The Dark Side of Filipino Dating: Beware of Bad Girls

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  • @TNP512
    @TNP512 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for not giving the selfish ones...ammunition. Always good advice from you.

  • @jonross8925
    @jonross8925 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've been coming and going to The Philippines for about 40 years now and been dating to a Filipina for over 2.5 years. I just broke up with her when she went to another island to her province, I lived in Cebu City and actually move from one condo to another condo across town without her knowing it. You have to cut all ties to the place where you were together, especially the people you both knows. She will try to burn your new life if she find out who you're dating and where do you live now.

    • @dennisb7930
      @dennisb7930 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very very true some are mentally deranged!

  • @stevejones4010
    @stevejones4010 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am not using any social media at all and will never use it. I am happy. Great video as always 👍Thanks.

  • @dennisb7930
    @dennisb7930 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve experienced all of this Reekay the worse was 3 jealous sisters the things they did to their sister was criminal they can be fatally out of control of their emotions do very stupid things to their own blood !

  • @omarsheikh8923
    @omarsheikh8923 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I once asked one my friend who did med school in the Philippines why he didn't marry a filipina and his answer was "most of them are unreasonably jealous and will constantly feel scarred that you may be taken by another woman"

  • @vannsmiley2462
    @vannsmiley2462 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Social media makes the world a very dangerous place

  • @davebellamy4867
    @davebellamy4867 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just the look of the two girls on the video thumbnail says it all ... or does it?

  • @vloginvain
    @vloginvain ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice content and those AI images look great!

  • @Kenny-d7u
    @Kenny-d7u 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If she's attractive and in her late 20s or thirties she has a past there are not good girls she just hasn't been caught or hides her MO.

  • @edv1261
    @edv1261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advise Rique. Keep up the good work. Take care

  • @leg414
    @leg414 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    IT is very similar to Thailand in that even if you do not post...They and those that see you around will always remember you...And with who and whom you are with or were. I remember talking to women who remembered me and another expat years earlier! And this was Bangkok not so small town!! The word on you gets around and Fast! Silence is a friend that will never betray you...Peace

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No schedule issue if you only date one

  • @RandyRhode-yq5hq
    @RandyRhode-yq5hq ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for mentioning how the "Bad" Filipinas use Facebook against you. Never thought about it. This, the below comments and other things you mentioned show why I would need to keep information vague.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good video !!! It reminds that Jealousy can be a good protection thing Especially from other women's gossip thing !!!

  • @dimplesjanet8878
    @dimplesjanet8878 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thats very true! A good Filipina will not or never compete with other fellow Filipina. Womanizer is our impression to a guy who dates several women at the same time. Bad women are not bothered on that coz they are also doing same thing.😅 To find a good woman date one at a time ,if it will not work for the first then look for another until you find the right one. Here is the scenario of dating 3 women at the same time , if they found out that, all of them will be gone , except for the bad one of course she will stay coz shes also dating several men lol.

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Incredibly wise words. Guys in the West may have seen or have some experience with negativity, but I doubt any of us can comprehend just how bad things can be.

  • @JosephLupoli
    @JosephLupoli ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Now this is a great video! Your advice is very informative and so helpful!
    You've got a new subscriber! I also like your hamster-wheel t-shirts.😄
    And I do aim to follow your learned tips to the letter.👍

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'm glad it was helpful. more vids on the way. :)

    • @JosephLupoli
      @JosephLupoli ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lifebeyondthesea, great! In the meantime, I'll start binging on the vids you've already made. 👍👍

  • @noleenole8254
    @noleenole8254 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Always price to pay when sleeping around with wild woman. 😂😅

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      as it has been said, "when you sleep with dogs, you wake up with fleas." :)

  • @saintluke2nd
    @saintluke2nd ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the info you share, Reekey. I have been watching so many of your videos for the past 2 years. In your recent videos, the pictures of Filipinas are nice but they are all 9s and 10s. I am not sure if it gives the right idea because it's usually not good to date a 10. Super gorgeous women are usually trouble because of all the attention they get. It's hard to find polished backdrop photos of Filipinas to use so I understand. Take care.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the 9's and 10's make up (in any country) maybe 10% of the women you'll see.

    • @saintluke2nd
      @saintluke2nd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lifebeyondthesea thanks, Reekay, your content is really helpful for people. These stories are priceless and I think people learn the best through real stories. 🙏🏽

    • @davebellamy4867
      @davebellamy4867 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@LifebeyondtheseaIt's more like barely 1% are 9s or 10s in the UK unless you are at a nice university or college.

  • @oceanearth2243
    @oceanearth2243 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Filipinas can turn against you on a dime. Be ready

    • @davidtesler1198
      @davidtesler1198 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not a true one, if they are in love with you they are for you and will even turn on family

  • @stephenbrecher7720
    @stephenbrecher7720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I locked down my FB years ago due to drama. Even here in the US it does not bode well to advertise all your personal chit. I get friend requests sometimes from people I have never ever met or talked to and I just delete them. If they ask to be my friend in messenger I still don't do it as I state....my FB page is for my family and close friends that I've know for many, many years and let it go at that.

  • @thomaslevine405
    @thomaslevine405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On my facebook page I do not allow anyone else to make a post on my page, and yes, I hide my friends too. Thanks for the video!

  • @NYC37
    @NYC37 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @DrJamesBWood
    @DrJamesBWood ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This might work out if I ever get over there as I only dated one lass at a time here in the US as well. Who wants the drama and stress of playing games? I'm with the Filipinas on this, if she is seeing multiple guys I'm also out.

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Three hours at a time? How about 20 minutes lol

  • @ningayeti
    @ningayeti ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Reekay, Could you straighten something out for me please (My Google search was not definitive)? Regarding the languages of Bisaya and Visayan are these words synonyms for one language or is one a subset of the other or are they two seperate languages?
    Thank You for your time.

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i've always loved words, since i was a kid. what i've noticed is that there is true definition of a word, and then there is the pronunciation and definition people use in daily life. (slang) and that blurs the lines.
      'bisaya' is meant to refer to the people and language of the Visayas, which is the central region of the PH.
      'visaya' is meant to refer to the geographical, central area of the PH.
      as you can see, the way people pronounce either word there can be confusion as people use the words interchangeably.
      examples;
      "which dialect do you speak? "
      "i speak bisayan."
      "where were you born?"
      "i was born in the visayas, in cebu. i am a visayan."

  • @edwinhoff4936
    @edwinhoff4936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So how many filipinas actually look like? The ones you were showing pictures of that are looking for older guys that are good women

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i would say, most of them. however, they have their criteria as well. if you're talking about a 9 or 10 woman in looks, who has a job.. she's not looking for some ill-shaven, beer drinking expat who dresses like he just rolled out of bed. guys like that have little to no chance with such women.
      they want a man who is interesting, carries himself well, is not conceited or rude.. a man she can be proud of.
      yes.. there are many, many amazingly attractive women in the PH. but apart from money, an expat needs to examine what he brings to the table in terms of his stature as a man.

    • @edwinhoff4936
      @edwinhoff4936 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you yeah I didn't figure women like that would go after somebody that was basically an idiot LOL I was just curious I saw all those obnoxiously hot women and thought wow that can't be the norm haha

  • @johnclark1469
    @johnclark1469 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is there a way for those slandered on FB to use the Defamation laws in the PI to denture or punish those that spread lies about the them? Those laws are in place for just such reasons are they not? And its documented when on FB. Seems “cancel culture” is used over there too in relationship envy or vindictiveness. Can you put a warning on your FB page stating that publishing lies or misleading comments about my character are subject to legal action for defamation? could that prevent this kind of social evil?

    • @Lifebeyondthesea
      @Lifebeyondthesea  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the best way is to screenshot any slanderous comments made. document the time/day and URL if you can. an attorney can press charges using this as evidence.

    • @secretagent86
      @secretagent86 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do not let anyone even see my friends list. A crazy ldr saw my friends and threatened me with blackmail. I advised my close friends that a crazy person was trying to blackmail me and shut down my fb account. So yes totally nuts. This happened after i refused to help her further ( idiot to send money at first)

  • @anguslaing6611
    @anguslaing6611 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These AI girls - 2:56 has 3 nostrils i think

    • @davebellamy4867
      @davebellamy4867 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Different sized nostrils anyway or three maybe depending on which resolution you use to view. I have seen some with really weird shaped teeth or 3 rows of teeth!

  • @WilliamFlickinger-ex2sd
    @WilliamFlickinger-ex2sd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be st bodybuilding and I love you

  • @CarigisX
    @CarigisX ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Use a fake name on Facebook.. not your main acct

  • @AnthonyCataldo-b2q
    @AnthonyCataldo-b2q 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Juggling 3. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boeing_Boeing_(1965_film) I know my limitations and can only see 1 at a time. Stay well.