Never had a boyfriend? Never dated? I SingleChronicles7

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  • @hooballoolify
    @hooballoolify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Everything you've said... but at 51 years old! I've had "dating close calls" but nothing ever worked out. It's very frustrating (sighing). My best friend just got married for the first time at 52 last month. I'm excited for her! Still praying for hope (myself).

  • @lindokuhlekhoza7571
    @lindokuhlekhoza7571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Knowing your worth, and sticking by your principles is key🔑💯

  • @NadiaVenice
    @NadiaVenice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    you're beautiful, im sure you could've been in a relationship by now but im realizing that the status of having been in a relationship does not determine your worth and just because a man comes your way doesn't mean you need to date them. i respect you for not settling

  • @authenticallybria
    @authenticallybria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    New subbie ❤️ I found your tik tok video on this and I completely agree! Knowing your worth is KEY and it's sad that most people don't know that. I'm 28, never had a bf, date(s), or kiss. I contemplated doing online dating but it never sat well with me in my spirit. I'm holding on by faith that my first bf will be my husband. Being single isn't something to be ashamed of, but it's been a blessing for all these years.

    • @singlechronicles7
      @singlechronicles7  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing! I too have thought about online dating but I’ve always felt like I was going ahead of God because I was too impatient to wait on Him and His timing. And that is why I never went through with it. I believe that in the right season, God will open those doors for us but in the meantime, now I know that I have a sister in faith who is in the same boat as I am. it feels so good to know that we are not alone!

    • @user-ds6pk8wt3k
      @user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude, not even a fucking-kiss?

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You’re so pretty. I’m 23 and I haven’t had a relationship/sex either and I can feel so ashamed about it at times. But I really wanna wait on the right guy for me

    • @singlechronicles7
      @singlechronicles7  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So are you!! You are so much better off waiting on the right guy. I stand with you on that one. I don’t know what’s it’s like on the other side because I don’t have any experience but from what I’ve seen, it’s not worth it. Wait on God and I believe He will far exceed your expectations!!

    • @user-ds6pk8wt3k
      @user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just go Tinder, sis.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You & SC7 need to be GLAD your soul has not been hurt by someone who wasn’t right for you. Don’t you EVER be ashamed or embarrassed about that. Sex is something you don’t want to get involved with unless the man has committed himself to you. I was a virgin when I got married & I am proud of that. My spouse was very glad he was the first.

    • @prettybrown6247
      @prettybrown6247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davisholman8149 Thank you for this. I’ve noticed older women who are virgins in their 20’s feel the same way! I’ve read so many comments on Tiktok from people who express that they feel ashamed of it. I feel better towards mine, but it has taken alot of time including me getting older to realize it’s not a bad thing and I should go on my own pace.

  • @roosrosambert6183
    @roosrosambert6183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm going into 21 yrs as a man. Never had a kiss, never been in a relationship, virgin and want to wait for marriage. God is good all the time

  • @Faith.Fashion.Food.
    @Faith.Fashion.Food. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen sis!! People just don't get it and that's ok. Literally felt this on a deeper level! Thank you ✨✨

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've always found it more shocking to hear of a woman reaching a certain age than it is for a guy to have never dated anyone before, because women are not expected to make the first move or do the pursuing like men are.

  • @chloemoses5941
    @chloemoses5941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much for this video!
    This was meant for me. I am currently 25, going to be 26 and I am in the same place. This blessed me so much ❤️🙏🏽

    • @singlechronicles7
      @singlechronicles7  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It blesses me to know that I am not alone so thank you!

    • @chloemoses5941
      @chloemoses5941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@singlechronicles7 No, thank you! I admire you for speaking your truth and not being afraid to walk in it. You are definitely not alone, it just means that God is keeping us hidden for the right reasons.

    • @singlechronicles7
      @singlechronicles7  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yess!

  • @bongiweqilishane4379
    @bongiweqilishane4379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hey this really helped me alot.Thank you .I'm almost 21 ,I'm still a virgin and I'm also saving myself for marriage. I have never been in a serious relationship too.Its hard to be single especially when everyone is in a relationship

    • @singlechronicles7
      @singlechronicles7  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @user-ds6pk8wt3k
      @user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prude LMAO.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So proud of you - so is God. You spouse will be glad too someday.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People at your age would not rush that fast into getting married. By looking at your age, you are starting to reach the age where you are old enough to gamble; therefore, being single at that age is not that hard. Even people at that age 16 up to 21, I mean sure, they can be couples but if they get married at that age that young, that is rushing way too fast. People at your age can become couples but marriage would be way too fast. I would say you have plenty of time to find a correct partner. There is plenty of chance to get married even if you never found a partner at your twenties. At your current age, there is no shame in being single.
      So if you plan to be a virgin and want to save yourself for marriage, one thing to do is not to think about being anyone's fiance at a young age. Wait til you get older and get to know that person for 6 months or 1 year and then marry that person. When you get a fiance that young, you will receive peer pressure into having sex before marriage. So good thing you don't have a fiance. So that way, you can make it a choice to stay a virgin and wait til you are married.

  • @proctorjunior14
    @proctorjunior14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad I have been enlightened and aware of your existence.

  • @Ginza92
    @Ginza92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 30 never had a girlfriend. I have a few reasons why some men never ask out woman even if they really want to. 1st if I see a gorgeous woman, I automatically think she has a boyfriend since she is so beautiful and cannot possibly be single. 2nd, the man could be suffering from low confidence or bad self-image. I always think that I'm not worthy of a women's love or I think I have nothing to offer her in a relationship. 3rd, most men have no idea when it is appropriate to ask out a woman. I mean if she is working on the job you don't want to bother her by hitting on her when she's working. Thats why a lot of people turn to online dating. At lease the man knows that women are looking to date men on there. I know online dating feels cheap and most young people don't want to do it, but I fear that's just the way of the future.

  • @heavenlyjoy
    @heavenlyjoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God made me to see this video for a reason. Thank you sis, God bless you.
    New subscriber❤️❤️

  • @eldonpillai1373
    @eldonpillai1373 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    34years and still waiting. Im probably in the 1% of guys out there who hasnt been in a relationship or had anything intimate.

  • @matopishongwe1179
    @matopishongwe1179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed to hear this

  • @BrokeToBlessed
    @BrokeToBlessed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl same! Love this

  • @ZaweehTV
    @ZaweehTV ปีที่แล้ว

    i really adore you young lady. Stay on your course.. Am so happy for you.

  • @elabanks1448
    @elabanks1448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think your ideas correspond to mine.I totally agree with you.Thanks for such an inspiration.

  • @SLFDance4God
    @SLFDance4God 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this!

  • @AmonnaeAllDayErryday
    @AmonnaeAllDayErryday ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 21 for 21 years I’ve been begging god for a boyfriend and I’ve never got one

  • @AgnesKazembe-q2t
    @AgnesKazembe-q2t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just turned 22 this month nd i have never been into a relationship nd I sometimes feel as if something is wrong with me, i have zero experience with relationship nd dating staff....thank you for the video 😇 i just pray i find a right partner 😊

  • @DwightP-h7h
    @DwightP-h7h 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like ur story. U don't want a boyfriend. U need a real man with value. who will value u.

  • @SILENCIAQUEEN
    @SILENCIAQUEEN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessss same sis

  • @imquinn5572
    @imquinn5572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl don’t get in one stay single sis ! It’s not worth it 0/10 DO NOT RECOMMEND!

  • @amandachats6431
    @amandachats6431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 🌸🌸

  • @jjay6149
    @jjay6149 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where u from ?

  • @Yoshi2x
    @Yoshi2x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok but I bet you did one of those Netflix and chill dates huh

  • @michaelangst6078
    @michaelangst6078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You expecting a top 5% looking guy to wait until marriage to have sex with you is a pretty huge ask... A lot of men in todays world would love a woman with your values, but they aren't going to be the guys you would desire

  • @trueone3093
    @trueone3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are beyond beautiful so easy for a girl like you. All you have to do is step outside. So it’s by choice. I’m glad you have your head on strong

  • @myash32
    @myash32 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey how are you?
    Do you have like an email to connect, etc?