I like all these young men's honesty and candid summary of their feelings and experience. Well done! More videos on how local Chinese young men think about topics, please.
For their ages they seem pretty mature and more serious with some deep answers. If you asked the same questions in the UK to the younger guys i think the answers would be about hook ups, not relationships. I could be wrong.
I watched some videos about koreans and when comparing I have this feeling too. They talked more about physical aspects, and when talking about foreigners, they seem to be only interested in something casual. I don't know if this has to do with the way the interviewer conducted the questions of if this is a cultural difference 🤔
I married a Muslim man and we respected each other. I’m vegan, so no problem with meat. He ate it with friends when he met them and often avoided it. The main problem was his family’s expectations. They followed traditions that are very strict. They wanted to arrange the marriage etc.
I think whatever these guys described,is common all over world, the basic tendencies we try to find in other partner, they seem more mature bcz they all are at age of taking responsibility and being part of society.
I wish you would interview guys and ask them how they feel about Bride Price paid by the groom to get married. Also if they have a sister do their parents try to get a high Bride Price so they can buy him a house so he can get married.
Bride price is more a more popular tradition in Southern part of China, these guys are from northern China with well educated family background, they might not be aware of it at all.
Its a turn off is someone does not respect your opinion on a certain matter, you have different opinions, you have to respect. Someone who is does not seem agreeable or has no effort to jive with you.
Regarding the second guy, whenever a girl acting 扫兴, shes not interested or something u did bothers her, it’s not a good reaction, ideally you want to be positive and polite to finish the date, but that’s the reason usually
And I like Chinese guys well the ones in the Cdrama, they aren't nerds, especially the ones in the marital arts drama. Especially Xukai, Wu Lei, Dylan Wang. Thassapak Hsu. Especially Xu Kai. I am a Xu Kai Fangirl
@israaderrij9867 I am not talking about the characters they play. I am talking about they people they are. Just because they are actors doesn't mean they are not real men or humans. I watch a lot of Chinese drama and a lot of actors l specifically chose these men because on their off screen characters. Humble, kind respectful not all Chinese actor are like these guys m
6:00 I didn't know there are people who don't like straight forward feedback about (in his case) place he went with girl. It is probably part of Muslim culture and it is terrible. Be ready to accept feedback. Not like something gonna explode because she said "that bar is awful". Do Muslim drink alcohol btw? I thought Muslim's do not drink alcohol.
That is not related to The Islamic religion, it's just his character, but in general nice words or nice feedbacks will make you feel better, people who nags always are not favorable in any culture. As a Muslim girl from North Africa, I can confirm you that not all Muslims do not drink alcohol, especially men, some of them drink alcohol, but the Islamic laws advices us to stay away from alcohol because it's unhealthy and it can make you addictive to it etc. too much alcohol is bad for your health so why we should harm our bodies? Muslims are very different, you can find Muslims from many ethnicities and many races, so you cannot put them all in the same basket.
Because it's not about the place, it's seen for him as his efforts going to waste. Also, It's just common courtesy, religion yas nothing to do with it. He took you out and you didnt really like the place, next time suggest a place that " you really want to visit with him" and he'll happily oblige. Many people are sensitive about this point because they thinl they thought about a nice place and they're paying for the date and you're not showing appreciation for their efforts. For drinks, some muslims drink, some don't, it depends on the individual.
Countries can not date people; people date people. Most Westerners have not dated people (non-Westerners or other Westerners) outside their own countries either. What's your ("fun") point?
@user.. but there are countries where the population in general is more open to this possibility. for example, most brazilians value more the feelings for the person. if we like someone, nationality and ethnicity will never be an obstacle (of course I'm not counting a racist person)
I like all these young men's honesty and candid summary of their feelings and experience. Well done! More videos on how local Chinese young men think about topics, please.
For their ages they seem pretty mature and more serious with some deep answers. If you asked the same questions in the UK to the younger guys i think the answers would be about hook ups, not relationships. I could be wrong.
I watched some videos about koreans and when comparing I have this feeling too. They talked more about physical aspects, and when talking about foreigners, they seem to be only interested in something casual. I don't know if this has to do with the way the interviewer conducted the questions of if this is a cultural difference 🤔
Dude that studied in Ireland is right, all girls just want the same thing, treat is with respect, listen to us and give us your time whole heartedly
My man that studied in Ireland gets it. He's like any other normal dude around the world.
As a muslim girl i just loved how he talked about his faith and I can relate to him tbh. Having the same faith is so important
I married a Muslim man and we respected each other. I’m vegan, so no problem with meat. He ate it with friends when he met them and often avoided it.
The main problem was his family’s expectations. They followed traditions that are very strict. They wanted to arrange the marriage etc.
@sandracarli1110 oh I'm happy to hear that ! Yeah usually families tend to stick to traditions which can cause more harm to the couple...
I think whatever these guys described,is common all over world, the basic tendencies we try to find in other partner, they seem more mature bcz they all are at age of taking responsibility and being part of society.
Could you interview girls about their red flags 🚩 in guys. I just want to hear their opinion as well. What they think about Chinese men
Yes, I’m editing the video these days
Для иностранок они как из другой вселенной. Хотя сказать за всех не могу... но.. по-моему они такие закрыте и даже сами не знают что у них в голове.
I wish you would interview guys and ask them how they feel about Bride Price paid by the groom to get married. Also if they have a sister do their parents try to get a high Bride Price so they can buy him a house so he can get married.
I will do that, thanks for the advice, it would be interesting for me too
Bride price is more a more popular tradition in Southern part of China, these guys are from northern China with well educated family background, they might not be aware of it at all.
I will try to get people from different province of China for this interview
Its a turn off is someone does not respect your opinion on a certain matter, you have different opinions, you have to respect. Someone who is does not seem agreeable or has no effort to jive with you.
6:27 Maasha'Allah, although I'm from Belgium I could totally relate because I'm a muslim girl as well.
I don't understand why you'd want a girl to agree with you all the time
Regarding the second guy, whenever a girl acting 扫兴, shes not interested or something u did bothers her, it’s not a good reaction, ideally you want to be positive and polite to finish the date, but that’s the reason usually
And I like Chinese guys well the ones in the Cdrama, they aren't nerds, especially the ones in the marital arts drama.
Especially Xukai, Wu Lei, Dylan Wang. Thassapak Hsu. Especially Xu Kai. I am a Xu Kai Fangirl
Those are not realistic characters we are talking about serious real Chinese man in real life not movies btw xu kai is great
@israaderrij9867 I am not talking about the characters they play. I am talking about they people they are. Just because they are actors doesn't mean they are not real men or humans.
I watch a lot of Chinese drama and a lot of actors l specifically chose these men because on their off screen characters.
Humble, kind respectful not all Chinese actor are like these guys m
Thank you for these interviews! As someone who is learning Mandarin and wants to know more about Chinese culture, these videos are amazing!! 加油吧！
忘记谁说的了，恋爱应该像两辆计程车嘭的一声撞在一起，而不是坐下来互相研究对方。 保持开放的态度，看到对方的真心，会收获一段美好的经历
I agree!!♥️
I see that Georgia beanie! Go Dawgs Aiden 👏
Good luck vs. Notre Dame! You guys are playing right now...
Good luck vs. Notre Dame! You guys are playing right now...
What uppp JonMichael
6:00 I didn't know there are people who don't like straight forward feedback about (in his case) place he went with girl. It is probably part of Muslim culture and it is terrible. Be ready to accept feedback. Not like something gonna explode because she said "that bar is awful". Do Muslim drink alcohol btw? I thought Muslim's do not drink alcohol.
That is not related to The Islamic religion, it's just his character, but in general nice words or nice feedbacks will make you feel better, people who nags always are not favorable in any culture. As a Muslim girl from North Africa, I can confirm you that not all Muslims do not drink alcohol, especially men, some of them drink alcohol, but the Islamic laws advices us to stay away from alcohol because it's unhealthy and it can make you addictive to it etc. too much alcohol is bad for your health so why we should harm our bodies? Muslims are very different, you can find Muslims from many ethnicities and many races, so you cannot put them all in the same basket.
Why is everything that a Muslim does have to be related to his religion? You are all insane ffs
Because it's not about the place, it's seen for him as his efforts going to waste.
Also, It's just common courtesy, religion yas nothing to do with it. He took you out and you didnt really like the place, next time suggest a place that " you really want to visit with him" and he'll happily oblige. Many people are sensitive about this point because they thinl they thought about a nice place and they're paying for the date and you're not showing appreciation for their efforts. For drinks, some muslims drink, some don't, it depends on the individual.
Great guys... Girls would be lucky for dating them...
Que bonita forma de falar! Soan tan xentís e educados ❤ encántame o tono da xente.
Interesting video. I’m sure you don’t have difficulties attracting girls.
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这种的视频很有兴趣！
i like irish dude. he's awesome. his ol mate there seems a tad unexpanded.
Happy 2025! from the US (Sarasota County, Florida)
Thank you! Happy new year!
I'm Muslim from Algeria I can marry him😂
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He's cute lol
Hahaha he's handsome too.
Very good video.
I agree with the guy in grey coat about AA makes the dating seemed distant. Take a turn to treat each other evenly seems more comfortable. ❤
Cool video, bro! From Russia- with love(from: Far East, Khabarovsk)! Happy Holidays to you, and: Happy New Year, bro!
Thank you! Happy new year!
@@aiden_qiuu Thank you, bro(too)! China- Russian economic partner, and: supporter(especially- in: Vietnam War)!
Fun fact most Asian countries have never date a foreigner in their entire lives But if you mean other Asians than yes but westerners not really
Countries can not date people; people date people.
Most Westerners have not dated people (non-Westerners or other Westerners) outside their own countries either. What's your ("fun") point?
@user.. but there are countries where the population in general is more open to this possibility. for example, most brazilians value more the feelings for the person. if we like someone, nationality and ethnicity will never be an obstacle
(of course I'm not counting a racist person)
Because white girls are boring and little know outside of USA i in my experiences mono lang and hard to communicate with them
I’d like to know how gay guys in China think about dating. Maybe you can go to Chengdu and ask around? 😂😂🙏🙏
I subscribed
I think these young Men should learn about being respectful,gentle and open and shouldn't criticize so much!!😞😞😞😞
Very psychological, it was so interesting. Everybody seemed very matured and grounded. But I'm gay, I'd like to know that angle.
my red flag speaking mainland mandarin.