The few scenes we get to watch them interact are awful. I was born and raised in Ecuador. This type of man displays all sorts of toxic masculinity: he is very stubborn and not willing to compromise, he is bad at communication, loves to hide information from her... girl RUN!
He is saving her $$$? She is totally supporting him living in the US, and will do until he gets his work permit. Even after that, he'll probably send his money back to his family and expect her to continue supporting him. Ash, dump the man and drink more coffee. Then find a better man, one who can afford to buy you coffee!
Thank you!! I do agree with you! He's a smart ass thinks he's ALL that when he better realize she has friends who's watching his every move...or least I hope they are! Wake up Ashley and stop letting him treat you like dog poop!
No problem if she wants to drink 3 coffees a day but I did not expect her to juggle them all at once in the car while driving. And come on, and open mason jar? Just use a cup, with a lid, that realistically fits in the cupholder. His whole stop drinking coffee to save money reminded me of those "millennials can't afford to buy houses because they drink lattes" line. It looked like 2 out of the 3 coffees were made at home.
3 cofgees may be excessive, but she's not a witch. They need to have a conversation about boundaries and her using moderation or tumblers that don't require holding.
Manuel is right. She is ridiculous with all the coffee she is drinking. She had 3 drinks in the car and I think that's way too much. Everything in moderation. These two are very toxic. They don't need to get married they shouldn't be together period. 🤦♀️🙄
Maybe she needs more protein and not caffeine. She's low on energy, someone who loves you considers all factors and tries to find a solution. Complaining, blaming or being stubborn in your ways is just staying stagnant in the same situation.
I’m sorry but I’d be pissed off if someone is trying to have me hold 5 drinks with only 2 hands then tells me to help them … why in the world would u have to open a new coffee if u already have one open
In the scene after this when they meet Ashley's friends and they ask about him sending money for his family back home. People that live in the States are conditioned to be selfish, mostly because you CAN be. If you don't take care of your kids, there's welfare, medicare and food stamps. If you don't take care of your Parents, there's Social Security and Medicaid. Ecuador does't have such institutions. If you don't take care of your kids, they will literally starve to death. If you don't take care of your parents, they're out on the streets. If Ashley wants Manuel to be her Husband, well he CAN'T LEGALLY WORK until he gets his documents, what is his family in Ecuador supposed to do in the Interim? Get over that nasty habit of eating?
frankly its her business, he only cares abt the money to save nd send it to his family, its her money for God's sake what does he has to do with it, disgusting man.
She is truly addicted to caffeine (and energy drinks?). It really isn’t good for your heart or nervous system. I DO think she’s saving money by making her own coffee but in the end, the health costs that come from such addictions are too great. 😢 He isn’t supposed to be working till he gets his work permit but there are so many people that work “under the table” or for friends till that happens. He needs a general labor or construction job to keep himself busy and to help contribute. If he has family in USA already, I’m wondering why they didn’t do his papers for him. 🤔 I know someone that is from Bolivia that had a family member do his papers and he was working with a work permit within a week of arrival. He’s working in the same industry as he did while living back in Bolivia.
Omg! I do NOT like this man/child! He is rude and bossy and very demanding to Ashley! I can't believe he's expecting her to support his family while he what..lays around and does nada??? She needs to send his ass packing across the river and be done with him .. period, point, BLANK! 🙄😑
Tbh drink the coffee that’s not capped before opening a new one right? I can see how he’s irritated when she opened a new one when there’s so many coffee around. It’s bizarre.
No one on 90 day tells the truth except Ashley’s MOM‼️ I’m trying to find the clip of Ashley’s mom at gown store 😂 best comment ever in 90 day HISTORY ‼️ and it’s fitting for all the COUPLES.. she said “ Does this sound like a match made in heaven or somewhere ELSE ( HELL) “ 😂 😂 only KAREN call rival that one LIner.
I think Ashley is very disrespectful, domineering and overbearing, and she needs to chill At the same time I think Manuel is using her. It’s obvious to everyone except her.
Seriously! She is ridiculous! WHY does she NEED 3 coffee's while she is driving? I'd be pretty damn pissed if I was him too! Who was holding her 3 coffee's before he came to America?
If he controls her money, it's more for him and his fam. Period. It's NOT about coffee 🙄😒.. He sees her "wasting" money he could be using. That's all it is. He is shady and doesn't have good motives. Y'all see any love there? Sorry Ashley, you can do better girl!
Ashley's friends she always calls after every argument are saints! She also needs to grow up and stop informing her friends over everything. She is a lot even though Manual can be rude Ashley is a lot ot handle !
You call that explosive fighting? 😂 Try being dragged by a truck and getting your knee broke because you chose not to leave your own house in the middle of the night being forced out. That's explosive
If he was paying for her coffees I'd understabd it more but from what I see he doesnt contribute to his own expenses, let alone hers. Juggling three caffeinated drinks was probably staged for the show. If not, she needs a nice thermos that fits in her car's cup holder. That could help.
Manuel is an old style guy, could be my father lmao. Ashley is more carefree, more youthful, I think their personalities don't match. Don't see the chemistry anywhere.
He would have problems Wich me because i drink coffee all day with my money not he's money he Yost doesn't want her to spend money so she can have more for him, omg she needs to leave him,
It's very hard to take Ashley seriously because if it were a black man, she would have left him in two seconds ago. Why there's so many single-parent families in the black community. Her speaking Spanish sounds like someone who struggles with reading. , 'The cat runs up a tree' Ashley translated would sound like this "El-------gato--------sube ----hacia--------en-----UN---ARBOL." She is clearly buying this guy, the notion of going to see a therapist and they don't even gotten marrried as yet is mind bending. It's clear that she is buying this guy, the idea of going to see a therapist, even though they haven't even gotten married yet is mind-bending. But then again, Ashley might be an acquired taste for guys elsewhere other than the US.
Hey Ashley, I think you really start need to you learn the language, but you never did learn the culture and that’s a damn shame because it’s such an insult to see another black woman actually in your friends judge this man who has more machismo than all three of you put together it’s just sad That you cannot understand coming from nothing and seeing you waste your money on too big ass cups of freaking caffeine in a day and that’s probably that’s enough money to feed his whole family in the morning. That’s just being selfish. I don’t know who your friends calling a manchild does he take care of his entire family? Does he have enough self-control to do that?
If he's that annoyed he knows where the doors at.
😂😂😂
The few scenes we get to watch them interact are awful. I was born and raised in Ecuador. This type of man displays all sorts of toxic masculinity: he is very stubborn and not willing to compromise, he is bad at communication, loves to hide information from her... girl RUN!
@ZZ-dy6xy You are absolutely assuming things. Also, I would never be with an Ecuadorian man for obvious reasons 🙅♀️
@msmariapaula23 so you a self hater ☠️
I agree - this is a male dominance cultural issue.
I heard Ecuadorians are good in bed
I mean he wants to save,whats wrong with that?
Okay but why does she need 3 different coffees in the car? 😂 I see why he’s annoyed about that
It's her car, her coffee, and her money. He need to deal with it.
@@hi-xf7cj 3 coffees my guy…. THREE COFFEES??? That is a bit excessive 😭😂😂
It's her money!!!
@@iizateba299 I stand by what I said. You don’t need three coffees 😂😂💀
@@hi-xf7cjYou act like we’re trying to ban her, she can do what she wants, but it’s still weird af and excessive.
He wants her to save money so she can send his family money! She earns her money so she spends it as she sees fit…but she does drink too much coffee..
He is saving her $$$? She is totally supporting him living in the US, and will do until he gets his work permit. Even after that, he'll probably send his money back to his family and expect her to continue supporting him. Ash, dump the man and drink more coffee. Then find a better man, one who can afford to buy you coffee!
exactly!!
Thank you!! I do agree with you! He's a smart ass thinks he's ALL that when he better realize she has friends who's watching his every move...or least I hope they are! Wake up Ashley and stop letting him treat you like dog poop!
I think if she could find a better man, why would she bring manuel to the US???
She's desperate, cant you tell.
@@David-ut1xj She is! And she thinks everything is solved by having sex . Sex is restrooms where other customers use the same restroom. Yuck!!!🤮🤮🤮.
Okay the three coffees cracked me up. 😂
No problem if she wants to drink 3 coffees a day but I did not expect her to juggle them all at once in the car while driving. And come on, and open mason jar? Just use a cup, with a lid, that realistically fits in the cupholder.
His whole stop drinking coffee to save money reminded me of those "millennials can't afford to buy houses because they drink lattes" line. It looked like 2 out of the 3 coffees were made at home.
She needs the mason jar to pee in after drinking all that coffee
She's too much.
I can do one coffee at a time, not three all at once. She got an addiction 😂
Ok I get it but how annoying it’s NOT HIS MONEY
That part 🙄
Thank You!!!
I don’t understand how anyone is on his side, this dude is a jerk.
3 coffee cups in the car when she knows he hates the coffee? She’s trying to drive him crazy. Yes a witch. Or they produced this 100%
3 cofgees may be excessive, but she's not a witch.
They need to have a conversation about boundaries and her using moderation or tumblers that don't require holding.
@@7o7Dsyshe’s a witch 🥱 idk what you’re yapping about
Manuel is right. She is ridiculous with all the coffee she is drinking. She had 3 drinks in the car and I think that's way too much. Everything in moderation. These two are very toxic. They don't need to get married they shouldn't be together period. 🤦♀️🙄
Hmmm, it’s her money and he doesn’t contribute. The audacity lol. I will spend my money on what I want. They’re not even married!
@@wackybrattyxok missy that’s fine, but is it healthy? 🤔
@@wackybrattyx So don't make him carry her coffee cups like a servant.
@@NF-hh3qq Then he should get a job instead of living off her like a bum.
@@wackybrattyx He cannot legally work yet.
Maybe she needs more protein and not caffeine. She's low on energy, someone who loves you considers all factors and tries to find a solution. Complaining, blaming or being stubborn in your ways is just staying stagnant in the same situation.
What are you? An octopus? 😂
😂😂😂
At least they have 9 brains and clearly she is not using the one she was allegedly given at birth .
😂😂😂
I Can see why he’s annoyed, but if that’s the case then why not help her find a solution instead of whining about it?
Sent him home, that safe money
How was that an explosive fight??? Lmao
Lol.
Where does TLC find these people?
Caffeine addiction is real
I’m sorry but I’d be pissed off if someone is trying to have me hold 5 drinks with only 2 hands then tells me to help them … why in the world would u have to open a new coffee if u already have one open
Hmmm, it’s her money and he doesn’t contribute. The audacity lol. I will spend my money on what I want. They’re not even married!
It's her money and she can do whatever she wants with it! :P
Amen!!!
Core 😮
In the scene after this when they meet Ashley's friends and they ask about him sending money for his family back home. People that live in the States are conditioned to be selfish, mostly because you CAN be. If you don't take care of your kids, there's welfare, medicare and food stamps. If you don't take care of your Parents, there's Social Security and Medicaid. Ecuador does't have such institutions. If you don't take care of your kids, they will literally starve to death. If you don't take care of your parents, they're out on the streets. If Ashley wants Manuel to be her Husband, well he CAN'T LEGALLY WORK until he gets his documents, what is his family in Ecuador supposed to do in the Interim? Get over that nasty habit of eating?
He is correct about saving money by drinking less coffee. She must learn to be more disciplined and control her spending, and learn how to save money.
So he can send her money back to his family….. which he said was his privacy
Hmmm, it’s her money and he doesn’t contribute. The audacity lol. I will spend my money on what I want. They’re not even married!
Is it your money tho? he wants HER to save money so that could milk it all and give it to his family,
He didn't make shit.
frankly its her business, he only cares abt the money to save nd send it to his family, its her money for God's sake what does he has to do with it, disgusting man.
lol. save money on coffee. I'd cut off his internet.
Every time i hear him speak, I hear "pero señorita Laura" ! 😂😂😂
Lmfaoooo
I thought I was the only one!!!!! Lmao!!!
She is truly addicted to caffeine (and energy drinks?). It really isn’t good for your heart or nervous system. I DO think she’s saving money by making her own coffee but in the end, the health costs that come from such addictions are too great. 😢 He isn’t supposed to be working till he gets his work permit but there are so many people that work “under the table” or for friends till that happens. He needs a general labor or construction job to keep himself busy and to help contribute. If he has family in USA already, I’m wondering why they didn’t do his papers for him. 🤔 I know someone that is from Bolivia that had a family member do his papers and he was working with a work permit within a week of arrival. He’s working in the same industry as he did while living back in Bolivia.
That Bolivian guy is lucky
I mean look at her- not exactly the picture of perfect health
He'd have to work undocumented then which can jeopardize his visa
Why the hell do you need that much coffee?!
Are you an octopus 🐙 🤣😂🤣. 3 coffees definitely need more hands 🙌
Omg! I do NOT like this man/child! He is rude and bossy and very demanding to Ashley! I can't believe he's expecting her to support his family while he what..lays around and does nada??? She needs to send his ass packing across the river and be done with him .. period, point, BLANK! 🙄😑
as soon as she pulled out the doubleshot i saw myself in her and i had to do some soul searching
Tbh drink the coffee that’s not capped before opening a new one right? I can see how he’s irritated when she opened a new one when there’s so many coffee around. It’s bizarre.
No one on 90 day tells the truth except Ashley’s MOM‼️
I’m trying to find the clip of Ashley’s mom at gown store 😂 best comment ever in 90 day HISTORY ‼️ and it’s fitting for all the COUPLES.. she said “ Does this sound like a match made in heaven or somewhere ELSE ( HELL) “ 😂 😂 only KAREN call rival that one LIner.
I’m on his side on this and when you are in a relationship you need to figure these things out.
Well life goes on. Communication is key
Why is ashley putting up with this man child??? N he is behaving as if its her responsibility financially to look after his family.
she claimed the sex is good so she's paying for it.
I love when he called her an octopus
At least they have 9 brains and clearly she is not using the one she was allegedly given at birth
Mejor que la llame por King King
Todo show
Ashley is soooo cringe she has a very negative energy. I tried to like her but she only talks bad about him and is super controlling
I think Ashley is very disrespectful, domineering and overbearing, and she needs to chill
At the same time I think Manuel is using her. It’s obvious to everyone except her.
3 coffees and a phone and reaching for Kleenex in the back seat. Octopus 🐙 driving. Dangerous.
Seriously! She is ridiculous! WHY does she NEED 3 coffee's while she is driving? I'd be pretty damn pissed if I was him too! Who was holding her 3 coffee's before he came to America?
He's right. She's not an octopus 😑
At least they have 9 brains and clearly she is not using the one she was allegedly given at birth
He should buy her the sport fans hats with 2 cup holders plus bendy straws to not sweat the small stuff or pet the sweaty stuff.
What is he going to use for money?
@@hi-xf7cj See above for the solution and answer.
If he controls her money, it's more for him and his fam. Period. It's NOT about coffee 🙄😒.. He sees her "wasting" money he could be using. That's all it is. He is shady and doesn't have good motives. Y'all see any love there? Sorry Ashley, you can do better girl!
You are right on.
They so need to leave each other I don’t even understand why they are together. It’s pathetic.
Ashley's friends she always calls after every argument are saints! She also needs to grow up and stop informing her friends over everything. She is a lot even though Manual can be rude Ashley is a lot ot handle !
Manuel is tired of hogging
tonights episode she said she eats like a bird....kinda fluffy for a bird!
He is counting caffes that she buys from her own money
Why though she has. One coffee and the can that is annoying
This relationship is clearly a leach seeking a Green card and dump her when he's met his goals.
Ashley!🤗 You need you a THERMOS ❤
You call that explosive fighting? 😂 Try being dragged by a truck and getting your knee broke because you chose not to leave your own house in the middle of the night being forced out. That's explosive
on purpose and we all know it
I find her annoying, and he seems tired of her talk and her claims that she is a witch.
She is a terrible person - she demeans him and treats him aa a non - person. Hopefully he gets far away from her asap.
This Witch has some serious Main Character Syndrome.
If he was paying for her coffees I'd understabd it more but from what I see he doesnt contribute to his own expenses, let alone hers.
Juggling three caffeinated drinks was probably staged for the show. If not, she needs a nice thermos that fits in her car's cup holder. That could help.
Manuel is an old style guy, could be my father lmao. Ashley is more carefree, more youthful, I think their personalities don't match. Don't see the chemistry anywhere.
He would have problems Wich me because i drink coffee all day with my money not he's money he Yost doesn't want her to spend money so she can have more for him, omg she needs to leave him,
They clearly don’t like each other that mucj
😮😮😮😮leave her run he is not in love with her
I feel him though like you taking all that coffee with you and you want him to hold that shit fuck that I would’ve thrown it out 🙄
No me banco a este tipo! Que te importa si a ella le gusta tomar cafe si se lo paga con su dinero. Correeeee Ashley
Este compatriota nos hace quedar mal!!!! Pero no puedo decir que no hay muchos así. Qué triste
It's very hard to take Ashley seriously because if it were a black man, she would have left him in two seconds ago. Why there's so many single-parent families in the black community. Her speaking Spanish sounds like someone who struggles with reading. , 'The cat runs up a tree' Ashley translated would sound like this "El-------gato--------sube ----hacia--------en-----UN---ARBOL." She is clearly buying this guy, the notion of going to see a therapist and they don't even gotten marrried as yet is mind bending.
It's clear that she is buying this guy, the idea of going to see a therapist, even though they haven't even gotten married yet is mind-bending. But then again, Ashley might be an acquired taste for guys elsewhere other than the US.
Facts she doesn't like black men but will take bare minimum from other races. Also she sounds awful speaking Spanish
Hey Ashley, I think you really start need to you learn the language, but you never did learn the culture and that’s a damn shame because it’s such an insult to see another black woman actually in your friends judge this man who has more machismo than all three of you put together it’s just sad That you cannot understand coming from nothing and seeing you waste your money on too big ass cups of freaking caffeine in a day and that’s probably that’s enough money to feed his whole family in the morning. That’s just being selfish. I don’t know who your friends calling a manchild does he take care of his entire family? Does he have enough self-control to do that?
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Witch 🧙