What makes life worth living? Yale professor shares how to find joy

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  • @danielcitizenman5510
    @danielcitizenman5510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My daughter gave me this book for my birthday,and I am so grateful for the insight it has given me.Happy 2023 , and a big shout-out to Maria and the crew!!!👍🙏🤗😎😇

  • @cynthiahonorio9758
    @cynthiahonorio9758 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I agree that pain and suffering are important in life bc this is one way we learn lessons. It is also one opportunity tor us and others to love, help, to learn empathy or to forgive. Thank you for this interview.

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've noticed the opposite effect can happen. The more life and the world chews you up and spits you out the more calloused, numb and mean you can become.

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Not everyone has the luxury of having friends many people are introverted also prefer to be alone and can still be successful.

    • @diplomatamaravilhosa2813
      @diplomatamaravilhosa2813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Introvert doesn’t mean alone. Humans are social primates, the need to be around people is science, not a personal preference.

  • @marcospacheco5196
    @marcospacheco5196 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Read this book it changed my life!!

  • @nancyhsu5565
    @nancyhsu5565 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Perfectly said. Miroslav Volf is a brilliant and compassionate human being. I hope this gets viewed millions of times because we need to hear this to change our lives and others around us. I can't wait to read his book!

    • @laurawalker711
      @laurawalker711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Read the Holy Bible

    • @nancyhsu5565
      @nancyhsu5565 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurawalker711 I'm an agnostic. I need the proof of God in a more tangible way. I have yet to meet a person who is not a religious hypocrite. Oddly, I admire Miroslav Volf who does believe in the higher power. But, I'm open-minded and hopeful.

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious ปีที่แล้ว

      you can find any of the things inside it online or talking with a stranger. Find a friend.

    • @nancyhsu5565
      @nancyhsu5565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yoursubconsciousTrue. Many books, online information and people can offer these insights. When someone is going through one crisis after another, it's about SURVIVAL and not contemplating life's philosophies. I find this professor's nature calming and his message is a reminder to look within for that strength because most times we can only trust ourselves. Try finding a true friend these days; it's nearly impossible.

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nancyhsu5565 - Nancy, I think you and I would have awesome conversations if we were to be friends in real life. I think I can learn a lot from you.

  • @Yogagirl9935
    @Yogagirl9935 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Health is the most important thing in life

    • @davidcorreia3901
      @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes and without money Health is a secondary issue.

    • @mikestefka6668
      @mikestefka6668 ปีที่แล้ว

      Health and time are underestimated until you get older, then they are everything.

  • @davidcorreia3901
    @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Money most definitely solves almost ALL of your problems. Not having money contributes to ALL of your problems. I'm in a really bad spot now and money would 100% solve them.

  • @agoogleuser9218
    @agoogleuser9218 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How to find joy is very subjective and varies greatly from person to person. It really comes down to your personal values and asking what makes you happy.

    • @walkietalkietraveller2932
      @walkietalkietraveller2932 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      summed up perfectly :)

    • @___beyondhorizon4664
      @___beyondhorizon4664 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I worked for 2 months remotely for a health insurance company, calling Medicare members about health risks assessment. I can tell you that they taught me to seize everyday, living life to the fullest.
      Once we ages, we are physically weaker by the day. Can track the trail, can't Walk too long, can't go up/ down the steep stairs etc.
      I travel the world, enjoy the journey, so I continue to save up for my journey. I don't want to regret on my sick bed regretting that I didn't get to see the world heritage sites while I am healthy.

  • @akashinvictus
    @akashinvictus ปีที่แล้ว +205

    It's always funny to me how TV networks owned and run by billionaires are able to run stories about 'money's not that important' being discussed at hyper elite universities with a straight face.

    • @fromthefountofyouth
      @fromthefountofyouth ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not that it isn't important but at what point is it enough and at what cost to yourself and others? You don't need to be a billionaire to attend Yale. A fair few millions will do. In fact, money soon becomes meaningless after it succeeds in solving the basic existential worries.

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😉

    • @gameimprovements4347
      @gameimprovements4347 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fromthefountofyouth Facts. Right on point

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Just like a beautiful girl saying looks aren’t that important . Although they are not wrong. People less fortunate would like to atleast get a taste too to determine if it’s true. More money or good looks doesn’t mean all your problems evaporate. It just means you’ll have different type of problems. For example.. you’ll attract very parasitic people on a regular basis and most people intention would revolve around what they can get from you

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@donatello9482 yup! This is a nutshell

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU SO MUCH. WE NEED MORE CLASSES LIKE THIS. TAUGHT IN HIGH SCHOOL AND JUNIOR COLLEGE.

  • @Mali-fm3rc
    @Mali-fm3rc ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Am i the only one who found peace, serenity, joy after going back to God?

    • @affie3279
      @affie3279 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @coolsaint6044
      @coolsaint6044 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup, there is only one source of true joy. His name is Jesus.

    • @davidcorreia3901
      @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No, thousands have also turned to God. It saved my brother's life.

    • @diplomatamaravilhosa2813
      @diplomatamaravilhosa2813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s called Serotonin 😂 You can find it by taking Zoloft too

  • @TheSunshineRequiem
    @TheSunshineRequiem ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well, for most people, money is only enough when they finally get old and retire. The system is hugely flawed because when we need resources the most, we are young and broke. However, when we are old and have less need for these resources, we have typically saved enough by that time.

  • @SntYvsLrnt
    @SntYvsLrnt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's all about intentional living. Be intent with your time and do things that bring you joy and not keep up with society's norms.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    SUGGESTION: PLEASE CONSIDER MAKING THIS CLASS AVAILABLE ONLINE. LIKE A SATURDAY CLASS/ WORKSHOP.

  • @merian_d
    @merian_d ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I would A’s this class. Those who do not understand pain will not understand peace.

  • @ryersongorman5237
    @ryersongorman5237 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    If you have to pay $5,000.00 in tuition to take a class, "What makes life worth living?" Then you have the wrong purpose of your existence. The majority people around the world work endlessly without having time to think, "What makes life worth living." They just know they have lot of responsibilities to be alive day by day.

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well my country has cheaper colleges but Yale is Yale tho

  • @yogadiva39056
    @yogadiva39056 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Full disclosure, Shriver is the publisher of this book. Open Field is her imprint at Penguin Random.

    • @charlesberkeley6429
      @charlesberkeley6429 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her empathy as a born elite who has a financial incentive backed by the Today crew is truly heartwarming stuff, isn't it? Everyone, let's support Maria Schriver in her path toward true sanctimonious financially rewarding enlightenment.

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good catch. Biased.

  • @aqn1976
    @aqn1976 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always thought there should be an elective during the 2nd Semester of High School Senior YEAR and class similar to this!!! If so, i truly TRULY believe more kids will become most assuredly become "better" ADULTS !!! Kudos for Yale to have such a class as I am sure all the students will have benefited from this course in some form or fashion in their lives!!!

  • @BashoStrikes
    @BashoStrikes ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've a friend who graduated from Yale forty years ago. I didn't bother with college at all. He's broke, I'm not.

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights ปีที่แล้ว

      lol, what went wrong?

    • @BashoStrikes
      @BashoStrikes ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beatricerights He's just one of those poor souls who can't handle the real world. School's one thing - reality is another for folks like him it seems.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SO MUCH. YOU GUYS MADE MY DAY!!!! I LOVE YOU AND I THANK YOU.

  • @guidedstars
    @guidedstars ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The issue is that people try to reach the goal of supreme happiness/ joy so they're extremely future driven and depressed along the journey to what they think will end up being happiness. Our goal should be finding contentment, being ok with what we have, looking around, saying, one day I'm gonna have this thing and it will make me happy, but if i don't get it, that's ok because I'm already at my goal, I'm content/ at peace with myself. You can get this and that but even once you have this and that, you won't find happiness/ joy because you aren't content with yourself at the moment, so no amount of achievements or anything will truly make you happy. I think one of the best way to be content/ at peace with yourself is to find religion but I'm sure there are other ways too.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH. I JUST BOUGHT IT ON AMAZON.

  • @JohnHoranzy
    @JohnHoranzy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More rich people telling us that money is not important. .... Some also tell us that only our identity with the party is what gives our lives meaning and identity. Let the righteous people in power lead our lives/s.

  • @Phlegethon
    @Phlegethon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it's nice to just say stuff that people can't really prove right or wrong

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! YOU GUYS ROCK THE HOUSE!!!

  • @ligbzd837
    @ligbzd837 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    LOVE. We will live for LOVE, and we will die for LOVE.

  • @kelleywyskiel3478
    @kelleywyskiel3478 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I took the course for Happiness at Yale at it was life changing and eye opening. I still follow most of the practices I learned. It was such a new idea as coursework that I think we only had about 30 students. Rare for a yalie class.
    So this course I’ll bet is a powerful lesson to learn

    • @sp123
      @sp123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Put the syllabus online, sis

  • @baldeagle4710
    @baldeagle4710 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    being born to wealthy parents makes life worth living

    • @JackKincaid..
      @JackKincaid.. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shallow Mr. Eagle, very shallow.. Lol

    • @davidcorreia3901
      @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@JackKincaid.. he's not wrong... It definitely helps.

  • @easygamingwwiigamingchanne729
    @easygamingwwiigamingchanne729 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Joy is in professor's salary, benefits, 3 months vacation and lifetime tenure!))

  • @gameimprovements4347
    @gameimprovements4347 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You'll experience a broader and more truer form of happines when you're not just happy FOR people, you're happy ABOUT people. Example: When you can understand the ratios from good to bad people even in human caused tragedy, you'll find far more happiness and peace. To further break it down- look at the "official story" of 9/11. Just over ten terrorists maliciously caused that atrocity but what is often overlooked in that same tragedy is the 1000's of good people that were trying to help people at that very same moment. Be happy ABOUT people!

    • @craven5328
      @craven5328 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reminds me of when Mr. Rogers said "look for the helpers."

    • @gameimprovements4347
      @gameimprovements4347 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@craven5328 never heard him say that. Nonetheless a great line

    • @guilhermepicolloduarte8110
      @guilhermepicolloduarte8110 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never people are demons. I will do everything in my power to be away from people. Humans are the root of all evil

  • @Goody_Deids
    @Goody_Deids ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honour everyone.

  • @ernestwinata7908
    @ernestwinata7908 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Greendale community college did it first

  • @troyott2334
    @troyott2334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CHRIST MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mikestefka6668
    @mikestefka6668 ปีที่แล้ว

    Different strokes for different folks, I like living in the country around nature, and spending time spoiling the little ones.

  • @livi_bridge
    @livi_bridge ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think if you have the support system you need then yes there is that opportunity for you to turn your life around and do what truly makes you happy. But if not, then you’ll definitely fall to the norm of whatever job pays a lot I’ll do type of mentality. I worked logistics for 6 almost 7 yrs and I decided enough was enough. I was so miserable and angry everyday. But if it wasn’t for my boyfriend supporting me emotionally, mentally and financially while I made this big life change to do what makes me happy I honestly don’t know where I’d be. We have kids and bills much like a lot of people so to make that change on your own without support would feel like it’s impossible.

    • @jamisedenari2449
      @jamisedenari2449 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Having support financially to become successful is something a lot of these teachers miss.

    • @davidcorreia3901
      @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you marry? Are you still together?

    • @sp123
      @sp123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What career field did you change to

  • @christine6059
    @christine6059 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He seems like a lovely person but there’s nothing new here.

    • @Likeacannon
      @Likeacannon ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His earlier book Exclusion and Embrace changed my life, it was like nothing I’d ever heard before.

  • @donlye7698
    @donlye7698 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    - Live a life worth remembering -
    - Bruce Lee -

  • @johncywinski9530
    @johncywinski9530 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very intuitive you’ve been sharing what Jordan Peterson has said for years. Wild news 👀

  • @charlesberkeley6429
    @charlesberkeley6429 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting topic and I'm sure the book has transformed the lives of many people. I doubt it will have any effect on the vacuous panel of sycophants presented at the end of the piece, though.

  • @Renie20D
    @Renie20D ปีที่แล้ว +1

    financial stability Helps

  • @richardrobinson3105
    @richardrobinson3105 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is that Maria Shriver?
    Great interview also. Money is not everything at all

  • @byron8657
    @byron8657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You cannot know what happiness is if we have not known what pain n sufferings! Invest in time of being alone this will give you time to wonder in search for the truth and have holy curiosity that will make your life worth living. Albert Einstein; In our deathbeds there are just two things that people regret for, one is that we have loved a little and that we have travelled a little! From the Supreme Buddha; More so there are just two kinds of peoples in our life the one who makes us happy and the other one who teaches us lessons k!

  • @ZZpppp945
    @ZZpppp945 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No single mom asks “what am I perusing,? 😂😂😂

  • @j00ktau
    @j00ktau ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TL:DR don't get fired and lose your means to make a living

  • @jafrasar1
    @jafrasar1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hopefully the government can ‘shrink their appetite for taxes’ and paying themselves gargantuan sums.., relative to what they actually accomplish.; lawmakers salaries should be based on what good laws they actually make.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 ปีที่แล้ว

    GRAY BASKERVILLE AND PAT GANAHL SHOWED ME. THAT LIFE IS ABOUT DRIVING AND OWNING A RELIABLE HOT ROD. AND ENJOYING THE HOT ROD CULTURE. VERY SIMPLE AND BASIC. I AM THANKFUL AND GRATEFUL FOR THEIR INFLUENCE ON MY LIFE.

  • @eksbocks9438
    @eksbocks9438 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A guy who makes sufficient income and lives in a gated community, is going to have a different perspective on life.
    I don't have that. And I've also had to deal with society's worst people on a daily basis.
    That's the only thing holding everyone else back.

  • @seniormercado5943
    @seniormercado5943 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING ?...when you connect back with him that created you then you will understand that you was created by his will to serve a purpose and our purpose is not to be depress and unhappy...Jesus said i came that you may have live and have it more abundantly''' ..that makes live worth living....the live that God gives not what the world offers...

  • @grafxgrl8030
    @grafxgrl8030 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only way to find True Joy is to know Jesus Christ. I don’t care what he or anyone else says. Until you know Him for yourself, you’ll never know true joy.

  • @deathbyathousandcats
    @deathbyathousandcats ปีที่แล้ว

    One of my lovers found Joy, but didn't work out

  • @Theendofeverything7036
    @Theendofeverything7036 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Somebody tell Corporate America 😂

  • @lothean2099
    @lothean2099 ปีที่แล้ว

    Elements of Buddhism

  • @youtubeed12345
    @youtubeed12345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Depends if ur friends are worth it

  • @dianabraley8307
    @dianabraley8307 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If a human has to have a show tell them what brings joy then you are not alive. Just look around you.

  • @kartiersupremewhite330
    @kartiersupremewhite330 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can learn a lot from someone you totally disagree with!

  • @tindee3052
    @tindee3052 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @r.m.90
    @r.m.90 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What if nothing makes you happy.

    • @Likeacannon
      @Likeacannon ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That’s called depression buddy, but it’s not hopeless. Find a service like Better Help where you can talk to someone who can help you experience happiness.

    • @mikestefka6668
      @mikestefka6668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try changing your life, do new and different things. You will find what is special to you.

  • @xtradrew9836
    @xtradrew9836 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why have this segment?

  • @TerenaTCloud
    @TerenaTCloud ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I guess it does pay to go to an ivy league university

  • @laurawalker711
    @laurawalker711 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Only Jesus

    • @yvonneplant9434
      @yvonneplant9434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Atheism is growing because you won't just keep your faith to yourself. Trying to force it on other people is wrong.

    • @janna4994
      @janna4994 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

    • @solanan.6223
      @solanan.6223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yvonneplant9434 If you had access to a Truth that transforms people's eternities, you would share it too. I pray you come to know the love of Jesus that we've found! It's available to all.

    • @charstar13
      @charstar13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's plenty of depressed christians though...

    • @emskeeeee
      @emskeeeee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

  • @MrCaptainPlanet
    @MrCaptainPlanet ปีที่แล้ว

    Discovery--- That's the answer.

  • @joelfehrman7382
    @joelfehrman7382 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hate yourself and then you will find joy!

  • @MrYtuarte
    @MrYtuarte ปีที่แล้ว

    See ya

  • @alphaomega1351
    @alphaomega1351 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Life sucks! There's no amount of religious mythology that can delude that fact. 😶

  • @jholid6y
    @jholid6y ปีที่แล้ว

    They are making sure students keeps living bc those debt doesn’t pay itself.

  • @alphaomega1351
    @alphaomega1351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just believe in the Great Pumpkin 🎃. 😶

  • @Andreassss1994
    @Andreassss1994 ปีที่แล้ว

    That professor clearly hasn’t talked to an INTP

  • @TuxBearlux
    @TuxBearlux ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Money 💰 Doesn't = Happiness.
    So donate to me 🥺. I will suffer for you. 😞

  • @The_ashley23
    @The_ashley23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here we go another person who is well above every average persons means telling people how they should live..... my gosh it's defeating

  • @TheRealMoonSage
    @TheRealMoonSage ปีที่แล้ว

    🫶👌💛

  • @OneAdam12Adam
    @OneAdam12Adam ปีที่แล้ว

    Simon Sink has a better perspective.

  • @chocopandan
    @chocopandan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So capitalism doesn’t equate happiness? Suffering is a teacher of compassion and community means the most? Lots of people need to learn this cause there is much suffering due to capitalism.

    • @ocampbell1954
      @ocampbell1954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So what's your solution?

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Obviously… most of the people at Ivy Leagues aren’t idiots trying to make a quick buck… these are LEADERS that make changes in our lives that often go unseen. 💛

    • @Autisticgyal
      @Autisticgyal ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ocampbell1954 COMMUNISM BABY

    • @jamisedenari2449
      @jamisedenari2449 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @davidcorreia3901
      @davidcorreia3901 ปีที่แล้ว

      Capitalism IS the solution to YOUR happiness, not someone else's.

  • @brandydouglass9247
    @brandydouglass9247 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing new here

  • @dennisgahm
    @dennisgahm ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus Christ is Life. I don’t think he said that - me judging from the appearance. So I should teach him.

  • @seiwarriors
    @seiwarriors ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah without money what choices do you have. None, money brings choices to your door not lessens you. All this community stuff sound awful.

  • @deano1018
    @deano1018 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is nothing new. Gurus, holy people and ancient philosophers have said the same things thousands of years ago for free. None had a book for sale 😂

  • @javaweb1
    @javaweb1 ปีที่แล้ว

    and doesn't take into accou structural oppression...not surprising.

  • @leesmac404
    @leesmac404 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop!

  • @bigmike4133
    @bigmike4133 ปีที่แล้ว

    You lost me at religion and I have a book to sell. Just seems like another economic endeavor to repackage religious thinking as meaning or wisdom.

  • @betohfinger879
    @betohfinger879 ปีที่แล้ว

    MONEY HEALTH N KNOWLEDGE

  • @jjiimmeerrttiimmee
    @jjiimmeerrttiimmee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    liberal insanity

  • @lilibethvilella
    @lilibethvilella ปีที่แล้ว