I stop shooting my shot a long time ago. If I don’t get no kind of choosing signal, a compliment or even a smile, I’m not approaching or headed a woman’s way. I refuse to pursue a woman with low or no interest. Period
@@SharenaHartley well ma’am some of us men, whom actually value ourselves as well as our time and effort, have standards. Either respect it, be the type for us to approach or gone about your business
@@SharenaHartleyi think its more the fact that some women who dont be interested in a man that approaches her let it go to there head and get all dramatic or brag about a dude approaching them that they not feeling. I could be wrong though.
@@redmage8719 in the first place not really uncommon for women to just be teasing you instead of signaling so all that choosing signals and whatnot dangerous to rely on
@truettadevil Have you been living under a rock? Womnn thought that they could call "harassment" on the advances from the 90% of men that they don't want, while still receiving and basking in the wanted attention and advances from the small percent of men that they are attracted to.....That's not how life works, you take the good with the bad, or you don't receive at all. Now womnn are complaining that men don't approach them, don't court them, don't attend singles events, etc.etc.etc. I forsee a lot of cat/dog moms in the future, I'm racking up on pet stocks.
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It's true dude. He'll you don't even need to be talking TO them. Depending on the setting being in a gym with a certain type of woman while she films can get you falsely accused.
Maybe it's the way you carry yourself, and the way you say hello to them. Believe it or not, those small things matter. E.g. saying hello in a timid soft voice comes off totally different from a loud enough, confident voice. Many times this will elicit different responses from women. Place and timing matters also.
Some dudes aint trying to do all of mental gymnastics Tripp is talking about cause quite frankly its a waste of time.And just cause she look at you and crack a smile a bit dont mean thats a sign to shoot either. She just being nice and I learned that the hard way. He said the game has evolved right? Then why do most women still think stares and hairflips are effective means of communicating interest? In 2024, if you look at me im looking back and then going on with my day. If i see something I like, I approach, shoot and hope for the best. Tired of Mind games
This is why I hate this channel they cater to women too. Even if a guys does approach she gets everything she needs from the interaction. She gets attention, validation, and an ego boost. I have lost count of the time. I thought I perceived the signal made her laugh, flirted, and conversation just to hear "I have a boyfriend" at the end of it.
As a man, this is what I have observed: I think women don’t like being approached at the gym, grocery store, or while out with friends by men they are not attracted to. However, I believe women are receptive to being approached if they find the man attractive and if the approach is respectful. Although much of human communication is non-verbal body language, it can sometimes be misinterpreted. For example, a woman may be touchy-feely or exhibit open body language with the sole intention of being friendly. Additionally, a woman might be interested in a man and yet not display obvious indications of interest, especially since men are generally expected to be the pursuers. The best way for a man to understand where he stands with a woman is to approach her directly and clearly express his intentions.
@@tevbuff Correct. 💯 I just said this in the comment above. If we are attracted to you we won’t mind being approached by a man. 😅 Otherwise we like to be left alone.
@tinyking11 Absolutely, I understand that women prefer to be approached by men they find attractive. However, the reality is that all types of men will approach women, as men are usually expected to initiate romantic relationships. I just wish women could be more empathetic and gentle when rejecting men they’re not interested in, especially if the approach was respectful. Of course, there are men who won’t take no for an answer and may be aggressive, which understandably makes it difficult to turn them down. However, it does take a lot of courage and vulnerability to approach a woman you find attractive, a reality that many women might not fully appreciate since they typically don’t approach men.
Social Media REALLY recalibrates NORMAL organic social interactions. The less frequent these interactions, the more awkward they become for both parties.
Why is the dude who is usually so on point cosigning the nonsense. This is just a repackaged desire for the mind reading that women are infatuated with. Men, stop playing these teenage games with women. If she can't use her words like an adult then leave her alone.
Bro, these 304's are making these lames behave more and more. They have no sense now, talking about the game as "evolved"!! 😂😂 Then the one chick asking "What kind of choosing signals are you telling men to look for?"
Nag it needs to come from him. Why? These women don't realize they are the reason they are unhappy. Her question at the end was actually the most important part and we don't have it. Everything he said has been contradicted by science. The same signals she uses to choose are the same ones she uses when nervous or scared. Hell look up how Serena Williams met her dude. I wouldn't approach anymore. It's too risky foe your literal freedom.
They doNOT speak for me! Please approach me at the store, the park, inside the gas station, outside the gym, at the restaurant, festival, beach, airport, church or the aftercare pick up line..🤗 Please Do Not leave a reply(to me) if you are too childlike to comprehend that there was a successful social life BEFORE the internet!!! Cheese & Crackers 🤪
And these are suppose to be adults helping us to deal with real life problems. It's really our fault, we made them believe they're angels and princesses, forgetting to teach them about life and hw it works. Now we hv giant kids walking all over the earth and they're many
Nah, sounds too much like reading minds. This is why women are complaining about not being approached. They (not all) have made it too difficult and/or awkward…
I stopped that shit years ago. And it’s funny because for years women been saying they don’t like men tryna talk to them. Not even about the disrespectful approaches, just being approached in general. But when we finally oblige, that has also become a problem. Shit is mad confusing and exhausting. Like I said, I cut that out a long time ago.
Exactly! They were saying this 2012 on some "just in general" shyt LOL. But I've been said, we need to quit talking to these hos about it. Say what we say and leave it at that.
Damn I’m glad I’m married ……this shyt is getting weirder and weirder everyday……..Cats can’t even explore the possibilities of courtship anymore without feeling like they are harassing someone with a simple “hello” …but also I’m glad that there are still women and men out here that are open to the possibility of an exchange without making a “hello” feel awkward!!
@@Quiet_Elevation I keep telling my sister, u say marriage has it's own challenges, of course, I get that, but u better be glad u ain't out in these streets like me. Cuz it literally is changing for the worst. Basically EVERYONE I know is single, men AND women. And some of the few married ones have died. I'm like damn, even that spouse gotta get back in the pool, THAT'S rough
@@Quiet_Elevation WTF are talking about. What you said makes sense to you and only you. My point is being married changes nothing. A dog is gonna be just that with or without a ring. 🤡
Definitely be grateful for your marriage and I wish y'all happiness, bro🎉🎉 It really is a minefield out here😂 Sure, there's some females out here that appreciate being approached. However.. There's FAR more females that just take it as harassment OR they on their high horse a lil and they insult the dude making the approach. Either way, they would still be in the right in the eyes of the ignorant bystanders and that's just a game NONE of us should be playing no more.
to hell with all that, women need to approach men. nobody got time for all that, to much going on in the world to try and figure out these bi-polar women of today.
No matter hw we try to beat around the bush it will finally come to the point where most women will be approaching men. We went from shoot ur shot to body language, give it up it's dying out. Life will be too serious to be reading an adult like she can't verbally talk and express herself unlike a kid. Women will cringe at it for now cos it's strange but the paradigm is shifting, life is shaping up, redirecting till 2030. And downwards everything is solidified
Stay on your Grind Stay taking care of your finances Stay focused on building your credibility Stay focused on yourself… She noticed you now after two or three kids and weight gain She noticed you after being in a bad relationship for years That’s when you get all the signals… Like fire alarms
@saihemebillings2820 So I'm married and never had too hard of a time talking to women. But I have literally never been approached by a woman blind. If she knows me from somewhere or in with someone she knows sure. But I'm standing alone and a random hot girl walks up to me? Never ever once.
There’s another issue with “shooting your shot” people forget about and that is manipulative time wasters. You shoot your shot, she’s not really interested, but bored or her other “prospects” have “other prospects”. She’ll waste her time and yours because it’s not costing her anything to “play” with you, get your time, attention, and resources, only to kill time in between waiting for another Woman’s Man, or the Man they really desire, to have free time to spend with her.
Now you're acting like the woman. It will be times as these, sure. Moreso today. But trust me, if you're doing your vetting and due diligence, you'll see it WAY before it gets too involved.
You talking that REAL talk💯🔥. I have experienced this in recent times. Once I recognized what she was up to, I immediately removed myself from the conversation. One love❤🖤💚
@@grindhard4312 1. You’re assuming it’s “getting too involved”. 2. The fact that it happens between two adults is stupid to me. 3. I’m not acting like a Woman if I’m transparent with what I want and about off rip. I operate in good faith, I don’t have time to waste and I respect other people’s time as well. 4. People are dumb…
@@grindhard4312 I can't believe that you actually compared someone to a woman when you are using the precise shaming tactics they use. I'm sorry no one taught you better.
Social media has made people anxious and antisocial. People think human contact is weird. It’s killing the mating “ritual”. It’s made it okay to call someone a predator if he’s not attractive to a woman .
I rock with those who rock with me. If she’s not looking multiple times, and/or giving prolonged eye contact , smiling or saying hi as we walk past each other , or voluntarily coming in close proximity to my personal space (all while trying to play it off 😂) I’m not thinking about engaging . Have too much self respect to chase a chick down , perform in front of her friends or stupidly lead with money for a woman who seems indifferent at best. And the home girl thing is real , y’all really need to lose those bird brain friends that act a fool if you genuinely want to be approached in public. Sistas in general could be more friendly & inviting imo. Especially if you see what looks like a normal , easy going , down to earth man . For the shy ladies who want to be approached , if the back breaking effort of saying hi or getting out of RBF is just too much then you’re just comfortable in not getting the results you want. If you’re over 30 and still expect these interactions to be like the movies you’re in lala land . Women will work, study & out effort into everything under the sun , but expect a potential significant other (only the most important non-family connection in life) too randomly sweep them off their feet without working on themselves & actually being approachable .
I was informed by several of my female co-workers that a "smile" or a "wink" is no longer a signal to approach a woman. And this information was given by women between the ages of 33-50. All that told me was i am better off missing my ahot vs. being humiliated in public or labeled as something negative because of a misunderstanding.
Approaching a Woman shouldn't be treated like a Criminal Offense by Women. Instead, it should be considered part of normal interaction and it's ok to say no to a Man. And Men shouldn't take rejection as a personal insult, but an indication that she is not the one for you. However, no second chances should be kept as a mindset for Women that reject a particular Man. Because, Emotionally Mature Women should not make brass decisions in the midst of a Good Choice in a Man. That said, if a Woman does reject a Man initially, but later reconsiders her decision. It's 100% on the Woman to prove that she is worth a Second Chance. However, that Man still has every right to reject her still.
You all are making this way too difficult with these modern rules. Men approach as a gentleman, but never accost a woman, never follow, and never prolong a dull interaction.
Sorry man but look up gym videos where women literally falsely accuse dudes foe just being in the gym or walking by them while they film. Look up how Serena Williams got her husband. Look up the examples some of these women use for what cataloging is. Look up how some women are literally terrified of women approaching them in anyway. It has nothing ro do with men. Its the narrative now.
You can damn near say anything, if she finds you attractive it's a go, if she doesn't it's a no. As long as you're natural, confident, respectable, and look presentable it'll all come down aesthetics. If you're lacking in the aesthetics department then you're gonna have to dive into your joke bag early, make her laugh then offer to buy a drink or take a shot. This gives you an opportunity to not only separate her from the herd but to leave a lasting impression that increases the chance of her hitting you back in the case that you exchange contact info. That's the game in its simplest form.
@@chimaubabuike9774 precisely. It's the humor for me. Even if I'm not attracted, if u make me laugh, the odds are in ur favor. And that's how many have gotten my number and a relationship.
@tonyshearin4707 Yes, I feel you! You've given me the courage to try it. You're so right about not taking a chance and losing. I met this guy a few weeks ago, and we chatted, but I forgot to give him my number. I thought I had time, but he realized whom he was with left him and dipped😭😭
@tonyshearin4707 That's true, too. That night, I was in the moment. I could definitely tell he was interested. I caught him staring at me a few times. Once my friend got up from the table, he came over and talked to me. Things were going well, and then that happened. I really feel like he wasn't thinking at that time when he realized he friend or family member left him that he forgot to get my number. I feel like we're both punching the air lol
Fells, leave them all alone. It's not supposed to involve all this mind-reading and smoke signals. If you find yourself having to do all this then you're not attractive enough to be shooting your shot in the first place. Leave them alone in public and try to meet them in other ways.
Why can’t we go back in time were women dropped their handkerchief on the ground in front of the man she likes and hopes he will pick it up which would start a conversation.
He does have pearls of wisdom from time to time, but he is simping for the women way to much. Women want to be left alone? Fine. DO NOT approach women. Period. They want to be left alone, GRANT THAT WISH! Ignore them.
I'm glad he said this but I want for the women to speak on this because in reality the same women who say don't approach are the same ones that get mad at dudes not approaching.
A smile, look, and wave once eye contact is made is an unconfusable signal. Reality is we live in the age of instant gratification so accuracy is very important. Using signals that guarantee accuracy like the one i mentioned is part of how we fix the approaching problem. The other part is women working on their tolerance of where they are being approached. The gym, grocery store, and gas station are perfectly acceptable places to approach someone and you never know if you will ever see the same person ever again. So we have to take shots when they are available not when they are convenient for you.
I'm fine being approached at the grocery store, gym, etc. Just make sure you can take a hint and take a rejection gracefully if I'm not open to flirting/asking me out. Just don't approach me when I'm working at my job.
If women don’t want to be approached at the gym , grocery stores, laundromat, etc. That means they don’t want to be bothered at all so why should a man shoot his shot with women!
I can appreciate what the brother is saying BUT, I have told all the young men in my family to never approach any unknown or uncleared women. If they need help they should call the correlating agency to what they need.
@DoctorResults….I totally agree with you! I’m a 58yo woman so I come from an era where it was much less complicated. Men approached and took their chances. If not the grocery store, gym or wherever…then where 🤷🏿♀️? My advice: Young men…continue to approach and be respectful…And to the beautiful young ladies, be approachable. If someone approaches you and you’re not interested, be honest, flattered and respond with kindness. I love and respect y’all’s generation for talking about these topics but it’s really not that complicated…Just get out there, mingle, be RESPECTFUL and believe that the universe, God or whatever you believe in will put in your path those that are meant for you. Signed, Auntie ❤
I had a friend tell me that, Men are afraid of rejection. Women are afraid of being killed. Another point is that not all men approach as respectfully as they should.
@@indigophoenix27”getting killed” by who? If all men did that, there would be no humanity. Generalization is not good. By that logic all women are infanticide enablers.
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Only traditionally attractive men in the upper ranges of appearance are going to get that kind of body language from a woman at a distance. That would work for Tripp. Ordinary-looking men are going to have go where women have their same interests and try to _talk_ to them, cues or not.
Thing that has happened to me multiple times: I walk down a street or a hallway and a woman, or multiple women, are coming from the opposite side. The closer we get to passing they avert their eyes, look down, and fold their arms around their breasts. I have made no obvious, outward advances nor stared, in fact, making a conscious decision to look past them, especially as we pass. Am I just super ugly? I cannot help but notice this behavior and it's becoming harder and harder to not confront them when they do this. It happens a lot.
They do this to me too, particularly women that are in the 18-30 range. Or, I’ll be at a bar, sitting next to a woman, and she’ll purposely turn her back to me in her stool, when I’d have no intentions of talking to her, it would just be the only stool available at the bar and I sat in it. This type of behavior over time will make you start resenting women.
I don't think it's about attractiveness, most women have had at least one or 2 really bad experiences with a man that may leave them feeling uncomfortable interacting in an enclosed space like a hallway, or out on the street. It's because of the way a lot of men mistreat women, ultimately. It doesn't matter if you're hot, men still may present a threat.
I’ve heard it’s intimidation, nervousness all sorts of things. For me if any woman looks at the ground, looks away or looks up and act like you ain’t there then she ain’t interested my mind.
Dating out here is like constantly having to reformat your resume for different jobs you applying for. Being single looking like a Sunday in the Summer.
Some women are generally friendly don’t mean she like you. I get what he saying and as a man I can admit some men are pigs and or can’t take no for an answer so we are a big reason for this mess today but we’ve seen for years that women want to be left alone especially in certain settings so why is it a problem that many men of are listening now. Online dating is a big thing now I think in part because of this but people be lying there so much that it’s a lose lose all around
Yea.. I work at a grocery story, and I just focus on work. Don’t want no woman being weird when we tryna shoot our shot. We don’t wanna be labeled as creepy or deal with women who on some stuck up shit. They make it seem like they don’t want a good man to speak to them when they’re out. A few of my co-workers flirt with me and I’m cool with that. I know they ain’t gone act like the women who shopping in the store.
Too many women nowadays wanna feel the "vibes" at legit 1st sight..In a lot of ways this entire process has made women lazy in the communication department..Now I will admit the approach some men take is unbecoming and should be met with less than favorable results but Tripp hit it right when he said if attraction is there..There's actually a sector of women who actually ARE single and may have a level of attraction to you but get rush from rejecting people..Ultimate toxicity..
@Alexandrite7 Nice try..Women are notorious for "game playing" if you're that shy & nervous get that man's social media info & converse later until you're ready to become comfortable..In 8 out of 10 cases 30+ year old Women have already missed out on their potential long term mate with the awkward "shyness" you speak of..
@sidfalcon7714 Sound like the typical redpill guy. It's always a woman's fault. You know, you just admitted to not believing a woman has feelings and that she could possibly be shy. And what does this have to do with women over 30? See, that's another indicator of the type of guy you are. Stop watching the manosphere, and maybe you will have the balls to approach women! 😉
Women you can't have it both ways either we go back to a culture where it's ok for men to approach (and yes there will be some you don't like and have to say no) but will eventually be approached by the right one OR keep saying y'all can't be bothered and continue app swiping
Cold approaching stopped being a viable option for men a long time ago. That cold approach is an extreme gamble these days. More than likely, your mate is gonna come from your social circles where you somewhat know the person and your connection forms organically. Too much awkward, “what ifs” in this social climate that can easily turn into something seriously negative.
I need him to finish this segment and educate women on how to make it clear they are throwing an assist because I’ve heard too many women share not knowing how to be clear without seeming desperate. I know it’s an art but if there was more dialogue around it I think we would see it more.
This is an issue because so many of our parents failed to teach men how to properly court a woman, and they didn't teach women how to receive the proper courtship from a man. Poor parenting is a reason for a majority of societal problems we see today.
Here’s a few other thoughts: Consider the various reasons that contribute to the lack of dating skills in this modern age. Many children grow up in fatherless homes, which means they miss out on the guidance and example a father can provide. Growing up with a single mother can lead to challenges in understanding healthy relationships due to the absence of a father figure. It might also cause trust issues or fear of commitment and make it harder to handle conflicts well in future relationships. Even in families where both parents are present, if the parents are divorced and/or living together without love or respect, children will not witness healthy, loving relationships. This lack of positive role models deeply affect their understanding of how to form and maintain meaningful relationships. Also, the hookup culture promotes casual and physical relationships, which undermine the value of committed, respectful courtship. Social media also plays a significant role, often distorting perceptions of relationships and promoting superficial interactions over genuine connections. When people are not taught by example or through conversations about how to properly court and build lasting relationships, they struggle majorly. It's truly sad to witness these, as they lead to a cycle of unfulfilling and unstable relationships.
@@chimaubabuike9774 How one is raised influences their maturity level. At 22, people are adults, not children. Also, many older people (30+) can unfortunately still lack maturity. I know many parents, including my own and my in-laws, extended family, and friends who were married and had children before the age of 20. I love hearing their stories about their early marriages because it shows how much they have grown through marriage and family.
The purpose of "courting" is marriage, acknowledged by both parties from the start. "Dating" is a different thing, invented in the 20th century that was not necessarily leading to marriage. But if you're talking about "courting," you're talking about an intention of marriage on both parts. Confusing those actions leads to confusion in relationships.
has nothing to do with location. it has everything to do with attraction. if a woman is attracted to you, she doesn't care where you approach her unless she is out with her man.
Let’s be real women want to be the pickers. so now they see nobody checking for them, how you want to be courted but pick who courting that’s not how it works.
I met my current man in a store parking lot I was seconds from getting in my car and I just heard someone say excuse me and he introduced hisself and here we are a year later doing good. I didn’t give him any signs to approach because I wasn’t even paying attention he just came out of nowhere it seemed like.
I speak my lil "Hello," and start in on whatever is happening at that time. If she reciprocates, we can continue. If not, I step off right away. 🤷🏿 It's not hard, and I'm not pressed... and I do not consider myself physically attractive.
It's a shame that human interaction has devolved to this. This is why men don't know how to talk to women now. Everything is creepy and scary now. The only way to meet folks now is online. It's pathetic!!
Best course of action is don’t approach at times, unless you see this woman in an environment every week and its bothering you that you’re attracted to her. I say get it out your system all she can do is turn you down, it’s her loss at the end of the day. Now if you see a random woman you find attractive don’t approach, because you’re not in an environment that allows you to approach over common ground and your chances are even lower. Now on top of all this if she aint making it easy when you talk to her, not talking about sex but her leading you in to talking to her like her being responsive and showing genuine interest. Also her getting hyped up about everything you say or laughing at stuff you say that may not be funny, thats how you know…. These are very rare cases since women standards of what is attractive has raised above average to something unreachable to most average men
I live in a "Baby mama Island". It's similar in concept to a food desert (although opposite in influence) Shooting your shot here is volunteering to a step-dad 👍
Gentlemen, approach women wherever you want, gym, grocery store, etc. If she likes you she'll appreciate it and if she doesn't, move on...just don't let entitled women who overate of themselves convince you to stop approaching the beautifulandhumble ones.
Fellas, the best way to alleviate any discomfort the ladies may have in that arena, is to simply just let them approach you. Their interest in you will not be any clearer than that!
Case in point why everyone shouldn't speak... There are countless relationships that have succeeded to all levels from a man going out of his way to approach a distracted, preoccupied woman... Listening to lonely feminist, not right with themselves has him sounding like the same feminist...
No matter hw we try to beat around the bush it will finally come to the point where most women will be approaching men. We went from shoot ur shot to body language, give it up it's dying out. Life will be too serious to be reading an adult like she can't verbally talk and express herself unlike a kid. Women will cringe at it for now cos it's strange but the paradigm is shifting, life is shaping up, redirecting till 2030. And downwards everything is solidified
@Violetz_r_blue Shut yo ass up, because ain't no Bing Bing Bing not at all, too much games being played and childish shit, so majority of us men don't even approach nor shoot our shot. #1 It ain't worth it, #2 No one time for the games and jumping thru hoops that most of you women wanna take us men thru, and #3 Majority of us men stay to ourselves
Here is the best advice i can give for men in general but especially in 2024 for approaching women. First off never walk towards a woman. If you are next to her for some external reasons (bus stop, sitting next to on train, etc), that is your basis to talk. Also, never come on to the woman. Comment about your environment (be mindful if changes in the environment you can swiftly talk about). And never close. If you started a dialog, she is free to close as you did the work to open the convo. If she does not close, she was not interested enough. Example: i was on a train. Extremely cute girl came on and sat near me because it was the spot with an outlet (charge phone). Another dude was thirsty and staring at her. So i wrote on mh phone and showed her "this dude is staring like he wants to eat you". We both laughed. When he got off I asked her would she have given him a shot, she said no. We spoke a little more about somrthing else and then i got up for my stop coming next and said good night. She asked a second later what the next stop was because it was hers. As we got off i just said goodnight again and that was it. She did not close. So this is what i call breaking even. I showed i could interact but did not show she is above me by giving her the common attention she always receives. So i dont feel rejected at all because i was not rejected. Even if she was not into me, she leaves feeling i was not into her, because everybody tries to close on her. Now if she was to ask me more person questions once i started the convo, i could have followed up with more personal question and ended with a neutral closer like, "well maybe we could go do that sometime" (based on what we were talking about) and she is free to say yes and give her number. This day in age its all about not giving your valuable attention to somebody that thinks you are just another random number because you are not.
what's terrifying is that even if the women are the ones approaching, it can also turn south real fast depending on how she FEELS (false accuse you before, during, and after the approach regardless of who approached who + the women can go scotfree with said false accusation of labeling you as a creep and such)
What women are saying this? If men can’t approach us at the gym, grocery store or the library or whatever. Where are they supposed to approach us at home? Some women are silly 😂
I agree body language says a lot, but I also believe how you approach when the opportunity is given. If come in calm cool then yea they’ll feel your vibe/energy. But if you come in crazy with high energy, a dub will more then likely happen.
Women are just gonna have to approach men more they do everything else they want to do when they want to and how they want to..........how hard is for the ladies to go up to a man they are interested in say hello and have a conversation?
All rules go out the window when its someone they are attracted to. If they just approached the guy instead it would solve the "oh i hate being approached nonsense"
How about both parties, men and women just learn to say hello, then proceed from that aspect?? Act like fucking adults and speak to people you want to speak to #CLOSEDMOUTHSDONTGETFED
I stop shooting my shot a long time ago. If I don’t get no kind of choosing signal, a compliment or even a smile, I’m not approaching or headed a woman’s way. I refuse to pursue a woman with low or no interest. Period
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Bradley Campbell that is the problem with men today
@@SharenaHartley well ma’am some of us men, whom actually value ourselves as well as our time and effort, have standards. Either respect it, be the type for us to approach or gone about your business
@@SharenaHartleyi think its more the fact that some women who dont be interested in a man that approaches her let it go to there head and get all dramatic or brag about a dude approaching them that they not feeling. I could be wrong though.
Agree 100💯.....
Women: “stop approaching us in public!”
Also women: “why don’t men approach us anymore?”
Can’t fathom WTF the problem might be 😑
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This right here I was looking for it
At this rate, women are gonna have to start approaching guys themselves and be clear about it. Hints are not gonna cut it anymore.
@@redmage8719 in the first place not really uncommon for women to just be teasing you instead of signaling so all that choosing signals and whatnot dangerous to rely on
They said stop being fucking creepy. I swear yall obtuse as hell
@@redmage8719 I personally ignore their bullshit hints. gotta do better
Women killed the game
@@justrhaze7072 It's bad enough that they killed chivalry.
Agree and we suffering because of it 😓
@@jasminealexia in what way are women suffering from it?
@@redmage8719 doesn't sound like men are the leaders if women can kill chivalry and emasculate you so easily...
@truettadevil Have you been living under a rock? Womnn thought that they could call "harassment" on the advances from the 90% of men that they don't want, while still receiving and basking in the wanted attention and advances from the small percent of men that they are attracted to.....That's not how life works, you take the good with the bad, or you don't receive at all. Now womnn are complaining that men don't approach them, don't court them, don't attend singles events, etc.etc.etc. I forsee a lot of cat/dog moms in the future, I'm racking up on pet stocks.
*Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2020 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me*
There's wonder working power in following Kingdom principles on giving and tithing. Hallelujah!
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Thanks to my co-worker (Michael) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy
She gave me the autonomy I need to learn at my own pace and ask questions when I need to she’s so accommodating.
Why should men even approach?
Women even find "Hello" offensive these days.
When hello is offensive you should be single sorry. Yes I said it yep 👍
It's true dude. He'll you don't even need to be talking TO them. Depending on the setting being in a gym with a certain type of woman while she films can get you falsely accused.
Women don't want you to approach them, and you sound mad about it
Maybe it's the way you carry yourself, and the way you say hello to them. Believe it or not, those small things matter. E.g. saying hello in a timid soft voice comes off totally different from a loud enough, confident voice. Many times this will elicit different responses from women. Place and timing matters also.
@@truettadevil
How is he mad? He literally stated why men don’t approach. Didn’t show any anger in his statement. You’re just coping to hard. 😂😂😂
Some dudes aint trying to do all of mental gymnastics Tripp is talking about cause quite frankly its a waste of time.And just cause she look at you and crack a smile a bit dont mean thats a sign to shoot either. She just being nice and I learned that the hard way. He said the game has evolved right? Then why do most women still think stares and hairflips are effective means of communicating interest? In 2024, if you look at me im looking back and then going on with my day. If i see something I like, I approach, shoot and hope for the best. Tired of Mind games
Heavy on the mental gymnastics King😂😂
You told no lies…
This is why I hate this channel they cater to women too. Even if a guys does approach she gets everything she needs from the interaction. She gets attention, validation, and an ego boost.
I have lost count of the time. I thought I perceived the signal made her laugh, flirted, and conversation just to hear "I have a boyfriend" at the end of it.
@@UnbiasedlyPetty Stares and hair flips are mostly just an attempt to use guys for attention.
As a man, this is what I have observed: I think women don’t like being approached at the gym, grocery store, or while out with friends by men they are not attracted to. However, I believe women are receptive to being approached if they find the man attractive and if the approach is respectful.
Although much of human communication is non-verbal body language, it can sometimes be misinterpreted. For example, a woman may be touchy-feely or exhibit open body language with the sole intention of being friendly. Additionally, a woman might be interested in a man and yet not display obvious indications of interest, especially since men are generally expected to be the pursuers.
The best way for a man to understand where he stands with a woman is to approach her directly and clearly express his intentions.
Agree! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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@@tevbuff Correct. 💯 I just said this in the comment above. If we are attracted to you we won’t mind being approached by a man. 😅 Otherwise we like to be left alone.
@tinyking11 Absolutely, I understand that women prefer to be approached by men they find attractive. However, the reality is that all types of men will approach women, as men are usually expected to initiate romantic relationships.
I just wish women could be more empathetic and gentle when rejecting men they’re not interested in, especially if the approach was respectful. Of course, there are men who won’t take no for an answer and may be aggressive, which understandably makes it difficult to turn them down.
However, it does take a lot of courage and vulnerability to approach a woman you find attractive, a reality that many women might not fully appreciate since they typically don’t approach men.
I totally agree with you 💯
Social Media REALLY recalibrates NORMAL organic social interactions. The less frequent these interactions, the more awkward they become for both parties.
Good point. I think this is an underrated aspect that we don’t talk about enough.
Social media fosho! People rather swipe on an app, instead of organically meet people
Why is the dude who is usually so on point cosigning the nonsense. This is just a repackaged desire for the mind reading that women are infatuated with. Men, stop playing these teenage games with women. If she can't use her words like an adult then leave her alone.
Damn!! Scrolling through the comments, and you are the only one with common sense. Anytime you play childish games, you are now a child.
Ladies at this point you have only 2 choices:
1. Be blunt
2. Be gone
Hints ain't gonna cut it no more.
Bro, these 304's are making these lames behave more and more. They have no sense now, talking about the game as "evolved"!! 😂😂 Then the one chick asking "What kind of choosing signals are you telling men to look for?"
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Nag it needs to come from him. Why? These women don't realize they are the reason they are unhappy. Her question at the end was actually the most important part and we don't have it. Everything he said has been contradicted by science. The same signals she uses to choose are the same ones she uses when nervous or scared. Hell look up how Serena Williams met her dude. I wouldn't approach anymore. It's too risky foe your literal freedom.
They doNOT speak for me! Please approach me at the store, the park, inside the gas station, outside the gym, at the restaurant, festival, beach, airport, church or the aftercare pick up line..🤗
Please Do Not leave a reply(to me) if you are too childlike to comprehend that there was a successful social life BEFORE the internet!!! Cheese & Crackers 🤪
Lol 😂
Wish there were more like you, miss!
Agreed 💯🌻
@tbreeze415 we are here it's just most men are too feminine these days to approach women. They expect us to.
@@tbreeze415 there's quite a few of us left. Happy hunting 🤗
Women nowadays choosing signals be so messed up...."I blinked at him three times and he didn't even respond". It's like they teenagers for life
And these are suppose to be adults helping us to deal with real life problems. It's really our fault, we made them believe they're angels and princesses, forgetting to teach them about life and hw it works. Now we hv giant kids walking all over the earth and they're many
@@jesuschristiscomingsoon8243 numerous LOL
A thing about approaching a women you giving her the things she wants the most attention, validation, and an ego boost.
Who are these women???!!! I be waiting for someone to approach me in a grocery store - we both lock eyes as we reach for the same carton of eggs 😂😂😂😂
I needed a good laugh 😂😂😂
@@BC2023NYC 😂
Like those movies scenes 😂
@@mibbzx1493 exactly 😂
Girl same
Nah, sounds too much like reading minds. This is why women are complaining about not being approached. They (not all) have made it too difficult and/or awkward…
Only men are saying that women are complaining... I haven't seen a single woman complain about not being approached
It's reading minds
I stopped that shit years ago. And it’s funny because for years women been saying they don’t like men tryna talk to them. Not even about the disrespectful approaches, just being approached in general. But when we finally oblige, that has also become a problem. Shit is mad confusing and exhausting. Like I said, I cut that out a long time ago.
Exactly! They were saying this 2012 on some "just in general" shyt LOL. But I've been said, we need to quit talking to these hos about it. Say what we say and leave it at that.
Damn I’m glad I’m married ……this shyt is getting weirder and weirder everyday……..Cats can’t even explore the possibilities of courtship anymore without feeling like they are harassing someone with a simple “hello” …but also I’m glad that there are still women and men out here that are open to the possibility of an exchange without making a “hello” feel awkward!!
@@Quiet_Elevation I keep telling my sister, u say marriage has it's own challenges, of course, I get that, but u better be glad u ain't out in these streets like me. Cuz it literally is changing for the worst. Basically EVERYONE I know is single, men AND women. And some of the few married ones have died. I'm like damn, even that spouse gotta get back in the pool, THAT'S rough
@@shannonbrown4601 indeed @ changing for the first
Married men approach me the most, IJS
@@Quiet_Elevation WTF are talking about. What you said makes sense to you and only you. My point is being married changes nothing. A dog is gonna be just that with or without a ring. 🤡
Definitely be grateful for your marriage and I wish y'all happiness, bro🎉🎉
It really is a minefield out here😂 Sure, there's some females out here that appreciate being approached. However.. There's FAR more females that just take it as harassment OR they on their high horse a lil and they insult the dude making the approach. Either way, they would still be in the right in the eyes of the ignorant bystanders and that's just a game NONE of us should be playing no more.
to hell with all that, women need to approach men.
nobody got time for all that, to much going on in the world to try and figure out these bi-polar women of today.
You're not wrong 😅😅😅👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
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Lmfao
No matter hw we try to beat around the bush it will finally come to the point where most women will be approaching men. We went from shoot ur shot to body language, give it up it's dying out. Life will be too serious to be reading an adult like she can't verbally talk and express herself unlike a kid. Women will cringe at it for now cos it's strange but the paradigm is shifting, life is shaping up, redirecting till 2030. And downwards everything is solidified
Facts 😂
Stay on your Grind
Stay taking care of your finances
Stay focused on building your credibility
Stay focused on yourself…
She noticed you now after two or three kids and weight gain
She noticed you after being in a bad relationship for years
That’s when you get all the signals…
Like fire alarms
My wife approached me first. I was with somebody. Six months later i was single and saw her again, asked her out and 14 years together. 50/50
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Serendipity what was meant to be was meant to be 🫡
Your the rarest of rare cases brother.
@@xexkansichinah he’s up there because women go after who they like.
@saihemebillings2820 So I'm married and never had too hard of a time talking to women. But I have literally never been approached by a woman blind. If she knows me from somewhere or in with someone she knows sure. But I'm standing alone and a random hot girl walks up to me? Never ever once.
A lot of females today are saying guys do not approach. Meaning the guys they want aren’t approaching . Do they ask themselves why?
Trip is a verbal sniper. He Never misses
I totally agree!
Truth be told Trip gone tell it💯🎯
BIG FACTS
TRUTH!!
💯 that part!
Same thing for women if a man doesn’t want to be bothered leave him alone also two way street. Matter of fact don’t even say hello to me!
If you say a friendly hello, he assumes you want to have his baby.😅😂
Man I am glad I am married. You single dudes have it hard out here now 😂 They getting extra goofy.
This ish is ridiculous mam, who in the h to e l l doing all that. Taking my talents to other places[LeBron voice]😂
There’s another issue with “shooting your shot” people forget about and that is manipulative time wasters. You shoot your shot, she’s not really interested, but bored or her other “prospects” have “other prospects”. She’ll waste her time and yours because it’s not costing her anything to “play” with you, get your time, attention, and resources, only to kill time in between waiting for another Woman’s Man, or the Man they really desire, to have free time to spend with her.
Now you're acting like the woman. It will be times as these, sure. Moreso today. But trust me, if you're doing your vetting and due diligence, you'll see it WAY before it gets too involved.
You talking that REAL talk💯🔥. I have experienced this in recent times. Once I recognized what she was up to, I immediately removed myself from the conversation.
One love❤🖤💚
@@grindhard4312 1. You’re assuming it’s “getting too involved”. 2. The fact that it happens between two adults is stupid to me. 3. I’m not acting like a Woman if I’m transparent with what I want and about off rip. I operate in good faith, I don’t have time to waste and I respect other people’s time as well. 4. People are dumb…
@@grindhard4312 I can't believe that you actually compared someone to a woman when you are using the precise shaming tactics they use. I'm sorry no one taught you better.
Social media has made people anxious and antisocial. People think human contact is weird. It’s killing the mating “ritual”. It’s made it okay to call someone a predator if he’s not attractive to a woman .
I rock with those who rock with me. If she’s not looking multiple times, and/or giving prolonged eye contact , smiling or saying hi as we walk past each other , or voluntarily coming in close proximity to my personal space (all while trying to play it off 😂) I’m not thinking about engaging . Have too much self respect to chase a chick down , perform in front of her friends or stupidly lead with money for a woman who seems indifferent at best. And the home girl thing is real , y’all really need to lose those bird brain friends that act a fool if you genuinely want to be approached in public.
Sistas in general could be more friendly & inviting imo. Especially if you see what looks like a normal , easy going , down to earth man . For the shy ladies who want to be approached , if the back breaking effort of saying hi or getting out of RBF is just too much then you’re just comfortable in not getting the results you want. If you’re over 30 and still expect these interactions to be like the movies you’re in lala land . Women will work, study & out effort into everything under the sun , but expect a potential significant other (only the most important non-family connection in life) too randomly sweep them off their feet without working on themselves & actually being approachable .
I was informed by several of my female co-workers that a "smile" or a "wink" is no longer a signal to approach a woman. And this information was given by women between the ages of 33-50. All that told me was i am better off missing my ahot vs. being humiliated in public or labeled as something negative because of a misunderstanding.
Approaching a Woman shouldn't be treated like a Criminal Offense by Women.
Instead, it should be considered part of normal interaction and it's ok to say no to a Man.
And Men shouldn't take rejection as a personal insult, but an indication that she is not the one for you. However, no second chances should be kept as a mindset for Women that reject a particular Man. Because, Emotionally Mature Women should not make brass decisions in the midst of a Good Choice in a Man. That said, if a Woman does reject a Man initially, but later reconsiders her decision. It's 100% on the Woman to prove that she is worth a Second Chance. However, that Man still has every right to reject her still.
Screw relationships, stay single. It's better for us as men both physically, and mentally as well as financially 🙏🏼
You all are making this way too difficult with these modern rules. Men approach as a gentleman, but never accost a woman, never follow, and never prolong a dull interaction.
No
and never be aggressive
These aren't modern rules, just common knowledge. Males act like they can say and do anything without any kind of self or social awareness.
Sorry man but look up gym videos where women literally falsely accuse dudes foe just being in the gym or walking by them while they film. Look up how Serena Williams got her husband. Look up the examples some of these women use for what cataloging is. Look up how some women are literally terrified of women approaching them in anyway. It has nothing ro do with men. Its the narrative now.
I m good
You can damn near say anything, if she finds you attractive it's a go, if she doesn't it's a no. As long as you're natural, confident, respectable, and look presentable it'll all come down aesthetics. If you're lacking in the aesthetics department then you're gonna have to dive into your joke bag early, make her laugh then offer to buy a drink or take a shot. This gives you an opportunity to not only separate her from the herd but to leave a lasting impression that increases the chance of her hitting you back in the case that you exchange contact info. That's the game in its simplest form.
@@chimaubabuike9774 precisely. It's the humor for me. Even if I'm not attracted, if u make me laugh, the odds are in ur favor. And that's how many have gotten my number and a relationship.
Yup men stopped cold approaching and not taking women on dates. Those days are primarily over
Those women dont speak for me. Approach me anywhere!
You forgot the part "I'm just kidding"
@@t.valtorguhgen6512 I'm not!
@tonyshearin4707 I see. I'm shy, but it looks like I'll have to come out of my shell
@tonyshearin4707 Yes, I feel you! You've given me the courage to try it. You're so right about not taking a chance and losing. I met this guy a few weeks ago, and we chatted, but I forgot to give him my number. I thought I had time, but he realized whom he was with left him and dipped😭😭
@tonyshearin4707 That's true, too. That night, I was in the moment. I could definitely tell he was interested. I caught him staring at me a few times. Once my friend got up from the table, he came over and talked to me. Things were going well, and then that happened. I really feel like he wasn't thinking at that time when he realized he friend or family member left him that he forgot to get my number. I feel like we're both punching the air lol
Fells, leave them all alone. It's not supposed to involve all this mind-reading and smoke signals. If you find yourself having to do all this then you're not attractive enough to be shooting your shot in the first place. Leave them alone in public and try to meet them in other ways.
Hes absolutely right though..just plain eye contact isnt enough.
Why can’t we go back in time were women dropped their handkerchief on the ground in front of the man she likes and hopes he will pick it up which would start a conversation.
He's right about the gym. Unfortunately, women influencers have f***ed that up, too.
He does have pearls of wisdom from time to time, but he is simping for the women way to much. Women want to be left alone? Fine. DO NOT approach women. Period. They want to be left alone, GRANT THAT WISH! Ignore them.
I'm glad he said this but I want for the women to speak on this because in reality the same women who say don't approach are the same ones that get mad at dudes not approaching.
A smile, look, and wave once eye contact is made is an unconfusable signal. Reality is we live in the age of instant gratification so accuracy is very important. Using signals that guarantee accuracy like the one i mentioned is part of how we fix the approaching problem. The other part is women working on their tolerance of where they are being approached. The gym, grocery store, and gas station are perfectly acceptable places to approach someone and you never know if you will ever see the same person ever again. So we have to take shots when they are available not when they are convenient for you.
I'm fine being approached at the grocery store, gym, etc. Just make sure you can take a hint and take a rejection gracefully if I'm not open to flirting/asking me out.
Just don't approach me when I'm working at my job.
If women don’t want to be approached at the gym , grocery stores, laundromat, etc. That means they don’t want to be bothered at all so why should a man shoot his shot with women!
Fuck all that, she gotta choose!
Make her put her pride down and let you know that you wants you!
I can appreciate what the brother is saying BUT, I have told all the young men in my family to never approach any unknown or uncleared women. If they need help they should call the correlating agency to what they need.
😂😂😂 omg excuse me😂
@DoctorResults….I totally agree with you! I’m a 58yo woman so I come from an era where it was much less complicated. Men approached and took their chances. If not the grocery store, gym or wherever…then where 🤷🏿♀️?
My advice: Young men…continue to approach and be respectful…And to the beautiful young ladies, be approachable. If someone approaches you and you’re not interested, be honest, flattered and respond with kindness.
I love and respect y’all’s generation for talking about these topics but it’s really not that complicated…Just get out there, mingle, be RESPECTFUL and believe that the universe, God or whatever you believe in will put in your path those that are meant for you. Signed, Auntie ❤
Unfortunately ma’am it is that complicated these days.
I had a friend tell me that, Men are afraid of rejection. Women are afraid of being killed. Another point is that not all men approach as respectfully as they should.
@@indigophoenix27”getting killed” by who? If all men did that, there would be no humanity. Generalization is not good. By that logic all women are infanticide enablers.
Tripp basically saying read the room. Not every woman is worth the effort. And also, refine your standards for yourself. Be worth the effort yourself
Heavenly Father only you can change my situation, You have provided this far. I need a miracle today please come and rescue me. As a single mother, raising not one but two children on the spectrum I am overwhelmed and I’m constantly struggling to pay bills. Struggling to buy groceries, struggling to do it all. But I won’t give up faith is all I have left and faith is all I need. I believe Father.
Only the real trully understand how on point Tripp is on this!!!!!
This dude stays on point fr fr
I love it when he emphasize on certain subjects! He always hits it on the nail !
I'll do whatever I want. Women don't know what they want.
Only traditionally attractive men in the upper ranges of appearance are going to get that kind of body language from a woman at a distance. That would work for Tripp. Ordinary-looking men are going to have go where women have their same interests and try to _talk_ to them, cues or not.
Thing that has happened to me multiple times: I walk down a street or a hallway and a woman, or multiple women, are coming from the opposite side. The closer we get to passing they avert their eyes, look down, and fold their arms around their breasts. I have made no obvious, outward advances nor stared, in fact, making a conscious decision to look past them, especially as we pass. Am I just super ugly? I cannot help but notice this behavior and it's becoming harder and harder to not confront them when they do this. It happens a lot.
They do this to me too, particularly women that are in the 18-30 range. Or, I’ll be at a bar, sitting next to a woman, and she’ll purposely turn her back to me in her stool, when I’d have no intentions of talking to her, it would just be the only stool available at the bar and I sat in it. This type of behavior over time will make you start resenting women.
I don't think it's about attractiveness, most women have had at least one or 2 really bad experiences with a man that may leave them feeling uncomfortable interacting in an enclosed space like a hallway, or out on the street. It's because of the way a lot of men mistreat women, ultimately. It doesn't matter if you're hot, men still may present a threat.
I’ve heard it’s intimidation, nervousness all sorts of things. For me if any woman looks at the ground, looks away or looks up and act like you ain’t there then she ain’t interested my mind.
@@ADubbs-fd8xfdon't care they are weak gender
Dating out here is like constantly having to reformat your resume for different jobs you applying for. Being single looking like a Sunday in the Summer.
Some women are generally friendly don’t mean she like you. I get what he saying and as a man I can admit some men are pigs and or can’t take no for an answer so we are a big reason for this mess today but we’ve seen for years that women want to be left alone especially in certain settings so why is it a problem that many men of are listening now. Online dating is a big thing now I think in part because of this but people be lying there so much that it’s a lose lose all around
Like my man said the game and the rules have changed the days of the guy approaching and initiating convo's are over with.
"certain environments" has been expressed as "outside in general" is the communication issue.
Don't be rude is a given.
Yea.. I work at a grocery story, and I just focus on work. Don’t want no woman being weird when we tryna shoot our shot. We don’t wanna be labeled as creepy or deal with women who on some stuck up shit. They make it seem like they don’t want a good man to speak to them when they’re out. A few of my co-workers flirt with me and I’m cool with that. I know they ain’t gone act like the women who shopping in the store.
Too many women nowadays wanna feel the "vibes" at legit 1st sight..In a lot of ways this entire process has made women lazy in the communication department..Now I will admit the approach some men take is unbecoming and should be met with less than favorable results but Tripp hit it right when he said if attraction is there..There's actually a sector of women who actually ARE single and may have a level of attraction to you but get rush from rejecting people..Ultimate toxicity..
Or, it's just simple.....she could be shy. A lot of people don't acknowledge this. Women are sometimes nervous and unsure, just like men.
@Alexandrite7 Nice try..Women are notorious for "game playing" if you're that shy & nervous get that man's social media info & converse later until you're ready to become comfortable..In 8 out of 10 cases 30+ year old Women have already missed out on their potential long term mate with the awkward "shyness" you speak of..
@sidfalcon7714 Sound like the typical redpill guy. It's always a woman's fault. You know, you just admitted to not believing a woman has feelings and that she could possibly be shy. And what does this have to do with women over 30? See, that's another indicator of the type of guy you are. Stop watching the manosphere, and maybe you will have the balls to approach women! 😉
Women you can't have it both ways either we go back to a culture where it's ok for men to approach (and yes there will be some you don't like and have to say no) but will eventually be approached by the right one OR keep saying y'all can't be bothered and continue app swiping
I’m not doing all that bs. Only thing I chase is money, it always acts the same.
Cold approaching stopped being a viable option for men a long time ago. That cold approach is an extreme gamble these days. More than likely, your mate is gonna come from your social circles where you somewhat know the person and your connection forms organically. Too much awkward, “what ifs” in this social climate that can easily turn into something seriously negative.
I need him to finish this segment and educate women on how to make it clear they are throwing an assist because I’ve heard too many women share not knowing how to be clear without seeming desperate. I know it’s an art but if there was more dialogue around it I think we would see it more.
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There is a time and place for everything, but he is absolutely right!😮
Staying single is the best option right now.
For you. Good, work on yourself and heal 💜🥰
@@EarthAngel888-v5sin general
@@EarthAngel888-v5s
For Everyman. Too bad some of them have to learn the hard way. Oh well.
This is an issue because so many of our parents failed to teach men how to properly court a woman, and they didn't teach women how to receive the proper courtship from a man. Poor parenting is a reason for a majority of societal problems we see today.
A lot of the parents were damn near kids themselves, who knows how to teach at 22?
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Here’s a few other thoughts: Consider the various reasons that contribute to the lack of dating skills in this modern age. Many children grow up in fatherless homes, which means they miss out on the guidance and example a father can provide. Growing up with a single mother can lead to challenges in understanding healthy relationships due to the absence of a father figure. It might also cause trust issues or fear of commitment and make it harder to handle conflicts well in future relationships. Even in families where both parents are present, if the parents are divorced and/or living together without love or respect, children will not witness healthy, loving relationships. This lack of positive role models deeply affect their understanding of how to form and maintain meaningful relationships.
Also, the hookup culture promotes casual and physical relationships, which undermine the value of committed, respectful courtship. Social media also plays a significant role, often distorting perceptions of relationships and promoting superficial interactions over genuine connections.
When people are not taught by example or through conversations about how to properly court and build lasting relationships, they struggle majorly. It's truly sad to witness these, as they lead to a cycle of unfulfilling and unstable relationships.
@@chimaubabuike9774 How one is raised influences their maturity level. At 22, people are adults, not children. Also, many older people (30+) can unfortunately still lack maturity. I know many parents, including my own and my in-laws, extended family, and friends who were married and had children before the age of 20. I love hearing their stories about their early marriages because it shows how much they have grown through marriage and family.
The purpose of "courting" is marriage, acknowledged by both parties from the start. "Dating" is a different thing, invented in the 20th century that was not necessarily leading to marriage. But if you're talking about "courting," you're talking about an intention of marriage on both parts. Confusing those actions leads to confusion in relationships.
has nothing to do with location. it has everything to do with attraction. if a woman is attracted to you, she doesn't care where you approach her unless she is out with her man.
This man right here! 💯💯💯🎯🎯
Let’s be real women want to be the pickers. so now they see nobody checking for them, how you want to be courted but pick who courting that’s not how it works.
I met my current man in a store parking lot I was seconds from getting in my car and I just heard someone say excuse me and he introduced hisself and here we are a year later doing good. I didn’t give him any signs to approach because I wasn’t even paying attention he just came out of nowhere it seemed like.
I speak my lil "Hello," and start in on whatever is happening at that time. If she reciprocates, we can continue. If not, I step off right away. 🤷🏿
It's not hard, and I'm not pressed... and I do not consider myself physically attractive.
It's a shame that human interaction has devolved to this. This is why men don't know how to talk to women now. Everything is creepy and scary now. The only way to meet folks now is online. It's pathetic!!
Best course of action is don’t approach at times, unless you see this woman in an environment every week and its bothering you that you’re attracted to her. I say get it out your system all she can do is turn you down, it’s her loss at the end of the day.
Now if you see a random woman you find attractive don’t approach, because you’re not in an environment that allows you to approach over common ground and your chances are even lower.
Now on top of all this if she aint making it easy when you talk to her, not talking about sex but her leading you in to talking to her like her being responsive and showing genuine interest. Also her getting hyped up about everything you say or laughing at stuff you say that may not be funny, thats how you know…. These are very rare cases since women standards of what is attractive has raised above average to something unreachable to most average men
If you want a man to approach you
Lock eyes and Smile
It’s that simple ladies.
A woman can be interested, send choosing signals and still say No just because she can, and then wonder why no one approaches her 💯💯💯💯
I promise you men, if you just focus on building a craft and skills , then market it, women will find you, its really that simple
I live in a "Baby mama Island". It's similar in concept to a food desert (although opposite in influence)
Shooting your shot here is volunteering to a step-dad 👍
Gentlemen, approach women wherever you want, gym, grocery store, etc. If she likes you she'll appreciate it and if she doesn't, move on...just don't let entitled women who overate of themselves convince you to stop approaching the beautifulandhumble ones.
Lmao
Fellas, the best way to alleviate any discomfort the ladies may have in that arena, is to simply just let them approach you. Their interest in you will not be any clearer than that!
Let me simplify it, I'm finna get my bag $$$ and I already got my passport.
He don’t miss 💯💯💯
Case in point why everyone shouldn't speak... There are countless relationships that have succeeded to all levels from a man going out of his way to approach a distracted, preoccupied woman... Listening to lonely feminist, not right with themselves has him sounding like the same feminist...
Thank you! I actually prefer to shoot my shot first honestly!
I really be in the house because i don't even see dudes make attempts anymore.
For what
Like he said, it is difficult to gage if a woman is interested or not.
This is why we don't approach women
No matter hw we try to beat around the bush it will finally come to the point where most women will be approaching men. We went from shoot ur shot to body language, give it up it's dying out. Life will be too serious to be reading an adult like she can't verbally talk and express herself unlike a kid. Women will cringe at it for now cos it's strange but the paradigm is shifting, life is shaping up, redirecting till 2030. And downwards everything is solidified
Being oblivious, this makes it seem like I'll be alone forever
Bing, bing , bing!!!! 🎉ON POINT
@Violetz_r_blue Shut yo ass up, because ain't no Bing Bing Bing not at all, too much games being played and childish shit, so majority of us men don't even approach nor shoot our shot. #1 It ain't worth it, #2 No one time for the games and jumping thru hoops that most of you women wanna take us men thru, and #3 Majority of us men stay to ourselves
Here is the best advice i can give for men in general but especially in 2024 for approaching women. First off never walk towards a woman. If you are next to her for some external reasons (bus stop, sitting next to on train, etc), that is your basis to talk. Also, never come on to the woman. Comment about your environment (be mindful if changes in the environment you can swiftly talk about). And never close. If you started a dialog, she is free to close as you did the work to open the convo. If she does not close, she was not interested enough.
Example: i was on a train. Extremely cute girl came on and sat near me because it was the spot with an outlet (charge phone). Another dude was thirsty and staring at her. So i wrote on mh phone and showed her "this dude is staring like he wants to eat you". We both laughed. When he got off I asked her would she have given him a shot, she said no. We spoke a little more about somrthing else and then i got up for my stop coming next and said good night. She asked a second later what the next stop was because it was hers. As we got off i just said goodnight again and that was it. She did not close. So this is what i call breaking even. I showed i could interact but did not show she is above me by giving her the common attention she always receives. So i dont feel rejected at all because i was not rejected. Even if she was not into me, she leaves feeling i was not into her, because everybody tries to close on her. Now if she was to ask me more person questions once i started the convo, i could have followed up with more personal question and ended with a neutral closer like, "well maybe we could go do that sometime" (based on what we were talking about) and she is free to say yes and give her number.
This day in age its all about not giving your valuable attention to somebody that thinks you are just another random number because you are not.
Nah fuk all that, just don't approach ..lmao
Women made it more awkward then it already is and the demanded not to approach or be bothered so they got what they want. Im not jumping through hoops
Women made dis shit hard asf
what's terrifying is that even if the women are the ones approaching, it can also turn south real fast depending on how she FEELS
(false accuse you before, during, and after the approach regardless of who approached who + the women can go scotfree with said false accusation of labeling you as a creep and such)
What women are saying this? If men can’t approach us at the gym, grocery store or the library or whatever. Where are they supposed to approach us at home? Some women are silly 😂
Preach and Facts Tripp Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️
Thank you for breaking it down, sir👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yall realize interaction between men and women is getting more difficult for the same if not worse results.
I agree body language says a lot, but I also believe how you approach when the opportunity is given. If come in calm cool then yea they’ll feel your vibe/energy. But if you come in crazy with high energy, a dub will more then likely happen.
Women are just gonna have to approach men more they do everything else they want to do when they want to and how they want to..........how hard is for the ladies to go up to a man they are interested in say hello and have a conversation?
He's basically saying every woman is the same 😂
All rules go out the window when its someone they are attracted to. If they just approached the guy instead it would solve the "oh i hate being approached nonsense"
Yeah the body language is always leave me alone though.
Or, just leave them alone like they asked us to do. Lol
How about both parties, men and women just learn to say hello, then proceed from that aspect?? Act like fucking adults and speak to people you want to speak to #CLOSEDMOUTHSDONTGETFED
Amen!!
Hints ain't gonna cut it no more, ladies.