist's Prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. -Dayna Craig
@@neael Ed performs apologies. If he was actually sorry for things he has done and said he would change his behavior. Nobody has to accept Ed’s fake apologies. Liz needs to realize that Ed will never accept responsibility for his actions and he will never change. Her obsession over having Ed admit the truth is only prolonging her pain. Ed is incapable of being honest
@@BigRedShadevil I see. Thats interesting. In my opinion, I believe that there is no broken people and I enjoy holding space for others. Thats the kindest thing anyone can do for someone. Letting them make their own decision. Feel free to agree to disagree if you disagree with me. Just because I disagree with you, it doesn't mean you are wrong or have bad reasoning. I want you to come up with your conclusion. I'm not changing my opinion. I think your reasoning is great but it just doesn't suit me. Its true that no one has to accept Ed's apologies but the people that sees Ed for who he is will accept his apology while the people that doesn't see Ed will never accept his apology. People should do their own thing.
As a person that has been in a toxic relationship before. Advice from a friend or family member to leave etc. just doesn't hit the same as validation from another woman/ person that has been through the exact same situation with the toxic person. It just carries more weight coming from someone that was in it vs someone on the outside looking in.
@@Kyyndle I agree, someone like him can crush even a strong confident woman over time. I wonder how many people end their life because of abusive people like him but they get away with it 😤
It just sucks, because there are people like him that are 100% real. The more they spew, the higher the chance you'll forget what the original conversation was about and will move on. As soon as you say something that points blame at yourself, they will HANG ON to that with every fiber of their vile being. People like him want to tire you out and oh my god, don't they. Just watching Big Ed is exhausting but, I absolutely love ya'lls commentary XD Ya'll make watching his shit bearable.
Rose is in a great relationship atm, I think that was more of her being friendly and nice, with an english barrier, and not her "leaving the door open for Ed". Ed is a narcissitic creep
"I dont know how to be in a relationship" WHAT! Really?? I never would of guessed! But seriously, how ed goes from saying stuff like this to bs like telling Liz how she needs to act in a relationship is remarkable is the *worst* possible way...
Ed trying to cry is the most hilarious thing I've ever seen. And of course Angela would think Ed is a good person because she's just as bad only she's physically abusive
Remember the garden scene when he faked being scared in vegas (sob) all by himself (sob) staring at her to see it was working, furiously blinking try to get something resembling a tear. So scared that he went back to vegas a week later alone.
That entire part with the “prove it was me” and your reactions had me literally laughing out loud. Big Ed is not only the founder of the Clown College, he’s a lifetime member as well.
I think when people say "you are welcome in my country" it's just a hospitality thing or just to be polite because I've noticed some of my students from Asian countries would say it no matter what. If I was Rose I'd be that toxic ass saying "you're not welcome here" 😂😂
the repeating "I was drowning and she stepped on my head" this is so similar to the narcissist in my family. They find something they like and repeat it OVER AND OVER.
Why doesn't anyone ever tell Ed to shut up and let other people talk? That is INFURIATING to me. He always interrupts, and never lets Liz or anyone else get out what they're trying to say. He doesn't listen to hear what anyone has to say, he only listens to respond. I hate him so much.
How can they stay so calm when taking to big ed, like I would have lost my sht and screamed at him for so many time to finally to shut up and let me finish a damn sentence for once.
@@Anna.T. But his buttons are perfectly fine to use..they're just living their best button life, holding that shirt so strong chuck Norris bows in respect.
there's no way Rose would leave anything open, her respond felt more like " i can't keep you out of the country", also I don't trust TLC translations anymore because filipinos watching the show have said the translators kept paraphrasing her and leaving stuffs out the last tell all she was on lol
My family is from a similar southeast Asian country and they are welcoming of anyone who wants to come into their home (or country) regardless of how they have wronged them, I think Rose honestly just has those values instilled in her and it was just how she would treat that question with anyone. I don’t personally think it was a sneaky malicious way of getting Ed back in the sac behind Liz’s back
You’re right. She thought he was asking if the Philippines opened back up, not if he could visit her. She’s like “I can’t ban you from the country Edward”.
I don't care if its scripted, if they (TLC) continue to do this with big ed they are basically condoning emotional and mental abuse for the sake of entertainment and just being insensitive to victims like Liz, me and thousands of others in the same situation.
The other day, I turned to my partner and said, "I get why they keep making more! This is like a modern day bad fairy tale. This is a warning for others to avoid people like Ed! Right?.....right??...." Thinking of my kiddos and other loved ones and hoping they never end up with or around Eds.
TLC has been doing this. They claim they want to shed light on all of these relationships and teen pregnancies. But all they are doing is making money off of drama and toxicity. Hopefully no one romanticizes this bullshit
I was just thinking about that. I bet even today he's still the "Hey guy" on her social media/IG. Hey Hey Hey how r u Hey What's up Wish you'd talk to me Hey
I don’t understand why some of these people are so desperate for a relationship. Being single is actually amazing. No drama, no cheating, no compromises, no narcissistic abuse.
Ed will forever be toxic, no matter what relationship he's in. He's better off being alone forever, it would save everyone else the headache of dealing with him
Like a previous comment said in the last video, I don't think Rose was saying "Yeah, come on over!" But, "I can't really ban you from the Philippines so do what you want." I also feel that Rose is just so confident and secure she's just not threatened by Ed. But hey, that's just my two cents.
Yeah my ex was like that, i'd say something & she'd ignore it, her therapist would say the same thing & all of a sudden it's like the will of god, lmao.
Big Ed constantly acts like a toddler, it’s this cycle of him being a grown man and manipulating people and then getting called out and suddenly throwing a tantrum. We’ve seen this with every relationship he’s been in, and no matter how hard Big Ed tries to change the subject it doesn’t work, and now he’s constantly on the defensive. Thankfully we have Ken and Buff here to swim through the sea that is Big Ed’s poor life decisions
I work with victims of abuse. There are many reasons why people stay or go back to the abusive person. It can be difficult for people in healthy relationships to understand these dynamics. Just because you don’t understand doesn’t mean it isn’t real.
I just wanted to stop in and say I am truly appreciative both for your content and how quickly you put it out!! I have PTSD and pretty extreme anxiety as a generality (working on it) and your videos seem to be one of very few things that are able to make me feel calm and good on days that aren’t so great. I am beyond appreciative of what you do and the influence you are for young people. Thank you!
Okay ROSE has always been polite and just "responded" to the human toe. She has a serious relationship with an 5"10 Australian business man. I'm pretty sure she meant 'You're welcome to visit the Philippines again'
I think Rose was just saying shit to Ed that she could bring back to Liz and the show to be like ''Look at this POS, this is who he is.'' I have no doubt she would refuse to see him if it came down to it. She's doing well as far as her YT channel shows.
Love you and your videos more than anything, Ken. Thank you so, so, much for all the laughs over the years. Things are coming to an end for me, now. All I can say is that words will never be enough. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the smile you put on my face
Ed trying to swerve around the dating app thing is hilarious everyone with a dating app these days are on the phone primarily so I bet he doesn’t even wanna show his phone 😂
Update on big ed and Liz. They are currently back together, he is talking to his mom again and she is wearing her ring again. Let’s pretend that our minds are blown now
Yes, back for this weeks episode of neckless and reckless
This better get top comment
Same
Damn!
Me, rn: ☠️
Same
As a Filipino(who’s fluent in Tagalog), 90 day fiancé definitely misunderstood Rose. She wasn’t flirting with Big Ed. She was just responding. She wasn’t reading into his hidden agenda. To Filipinos, English is straight forward.
yh i think she was being polite when she said he is always welcome, she didnt mean it in a romantic way
Sana po
😊😊
@@mizzcrazygal that’s how I interpreted that too. She is just a kind person being friendly
@@mizzcrazygal pp.bk bk b o in b knob b j b job k p a
Eds incapability to even hear others opinions is wild! It always had to be about him, jeez. And even when he's confronted with facts and timestamps, he gets stunlock and then blames others. He's a vile human.
Clearly his parents failed to hold him accountable as a kid and teach him humility 💀
@@smoxthybweh his parents are probably both the exact same way
Wait he's human?
Sounds like majority of people.
That's a narcissist for ya
Ed’s inability to let people finish what they’re saying is so freaking infuriating…..
Ed: “She won’t even have a conversation!”
Because you won’t let her get a word out, jerk.
If I were in that room and he spoke over me, I’d sock him in the gut so hard, he’ll grow a neck.
I swear!!! I would of punched him 😂
@@stormyk244 ed is no jerk.
@@neael He is
Rose is engaged! Or at least in a committed relationship. Ed was persuing her and she was just responding. I genuinely think Ken is misreading Rose on this one, it did not seem open to me at all. It seemed bare minimum polite, which is common in her culture.
up on this especially being filipino it felt mistranslated on her end and us filipino just kindda understood what she actually meant.. She wasn't open to anything our culture is just so different here and they are reading it as if it was someone from their own culture
I agree. It's part of the culture
Rose is in a committed relationship. I noticed that they kept on insisting since last time that Rose mentioned that he can come and Rose is interested. Rose isn't interested in the slightest. English is not her first language. She meant that The Philippines (which was previously on lockdown around the time of Ed's message) is currently opening its boarders for foreign visitors. Not everyone in our country could understand the nuances and the underlying meaning of what Ed meant. Filipinos treat the English Language very straightforwardly and translates word for word. The direct translation of Ed's message (without considering what ed literally meant) is "gusto ko pumunta ng pilipinas para makita ka kung bukas na" and if you translated that in english, it's going to be "I want to come to the Philippines to see you if it's open". A lot of the message would be lost in translation if someone not fluent is reading/translating it.
Yeah I think she meant it in a "it's a free country" type of way and that he can go wherever he wants to go
I spoken to Rose about it, it was all to expose him. She HATES him.
Ed is the type of person that will use and say things against Liz to “punish” her. “I’m not going to give her back the ring.” “Are you crying? You are preforming” (when she was probably super frustrated and sad). Talking over Liz but letting others speak for Liz. She mentioned that she can go to the gym for as long as she wants, that’s Ed rewarding her. He is trying to condition Liz to behave the way that he wants, and when Liz steps out of line, he manipulates and gaslights until she “behaves”.
Yeah there's a word for that... it's called abuse
@@Lina_unchained yeah isn't that like emotional or mental abuse?
His refusal to validate her feelings is absolute trash 🗑 Ed is garbage..I would 👊 🤜 🤛 his face in if I was in Liz's place 🤬😠😡
It's called narcissism
@@Somerandomboredguy all of the above.
Buff almost swearing and then just grunting in frustration was the most hilarious and relatable thing 😂😂😂
Ikr and you know the video is real serious if that happens.
@@DragonHeart177 LITERALLY! I don't think I've ever noticed him getting that close to swearing before 💀💀😂😂
Time stamp? Sry have to ask lol
@@bahamut_the_warrior11:49
@@bahamut_the_warrior the sentence starts at 11:45, and he grunts at 11:49! Sorry for the delay, I had to find it again LOL!
It’s pretty clear to tell that this dude suffers from a severe case of narcissism. He’s forever the victim of his own actions, never the cause of them. He doesn’t know how to take responsibility for anything and constantly pushes blame onto others. The reason he’ll never have a healthy relationship is because he’s not capable of putting anyone else’s needs above his own.
Beautifully said 👏 ❤️
Oh, for sure. I had a covert narc mom and saw it coming 5 miles away lmfao. He's so disgusting.
Well said. 👍👏👏👏
Ed: You notice how Liz didn't defend me when everyone held me accountable for trying to cheat on her? I was "drownding"
God my ex did this shit its infuriating. I know a lot of this stuff is fake but he's definitely manipulative and has convinced himself he's the victim
That fat thumb is literally lying to everybody and he honestly thinks people believe him anymore
He doesn't know how to take responsibility he always deflect because he can't handle the consequences of his actions clearly he was never held accountable as a kid
@@smoxthybweh He has said before that he always gets out of trouble and his mother always blames others for the failure of his relationships because of their “young age” or because they are not “the one” or the “right one” for him.
d r o w n D i n g
Coming from a Philippine native that speaks tagalog, what Rose said last episode was pretty lost on translation.
The translator said the direct translation of exactly what Rose said but not really what she meant. Tagalog is a pretty loose language which can be easily mis translated. To us people who actually understood what Rose was saying in our native language, Rose was pretty much just spitting out info last time and did not even gave a hint of interest in Ed.
The thing is TLC obviously is taking advantage of the language barrier to create a good story.
yeah is for the Plot for sure.. I mean it is TLC, everything they do is for entertainment value and is fake 😂
Ed telling someone else to own their shit is hysterical!
A toddler mid-tantrum: “You need to gwow up!”
@@eileensnow6153everyone needs to own their shit.
This relationship is between "super fake/scripted" and "you cant make this shit up". Either Ed is an incredible actor or the worst human being ever.
I'm inclined to believe the latter
Reality shows are almost always a mix of both. No way he's actually a nice guy in real life. I'd find that very difficult to believe.
I imagine it's not difficult to find an odd looking narcissist when holding auditions.
@@victoriawilliams2786 right? They got to be a dime a dozen. Ed's birth defect is what makes him stand out from the other d-bags. If he was nice, I wouldn't pick on him for it. Dude kinda makes himself an easy target for that one. He doesn't give a sh*t, he's waddling all the way to the bank. 🤣
Big Ed saying he doesn't know how to be in a relationship is the understatement of the century
Shit the man doesn’t even know how to look up 😂😂
@@turpyturtle8621 I have Klippel Fiel Syndrome too, and I approve this message 👍👍 😂😂
Eds middle name is "I dont know how to"
Jabba the hut keeps embarrassing himself but is a failure at life
@@skye3799 Ed knows how to be in a relationship.
Rose's texts aren't her really trying to flirt with Ed. It's just her inviting Ed to visit her country since no one can really stop him from just visiting and trying to manipulate another girl
As someone who was in a cheating narcissistic toxic relationship, it's understandable why at this point she doesn't cry. she either expected this to at some point AGAIN or she's so used to it that it doesn't phase her anymore. Plus if she does cry or storm off because shes frustrated and wants to remove herself from the situation, she gets told she's "performing"
yep
She hardly ever sees her daughter and doesn’t cry about that either. Being trauma bonded with a narc doesn’t excuse her other character flaws
Well it is all a performance, the whole relationship, so...
@@CBrown86 Liz truly does love Ed. Not trauma bonded
I feel this in my soul. I 1000% agree with you. The blame on everything is always on the person they’re manipulating. And like you said after a while you just expect it. I’d describe it as going numb too. I was so mentally exhausted from his constant crap I just couldn’t react most of the time. And when I finally had enough and kicked him out he cried and begged me to stay with him with all these promises to “change”… those kind of people never change. I’m so glad I dumped his ass. Now I’m with a loving husband and never treats me like that and has always been respectful.
Ed - What Liz has done is unforgivable 😡😡
Also Ed - You have no forgiveness in your heart😞😞
Also it's pretty funny as to what his "call" is when he's lying. He starts blinking faster when he lies, trying to cry for sympathy. Even still though, he can't get any tears to come out. Dude's such a sleeze ball, man.
Rose is already successful and has a partner. the interpretation wasn't accurately said. and when she said that Ed is welcome, it did not mean that she welcomes him, it just meant that you can come to PH if you want. Filipinos are just really polite, and keep in mind she is not fluent in english, so she couldve just written it inthe most simplest way possible.
Ed telling people they are being “rude” to him while he is being the rudest person in the room sends me….
It makes me violently angry
When you say she "left it open" the actual translation is like if she said in a sassy tone, "I can't keep you from coming to the Phillipines". Like in a way saying (I can't tell you what to do, come or not I don't care.) I don't think the translator was clear about that.
I love how Rose literally showed up to cause chaos then leave. As 👏she 👏should👏
Sucks that liz is too much of an airhead to do the same. She probably likes the attention.
- Politely introduces herself and compliments Ed’s most recent victim
- Learned from her last tell all and brought receipts
- Watched the wall of shame fall on him ensuring his already terrible reputation to fall off its last leg.
- Politely leaves
Rose didn't leave him "open". She just mean she can't stop him from visiting the Philippines as a country. That's it. She has no intent on getting back with Ed
Thank you! That’s how I interpreted it as well.
Yes. I don’t get why Ken and Buffpro can’t understand that. I know they have awareness of other cultures.
@@doncarlin9081 look i really like ken and buff but in the 4 years i watched them for they do have very limited cultural awareness
“Heyyyy babe 🥰 can I come visit your country? 🥺💕”
“I mean, I don’t own the country. I can’t legally stop you”
I agree, Filipinos are also known for their hospitality. And I guess it's just how Rose worded her sentence that Ken and Buff got confused?
"If Big Ed had a neck he'd give himself whiplash at this point"
Choked on my damn croissant 😂
Just recently I heard someone say narcissists who go to therapy are just taking notes to become better narcissists. That's Ed 100%
he definitely exhibits multiple traits of narcissistic personality disorder
Yeah, humans are nuanced and some may use therapy to become better manipulators or just tell their perspective so they can be told that what they are going through is valid. But that in no way means that it's a blanket statement and that it is always one way or the other. If it makes things easier for you, then fine. But I wouldn't go spreading that kind of misinformation for everyone else.
@@lisarodriguez6966 everyone’s perspective are valid. That’s pretty fair. If I’m going through something, and you said that is not valid, you’re just minimizing what I’m going through.
Sounds like Amber Heard.
@@lisarodriguez6966 it’s a hyperbolic statement. In other words, it’s exaggerating something to make a point. It isn’t meant to be taken literally or as a blanket statement that applies to everyone, even all narcissists. It’s not “misinformation” by any means. Why is it that people are so lacking in their ability to detect nuance?
Dude, knowing Ed watches these vids makes them so much better. GOT 'EM!
What I thought Rose meant by answering yes to if Ed could come, is that he's free to come to her country. Now what I'd do is say "yes please come" and not show up and leave him hanging at the airport
That's what I thought too.
Yes please come here, Ed. He will know the bad side of Filipinos who feels disrespected on behalf of Rose.
Exactly what she meant. I’ve worked with many Filipinos, and they are rarely openly rude. No where in the text did Rose say she will meet Ed.
I think it could have been to see if he’d dig himself more into a hole. But I agree about it being an open welcome.
Buff and Ken confusing Sojaboy as Soulja Boy is hilarious 😂
Ed's denial reminds me of the Narcissist's Prayer:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
-Dayna Craig
Lmao
@@BriannaBow ed is not in denial
@@neael well we hope that you too run off into the sun together on a huge white horse weirdo
@@neael
Ed performs apologies. If he was actually sorry for things he has done and said he would change his behavior. Nobody has to accept Ed’s fake apologies. Liz needs to realize that Ed will never accept responsibility for his actions and he will never change. Her obsession over having Ed admit the truth is only prolonging her pain. Ed is incapable of being honest
@@BigRedShadevil I see. Thats interesting. In my opinion, I believe that there is no broken people and I enjoy holding space for others. Thats the kindest thing anyone can do for someone. Letting them make their own decision.
Feel free to agree to disagree if you disagree with me. Just because I disagree with you, it doesn't mean you are wrong or have bad reasoning. I want you to come up with your conclusion. I'm not changing my opinion. I think your reasoning is great but it just doesn't suit me.
Its true that no one has to accept Ed's apologies but the people that sees Ed for who he is will accept his apology while the people that doesn't see Ed will never accept his apology. People should do their own thing.
Can we please put Ed in a soundproof box while Liz is trying to speak??
As a person that has been in a toxic relationship before. Advice from a friend or family member to leave etc. just doesn't hit the same as validation from another woman/ person that has been through the exact same situation with the toxic person. It just carries more weight coming from someone that was in it vs someone on the outside looking in.
Yep. She just wanted to hear it from somebody who could relate.
The fact she can't make the decision herself and needs motivation to help herself to begin with 🙄
@@DriedVix it's different when you're in that position.
@@Kyyndle I agree, someone like him can crush even a strong confident woman over time. I wonder how many people end their life because of abusive people like him but they get away with it 😤
Yeah, when Ken said that, I was like, "Sis, go ask Mary about that".
It just sucks, because there are people like him that are 100% real. The more they spew, the higher the chance you'll forget what the original conversation was about and will move on. As soon as you say something that points blame at yourself, they will HANG ON to that with every fiber of their vile being. People like him want to tire you out and oh my god, don't they. Just watching Big Ed is exhausting but, I absolutely love ya'lls commentary XD Ya'll make watching his shit bearable.
Rose is in a great relationship atm, I think that was more of her being friendly and nice, with an english barrier, and not her "leaving the door open for Ed". Ed is a narcissitic creep
"I dont know how to be in a relationship" WHAT! Really?? I never would of guessed! But seriously, how ed goes from saying stuff like this to bs like telling Liz how she needs to act in a relationship is remarkable is the *worst* possible way...
Ed always takes it to the necks level
🤣
When Ken started to gag, I did to. 😂 When Dan almost cursed, I did. 😅 I am on a roller coaster. 😩
Ed trying to cry is the most hilarious thing I've ever seen. And of course Angela would think Ed is a good person because she's just as bad only she's physically abusive
Remember the garden scene when he faked being scared in vegas (sob) all by himself (sob) staring at her to see it was working, furiously blinking try to get something resembling a tear.
So scared that he went back to vegas a week later alone.
@@lilacscentedfushias1852 he was never faking being scared. You’re judging his intention too quickly.
Someone should have made a quick profile on the dating site and messaged Ed to see if he got a notification hahahaha
Ed is the human embodiment of the word ''Frustration''
Nope. Ed is awesomeness in person.
@@ElLawlietRR whatever kink you are into❤
@@ElLawlietRR found Big Ed's alternate account.
This episode had me realize how great it’d be to watch you guys without censorship, the anger Ed brings is high level haha
Big Ed had to buy 4 different 25-inch chains to get one damn necklace 🤣
That entire part with the “prove it was me” and your reactions had me literally laughing out loud. Big Ed is not only the founder of the Clown College, he’s a lifetime member as well.
I think when people say "you are welcome in my country" it's just a hospitality thing or just to be polite because I've noticed some of my students from Asian countries would say it no matter what. If I was Rose I'd be that toxic ass saying "you're not welcome here" 😂😂
the repeating "I was drowning and she stepped on my head" this is so similar to the narcissist in my family. They find something they like and repeat it OVER AND OVER.
Absolutely NO ONE was expecting ANGELA to be the sane one in the conversation 😂
-is this a breakthrough?
-doubt
This has to be the most accurate description of this show in its entirety 👏 You go Ken 🔥
Why doesn't anyone ever tell Ed to shut up and let other people talk? That is INFURIATING to me. He always interrupts, and never lets Liz or anyone else get out what they're trying to say. He doesn't listen to hear what anyone has to say, he only listens to respond. I hate him so much.
Because he won't shut up hells just tell the other person to shut up and get louder or cry about being "oppressed " or dogged on
Because it's good for the show
@@smoxthybwehyeah, he is being oppressed when people don’t want to hear him.
@@superman1865 everyone lets him talk but he talks over everyone else he is not being oppressed, like have you even been watching any of this?
Yeah I cannot deal with that at all. It’s horribly rude. But it’s also a narcissist trying to desperately control the narrative.
How can they stay so calm when taking to big ed, like I would have lost my sht and screamed at him for so many time to finally to shut up and let me finish a damn sentence for once.
I feel like there’s been no holding back when it comes to you tearing into Big Ed these past two videos and I’m here for it 😂
He’s so good at it too!
there's really no way to watch this and *not* tear into him
@@JakOTheShadows I like big Ed and he had no problems.
@@ElLawlietRR ok big ed
It's practice for when Ken squares up against Big Ed 😂 No mercy 🥊🔔🔔
Buffpros' laugh gives me so much life it's just such a good laugh
I want my next relationship to be as strong as big ed's shirt buttons
Big Ed and relationship don’t belong in the same sentence 😂
😅😅😅
@@Anna.T. Big Ed doesn’t belong anywhere
@@Anna.T. But his buttons are perfectly fine to use..they're just living their best button life, holding that shirt so strong chuck Norris bows in respect.
there's no way Rose would leave anything open, her respond felt more like " i can't keep you out of the country", also I don't trust TLC translations anymore because filipinos watching the show have said the translators kept paraphrasing her and leaving stuffs out the last tell all she was on lol
My family is from a similar southeast Asian country and they are welcoming of anyone who wants to come into their home (or country) regardless of how they have wronged them, I think Rose honestly just has those values instilled in her and it was just how she would treat that question with anyone. I don’t personally think it was a sneaky malicious way of getting Ed back in the sac behind Liz’s back
You’re right. She thought he was asking if the Philippines opened back up, not if he could visit her. She’s like “I can’t ban you from the country Edward”.
@25:16 did you just call him: Big Lez?? 😂😂😂 classic
26 minutes of Ken making inaudible noises out of pure exhausted disbelief, golden! Lol
a good cinnamon toast clobbering is exactly what Ed needs
I don't care if its scripted, if they (TLC) continue to do this with big ed they are basically condoning emotional and mental abuse for the sake of entertainment and just being insensitive to victims like Liz, me and thousands of others in the same situation.
The other day, I turned to my partner and said, "I get why they keep making more! This is like a modern day bad fairy tale. This is a warning for others to avoid people like Ed! Right?.....right??...."
Thinking of my kiddos and other loved ones and hoping they never end up with or around Eds.
File a class action lawsuit for mental and emotional distress? 👀
TLC has been doing this. They claim they want to shed light on all of these relationships and teen pregnancies. But all they are doing is making money off of drama and toxicity. Hopefully no one romanticizes this bullshit
I agree they’re not just condoning it they’re paying him to do it
Angela too
I love watching Ken and Dane make fun of Ed and mock him.
Ok, I stand that Rose didn’t leave it open actually. But was politely excusing herself then ghosting Ed. Otherwise he won’t leave her be.
i agree the conversation woulda been a lot longer and a lot worse if shed continued to talk to him
I was just thinking about that. I bet even today he's still the "Hey guy" on her social media/IG.
Hey
Hey
Hey how r u
Hey
What's up
Wish you'd talk to me
Hey
I agree, seeing how deep he of a hole he could dig himself into
I lost it when buff said, oh no big Ed got hacked!! Lmfao 🤣
At this point, living the rest of your life alone would be better than being with Big Ed
I don’t understand why some of these people are so desperate for a relationship. Being single is actually amazing. No drama, no cheating, no compromises, no narcissistic abuse.
No amount of mental abuse would have me stay with Ed. I would rather live in a one-room apartment than deal with his bullshitz
@@Anna.T. I rather be with Ed
@@neael then you marry him. You're sucking him off here in the comments constantly already 😂
@@neael do you not have friends?? You can be single and not alone it's sad that you would rather be with Ed then be with yourself
Ken and Marry's relationship is so adorable ^_^ I love that she's his number 1 fan
Ed will forever be toxic, no matter what relationship he's in. He's better off being alone forever, it would save everyone else the headache of dealing with him
That deadpan delivery of "Oh my God. Big Ed got hacked." I nearly died!
The second he gets advice: Excuse, excuse, defend, defend, then point the finger at her.
Everyone: tries to help Big Ed understand
Big Ed: Squirrel! y'all saw that?
what a road trip. LOL
I can't get over the ear-to-collar ratio between big ed and everyone else
The one and only thing that is not big ed's fault.
It's a birth defect. He is missing vertebrae in his skeleton. His head is basically fused to his spine.
Like a previous comment said in the last video, I don't think Rose was saying "Yeah, come on over!" But, "I can't really ban you from the Philippines so do what you want." I also feel that Rose is just so confident and secure she's just not threatened by Ed. But hey, that's just my two cents.
I was WAITING for this!!!! 😂 The rollarcoaster is annoying but at least it’s Ken and Buff to help us through it😂😂😂
True, i would never watch this by myself
Yeah my ex was like that, i'd say something & she'd ignore it, her therapist would say the same thing & all of a sudden it's like the will of god, lmao.
'I don't know how to be in a relationship'
We know Ed, we know...
17:51 Ken got so mad he turned into a car that has trouble starting
Couldn’t watch anything about Big Ed, if it wasn’t for y’all’s reaction to him. Makes it so much better.
You know you fucked up when Angela tells you what are you doing .
Big Ed constantly acts like a toddler, it’s this cycle of him being a grown man and manipulating people and then getting called out and suddenly throwing a tantrum. We’ve seen this with every relationship he’s been in, and no matter how hard Big Ed tries to change the subject it doesn’t work, and now he’s constantly on the defensive. Thankfully we have Ken and Buff here to swim through the sea that is Big Ed’s poor life decisions
Ed’s got that chain on like it’s a choker
I wish Ken would stop telling me it’s not real. You’re taking me out of the drama man!!! I. Want. To. Be. Immersed!
I work with victims of abuse. There are many reasons why people stay or go back to the abusive person. It can be difficult for people in healthy relationships to understand these dynamics. Just because you don’t understand doesn’t mean it isn’t real.
"You Can't Prove It" - Innocent people don't say that
Yes they do.
I just wanted to stop in and say I am truly appreciative both for your content and how quickly you put it out!!
I have PTSD and pretty extreme anxiety as a generality (working on it) and your videos seem to be one of very few things that are able to make me feel calm and good on days that aren’t so great. I am beyond appreciative of what you do and the influence you are for young people. Thank you!
@Barney McGrew Thank you very much for taking the time to reply! I really like your mindset. I wish you all the best as well!! :)
Rose is dating a successful rich Australian man. She opened a store in her son name. She is successful. She was just polite
Buff wants that Toast ED fight 🤣🤣🤣
Ed's therapists are Angela, Andrei? Damn, this is rock bottom
Dane always reminds me of Silent Bob in the intros to these videos. His eyes say all you need to know
Hereby requesting continuous back to back episodes of Amy and Tammy and then Big Ed. The pointless drama makes my soul happy 😂😂
Okay ROSE has always been polite and just "responded" to the human toe. She has a serious relationship with an 5"10 Australian business man. I'm pretty sure she meant 'You're welcome to visit the Philippines again'
I NEED the Ken Vs Ed fight
I think Rose was just saying shit to Ed that she could bring back to Liz and the show to be like ''Look at this POS, this is who he is.'' I have no doubt she would refuse to see him if it came down to it. She's doing well as far as her YT channel shows.
BIG ED MAKES MY EYES ROLL INTO THE BACK OF MY BRAIN.... HES SO FRUSTRATING TO EVERYONES EXISTENCE
It's why it's so satisfying watching flail when everyone is calling him out on the show
@@smoxthybweh best part of the show honestly 😂
@@smoxthybweh big Ed is super cool. Leave him be.
FORGIVENESS REQUIRES REMORSE, Ed.
Dane got so frustrated at Big Ed he almost cursed lmao. I felt that
the face of buff at the beginning says it all, the excitement is unbearable😂
Ken you are gonna need blood pressures meds after this series 🤣🤣 your rant was awesome!!!
I’d pay to watch a Colt vs Big Ed trilogy of fights 😂
Big Ed is totally the type of dude I think of when I think of tribal tattoos 😂 ken nailed it
From the glimpse we got from Liz phone, the pic of Ed looked like he was wearing the same shirt he had on! 😂
"I don't know how to be in a relationship... But I'll continue to force myself into one anyway."
Love you and your videos more than anything, Ken. Thank you so, so, much for all the laughs over the years. Things are coming to an end for me, now. All I can say is that words will never be enough. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the smile you put on my face
@rooknado are you okay?
We all have to go one day. I hope you've lived a fulfilling life.
🙏
@@jazzybrainiac yes, im feeling happy and that is whats most important! thank u for asking, serious.
Is there anything or anyone that can help u? 🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻
Ed trying to swerve around the dating app thing is hilarious everyone with a dating app these days are on the phone primarily so I bet he doesn’t even wanna show his phone 😂
Listening to Ed beats every twitter argument I have ever witnessed 😝
Someone needs to do a Shaggy remix of It wasn't me with Ed saying it wasn't me.
Update on big ed and Liz. They are currently back together, he is talking to his mom again and she is wearing her ring again. Let’s pretend that our minds are blown now
At this point, Liz is that one friend you have to get away from and wish the best because it's mentally draining just watching her suffer.
Liz seems brain damaged.