She said her mother didn't teach her about marriage, then later all she saw was her mother taking care of her sick father. HELLO, her mother was showing her the realest part of marriage and relationships.
That was sad to watch how could she not see that my parents have stayed together they argued and fix it they seem happy they found a way they are much more secure
A year after getting married at age 50, I had a stroke that left me looking crazy for about 6 months. And during that time, not only did my young wife help nurse me back to health - she was not ashamed to be seen with me while my face was messed up for several months. On the flip side, a few years later, soon after my wife gave birth to our daughter, she had a health issue for several months that I had to be patient with. So... the duty of couples keeping their word to each other to stay for better or worse goes both ways. Nobody ever thinks they'll get sick or injured. But when it happens, they'll wish they had a loyal helpmate to help take care of them. Being single when we're young, strong and healthy with no kids is great. BUT LIFE DON"T STAY THAT WAY!
I'm 52, I married at 25, my wife was 24, she got hurt working and had a spinal surgery at 28 and I took physical care of her for two years after and she had 7 more surgeries after and I've taken care of her off and on for the last 20 years it's not easy, but it's what I signed up for and after 31 years together, it's still love and happiness. These new kids are useless... SMH
@@Ghanaba23 If woman are leaving relationships at 80% aren’t they the ones “quitting the job” that’s the difference, a man will do the job even when he doesn’t want to
This girl just assumed that she's gonna be the one taking care of her sick husband but she never considered that she could be the one who might need someone to take care of her.
That statement right there. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 exactly. You don't know and to assume she'll have to bear someone. What if it went the other way? I wouldn't want to suffer someone with her outlook and opinions either..
I'm trying to hear everything he has to say. It's saving me so much time picking dates. Knowing what to ask and how to spot red flags. How to act. It's just a wealth of insight and information.
@@tradesinfavors9672 And you deserve it fam because you deserve happiness as a Human Being. Good Luck to you on this insightful journey fam. And don't let their true nature make you bitter. Don't settle unless it's a Quickie and Do better personally. Everything else will fall in place My Brotha ✊
My Play sister is a early 50's white woman from Alabama. She went to Auburn University in the late 80's early 90's. She told me that finding a husband was many WF only agenda for going to school. Watching this Also makes me think why those rich WP were paying so much money illegally to get their children into prestigious colleges (the cases that come to mind were mostly for their daughters 🤔).
More like , Handsome , 6 figures , 6 feet 2 or more , Bed room Specimen , have a heard of women swooning over you , but don't you dare cheat on me , These chicks Expectations or too unrealistic
As a 30-year-old Who wishes I could’ve had an inkling of this conversation back when I was 25 PLEASE don’t take this for granted... please time will go by fast and you will realize what he was saying .
My dad told me as a child " losers make excuses winners make sacrifices. Don't make excuses cause your friends don't need them. An Your enemies don't wanna hear them." Ps. Thanks for the love 💓 in the comments everyone i showed my pops n it made his day knowing his words not only touch me but other people around the world 🌎
Even the term entrepreneur has been cheapened. It used to only apply to innovation, then it was anyone who started a business. Now it seems to be anyone who makes side money whether legal or not.
This is so sad... as a young woman Kevin has helped me realize many of us can be soooo delusional about the reality of the lives we live and the role we play in our own lives. This makes us look so bad, many of us need to wake up.
I've been married for about as long as she's been alive and this is unbelievable, entertaining and sad. The problem I encounter is that single women don't want advice from a married woman, they want the fairytale.
Facts the only fairytales that are realistic are the ones that are base on love. Beauty and the Beast, Shrek, and the story about Nala and Simba. All those other fairytales can go down the drain.
@Rae love men wont marry because of the family court system. That alone is enough to deter a man worth hos salt from tying the knot, and ladies dont want to heat it but it IS THE NUMBER ONE EEASON WHY A GUY WILL NOT COMMIT TO A MODERN LIBERATED WOMAN BECAUSE SHE will DIVORCE YOUR ASS THE MINUTE SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG.. prove me wrong....
@Rae love good for you and your family but, what are the expectations of who you want to marry? 100g a year or 60g a year? Tall or average height? Fit or out of shape? College degree or not?
He is definitely growing in subscribers. I am white and I think his message Transcends race. Even if race or ethnic identity plays a major role in the black woman experience, I know many low value, low class, high educated white woman with the same attitude. I am happy that black men have a voice through Kevin, and many of the white folks I know wish we had a voice, with balls, to speak for us to women. We have too many effeminate males who wear this skin. All men need to listen to Kevin and all women need to learn from Kevin.
My ex was on that “partnership” bs. Wanna be partners when it’s time to make decisions but ghost when it’s time to pay for shit. They don’t wanna be partners they want a man to take care of them and they boss the man around.
partnership when it suits them. They want to RECEIVE from the 'partnership' is what they really mean ! They want to receive from a man; from a man's business ! from a man's relationship; from the world!
Cardi B sang, "I don't cook, I don't clean...", then her boyfriend posts a video of her with a broom sweeping the floor, telling her not to lie in her music🤷♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
53 yr old white guy here. This man is a man amongst men,he’s so intelligent and everyone should be listening to his advice and changing their lives. There is nothing I’ve heard him say that I don’t agree with 100%. He’s seen the future and it’s not going to end well for so many people. It’s hard to comprehend where he gets the strength and fortitude to continue, I’ve got nothing but the utmost respect for him.
I agree. Woman here. When I was growing up in a white middle class environment; the young girls were constantly told that they needed to get married. in their last teens and early twenties. They were warned against becoming like "Aunt Cathy" the woman who never married. Some people consider the terms "spinster" and "old maid" demeaning but they packed a punch. We were explicitly movementa campaign against the terms "old main" and "spinster." They heavily promoted the idea of putting career before marriage, thereby increasing the risk of no marriage whatsoever childrenrelentless campaign against the nuclear familiy. Marriage (formerly a day of joy for women) was now presented as drudgery and bordeom. Very, very sad. IMHO feminism's true source is Marxism. Lenin was quoted as stating that he wanted to destroy the family. Funny to read that so many years after his death.
You're correct, it's not gonna end well for many of them. I do financial counseling on the side and they are so far from where they need to be financially. They will have to work till death and that's if their health holds up.
toxic is usually the i got bored and wanted better or their way of shifting blame... if u dig deep enough, only few cases ull find a legit reason for their exit
I want to take the time to congratulate the women who managed to watch this with an open mind and learn something because unfortunately most of them won't.
What I don’t get is why they think it’s so easy to make 100k? Not just BW, any women. I met my husband at 22 at a job where we made 7$ an hour. I made more at my part time seasonal mall job. I hear younger women say that and think, it’s not so easy to make 100k. And if he does, you will then complain he is at work all the time. I thought with women working, it would help ease the pressure off men from being sole breadwinners. It seems it has put more pressure on men who have to earn more than she does! Crazy world.
I work in an extremely casual environment (ie my own repair business) and I can wear whatever I want, and since I’m around silicon valley tech millionaires and they’re wearing $200 sweatpants and $400 New Balances so do I. Athleasure FTW HOWEVER *every* man should have a well fitted suit and know how to wear it. You never know when a power businessman or an opportunity is going to present itself and if you don’t know how to wear a suit *properly* it’s going to be a wasted opportunity.
And seems not to have any honor or respect towards her father! Dare I say that she resents him for having to require the end of life care his mother provided. If that’s the case, she don’t even deserve a low or no value man.
I know a guy who got married, 6 months in his wife had a stroke, stayed wheelchair bound for the next 10 years until she left him a widower at 40. People don't understand what this marriage business is really about.
Anyone else see how she was rolling her eyes when she said "cooking" and "cleaning"? She looks down on that kind of stuff. Her facial expressions were telling how she really felt.
I just asked my 6 year old daughter who is supposed to teach her what a wife and a mother should be and she pointed to me!!! Even a child can figure this out! Smh... 🤦♀️
For a wife, my daughter said me and for a husband, my son said my husband. Then my daughter, unprompted, immediately followed up with “they don’t teach you any of this in school!”
11:10 "[My Father] passed away when I was young. 21:49 "My Father was sick for the majority of my life. My mother took care of him.... she took care of him for years." The first statement she made indicated she hardly knew her father as he lived them only briefly before passing when she was young. The second statement she madev10 minutes later indicates he was alive but sick "the majority" of her life. She contradicted herself for the sake of supporting different points she was trying to make at given times in the conversation. This demonstrates how malleable and unreliable women's statements can be. Women like to avoid talking in specifics. They answer specific questions in vague terms, generalizations and statements that can't be pinned down to actual facts. This gives them a lot of wiggle room to lie by implication. That's one reason why they get so upset with Mr. Samuels. He usually doesn't let them get away with that. He will sometimes keep hammering them with the same question over and over until they finally give a specific answer, and they get enraged from being forced into telling uncomfortable truths.
@@mac1bc Sad, but true. But the bad attitude might actually be a blessing in disguise. Because if smiling is too much for a brother to ask for, the bad attitudes a *lot* of sisters carry around might be the equivalent of a “Beware of Dog” sign. Consider yourself adequately warned, and respond accordingly.
Modern Code Words: Starting with " I feel like" " I hear what you're saying, but" " I believe" "I understand, however" " I don't think" " Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" " That's true, but" " I'm trying to be respectful" " I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" " I understand, but" " Well...I dont see it that way" " If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" " I was with a high value man, but..." " I've dated high value men, but..." " I don't think that's fair..." " I want to introduce a different perspective..." " I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." " Well...look at it this way..." " How do you know..." " Yes & no..." " Me personally...." " Femininity depends on..." " What do you mean by..." " I dont have to..." " I was engaged, but" " I filed for divorce" " I broke off the engagement" " But kevin...." " Okay mr samuels" " Do you have problems with black women" " Well...men do it too" " Why do women have to need men" " Who hurt you..." " You hate black women" " I'm speaking my truth..." " I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" " That's a great point kevin, but" " I have a question for you" " Not all men are great men, but" " I'm not trying to make excuses for women but" " I dont think I'm overweight..." " Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe" " As a woman myself, I don't think" " Yeah, but alot of black men are broken" " Black women still love black men, even though..." " I had kids with him, but he was crazy" " Well...I was young & dumb.." " Do you think...etc...no judgement though.." " Well...when a woman does it..etc.." Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
It’s called conversation! 😂Get use to women don’t need to be how you want them to be! It’s called a wonderful world of just agree or disagree as much as you like! ✌️ pretty cool no?
I love how he highlights there is absolutely nothing wrong with being average living an ordinary life with an ordinary man is an honour! There is plenty of life in the ordinary.
True. It's getting old with all this high-end everybody-has-to-be-baller yet nobody outside that world knows shit about what it actually takes or how it actually is. Grass is always greener on the other side... from a distance.
I felt he was very unfair to her and wanted to treat her as though she WAS being disrespectful. All the disrespect I saw in this video was coming from his direction.
Did you see the face she did when she said “I can cook , I can clean “ and she rolled her eyes...it’s like saying “if I’m forced to....”😂😂😂😂 You can’t make this s...up!!!!
@@gabetorresx right its sick as men we gotta stop allowing this behavior just not deal with women that think like this Not even for sex and they will learn
the internet lives forever - and here is the tape of her telling a man when he gets sick, she is gonna bounce. Do your homework fellas - this is only a sidechick
She didn't look down on it, she said it was hard and wasn't ready for that. She was being honest that she wasn't ready to be a wife right now. What did you hear???
This girl's idea is to travel, meet Mr. Right, get married. This girl's reality. Approaching middle age, average looking, below average income in a high cost of living area. She doesn't Kevin. She needs a miracle from God. I hope she recognizes it if it happens.
Acting like she gon' control the marriage to work at 28 lol what if the relationship dont work? she didnt factor that in, then another years wasted . Just give your life to Christ and let the Lord lead you girl.
She is saying that there are opportunities to meet men everywhere around the world. The problem is, she doesn't realize that foreign men like "traditional" women. Good luck to her!
@Mike, that's a really good point. Women in the west (especially the U.S., Canada, and the UK) need to understand that men in other countries generally hate feminists more than western men do. Men in other countries also aren't into "fat acceptance" (or "body positivity") and they don't think older women have "a lot to offer".
@@danny2120 , I agree with you. I was trying to say that, although western men hate feminists, non-western men hate feminists even more. Too many western men have been socialized into accepting feminist nonsense, while non-western societies have done a better job of marginalizing feminist ideology. But clearly a backlash is brewing in the west. The rise of the manosphere and the decline in marriage rates is causing alarm among modern women.
@King Slayer it takes good judgement to aquire all the things you describe. Leadership is based on ones ability to have good judgement. Nobody follows a fool no matter how "Alpha" he thinks he is.
@@berabiz3512 The foundation of a leader is good judgement. The foundation to success is good judgement. The foundation to being a good father and husband is good judgement. A man without good judgement is a fool and a failure. Knowing right from wrong and executing good logical judgement is a mans role in the world. We are the caretakers for leading the world and passing the world off to our children better than we found it. Most men and woman are too rooted in feelings to judge appropriately.
Her demeanor is like this with a male adult who she doesn't know, imagine being in a relationship with her? And this is a public presentation, good luck to what she really is in private.
@@Chipiliro613 short answer yes. I have a complete disinterest in dating at this point. Im also not perfect but if I was trying it wouldn't be that hard but why try is there any benefit that I'm not seeing, sex yeah because you need to be dating to get her out of her clothes. Lol you could be right. I could be a total piece of shit and no girls want me but that hasn't been my experience.
She is setting herself up for a bad mid life crisis!!! I am 42 and I have friends that thought just like her. They are still single with no kids and are mostly alcoholics
I'm nearing my 20th anniversary and while character and negotiation are certainly required to have a successful long-term relationship without the triumph of love; the relationship will die from all the small irritants people overlook, a death of 1000 tiny cuts that love typically heals.
@@ClockworkWyrm Marriage is a business transaction and love is the cherry on top. Westerners have grown accustom to loving the person they are with while people in Asia and Africa see it as a necessity to get out of an impoverished community or to spread the legacy of a prior generation.
The eye rolls after saying guys like a woman who can cook says it all. She has contempt for men and what they want. She doesn’t understand reality. That’s the attitude that’ll keep her single forever.
She's perfecting a casual lifestyle, but wants exceptional marriage results. God bless Kevin because this conversation alone was exhausting. She's partnering herself to the streets and don't even know it.
fax , they very good at « acting » like they your soulmate but it’s just a trap.. men do the choosing, so don’t get angry to her if you chose the wrong one ,cause these women expect you as a MAN to know when they lying or full of ish (like kevin did with this girl)
Whenever I hear Kevin ask “who ended it?” I have yet to hear a woman say “He did.” They are the ones who end it. For better or worse, that just shows that men are more committed and ready in the relationship than woman.
Men don’t leave unless a woman gets incredibly ill.... Women are always told they can do better so will replace a guy or be single.... then think they can get back into a relationship easily
I watched this with both my sons, our ages are 55, 31, 29...We were all stunned at how complete this young woman delusions are, my youngest son said she is a future cat lady in training.
I deadass came here to hate him, pick him apart, see a true narcissist at work....BUT BABAAAYYY I learned more with him than I did in these past 29 yrs....❤️❤️❤️ Mr Samuels
@@juniorjames7076 1. Men don't care about your Money or edu as much as we do...That's what I lead with 2. Learn how to be a wife is ok... Because amongst my friends I can't say "I want a man or need a Man" MY FRIENDS WOULD DRAG ME N MAKE IT SEEM AS IF I DONT LOVE MYSELF N SPEAK INDEPENDENCE INTO ME, so therefore I avoided trying to learn n just have hope w/I actually putting in work.. 3. I also learned that men want feminity.. Because all I see is Cardi B's n black woman struggle on tv n amongst our friends...4.Its a Duty to be a wife n mother... Because by tv friends n my upbringing all I heard was gossip of wives being mistreated but yet babymama-hood is more glamorized...idk but I'm unhappy. That's why I want to see more black men n a positive light because honestly I only seen my dad..but he was a single dad most of my life
BLESS you for being so real and sharing that here. ...I actually DO believe that alot of the "harsh" advice that Mr. Samuels is giving to young black women on his channel is a *true* form of "tough love". It's time that we open up our eyes and get out of all the self-defeating *DENIAL*. So good on you @Britney Young for your comment.
This is sad. The minute Kevin mentioned that she won’t retire comfortably with the money, her solution is to get married. But later in the video she said she didn’t want marriage. 😩🤦🏾♀️😢
It's that only child syndrome on full blast on full display. She is delusional and more concerned in this moment about being right and not looking bad.
I appreciate so much how he demands respect, and calls out any behavior he sees that go against that. I'll admit, as a man I've found myself being treated in ways, I don't appreciate at all by women, but out of some misguided fear of being labeled, sexist, misogynistic, "Toxic" I dont call it out when I should be. I learn more from this man on how to act properly than the women that actually talk to him i swear. Us younger men need better role models like this.
"It was becoming toxic" is the classic irresponsible response to believing I can do better. Guess what, almost all of you can't. "It was becoming toxic." is the foremost predictor of a unsuitable woman ending up as a cat lady. "We were hurting each other" is newspeak for, I had to hurt him so I could defend leaving him.
Damn. I was wondering what was the meaning behind TOXIC & U cleared it up. Toxic gets thrown around so much it can mean all types of things depending on how they feel. Like when some ppl use racist, just because they disagree or we argue doesn't mean racist nor toxic lol. My man - Denzel voice
If you spent years interacting with people in these drama-filled conversations you would be good at this too. I don't know many men who would spend too much their time in these types of conversations. Too emotional. The money would have to be really good.
@@xandykkaudy8252 the point is that there are far more women than men. Making it even worse, knowing that there are more men being husbands than women being wives.
The scariest part about all of this is that there are millions of modern women (BW especially) that think just like her. Don’t put up with this men not worth the squeeze.
It doesn’t matter the age, nationality, mental or physical health, employeed or unemployed, kid or no kid they want the exact same thing and think the exact same way.
@@freshwaveentertainment Yeah, we know. This is about modern women, so-called Black women specifically, who grew up in Western Society, more specifically the US and Canada. I know for a fact sistas on the Continent are different and have more respect for men...they are raised differently than women in Western Society.
You damn strait marriage is hard. When my wife (of 36 years) had a brain tumor thought my life ended. We got through it, not one second was it oh woah is me. It was for better or worse. I feel for you young men these days.
When the worse happens in this generation, the women generally leave the relationship or cheat while being in the relationship, which in turn, makes the man cold.
Brother I've shared my story with other men and they all wonder why I have started on a book. I tell them I can grant her that type of attention. Lessons and blessings is what I've got from the betrayal. Stay well!
Even my moms. White woman, 4th gen Irish. She was VERY VERY proud of her accounting degree. & it helped raise me, but not even 5 years after she married the Most Generous & Most Awesome STEP-FATHER a bastard like me could ask for married my moms, she became a stay at home wife...."it's so hard & I deserve so much more!" is what I have ALWAYS heard from her. Try to get her to sell her crochet, she been doing it for 30 years, & she SCOFFS & says "I do this for fun" & I love my step-father, He done a lot for me, & has taught me more than I could even ask for. I feel bad for him, dealing with my moms. idk how he manages to love her, but I'm thankful for it.
@@user-ws3sl9xi7y It's not a dad thing. It's a man thing. Role model. Someone with their head screwed on right, paying attention to what actually matters. No guarantee that a dad could do it any better just because dad, it's not a superhero label by default. Sadly.
She doesn't want to get married because her husband *might* get sick? Probably just as well... she'd roll out on him in his darkest hour and take that winning sense of humor with her.
I think her watching that scenario as a kid scared her to pieces. I think it comes from a place of fear, not selfishness. Her nervousness when she talked about it I think ks thought it was her being smart but those eyes looked real hurt to me. That’s literally the ONLY memory she had of her mom and dad as a kid that she mentions. That tells it all. She’s trying to maintain a stiff face and laugh but she’s quite fearful. She’ll need therapy or else she will stay commitment phobic
@@sarchi-xo3029 lol I'm sure that's not the only relationship that she knows of.. if her scare is that her future husband might become terminally sick then she's dumber than a bag of rocks.
@@ginanacole3012 seriously? A 25 yo woman is still haunted by her childhood experience of her mom doing her wifely duty and honouring the vow she took. It's fine for her (as a child) to be scared of having to do the same as a wife, but it's completely selfish of her to continue to harbour such fears as a 25 yo woman who has access to much more information than she did as a child. I wonder whether she has ever considered the possibility that of her being in her father's position in a long-term care home because she has no one to do the husbandly duty her mom did.
Damn, she's cute and I was like "I definitely would date her" until she said she was damn near 6ft tall. I said "Oh nvm" then Kevin said that reduces your option and I was like "This man don't miss"
She was a 5 at best.. average, not cute. But i don't get why you would feel insecure about her height. If she was willing to date shorter men, why should you care about her height? Usually though it is women who don't like to date men who are shorter than they are.
So, I've been married 42 years. My wife has been ill since 1990. Bedridden since 1995. I have been her primary caregiver at the same time "I" raised our 5 children. Our doctor has told me that my wife won't last too much longer. I have done my duty! When the time comes, I will go on with my life, but I won't be looking for a LTR or marriage. I don't see any women of any race that will be worth the effort. Oh, I am healthy and retired with a good pension. I am not worried about dying alone. 5 adult kids and 9 grandchildren. I don't see any women from my generation (or any generation) that have, what I have obtained. Nor do I see any women that are worth the risk to my resources, or the effort to date. I'll finish my life doing what I want, when I want.
Live your life, bro. Everybody dies alone. A marriage contract does not change that. Living your best years just to set yourself up for care in your last few sick months is no way to live. Take your money and enjoy your time on tropical islands with a fun cutie. Stay single.
Honestly, i don't have the kids or grandkids. But as I date... Well even this girl believes that she should be paid 100k to clean her own house, feed her own children, and set out an extra seat at the table? It ain't worth it.
@@jakemccoy “with a cutie” dont you have a daughter? You just mentioned you had a daughter in a different comment on this video? Hypocrites like yourself make me sick, may be your daughter should be that “cutie” he enjoys,
I married later in life. I have double degrees and my husband is a Union man of 37 years and makes six figures. We, together, are every day millionaires. If I had listened to my peers, he would have been the one that got away instead of the one that works hard, supports his family and works together to build wealth. What the hell has happened to the women today?
@@mindofmantae8288 Going to stick up for mothers here a little - ultimately it is down to the individual... half these kids simply do not listen to parents and have little respect for others.. some kids just choose that attitude regardless. I see it daily.. I can already see good willing parents trying their best with their kid but when you look at their kid you just know there will be issues
You partially answered your own question. "If I had listened to my peers". Modern women are giving and taking the worse possible advice to/from each other.
I discovered Kevin's PodCast a few months ago and although I don't watch it very often the times that I do I absolutely dig it. I recognize Kevin as a person with much Old-School knowledge and wisdom that is very helpful.
I'm going to hate to admit this, but I'm starting to really come to tears and start to cry about some of these women mindset.It's painful and it's heartbreaking,and I'm being truthful, it brings me to tears of how blind they are, , just my two cents from a distance 😔😔🌎👑 have a nice day
Cry, but stay at a distance. These women have been lied to at the deepest level. People joke but it started with Disney. It’s a fairytale and they are in a trance. Myself for some reason I never got into movies. Im thankful. I even stopped watching TV in my 30s. Now in my 50s I do not have the programming that most to do.
@@TheAnointedSamurai excellent comment. I understand the uplifting intent on women calling themselves queen but it takes more than words to make it a reality. Without work, the pseudo title queen is about viable as a Chuck E Cheese's coin when you're trying to but a luxury car.
@@rm5282 Correct. The completely diluted its meaning. Many men are waking up to the fact that they can demand & enforce standards without shame. The next 5-10yrs will be interesting.
My mother didn’t teach me how to be a wife. I think this is the case for most black women. She always told me to make my own money and be self sufficient. When I got married, I quickly learned that this thinking does not work!
That’s such a deep statement. Many mothers are not wives , so it’s almost impossible to teach something you are not. It’s a vicious cycle out here for the black community.
Umm have you ever been to church, or had extended family ? Usually that’s where feminism and proper edict was taught even to kids who didn’t have a full families the community steps in and helps.
My question to that would be, but that's not what you did mom? I think some mother's thought by following the feminist guidelines, it would make better women. In fact it destroyed women.
@john doe Sounds good in theory, but it will fail. It's simply too late for our vvomen. They have/had *WAY* too many partners, too many of them are single mothers & not to mention the psychological sickness they *ALL* have. Even if the little girl's that are 6-7 years old now were to start being groomed to become wives, they will be intentionally set on the wrong path by the jealous vvomen in their lives.
Women: "I was able to get the high value men to sleep with me, so I'm fine, I can enjoy life and marry them later..." KS: "You don't control marriage, only sex." Women: *panic*
What High Value Man wants to buy a car that has spent 20 years ripping up the road, 40 previous owners, 200,000 miles on the clock, saggy seats, and no warranty? Spraying Armor All on the tires and hanging an air freshener on the mirror two minutes before High Value Man walks into the dealership isn't going to help.
Wow imagine having a mom that fulfilled her motherly and wife duties till her husband died and set an impeccable model for her daughter just for her said daughter to take away NOTHING from all that.
I wonder who has acknowledged her mother's demonstration of true love and commitment? It would have been a bold move for him to ask her to bring her mother on for an interview. She explained her whole value system with rejection of her mother's example.
I really doubt her story. She said "My father passed away", meaning her mother was a WIDOW, not a SINGLE MOTHER. Widows don't choose to be single mother, they are forced into becoming one, they had no choice. But, looking at the result of who this woman turned out to be, i doubt her story, a lot
1000% philly has a lot of the rudest women in the world and what's sad she was a bit tamed then most 😂 Update: General Consensus. Big cities got it bad bad
I’ve learned so much about myself from watching these videos. They not only helped my relationship but helped me realize my potential as a woman. I’m honestly so grateful for these videos and his advice in general.
Better get your mind together soon, because once you hit 21, those years will fly by before you know it. GUARANTEED. I’m 68, and I don’t know where the years went. But I was fortunate enough to meet my soul mate. We’ve been together 27 years. ❤️❤️
She is scared of taking care of a sick husband and don’t realise it could be the husband taking care of her. Her father could have passed on the same disease. What is wrong with these women.
I have seen handful women (dating or married) cut and run when their bf/husband get sick. I have never heard of a husband cut and running on a terminally sick wife..their is probably are... but probably a low number due to society pressure thats not the right thing to do. Where women have a harder time dealing with with and fear of being alone.
True! My mom was a VP at a bank, diagnosed with an immune disease and my dad took care of the finances for the last 20 years and she made more than him. You never never know what will happen so you better make sure your spouse is worth it.
@@hellbringervic it does happen but not as frequently. My husband has stage 4 breast cancer and being in that circle I have seen families ripped apart. It does change the patient, physically, mentally and emotionally, and sometimes the spouse isn’t ready. Especially, if that spouse is shallow. Few people ever learn how to love someone unconditionally to create a real lasting relationship.
There's a problem today in the general culture with women thinking that being a wife/mother is easy and doesn't require any skill. Being a wife/mother is a job. Its not easy to run a household.
I wish I heard your voice when I was 19 years of age.I felt sad for her!You tore her soul apart and she didn't even flinch. Im South African,your words are just pure gold.Undeserved!!!
Not only women but us men too. We can't complain about women while we are not working on being the best versions of ourselves. Shoutout to you fellow Mzansi-ans
All the women I dated in my adult life didn't know who they wanted. Crazy asf they blame everything on the man for the problems she created in the relationship.
In her defense, she’s 5’11 and went to school for free with a degree in sport training. She’s an athlete; probably a hooper. The guys she’s been around didn’t see her in a romantic sense. She’s kinda tomboy-ish. The guys she wants want a feminine girly girl; which she is not. She should’ve locked down her “Love & Basketball” guy that she broke up with.
She's not really all that attractive to begin with. I see a lot of black men nowadays dating outside their race. Especially if you lived in the bay area, there's tons of black men that prefer Asian women. Basketball is pretty big in a lot of Asian American communities, so there's tons of girls who grow up playing basketball and admiring black athletes. Black women have some TOUGH competition. An average looking black woman will NEVER be able to compete against a cute Asian girl in the sexual marketplace.
Her mother: Epitome of a great, kind-hearted, caring, loving woman who actually lived up to the vows she took. Her: "That looks hard". Absolutely tragic. Her mom must be so poud.
As someone who’s lived in Philly most of my life, this man is on point. Some of the most lost souls I have ever come across here in this city. Screaming “where have all the good men gone” at the sky on every street corner.
I dated a chick from Philly she was cool to date but & could have been marriage material. Had a Masters degree, overweight & Argumentative. If she would have lost some weight & the need to be right all the time ,I would have married her. She was funny, talented and all out sexy. But that mouth!
Kevin's analysis gets sharper and sharper with every video. He has definitely found the root of the issues of the male/female relationship in the black community and picks it out so very adeptly.
The arrogance and audaciousness from the women who appear on this show... You’d think by now they’d know he’s not to be bullshitted... god bless Mr. Samuels.
I am a Black Female, you know, I m suspicious about these Women. This sounds fishy. He can't be their dad, and their character is set before age 2. I don't know any Women this terrible and I wouldn't be friends with someone like this. This grew up in the suburbs, and my Married Parents raised Me well.
She said her mother didn't teach her about marriage, then later all she saw was her mother taking care of her sick father. HELLO, her mother was showing her the realest part of marriage and relationships.
Yes, wow! Deep! She rejected it
Bro this comment was too Deep.
That was sad to watch how could she not see that my parents have stayed together they argued and fix it they seem happy they found a way they are much more secure
All she kept saying is that her mom had it hard Lmaoo well stay single then if you ain’t ready to deal with something hard. Life itself is hard
A year after getting married at age 50, I had a stroke that left me looking crazy for about 6 months. And during that time, not only did my young wife help nurse me back to health - she was not ashamed to be seen with me while my face was messed up for several months. On the flip side, a few years later, soon after my wife gave birth to our daughter, she had a health issue for several months that I had to be patient with. So... the duty of couples keeping their word to each other to stay for better or worse goes both ways. Nobody ever thinks they'll get sick or injured. But when it happens, they'll wish they had a loyal helpmate to help take care of them.
Being single when we're young, strong and healthy with no kids is great. BUT LIFE DON"T STAY THAT WAY!
I'm 52, I married at 25, my wife was 24, she got hurt working and had a spinal surgery at 28 and I took physical care of her for two years after and she had 7 more surgeries after and I've taken care of her off and on for the last 20 years it's not easy, but it's what I signed up for and after 31 years together, it's still love and happiness. These new kids are useless... SMH
The younger generation doesn't understand duty and responsibility. It's why there's a 51% divorce rate with 80% filed by women.
Absolutely useless man.
parents raised em
I salute you, but trust me, the other way around would have been a divorce.
I thought you were going to have a punch line like "and she was having an emotional affair despite everything I have done for her".
This entire conversation was proof that hearing and listening are not the same. Her ability to respond with no thought is mind blowing.
Facts, she's listening to respond instead of listening to understand.
*drum rolls* and that’s women for ya ‼️
@Danni C Sounds like my ex 🤣
Programmed
Exactly... what I'm thinking 🤔
Has anyone else noticed that a relationship is only in jeopardy when the woman is unhappy….
This is bullshit. Guys should dump them women if they are not satisfied with the relationship.
@@leonelorozco2514 My point was the a majority of the time the man is perfectly fine when the woman unexpectedly leaves him 🤷🏻♂️ but you’re right
Oooooh. That's good. That's reality.
Yeah, because relationship comes with too much work, and the modern man is not prepared for that.
@@Ghanaba23 If woman are leaving relationships at 80% aren’t they the ones “quitting the job” that’s the difference, a man will do the job even when he doesn’t want to
This girl just assumed that she's gonna be the one taking care of her sick husband but she never considered that she could be the one who might need someone to take care of her.
That statement right there. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 exactly. You don't know and to assume she'll have to bear someone. What if it went the other way? I wouldn't want to suffer someone with her outlook and opinions either..
it happens for real
That is a very true statement. Well said
My thoughts exactly
Also I’m sure he left her mom behind something so her mom would be ok financially
I'm a 40 year old white man. I've never heard you speak before this video. I will watch every video you put out forever.
Lol
😒
Make sure you watch his older videos when he talks to the men as well. He's a real nutcracker towards Men but the difference is Men are acceptive
I'm trying to hear everything he has to say. It's saving me so much time picking dates. Knowing what to ask and how to spot red flags. How to act. It's just a wealth of insight and information.
@@tradesinfavors9672 And you deserve it fam because you deserve happiness as a Human Being. Good Luck to you on this insightful journey fam. And don't let their true nature make you bitter. Don't settle unless it's a Quickie and Do better personally. Everything else will fall in place My Brotha ✊
“Other women go to college to meet their husbands. Our women go to college to prove they don’t NEED a husband.”
Facts
That's a mic drop if ever there was one.
Facts shit is ass backwards
My Play sister is a early 50's white woman from Alabama. She went to Auburn University in the late 80's early 90's. She told me that finding a husband was many WF only agenda for going to school. Watching this Also makes me think why those rich WP were paying so much money illegally to get their children into prestigious colleges (the cases that come to mind were mostly for their daughters 🤔).
And paying the fkn price for such a decision.
Woman: "I want a tall, rich, handsome man with 100 traits!"
Man: "Don't be fat."
Woman: "hOw dAre yOU!"
Facts
LMAO
More like , Handsome , 6 figures , 6 feet 2 or more , Bed room Specimen , have a heard of women swooning over you , but don't you dare cheat on me , These chicks Expectations or too unrealistic
😂 yup
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As a 30-year-old Who wishes I could’ve had an inkling of this conversation back when I was 25 PLEASE don’t take this for granted... please time will go by fast and you will realize what he was saying .
At least u still have some time leff , use it wisely my dear
I admire your accountability.
💯💯
A woman takin accountability wow 😂
And time goes faster and faster the older you get
My dad told me as a child " losers make excuses winners make sacrifices. Don't make excuses cause your friends don't need them. An Your enemies don't wanna hear them."
Ps. Thanks for the love 💓 in the comments everyone i showed my pops n it made his day knowing his words not only touch me but other people around the world 🌎
Bars!
Brilliantly said!
Very true
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Bars. 🏆🏆🏆
"Toxic is a buzzword women throw around like men throw around 'entrepreneur'" lmao
More like how men throw around “masculine” or “alpha” 😂
Most men don't throw entrepreneur around either,
Women took that word too.
Even the term entrepreneur has been cheapened. It used to only apply to innovation, then it was anyone who started a business. Now it seems to be anyone who makes side money whether legal or not.
@@steveg2251 I sell cigarettes on the side. I'm an entrepreneur 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is so sad... as a young woman Kevin has helped me realize many of us can be soooo delusional about the reality of the lives we live and the role we play in our own lives. This makes us look so bad, many of us need to wake up.
Thank you for being rational
Do you know what could be causing this trend? We didn’t have this problem till like the last 20 years
@@mrdesperado9521 Time’s changing and social media influences.
@@mrdesperado9521 3rd & 4th wave western feminism which we're being grassfed since childhood
@@lils6696 that does make sense
I've been married for about as long as she's been alive and this is unbelievable, entertaining and sad. The problem I encounter is that single women don't want advice from a married woman, they want the fairytale.
Facts the only fairytales that are realistic are the ones that are base on love. Beauty and the Beast, Shrek, and the story about Nala and Simba. All those other fairytales can go down the drain.
It's crazy isn't it
Well...shit. I didn't see it that way🤔
@Rae love men wont marry because of the family court system. That alone is enough to deter a man worth hos salt from tying the knot, and ladies dont want to heat it but it IS THE NUMBER ONE EEASON WHY A GUY WILL NOT COMMIT TO A MODERN LIBERATED WOMAN BECAUSE SHE will DIVORCE YOUR ASS THE MINUTE SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG.. prove me wrong....
@Rae love good for you and your family but, what are the expectations of who you want to marry? 100g a year or 60g a year? Tall or average height? Fit or out of shape? College degree or not?
This ish is better than Netflix . If Kevin keeps this up, Netflix will soon go out of business!
😁😁😁👌🏿😭😭😭
Thousands of independent creators are better than everything on woke Flix. You think this guy is good I can name a bunch more
He’s needs it but I have a feeling he got something in the works 😎😎
He is definitely growing in subscribers. I am white and I think his message Transcends race. Even if race or ethnic identity plays a major role in the black woman experience, I know many low value, low class, high educated white woman with the same attitude.
I am happy that black men have a voice through Kevin, and many of the white folks I know wish we had a voice, with balls, to speak for us to women. We have too many effeminate males who wear this skin.
All men need to listen to Kevin and all women need to learn from Kevin.
Tf are you on 😂
"Never share the best years of your life with a woman who shared hers with other men" Jose’ Marti. Cuba.
Or put another way: You didn't want me in your prime, so I don't want you in your decline.
So true. The can keep chasing the bad guys in their 30's, 40's, 50's ... to meaningless and loneliness.
Wow
Absolute truth
My ex was on that “partnership” bs. Wanna be partners when it’s time to make decisions but ghost when it’s time to pay for shit. They don’t wanna be partners they want a man to take care of them and they boss the man around.
Big Facts. And they are clueless to boot
truth
partnership when it suits them. They want to RECEIVE from the 'partnership' is what they really mean ! They want to receive from a man; from a man's business ! from a man's relationship; from the world!
They want the position/title but none of the responsibility/accountability.
Exactly but the problem is the only woman that a man will allow to boss him around is the one that gave birth to him and even that can only go so far
Cardi B sang, "I don't cook, I don't clean...", then her boyfriend posts a video of her with a broom sweeping the floor, telling her not to lie in her music🤷♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Any link to tis?
Yeh he did.
🤣🤣🤣 the irony
@@niiklaus8525 type Cardi B cleaning in YT search bar.
Your comment and another about Beyonce needs to be Samuels next topic. These level 8 women got these level 2 women confused as fk
Kevin speaks two languages in his videos: english and FACTS
Was geht Hafti?
@@JZHevenly Was Bruder?
Grüße aus 069 cho
Facts 😉
53 yr old white guy here. This man is a man amongst men,he’s so intelligent and everyone should be listening to his advice and changing their lives. There is nothing I’ve heard him say that I don’t agree with 100%. He’s seen the future and it’s not going to end well for so many people. It’s hard to comprehend where he gets the strength and fortitude to continue, I’ve got nothing but the utmost respect for him.
I agree wholeheartedly.
66Pipes66 Should we be impressed that you're white?? FOH!
I agree. Woman here. When I was growing up in a white middle class environment; the young girls were constantly told that they needed to get married. in their last teens and
early twenties. They were warned against becoming like "Aunt Cathy" the woman who never married. Some people consider the terms "spinster" and "old maid" demeaning but they packed a punch. We were explicitly movementa campaign against the terms "old main" and "spinster." They heavily promoted the idea of putting career before marriage, thereby increasing the risk of no marriage whatsoever childrenrelentless campaign against the nuclear familiy. Marriage (formerly a day of joy for women) was now presented as drudgery and bordeom. Very, very sad. IMHO feminism's true source is Marxism. Lenin was quoted as stating that he wanted to destroy the family. Funny to read that so many years after his death.
You're correct, it's not gonna end well for many of them. I do financial counseling on the side and they are so far from where they need to be financially. They will have to work till death and that's if their health holds up.
Absolutely. He's been taken way too soon.
“Women throw around toxic like men throw around entrepreneur” LMAOOOOOO 😂👌🏽
And just like a waste facility there are normally big signs saying 'Stay Out Toxic Area' before they proceed anyway lol
LOL that was gold
'Toxic' translated: 'Dumped my avg-a$$ Mekhi Phifer-lookin BM cuz dem Steph Currys still wanna bust - 4 now...'
toxic is usually the i got bored and wanted better or their way of shifting blame... if u dig deep enough, only few cases ull find a legit reason for their exit
And "gaslighting" whenever someone simply disagrees with their point of view
The secret of your future is hidden in your day routine . Successful people do daily what the unsuccessful people do occasionally.
Bitcoin is over $16000 and counting don't sleep on it, don't just get buy and hold, trade it if you don't know how to get an expert to trade for you
Trading investments is risky and it requires courage to be able to make it in Bitcoin
There are so many traders/account manager out there that can trade and made good profit for investors without the risk of losing capital
The best option would be to get an expert to trade and make profits
I'm new to trading .
And my presumptions is that I'll be needing an expert to guide me through but I am a bit cautious about getting one
I want to take the time to congratulate the women who managed to watch this with an open mind and learn something because unfortunately most of them won't.
well... kkkkkkkkkkk you won't even need a hand to count. kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
Most won't though, Most.
What I don’t get is why they think it’s so easy to make 100k? Not just BW, any women. I met my husband at 22 at a job where we made 7$ an hour. I made more at my part time seasonal mall job. I hear younger women say that and think, it’s not so easy to make 100k. And if he does, you will then complain he is at work all the time. I thought with women working, it would help ease the pressure off men from being sole breadwinners. It seems it has put more pressure on men who have to earn more than she does! Crazy world.
@@anneb889 exactly...they think 6 figures comes with extended availability...unrealistic mindset
Facts
The problem is that people think others will wait for them to “be ready”
That's an awesome statement. Going to remember that. It's true.
Some people listen and others just wait for their turn to talk.
Yup they listen to reply, not to understand.
I hate that I immediately stop wasting my energy
@@luchalerae7687 how bro? Do you just end convo? I need tips
She turned out half way through what was the point ?
@@JayBee762 Get up and leave or tell them to goodbye
The more I watch, the more I realize I need to buy a nice suit.
I feel the same way.
I work in an extremely casual environment (ie my own repair business) and I can wear whatever I want, and since I’m around silicon valley tech millionaires and they’re wearing $200 sweatpants and $400 New Balances so do I. Athleasure FTW
HOWEVER *every* man should have a well fitted suit and know how to wear it. You never know when a power businessman or an opportunity is going to present itself and if you don’t know how to wear a suit *properly* it’s going to be a wasted opportunity.
a man should have at least 3 to 4 nice suits! black,blue,gray,brown!
@@cccycling5835 No such thing as $400 new balance shoes.
Exactly 💯
She actually thinks her mother should have walked away from her father. Sad she did not learn anything from her legendary Mother.
And seems not to have any honor or respect towards her father! Dare I say that she resents him for having to require the end of life care his mother provided. If that’s the case, she don’t even deserve a low or no value man.
I felt like she doesn’t want to have to care for her man/husband. That’s a necessary duty.
@Mike F my respects hermano. God bless.
@Mike F
Props for honoring your father.
I know a guy who got married, 6 months in his wife had a stroke, stayed wheelchair bound for the next 10 years until she left him a widower at 40. People don't understand what this marriage business is really about.
"I can cook" and rolls her eyes. Seems like she has resentment for it.
Yes exactly. Like it's so old fashioned and sexist for a man to expect a woman to cook for him.
Lol facts
People will make a few mediocre meals then all of sudden think they can cook. Yea that hamburger helper with no alterations is amazing 😂
Anyone else see how she was rolling her eyes when she said "cooking" and "cleaning"? She looks down on that kind of stuff. Her facial expressions were telling how she really felt.
exactly this.
That eye roll was very revealing. She wouldn't be able to hide her true feelings for long.
You can tell Kevin saw through those theatrics, the way he shook his head in disdain at her, he knows she's BS
She was pandering
These women today dont know nothing about cooking a pot of neckbones and some greens. Its more to eating than fast food and noodles.
I just asked my 6 year old daughter who is supposed to teach her what a wife and a mother should be and she pointed to me!!! Even a child can figure this out! Smh... 🤦♀️
For a wife, my daughter said me and for a husband, my son said my husband. Then my daughter, unprompted, immediately followed up with “they don’t teach you any of this in school!”
That makes no fucking sense
Extraordinary words from the mouth of a babe.
Right man so delusional
Yea reading this was awkward
My youngest daughters are 15, I’m going to make them watch KS TH-cam. Then we will begin our talks about marriage. Thank you Kevin.
Bantubroda you are an Israelite, learn and teach your daughter/children to keep God's laws and they'll turn out fine.
@@ermithe18 100% facts. APTTMH
@@delsadejesus162 APTTMH?
@@Bank_Da_Bread all praises to the most high
@@delsadejesus162 God Bless 🙏🏿
11:10 "[My Father] passed away when I was young.
21:49 "My Father was sick for the majority of my life. My mother took care of him.... she took care of him for years."
The first statement she made indicated she hardly knew her father as he lived them only briefly before passing when she was young. The second statement she madev10 minutes later indicates he was alive but sick "the majority" of her life. She contradicted herself for the sake of supporting different points she was trying to make at given times in the conversation. This demonstrates how malleable and unreliable women's statements can be.
Women like to avoid talking in specifics. They answer specific questions in vague terms, generalizations and statements that can't be pinned down to actual facts. This gives them a lot of wiggle room to lie by implication.
That's one reason why they get so upset with Mr. Samuels. He usually doesn't let them get away with that. He will sometimes keep hammering them with the same question over and over until they finally give a specific answer, and they get enraged from being forced into telling uncomfortable truths.
Some folks can't lie! Bcz they harbor not even the short time memory. Then,
they publicly make oxymoron utterances.
Facts
“Raised to be useless to anyone but themselves.” Wheeeeeeew! I felt that.
It is a shame when there are so many women single because of their attitude.
@@mac1bc Sad, but true. But the bad attitude might actually be a blessing in disguise. Because if smiling is too much for a brother to ask for, the bad attitudes a *lot* of sisters carry around might be the equivalent of a “Beware of Dog” sign. Consider yourself adequately warned, and respond accordingly.
@@JLynnDsMyoosik agreed.
@Magic Dollas You ain’t lying. Only useful to their appetite for instant gratification.
BW are the most SUPERFICIAL and self centered women alive FACTS
Modern Code Words: Starting with
" I feel like"
" I hear what you're saying, but"
" I believe"
"I understand, however"
" I don't think"
" Can I ask you a question"
"Well...I think"
" That's true, but"
" I'm trying to be respectful"
" I've never seen your show"
"A friend referred me to your show"
" I understand, but"
" Well...I dont see it that way"
" If you knew me, you'd understand"
"People I know or knew"
" I was with a high value man, but..."
" I've dated high value men, but..."
" I don't think that's fair..."
" I want to introduce a different perspective..."
" I have options too..."
"I appreciate your show, but..."
" Well...look at it this way..."
" How do you know..."
" Yes & no..."
" Me personally...."
" Femininity depends on..."
" What do you mean by..."
" I dont have to..."
" I was engaged, but"
" I filed for divorce"
" I broke off the engagement"
" But kevin...."
" Okay mr samuels"
" Do you have problems with black women"
" Well...men do it too"
" Why do women have to need men"
" Who hurt you..."
" You hate black women"
" I'm speaking my truth..."
" I know plenty of women that did etc, but"
"I knew what I was doing, but"
" That's a great point kevin, but"
" I have a question for you"
" Not all men are great men, but"
" I'm not trying to make excuses for women but"
" I dont think I'm overweight..."
" Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe"
" As a woman myself, I don't think"
" Yeah, but alot of black men are broken"
" Black women still love black men, even though..."
" I had kids with him, but he was crazy"
" Well...I was young & dumb.."
" Do you think...etc...no judgement though.."
" Well...when a woman does it..etc.."
Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
Golden😭
@@tedwardedits Lol...the list should not be this long, but it'll become an audiobook when I'm done!!
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Brooooooo... wow.... This needs to be pinned 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯
It’s called conversation! 😂Get use to women don’t need to be how you want them to be! It’s called a wonderful world of just agree or disagree as much as you like! ✌️ pretty cool no?
I love how he highlights there is absolutely nothing wrong with being average living an ordinary life with an ordinary man is an honour! There is plenty of life in the ordinary.
I agree 👍
True. It's getting old with all this high-end everybody-has-to-be-baller yet nobody outside that world knows shit about what it actually takes or how it actually is. Grass is always greener on the other side... from a distance.
Yes! You're right...
These days what used to be considered "average" is now extraordinary.
marriage is supposed to be until death due part but for most in todays day and age there is no limit to how green the grass can get.
She's a lost girl. I usually get annoyed with most of the women whom Kevin interviews. This one I actually feel sorry for. Happiness will elude her.
i think she a nerd type (attitude wise). she is nice, she wasnt over talking.
@@thermodynamics1110 There was a few times she wanted to control the subject
I felt he was very unfair to her and wanted to treat her as though she WAS being disrespectful. All the disrespect I saw in this video was coming from his direction.
@@YoAlby man why's he so rude to some of these women
Did you see the face she did when she said “I can cook , I can clean “ and she rolled her eyes...it’s like saying “if I’m forced to....”😂😂😂😂 You can’t make this s...up!!!!
She acted like those duties are beneath her
Didn't she say "whatever", as well...?!
I think she will find that she probably likes the same sex as herself.
@@dirkhandke7444 she said 'guys love women that can cook or whatever...' The sarcasm in that statement wasn't lost on me
A lot of them want to receive and benefit everything without having to do anything but exist.
"I wanna be married by 32"
Meaning I wanna spend the next 6 years on the cc 🙄
Exactly i wanna get my back blown out for 7 more years and then at 32 find some chump to take damage goods
@@MrDigztheswagking Facts. And she thinks men are too stupid to see it and they expect us to just accept it
smh
@@gabetorresx right its sick as men we gotta stop allowing this behavior just not deal with women that think like this Not even for sex and they will learn
I swear that’s exactly what it is but THE WALLBIS UNDEFEATED AND SHES ALREADY HIT IT
@Richman Makeslotsofmoney low standard? I didn’t realize western men even had standards 😂✌️🇺🇸
Looking down on her mother's duty towards her father when he laid sick is sad. She should ask her mother on how to be a wife and humble herself.
the internet lives forever - and here is the tape of her telling a man when he gets sick, she is gonna bounce. Do your homework fellas - this is only a sidechick
@@zuhalterei4090 this is a booty call. Not worthy of side chick status
Avoid avoid avoid
She didn't look down on it, she said it was hard and wasn't ready for that. She was being honest that she wasn't ready to be a wife right now. What did you hear???
@@shaylagortman2322 If she ain't ready NOW, when she is a GROWN ADULT, she won't ever be ready.
"hey, hey, hey, that's not how this shit works."
-Savage Samuels
kevin*
She wants to be married by 30... she won't start seriously dating until 28. She's a science major and that's what she came up with.
☠☠☠☠
This girl's idea is to travel, meet Mr. Right, get married.
This girl's reality. Approaching middle age, average looking, below average income in a high cost of living area.
She doesn't Kevin. She needs a miracle from God. I hope she recognizes it if it happens.
Acting like she gon' control the marriage to work at 28 lol what if the relationship dont work? she didnt factor that in, then another years wasted . Just give your life to Christ and let the Lord lead you girl.
YAY GENDWR QUOTAS !!!
@@commiezombie2477 Yup, she can do all things through Christ that strenghtens her .
She is saying that there are opportunities to meet men everywhere around the world. The problem is, she doesn't realize that foreign men like "traditional" women. Good luck to her!
there is a difference between 'meet' and 'marry' but that is somehow hard to get. :)
@Mike, that's a really good point. Women in the west (especially the U.S., Canada, and the UK) need to understand that men in other countries generally hate feminists more than western men do. Men in other countries also aren't into "fat acceptance" (or "body positivity") and they don't think older women have "a lot to offer".
@@ROFusion all men hate feminists, those "men" that like feminist have lost all of their manhood themselves. I cringe whenever i hear a feminist.
@@danny2120 , I agree with you. I was trying to say that, although western men hate feminists, non-western men hate feminists even more. Too many western men have been socialized into accepting feminist nonsense, while non-western societies have done a better job of marginalizing feminist ideology. But clearly a backlash is brewing in the west. The rise of the manosphere and the decline in marriage rates is causing alarm among modern women.
And they definitely won't tolerate the disgusting attitudes of these females. Who in their right mind would want to deal with them seriously?
"Men are valued for their judgement, woman are valued for their beauty...men use your judgement wisely" - Hank Jextor 2021
Please expound on "men are valued on their judgement"
@King Slayer it takes good judgement to aquire all the things you describe.
Leadership is based on ones ability to have good judgement. Nobody follows a fool no matter how "Alpha" he thinks he is.
@@berabiz3512 The foundation of a leader is good judgement. The foundation to success is good judgement. The foundation to being a good father and husband is good judgement.
A man without good judgement is a fool and a failure.
Knowing right from wrong and executing good logical judgement is a mans role in the world. We are the caretakers for leading the world and passing the world off to our children better than we found it.
Most men and woman are too rooted in feelings to judge appropriately.
@@martenscs like he said "a Realationship is supposed to be boring, like white bread" SIMPLE
Her demeanor is like this with a male adult who she doesn't know, imagine being in a relationship with her? And this is a public presentation, good luck to what she really is in private.
I need these females to be more honest with them selves
The worst lies are the ones we tell ourselves.
The entitlement present in this comment is so ironic considering the video at hand. Nobody owes you anything, cupcake
I'm 24 and my family always ask me why I dont have a gf. This is why.
Agreed! 25 here.
You _sure_ that's why?
@@Chipiliro613 short answer yes. I have a complete disinterest in dating at this point. Im also not perfect but if I was trying it wouldn't be that hard but why try is there any benefit that I'm not seeing, sex yeah because you need to be dating to get her out of her clothes. Lol you could be right. I could be a total piece of shit and no girls want me but that hasn't been my experience.
Same here 33 and doing great. Aint nobody got time for that. 🤡
Facts. Ditch domestics. Cop foreigns. Much much better treatment
She is setting herself up for a bad mid life crisis!!! I am 42 and I have friends that thought just like her. They are still single with no kids and are mostly alcoholics
Do u have any that are old and not miserable??
@Andrew Barnes I am doing my best. Pray for us! there is a lot of work to be done to turn this situation around!
@@annefrank4652 yes. I know a few.
@@mrsminty3615 oh so ur OK with bring up the miserable ones but not the happy ones. Stupid Pickme
@@annefrank4652 who said that? You are projecting. Grow up
"A 20 year marriage is not a triumph of love but a triumph of character and negotiation." - Jordan Peterson
I'm nearing my 20th anniversary and while character and negotiation are certainly required to have a successful long-term relationship without the triumph of love; the relationship will die from all the small irritants people overlook, a death of 1000 tiny cuts that love typically heals.
Sounds like 20 years of misery
@@ClockworkWyrm Marriage is a business transaction and love is the cherry on top. Westerners have grown accustom to loving the person they are with while people in Asia and Africa see it as a necessity to get out of an impoverished community or to spread the legacy of a prior generation.
you quoting a bogus intellectual lmao
Who told you Africans are like that? Westernism has reached Africa (Kenya to be exact) and has corrupted these women. Devil doctrines
The eye rolls after saying guys like a woman who can cook says it all. She has contempt for men and what they want. She doesn’t understand reality. That’s the attitude that’ll keep her single forever.
She's perfecting a casual lifestyle, but wants exceptional marriage results.
God bless Kevin because this conversation alone was exhausting.
She's partnering herself to the streets and don't even know it.
I'm still listening to it right now. I had to take 2 breaks. TWO! BREAKS! ***Exhales***
He is exhausting
@@Lantian99 I'm just over the hump....🙄
...Just tear her up, Kevin!😝
Remember gents all women wear a mask when they want to date you , your job is to make the mask slip before it turns into a serious relationship
Damn. Thats real shit. I gotta remember that
fax , they very good at « acting » like they your soulmate but it’s just a trap.. men do the choosing, so don’t get angry to her if you chose the wrong one ,cause these women expect you as a MAN to know when they lying or full of ish (like kevin did with this girl)
@@blaze_sanz sarcasm is the new language now.
Not Really
But guys judgment off once the hormones start misfiring
@Manifesting Leaders - Jlax Empire it takes less than 5 minutes to tell not 5 years
Whenever I hear Kevin ask “who ended it?” I have yet to hear a woman say “He did.” They are the ones who end it. For better or worse, that just shows that men are more committed and ready in the relationship than woman.
Not a SINGLE one 😂
That is telling.
They probably lie about that. Women are extreme sensitive about getting dumped.
Men don’t leave unless a woman gets incredibly ill.... Women are always told they can do better so will replace a guy or be single.... then think they can get back into a relationship easily
@@darealtruth3095 but if she loved you shed stay and help you, right?
When she said “I can cook, I can clean,” she looked like she was making a hostage video.
I watched this with both my sons, our ages are 55, 31, 29...We were all stunned at how complete this young woman delusions are, my youngest son said she is a future cat lady in training.
Big facts 💯
@Rd Stegall I suppose, you are asking for a friend lol
Ur youngest is very wise.
It's cool you're all watching together. I like that men are spreading the message to friends and family
I deadass came here to hate him, pick him apart, see a true narcissist at work....BUT BABAAAYYY I learned more with him than I did in these past 29 yrs....❤️❤️❤️ Mr Samuels
We respect you for actually listening to the content🔥
Your honesty is appreciated 👏
Can you elaborate in detail on what you learned from the discussion? Genuinely interested.
@@juniorjames7076 1. Men don't care about your Money or edu as much as we do...That's what I lead with 2. Learn how to be a wife is ok... Because amongst my friends I can't say "I want a man or need a Man" MY FRIENDS WOULD DRAG ME N MAKE IT SEEM AS IF I DONT LOVE MYSELF N SPEAK INDEPENDENCE INTO ME, so therefore I avoided trying to learn n just have hope w/I actually putting in work.. 3. I also learned that men want feminity.. Because all I see is Cardi B's n black woman struggle on tv n amongst our friends...4.Its a Duty to be a wife n mother... Because by tv friends n my upbringing all I heard was gossip of wives being mistreated but yet babymama-hood is more glamorized...idk but I'm unhappy. That's why I want to see more black men n a positive light because honestly I only seen my dad..but he was a single dad most of my life
BLESS you for being so real and sharing that here. ...I actually DO believe that alot of the "harsh" advice that Mr. Samuels is giving to young black women on his channel is a *true* form of "tough love". It's time that we open up our eyes and get out of all the self-defeating *DENIAL*. So good on you @Britney Young for your comment.
This is sad. The minute Kevin mentioned that she won’t retire comfortably with the money, her solution is to get married. But later in the video she said she didn’t want marriage. 😩🤦🏾♀️😢
It's that only child syndrome on full blast on full display. She is delusional and more concerned in this moment about being right and not looking bad.
@@ronswanson1410 you gat it. Delusion on a grand scale. 👍
Not surprised right?
They only view men as utilities.
getting married to them is just like welfare; get married; free shit get divorced; free shit.
I appreciate so much how he demands respect, and calls out any behavior he sees that go against that. I'll admit, as a man I've found myself being treated in ways, I don't appreciate at all by women, but out of some misguided fear of being labeled, sexist, misogynistic, "Toxic" I dont call it out when I should be. I learn more from this man on how to act properly than the women that actually talk to him i swear. Us younger men need better role models like this.
"It was becoming toxic" is the classic irresponsible response to believing I can do better. Guess what, almost all of you can't. "It was becoming toxic." is the foremost predictor of a unsuitable woman ending up as a cat lady. "We were hurting each other" is newspeak for, I had to hurt him so I could defend leaving him.
This is deep man. Under rated comment👌🏿
And 5 months later she single as a leaf 😂😂🤪😱
Damn. I was wondering what was the meaning behind TOXIC & U cleared it up. Toxic gets thrown around so much it can mean all types of things depending on how they feel. Like when some ppl use racist, just because they disagree or we argue doesn't mean racist nor toxic lol. My man - Denzel voice
Psychology at it's finest.......play victim to get what you want Classic!
Hmmm. Toxic shit goes both ways. Man and women use this shit.
Kevin is incredibly smart once you pick up on his conversation techniques and social mannerisms, quite facinating to learn from.
I agree. His communication techniques are universal in life, not just between men and woman. Keep up the good work.
If you spent years interacting with people in these drama-filled conversations you would be good at this too. I don't know many men who would spend too much their time in these types of conversations. Too emotional. The money would have to be really good.
The guy is a fool who belittles his guests let's not act like we watch this for anything else but him roasting women. He aint saying any facts.
@@mr247 how much do you weigh?
@@devontethompson50 lmfao
"There's more Men that are husbands than there are women that are wives."
Does this man have ANY bad lines?
that is sad because women outnumber men
Who are those men marrying if they out number wives?
@@xandykkaudy8252 the point is that there are far more women than men.
Making it even worse, knowing that there are more men being husbands than women being wives.
@@jimmy_jackson12 that's not what I asked, if there are more men married than woman who are the other men marrying?
@@xandykkaudy8252 he means potential husbands and potential wifes
I’ve been working with my wife on this. It’s so hard for her to realize and accept basic things. You gotta be on your game.
The scariest part about all of this is that there are millions of modern women (BW especially) that think just like her. Don’t put up with this men not worth the squeeze.
Let’s separate African American from African .... different culture, backgrounds, upbringing etc
It doesn’t matter the age, nationality, mental or physical health, employeed or unemployed, kid or no kid they want the exact same thing and think the exact same way.
@@freshwaveentertainment lol nah keep it
@@ZackSNetwork that comment deserves 2 x 👍👍
@@freshwaveentertainment Yeah, we know. This is about modern women, so-called Black women specifically, who grew up in Western Society, more specifically the US and Canada. I know for a fact sistas on the Continent are different and have more respect for men...they are raised differently than women in Western Society.
"Buy a dog and die alone because no man needs to suffer you" truer words were never spoken. Thanks Mr. Samuels!!
Sheesh!🤦🏾♂️
But WHY does the dog need to suffer so!?
It is always a huge red flag when someone rolls their eyes at the genuine advice they asked for.
“Duty & Responsibility” thank you Kevin
Women: “Where are all the good men?“
“You mean the traditional, caring, providing ones? You got rid of those. They were toxic. Remember?“
You damn strait marriage is hard. When my wife (of 36 years) had a brain tumor thought my life ended. We got through it, not one second was it oh woah is me. It was for better or worse. I feel for you young men these days.
That’s right man, good shit. If it was the other way around y’all be on the streets or worst
When the worse happens in this generation, the women generally leave the relationship or cheat while being in the relationship, which in turn, makes the man cold.
We struggling out here bro we at the point of
No return almost, I wanna go to War and just love a solider life already done with these women of today
@@MrSGames1 Very true, got hurt at a very young age when I still was blissfully optimistic, didn't take long for me to learn my lesson
Brother I've shared my story with other men and they all wonder why I have started on a book. I tell them I can grant her that type of attention. Lessons and blessings is what I've got from the betrayal. Stay well!
SMH my husband was right “alot” of women are aged children no accountability and for some reason everything is funny sad
Unfortunately, I have to agree.
I wish I didn't have to say that you were right, but yeah.... .. .. You're right... It's a sad truth.
Wow, I’m hooked on watching these! Making really rethinking my life and dating
Even my moms. White woman, 4th gen Irish. She was VERY VERY proud of her accounting degree. & it helped raise me, but not even 5 years after she married the Most Generous & Most Awesome STEP-FATHER a bastard like me could ask for married my moms, she became a stay at home wife...."it's so hard & I deserve so much more!" is what I have ALWAYS heard from her. Try to get her to sell her crochet, she been doing it for 30 years, & she SCOFFS & says "I do this for fun"
& I love my step-father, He done a lot for me, & has taught me more than I could even ask for. I feel bad for him, dealing with my moms. idk how he manages to love her, but I'm thankful for it.
Wow. I hear you. Blessings.
Only women will complain and shame men for being taken care of and having zero bills and keeping a “do whatever I want” attitude
Thats her fault. She should've never chose to be a SAHM. That shit ain't fun or easy.
@@MsDNA100 I honestly thought it was. What exactly is bad about it?
@@faithyayi I'll put it to you like this...It definitely ain't for every woman.
I love his energy. Not taking mouth from these young ladies. They are used to talking to men any old way, and he demands respect. It’s refreshing.
Big facts
Take notes men. I know alot of us didn't have a dad to show us this.
@@user-ws3sl9xi7y
It's not a dad thing. It's a man thing. Role model. Someone with their head screwed on right, paying attention to what actually matters. No guarantee that a dad could do it any better just because dad, it's not a superhero label by default. Sadly.
@@rosen9425 Not a single father "figure" in my life.
@@user-ws3sl9xi7y if you seek Christ this stuff and more will be revealed to you by God
She doesn't want to get married because her husband *might* get sick? Probably just as well... she'd roll out on him in his darkest hour and take that winning sense of humor with her.
I think her watching that scenario as a kid scared her to pieces. I think it comes from a place of fear, not selfishness. Her nervousness when she talked about it I think ks thought it was her being smart but those eyes looked real hurt to me. That’s literally the ONLY memory she had of her mom and dad as a kid that she mentions. That tells it all. She’s trying to maintain a stiff face and laugh but she’s quite fearful. She’ll need therapy or else she will stay commitment phobic
Gina Nacole Thank you. I think KS completely read her wrong. She was scared more than anything else.
LMAO!!!
@@sarchi-xo3029 lol I'm sure that's not the only relationship that she knows of.. if her scare is that her future husband might become terminally sick then she's dumber than a bag of rocks.
@@ginanacole3012 seriously? A 25 yo woman is still haunted by her childhood experience of her mom doing her wifely duty and honouring the vow she took. It's fine for her (as a child) to be scared of having to do the same as a wife, but it's completely selfish of her to continue to harbour such fears as a 25 yo woman who has access to much more information than she did as a child. I wonder whether she has ever considered the possibility that of her being in her father's position in a long-term care home because she has no one to do the husbandly duty her mom did.
Damn, she's cute and I was like "I definitely would date her" until she said she was damn near 6ft tall. I said "Oh nvm" then Kevin said that reduces your option and I was like "This man don't miss"
She was a 5 at best.. average, not cute.
But i don't get why you would feel insecure about her height. If she was willing to date shorter men, why should you care about her height? Usually though it is women who don't like to date men who are shorter than they are.
She look just like him with locks 🤣🤣 ok buddy do you bruh
@@cashmoney8339 damn bro, I found her cute but good one😂
@@Quentinthemudkip ayy bro beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you do you brother 💯
k short man
So, I've been married 42 years. My wife has been ill since 1990. Bedridden since 1995. I have been her primary caregiver at the same time "I" raised our 5 children. Our doctor has told me that my wife won't last too much longer. I have done my duty! When the time comes, I will go on with my life, but I won't be looking for a LTR or marriage. I don't see any women of any race that will be worth the effort. Oh, I am healthy and retired with a good pension. I am not worried about dying alone. 5 adult kids and 9 grandchildren. I don't see any women from my generation (or any generation) that have, what I have obtained. Nor do I see any women that are worth the risk to my resources, or the effort to date. I'll finish my life doing what I want, when I want.
💯👌
Live your life, bro. Everybody dies alone. A marriage contract does not change that. Living your best years just to set yourself up for care in your last few sick months is no way to live. Take your money and enjoy your time on tropical islands with a fun cutie. Stay single.
Honestly, i don't have the kids or grandkids. But as I date... Well even this girl believes that she should be paid 100k to clean her own house, feed her own children, and set out an extra seat at the table? It ain't worth it.
@@jakemccoy “with a cutie” dont you have a daughter? You just mentioned you had a daughter in a different comment on this video? Hypocrites like yourself make me sick, may be your daughter should be that “cutie” he enjoys,
Beautiful.
That closing comment should be heard by all modern toxic womyn: "No man deserves to suffer you."
BOOM!!!
Real fucking talk
I’m a woman and I agree. We should be a man’s peace, not his suffering
@@shaythareal2382 RESPECT YOUR PERSPECTIVE
With a darside laugh with a echo
I married later in life. I have double degrees and my husband is a Union man of 37 years and makes six figures. We, together, are every day millionaires. If I had listened to my peers, he would have been the one that got away instead of the one that works hard, supports his family and works together to build wealth. What the hell has happened to the women today?
You have it figured out ma'am. I like the teamwork my wife and I have. Keep winning!!!
@@mindofmantae8288 Going to stick up for mothers here a little - ultimately it is down to the individual... half these kids simply do not listen to parents and have little respect for others.. some kids just choose that attitude regardless. I see it daily.. I can already see good willing parents trying their best with their kid but when you look at their kid you just know there will be issues
Feminism has sold Women a false Bill of Goods.
@@James_36 Sigh....the mother have enough support from mxn and wxmxn. It's time to hold them accountable not continuing to help them dodge it.
You partially answered your own question.
"If I had listened to my peers".
Modern women are giving and taking the worse possible advice to/from each other.
I discovered Kevin's PodCast a few months ago and although I don't watch it very often the times that I do I absolutely dig it. I recognize Kevin as a person with much Old-School knowledge and wisdom that is very helpful.
I'm going to hate to admit this, but I'm starting to really come to tears and start to cry about some of these women mindset.It's painful and it's heartbreaking,and I'm being truthful, it brings me to tears of how blind they are, , just my two cents from a distance 😔😔🌎👑 have a nice day
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved 🎶
Cry, but stay at a distance. These women have been lied to at the deepest level. People joke but it started with Disney. It’s a fairytale and they are in a trance. Myself for some reason I never got into movies. Im thankful. I even stopped watching TV in my 30s. Now in my 50s I do not have the programming that most to do.
At least you are nice about it lol
This why the black community is the way is it and why the men are leaving. Hard to save those that dont wanna be saved.
Bro I really was saying this to my self ...
I’m 34 and married. Funny is not going to make you a good wife. These modern women think being a wife is easy.
Women don't understand that they have to earn that position/title.
A queen is trained and conditioned by elders & minders, for life.
@@TheAnointedSamurai 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Being a wife is easy...staying in character isn't
@@TheAnointedSamurai excellent comment. I understand the uplifting intent on women calling themselves queen but it takes more than words to make it a reality. Without work, the pseudo title queen is about viable as a Chuck E Cheese's coin when you're trying to but a luxury car.
@@rm5282 Correct. The completely diluted its meaning. Many men are waking up to the fact that they can demand & enforce standards without shame. The next 5-10yrs will be interesting.
My mother didn’t teach me how to be a wife. I think this is the case for most black women. She always told me to make my own money and be self sufficient. When I got married, I quickly learned that this thinking does not work!
That’s such a deep statement. Many mothers are not wives , so it’s almost impossible to teach something you are not. It’s a vicious cycle out here for the black community.
Black feminism at work
Umm have you ever been to church, or had extended family ? Usually that’s where feminism and proper edict was taught even to kids who didn’t have a full families the community steps in and helps.
My question to that would be, but that's not what you did mom? I think some mother's thought by following the feminist guidelines, it would make better women. In fact it destroyed women.
@john doe Sounds good in theory, but it will fail. It's simply too late for our vvomen. They have/had *WAY* too many partners, too many of them are single mothers & not to mention the psychological sickness they *ALL* have.
Even if the little girl's that are 6-7 years old now were to start being groomed to become wives, they will be intentionally set on the wrong path by the jealous vvomen in their lives.
Put this in your Favorites 'cause this was pure gold!
Women: "I was able to get the high value men to sleep with me, so I'm fine, I can enjoy life and marry them later..."
KS: "You don't control marriage, only sex."
Women: *panic*
Lol
What High Value Man wants to buy a car that has spent 20 years ripping up the road, 40 previous owners, 200,000 miles on the clock, saggy seats, and no warranty? Spraying Armor All on the tires and hanging an air freshener on the mirror two minutes before High Value Man walks into the dealership isn't going to help.
@@PhantomFilmAustralia Please don't compare women to cars, my Skyline holds more value than a 29 year old woman who is a virgin.
Actually men control access to sex ONLY if he can establish controlling his sexual energy. Im 27 & have never initiated sex with any of my ex’s.
@@KenchiOMO take an average guy and he has 0 to few dms. Take an average girl, she’ll have thousands of unopened dms
Wow imagine having a mom that fulfilled her motherly and wife duties till her husband died and set an impeccable model for her daughter just for her said daughter to take away NOTHING from all that.
FACTS
Damn 😔
Sometimes you can do everything right but still lose.
I wonder who has acknowledged her mother's demonstration of true love and commitment? It would have been a bold move for him to ask her to bring her mother on for an interview. She explained her whole value system with rejection of her mother's example.
I really doubt her story. She said "My father passed away", meaning her mother was a WIDOW, not a SINGLE MOTHER.
Widows don't choose to be single mother, they are forced into becoming one, they had no choice.
But, looking at the result of who this woman turned out to be, i doubt her story, a lot
1000% philly has a lot of the rudest women in the world and what's sad she was a bit tamed then most 😂
Update: General Consensus. Big cities got it bad bad
I’m glad you said it lol.
She was def. one of the nicer ones lol.
Most Midwest are like this sadly. Detroit DC Cleveland Baltimore all the same
💯
Not our Philly ladies
New York is worst I live here
I’ve learned so much about myself from watching these videos. They not only helped my relationship but helped me realize my potential as a woman. I’m honestly so grateful for these videos and his advice in general.
“A lot of these black women really don’t realize how much of a turn-off they can be”💯
W••H••A•T••S•A•A•P or T•√E••X••T
Plus one(1) nine(9) seven(7) three(3) six(6) four(4) six(6) four(4) three(3) two(2) two(2).....
Do well to let him know I reffered you to him his strategies are top Notch✅....
@@kwwerwnustife1095 👈🏼fake news!!!
@@NickHurrBoi how
Truer words have never been spoken! Real talk! I hardly date black women anymore! That's a fools errand in my opinion! 😎
Better get your mind together soon, because once you hit 21, those years will fly by before you know it.
GUARANTEED.
I’m 68, and I don’t know where the years went.
But I was fortunate enough to meet my soul mate.
We’ve been together 27 years. ❤️❤️
Congratulations on your marriage, hopefully the rest of us can find similar success
Beautiful, congratulations!
Congrats! Blessings to you and yours 💯💯💯
*INFLATABLE DOLLS LAST 27 YEARS??*
I couldn't agree more. Life is in the slow lane till 21, then you hit the fast lane in a lambo. There is no middle lanes.
She is scared of taking care of a sick husband and don’t realise it could be the husband taking care of her. Her father could have passed on the same disease. What is wrong with these women.
112 What's wrong with these women is that they r the reason the word selfish is in the dictionary...
I have seen handful women (dating or married) cut and run when their bf/husband get sick. I have never heard of a husband cut and running on a terminally sick wife..their is probably are... but probably a low number due to society pressure thats not the right thing to do. Where women have a harder time dealing with with and fear of being alone.
True! My mom was a VP at a bank, diagnosed with an immune disease and my dad took care of the finances for the last 20 years and she made more than him.
You never never know what will happen so you better make sure your spouse is worth it.
@@hellbringervic it does happen but not as frequently. My husband has stage 4 breast cancer and being in that circle I have seen families ripped apart. It does change the patient, physically, mentally and emotionally, and sometimes the spouse isn’t ready. Especially, if that spouse is shallow. Few people ever learn how to love someone unconditionally to create a real lasting relationship.
There's a problem today in the general culture with women thinking that being a wife/mother is easy and doesn't require any skill. Being a wife/mother is a job. Its not easy to run a household.
I hope all the girls in their early 20s take the time to listen to this man.
Life will be so much easier
That's not going to happen, when the truth doesn't reflect their opinion on reality the truth gets ignored
Facts
You’re beautiful
Why don't you spread the word
@elgqr what I inspire to have sir I’m 23
I wish I heard your voice when I was 19 years of age.I felt sad for her!You tore her soul apart and she didn't even flinch. Im South African,your words are just pure gold.Undeserved!!!
Fellow South African here mzala. South African women need to hear him more
Not only women but us men too. We can't complain about women while we are not working on being the best versions of ourselves.
Shoutout to you fellow Mzansi-ans
@Subz Jali ; Why is that?
Has American feminism ruined your women, too? 🤔
@@patriciacoley3801 Yup. The things happening there with regards to women's actions, behaviour and mindset is happening here. It's so rife too
South African here, we are in the same boat as black men in the USA when it comes to black woman.
If I had a dollar for every time a BW described their past relationship as “toxic” I would be a rich man🤦🏾♂️🤔 .....
You'll have Jay-Z money
You’ll have Rockefeller money 💀
😂😂😂
All the women I dated in my adult life didn't know who they wanted. Crazy asf they blame everything on the man for the problems she created in the relationship.
@@kamaukokayi-taylor7315 😅😭
In her defense, she’s 5’11 and went to school for free with a degree in sport training. She’s an athlete; probably a hooper. The guys she’s been around didn’t see her in a romantic sense. She’s kinda tomboy-ish. The guys she wants want a feminine girly girl; which she is not. She should’ve locked down her “Love & Basketball” guy that she broke up with.
Agreed, solid argument.
You right ashy larry
Yep. She looks like 2 Chainz
She's not really all that attractive to begin with. I see a lot of black men nowadays dating outside their race. Especially if you lived in the bay area, there's tons of black men that prefer Asian women. Basketball is pretty big in a lot of Asian American communities, so there's tons of girls who grow up playing basketball and admiring black athletes. Black women have some TOUGH competition. An average looking black woman will NEVER be able to compete against a cute Asian girl in the sexual marketplace.
@@savagewaifu4694 I really literally lol!
Her mother: Epitome of a great, kind-hearted, caring, loving woman who actually lived up to the vows she took.
Her: "That looks hard".
Absolutely tragic. Her mom must be so poud.
@Ghost Queen Returns got damn you knew her father or something?
@Ghost Queen Returns you sound so mad and mean. I hope nobody is suffering you other than cats
@@wayklm9471 Bruh i just turned 24 and this is what, is out here?? It's looking, Really Bad ..
@Ghost Queen Returns respect the dead, thats sad you said that
@Ghost Queen Returns you must be a miserable human being.
As someone who’s lived in Philly most of my life, this man is on point. Some of the most lost souls I have ever come across here in this city. Screaming “where have all the good men gone” at the sky on every street corner.
I met 2 from Philly in my life. Two of the worst I ever met. That part hit home
I live in Philly that hit home real hard been saying this gif years Philly women are so masculine
Same thing on the 'burgh side of the state
Facts
I dated a chick from Philly she was cool to date but & could have been marriage material.
Had a Masters degree, overweight & Argumentative.
If she would have lost some weight & the need to be right all the time ,I would have married her.
She was funny, talented and all out sexy.
But that mouth!
I’m hooked..... this man is finally telling women what should have been said long ago.
Kevin's analysis gets sharper and sharper with every video. He has definitely found the root of the issues of the male/female relationship in the black community and picks it out so very adeptly.
This girl was so lost. She kept talking in circles and just was not understanding what he was trying to point out to her.
Worst think is, she look at herself as the cream of the crop LOL!!!!
Pump & dump energy.. Smh 😵😵😵
@@innerstatescrilla1887: "Pump & dump energy" Yup. That's WHY 'she' left the 'Toxic' ex BF: For-dem-streets. SMH
"she is for the railroad" - thomas and friends
Broad street line.
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By that you're essentially saying "she's with us" dont fuckin do Thomas the Tank Engine like that dude delete this stupid fuckin comment
@@misstrunchbull3953 ok????????????
MURDER ! 😭
I came across Kevin and I realized what I've done so far in life have been wasting potential. Thank you Kevin 🙏🙏
The arrogance and audaciousness from the women who appear on this show...
You’d think by now they’d know he’s not to be bullshitted...
god bless Mr. Samuels.
I am a Black Female, you know, I m suspicious about these Women. This sounds fishy. He can't be their dad, and their character is set before age 2. I don't know any Women this terrible and I wouldn't be friends with someone like this. This grew up in the suburbs, and my Married Parents raised Me well.
They like to ride the bull lol
@@maxinefowler1186 I know women like this in my family, I have dated them too. They are everywhere. Spoil, selfish, arrogant, disrespectful.
@@maxinefowler1186 anecdotal data doesn't mean much
@@maxinefowler1186 call in guarantee you are one of them
I simply cannot believe how absolutely honest Kevin can be. It's brutal but its so needed and true.