Hey Anne. My husband passed away a week ago. We were just setting up in the wilderness. We had a myriad of projects to complete. 3 days after he transitioned, I decided to split some wood with an axe. Missed the log and hit my ankle. Thankfully I had thicker boots on, so the break in the skin was pretty minor. But the blow has me slightly crippled. I can't believe I did that. A moment of carelessness. I didn't cut my foot off. Staying in gratitude. No fear. Only love.
Hey, I love, love your mug! The copper one. My husband of 42 years never buys himself anything. Lots for building stuff and remodeling our home…. Anyway he saw this video and said, that mug is so cool! I want that!” Ha! Belated Fathers Day gift!! Please where can I buy that!!?? Btw in my head we are besties! Love all your videos and your down to earth, honest dialogue speaks to my soul. You are an amazing person. I also have dyslexia….. can’t spell to save my life. I have stories I could tell you…. Bless you and your hubby and your beautiful farm!
Don’t be afraid. 20+ years ago I was a hairdresser shears sharpener. I sharpened them & they didn’t do right so I did it again & did such a good job I cut ligaments, tendons, & nerves. My hand was basically a claw. Top it all off no insurance single mom & 2 small children. I found a micro neuro surgeon who did the surgery pro bono just allowing students to watch. It did take 6 weeks of physical therapy but I have full function of my hand. I was able to return to work.
I so relate to your feelings. I'm going to start walking my property and remind myself to be grateful. I'm a 58 year old man. I suffered a life changing injury while at work. It's been a long road back, and there is some permanent damage. Such is life. Thank you for sharing your situation. I have to be honest, a lot of times you do come across as if everything is perfect. I feel your pain, more than you know. Keep pressing on. I think you are beautiful inside and out. One way or another, you will eventually move past this, for better or worse. I've learned to just accept what is put in my path and remain resilient. Depression sucks, and I know it all too well. Best of luck.
Thanks so much for your transparency! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Our homestead is just a few miles from Rory’s. I caught your talk at the Homestead Festival and it was so empowering! I was diagnosed with ADHD a year ago at 40. It felt like a weird cross between an explication of years of struggle and a life sentence to keep struggling. The treatment has helped some but not a cure. I always secretly thought I was stupid and incapable, even though I’m a relentless go getter like yourself and in the public eye as well. In a world where social media projects perfection, your transparency has been liberating! You let your insecurities and struggles show and the rest of us see how incredibly successful, hardworking, talented, and persistent you are and it helps us believe that we can make it. Again thanks for your openness on such an exposed platform, you’re a revolutionary 🙏🏻💖
You’ve got this. I cut off a few fingers (including my thumb) on a tablesaw doing something stupid. I spent my recovery canning (you can too). You’ll figure it out. My hand isn’t what it was… but neither is the rest of me. A life well lived comes with some scars and you use yours to inspire and encourage others. That’s something to be proud of and to know that many others are grateful for you.
Not as severe. But I had a boxers fracture on two metacarpals. Also doing something stupid punching a wall. The hand just isn't what it was. How do I go on with life accepting this ? It is so hard for me, I just cant seem to do it. I want to be how I was.
@@PortilloMoment in the Army, we had a joke, "Scars are like tattoos, only with better stories". Had to agree, although most of the time, those stories were stupid ones that we laughed at later.
I was an RN for 33 years. I worked ICU and eventually most areas. I had a can do attitude. Then I broke my ankle. Bad. I changed areas where I wasn't on my feet for 12 hours. I'm 66 years old now. Medically retired at 57 due to autoimmune disease. The thing is, we get older. These vessels get wear and tear. I like to garden and have chickens. I also like wood working. I make adjustments and use adaptive equipment. Where there is a will there is a way. You're not going to be able to do at 66 what you could do at 36. It's a process toward acceptance. It hurts. We cry. Tears are therapeutic. Hang in there and give yourself grace. You will adjust. You're amazing.
You don't have to answer to jerks who put you down. Those people are insecure about their abilities, and project that onto others. You have those abilities, and you're learning, getting better. That's what a young person is supposed to do. Have confidence in that.
Isn’t that amazing? Someone seriously injures themself and the internet rushes in to rub salt in the wound. Show me someone (anyone at all) who has worked with their hands for more than a couple years who hasn’t injured themself doing something, usually something they know was dumb. I know I did. Maybe more than once. Yes, Anne screwed up. Takes a special kind of loser to add to her suffering though. I’m happy to see most of the comments are supportive.
My wife and I volunteer at a rehabilitation animal shelter. We've witnessed many animals that have had life changing injuries and they rarely appear to be sad about their new handicaps. When they want to do something that they can't do the old way, they find a new way. It is truly inspirational to watch them adapt. Although animals do get depressed, it seems quite rare when related to a life changing injury (more often related to a deceased owner). I recently broke my wrist, requiring surgery, and I often thought of these animals for inspiration when I couldn't tie my shoes or take a shower the way I used to. I just figured out a way to get it done. People can learn a lot from animals.
We give grace to others so readily but so hard on ourselves allow yourself to feel what you feel. The journey has challenges but there will be good days. You got this ❤
One human's honesty and sharing of personal fears can be more of an inspiration and motivator than the many self-assured online motivators selling their brand of life success. Thanx Anne! ...wishing you a fast path to full healing and 'handiness'!
The whole thing of the inner voice telling me that "You made a dumb mistake that you could've avoided" is something I've been struggling with for almost exactly 8 years to the date. I was riding my bicycle to work before sunrise, and I didn't have anything reflective on me. I was rear-ended by a pickup truck, and not only broke my left tibia, but suffered severe nerve damage. The only way I can make it is one day at a time.
I had a massive staff infection 5 years ago in my right hand and could also not pinch my fingers together after my surgery. Similar to you. But my therapists made me keep trying and I gradually did regain all my pincher and movement skills in that hand. Don't give up. It takes time but your hand will re learn the skill.
I'm a high functioning partial quadriplegic and a permaculturalist regen ag urban farmer. I do nothing the "normal way". Regardless of what happens, you will find a way to do what you love. It takes time. Time to heal, time to recoup, time to learn the new normal, time to figure out how to adapt, and time to just get things done. If you do loose function in that hand, look at how quads, strokes, amputees do the things. My best hack is old used tennis balls and thick rubber bands to maximize my grip strength and my control. Stuff a chisel handle into the ball and slip my hand under the band around the ball to hold the tool. Then I have a variety of things to hold what ever I am working on still the way I want them. Most power tools are still off limits because I haven't figured out how to use them safely but I can use most hand tools now. I can do my own preserving and canning in a set up refined for my needs and most able bodied folks find a little difficult to use. Right now you need to wait because things are changing too much too fast. Keep that sling on, use what ever tool you need to when you need it, and everyone who complains can go talk to the compost where that *stuff* belongs. Oh and hand milking when you get there will be some of the best therapy for that hand. It may take a decade or two for the nerves to sort themselves out, since they are the slowest healing thing in our bodies, but after 24 years of work , I've got my quads moving when I tell them to. Jumped in the pool for the first time a month ago. Most days I take less than 100 steps on land, and am up to 2 hours 3 days per week walking in a pool, and the rest of the time it's in my wheelchair towing the chicken coop built on a bike trailer or bum shuffling through the garden beds pushing or towing containers around as I harvest, plant, and weed. It ok to feel all the feels, and actually more than ok. Learn to stop and breath when frustration clouds your efforts, do something different (including cussing like a grumpy Russian sailor when the tool scitters off where you cannot readily get it). Noone and nothing is actually perfect ever, and if it seems that way, it's an illusion. Just as your stun garden is very productive but not sunset mag picture perfect, it's just right for where it's at right now. And so are you. Take all the time you need. And for me, I'm planning out what to plant into our terraced beds now that rain has returned to the maritime Pac NW.
I lost both legs at 17. At the time, I thought my life was over. My mind was filled with all the things I couldn't do. And initially, I couldn't do much! But as I got stronger, I learned that I could do everything I wanted, I just figured out new ways to accomplish what I needed, I went back to college, met and married my best friend and had 7 children. I'm now 57 years old and love gardening, I play keyboard in our church worship team, and our family is expecting my 9th grand baby. Life is good! Remember, the key to happiness is in your head. Change your attitude (which you are doing with your gratitude list) and you will thrive! Thank you for your program, I learn a lot from You! God Bless you! ❤
We all make mistakes and sometimes we pay a big price for it, but why is it so hard to forgive ourselves? We've all had our own version of midnight nachos. Sending you strength for your recovery and hopes that it will be a full one! Much love.
62 year old man here, learning things I should have picked up years ago. But for you, there is such a huge community that loves you, would help you anyway they could and will if you allow it. Your video had me crying, not a bunch but there is something about tears that bring more tears, not just yours, but ours, too. I fell off a trailer a little over a year ago, broke my right wrist and needed surgery to put it and my shoulder back together. The metal plate they put in to hold all the bits in place, severed my ligament to my thumb and effected that "pincher" we oh so take for granted. Back to surgery the day before my birthday. The original accident happened a day before my birthday. About 6 weeks ago I was clearing some branches on my little property, and a branch landed on the opposite hand's thumb. Pinchers are important, recovering takes time. Give Thanks and don't be afraid to ask, and when you need to, cry.
One of my friends who had been in the building trade for years had an altercation with a circular saw. He was lucky that he still had his thumb. Bless you & I wish you a speedy recovery 🫂
My precious Anne, there are no accidents in life, only things that happen for you not to you. You have been so fast for so long and refusing to slow down and reduce the stress in your life that your mind has done it for you. You are perfect without working 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. Downsize or whatever you have to do to get enough rest and time off to enjoy life. Consider this accident a warning. Remember you are just as beautiful, intelligent and capable on 5 acres as a 100 acres. Please don't scare me any more, when you hurt, I hurt.
My wonderful husband died two years ago. In that time I drove my car into a flooded ditch, had to replace the leaking roof, broke my leg and had surgery with 14 plates put in, my daughter had a car crash, she then broke her hip and 2 months ago we had a hurricane storm and 3 trees came down damaging my new roof, the septic tank and solar system!!! Your videos have inspired me to landscape a totally different garden destroyed by the storm. So life does go on Anne. You are an amazingly strong woman and will get past this and with your great sense of humour will laugh at this time (when better). Thanks
You've been a big benefit to thousands of people, and if the voice in your head doesn't know that, it's just confused. You're smart, creative and talented. Keep it up!
Dear Anne. I am 78 years old and I have been fallowing you for several years now. I am not ashamed to say I love you. The inspiration you have given to all or your fallowers threw the honesty that you shared as you faced your adversity is truly bravery beyond compare. You will be getting advice from many well intentioned people but remember the best advice comes from within. You are a beautiful and brave person. Young women can look to you as to who they should become. My prayers are with you my dear as they have been.
Hang in there Anne.....you are struggling with some of the same things. We are all behind you and you will get better. Its hard but your in good company. I Was in a wheelchair 2 years ago and I am still trying to recover. I am walking but still don't have feeling on my left side. I've had to learn to play guitar again but I will not quit. Your a warm...loving...human person and you are a blessing.
I have RA, an autoimmune disease that has attacked my joints especially my hands. I so relate to what you said about the need to ask for help! I Really dislike it! I’m an artist/illustrator for a living and can’t even think about not being able to work. I’ll be cheering you on as you figure it out! You’ve got this! 🥰
Remember 3 things. No. 1 Take care of yourself. No.2 Remember that you will either recover or adapt. No. 3 You will be alright...just like I was alright.
Yes #2 had a accident in 2015 . Rolled a 4 wheeler got scape on my inner right leg . Got home cleaned it up went to work 3 days later went to the hospital for 1 month 4 surgery s later went home with a pikline and antibiotics directly into my heart for 2 months nerve damage all down my right side arm and hand was locked. Went to therapist to fix that for 3 months now have mostly full use but winter cold hurts .
Anne, you're literally an inspiration. There will always be one person who "knows better", but they only know that one thing. You are Anne of ALL trades. What you have achieved is incredible, and I have a feeling there's a lot more yet to come.
Anne, together with Adam, you have accomplished some amazing things. Life, y'know, Yin and Yang. Nothing is perfect always. Being grateful is a good way to get yourself through the hard times and I know you will. I hope you feel better soon!
Anna, I have been following since your wood crafting days and I will say that you are not the same person that you were. You are so much stronger and you honestly share your heart, I know the road is rough now but you know rough roads always come to an end. You have a new chapter started in your life and the what will yeild will be amazing like you are. Praying for a quick healing and stay strong, you are not alone❤
Many years ago, I cut off the tip of my left index finger on a jointer. A moment of in attention led to quite a period of recovery. They grafted skin over the end of the finger, and I spent six weeks with my finger in a large sock bandage and had to hold it above my heart at all times. From that experience, I have somewhat of an understanding of the emotional roller coaster you are experiencing. The unknown is the hard part. You don’t know what’s going to happen. Sounds like you have good doctors and once you get there I’m sure you’ll have really good physical therapy. Those are the people to listen to not the negative voices on TH-cam or other social media. It won’t be easy but you’ll get back to a point that you feel much more comfortable. I always try to avoid saying you’ll get back to yourself because you won’t. You’ll be the new you who has recovered from this accident. I can say for sure that with my finger I know when the weathers going to change. You may have something like that too but that’s just another little plus that will come from here experience.
Hang in there. I severed my hand while sharpening a knife deep in thought. Damaged alot of nerves and tendon. Stitches came out and I couldn't feel or move my pointer, thumb or middle finger either. Lots of swelling. They said probably surgery. So I waited it out and I'm glad I did. I have probably about 90% of feeling and movement back but I can use it just as good. I might have a 10 Second delay vs. my other hand but it's still works.😊 I do have have nerve pain once in a while if I bump where the injury was, but much better and didn't need surgery. Give it some time and try not to be as impatient as I was. Wishing you quick and productive healing.
Praying for a good report, complete healing, a quick recovery, and wisdom, knowledge and guidance for EVERY doctor that would speak into your life in Jesus name.
I have been down this road. It's a rough road. Remember that healing takes time, don't fight it. In time you will forget that your hand is damaged. I know that seems impossible right now, but it will happen. I have never regained full strength, mobility, or feeling in the hand I crushed, and it does not slow me down at all. You will be back to doing the things you love faster than you think.
With everything you've been through and learned, here's an opportunity to learn a new way. Right now, things are really scary, but you are the most capable person I have ever seen. We are all here for you and keeping you in our prayers. Love those babies of yours. They really do help.
You put to much pressure on yourself! Stop trying to make it perfect and enjoy what is! I have followed you for some years now without commenting anything, just enjoying your world! That world and you are amazing! Don't try to be everything, a little goes a long way! Love your videos! Stay strong! And lett it all out if that's needed! Hugs from Norway 🥰
Oh girl you're speaking my language. I REALLY damaged my shoulder in June lifting the arm of the sickle mower. Because it was 60 days before my daughter's wedding, I toughed it out. Feeding, milking, watering, weed pulling, moving fence...it all hurts. Every. Single. Day. But I have such a hard time asking for extra help, and like you, don't want to be a burden, especially to mu husband. You are a beautiful, amazing human with a heart of gold, albeit on your sleeve. You are inspirational and even those of us who are not new to this life, learn from your wins and your failures, I am grateful for YOU. Let the tears flow and keep smiling that brilliant smile. This is only a season in your life.💞
Anne hang in there. You are inspiring to so many people. Maybe you need a young intern right now. Someone who can be your hands for canning, preserving, milking. Then YOU would be helping someone else. Right now I’m suffering a frozen shoulder. It’s completely locked. I usually am able to take care of the farm and animals, now I have to be assisted getting dressed. It may take a while. We just have to learn gratitude, grace for ourselves and keep pushing forward. ❤
I had frozen shoulder in Both shoulders at once and it lasted nearly 3 years. So pain,scary and disabling.Most people just don't know. I was a single Mom with a child with disabilities and I cleaned houses for a living. I thought How the heck is this going to work? I had to accept that for a while anyway- I would have to change everything I did , accept my limitations, and be willing to ask for help. I went on welfare for the first time in my life, had a friend move in and help for free room and board and quit doing anything that wasn't absolutely neccesary. And I tried to stay grateful. Anne is right-it was a season and it changed how I thought about things. I didn't see HOw I was going to get through it but I did. My perspective changed and I came out of it with different priorities. I started an errand running service instead of returning to housekeeping. I watched my daughter become more independent because she had to. I had to change my expectations and accept that I couldn't control things, that help often comes from the most unlikely places, and that my experience could benefit others. And that you just never know what's possibible if you are open minded and willing to embrace change. 20 years later and the things I learned on that journey have sure come in handy.
I lost both legs at 17. At the time, I thought my life was over. My mind was filled with all the things I couldn't do. And initially, I couldn't do much! But as I got stronger, I learned that I could do everything I wanted, I just figured out new ways to accomplish what I needed, I went back to college, met and married my best friend and had 7 children. I'm now 57 years old and love gardening, I play keyboard in our church worship team, and our family is expecting my 9th grand baby. Life is good! Remember, the key to happiness is in your head. Change your attitude (which you are doing with your gratitude list) and you will thrive! Thank you for your program, I learn a lot from You! God Bless you! ❤
You are not alone. I've had some physical limitations, and I know others too. When you learn to stop, slow down, connect within, and learn to ask for help, and how we are all connected is a huge gift. Beloved, breathe, and take it one day at a time. It will be the best thing that ever happened - in the long run. 🤪
Seattlelite here, I've been watching for a lot of years/ been a fan. Gratitude is a big part of how I make it through the day/ the world at large. Thank you for talking about it, and how you use it in super tough times like this. This is the second time you've made me cry in a video... Thanks for being real, putting yourself on front street as a renaissance woman, and always creating enriching content- even when it's about crappy things like this. I truly wish you a speedy recovery. Best wishes from Seattle 💚
Hang in there girl. Nerves don’t like to be touched or disrupted, so more than likely this will just take time and patience and physical therapy to heal. You’re on the right track mentally - things happen for a reason, and in the process you’ll learn new things and grow as a person. 💝 I understand the slings purpose for you, just don’t be in it all day and make sure you mobilize your elbow and shoulder throughout the day - those joints get stiff quickly. (Saying this is just to be helpful!)😚 Sending healing vibes!!! ❤️🩹
Thank you Anna... It's a set back but your courage to keep your life moving forward is inspiring. I run a woodworking business myself and was told I have Retina degeneration disease in both eyes. I could lose my eyesight at anytime. I refuse to give up on my business and my woodworking passion so I put it in God's hands and just live on despite being on a time clock mentality. Yes I'm am afraid that one day I may wake up and my vision is gone but ain't gonna waste any time but doing what I love to do. Thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery. 💪🙏
Thanks so much to medical professionals who are so dedicated to their craft. I have experienced that many times in my life, and I am always forever grateful.
Sending a big virtual hug your way. When I caught my finger with the power hammer several years ago it took a surgeon to put it right and a few month of regular range of motion exercises, specified by the surgeon, to regain full use. Today it works as well as ever, even though I the damaged area still feels different at times. It takes time, but I have faith in your ability to get through this set back and rise above it before you know it. Lots of love from John and Janet
You are an amazing & beautiful human. Continue to find positivity! You've helped so many people find the confidence to try new experiences and learn new skills. You've made a mark on this world, and that's something even an injury can't take away from you.
You said it- “this is a season”. I just found your site recently but I already found strength in trying to do different projects on my land. This video of your struggles provides me strength in dealing with my own depression as well. Thank you. God has great plans for you! Aloha!
I love how you find words to encourage and explain raw feelings. So articulate, authentic and admirable. You are adored by this community! I’m deeply sorry this has happened to you. Prayers for your complete recovery. I loved reading thru the comments! I hope your spirit is encouraged and uplifted. Many blessings to you and Adam as you walk through this together and get to the other side.
Anne, I deeply appreciate your aim to share imperfections and struggles. You’re an inspiration, and I hope you continue to find joy in the life you’re building and in sharing this with others. Thank you, thank you.
Hang in there Ann. You will overcome this. 17 years ago I was told I had 4 months to live. A massive surgery and the loss of a lung later, I am still here. 2 years ago I had a tooth abscess that went to my skull. By the time they figured out what was going on I had to have immediate surgery and was not expected to live through the night. I spent 2 years not being able to walk and the last 43 in extreme pain on a daily basis. And today while I am working I am making Halloween decorations in my workshop. The point is that you can do it. You are as strong as I am and can do anything you put your mind to. Believe it and you will conquer this!
I'm new to you. I really needed to hear what you said today. It's good to know that I'm not singularly weird or crazy and there are others out there going through the same things I am. Thank you for being brave enough to share yourself with all us strangers and make us feel so not alone. And not perfect. And struggling. And trying to find our dream.
Thank you. Needed to be reminded that I am not the only one going through a really rough time. Thank you for your positivity, and sharing your fear of asking for help. Sending hugs and blessings and lots of prayers for a speedy recovery.
You ARE an inspiration! Full stop! I’ve been watching you from almost the beginning. I’m a hobbyist woodworker and when I found you I just loved your style right away. I’m not a farmer but I am a dog freak and I cried so much when Abbey passed. I’ve been cheering you on in each endeavor. I don’t do what you do but you inspire me because of who you are. I’ve listened to you closely when you’ve talked about your mental health and have learned so much. My teen daughter has been struggling with anxiety for years and while she has therapy and medication, obviously things happen. It helps me understand what she’s going through and helps me with how to discuss things with her when I’ve heard you talk about your life. Thank so so much for being so real. I wish for good news when you see the doctor next.
Your doing a Great job Anne dont listen to haters. My family and I love your channel. We admire you and your dedication to your Farm and animals. We are rooting for you. Get well soon❤😊
Thank you for your transparency and honesty. It IS a season and I am looking forward to witnessing what beautiful growth is going to spring forth from this latest dump of "compost" you have received. You are such a wonderful encourager to others. May you be encouraged by the love and prayers that are being sent your way.
Hang in there Anne! This too will pass. You are an overcomer, look at all you have been through. We love you and our prayers are with you and the farm.
I had to take over 2 and half years off because my hands were not operating as they should. I live with a traumatic brain injury and because of all the vibrations and noises my power tools created, my brain became very weak which in return affected my fine motor skills and much more. Life without woodworking was not easy so I decided to get rid of all my power tools and now have a nice little hand tool shop. It’s been an amazing transition and everyday I’m regaining my passion and ability to woodwork. It’s about managing what you have, not what you want. The want’s will come. Trust the process and don’t get down on yourself. Thanks for sharing. You got this!
Thanks for sharing. I'm also a woman of all trades and my MRI revealed that there is no cartilage left in my shoulder. It stinks, but hearing that I'm not alone and surgery can help is making me feel better. Best of luck in your surgery and hopefully it will bring back full movement
I went through a similar thing with a back injury when I was 35. My doctor was a back surgery specialist and he told me if I could hack 7-8 years of serious pain it would get better. He said surgery would require fusing vertebrae and I'd loose a lot motion. Sure enough it turned out as he said. Lots of therapy, never being able to sleep my flat on my back, and lots of walking. Fortunately I had great bosses who gave me time to get to point of coming back to work, changed my job from greasy, mechanical work to learning a new skill and using computers to buy materials for the business. Now almost 70, I have no pain and can do anything I want "within reason". (No more climbing 20 ft ladders or getting on the roof). 8 years was a long time and yes there were a lot of things I put off because of the pain but it all worked out. I've been a wood worker all my life too. Do what the doctors tell you and therapy, lots of therapy and you'll come out of this too. Good luck!
You were lucky to have an amazing surgeon, these days the outcomes for spine surgeries is 75% failure rate. Because the current standard of care ends with permanent damage to the spine before surgery is done to fix the bones but not the damage.
I had a stroke in 2012 and was paralyzed on my left side but with time and therapy I am able to walk again and I have use of my left hand again. This will pass with time and I will keep you and your husband in my prayers. May GOD bless you both and keep you safe.
Reading thru all of the comments shows that you are helping SO MANY people in so many different ways. I suffer from depression and anxiety that medication helps tremendously but your videos help me even more. Thank you.
Wishing you a healthy recovery. It may take some time, but remember that you are not alone and you can share the burden (even if it is just by listening to your feelings).
Holding one of my once in a lifetime pups Lucy right now waiting for her to pass 😢. She’s 10 years old had her from the day she was born. Wasn’t wanting a 3rd dog at the time but she stole my heart. Thankful to have the last 12 days to say goodbye.
We think you are rocking it, Anne!! Sling & all!!! So sorry about your hand and hope you will find healing and joy amidst your silly queso-dripping hardened corn lasagna mistake. You are loved and you are doing a great job day in and day out. Keyboard warriors dripping with jealousy have nothing on you, friend. Keep on creating and inspiring! also, hi Adam!
Thank you so much for sharing your life with us Anne. What you have described is a tough situation. You have shown all of us to overcome and succeed at soooo many things! You have lots of people sending you good energy, love and prayers. You've worked hard and brought so much good to so many people. You are a tough, loving, brilliant cookie. Anyone who has watched you knows you will find your way. I'm just sorry that you have another bump (a big one) to overcome. It absolutely will get better. Sending a big virtual hug and appreciating your vulnerability and strength. 🏅 💗
You will get over this. Its all about attitude, and yours is top notch. As a woodworking retired guy, I get lots of looks at my half-sized finger. My left middle finger is one joint short. No finger nail. Of course, everyone assumes a woodworking accident. Nope. I had a concrete table top we needed to move in order to bust up the concrete slab it was situated on. A gazebo that never quite happened. Our son was visiting, but headed out when I asked for his help. In my haste, I opted for a dumb idea for us to move the 300 lb thing by hand, across the yard, balanced on a pair of 2x4s. It was the dismount that got me. I lost my balance, and the slab and 2x4 crushed the finger tip into a brick planter. Uncontrollable bleeding, a trip to the ER, and a hand surgeon consult. A few days later, the hand surgeon finished what I started. While this is a pinprick compared to your injury, it was hard to accept and adapt. The weirdest things drove me nuts. Every reach into a left pocket left me convinced there was a huge hole in that pocket, because my longest finger was no longer there. Keyboarding became a problem. Never a great touch typist, but letters came up randomly AWOL in typed documents. The new, shorter finger tip was itchy and very sensitive. But I got over it all. Pockets don't fake me out anymore. Typing is slower, but that gives me more time to think about the content. The finger is now fine. I rarely think about it. Again, you too will adapt and overcome. With your inner strength, and the support of you family and fans, you will get thru this. It gets better.
Hi Anne! New here. Sorry for your injury. I too moved from Washington State. Prayers for you! Started gardening in a zone 9A. My springer got to make it a year and a month in her new digs. Almost 15 years old. I still can't get over her being gone. We do have some land too. Very happy now. Keep on going! Fantastic life you have! Never give in, never give up! ❤
I singly manage two households - my 80-year-old full time residence, and a 130-year-old farmhouse with 5 acres of grass fields to maintain. In June this year I did something that almost everyone I've talked to does often - I (tried) to step over the gas pump hose while pumping gas. Except I fell and broke my ankle in 3 places. I needed surgery and was immobile and non-weight bearing for almost 3 months! I totally understand and promise you that it will get better. The universe has a way of slowing us down when we need it. Trust in the process. You are such an inspiration to me and many others. Sending so much love and positivity your way.
You can and will make it through this. I know when you are in the midst of the "bad time" that it may not seem it and you don't want to here that old saying that it will make you stronger , but it will. You are one strong individual. Ive got to see you accomplish and overcome a lot on this channel and look forward to seeing you overcome this and accomplish even more. You inspired me to try spoon carving and now everyone I know wants one or another one. So remember that accomplishment as well, all the people you inspire and teach and are thankful for you for that. So I hope this message and all the well wishes you are receiving, I'm sure, help to inspire you to pull through this. Get well soon and know you are in my thoughts and prayers for a full and speedy recover.
You got this! Threw the ups and downs, you have done amazing. Your an inspiration to many of us. Even if it feels like things are falling apart, tomorrow is another chance to thrive.
So sorry, Annie, but also so proud of you and Adam and your gusty journey through life. Sounds lame, but I'm glad you didn't injure your fingering hand (string instruments) 'cause that would've been an utter disaster and maybe a tougher comeback. I am so proud of the two of you, and I'm impressed by your gratitude in the face of tough times.
I was going to make a similar comment ---- at least it wasn't her fretting hand! Up and over or around to one side, Anne (and Adam) finds a way through life. She is an inspiration that is real.
You are my kind of people. I am so glad I found you! Your vibrant, positive, nature connected, varied outlook are your strengths. Do not let anyone who does not appreciate you into your space. Who knows the future….your left hand may become your favorite dominant hand. Who knows
Anne, since I've find your channel one week ago, I can't stop wathcing your videos. The content is so rich, interesting, well put together. You're such a beautiful person inside out, your personality, beauty, determination,... Your "Jack of all trades" personality amazes me. More women like you! I also find similarities between you and me. The way you talk to your animals:) , your empathy, cheering/joyfull/playfull personality, how you're eager to learn all sort of things. I've learned how to install water pipes, electricity wiring, ceramic tiling, door&window installing, laminate instalation, gardening and much more... but 7 years before that I was useless :) It really hurts to see you in pain. Yesterday I,ve got stick pushed into my eye while cutting trees. Although I've said to myself couple of days ago I should wear safetyglasses, I haven't stick to my own recommendation yesterday. Even though I was trying to be extra careful, it happened. My uncle had his fingers cut off while mowing a lawn. He's doing with machinerry all his life. He went with a hand near razor blades while it was still operating. He said, if he heard someone do that, he would say what a dumm thing to do, but it happened and is unbelivable to him. Half of a finger he's still misssing, but he does jobs as much as he did, like nothing happened. So please, don't be hard on yourself for having an accident. It happens to us all nad when we least expect it. Gratitude is your ally. I fully understand this, specially yesterday when it happened to me I was grateful I didn't go blind, even though consequences are still in the way. You will get through this. I think about women that have been slaughtered by men with a knife multiple times. They survived or sadly they haven't. So I'm also forever grateful not having to deal with that kind of horrors directly. I wish your recovery to be as fast as possible. 💛Hand will be fine at the end.💪 In the meantime I know something good will come out of it, because of how you approach situations. I'm truly wishing you all the best life can offer. Update: Oh, this is 1 year old video. Before I wrote this, I've seen as it's from 3 rd October this year.
Sweetie, please stop walking backwards. You don’t want another bad injury.❤ Sometimes I just wanna hop on a plane and fly to your home in Tennessee to help you with whatever I can. Unfortunately, that is not an option for me but I hope your friends in Tennessee will come to your rescue. You are a precious, precious young woman. Don’t ever forget that!❤
We are all praying for you Anne. Everyone of your subscribers love you and love what you do. We’ll be all praying for your surgery to go well and you get your functions back to your Hands ❤❤❤
Thank you for the reminder of thinking of, "What are we Grateful for" It's hard when an injury changes your life. 12 years ago, I had a slip, twist and fall at work... and work comp doesnt mean appropriate treatment happens. I'm in pain more, than I'm not. But refocusing my thoughts on something I'm Grateful for helps change perspectives. And since I'm always on high alert for falling prevention, could I encourage, Please don't walk backwards. I saw you walking backwards and saw the garden hose and prayed you didnt trip. Having had 2 shoulder surgeries and arms in slings, it makes your balance off, and that's when you are doing your usual of going forward. One day at a time, and adding being Grateful for one thing, makes a better day already🙂👍🏼
Ah sister...my heart goes out to you. I fully get what you're going through, being a crafter/carver, and musician like you. Our hands are so vital for our way of life. I live simply on the land too, and have done some stupid stuff, which i knew better how to do, but everyone makes mistakes, gets distracted, or simply gets a bit blasé about things weve done hundreds of times. Im 60 now, and still f*** up sometimes when im working. We are our own worse critics. I wish you a full recovery, in mind and body, to keep living your dream and beautiful life. Lots of love from me in 🇬🇧
Anne, don't ever change. I see you as a GOOD, HONEST BEAN trying to encourage/help others with your experiences, both ... happy & sad. I find you interesting as a person and that's why I subscribed. Please take my RESPECT.
You are so blessed and an inspiration to all. "Who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." 2 Corinthians 1:4
I survived a stroke 3+ years ago and lost my left side but am improving each month. I had to give up my career and my new job is my garden landscaping projects. Keep stretching your tendons, and use your hand even if it hurts. Don’t get unto the habit of compensating. ❤
Whatever is affecting us at the moment is difficult. When you so easily turned and got up from sitting on the ground and was able to sit on the ground without apparent effort looks like such a blessing to someone who has no miniscus in their knees, bone on bone as they say. Not having a walk-in shower, painful almost tear producing efforts to get out of a tub, safely. Every loss is intolerable, every one unacceptable but your attitude is God given ...
I'm living this nightmare myself this very second. I fell and horribly dislocated my shoulder. Not only did i dislocate it but i broke it and destroyed my rotator cuff. I'm an artist. I'm single and do everything myself. I just lost my mom who was my best friend. i was working hard on my health practising pilates multiple days a week. I'm already 4 weeks post injury and today found out i am 2 further weeks to meet the surgeon and no idea how long to surgery. My life has come to a complete halt. Like you i realize this is just an event that will pass yet the anxiety and depression fight me everyday. Thank you for the video, your honesty and your attitude. I send you heartfelt wishes for a speedy full recovery along with a one armed hug.
Oh Anne I wish I could find the right words to bring you comfort. F’ people who want to tell you what’s right for you. And internet “experts” make my blood boil. You cry when you need to cry dear one. And YOU have changed my life by teaching me how to sharpen my tools.
Hey Anne. My husband passed away a week ago. We were just setting up in the wilderness. We had a myriad of projects to complete. 3 days after he transitioned, I decided to split some wood with an axe. Missed the log and hit my ankle. Thankfully I had thicker boots on, so the break in the skin was pretty minor. But the blow has me slightly crippled. I can't believe I did that. A moment of carelessness. I didn't cut my foot off. Staying in gratitude. No fear. Only love.
Grief caused accidents. Read my post. Love to you.
Hey, I love, love your mug! The copper one. My husband of 42 years never buys himself anything. Lots for building stuff and remodeling our home…. Anyway he saw this video and said, that mug is so cool! I want that!” Ha! Belated Fathers Day gift!! Please where can I buy that!!?? Btw in my head we are besties! Love all your videos and your down to earth, honest dialogue speaks to my soul. You are an amazing person. I also have dyslexia….. can’t spell to save my life. I have stories I could tell you…. Bless you and your hubby and your beautiful farm!
Don’t be afraid. 20+ years ago I was a hairdresser shears sharpener. I sharpened them & they didn’t do right so I did it again & did such a good job I cut ligaments, tendons, & nerves. My hand was basically a claw. Top it all off no insurance single mom & 2 small children. I found a micro neuro surgeon who did the surgery pro bono just allowing students to watch. It did take 6 weeks of physical therapy but I have full function of my hand. I was able to return to work.
Wow!
We do have angels, yours did good work. So happy for you.
I so relate to your feelings. I'm going to start walking my property and remind myself to be grateful. I'm a 58 year old man. I suffered a life changing injury while at work. It's been a long road back, and there is some permanent damage. Such is life. Thank you for sharing your situation. I have to be honest, a lot of times you do come across as if everything is perfect. I feel your pain, more than you know. Keep pressing on. I think you are beautiful inside and out. One way or another, you will eventually move past this, for better or worse. I've learned to just accept what is put in my path and remain resilient. Depression sucks, and I know it all too well. Best of luck.
Thanks so much for your transparency! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Our homestead is just a few miles from Rory’s. I caught your talk at the Homestead Festival and it was so empowering! I was diagnosed with ADHD a year ago at 40. It felt like a weird cross between an explication of years of struggle and a life sentence to keep struggling. The treatment has helped some but not a cure. I always secretly thought I was stupid and incapable, even though I’m a relentless go getter like yourself and in the public eye as well. In a world where social media projects perfection, your transparency has been liberating! You let your insecurities and struggles show and the rest of us see how incredibly successful, hardworking, talented, and persistent you are and it helps us believe that we can make it. Again thanks for your openness on such an exposed platform, you’re a revolutionary 🙏🏻💖
That adhd description is amazing.
You’ve got this. I cut off a few fingers (including my thumb) on a tablesaw doing something stupid. I spent my recovery canning (you can too). You’ll figure it out. My hand isn’t what it was… but neither is the rest of me. A life well lived comes with some scars and you use yours to inspire and encourage others. That’s something to be proud of and to know that many others are grateful for you.
Every scar is a victory, even if it doesn't always feel like it.
Not as severe. But I had a boxers fracture on two metacarpals. Also doing something stupid punching a wall. The hand just isn't what it was. How do I go on with life accepting this ? It is so hard for me, I just cant seem to do it. I want to be how I was.
@@PortilloMoment in the Army, we had a joke, "Scars are like tattoos, only with better stories".
Had to agree, although most of the time, those stories were stupid ones that we laughed at later.
virtual hugs. you have an entire online family to give you whatever support you need.
I was an RN for 33 years. I worked ICU and eventually most areas. I had a can do attitude. Then I broke my ankle. Bad. I changed areas where I wasn't on my feet for 12 hours. I'm 66 years old now. Medically retired at 57 due to autoimmune disease. The thing is, we get older. These vessels get wear and tear. I like to garden and have chickens. I also like wood working. I make adjustments and use adaptive equipment. Where there is a will there is a way. You're not going to be able to do at 66 what you could do at 36. It's a process toward acceptance. It hurts. We cry. Tears are therapeutic. Hang in there and give yourself grace. You will adjust. You're amazing.
You don't have to answer to jerks who put you down. Those people are insecure about their abilities, and project that onto others. You have those abilities, and you're learning, getting better. That's what a young person is supposed to do. Have confidence in that.
Isn’t that amazing? Someone seriously injures themself and the internet rushes in to rub salt in the wound. Show me someone (anyone at all) who has worked with their hands for more than a couple years who hasn’t injured themself doing something, usually something they know was dumb. I know I did. Maybe more than once. Yes, Anne screwed up. Takes a special kind of loser to add to her suffering though. I’m happy to see most of the comments are supportive.
My wife and I volunteer at a rehabilitation animal shelter. We've witnessed many animals that have had life changing injuries and they rarely appear to be sad about their new handicaps. When they want to do something that they can't do the old way, they find a new way. It is truly inspirational to watch them adapt. Although animals do get depressed, it seems quite rare when related to a life changing injury (more often related to a deceased owner). I recently broke my wrist, requiring surgery, and I often thought of these animals for inspiration when I couldn't tie my shoes or take a shower the way I used to. I just figured out a way to get it done. People can learn a lot from animals.
We give grace to others so readily but so hard on ourselves allow yourself to feel what you feel. The journey has challenges but there will be good days. You got this ❤
One human's honesty and sharing of personal fears can be more of an inspiration and motivator than the many self-assured online motivators selling their brand of life success. Thanx Anne! ...wishing you a fast path to full healing and 'handiness'!
The whole thing of the inner voice telling me that "You made a dumb mistake that you could've avoided" is something I've been struggling with for almost exactly 8 years to the date. I was riding my bicycle to work before sunrise, and I didn't have anything reflective on me. I was rear-ended by a pickup truck, and not only broke my left tibia, but suffered severe nerve damage. The only way I can make it is one day at a time.
I had a massive staff infection 5 years ago in my right hand and could also not pinch my fingers together after my surgery. Similar to you. But my therapists made me keep trying and I gradually did regain all my pincher and movement skills in that hand. Don't give up. It takes time but your hand will re learn the skill.
I'm a high functioning partial quadriplegic and a permaculturalist regen ag urban farmer. I do nothing the "normal way". Regardless of what happens, you will find a way to do what you love. It takes time. Time to heal, time to recoup, time to learn the new normal, time to figure out how to adapt, and time to just get things done. If you do loose function in that hand, look at how quads, strokes, amputees do the things. My best hack is old used tennis balls and thick rubber bands to maximize my grip strength and my control. Stuff a chisel handle into the ball and slip my hand under the band around the ball to hold the tool. Then I have a variety of things to hold what ever I am working on still the way I want them. Most power tools are still off limits because I haven't figured out how to use them safely but I can use most hand tools now.
I can do my own preserving and canning in a set up refined for my needs and most able bodied folks find a little difficult to use.
Right now you need to wait because things are changing too much too fast. Keep that sling on, use what ever tool you need to when you need it, and everyone who complains can go talk to the compost where that *stuff* belongs.
Oh and hand milking when you get there will be some of the best therapy for that hand. It may take a decade or two for the nerves to sort themselves out, since they are the slowest healing thing in our bodies, but after 24 years of work , I've got my quads moving when I tell them to. Jumped in the pool for the first time a month ago. Most days I take less than 100 steps on land, and am up to 2 hours 3 days per week walking in a pool, and the rest of the time it's in my wheelchair towing the chicken coop built on a bike trailer or bum shuffling through the garden beds pushing or towing containers around as I harvest, plant, and weed.
It ok to feel all the feels, and actually more than ok. Learn to stop and breath when frustration clouds your efforts, do something different (including cussing like a grumpy Russian sailor when the tool scitters off where you cannot readily get it).
Noone and nothing is actually perfect ever, and if it seems that way, it's an illusion. Just as your stun garden is very productive but not sunset mag picture perfect, it's just right for where it's at right now.
And so are you.
Take all the time you need.
And for me, I'm planning out what to plant into our terraced beds now that rain has returned to the maritime Pac NW.
I lost both legs at 17. At the time, I thought my life was over. My mind was filled with all the things I couldn't do. And initially, I couldn't do much! But as I got stronger, I learned that I could do everything I wanted, I just figured out new ways to accomplish what I needed, I went back to college, met and married my best friend and had 7 children. I'm now 57 years old and love gardening, I play keyboard in our church worship team, and our family is expecting my 9th grand baby. Life is good! Remember, the key to happiness is in your head. Change your attitude (which you are doing with your gratitude list) and you will thrive! Thank you for your program, I learn a lot from You! God Bless you! ❤
We all make mistakes and sometimes we pay a big price for it, but why is it so hard to forgive ourselves? We've all had our own version of midnight nachos. Sending you strength for your recovery and hopes that it will be a full one! Much love.
62 year old man here, learning things I should have picked up years ago. But for you, there is such a huge community that loves you, would help you anyway they could and will if you allow it.
Your video had me crying, not a bunch but there is something about tears that bring more tears, not just yours, but ours, too.
I fell off a trailer a little over a year ago, broke my right wrist and needed surgery to put it and my shoulder back together. The metal plate they put in to hold all the bits in place, severed my ligament to my thumb and effected that "pincher" we oh so take for granted. Back to surgery the day before my birthday. The original accident happened a day before my birthday.
About 6 weeks ago I was clearing some branches on my little property, and a branch landed on the opposite hand's thumb.
Pinchers are important, recovering takes time. Give Thanks and don't be afraid to ask, and when you need to, cry.
Well, this broke my heart, but I think you're a rock star: brave, hard-working, innovative, creative, honest, determined, faithful, dedicated.....
One of my friends who had been in the building trade for years had an altercation with a circular saw. He was lucky that he still had his thumb. Bless you & I wish you a speedy recovery 🫂
My precious Anne, there are no accidents in life, only things that happen for you not to you. You have been so fast for so long and refusing to slow down and reduce the stress in your life that your mind has done it for you. You are perfect without working 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. Downsize or whatever you have to do to get enough rest and time off to enjoy life. Consider this accident a warning. Remember you are just as beautiful, intelligent and capable on 5 acres as a 100 acres. Please don't scare me any more, when you hurt, I hurt.
My wonderful husband died two years ago. In that time I drove my car into a flooded ditch, had to replace the leaking roof, broke my leg and had surgery with 14 plates put in, my daughter had a car crash, she then broke her hip and 2 months ago we had a hurricane storm and 3 trees came down damaging my new roof, the septic tank and solar system!!! Your videos have inspired me to landscape a totally different garden destroyed by the storm. So life does go on Anne. You are an amazingly strong woman and will get past this and with your great sense of humour will laugh at this time (when better). Thanks
Bless you❤❤❤❤
Sending hugs and prayers your way Anne! It's alright to cry.
You've been a big benefit to thousands of people, and if the voice in your head doesn't know that, it's just confused. You're smart, creative and talented. Keep it up!
Wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dear Anne. I am 78 years old and I have been fallowing you for several years now. I am not ashamed to say I love you. The inspiration you have given to all or your fallowers threw the honesty that you shared as you faced your adversity is truly bravery beyond compare. You will be getting advice from many well intentioned people but remember the best advice comes from within. You are a beautiful and brave person. Young women can look to you as to who they should become. My prayers are with you my dear as they have been.
Hang in there Anne.....you are struggling with some of the same things. We are all behind you and you will get better. Its hard but your in good company. I Was in a wheelchair 2 years ago and I am still trying to recover. I am walking but still don't have feeling on my left side. I've had to learn to play guitar again but I will not quit. Your a warm...loving...human person and you are a blessing.
By making yourself so vulnerable, that is also where your strength lies! Wish you a speedy recovery! 👍
I have RA, an autoimmune disease that has attacked my joints especially my hands. I so relate to what you said about the need to ask for help! I Really dislike it! I’m an artist/illustrator for a living and can’t even think about not being able to work. I’ll be cheering you on as you figure it out! You’ve got this! 🥰
Remember 3 things. No. 1 Take care of yourself. No.2 Remember that you will either recover or adapt. No. 3 You will be alright...just like I was alright.
I really appreciate No. 2.
Yes #2 had a accident in 2015 . Rolled a 4 wheeler got scape on my inner right leg . Got home cleaned it up went to work 3 days later went to the hospital for 1 month 4 surgery s later went home with a pikline and antibiotics directly into my heart for 2 months nerve damage all down my right side arm and hand was locked. Went to therapist to fix that for 3 months now have mostly full use but winter cold hurts .
Anne, you're literally an inspiration. There will always be one person who "knows better", but they only know that one thing. You are Anne of ALL trades. What you have achieved is incredible, and I have a feeling there's a lot more yet to come.
I’m sorry Anne. If I lived in Tennessee I would help you as long as you needed it. I pray the Lord sends you helpers. ☺️🙏
Amen!
Anne, together with Adam, you have accomplished some amazing things. Life, y'know, Yin and Yang. Nothing is perfect always. Being grateful is a good way to get yourself through the hard times and I know you will. I hope you feel better soon!
Anna, I have been following since your wood crafting days and I will say that you are not the same person that you were. You are so much stronger and you honestly share your heart, I know the road is rough now but you know rough roads always come to an end.
You have a new chapter started in your life and the what will yeild will be amazing like you are.
Praying for a quick healing and stay strong, you are not alone❤
Many years ago, I cut off the tip of my left index finger on a jointer. A moment of in attention led to quite a period of recovery. They grafted skin over the end of the finger, and I spent six weeks with my finger in a large sock bandage and had to hold it above my heart at all times. From that experience, I have somewhat of an understanding of the emotional roller coaster you are experiencing. The unknown is the hard part. You don’t know what’s going to happen. Sounds like you have good doctors and once you get there I’m sure you’ll have really good physical therapy. Those are the people to listen to not the negative voices on TH-cam or other social media. It won’t be easy but you’ll get back to a point that you feel much more comfortable. I always try to avoid saying you’ll get back to yourself because you won’t. You’ll be the new you who has recovered from this accident. I can say for sure that with my finger I know when the weathers going to change. You may have something like that too but that’s just another little plus that will come from here experience.
Hang in there. I severed my hand while sharpening a knife deep in thought. Damaged alot of nerves and tendon. Stitches came out and I couldn't feel or move my pointer, thumb or middle finger either. Lots of swelling. They said probably surgery. So I waited it out and I'm glad I did. I have probably about 90% of feeling and movement back but I can use it just as good. I might have a 10 Second delay vs. my other hand but it's still works.😊 I do have have nerve pain once in a while if I bump where the injury was, but much better and didn't need surgery. Give it some time and try not to be as impatient as I was. Wishing you quick and productive healing.
Praying for a good report, complete healing, a quick recovery, and wisdom, knowledge and guidance for EVERY doctor that would speak into your life in Jesus name.
Soul=oil
Since = A&D w/o Zinc
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I have been down this road. It's a rough road. Remember that healing takes time, don't fight it. In time you will forget that your hand is damaged. I know that seems impossible right now, but it will happen. I have never regained full strength, mobility, or feeling in the hand I crushed, and it does not slow me down at all. You will be back to doing the things you love faster than you think.
With everything you've been through and learned, here's an opportunity to learn a new way. Right now, things are really scary, but you are the most capable person I have ever seen. We are all here for you and keeping you in our prayers. Love those babies of yours. They really do help.
I have a once in a lifetime dog right now. He's 10. I love on him, and grieve the future every day. Praying for your complete healing.
You put to much pressure on yourself! Stop trying to make it perfect and enjoy what is! I have followed you for some years now without commenting anything, just enjoying your world! That world and you are amazing! Don't try to be everything, a little goes a long way! Love your videos! Stay strong! And lett it all out if that's needed! Hugs from Norway 🥰
You’re amazing. You’re a true inspiration. Thank you for sharing your experience. Keep doing what you’re doing and rely on the people who loves you.
Asking for help is such a humbling experience. Our bodies are amazing, and with time and patience, you will heal. You got this! Hang in there.
Oh girl you're speaking my language. I REALLY damaged my shoulder in June lifting the arm of the sickle mower. Because it was 60 days before my daughter's wedding, I toughed it out. Feeding, milking, watering, weed pulling, moving fence...it all hurts. Every. Single. Day. But I have such a hard time asking for extra help, and like you, don't want to be a burden, especially to mu husband. You are a beautiful, amazing human with a heart of gold, albeit on your sleeve. You are inspirational and even those of us who are not new to this life, learn from your wins and your failures, I am grateful for YOU. Let the tears flow and keep smiling that brilliant smile. This is only a season in your life.💞
Anne hang in there. You are inspiring to so many people. Maybe you need a young intern right now. Someone who can be your hands for canning, preserving, milking. Then YOU would be helping someone else. Right now I’m suffering a frozen shoulder. It’s completely locked. I usually am able to take care of the farm and animals, now I have to be assisted getting dressed. It may take a while. We just have to learn gratitude, grace for ourselves and keep pushing forward. ❤
An intern is an amazing idea! Anne, do you know any homeschoolers? Maybe somebody at church?
I had frozen shoulder in Both shoulders at once and it lasted nearly 3 years. So pain,scary and disabling.Most people just don't know. I was a single Mom with a child with disabilities and I cleaned houses for a living. I thought How the heck is this going to work? I had to accept that for a while anyway- I would have to change everything I did , accept my limitations, and be willing to ask for help. I went on welfare for the first time in my life, had a friend move in and help for free room and board and quit doing anything that wasn't absolutely neccesary. And I tried to stay grateful. Anne is right-it was a season and it changed how I thought about things. I didn't see HOw I was going to get through it but I did. My perspective changed and I came out of it with different priorities. I started an errand running service instead of returning to housekeeping. I watched my daughter become more independent because she had to. I had to change my expectations and accept that I couldn't control things, that help often comes from the most unlikely places, and that my experience could benefit others. And that you just never know what's possibible if you are open minded and willing to embrace change. 20 years later and the things I learned on that journey have sure come in handy.
I lost both legs at 17. At the time, I thought my life was over. My mind was filled with all the things I couldn't do. And initially, I couldn't do much! But as I got stronger, I learned that I could do everything I wanted, I just figured out new ways to accomplish what I needed, I went back to college, met and married my best friend and had 7 children. I'm now 57 years old and love gardening, I play keyboard in our church worship team, and our family is expecting my 9th grand baby. Life is good! Remember, the key to happiness is in your head. Change your attitude (which you are doing with your gratitude list) and you will thrive! Thank you for your program, I learn a lot from You! God Bless you! ❤
You are not alone. I've had some physical limitations, and I know others too. When you learn to stop, slow down, connect within, and learn to ask for help, and how we are all connected is a huge gift. Beloved, breathe, and take it one day at a time. It will be the best thing that ever happened - in the long run. 🤪
Seattlelite here, I've been watching for a lot of years/ been a fan. Gratitude is a big part of how I make it through the day/ the world at large. Thank you for talking about it, and how you use it in super tough times like this. This is the second time you've made me cry in a video... Thanks for being real, putting yourself on front street as a renaissance woman, and always creating enriching content- even when it's about crappy things like this. I truly wish you a speedy recovery. Best wishes from Seattle 💚
I am genuinely sorry for your accident. Prayers and best wishes for a speedy recovery!
Prayers headed your way…🙏…for complete healing.
Hang in there girl. Nerves don’t like to be touched or disrupted, so more than likely this will just take time and patience and physical therapy to heal.
You’re on the right track mentally - things happen for a reason, and in the process you’ll learn new things and grow as a person. 💝
I understand the slings purpose for you, just don’t be in it all day and make sure you mobilize your elbow and shoulder throughout the day - those joints get stiff quickly. (Saying this is just to be helpful!)😚
Sending healing vibes!!! ❤️🩹
Thank you Anna... It's a set back but your courage to keep your life moving forward is inspiring. I run a woodworking business myself and was told I have Retina degeneration disease in both eyes. I could lose my eyesight at anytime. I refuse to give up on my business and my woodworking passion so I put it in God's hands and just live on despite being on a time clock mentality. Yes I'm am afraid that one day I may wake up and my vision is gone but ain't gonna waste any time but doing what I love to do. Thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery. 💪🙏
Thanks so much to medical professionals who are so dedicated to their craft. I have experienced that many times in my life, and I am always forever grateful.
Sending a big virtual hug your way.
When I caught my finger with the power hammer several years ago it took a surgeon to put it right and a few month of regular range of motion exercises, specified by the surgeon, to regain full use. Today it works as well as ever, even though I the damaged area still feels different at times. It takes time, but I have faith in your ability to get through this set back and rise above it before you know it.
Lots of love from John and Janet
You are an amazing & beautiful human. Continue to find positivity! You've helped so many people find the confidence to try new experiences and learn new skills. You've made a mark on this world, and that's something even an injury can't take away from you.
Thank you for watching and the very generous support!🙏
You said it- “this is a season”. I just found your site recently but I already found strength in trying to do different projects on my land. This video of your struggles provides me strength in dealing with my own depression as well. Thank you. God has great plans for you! Aloha!
So much love and support here my friend. You have taught so many people, so many skills. You are continuing to do so now, teaching perseverance. ❤
Anne get well !
I love how you find words to encourage and explain raw feelings. So articulate, authentic and admirable. You are adored by this community! I’m deeply sorry this has happened to you. Prayers for your complete recovery. I loved reading thru the comments! I hope your spirit is encouraged and uplifted. Many blessings to you and Adam as you walk through this together and get to the other side.
Anne, I deeply appreciate your aim to share imperfections and struggles. You’re an inspiration, and I hope you continue to find joy in the life you’re building and in sharing this with others. Thank you, thank you.
Anne I hope you have a speedy recovery!
Hang in there Ann. You will overcome this. 17 years ago I was told I had 4 months to live. A massive surgery and the loss of a lung later, I am still here. 2 years ago I had a tooth abscess that went to my skull. By the time they figured out what was going on I had to have immediate surgery and was not expected to live through the night. I spent 2 years not being able to walk and the last 43 in extreme pain on a daily basis. And today while I am working I am making Halloween decorations in my workshop. The point is that you can do it. You are as strong as I am and can do anything you put your mind to. Believe it and you will conquer this!
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I really needed to hear what you said today. It's good to know that I'm not singularly weird or crazy and there are others out there going through the same things I am.
Thank you for being brave enough to share yourself with all us strangers and make us feel so not alone.
And not perfect.
And struggling.
And trying to find our dream.
Thank you. Needed to be reminded that I am not the only one going through a really rough time. Thank you for your positivity, and sharing your fear of asking for help. Sending hugs and blessings and lots of prayers for a speedy recovery.
You ARE an inspiration! Full stop! I’ve been watching you from almost the beginning. I’m a hobbyist woodworker and when I found you I just loved your style right away. I’m not a farmer but I am a dog freak and I cried so much when Abbey passed. I’ve been cheering you on in each endeavor. I don’t do what you do but you inspire me because of who you are. I’ve listened to you closely when you’ve talked about your mental health and have learned so much. My teen daughter has been struggling with anxiety for years and while she has therapy and medication, obviously things happen. It helps me understand what she’s going through and helps me with how to discuss things with her when I’ve heard you talk about your life. Thank so so much for being so real. I wish for good news when you see the doctor next.
Your doing a Great job Anne dont listen to haters. My family and I love your channel. We admire you and your dedication to your Farm and animals. We are rooting for you. Get well soon❤😊
Thank you for your transparency and honesty. It IS a season and I am looking forward to witnessing what beautiful growth is going to spring forth from this latest dump of "compost" you have received. You are such a wonderful encourager to others. May you be encouraged by the love and prayers that are being sent your way.
You are doing fine. Love sweat and tears all good. Love!
Hang in there Anne! This too will pass. You are an overcomer, look at all you have been through. We love you and our prayers are with you and the farm.
I had to take over 2 and half years off because my hands were not operating as they should. I live with a traumatic brain injury and because of all the vibrations and noises my power tools created, my brain became very weak which in return affected my fine motor skills and much more. Life without woodworking was not easy so I decided to get rid of all my power tools and now have a nice little hand tool shop. It’s been an amazing transition and everyday I’m regaining my passion and ability to woodwork. It’s about managing what you have, not what you want. The want’s will come. Trust the process and don’t get down on yourself.
Thanks for sharing. You got this!
Praying for healing ❤️🩹 over you ❤
Thanks for sharing. I'm also a woman of all trades and my MRI revealed that there is no cartilage left in my shoulder. It stinks, but hearing that I'm not alone and surgery can help is making me feel better.
Best of luck in your surgery and hopefully it will bring back full movement
I went through a similar thing with a back injury when I was 35. My doctor was a back surgery specialist and he told me if I could hack 7-8 years of serious pain it would get better. He said surgery would require fusing vertebrae and I'd loose a lot motion. Sure enough it turned out as he said. Lots of therapy, never being able to sleep my flat on my back, and lots of walking. Fortunately I had great bosses who gave me time to get to point of coming back to work, changed my job from greasy, mechanical work to learning a new skill and using computers to buy materials for the business. Now almost 70, I have no pain and can do anything I want "within reason". (No more climbing 20 ft ladders or getting on the roof). 8 years was a long time and yes there were a lot of things I put off because of the pain but it all worked out. I've been a wood worker all my life too. Do what the doctors tell you and therapy, lots of therapy and you'll come out of this too. Good luck!
You were lucky to have an amazing surgeon, these days the outcomes for spine surgeries is 75% failure rate. Because the current standard of care ends with permanent damage to the spine before surgery is done to fix the bones but not the damage.
You've helped me. 60 yr old woman and I will be going out and making my grateful list today
You’ll get through this you have an amazing support network. It’s hard.
I had a stroke in 2012 and was paralyzed on my left side but with time and therapy I am able to walk again and I have use of my left hand again. This will pass with time and I will keep you and your husband in my prayers. May GOD bless you both and keep you safe.
Prayers for your recovery,those animals never do what they are supposed to when you film.We are all here for you
Reading thru all of the comments shows that you are helping SO MANY people in so many different ways. I suffer from depression and anxiety that medication helps tremendously but your videos help me even more. Thank you.
Wishing you a healthy recovery. It may take some time, but remember that you are not alone and you can share the burden (even if it is just by listening to your feelings).
Holding one of my once in a lifetime pups Lucy right now waiting for her to pass 😢. She’s 10 years old had her from the day she was born. Wasn’t wanting a 3rd dog at the time but she stole my heart. Thankful to have the last 12 days to say goodbye.
I'm so sorry sending prayers for a speedy recovery ❤
We think you are rocking it, Anne!! Sling & all!!! So sorry about your hand and hope you will find healing and joy amidst your silly queso-dripping hardened corn lasagna mistake. You are loved and you are doing a great job day in and day out. Keyboard warriors dripping with jealousy have nothing on you, friend. Keep on creating and inspiring! also, hi Adam!
Thank you so much for sharing your life with us Anne. What you have described is a tough situation. You have shown all of us to overcome and succeed at soooo many things! You have lots of people sending you good energy, love and prayers. You've worked hard and brought so much good to so many people. You are a tough, loving, brilliant cookie. Anyone who has watched you knows you will find your way. I'm just sorry that you have another bump (a big one) to overcome. It absolutely will get better. Sending a big virtual hug and appreciating your vulnerability and strength. 🏅
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You will get over this. Its all about attitude, and yours is top notch. As a woodworking retired guy, I get lots of looks at my half-sized finger. My left middle finger is one joint short. No finger nail. Of course, everyone assumes a woodworking accident. Nope. I had a concrete table top we needed to move in order to bust up the concrete slab it was situated on. A gazebo that never quite happened. Our son was visiting, but headed out when I asked for his help. In my haste, I opted for a dumb idea for us to move the 300 lb thing by hand, across the yard, balanced on a pair of 2x4s. It was the dismount that got me. I lost my balance, and the slab and 2x4 crushed the finger tip into a brick planter. Uncontrollable bleeding, a trip to the ER, and a hand surgeon consult. A few days later, the hand surgeon finished what I started. While this is a pinprick compared to your injury, it was hard to accept and adapt. The weirdest things drove me nuts. Every reach into a left pocket left me convinced there was a huge hole in that pocket, because my longest finger was no longer there. Keyboarding became a problem. Never a great touch typist, but letters came up randomly AWOL in typed documents. The new, shorter finger tip was itchy and very sensitive. But I got over it all. Pockets don't fake me out anymore. Typing is slower, but that gives me more time to think about the content. The finger is now fine. I rarely think about it. Again, you too will adapt and overcome. With your inner strength, and the support of you family and fans, you will get thru this. It gets better.
Hi Anne! New here. Sorry for your injury. I too moved from Washington State. Prayers for you! Started gardening in a zone 9A. My springer got to make it a year and a month in her new digs. Almost 15 years old. I still can't get over her being gone. We do have some land too. Very happy now. Keep on going! Fantastic life you have! Never give in, never give up! ❤
God bless. Take one day at a time. Praying for you
I singly manage two households - my 80-year-old full time residence, and a 130-year-old farmhouse with 5 acres of grass fields to maintain. In June this year I did something that almost everyone I've talked to does often - I (tried) to step over the gas pump hose while pumping gas. Except I fell and broke my ankle in 3 places. I needed surgery and was immobile and non-weight bearing for almost 3 months! I totally understand and promise you that it will get better. The universe has a way of slowing us down when we need it. Trust in the process. You are such an inspiration to me and many others. Sending so much love and positivity your way.
You can and will make it through this. I know when you are in the midst of the "bad time" that it may not seem it and you don't want to here that old saying that it will make you stronger , but it will. You are one strong individual. Ive got to see you accomplish and overcome a lot on this channel and look forward to seeing you overcome this and accomplish even more. You inspired me to try spoon carving and now everyone I know wants one or another one. So remember that accomplishment as well, all the people you inspire and teach and are thankful for you for that. So I hope this message and all the well wishes you are receiving, I'm sure, help to inspire you to pull through this. Get well soon and know you are in my thoughts and prayers for a full and speedy recover.
Thank you for being honest. I am truly grateful for you. You have inspired the next chapter of my life.
You got this! Threw the ups and downs, you have done amazing. Your an inspiration to many of us. Even if it feels like things are falling apart, tomorrow is another chance to thrive.
1:31 Your words just broke my heart. I say those words to myself. So often.
So sorry, Annie, but also so proud of you and Adam and your gusty journey through life. Sounds lame, but I'm glad you didn't injure your fingering hand (string instruments) 'cause that would've been an utter disaster and maybe a tougher comeback. I am so proud of the two of you, and I'm impressed by your gratitude in the face of tough times.
I was going to make a similar comment ---- at least it wasn't her fretting hand! Up and over or around to one side, Anne (and Adam) finds a way through life. She is an inspiration that is real.
Thanks!
You are my kind of people. I am so glad I found you!
Your vibrant, positive, nature connected, varied outlook are your strengths. Do not let anyone who does not appreciate you into your space. Who knows the future….your left hand may become your favorite dominant hand. Who knows
Anne, since I've find your channel one week ago, I can't stop wathcing your videos. The content is so rich, interesting, well put together. You're such a beautiful person inside out, your personality, beauty, determination,... Your "Jack of all trades" personality amazes me. More women like you! I also find similarities between you and me. The way you talk to your animals:) , your empathy, cheering/joyfull/playfull personality, how you're eager to learn all sort of things. I've learned how to install water pipes, electricity wiring, ceramic tiling, door&window installing, laminate instalation, gardening and much more... but 7 years before that I was useless :)
It really hurts to see you in pain. Yesterday I,ve got stick pushed into my eye while cutting trees. Although I've said to myself couple of days ago I should wear safetyglasses, I haven't stick to my own recommendation yesterday. Even though I was trying to be extra careful, it happened.
My uncle had his fingers cut off while mowing a lawn. He's doing with machinerry all his life. He went with a hand near razor blades while it was still operating. He said, if he heard someone do that, he would say what a dumm thing to do, but it happened and is unbelivable to him. Half of a finger he's still misssing, but he does jobs as much as he did, like nothing happened. So please, don't be hard on yourself for having an accident. It happens to us all nad when we least expect it. Gratitude is your ally. I fully understand this, specially yesterday when it happened to me I was grateful I didn't go blind, even though consequences are still in the way. You will get through this.
I think about women that have been slaughtered by men with a knife multiple times. They survived or sadly they haven't. So I'm also forever grateful not having to deal with that kind of horrors directly.
I wish your recovery to be as fast as possible. 💛Hand will be fine at the end.💪 In the meantime I know something good will come out of it, because of how you approach situations. I'm truly wishing you all the best life can offer.
Update: Oh, this is 1 year old video. Before I wrote this, I've seen as it's from 3 rd October this year.
Sweetie, please stop walking backwards. You don’t want another bad injury.❤
Sometimes I just wanna hop on a plane and fly to your home in Tennessee to help you with whatever I can. Unfortunately, that is not an option for me but I hope your friends in Tennessee will come to your rescue. You are a precious, precious young woman. Don’t ever forget that!❤
We are all praying for you Anne. Everyone of your subscribers love you and love what you do. We’ll be all praying for your surgery to go well and you get your functions back to your Hands ❤❤❤
Thank you for the reminder of thinking of, "What are we Grateful for"
It's hard when an injury changes your life. 12 years ago, I had a slip, twist and fall at work... and work comp doesnt mean appropriate treatment happens. I'm in pain more, than I'm not. But refocusing my thoughts on something I'm Grateful for helps change perspectives.
And since I'm always on high alert for falling prevention, could I encourage, Please don't walk backwards. I saw you walking backwards and saw the garden hose and prayed you didnt trip. Having had 2 shoulder surgeries and arms in slings, it makes your balance off, and that's when you are doing your usual of going forward.
One day at a time, and adding being Grateful for one thing, makes a better day already🙂👍🏼
Ah sister...my heart goes out to you. I fully get what you're going through, being a crafter/carver, and musician like you. Our hands are so vital for our way of life. I live simply on the land too, and have done some stupid stuff, which i knew better how to do, but everyone makes mistakes, gets distracted, or simply gets a bit blasé about things weve done hundreds of times. Im 60 now, and still f*** up sometimes when im working. We are our own worse critics. I wish you a full recovery, in mind and body, to keep living your dream and beautiful life. Lots of love from me in 🇬🇧
Anne, don't ever change. I see you as a GOOD, HONEST BEAN trying to encourage/help others with your experiences, both ... happy & sad. I find you interesting as a person and that's why I subscribed. Please take my RESPECT.
You are so blessed and an inspiration to all.
"Who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." 2 Corinthians 1:4
I survived a stroke 3+ years ago and lost my left side but am improving each month. I had to give up my career and my new job is my garden landscaping projects. Keep stretching your tendons, and use your hand even if it hurts. Don’t get unto the habit of compensating. ❤
Praying for a speedy and full recovery and for peace in having to take things slower and courage to endure the healing journey.
Whatever is affecting us at the moment is difficult. When you so easily turned and got up from sitting on the ground and was able to sit on the ground without apparent effort looks like such a blessing to someone who has no miniscus in their knees, bone on bone as they say. Not having a walk-in shower, painful almost tear producing efforts to get out of a tub, safely. Every loss is intolerable, every one unacceptable but your attitude is God given ...
I'm living this nightmare myself this very second. I fell and horribly dislocated my shoulder. Not only did i dislocate it but i broke it and destroyed my rotator cuff. I'm an artist. I'm single and do everything myself. I just lost my mom who was my best friend. i was working hard on my health practising pilates multiple days a week. I'm already 4 weeks post injury and today found out i am 2 further weeks to meet the surgeon and no idea how long to surgery. My life has come to a complete halt. Like you i realize this is just an event that will pass yet the anxiety and depression fight me everyday. Thank you for the video, your honesty and your attitude. I send you heartfelt wishes for a speedy full recovery along with a one armed hug.
Oh Anne I wish I could find the right words to bring you comfort. F’ people who want to tell you what’s right for you. And internet “experts” make my blood boil. You cry when you need to cry dear one. And YOU have changed my life by teaching me how to sharpen my tools.
Bless you. Struggling with hand health and injuries myself, and my ability to use my hands is greatly linked to my mental health. You have my empathy.