1. Going to hostel (Overcoming insecurities) 2. Starting Sizer(freelance) 3. Going to the gym (Confidence building) 4. Getting married (Companionship) 5. Learning how to code.(learning a skill)
Listen up men, 1) Build a Routine 2) Pump Iron 3) Start a Side Hustle 4) Learn Investing 5) Improve your Communication 6) Read Do this for 6 months and you'll be unstoppable.
the way he started blushing with the "getting married" point.. i think its cute and its giving a valid justification why he put this point in 5 best things he did
Getting married is the bad decision. There is no guarantee that your spouse/partner will take care of you when you will fall sick in future, even they can ruin your happiness. So better stay single and enjoy your life in your own way.
bro really relate with you on the self confidence and body image issues thing, i too am very skinny and very underconfident sometimes, it really takes a toll on you sometimes
Varun, I broke up with my Girlfriend and she was my only best friend in the world. I thought I'll Marry her but she had other plans. Now I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend both. This feeling is so hollow and makes me question whether I will ever be able to find someone as good as her. And this thought is killing my productivity. Makes me feel like a loss from which I will never Recover. I am 21 and I knew her since we were 17. I know this is the wrong place to ask all this but how should I recover from this. Thank You.
Hey bro, I understand what you're going through internally. Eventually you will get out of this state, sooner or later. I know right now it's harder for you to believe. Time heals everything. If she was really special then max it will take 1 year. After that you will not even think about her. I have experienced this personally. It's like a storm in ocean. when you break up, it's deadly out there to survive. Keeping patience within, slowly that storm settles down. Time comes when the ocean settles down and water becomes still. Then it's Bright sunny day. And we are peaceful again.
I like the way you added the disclaimer in the beginning. Everyone who has some accomplishment under their belt, speak like they know all the secrets to the universe !
Learning to code is now a basic thing which is like maths. Everyone must know some maths. Like maths, everyone must know some sort of coding. Don't make it a career. People fool you on this that Coding is career and you get into a fascinated world by seeing various people cracking competitions, interviews. Coding is a skill everyone must know, but your career and passion can be anything else.
5:42 Not a good advice It will be good if you figure out who you are first then plan afterwards to be with another person if you do it early you are really going to pick up a unnecessary responsibility
while i don't agree with alpha sigma bs some comments are saying, i do agree with everything u said and i think the point about marrying ur best friend is one of the underrated relationship advice one will find online. everybody talks about provider home-maker dynamics.
Things to do in 20s ( According to my opinion ) : 1. Change the attitude and looks 2. Be Aggressive 3. Be Masculine Chad 4. Build a good crew of friends That's enough for my life ! ..
Every 16 IQ points a woman goes up from 100, she’s 40% less likely to get married. Every 16 IQ points a man goes up from 100, he’s 35% more likely to get married.
This advice is utterly bullcrap. Don't let Jordan/Mikhiala Peterson fool you into getting married early. Work on your skills and career/business. It's only after certain time period that you should eventually decide to get married.
The way Varun talks about marriage is more about not dying alone rather than finding the right person to be with. Sorry bro, but you're not convincing in that part. I agree with everything else.
Sir,could please elaborate about coding for beginners how they should start..like u told about the basics ..what are the basics of coding which can provide stronge base for coding career and which language should be learnt first? Hare Krishna 🙏
i have moved to P.G 2 months back . I get to know how to manage money , I am now used to get an fixed sum of money at my home i was having technically unlimited money but now i don't you have to spend it very wisely .🤣
@@soham7969 Wait till you get your documents.. If you want to invest in crypto then invest with little money with some research.. Hope you got your answer..
@@bhandarivicky93 thx man , am currently investigating in crypto ,eth and btc only around 1k total , its working good by far , got like 30 rs in 3 days
I think it was just for reference. I learned something from this. Never use the clip of someone who is popular, it distracts audience. I was kinda distracted & confused as I saw coder coder.
I rather like to be dead than get married, it's the most hated thing for me in my life that i can never love. For me only friends that are precious companions who really understand you nothing else. I believe in love in emotions not romantic love. Love for family, parents and friends is true love, love for an unknown girl is just lust.
I used to think the same way. He just said font a female best friend. Not unknown girl. Take your time. Problem is in India people marry too fast and not to their best friend
@@shaxter i don't think i can make a friend out if a female, coz my habits are too introverted but at the same time emotionally unavailable most of the time.
1. Going to hostel (Overcoming insecurities)
2. Starting Sizer(freelance)
3. Going to the gym (Confidence building)
4. Getting married (Companionship)
5. Learning how to code.(learning a skill)
The 5th one is a skill.
@@rohit.reflectslol right
Good that you do these bro….i use to do this summaries alot, but now people won’t like to watch video
@@snehkhatri5089 maybe because, every other TH-camr these days make such type of videos with similar content. Isn't it?
@@puneetmiddha2217 agree
Listen up men,
1) Build a Routine
2) Pump Iron
3) Start a Side Hustle
4) Learn Investing
5) Improve your Communication
6) Read
Do this for 6 months and you'll be unstoppable.
Me 19, me click instantly
Me also ✅
Us
Iam still 17😂😂
@@AK-zp9ug Haha Mee tooo 😂
us
the way he started blushing with the "getting married" point.. i think its cute and its giving a valid justification why he put this point in 5 best things he did
When varun said " i forgave my parents", that's the moment i understood he is a sigma.
6:10 -Varun - your are missing out on so much, and its not what you are thinking your are missing out on 😂😂😂😂😂
The amount of clarification you give after making every single point shows how much you were belted for your previous videos 🙂🙂
Getting married is the bad decision. There is no guarantee that your spouse/partner will take care of you when you will fall sick in future, even they can ruin your happiness. So better stay single and enjoy your life in your own way.
Your life your choice
Not fruitful in India.
Women can destroy ur life with one wrong case.
bro really relate with you on the self confidence and body image issues thing, i too am very skinny and very underconfident sometimes, it really takes a toll on you sometimes
I was just like you about 2 month's ago then I started exercising and it has been great for my self confidence. defenitely worth it.
Varun, I broke up with my Girlfriend and she was my only best friend in the world. I thought I'll Marry her but she had other plans. Now I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend both. This feeling is so hollow and makes me question whether I will ever be able to find someone as good as her. And this thought is killing my productivity. Makes me feel like a loss from which I will never Recover. I am 21 and I knew her since we were 17. I know this is the wrong place to ask all this but how should I recover from this. Thank You.
Hey bro, I understand what you're going through internally. Eventually you will get out of this state, sooner or later. I know right now it's harder for you to believe. Time heals everything. If she was really special then max it will take 1 year. After that you will not even think about her. I have experienced this personally.
It's like a storm in ocean. when you break up, it's deadly out there to survive. Keeping patience within, slowly that storm settles down. Time comes when the ocean settles down and water becomes still. Then it's Bright sunny day. And we are peaceful again.
What were her Plans
@@rakshitbhatt2586 She started liking someone else.
@@YasheshTrivedi Thank you so much Brother.
Fikr mt kro bhai sb thik ho jayega
I like the way you added the disclaimer in the beginning. Everyone who has some accomplishment under their belt, speak like they know all the secrets to the universe !
Thank you, Varun for sharing learnings from your own life experiences.
Getting married is an unexpected point 😅
But, I do agree with you 🙌
Just a second, you're not in your 20s? 👀
Yes, he's in 20s 😂
HE JUST TURNED 30, AT THE TIME OF THE RECORDING.
Seriously this video gives me a bro to bro kind of vibe.... loved it...
Exactly. That's how social media should work
Learning to code is now a basic thing which is like maths.
Everyone must know some maths.
Like maths, everyone must know some sort of coding.
Don't make it a career. People fool you on this that Coding is career and you get into a fascinated world by seeing various people cracking competitions, interviews. Coding is a skill everyone must know, but your career and passion can be anything else.
@@shrishri8898 Go outside then.
@@shrishri8898
Great Man. I'm also planning to.
CS is branch of mathematics
5:42
Not a good advice
It will be good if you figure out who you are first then plan afterwards to be with another person if you do it early you are really going to pick up a unnecessary responsibility
You are the most authentic content creator out there! Love ur content 🤞
Coming back to Varun's old videos is an absolute bliss.
I would definitely be worthy someday to meet you.
:)
"i do the same things plus some more"
I am 18 now and thanks for this video😍
iron analogy was superb!
5:43 most underrated thing
Worst
while i don't agree with alpha sigma bs some comments are saying, i do agree with everything u said and i think the point about marrying ur best friend is one of the underrated relationship advice one will find online. everybody talks about provider home-maker dynamics.
Things to do in 20s ( According to my opinion ) :
1. Change the attitude and looks
2. Be Aggressive
3. Be Masculine Chad
4. Build a good crew of friends
That's enough for my life ! ..
That's my man.. Same thinking
By "be aggressive" do you mean "kick every kid in the ass?"
I like the way you said Bye!!
Most authentic content creator ✨
Every 16 IQ points a woman goes up from 100, she’s 40% less likely to get married.
Every 16 IQ points a man goes up from 100, he’s 35% more likely to get married.
This advice is utterly bullcrap. Don't let Jordan/Mikhiala Peterson fool you into getting married early.
Work on your skills and career/business. It's only after certain time period that you should eventually decide to get married.
Wow man! Thanks for sharing
I respect you opinion but getting married in 20's mostly a mistake. It should be in mid 30's.
Writing done right 🔥
Lol..Never propose your best friend 😂 unless you're okay to lose that friend forever
Much appreciated video.
Get married to your best friend. this is best line
You are a great speaker man! Just discovered your channel. Loving it!
Being 21, Gottaa try out alll.
Iam in 20 s... Like this.. Who in this age😍
I'll turn 20 in few months so I'm here lol😅😂😁
How is it going?
I am 20, and am extremely anxious. Yes I am from india 3 .
But this video was helpful 👍
It opened my eyes
Sooooooooooooooo...... relatable
Boys hostel is a gem 🫠
Love your work ♥️
Make a video on how you built self confidence
7:18 plus some more 😂
Varun bhaiya, could you please elaborate some more on what type of freelancing you do on your freelance career
I am totally agree 😊
In front of 1000 people ...he is in every school of district
Great work love your videos
Me turning 20 tmrw clicking instantly
Achina would choose better stock videos
The way Varun talks about marriage is more about not dying alone rather than finding the right person to be with. Sorry bro, but you're not convincing in that part. I agree with everything else.
Beautiful video 💯💯
Such a great video
thanks for the info
when you started freelancing what was your skill set?, even i want to start, but idk if my skills are good enough to start
I hate hostel because I went to hostel in my 13s😓😓
Hey, what are those ties doing there? Are they random or intentional?
Thank you so much
Amazing content👍👍👍
Which computer language we should learn?
Which language should I learn
"marry your best friend"?? ayooo 😳😳
Good one
7:30 you're lucky to marry best friend
At what age you got married?
At about 26/27
Anyone who can spend time with me
I am 21 now and I am nothing
Sir,could please elaborate about coding for beginners how they should start..like u told about the basics ..what are the basics of coding which can provide stronge base for coding career and which language should be learnt first?
Hare Krishna 🙏
Do you learn any coding
Just go to youtube and search Harvard cs50
Others have 100 pimples the other .... do not have face
Guysss being married tip is not for you... Especially girls uk what I mean💁
Entering 18n in few months
Sir, What was your branch?
I like your ideas
will learning to code help to get a good job even if I am not from a circuital/cs/it branch ?
Branch doesn't matter. If you are good at coding, people will hire you no matter what.
Obviously marriage is fucking very important for society to function in right order. But bro, crazy advice. 😂
How much time would it take for a newbie to learn code by self learning
Why can't you make money without coding? , there are other ways too
M already 22
Varun it's awesome video can you please guide me on freelancing please make a detail video on freelancing
He wrote an entire book on "How to freelance" named "Pyjama Profit"
Read his book "Pyjama Profit"
but how do i convince parents to go to hostel tho??
I'm in hostel from class 6 🤪
Learning a language is hard can anyone suggest a simple coding language 👀
1:50 coder coder cameo
i have moved to P.G 2 months back . I get to know how to manage money , I am now used to get an fixed sum of money at my home i was having technically unlimited money but now i don't you have to spend it very wisely .🤣
Done
Bro am saving money , I can't make a dmat account for now , so should i put all my savings in Bitcoin in 2022 , amount is kind of 500 per month
Please don't invest blindly based on what someone thinks, if u can't decide it's a no... and why can't you make a DMAT account?
@@adityabhaskara581 my documents ar at home and am at hostel
@@soham7969 Wait till you get your documents.. If you want to invest in crypto then invest with little money with some research.. Hope you got your answer..
@@bhandarivicky93 thx man , am currently investigating in crypto ,eth and btc only around 1k total , its working good by far , got like 30 rs in 3 days
@@soham7969great bro..
Me click 19.9 click
your goku distracts me a lot
if u get 3 divoree, he will change.
Not all hostel are same. Some creates good memories but with fucked up edu career.
Plus, some more.. 🤫
I also read your book pyjama profit can you please make video on earning money related video for students
Coder coder was your friend??
I have the same question 🤣
I think it was just for reference. I learned something from this. Never use the clip of someone who is popular, it distracts audience. I was kinda distracted & confused as I saw coder coder.
Pyjama profit marathi book kab ayega?????
Which music is it at the end?
Your Age?
I rather like to be dead than get married, it's the most hated thing for me in my life that i can never love.
For me only friends that are precious companions who really understand you nothing else.
I believe in love in emotions not romantic love. Love for family, parents and friends is true love, love for an unknown girl is just lust.
I used to think the same way. He just said font a female best friend. Not unknown girl. Take your time. Problem is in India people marry too fast and not to their best friend
@@shaxter i don't think i can make a friend out if a female, coz my habits are too introverted but at the same time emotionally unavailable most of the time.
Ok
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