Erik before covid: “I’m a private person so I’m not in a lot of vlogs.” Sleep deprived post covid post 3 children Erik: “my butthole doesn’t get the same care and attention it used too”
@@avita9036 I'm not. Big turn off to me ever since he smelled Colleen's armpit. He just tried to persuade Flynn to eat cat yogurt in another video and now talking about butt stuff...outta here. Not entertaining.
Babies: “You can’t relax. We’re gonna cry all night and through this podcast. My mom is sobbing in the bathroom alone, and now the whole thing is postponed. So you can’t relax, we’re taking over the podcast.” 😂.
Don’t feel like you have to pretend to be upbeat and jolly for the podcast, we’re here for you and your journey. Life isn’t always sunshine, the challenges are how we learn and every low moment you show is teaching us that it’s ok to struggle.
I love that you included the baby's crying. It makes you more relatable and less perfect than I imagined you to be. I often wondered if Flynn ever cried because everyone is always so happy. I LOVE your vlogs so much. You're both amazing parents!
One thing I love about Colleen's channel is that she's very careful not to include anything that may be embarrassing or shameful for Flynn when he's looking back on the memories. One of the most wholesome family vlogs
@@avita9036 I have only started watching Colleen this past year. I came across Haters Back Off on Netflix and loved it. So after that I found her on TH-cam.
@@naesch7 having an accident in public while potty training when you’re 2 isn’t a crazy thing lmao, it’s normal. also this is the second hate comment i’ve seen you leave on this video, are u obsessed w her or something?
I really like that Colleen explained their parenting style. I know its a sensitive topic for a lot of people, but I personally agree with their type of parenting and I know that if I had been able to express my feelings as a child, it would have really helped me. Everyone is entitled to their own parenting style as long as their children are safe, but I love hearing people's thoughts on this and how other people parent - I think its so interesting and I personally like this take on parenting
As a mother of two teenagers and a toddler, I chuckled when you said this stage the twins are in has to be the hardest. I did not enjoy the newborn/infant stage very much because it is super tough, but teenagers will rip your heart out and stomp on it with zero remorse. Ages 18 months-4 yrs old is the most fun. At least to me 🙃
Idk about zero remorse. Teenagers just have a lot going on, it doesn't mean they don't feel bad about their hurtful behavior, they probably just don't show it
We are very confused and still discovering ourselves. If we come off as aggressive or rude we can be but usually I think we are just overwhelmed. If we have remorse after we are probably too embarrassed to tell you. We love you parents but it’s hard to show. All those good parents thank you and I love you! -Haileys Rant 2022
I have a nephew who was in the rebellious teenage stage for years. It's been fifteen years now and sad to say, he has never outgrown it. He's done good for himself, but you just can't talk to him without getting your head chopped off. He's the eternally archetypical angry teenager.
I am a 19 year old freshman in college and I just binged all 53 episodes in less than a month. You guys are currently my only source of happiness at the moment❤
I've always seen "gentle" parenting as treating children as whole humans. Like giving related consequences (if you draw on the wall, instead of being hit or yelled at, you have to clean up the wall). Explaining why you've said no to something and creating an understanding not just authoritarian I told you so style that relys on respect only going one way.
I agree. That's the approach we take with our 3 and 1 year old toddlers. We respect them as people and acknowledge their emotions while teaching them appropriate ways to handle them. I've heard some people describe gentle parenting as having no boundaries, but that's not the case my experience. We have firm boundaries but consequences are explained and are naturally related to whatever misstep our kiddos have made. It's hard work and we definitely struggle sometimes. But I think that's important too, because then we can model how to handle that struggle 🤷♀️
As a Pre-K teacher Y’all have an amazing outlook on parenting! Redirection is such a key “first step” for when a kid is doing something they probably shouldn’t be and or just when trying to teach them right from wrong. Honestly it works more often than most people think, and by implementing these practices early it teaches children how to process emotions and respond to situations in better ways! The way that you both consistently encourage communication is going to be such a key factor into the amazing human being he (and the twins) will become! Keep being the great humans y’all are!🖤
I just keep thinking... there was a time that Erik didnt want to be on camera ever.... and now here he is.... completely losing his mind for all of our viewing pleasure. 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️ Editing to say I cannot imagine how hard having twin babies and a toddler is. Y’all are doing an incredible job!
The first few months are brutal with twin babies. My husband and I barely survived. Like literally. We also had other children before our twins. You can do it. You will do it. You will survive, I promise. My twin girls are 7 now and it’s the absolute best! You are not alone!!!
I would be THRILLED to be able to buy an album from you two. You're both so talented and so god at making songs funny yet absolutely amazingly executed. You're both capable of many different genres and I love the folksy sound you get together. It reminds me of a couple that was on AGT that were so good together. The amazingly relatable and funny songs remind me of Lyle Lovett or Marcia Ball or the tongue in cheek singers that are so talented. When life calms down, I beg of you to make an album I can buy. This "Crying" song, Maisy's song, Flynn's favorite dinner, etc. I'm 31 and these are genuinely songs I'd enjoy listening to
Flynn might be too young to intentionally be manipulative but Erik is right kids are manipulative I was manipulative from a very young age and I only recognize it now because I'm an adult but I 100% used to play the shit out of my parents
I convinced my parents that I broke my arms by tripping instead of falling out of a tree because I was scared my siblings and me wouldn't be allowed to climb trees anymore if they knew 😂
As someone who has experienced repeated parental physical and mental abuse all through my childhood, seeing Colleen and Erik’s approach to parenting makes me so happy. I’m glad there’s more information for parents these days on how to tackle parenting in a kind, firm but still healthy way. Thank you for talking so openly about this stuff, it makes my heart melt to see how much you guys just adore your kids. Hopefully others may learn from people like you talking about this stuff so that the things I and others dealt with won’t happen as much. I love you guys!!! You’re doing so well in such a stressful situation. You can get through this, hell, you ARE getting through it! Sending mega love and non Groundhog Day nightmare dreams from Scotland 🏴❤️❤️❤️❤️🏴
When Erik was talking about his dream deja vu my jaw dropped. I have this too and everyone always thinks I mean normal deja vu but it’s definitely a dream! I’ve never met anyone else with this until now
I have deja vu dreams too! And I've been looked at like a crazy person every time I explain that I can dream things and then sometimes it actually happens! Its nice to know that it's not just me!!!
Same I have them too 😂 The thing about those dreams is that if you don’t immediately write it down you can never be truly sure if they really happened or if your brain is just ‚filling in‘ some stuff you forgot from the dream with stuff that happens now… like when you see a strangers face and you‘re suddenly SURE you‘ve dreamt about that face last night… your brain is most likely just making that up right at that moment 😆😂 but yeah really confusing sometimes I don‘t even know if sth happened for real or just in my dreams 😂
Colleeeeennnnn!!! A++ on your rationale for how you parent. Your instincts and insight are spot on, and reflect a lot of the research out there on child development. Also, it is not a coincidence that that parenting style “works for Flynn.” I would say that Flynn is in large part the way he is because of your parenting style, and your ability to understand his needs and respond to them accordingly, rather than react to him based on your needs and emotions 👌🏼 I have taught parenting classes for over 20 years and your natural ability to help your small humans develop is refreshing.
The parenting is 100% accurate. Because every human is different, I have a 8yr old and 5 yr old and they act differently so i have to treat them differently!! Just like you say the twins are different!! Very smart and well spoken Colleen thank you for sharing that!!
Listened to the podcast during my long bus trip home before this was up and I cried together with Colleen when erik left the room. Hang in there Colleen&Erik, you both are awesome parents! Lots and lots of hugs from all of us! ❤️🥺
Hands down, the best episode! The Relax sign falling, singing off key.. the real life bedside tables being a mess, our fav. side kick Erik opening up.. the podcast being done in the master bedroom.. the chemistry between you both!! TIP: Command sticker that sign up.
This came at the exact perfect timing for me I am abt to go get a root canal and I have EXTREME anxiety, I was wishing I had one of your podcasts to listen to I was going to just re listen to one but this came at the perfect time I love you guys
Sending you lots of support!!! I hope your procedure goes well and your recovery is easy. If they give you meds, definitely take them as directed and don't let the pain build up if you have pain. ***hugs if wanted***💐
@@outoftheklosset hugs accepted 🥺 I appreciate the support you guys are the best community 💕💕 also update I made it through and it was not nearly as bad as I imagined and no panic attacks!!!
Every time, I mean EVERY TIME, you two sing a song that either of you write, it fills my heart with joy. You guys make relatable things into a tune, and your voices are just 👌🏻.
I feel like Eric enjoys a glass of wine or cocktail for his podcasts... I feel like it would be fun to watch him talk about his wine or make his cocktail for us :)
The whole reason i love your podcast is because how real you guys are and on your vlogs to just like the rest of your fams channels to. I would not want anyone to be fake or pretend. I've watched all your fam channels and yours for eight years and honestly makes me so happy. Super relatable to.
I think the most important thing to do when you have a snap reaction to Flynn misbehaving, is to explain why you are reacting in a way you typically don't. Explaining that you are tired, or worried or stressed, and you made a mistake with the way you spoke to him, will help him understand that you all have moments that aren't perfect.
yes! the biggest thing is to APOLOGIZE. acknowledge that it isn’t okay to speak to him like that and that you’re sorry. kids needs to see u make mistakes and more importantly they need to see how u handle that mistake and the conflict
It was so nice hearing you talk openly about parenting and the issues you have with Flynn. I know you like to post the happy moments but as a mom of 2 boys it’s hard to watch only perfect times from other families because it feels like I’m the only one having these struggles of fits and not listening. So thank you for bringing that up!!
"we have to scream, we've been abandoned" i don't know why but this is my favorite quote from this episode 😂😂😂 it's so real tho when you think about it
I’m less than 10 minutes into this video and I wish I could just hug you both. You seem so stressed (which is to be expected in your situation) and we know that you are doing your best as parents. I love you all and this podcast so much! Honestly, when your tired and stressed, it’s hard to even think clearly and I have moments of confusion all the time! YOU ARE NOT ANNOYING in any way and I am so thankful to have a break from life while watching these podcasts! Sending so much love and support your way! ♥️
I'm just CACKLING at the section of the "butt talk" while you're both tired and trying to keep hold of the babies 😭 it's just ultimate chaos and I'm here for it
Colleen, I love you so much girl. I had a preemie/NICU baby born at 32 weeks. You’re doing so great. It’s okay to not be okay. When you feel like your well is running dry, remember it’s not. You’re just a quick breather away from the well reserves kicking in. Your soul is swelling with love for your babies and your family. You’re never truly empty. You WILL GET THRU THIS. You ARE GETTING THRU THIS.
I’m sure he regretted it after the bidet hit it 😂 that stuff is so thick!! He probably thought it was more of a butt lotion and quickly found out why adults don’t use it!!
As a parent to a one year old who is very much going through the emotional stage and “ tantrums “ this was beyond refreshing to hear! And just a good reminder for myself to give grace to him because he’s trying to figure out all these big emotions but also grace for myself because I can’t be on point all the time.
“How many ounces of boobs did Marsha need to make?” “See this is why you got bellow a 1000 on your sats love” whole time Eric’s saying they need to make ounces of boobs not ounces of milk yet he’s Judging her sats score😂
if you guys need to have a podcast that isn’t full of sunshines & rainbows as a venting / self care session, i’m here for it. i know you guys are going THROUGH it right now & i just want y’all to know that i love to see your authentic selfs. truly, i do. but also know if you need a break, TAKE IT!! love you both. i wish ya’ll brighter & less stressful days
Dear Colleen, thank you. For seven years my husband and I have delt with fertility issues and were told the chances of having a baby are pretty much zero. After a year of watching Flynn grow up and watching you powerhouse a twin pregnancy, we finally did it. Manifesting all the energy from all your vlogs/podcast/main channel, we finally got our miracle. Saturday 02/05/22 I found out I am finally pregnant! I will be re watching every single video you have about pregnancy and birth. Thank you for the good vibes and positive atmosphere! ♥️
I just love y'all so very much! Thank you for all your vlogs, podcasts, videos ect...I feel like you guys are my best friends, making me laugh, making me think about crazy things, and wanting to help you. My kids are 23 and 21 and I am looking back now realizing I had PPD but didn't get help until years later. Again love and appreciate y'all ❤
And the vice-versa... living in a world where you care too much about everything and everybody's opinion and approval; that's not gonna help a kid much... it's good to be self sufficient and rely on yourself first and others second; it's something I had to learn in high school and it did me a world of good, cause it's true. Not everybody is gonna agree with you on everything and you can't go around doing things just to not piss off other people, if it happens to be the right thing for you, do it.
Gentle parenting validates children's feelings because they are in a stage that their feelings need to be validated so they can form healthy attachments and have a secure sense of self. Also, your parents are not everyone, they are not the world, they are supposed to be your security net. Those children will grow and eventually understand that, and when they are faced with frustration they will know how to handle that in a healthier way and not filled with anxiety from not being secure in themselves.
Gentle parenting does exactly that! Ur pretty immune to criticism and unkindness when ur truly comfortable in urself, and that comes from parents who love and accept u unconditionally.
You guys are rocking it! My twinners are 19 and my baby is 16. Watching you makes all the memories come back. The crying, them and me, lol, no showers, diaper overload, and everhthing else. Thank you for showing real life and talking about it. Can't wait to see the show in Vancouver, Colleen! My twinners will be joining me!
Favorite moment so far: Colleen casually flips her phone over with her foot while simultaneously holding holds and binky w/ Maisy plus holding the mic 😂🎤 #goals
this is so comforting because I have super violent dreams that FREAK ME OUT but I cant do anything about it and I feel like somethings wrong with me, so thank you colleen for sharing :) makes me feel slightly more normal
This is such an intresting episode. I'm not a parent but I'm an uncle that lives in the same house as my nephew and I've always been around since he was a new born and i can realate with the conversation of like trying to be as gentle as possible with them and helping them understand things and also express their feelings and emotions and i also agree with the fact that it's hard lol sometimes you are not in the greatest mood either but you still want them to have the best experience in life lol it's the hardest thing ever. I'm not a parent and i still worry so much about everything regarding him and i want his experience in life to be amazing. I'm not perfect but he still tells me I'm the best uncle ever. I can understand how you guys are having a tough time and there's gonna be a lot of changes and it's still gonna be crazy lol but you guys are doing great just get as much help as you can whenever you can and you'll get thru it. You are doing great sweetie. Lol
I think this is my favourite episode especially the part about parenting styles and the pressure on parents to always be role models for their children. I think it applies to relationships as well. There is so much talk about how to be respectful and work on being a healthy partner but at the end of the day we are human and we react as humans. As long as you are trying and forgiving yourself I think you're doing great as a parent, partner or whatever role it is.
I know this is an old podcast but I’m watching now because I tend to miss videos and I just wanna say that I’m so wildly impressed that Colleen (and Erik for the podcast) find time to film/edit videos and the podcast. I know many “normal/everyday moms” that VALIDLY struggle with everyday life so to watch you guys balance all of this while raising 3 children is SO impressive to me. You guys don’t give yourself enough credit and I promise you’re doing AMAZING!❤️ Gentle parenting is simply treating your tiny humans as HUMANS. Understanding that they’re literally learning how to life and like you said, all they know in THEIR little life is all that they know so anything that’s a big deal to them is valid because that’s literally ALL THEY KNOW. It must be SO hard to parent this way when your child is acting bratty but it’s so important to remember that they’re a human that doesn’t know how to express themselves and YOU’RE the one who’s supposed to teach them❤️ You’re doing an incredible job.
There are 4 main parenting styles: 1) authoritarian 2) authoritative (gentle parenting) 3)permission and 4)neglectful. # 2 has been shown to have the best outcomes in children and is about acceptance but boundaries. You have rules and expectations but you validate the child’s emotions while holding your boundaries
DREAMS- hi Colleen! When you are having bad nightmares this means mentally you are drained. These are called night terrors. When you explained how you get then when you are stressed you are 100% right because I’ve been dealing with the same thing- I suffer from depression and anxiety. I’ve had the kidnapping dreams too! I appreciate you opening up about this, it definitely makes me feel less alone. You are so strong, you got this!
How does this setup feel relatable to me when I'm 15 have never done ANYTHING like this? Like I love seeing them relax on RELAX. It's soo cool and cute. And the topics are so varied and they're so honest. In conclusion, I love this podcast.
I love how you honestly discuss life and its tough times, including how tired you both are with the babies in this phase of life. But as soon as you explain the portable sandbox stuff you ordered for Flynn your both so excited to move and set it up. You are the great parents. You do YOU so well 👏🏼
LOVE the topic on parenting! I was always curious on how exactly they parented and if they were always on the same page. I have a daughter and parenting can get hard. Im at a loss sometimes.
I know that feeling with babies of just repeat days where you feel like everyday is SO long and the thought of doing it all over again when you feel like there's no way you can do it and there is no end in sight is just such a defeating feeling. And that description doesn't do any justice to how awful it feels. It's those sweet beautiful moments with them when they aren't screaming crying that get you through. When Colleen talked about that it would be better if they knew when it was going to get easier the words "six months old" popped into my head, idk why but maybe it will get easier when they are 6 months old. Your gonna make it through. You guys love your babies, your great parents.....and you have to lol.
I just want to say that I love this podcast episode! Specifically about parenting and teaching children about expressing their emotions. As a child, I was never taught on how to identify my emotions and I'm just now learning it in therapy today as an adult. The way you described how Flynn is, was the exact same way I was when I was little kid. I am no parent but I think the way you are teaching Flynn about emotions is awesome and I know I would've benefited from that as well. Love you guys!
Thank you for pointing out the struggles of responding gently to (sometimes) SCARY toddlers. It's important that we give ourselves grace in those moments when we surely will and have lost our cool. Reminding ourselves that gentle parenting and patience are our GOALS, but we are not perfect, is key. I am really glad you guys expressed this - I have a daughter that is exactly the same age as Flynn. I know we only see him in limited clips, however he always seems SO well behaved and we never see the moments where you are correcting him. I have wondered if he really is THAT perfect and if my life is just especially hard in that respect. Always helpful to hear others' experiences!
Am I the only one that watches every podcast and not listen to them on a podcast forum? Just curious! They are the best couple I’ve ever listened to!!💜💜
I LOVE Eriks songs sooo soo much and his voice is so pure I love when they harmonize also!! 1:12:43 is also how my hubby sounds after a long day with the kids lol someone has to discipline and we all know that will be very hard for Colleen!!
You really are totally amazing. You have all this going on and no sleep and a busy busy day and still find time to entertain us. You both Rock!!!!!! Thanks from all of us viewers xxx
I’m a single mom with two baby girls and my youngest had colic and NOTHING could calm her down except me. And being on me is the only place she’d sleep. So I NEVER got a break or shower. So I TOTALLY understand!!! 💯 💯 💯
I really really enjoyed you guys talking about parenting, my partner and I watch every week and in 10 weeks our little boy is due and it’s so helpful to hear that stuff coming from real parents. Especially for my partner to hear because he doesn’t exactly sit and read about this stuff. Would love to hear more and loved the examples!
I’m just like Eric! I’ll remember my dreams for a very short period after I wake up. And my deja vu is always something I’ve dreamed about that I remember kinda in that moment
I love you guys so much 😂 awesome podcast I hope to be as good of a parent as you both are Colleen, I love watching you interact with Flynn, it warms my heart. You inspire me so much
Apparently dejavu is when one side of your brain has processed a split millisecond faster. So, one side processes senses and the other processes actual awareness so it feels like it's happened before because it has on the other side of your brain.
Great video, so so funny and REAL! Ps it gets harder in mental terms as now you have control over the babies, but once they’re older and making their own way in life, and you see them hurting and you can’t fix it, and you see them doing things you know is not good but you’re powerless to change it, or you see their personality change and it’s not for the good, or you see destructive friends influencing them …. That’s when the pain inside your soul crushes you 24/7 because you realize that no matter how good of a parent you’ve been, all you’ve sacrificed for them (no regrets ever), and all you’re selflessly going to do to help them through things out of your control, you still cannot stop the pain, remove trauma, erase bad experiences, or fix their genetics you didn’t know mattered until it’s too late, it’s then that the pain sets in and there is no end in sight. I’d take the sleepless nights, post Partum breakdowns, and itchy butt cheeks from sitting on them all day long with two kids on me, because at least at that point real life hadn’t taken away my hopes and dreams for my children. Younger is easier. Enjoy your days with them as you’ll look back at these videos and give anything to go back to these days. You are so blessed. I love your videos and your beautiful family. ❤️
Tortilla question: Do you think you'll put Flynn in preschool now that he's three so he'll have playmates his own age and some exposure to structured learning? Although I know the pandemic might make that difficult. Seems like home schooling him would be hard with baby twins.
Flynn seems like a kid that would do really well with unschooling, which would be easier with baby twins too, but who knows 🤷♀️ they have time though. I didn’t go to preschool til I was 4 or 5 then started kindergarten at 6.
@@alaina2252 Definitely agree but I don't remember one time that Colleen mentioned him playing with a kid his age (except for family) I think an unschooling approach would be perfect for him as long as he's getting proper socialisation with other kids.
@@alaina2252 he needs to be with kids his age that aren't family. So many kids are going to be lacking in social skills due to the Rona. People need to get over it eventually and get back to life.
@@kimjorvinhikes I wasn’t saying he not be with kids his age. And homeschooling methods were and are just as good as traditional schooling. I’ve always planned to homeschool my children, it has nothing to do with Covid. There are a lot of programs (sports, crafts, community theater, 4-H, etc) for socialization in homeschooled children. Society needs to remove the stigma that homeschooled kids are “weird” or “unsocialized” just because they didn’t go to a designated building to learn. My husband has ADHD and struggled with traditional schooling because it’s such a rigid environment with really no room for outliers in the curriculum, he ended up getting his GED and eventually getting into a trade. But he’s said that had unschooling been a thing 15yrs ago he would’ve liked to have learned that way.
I loved the parenting conversation! Such an important talk to have with your partner, regardless of how long y’all have been together or how long you’ve been parents!
It's scary to be human online with so many people judging you. I'd be terrified. I love that you both have become so honest and open and vulnerable in this podcast. It feels so much better than the carefully curated and we ALL can relate to it. To Colleen, Erik and anyone else that needs to hear it - In the spaces where you feel like you're drowning remember that IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER. This too shall pass and you will feel whole once again. You got this, beautiful. ❤️ Just keep pushing through. It's the only way out. Nurture and be gentle with yourself 🌻
After Colleens monologue/song thing she should’ve went into “now moms cryingggg and dad is cryingggggg and we’re all cryinggggg” and then somehow end it with “now Flynn’s awake”
Love the podcast today, love how true and transparent you are. Forever greatful for the post you make and we approvate you taking the time to still post!!
Our 3 year old told her much older siblings "if I cry, abuelita (her grandma) will love me more"...so she has some sort of conscious grasp on how to get her way, LOL. But we parent the same way with options and warning for consequences.
The ending song made me soooo happy. You guys were having so much fun and it sounded so good too! I know nothing about music, but you guys are the musical power couple!!
I'm not a parent but I really enjoyed the parenting chat at the end! I'd love to hear more of you guys' thoughts on this stuff and how you plan to parent in the future - super interesting :)
Erik before covid: “I’m a private person so I’m not in a lot of vlogs.”
Sleep deprived post covid post 3 children Erik: “my butthole doesn’t get the same care and attention it used too”
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I honestly live for this progression lmao. true character development
LMAOOOOO FUCK
😂😂😂 So true!
I know they have absolutely no time but a children’s album would be wild. Applesauce and I’m crying are some real bangers not gonna lie
and the dump truck song!
Jesus loves you all🤍
I sing the applesauce song to my twins and they love it, too 🤣
10,000% support the childrens album! Or should it actually be for parents hmmmm ;)
Erik is actually a great songwriter. He should try writing an indie album (like not just for kids).
Erik just gets more and more comfortable on this podcast every week.
im here for it
@@avita9036 I'm not. Big turn off to me ever since he smelled Colleen's armpit.
He just tried to persuade Flynn to eat cat yogurt in another video and now talking about butt stuff...outta here.
Not entertaining.
@@EllEss331 dont let the door hit you on the way out!
Totally...
Or more and more tired to the point of giving zero fs lol
The end of the song should end with
"Wait, why are YOU crying?"
That break from singing to a sassy question
Omg yes 😂😂
YES
*talking about itchy butts*
Colleen “I just realized I’m starving!” 😂
Lol 😆
Babies: “You can’t relax. We’re gonna cry all night and through this podcast. My mom is sobbing in the bathroom alone, and now the whole thing is postponed. So you can’t relax, we’re taking over the podcast.” 😂.
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BRILLIANT
this is so good. every syllable works. YES
Amazing, I hope they see this!
Erik needs to hire you asap 😭
My dad passed away on Tuesday and this podcast has made me laugh so hard and forget about the pain for a little while. Thank you!
Sending you love and light. ❤️
Sorry for your loss!!
Just lost my Stepmum, so I'm with you on loving the distraction from the gloom. Sending you hugs
I'm so sorry for your loss Jane!
Im so sorry!! Sending ❤ your way!
Don’t feel like you have to pretend to be upbeat and jolly for the podcast, we’re here for you and your journey. Life isn’t always sunshine, the challenges are how we learn and every low moment you show is teaching us that it’s ok to struggle.
I love that you included the baby's crying. It makes you more relatable and less perfect than I imagined you to be. I often wondered if Flynn ever cried because everyone is always so happy. I LOVE your vlogs so much. You're both amazing parents!
crazy to hear someone say that since flynn had colic for months lol
One thing I love about Colleen's channel is that she's very careful not to include anything that may be embarrassing or shameful for Flynn when he's looking back on the memories. One of the most wholesome family vlogs
@@avita9036 I have only started watching Colleen this past year. I came across Haters Back Off on Netflix and loved it. So after that I found her on TH-cam.
@@abigailkeen6354 lol like his parents talking publicly about all those times he shit himself won't be embarrassing for him
@@naesch7 having an accident in public while potty training when you’re 2 isn’t a crazy thing lmao, it’s normal. also this is the second hate comment i’ve seen you leave on this video, are u obsessed w her or something?
Colleen: I don’t think we do gentle parenting.
Also Colleen: Describes gentle parenting perfectly when discussing parental decisions.
i’m sure it’s because she’s afraid of the backlash.
"they should be thanking me for MY patience." YES. I love that you are still willing to do the podcast. It means a lot for us so THANK YOU.
Lol you know she's doing this for the ad money, right?
@@naesch7 it's their date night,
the conversation would be the same. they just added microphones, editing
@@carolperry7695 right, reading ads is so romantic
@@naesch7 do you watch rose and rosie romance infinity
I really like that Colleen explained their parenting style. I know its a sensitive topic for a lot of people, but I personally agree with their type of parenting and I know that if I had been able to express my feelings as a child, it would have really helped me. Everyone is entitled to their own parenting style as long as their children are safe, but I love hearing people's thoughts on this and how other people parent - I think its so interesting and I personally like this take on parenting
I've never been a fan of podcasts... but now I am literally obsessed with this one!!
Same. This is one of the only podcasts I watch
This one and This Might Get Weird, and Dark History with Bailey Sarian are the only 3 I regularly tune in to.
Same
i literally got the podcast app for this too lol
Erik talking about how he has dreams and then they happen in the future happens to me ALL THE TIME. It’s honestly so weird, but you’re not alone 😭
Same here! It's freaky!
Same here lol
Same here. And specific stuff, too. I dreamed I was in my living room with twin babies when I was 27 and... I had twins at 31.
As a mother of two teenagers and a toddler, I chuckled when you said this stage the twins are in has to be the hardest. I did not enjoy the newborn/infant stage very much because it is super tough, but teenagers will rip your heart out and stomp on it with zero remorse. Ages 18 months-4 yrs old is the most fun. At least to me 🙃
Indeed, my grandma would say, “little kids small problems” “big kids large problems”.
Idk about zero remorse. Teenagers just have a lot going on, it doesn't mean they don't feel bad about their hurtful behavior, they probably just don't show it
We are very confused and still discovering ourselves. If we come off as aggressive or rude we can be but usually I think we are just overwhelmed. If we have remorse after we are probably too embarrassed to tell you. We love you parents but it’s hard to show. All those good parents thank you and I love you! -Haileys Rant 2022
I have a nephew who was in the rebellious teenage stage for years. It's been fifteen years now and sad to say, he has never outgrown it. He's done good for himself, but you just can't talk to him without getting your head chopped off. He's the eternally archetypical angry teenager.
@@greenqueen8323 My Mom would say that too.
The end of the song could be “now you’re crying” like the babies talking to you as the parents
Yes! That for sure has to be the end lyrics.
So many clever lyrics! I totally want to hear their finished version!
back in the bed, it feels more like relax to me
I am a 19 year old freshman in college and I just binged all 53 episodes in less than a month. You guys are currently my only source of happiness at the moment❤
I've always seen "gentle" parenting as treating children as whole humans. Like giving related consequences (if you draw on the wall, instead of being hit or yelled at, you have to clean up the wall). Explaining why you've said no to something and creating an understanding not just authoritarian I told you so style that relys on respect only going one way.
I agree
I agree. That's the approach we take with our 3 and 1 year old toddlers. We respect them as people and acknowledge their emotions while teaching them appropriate ways to handle them. I've heard some people describe gentle parenting as having no boundaries, but that's not the case my experience. We have firm boundaries but consequences are explained and are naturally related to whatever misstep our kiddos have made.
It's hard work and we definitely struggle sometimes. But I think that's important too, because then we can model how to handle that struggle 🤷♀️
As a Pre-K teacher Y’all have an amazing outlook on parenting! Redirection is such a key “first step” for when a kid is doing something they probably shouldn’t be and or just when trying to teach them right from wrong. Honestly it works more often than most people think, and by implementing these practices early it teaches children how to process emotions and respond to situations in better ways! The way that you both consistently encourage communication is going to be such a key factor into the amazing human being he (and the twins) will become! Keep being the great humans y’all are!🖤
“We spend so much time taking care of other buttholes, and mine is just left forgotten” 😭😭😭
IM DEAAAAAD
I just keep thinking... there was a time that Erik didnt want to be on camera ever.... and now here he is.... completely losing his mind for all of our viewing pleasure. 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️
Editing to say I cannot imagine how hard having twin babies and a toddler is. Y’all are doing an incredible job!
The first few months are brutal with twin babies. My husband and I barely survived. Like literally. We also had other children before our twins. You can do it. You will do it. You will survive, I promise. My twin girls are 7 now and it’s the absolute best! You are not alone!!!
I would be THRILLED to be able to buy an album from you two. You're both so talented and so god at making songs funny yet absolutely amazingly executed. You're both capable of many different genres and I love the folksy sound you get together. It reminds me of a couple that was on AGT that were so good together. The amazingly relatable and funny songs remind me of Lyle Lovett or Marcia Ball or the tongue in cheek singers that are so talented. When life calms down, I beg of you to make an album I can buy. This "Crying" song, Maisy's song, Flynn's favorite dinner, etc. I'm 31 and these are genuinely songs I'd enjoy listening to
we need them to release a kid song/family friendly album of all these incredible songs
I just wanna grab snacks, lay on my bed & listen to your podcasts for dayssss. It’s a mood. Love them. Love you guys!
Flynn might be too young to intentionally be manipulative but Erik is right kids are manipulative I was manipulative from a very young age and I only recognize it now because I'm an adult but I 100% used to play the shit out of my parents
I convinced my parents that I broke my arms by tripping instead of falling out of a tree because I was scared my siblings and me wouldn't be allowed to climb trees anymore if they knew 😂
Manipulation is a survival tactic that babies and children naturally use.
How are you two so talented.. even with the lack of sleep. I LOVE the "crying" song. Erik is the truck tunes guy of baby songs.
As someone who has experienced repeated parental physical and mental abuse all through my childhood, seeing Colleen and Erik’s approach to parenting makes me so happy. I’m glad there’s more information for parents these days on how to tackle parenting in a kind, firm but still healthy way. Thank you for talking so openly about this stuff, it makes my heart melt to see how much you guys just adore your kids. Hopefully others may learn from people like you talking about this stuff so that the things I and others dealt with won’t happen as much. I love you guys!!! You’re doing so well in such a stressful situation. You can get through this, hell, you ARE getting through it! Sending mega love and non Groundhog Day nightmare dreams from Scotland 🏴❤️❤️❤️❤️🏴
When Erik was talking about his dream deja vu my jaw dropped. I have this too and everyone always thinks I mean normal deja vu but it’s definitely a dream! I’ve never met anyone else with this until now
I have deja vu dreams too! And I've been looked at like a crazy person every time I explain that I can dream things and then sometimes it actually happens! Its nice to know that it's not just me!!!
YESSSSSSSS MEEEE
Same I have them too 😂 The thing about those dreams is that if you don’t immediately write it down you can never be truly sure if they really happened or if your brain is just ‚filling in‘ some stuff you forgot from the dream with stuff that happens now… like when you see a strangers face and you‘re suddenly SURE you‘ve dreamt about that face last night… your brain is most likely just making that up right at that moment 😆😂 but yeah really confusing sometimes I don‘t even know if sth happened for real or just in my dreams 😂
Same! Hearing Erik describe his deja vu dreams was crazy!
… i thought this was deja vu
Colleeeeennnnn!!! A++ on your rationale for how you parent. Your instincts and insight are spot on, and reflect a lot of the research out there on child development. Also, it is not a coincidence that that parenting style “works for Flynn.” I would say that Flynn is in large part the way he is because of your parenting style, and your ability to understand his needs and respond to them accordingly, rather than react to him based on your needs and emotions 👌🏼 I have taught parenting classes for over 20 years and your natural ability to help your small humans develop is refreshing.
Wish I could give your comment 1000 likes!
The parenting is 100% accurate. Because every human is different, I have a 8yr old and 5 yr old and they act differently so i have to treat them differently!! Just like you say the twins are different!! Very smart and well spoken Colleen thank you for sharing that!!
I absolutely love how this is called “butt stuff” and Colleen has a lady bug with its butt out on her shirt🤣🤣❤️ I love you guys❣️
Listened to the podcast during my long bus trip home before this was up and I cried together with Colleen when erik left the room. Hang in there Colleen&Erik, you both are awesome parents! Lots and lots of hugs from all of us! ❤️🥺
Hands down, the best episode!
The Relax sign falling, singing off key.. the real life bedside tables being a mess, our fav. side kick Erik opening up.. the podcast being done in the master bedroom.. the chemistry between you both!!
TIP: Command sticker that sign up.
This came at the exact perfect timing for me I am abt to go get a root canal and I have EXTREME anxiety, I was wishing I had one of your podcasts to listen to I was going to just re listen to one but this came at the perfect time I love you guys
Good luck! In my experience, root canals ended my pain and things got much better.
Sending you lots of support!!! I hope your procedure goes well and your recovery is easy. If they give you meds, definitely take them as directed and don't let the pain build up if you have pain. ***hugs if wanted***💐
Good luck!!! Praying for a easy procedure and recovery! Love from Michigan ❤️
Good luck with your root canal!! I hope all goes well and relieves your pain ❤
@@outoftheklosset hugs accepted 🥺 I appreciate the support you guys are the best community 💕💕 also update I made it through and it was not nearly as bad as I imagined and no panic attacks!!!
This was so chaotic and full of parents relating like "yup been there" LOVED IT!!!!
Eric is so sleep deprived he’s now psychic. This is one of my fave episodes. Lololol. Sending y’all love and light and naps. 💕💜✨✨✨✨
Every time, I mean EVERY TIME, you two sing a song that either of you write, it fills my heart with joy. You guys make relatable things into a tune, and your voices are just 👌🏻.
I feel like Eric enjoys a glass of wine or cocktail for his podcasts... I feel like it would be fun to watch him talk about his wine or make his cocktail for us :)
The whole reason i love your podcast is because how real you guys are and on your vlogs to just like the rest of your fams channels to. I would not want anyone to be fake or pretend. I've watched all your fam channels and yours for eight years and honestly makes me so happy. Super relatable to.
I think the most important thing to do when you have a snap reaction to Flynn misbehaving, is to explain why you are reacting in a way you typically don't. Explaining that you are tired, or worried or stressed, and you made a mistake with the way you spoke to him, will help him understand that you all have moments that aren't perfect.
yes! the biggest thing is to APOLOGIZE. acknowledge that it isn’t okay to speak to him like that and that you’re sorry. kids needs to see u make mistakes and more importantly they need to see how u handle that mistake and the conflict
It was so nice hearing you talk openly about parenting and the issues you have with Flynn. I know you like to post the happy moments but as a mom of 2 boys it’s hard to watch only perfect times from other families because it feels like I’m the only one having these struggles of fits and not listening. So thank you for bringing that up!!
"we have to scream, we've been abandoned" i don't know why but this is my favorite quote from this episode 😂😂😂 it's so real tho when you think about it
I’m less than 10 minutes into this video and I wish I could just hug you both. You seem so stressed (which is to be expected in your situation) and we know that you are doing your best as parents. I love you all and this podcast so much! Honestly, when your tired and stressed, it’s hard to even think clearly and I have moments of confusion all the time! YOU ARE NOT ANNOYING in any way and I am so thankful to have a break from life while watching these podcasts! Sending so much love and support your way! ♥️
I'm just CACKLING at the section of the "butt talk" while you're both tired and trying to keep hold of the babies 😭 it's just ultimate chaos and I'm here for it
Colleen, I love you so much girl. I had a preemie/NICU baby born at 32 weeks. You’re doing so great. It’s okay to not be okay. When you feel like your well is running dry, remember it’s not. You’re just a quick breather away from the well reserves kicking in. Your soul is swelling with love for your babies and your family. You’re never truly empty. You WILL GET THRU THIS. You ARE GETTING THRU THIS.
Eric admitting he’s used their butt cream made me audibly scream!!!!!!!!!! He’s so freaking funny 😂😭
I’m sure he regretted it after the bidet hit it 😂 that stuff is so thick!! He probably thought it was more of a butt lotion and quickly found out why adults don’t use it!!
Or highly inappropriate lol
As a parent to a one year old who is very much going through the emotional stage and “ tantrums “ this was beyond refreshing to hear! And just a good reminder for myself to give grace to him because he’s trying to figure out all these big emotions but also grace for myself because I can’t be on point all the time.
“How many ounces of boobs did Marsha need to make?” “See this is why you got bellow a 1000 on your sats love” whole time Eric’s saying they need to make ounces of boobs not ounces of milk yet he’s Judging her sats score😂
if you guys need to have a podcast that isn’t full of sunshines & rainbows as a venting / self care session, i’m here for it. i know you guys are going THROUGH it right now & i just want y’all to know that i love to see your authentic selfs. truly, i do. but also know if you need a break, TAKE IT!! love you both. i wish ya’ll brighter & less stressful days
best podcast ever, I love to watch while I'm getting ready for work always makes me smile and have a positive outlook for the day love you, Colleen!!
Dear Colleen, thank you.
For seven years my husband and I have delt with fertility issues and were told the chances of having a baby are pretty much zero. After a year of watching Flynn grow up and watching you powerhouse a twin pregnancy, we finally did it. Manifesting all the energy from all your vlogs/podcast/main channel, we finally got our miracle. Saturday 02/05/22 I found out I am finally pregnant! I will be re watching every single video you have about pregnancy and birth. Thank you for the good vibes and positive atmosphere! ♥️
Congrats!!!
@@abbyolivia thank you!
Itching your body in the shower is like scratching under a sock. I get it!
I don't think I've ever itched my body in the shower and now I feel left out and like I should go shower and try it out.
I just love y'all so very much! Thank you for all your vlogs, podcasts, videos ect...I feel like you guys are my best friends, making me laugh, making me think about crazy things, and wanting to help you. My kids are 23 and 21 and I am looking back now realizing I had PPD but didn't get help until years later. Again love and appreciate y'all ❤
I would just say about gentle parenting that your job also is to prepare your child to live in a world that doesn't always care how they feel.
And the vice-versa... living in a world where you care too much about everything and everybody's opinion and approval; that's not gonna help a kid much... it's good to be self sufficient and rely on yourself first and others second; it's something I had to learn in high school and it did me a world of good, cause it's true. Not everybody is gonna agree with you on everything and you can't go around doing things just to not piss off other people, if it happens to be the right thing for you, do it.
Gentle parenting validates children's feelings because they are in a stage that their feelings need to be validated so they can form healthy attachments and have a secure sense of self. Also, your parents are not everyone, they are not the world, they are supposed to be your security net. Those children will grow and eventually understand that, and when they are faced with frustration they will know how to handle that in a healthier way and not filled with anxiety from not being secure in themselves.
Gentle parenting does exactly that! Ur pretty immune to criticism and unkindness when ur truly comfortable in urself, and that comes from parents who love and accept u unconditionally.
@@DGraziosif yes yes yes
You guys are rocking it! My twinners are 19 and my baby is 16. Watching you makes all the memories come back. The crying, them and me, lol, no showers, diaper overload, and everhthing else. Thank you for showing real life and talking about it. Can't wait to see the show in Vancouver, Colleen! My twinners will be joining me!
Favorite moment so far: Colleen casually flips her phone over with her foot while simultaneously holding holds and binky w/ Maisy plus holding the mic 😂🎤 #goals
this is so comforting because I have super violent dreams that FREAK ME OUT but I cant do anything about it and I feel like somethings wrong with me, so thank you colleen for sharing :) makes me feel slightly more normal
This is such an intresting episode. I'm not a parent but I'm an uncle that lives in the same house as my nephew and I've always been around since he was a new born and i can realate with the conversation of like trying to be as gentle as possible with them and helping them understand things and also express their feelings and emotions and i also agree with the fact that it's hard lol sometimes you are not in the greatest mood either but you still want them to have the best experience in life lol it's the hardest thing ever. I'm not a parent and i still worry so much about everything regarding him and i want his experience in life to be amazing. I'm not perfect but he still tells me I'm the best uncle ever. I can understand how you guys are having a tough time and there's gonna be a lot of changes and it's still gonna be crazy lol but you guys are doing great just get as much help as you can whenever you can and you'll get thru it. You are doing great sweetie. Lol
I think this is my favourite episode especially the part about parenting styles and the pressure on parents to always be role models for their children. I think it applies to relationships as well. There is so much talk about how to be respectful and work on being a healthy partner but at the end of the day we are human and we react as humans. As long as you are trying and forgiving yourself I think you're doing great as a parent, partner or whatever role it is.
erik very matter-of-factly saying "we have to scream, we've been abandoned" is so fucking funny
I know this is an old podcast but I’m watching now because I tend to miss videos and I just wanna say that I’m so wildly impressed that Colleen (and Erik for the podcast) find time to film/edit videos and the podcast. I know many “normal/everyday moms” that VALIDLY struggle with everyday life so to watch you guys balance all of this while raising 3 children is SO impressive to me. You guys don’t give yourself enough credit and I promise you’re doing AMAZING!❤️
Gentle parenting is simply treating your tiny humans as HUMANS. Understanding that they’re literally learning how to life and like you said, all they know in THEIR little life is all that they know so anything that’s a big deal to them is valid because that’s literally ALL THEY KNOW.
It must be SO hard to parent this way when your child is acting bratty but it’s so important to remember that they’re a human that doesn’t know how to express themselves and YOU’RE the one who’s supposed to teach them❤️
You’re doing an incredible job.
There are 4 main parenting styles: 1) authoritarian 2) authoritative (gentle parenting) 3)permission and 4)neglectful. # 2 has been shown to have the best outcomes in children and is about acceptance but boundaries. You have rules and expectations but you validate the child’s emotions while holding your boundaries
DREAMS- hi Colleen! When you are having bad nightmares this means mentally you are drained. These are called night terrors. When you explained how you get then when you are stressed you are 100% right because I’ve been dealing with the same thing- I suffer from depression and anxiety. I’ve had the kidnapping dreams too! I appreciate you opening up about this, it definitely makes me feel less alone. You are so strong, you got this!
How does this setup feel relatable to me when I'm 15 have never done ANYTHING like this? Like I love seeing them relax on RELAX.
It's soo cool and cute. And the topics are so varied and they're so honest.
In conclusion, I love this podcast.
i just wanted to say how comforting it is watching your podcasts, vlogs and videos. From a lonely girl who feels like you are my friends xx
I love that Erik's audio got 100% better when he adjusted the mic
I love how you honestly discuss life and its tough times, including how tired you both are with the babies in this phase of life. But as soon as you explain the portable sandbox stuff you ordered for Flynn your both so excited to move and set it up. You are the great parents. You do YOU so well 👏🏼
LOVE the topic on parenting! I was always curious on how exactly they parented and if they were always on the same page. I have a daughter and parenting can get hard. Im at a loss sometimes.
Omg, the song is sooooo good! You both are so talented.
Newborn stage with ONE was SO HARD. Major props to you guys for surviving. I know it's worth it.
I know that feeling with babies of just repeat days where you feel like everyday is SO long and the thought of doing it all over again when you feel like there's no way you can do it and there is no end in sight is just such a defeating feeling. And that description doesn't do any justice to how awful it feels. It's those sweet beautiful moments with them when they aren't screaming crying that get you through. When Colleen talked about that it would be better if they knew when it was going to get easier the words "six months old" popped into my head, idk why but maybe it will get easier when they are 6 months old. Your gonna make it through. You guys love your babies, your great parents.....and you have to lol.
The way Masiy looks at Erik after confessing using their butt paste 😂😂
Maisey*^
Time stamp?
@@sngray11 it’s maisy lmaooo
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I just want to say that I love this podcast episode! Specifically about parenting and teaching children about expressing their emotions. As a child, I was never taught on how to identify my emotions and I'm just now learning it in therapy today as an adult. The way you described how Flynn is, was the exact same way I was when I was little kid. I am no parent but I think the way you are teaching Flynn about emotions is awesome and I know I would've benefited from that as well. Love you guys!
aww Macy smiling while Colleen talking about how the babies might be crying a little
Thank you for pointing out the struggles of responding gently to (sometimes) SCARY toddlers. It's important that we give ourselves grace in those moments when we surely will and have lost our cool. Reminding ourselves that gentle parenting and patience are our GOALS, but we are not perfect, is key.
I am really glad you guys expressed this - I have a daughter that is exactly the same age as Flynn. I know we only see him in limited clips, however he always seems SO well behaved and we never see the moments where you are correcting him. I have wondered if he really is THAT perfect and if my life is just especially hard in that respect. Always helpful to hear others' experiences!
Am I the only one that watches every podcast and not listen to them on a podcast forum? Just curious! They are the best couple I’ve ever listened to!!💜💜
I do both. Am I a weirdo?🤣
@@outoftheklosset Not at all weird!! I’d say you are a super fan!!💜💜
it seems as if every week relax gets funnier and more chaotic and more entertaining - and every week it makes my week 😊
I LOVE Eriks songs sooo soo much and his voice is so pure I love when they harmonize also!! 1:12:43 is also how my hubby sounds after a long day with the kids lol someone has to discipline and we all know that will be very hard for Colleen!!
You really are totally amazing. You have all this going on and no sleep and a busy busy day and still find time to entertain us. You both Rock!!!!!! Thanks from all of us viewers xxx
I’m a single mom with two baby girls and my youngest had colic and NOTHING could calm her down except me. And being on me is the only place she’d sleep. So I NEVER got a break or shower. So I TOTALLY understand!!! 💯 💯 💯
I really really enjoyed you guys talking about parenting, my partner and I watch every week and in 10 weeks our little boy is due and it’s so helpful to hear that stuff coming from real parents. Especially for my partner to hear because he doesn’t exactly sit and read about this stuff. Would love to hear more and loved the examples!
I’m just like Eric! I’ll remember my dreams for a very short period after I wake up. And my deja vu is always something I’ve dreamed about that I remember kinda in that moment
Same! I didn't know other people have experienced this.
The best podcast ever!! Have been in stitches throughout. Thank you for bringing us so much joy when things are so difficult for you guys ❤️
I love seeing Colleen propping up her phone with her toes so she could remember her relax
I love you guys so much 😂 awesome podcast
I hope to be as good of a parent as you both are
Colleen, I love watching you interact with Flynn, it warms my heart. You inspire me so much
Apparently dejavu is when one side of your brain has processed a split millisecond faster. So, one side processes senses and the other processes actual awareness so it feels like it's happened before because it has on the other side of your brain.
Great video, so so funny and REAL! Ps it gets harder in mental terms as now you have control over the babies, but once they’re older and making their own way in life, and you see them hurting and you can’t fix it, and you see them doing things you know is not good but you’re powerless to change it, or you see their personality change and it’s not for the good, or you see destructive friends influencing them …. That’s when the pain inside your soul crushes you 24/7 because you realize that no matter how good of a parent you’ve been, all you’ve sacrificed for them (no regrets ever), and all you’re selflessly going to do to help them through things out of your control, you still cannot stop the pain, remove trauma, erase bad experiences, or fix their genetics you didn’t know mattered until it’s too late, it’s then that the pain sets in and there is no end in sight. I’d take the sleepless nights, post Partum breakdowns, and itchy butt cheeks from sitting on them all day long with two kids on me, because at least at that point real life hadn’t taken away my hopes and dreams for my children. Younger is easier. Enjoy your days with them as you’ll look back at these videos and give anything to go back to these days. You are so blessed. I love your videos and your beautiful family. ❤️
Tortilla question: Do you think you'll put Flynn in preschool now that he's three so he'll have playmates his own age and some exposure to structured learning? Although I know the pandemic might make that difficult. Seems like home schooling him would be hard with baby twins.
Flynn seems like a kid that would do really well with unschooling, which would be easier with baby twins too, but who knows 🤷♀️ they have time though. I didn’t go to preschool til I was 4 or 5 then started kindergarten at 6.
@@alaina2252 Definitely agree but I don't remember one time that Colleen mentioned him playing with a kid his age (except for family) I think an unschooling approach would be perfect for him as long as he's getting proper socialisation with other kids.
Probably not with covid
@@alaina2252 he needs to be with kids his age that aren't family. So many kids are going to be lacking in social skills due to the Rona. People need to get over it eventually and get back to life.
@@kimjorvinhikes I wasn’t saying he not be with kids his age. And homeschooling methods were and are just as good as traditional schooling. I’ve always planned to homeschool my children, it has nothing to do with Covid. There are a lot of programs (sports, crafts, community theater, 4-H, etc) for socialization in homeschooled children. Society needs to remove the stigma that homeschooled kids are “weird” or “unsocialized” just because they didn’t go to a designated building to learn. My husband has ADHD and struggled with traditional schooling because it’s such a rigid environment with really no room for outliers in the curriculum, he ended up getting his GED and eventually getting into a trade. But he’s said that had unschooling been a thing 15yrs ago he would’ve liked to have learned that way.
I love every second of the simple, crazy, emotional, everything in one vlogs and podcasts. Love you all❤️
maisy is just making faces and smiling hahahaha its so cute. SHE IS A MINI FLYNN !!!
I loved the parenting conversation! Such an important talk to have with your partner, regardless of how long y’all have been together or how long you’ve been parents!
The breakdown during the song LOL how in sync Erik is with Colleen is pretty unbelievable lol
It's scary to be human online with so many people judging you. I'd be terrified. I love that you both have become so honest and open and vulnerable in this podcast. It feels so much better than the carefully curated and we ALL can relate to it.
To Colleen, Erik and anyone else that needs to hear it -
In the spaces where you feel like you're drowning remember that IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER. This too shall pass and you will feel whole once again. You got this, beautiful. ❤️ Just keep pushing through. It's the only way out. Nurture and be gentle with yourself 🌻
After Colleens monologue/song thing she should’ve went into “now moms cryingggg and dad is cryingggggg and we’re all cryinggggg” and then somehow end it with “now Flynn’s awake”
Love the podcast today, love how true and transparent you are. Forever greatful for the post you make and we approvate you taking the time to still post!!
Our 3 year old told her much older siblings "if I cry, abuelita (her grandma) will love me more"...so she has some sort of conscious grasp on how to get her way, LOL. But we parent the same way with options and warning for consequences.
The ending song made me soooo happy. You guys were having so much fun and it sounded so good too! I know nothing about music, but you guys are the musical power couple!!
Erik nonchalantly saying "I've done shots of your breastmilk" and Colleen having zero reaction. Ya'll are the best couple in the world ever.
I'm not a parent but I really enjoyed the parenting chat at the end! I'd love to hear more of you guys' thoughts on this stuff and how you plan to parent in the future - super interesting :)