Hi Mackenzie - Being nervous about high school is totally normal, but when you talk to any of those kids a few days later, it's not near as bad as their imaginations made it seem. New faces and a chance to make new connections; take advantage of that opportunity and get involved. High schools often have much more to offer to students in the way of clubs, sports, & other activities. There are lots of kids feeling the same way as you and are looking to make connections. This will be the perfect time to make some new friends and possibly try some new activities. Also, a school counselor may be able to hook you up with a support group, so reach out early and take a tour of the school. Anything to make those first weeks of hs easier will be a good investment. You are a pretty girl, so be selective and have fun. Hang in there, Mackenzie....you've got this!
I can relate in the fact that you don't know how to move forward. Find another councilor or someone you trust and confide in them and let them help hold you up and keep your bad habits in check. You might not have someone like that right now but try. It's not easy especially growing up dealing with all thses. Try stay safe and try to enjoy some the little things in your life. I've subscribed and I'm in the comment section if you ever need someone to talk to.
Thank you for sharing your story🙏💛 Yes I and others can definitely relate too many things you are sharing. Although it seems like it's just us because it's our own experience those things are very common the fears that we all have. That's great you do track and continue on something physical like that or even martial arts anything that can bring you pride and joy and learning new skills Our Lives come with our own experiences and our own roller coasters, it's great you're sharing and opening up and from those thoughts and ideas Come how to move forward in positive ways from the different things you're dealing with, Strengthening your mind your spirit your physical, learning new tools for your toolbox to help you cope in positive ways with the things you're dealing with on a daily basis Sometimes life just sucks in many ways while at the same time it's amazing. It's what we do with our feelings..... do we get down on ourselves and do things to harm us......... or do we figure out ways of how to move forward the best we can and even better..... things can be very overwhelming at times...... and also if we put in the work everyday to be the best version of yourself..... there's nothing that you can accomplish and do....... Maybe it's a good idea if you trust your counselor and they're supportive of you..... Having a positive support group besides TH-cam..... someone there like your counselor can be very beneficial and help guide you and give you different ideas that you can discover and figure out why you are self-harming and why you are doing the things you're doing. Situations in your life that you're not liking that are triggering you and you are dealing with that in the self-harm and other things......... by opening up and sharing and talking that's very powerful.......... good job....and that opens up thoughts and conversations and ideas I hope this finds you well... lots of love and prayers...... you got this.... figuring out why you're doing the things you are and why you're feeling the Way You Are And figure out the remedies and how to change those things that do not serve you in a healthy way. You got this. Every morning when you wake up and before sleep say thankful and gratitude for what you have like I'm thankful for my hands and thankful for my voice I'm thankful for my eyes and so on....... doing these things daily help us greatly And also tell yourself often everyday I am amazing I have value I have worth..... I am beautiful inside and out..... looking in the mirror having a conversation with yourself and telling yourself that you love you. How many times people do drugs Vapes alcohol because they can't deal with the pressure and it numbs the pain.... but the problem with that is it's only temporary.... The pain will always still be there unless we deal with it and confront it... setting boundaries for ourselves and others for the room of only good Positive Choices And remembering that it's okay to say No without feeling guilty without being pressured into anything we do not want to do We all love you and we support you🙌 Here's some videos that you may like to help you on your journey. #viral #share #tonyrobbins #brenebrown #youtube #youtuber 1. th-cam.com/video/6kUoTS3Yo4g/w-d-xo.htmlsi=OPtKkzUETtFe8RWb 2. th-cam.com/video/gWyXGT9GLV0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=d9AKruVcsWOAvQAH 3. I am th-cam.com/video/-ScEJ6Lu7xI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=E4TJCATSOMQ7-XFr 4. th-cam.com/video/pVf8S6QWS-s/w-d-xo.htmlsi=vHaajpaw7hi2dLu2 5. th-cam.com/video/NEKHOzrasdg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=1biwyJpgbPSScM3p 6. th-cam.com/video/RSrXxqKfYwI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=PScoxGj6uvfvfH3h
Im in my early 40s so an old man comparatively 😂. But i remember being in school and having similar struggles, people are mean sometimes but dont let them get you down. It gets easier as you age mostly because you learn how to better navigate situations and realize people are gonna hate, move on and dont sweat it. I agree with others saying you might try finding a different counselor that you can open up to. Hang in there, dont be too hard on yourself, you got this!
Don’t listen to people that say you’re not pretty, they are just jealous of you. You’re a very attractive girl. How old are you? Are you still doing self harm? You have so much life ahead of you and you determine what that looks like.
it’s not ur problem that u smell like cigarettes, i know you know this but it’s important not to let others bother you. u should talk to someone about the sh and vape addiction, wanting to quit is the first step which means your already halfway there, you can look up videos of “how to quit”, or “quit with me’s” or, you could find a friend who also wants to quit and you could hold each other accountable? i know that this is really difficult, but i know u can do it. And don’t worry too much about high school, i remember being kinda scared too but it’s so much better than middle school in the sense that it’s bigger so your more likely to find people more like you, that would love to be your friend. Just remember that (even though u don’t care what others think) you’re beautiful inside and out, and they are insecure about themselves and they’re reflecting it onto others. Stay strong💪💪
Don’t do that stuff I appreciate you shared this but we all love you and don’t feel upset a way you can take out your feelings is talking to us and I’ll talk to you so don’t worry I’ll always be here for ya
High School was horrible for me. I want you to know that it will be over. Take peace in knowing that it'll be over before you know it. Plan for what's ahead. Anytime you face bullying or bullshit ass people, just remember that you have so much more life to live after that hell on earth. Because I promise you, none of that will matter in a couple years. None of it. It's literally nothing. The popularity. The bullies. The insecurities. It's all fake. None of that is important. Stop worrying about the smoking. It's bad for you, yes. But you're being too hard on yourself. I smoke. Everyone I know smokes. It's just an addiction. It's something to lean on cause life's a bitch sometimes. For you, it's illegal. That's the tough part. You can't just go to the store and buy that shit like I can. I don't even think about it. It's just something I do cause I have the freedom to do it. You'll be there one day. And you have time to quit. You CAN quit. Life is hard sometimes. And you seem very innocent. You will find out what's actually important. When high-school is over, it's all about money so you can live how you wanna live. Seriously, I need you to listen to this. When it's time for you to find a job, which, if you're old enough, I would recommend you do, so you can have some cash. It will give you a sense of control, security, and confidence. What people think of you isn't really important. They're unimportant. Right now, please worry about obtaining some skills, knowledge, and start figuring out what you wanna do after high school. The sky is really the limit for you. I really need you to see that. You are smarter than you know and you have so much to offer. Learn everything you can. When you find a good opportunity, get everything out of it you can. And you're delusional if you think you're ugly. You're beautiful. What scares me is how innocent you are. How impressionable you are. Boys and men can and will take advantage of that. You will see in the long run that attracting guys isn't the hard part. (High school aged guys are usually flaky, immature, and unintelligent) What you will really look back and realize is that you should of picked the one that will fire you off on all cylinders: Good character, protector, rough around the edges, strong, driven, and makes you happy. If you find him, ask him to take you out. Long story short: Fuck high school, fuck the unimportant people, you worry about you, fuck those people, worry about family and close friends, you have so much more going for you. You should love yourself, I promise you, you should be proud. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't let idiots impress on you. You got other shit going on. Your shit.
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Hi Mackenzie - Being nervous about high school is totally normal, but when you talk to any of those kids a few days later, it's not near as bad as their imaginations made it seem. New faces and a chance to make new connections; take advantage of that opportunity and get involved. High schools often have much more to offer to students in the way of clubs, sports, & other activities. There are lots of kids feeling the same way as you and are looking to make connections. This will be the perfect time to make some new friends and possibly try some new activities. Also, a school counselor may be able to hook you up with a support group, so reach out early and take a tour of the school. Anything to make those first weeks of hs easier will be a good investment.
You are a pretty girl, so be selective and have fun.
Hang in there, Mackenzie....you've got this!
I can relate in the fact that you don't know how to move forward.
Find another councilor or someone you trust and confide in them and let them help hold you up and keep your bad habits in check. You might not have someone like that right now but try. It's not easy especially growing up dealing with all thses. Try stay safe and try to enjoy some the little things in your life.
I've subscribed and I'm in the comment section if you ever need someone to talk to.
Thank you for sharing your story🙏💛
Yes I and others can definitely relate too many things you are sharing. Although it seems like it's just us because it's our own experience those things are very common the fears that we all have.
That's great you do track and continue on something physical like that or even martial arts anything that can bring you pride and joy and learning new skills
Our Lives come with our own experiences and our own roller coasters, it's great you're sharing and opening up and from those thoughts and ideas
Come how to move forward in positive ways from the different things you're dealing with,
Strengthening your mind your spirit your physical, learning new tools for your toolbox to help you cope in positive ways with the things you're dealing with on a daily basis
Sometimes life just sucks in many ways while at the same time it's amazing. It's what we do with our feelings..... do we get down on ourselves and do things to harm us......... or do we figure out ways of how to move forward the best we can and even better..... things can be very overwhelming at times...... and also if we put in the work everyday to be the best version of yourself..... there's nothing that you can accomplish and do.......
Maybe it's a good idea if you trust your counselor and they're supportive of you..... Having a positive support group besides TH-cam..... someone there like your counselor can be very beneficial and help guide you and give you different ideas that you can discover and figure out why you are self-harming and why you are doing the things you're doing.
Situations in your life that you're not liking that are triggering you and you are dealing with that in the self-harm and other things.........
by opening up and sharing and talking that's very powerful.......... good job....and that opens up thoughts and conversations and ideas
I hope this finds you well... lots of love and prayers...... you got this.... figuring out why you're doing the things you are and why you're feeling the Way You Are
And figure out the remedies and how to change those things that do not serve you in a healthy way.
You got this. Every morning when you wake up and before sleep say thankful and gratitude for what you have like I'm thankful for my hands and thankful for my voice I'm thankful for my eyes and so on....... doing these things daily help us greatly
And also tell yourself often everyday I am amazing I have value I have worth..... I am beautiful inside and out..... looking in the mirror having a conversation with yourself and telling yourself that you love you.
How many times people do drugs Vapes alcohol because they can't deal with the pressure and it numbs the pain.... but the problem with that is it's only temporary.... The pain will always still be there unless we deal with it and confront it... setting boundaries for ourselves and others for the room of only good Positive Choices
And remembering that it's okay to say No without feeling guilty without being pressured into anything we do not want to do
We all love you and we support you🙌
Here's some videos that you may like to help you on your journey. #viral #share #tonyrobbins #brenebrown #youtube #youtuber
1. th-cam.com/video/6kUoTS3Yo4g/w-d-xo.htmlsi=OPtKkzUETtFe8RWb
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Im in my early 40s so an old man comparatively 😂. But i remember being in school and having similar struggles, people are mean sometimes but dont let them get you down. It gets easier as you age mostly because you learn how to better navigate situations and realize people are gonna hate, move on and dont sweat it. I agree with others saying you might try finding a different counselor that you can open up to. Hang in there, dont be too hard on yourself, you got this!
You should open up to your councilor.... A problem shared is half solved... Don't forget, you're beautiful 😊
Don’t listen to people that say you’re not pretty, they are just jealous of you. You’re a very attractive girl.
How old are you? Are you still doing self harm? You have so much life ahead of you and you determine what that looks like.
it’s not ur problem that u smell like cigarettes, i know you know this but it’s important not to let others bother you. u should talk to someone about the sh and vape addiction, wanting to quit is the first step which means your already halfway there, you can look up videos of “how to quit”, or “quit with me’s” or, you could find a friend who also wants to quit and you could hold each other accountable? i know that this is really difficult, but i know u can do it. And don’t worry too much about high school, i remember being kinda scared too but it’s so much better than middle school in the sense that it’s bigger so your more likely to find people more like you, that would love to be your friend. Just remember that (even though u don’t care what others think) you’re beautiful inside and out, and they are insecure about themselves and they’re reflecting it onto others. Stay strong💪💪
I'm old enough to be your mother, you seem like a sweet kid please hang on a bit longer i promise it gets much easier when you get old
I think you are beautiful.
Don’t do that stuff I appreciate you shared this but we all love you and don’t feel upset a way you can take out your feelings is talking to us and I’ll talk to you so don’t worry I’ll always be here for ya
High School was horrible for me. I want you to know that it will be over. Take peace in knowing that it'll be over before you know it. Plan for what's ahead. Anytime you face bullying or bullshit ass people, just remember that you have so much more life to live after that hell on earth. Because I promise you, none of that will matter in a couple years. None of it. It's literally nothing. The popularity. The bullies. The insecurities. It's all fake. None of that is important.
Stop worrying about the smoking. It's bad for you, yes. But you're being too hard on yourself. I smoke. Everyone I know smokes. It's just an addiction. It's something to lean on cause life's a bitch sometimes. For you, it's illegal. That's the tough part. You can't just go to the store and buy that shit like I can. I don't even think about it. It's just something I do cause I have the freedom to do it. You'll be there one day. And you have time to quit. You CAN quit.
Life is hard sometimes. And you seem very innocent. You will find out what's actually important. When high-school is over, it's all about money so you can live how you wanna live. Seriously, I need you to listen to this. When it's time for you to find a job, which, if you're old enough, I would recommend you do, so you can have some cash. It will give you a sense of control, security, and confidence. What people think of you isn't really important. They're unimportant. Right now, please worry about obtaining some skills, knowledge, and start figuring out what you wanna do after high school. The sky is really the limit for you. I really need you to see that. You are smarter than you know and you have so much to offer. Learn everything you can. When you find a good opportunity, get everything out of it you can.
And you're delusional if you think you're ugly. You're beautiful. What scares me is how innocent you are. How impressionable you are. Boys and men can and will take advantage of that. You will see in the long run that attracting guys isn't the hard part. (High school aged guys are usually flaky, immature, and unintelligent) What you will really look back and realize is that you should of picked the one that will fire you off on all cylinders: Good character, protector, rough around the edges, strong, driven, and makes you happy. If you find him, ask him to take you out.
Long story short: Fuck high school, fuck the unimportant people, you worry about you, fuck those people, worry about family and close friends, you have so much more going for you. You should love yourself, I promise you, you should be proud. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't let idiots impress on you. You got other shit going on. Your shit.
Btw, the world around you can be molded. When you really get that. It'll change everything. Trust me, I grew up in a trailer-house full of dopeheads.
Yeah, she is going to have lots of friends when she starts up on OnlyFans.
Are you an identical ir fraternal twin?
no i am not and i quit doing all that stuff
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