He Impregnated Them At The Same Time & Made Them Fight For Him

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  • @greyghost8763
    @greyghost8763 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    This happened to my friends brother. He passed out drunk and one of the girls assaulted him. 10 month later the girl found him and started demanding child support, he took her to court and the only thing that made him win the case was a bunch of instagram, and Snapchat posts that showed him fully passed out on the couch as she was assaulting him. He won and even went as far as getting full custody of his baby. Sadly people made fun of him, and said he should be happy. He then moved to a different country. No matter the gender it is always serious.

    • @uap24
      @uap24 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      That is why never drink anything at sketchy places unless you know the contents of it. Anyone can mix stuff in drinks.

    • @chlorophyll6154
      @chlorophyll6154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah assaults bruh

    • @thycatholicninja6530
      @thycatholicninja6530 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly why I will never drink alcohol of kind

    • @richerthanastronauts
      @richerthanastronauts ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jesus that's a nightmare

    • @hiddendrifts
      @hiddendrifts ปีที่แล้ว +9

      he won the battle, but lost the war. you know that if the genders were reversed, the male would be socially exiled, if not worse

  • @debatable98
    @debatable98 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I feel bad for the guy. He was raped, forced into fatherhood, stalked and SA’d multiple times.

    • @michaelbruvolt4221
      @michaelbruvolt4221 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      people really throw that word 'rape' around easily these days.

    • @shortycb2349
      @shortycb2349 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@michaelbruvolt4221what else do you call it when the person didn’t consent and were drunk & passed out ? Dumb

    • @littleali689
      @littleali689 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @user-ki6ce8iy5osexually assaulted

    • @christamist
      @christamist 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@user-ki6ce8iy5o sexually assaulted

  • @tonyblox
    @tonyblox ปีที่แล้ว +303

    So let me get this straight. Heather used him, manipulated him, and he felt responsible for that?
    What kind of logic is that?

    • @elderliddle2733
      @elderliddle2733 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Considering he felt dizzy, it’s possible he got roofied.

    • @kirannkornat7761
      @kirannkornat7761 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It’s the sad truth men face. Even if they are raped they always are legally responsible for the resulting baby and the public and their close relationships always fault them.

    • @YeOldeTowneCryer
      @YeOldeTowneCryer ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He is depicted as one of the honest, reliable people we all hope our daughters marry.

    • @macsdf1
      @macsdf1 ปีที่แล้ว

      he's not black is why

    • @MihaelLawliet01
      @MihaelLawliet01 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She raped him as sex with someone who is too intoxicated is legally rape. He feels guilty because he “couldn’t resist her” and so of course he feels responsible. It is more of a symptom of him being a decent person.

  • @kimmieh8419
    @kimmieh8419 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I absolutely love how you do these! I literally don't even have to watch the movie because you pick and tell the most important parts and I don't waste 2 hours of my day watching something that gives me the same emotions and feelings in 17 mins! Awesome job! 👍

  • @samsmusichub
    @samsmusichub 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Please stop saying he cheated on her. Bro is a victim.

    • @LunaddDereje-ct7kk
      @LunaddDereje-ct7kk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree he didn't have a choice and he was under the influence of alcohol

  • @katrinataylor5490
    @katrinataylor5490 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    He did not make them fight for him.

    • @kikoredog
      @kikoredog 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks lol didn't bother watching the whole thing

  • @trewqqwerty3857
    @trewqqwerty3857 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    wow she really must be a witch to unlock everyone's phone like that lmao

    • @JetsxSkull
      @JetsxSkull ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Seems like no one has passwords on their phones even a lawyer.

    • @dallasyap3064
      @dallasyap3064 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In movies, people's phones don't have passwords.

    • @bonbonvegabon
      @bonbonvegabon ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lo Or in real life lol. I never lock my phone with a password lol

    • @bonbonvegabon
      @bonbonvegabon ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only childish teens and cheaters lock their phones with a password. Im 45, happily married and never lock my phone with password

    • @FortexVize
      @FortexVize ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bonbonvegabonThat is great for you. Your statement alone shows that you are just as childish as "the teens" you are talking about.

  • @dontaskwhy615
    @dontaskwhy615 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    its pissing me off the fact he could just take heather to court for what she did to him and he doesn't??

  • @ApprenPlayer
    @ApprenPlayer ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Heather is the evil one, while Amanda is the good one.
    There is a similar movie called Double Mommy with roles reversed, the woman is impregnating with twins but two different fathers. Both are produced by Johnson Production Group and released on Lifetime.

    • @waitandhope
      @waitandhope ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep lifetime rules

    • @rdc2021
      @rdc2021 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was a funny movie😂 Im pretty sure it is called Doblemente Embarazada and yeah I liked it.

  • @jamesbuchanan2001
    @jamesbuchanan2001 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Imagine being raped passed out drunk and your girlfriend blames you for 'cheating.' I hate to be that guy, but a role reversal here would be a completely different story. If as a guy, your girlfriend was raped, passed out in a car. Your first thought as a boyfriend would be 'Are you okay? What do you need? How can I support you? Doctor/therapy/hug/anything I can get/do for you I would do.' And your second thought would be who can get to the guys house faster, the cops, or me with a knife.
    Honestly though girls, if your boyfriend was passed out and a girl had sex with his unconscious body, and he told you the next day that someone filmed this. What would your thoughts be? If he was clearly intoxicated and going in and out of consciousness? Would you think cheater? Or has anyone had this situation before? It's so dark and scary. I like to think in reality most partners would not behave like girl in the movie.

    • @franciszekdo
      @franciszekdo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think a lot of guys have issues classifying what happened to them as abuse/assault/rape. Men are culturally stereotyped as having hyper-agency; particularly in sexual situations. Resources and education for survivors often centers women as victims. Like, the character Connor in this film clearly hasn't contextually placed himself as a victim of rape even though he clearly was.

    • @nauna_218
      @nauna_218 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100% correct it's ALWAYS serious.

    • @davidputra-d9n
      @davidputra-d9n หลายเดือนก่อน

      who hurt u?

  • @vijaykumarwali7509
    @vijaykumarwali7509 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Heather Seems like a keeper

  • @SniperfoxMonroe
    @SniperfoxMonroe ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why didn’t they just give the new students baby to the sister

  • @TakeoFR
    @TakeoFR ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A problem is that the guy took responsibility for being raped.

    • @jamesbuchanan2001
      @jamesbuchanan2001 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Got dumped for being raped as well. Imagine if a guy dumped his girlfriend because she got raped when she was drunk passing out at a party. You'd be looked at as the biggest POS, and you would be. Much like his girlfriend in this. The man needs emotional support for being sexual assaulted and raped. Not to be abandoned.

    • @samsmusichub
      @samsmusichub 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unfortunately that's the world we live in. When men say we're taking advantage of, we're rarely believed and often laughed at.

  • @freaknation1558
    @freaknation1558 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I remember this movie it's called double daddy cool movie.

  • @Meta_was_my_idea
    @Meta_was_my_idea ปีที่แล้ว +51

    You always have the best thumbnail and the most interesting title that really gets me wanting to watch anything you post LOL

    • @BoltPlaysHcr2
      @BoltPlaysHcr2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So ur saying you like p***?!

  • @donnamurphy8551
    @donnamurphy8551 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is every other couple on Maury Povich.

  • @alexandrakade8523
    @alexandrakade8523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great Lifetime movie!

  • @tanjunmin9597
    @tanjunmin9597 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    title is wrong. It should be "She seduce a naïve boyfriend and fight the girlfriend to death."

  • @jamesbuchanan2001
    @jamesbuchanan2001 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nothing like that taking full responsibility for being raped.

  • @jerdengtw
    @jerdengtw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great movie but at the same time, he didnt make them fight for him, he tried make peace between both of them

  • @avengersseven1498
    @avengersseven1498 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How thick a guy came be 😂😅😂😅

  • @michaeldunson2531
    @michaeldunson2531 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    This happens a lot in black communities! One of my classmate impregnated two girls in my school and another in another school at the same time! He had at least 5 kids that I know about before he graduated high school!

    • @PCLearnerGuy
      @PCLearnerGuy ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Watch Idiocracy.

    • @ShadowShart
      @ShadowShart ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Was he allergic to condoms? Lol

    • @michaeldunson2531
      @michaeldunson2531 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShadowShart No but this was before aids and the government started forcing people to pay child support!

    • @georgiosdoumas2446
      @georgiosdoumas2446 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you as the naive tax payer, is helping unintentional raise those kids, through welfare and other help those mothers receive. That black man is passing his DNA using you and your money to feed his kids! He is fucking girls and you are paying! I understand if you feel enraged.

    • @MartiErtel
      @MartiErtel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you proud of that?

  • @bomaprincewill
    @bomaprincewill ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Name of movie please.

  • @shadowxxnightmare1463
    @shadowxxnightmare1463 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This happened last year in my school i always thought she was just overweight for some reason

  • @SwiaKeys
    @SwiaKeys ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wait..how does it end

  • @lashellecoleman2754
    @lashellecoleman2754 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel bad for Heather she just wanted a better life but she went about it the wrong way because she felt like that was her only option

  • @jadebirk5957
    @jadebirk5957 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Too bad they couldn't realize they were having Irish/project twins and get along for the children's sake 🙄 😅😂

  • @ollie_2225
    @ollie_2225 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    whats the movie name

  • @AuthenticDarren
    @AuthenticDarren ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You say this is based on a true story, if you hadn't have mentioned this I would have suggested that the story be more interesting if Heather hadn't have been as crazy as she was.
    The idea of getting two "nice" girls pregnant at the same time (instead of one nice and one cranky) with one of them being your regular girlfriend, whom you really like, and the other being a nice girl from across the street you had a little encounter with at the same time and having all the parents involved would make for a more engaging and interesting story. Well a very different and more complicated one at any rate. I'm not sure how the story writers and film makers would have that tale turn out.
    I think I'd have the three eventually trying to get along and make the best of it, something new, despite the difficulties all the families and everyone else could cause.
    What a complicated situation that would be. Hopefully everyone involved would still want the best and try to make the best for for the three central protagonists. Although how would things end up?
    If anyone tries to make this film please try not to make a total rushed hash of it and remember, even though only one solution can be lived out (whatever that may be), that a number of solutions are possible. nevertheless let's have as happy an ending, as possible for at least the two girls and their babies which they both keep.
    Would have been a better film anyway.

    • @chinmayghule8272
      @chinmayghule8272 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch Girlfriend Girlfriend.

    • @kalistrand5420
      @kalistrand5420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But she wasn’t ‘nice’- she s3xually assaulted him and entrapped him with her pregnancy. She should have been arrested BEFORE she killed her ex.

  • @zachzitzow8306
    @zachzitzow8306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Double Daddy,its an LMN film from 2015

  • @jalepezo
    @jalepezo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its all fun and games untill someone gets pregnant Xd

  • @dantauche7917
    @dantauche7917 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a weird movie

  • @PhullinsyIawren
    @PhullinsyIawren 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She and her child together soon without a Father 😅😅😅

  • @jaggg.3821
    @jaggg.3821 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No way entirely mis--leading this was a original Lifetime Movie Based on Actual Event's probably in Canada!
    But she stalked him she was insane she needed to be locked up in a serious mental facility that she could not Con her way Out of it!
    She was a danger to everybody!

  • @leo0420
    @leo0420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What's the name of the background music

    • @leo0420
      @leo0420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's called " a fog over a forest "

    • @leo0420
      @leo0420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A fog over the forest

  • @waitandhope
    @waitandhope ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cant believe you reviewed a lifetime movie lol watch Deadly Realtor its so cool lol also i thought amanda was a brat somewhat and heather was just a messed up girl that wants better

  • @Gamerrelm1.0_relm
    @Gamerrelm1.0_relm ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2pm drop we early 😅

  • @Stock1897
    @Stock1897 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:49 The Berkin High website allowing comments on their photos is just asking for trouble...

  • @josephhurst4902
    @josephhurst4902 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:20, This part of My body My Choice pisses me off. Because there should be a way for a Unwilling Father to Forfit his Parental rights... Otherwise how can you be sure your not being baby trapped by a Psycho.

    • @tatum729
      @tatum729 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is this a serious question? Because the answer is the most obvious one in the world. Have control. And at the very least use condoms, which are over 99% effective, or don't do it till you have them.

  • @benjaminlehman3221
    @benjaminlehman3221 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He should have married heather immediately so he legally couldn’t marry the crazy woman

  • @martychisnall
    @martychisnall ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They all look about 40

    • @bonbonvegabon
      @bonbonvegabon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nope, they are around 25 to 28 years old. You must be a teen to make such a silly comment lol

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don’t look no damn 40 lol

  • @Trizzer89
    @Trizzer89 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol, pregnancy test won't be positive 2 days after

  • @RG2k07
    @RG2k07 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad I was unattractive and a virgin in highschool 😂

  • @shortycb2349
    @shortycb2349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girlfriend so pretty

  • @AadhiraiSathyavathi
    @AadhiraiSathyavathi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When people are too confused with movies & realities forced to the people around various cultures around various geographical regions on this planet, everybody looses trust, faith & diluting the value system everywhere!
    English movies, how much influence does it have in other cultures, does it really change people ?
    I believe its Time i need Autobiography submissions of people who ever came into my Life. What to be thankful for, that i am just a bilingual and not a polyglot!

  • @DeJaVu804
    @DeJaVu804 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought I was watching the female version of 21 jump street with a 40 year old Heather pretending to be a high schoolera.

  • @lazkid220
    @lazkid220 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he leaves his phone on the coffee table while he goes to get her water? come on... this is fiction

  • @Chris-rg6nm
    @Chris-rg6nm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They cant raise that kid, should have gave it to the sister.

  • @AdrianSlate4902
    @AdrianSlate4902 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All this happening is Heather's father's fault since if he just gave her the love and support a father has this wouldn't have happen from the start.

  • @OrichalcumHammer
    @OrichalcumHammer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Movie Title: Double Daddy (2015)

  • @ZooBuddyDoo
    @ZooBuddyDoo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do you blatantly lie in some of your video titles?

  • @MickeyMishra
    @MickeyMishra 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Heads up! If you have multiple kids in High school? You are better off doing so then then later in life. Why?
    Child support. Its based on Income. You only make min wage, or zero in High school. So you can have like 5 kids there, and pay less then $400 a month for all 5 kids.
    Your Family will be happy to take care of the Baby while you are at school, and will give mom quite a bit of happiness with your kids. Along with the rest of the Family.
    Basically? You win at life.
    For the Girls? Its no problem. Not only have they already had at least one child in their prime?
    They also no longer have to worry about being "Boss Girls" in the Future.
    Almost ANY DAD will be Happy to raise their kids from 16 on up.
    As long as you got a STRONG FAMILY on your side? ITS A WIN!
    By the time you are 19, you are already with a Job and Solid Purpose.
    Child support is locked at the rate you had the child.
    And you did not get married, so no divorcee that is already shooting at 90% of people who get married today.
    So there is ZERO DOWNSIDES!
    Ladies?
    You get to Party your socks off in your youth, and you already had your kids early.
    Meaning? You will never be alone.
    You will never have to worry about your Career. You can do that for the next 50 years if you want.
    And you can find yourself all you want. You already had one or 2 kids in High school.
    There is also that cool thing that when you are 35? Your kids are already grown up.
    And as most people will tell you?
    You are in the PRIME of your Earning years for men.
    And as a women? Your kids won't cost you a DIME.
    In fact, they will often be there to help you out with all sorts of stuff you never imagined.
    And as a Young man or women?
    You got Energy to keep up with them for DAYS!
    And you get to experince all of it in the pRIME of your Youth.
    Also? Your Great grandparents are still around.
    Same as your Folks. They are all there and will have a BLAST being Grandpa and Uncles.
    Don''t worry about moving out. STAY WITH YOUR FAMILIES GENTS!
    There is no DAYCARE that is going to be remembered by your kids.
    But your kids will always remember the time with family.
    YOUR
    WELCOME.
    iMickey503

    • @BC-vl4rn
      @BC-vl4rn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you priest?

    • @MickeyMishra
      @MickeyMishra 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BC-vl4rn Sort of the Boobly Boobly kind, but not practicing.

  • @jelanifrench8246
    @jelanifrench8246 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well...

  • @yesiamaisey
    @yesiamaisey ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Harem attempt by harem protagonist wannabe gone wrong

  • @morganforby1477
    @morganforby1477 ปีที่แล้ว

    So why can’t they give both of the babies to the sister until they finishes school and get jobs

  • @Helroyyy
    @Helroyyy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This happens alot in the hip hop coummunity.

  • @TK_Tazzkooler
    @TK_Tazzkooler หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm just a girl💀💀

  • @BC-vl4rn
    @BC-vl4rn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This happen to me too. I end up in

  • @odenat3701
    @odenat3701 ปีที่แล้ว

    The problem is that christians are only allowed to take one wife. If that happened here, the boy will marry both of these girls and they will live happily as a family.

    • @cheeling794
      @cheeling794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah sure buddy lmao the killer will live happily with the girlfriend. are you delusional?

  • @kennakellon2025
    @kennakellon2025 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    she lowkey looks like Riley Reid

  • @TrevorMcdaniel2
    @TrevorMcdaniel2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is basically me i have 2 babies on the way with 2 girls. not fun do not recommend

    • @tanjunmin9597
      @tanjunmin9597 ปีที่แล้ว

      luckily my hands won't ever get pregnant. 🤣 🥲

    • @tickleboi6581
      @tickleboi6581 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh. What happened to "always wear protective gear at the workplace"?
      Wasnt that fooking drilled into yalls heads for the past 3 decades?

  • @crazyrippledley
    @crazyrippledley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    another lucky dude lol

  • @AadhiraiSathyavathi
    @AadhiraiSathyavathi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #America could my ancestry be traced back through time & history in that Geographical region ? Like the outlander, had i ever been in America ? or my Hairs/Nails/Bones/Teeth Samples send to that location ?
    Like Dead cells, basically!

  • @AstroIsHereNow...
    @AstroIsHereNow... ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bonjour 1 sec ago lets a go!

  • @Fihyyhvcffggcfffa7961
    @Fihyyhvcffggcfffa7961 ปีที่แล้ว

    but? but? but?

  • @heyokavpeace4822
    @heyokavpeace4822 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bloody Hell 🐍

  • @Sinraiser
    @Sinraiser ปีที่แล้ว

    WTF!

  • @rafsanAhmed93
    @rafsanAhmed93 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mass men

  • @chlorophyll6154
    @chlorophyll6154 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this and actually lot irl happened no wonder incel are so raging

  • @ilijabosnjak76
    @ilijabosnjak76 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Guy is a Simp,End of Movie

  • @arvindkumarrjoel6943
    @arvindkumarrjoel6943 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a Tamil movie copy 😂

  • @joseanthonyalcuino4589
    @joseanthonyalcuino4589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Title

  • @oxidodeberilio
    @oxidodeberilio ปีที่แล้ว

    i want that

  • @Decki777
    @Decki777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's much better to impregnate independent woman Rather impregnate a Teen girl who lives with her parents.

  • @ADENTAYLOROTC
    @ADENTAYLOROTC ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We early 🎉

  • @otmossampacado1550
    @otmossampacado1550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Black community drama

  • @dallasyap3064
    @dallasyap3064 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Connor is as much as fault too for being reckless.

    • @bonbonvegabon
      @bonbonvegabon ปีที่แล้ว +19

      NO way man, she rap*d him while he was under the influence and was too drunk to consent.

    • @jarrettchristensen_music
      @jarrettchristensen_music ปีที่แล้ว

      How? He might have been stupid by getting drunk but Heather ra*ed him

    • @YeOldeTowneCryer
      @YeOldeTowneCryer ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He was drunk and she raped him without him realizing what was going on.

    • @Cazz8203
      @Cazz8203 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol....keep telling yourself that. Adolescents are controlled by their hormones. We are all part of the animal kingdom. Self control is something you can learn over time, but it's just not that easy when you're young. Spread your gossip about safe sex all you want. But It will be overpowered by animalistic nature at least 80% of the time. By both sexes.

    • @getoffyoubassandletsfish8565
      @getoffyoubassandletsfish8565 ปีที่แล้ว

      Conner is the victim you can’t blame a rape victim.

  • @AyratHungryStudent
    @AyratHungryStudent ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't support everyone hating on Heather.
    She had a bad childhood, her mother has abandoned her and her father didn't do his job raising her. Then also abandoned her.
    She needs professional help, maybe after a few years when she's better, they can let her near her baby.

    • @jeffreyharris3440
      @jeffreyharris3440 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Heather legitimately murdered someone. I wouldn't let her near anyone.

    • @franciszekdo
      @franciszekdo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hate rapists idc if they had a bad childhood

    • @samsmusichub
      @samsmusichub 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So everything she did is okay because she had a bad childhood? No. A lot of people have bad childhoods and they realize how not to live.