I've been depressed my whole life and I have to say, I agree. I've never once suddenly thought, "wow, my life SUCKS. I'm gonna go smooch a kid" Like??? what the heLLL is wrong with people?
speaking as someone who had a bad childhood, dropped out of high school, and struggled a lot in my young adulthood - definitely never made me a pedophile 👍🏻
And I’d guess you would have used and loved the opportunity’s he has and does have! Everything he’s thrown away and disregarded! I can’t stand the victim mindset, those people are always the ones with amazing starts in life but are just lazy, privileged assholes!! The fact he used that as an excuse is diabolical! 🤯
@@zaidnava3728 it's not like i've got a moral compass. Even 18 year olds that were my age at the time felt like they had the smell and the ugly taste of something sour but i haven't seen anyone mention the same thing
@@PlagueDoktore I have sufficient medical training and experience to be able to comment: if he lost wait then his peen would actually grow a little bit. It is sometimes called adult acquired buried peni$ syndrome
Sorry are we just gonna skip over the part where the parents impersonated a police officer in order to try to get information from the decoy? Imagine catching a charge over your pedophile son.
"when he put on his little cowboy hat to mosey on down to the child's home"?????? favorite dreading line ever 😂😂😂😂😂 i love the sneaky one liners so much lol
I’m a victim of CSA and it leads to a domino effect that leads into adulthood. It affects all your relationships and interactions every day. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn’t justify hurting other people and altering them for the rest of their life.
I am as well. It changes you fundamentally. We can never make the scars any smaller than they are, but we can make them a smaller part of ourselves by learning, expanding our awareness, and growing into beautiful adults.
Thank you for saying that CP is "child s3x abuse material". Cases like this sometimes frame it in lighter words to avoid being flagged, but it should not be framed in the light!!
@@whateverwhatever4026 True. But god help you if you post copyrighted material from a Hollywood movie or a tv show... they'll be on you before you hit "upload".
I don't think he's Hannah. The writing styles are different, and Vincent isn't smart enough to alter his typing mannerisms to sell the lie, or mindful enough to keep it up consistently without slipping up.
Oh hey, Vincent Ambrosio. I actually went to school with this guy. He wore the cowboy getup all 4 years of highschool despite living in the suburbs of Poughkeepsie. Pretty sure I know who the "1 friend" he refers to is too, since a friend of a friend was always hanging around with him. Dude was always kind of weird, but I dont think anyone expected he'd pull something like this.
@@BrianMedeiros-mq2jl Not that I know of. People thought his cowboy getup was ridiculous, but I don't remember people really hassling him about it. He just kind of kept to himself outside of the one friend of a friend I mentioned. Keep in mind I didn't really know him all that well though. The closest interactions I had with him were him occasionally joining my friend group's card game before first period Spanish in 10th grade, that one time we both got a ride to the mall from the friend of a friend, and the time we sat close to each other during graduation rehearsal.
@@liamweaver2944 I heard about it from an old high school friend I was catching up with in 2021. We were talking about people we knew growing up, and I mentioned how this guy that didnt graduate with us got arrested the next fall after showing up to school with a stolen car. He hits me with something along the lines of "Wild how that doesn't even seem serious compared to what Vinnie ended up pulling." I asked what he meant, and he pulled up the unaired episode on youtube.
Yes. Never telling him no and letting him 'cry it out'. Always acquiescing to his tantrums. Enabling his behavior by excusing it. It breeds this pathetic form of narcissism. The child never learns to deal with stress or frustration so never develops resilience. He basically has the emotional development of a toddler in an adult body.
Bro walks right up to Hansen, reaches in his pocket, and slams a Yugioh deck onto the table glaring at him with a confident smirk. Hansen casually retrieves his deck from his pants pocket and begins shuffling it. Vincent: "I think you know what comes next." Hansen: "Have a seat right over there."
As someone who spent too much time as a teenager trying to talk down suicide-baiting adults on Tumblr, I have very little sympathy for people who use threats of suicide as a form of manipulation. Deadass just say "okay" to people like that now lmao.
Agree. To use the threat of “self-harm”to manipulate or demand attention, care or nude pics of a minor is beyond belief. In psychiatry, there is a phrase that the person with the control..is the person with responsibility. A person can’t put the responsibility of self-harm onto others, when only they have the control. If they have all the control of the self-harm…which they do…only they are responsible.
First time I had a partner threaten do that, I panicked and rushed to their side and fawned all over him. The last time I had a partner threaten to do that, it was my ex saying if I didn’t come back he’d self-yeet, and I said “if you end up doing that, it’s because YOU made the decision to, not because of me.” He did not self-yeet.
As someone who was s-abused as a child, I love this no bs commentary. They absolutely deserve being called out on the BS they say and should feel ashamed they would even say such stupid things.
@@grapesjellys Same. I just came here from Dave's Lemonade, and I was extremely upset that he felt sorry for the monster. Anyone with two brain cells can plainly see that Vincent's crocodile tears and "depression" are just manipulation!
For real, he wasn’t even out of his teens yet. Bro had plenty of time to change. The excuses he made up are so annoying. I’m saying this as someone who has bipolar type 1, severe BPD, complex PTSD, ASD, sleep disorder, and ADHD. It’s extremely hard for me to do anything, but I keep trucking on. No use in wallowing in self-pity. But, I also go to therapy every week since I was 18. I’m 24 now. It takes some time to start to see the change and make the changes, but I got better. He has zero excuse. I understand depression, severe depression, feeling so low you don’t even have the energy to commit suicide. Sometimes, you have to fake happiness for a while until you truly are happy and hopeful. To all that are feeling depressed, remember it does get better. It may not now, but it will soon.
When you're young it seems that way. You haven't been around long so the negative stuff have alot of weight to them because you don't have a backlog of conquering your demons. So I get why he feels that way. I've been there. Heck, all of us have been there. Though not an excuse
False. They all go to a protective custody block, seperate from general population. Look up PREA. It's short for prison r*** elimination act. Lawsuits from families and inmates who have been given the business has changed what happens In jails/prisons the last 20 years.
That intro description fit an inlaw relative of mine to a t. He's almost 40, has never worked, and is nearly out of people to suicide bait into taking care of him. He is so emotionally exhausting and abusive I almost forgot he could also be physically dangerous. This has reminded me.
I had a friend once who was the same. When he caused me to cry out of sadness because I was distraught he wanted to die, I realized that he would never change and that I didn’t deserve to be put through that…. It’s been 7 years and he’s still alive so it’s usually some attention bs 😂
I live with the female version of this. Her boyfriend takes care of her and she has had one job in ten years(for 6 months) and whenever he gets sick of her shit she threatens to end herself. Truly hope he gets the balls to break it off but I’m starting to think he has some kind of Stockholm syndrome.
Consistent, high-quality content that you go out of your way to make free to all. Appreciate it. I'm sure it's been requested before but living in the area, I'd love to hear the Karen Read/death of John O'Keefe case from you. Her case hasn't come to a full conclusion yet (mistrial, currently awaiting retrial) but it's been huge this year and the facts of the case are SO polarizing and inconsistent. I'd love to hear your take, even just stating what is known of the story.
Correct, because the dad read his chat log, and most likely read that the decoy was 12yo. It goes to show how likely the pred's parents would put blame on others.
To be fair, if I saw my son had gone to meet up with anyone they met online but told me nothing you cannot rule out that they are about to be in a situation where they could be abducted or physically harmed...the thought that your kid IS the predator durely comes secondary...
@@intensepassion3382 IMO using a female officer might be effective because the guy might be attracted to attractive legal aged woman especially like an authority figure willing to give him an opportunity to finally get listened to. Maybe his reason for being attracted to minors as well is intellectual acceptance that he can’t get from girls his own age.
Like dreading pointed out, it makes the PDF-FILE, more ashamed and more obvious when they slip up. He's willing to lie and likely get caught up in said lie, as a result of trying to protect his ego with lies. There's only so much details one can make up before they slip up.
@@InVinoVeratas seems like if that’s the case , he would freeze up and reveal less information. I feel like she flattered him and caused his guard to be let down and milked him for truth. This guy obviously isn’t familiar with truth.
I love the way you elaborate on how children view these interactions. It is so important for people to understand that it is never the child’s fault and that they are vulnerable and can be easily influenced by predators - so as someone who had been in exploitative situations / relationships at a young age, thank you. I feel validated and heard.
had the same thought lol to be fair i think cops get fat later in their job they dont start the job fat, they probably need to be at least somewhat fit to pass the police academy
I literally want to send this to my grown son. That's how good out was! He's not into true crimes. I have to figure out a way! He's not a predator. He just needs to hear that intro!
@@Mehki227 If he had a terrible childhood and isn't finding his way up, is his father really the person who should be telling him to take responsibility? That sounds narcissistic AF.
"So pleased he sent her a picture of him in his little hat." You two had no right, but you still did it anyway and now I'm deceased from laughter. Are you happy now, Mr. dreading & Bro dreading? 💀
Pitiful man. I Was molested and raped by my father when I was 5...i have PTSD, severe anxiety, depression. I turned to food and then to heroin and then back to food. Im a 255 LB female (ive lost 30 LBS! On a weight loss journey) so I understand being overweight. None of what this man went through excuses his behavior and the fact that he'sitting there crying and acting like a victim sickens me. I could never ever imagine being in a situation like this. Because there's no excuse for it, nor can I imagine ever using my trauma as an excuse to try to get out of trouble. SICK
So proud of you for your weight loss! I’m struggling right now to make progress so I know how hard it is. And to have had all that trauma on top, I can’t imagine. You’re a badass!
And it’s weird that predators like to say “I knew it. I knew this was a sting,” as if that made them “smarter.” What can be dumber or more out-of-control than “knowing” something is a police sting, and STILL showing up?
I hate myself. That is MY issue to fix. Sure, there's not a day that goes by where I don't in some way hate that people have to see me again, but that is zero reason for me to harm other people. And it is entirely unreasonable to think that your own self pity or pain justifies the actions you inflict on other people. The single time I ever threatened suicide was never threatened. It was quiet and personal and only one person knew about it, my father. Never said a word, but decided it wasn't worth it. I'm 19 now; I was 16 then. Things have gotten better, I'm going to therapy semi weekly, and I'm working to be better than I was. Ambrosio will never do that, and frankly his continued existence is a sin.
stay strong friend. The fact that you turned down the allure of suicide means you have a lifetime to change. You will see better days. Days so good you can't even imagine them now. That's what's in front of you, keep walking this path
You sound very wise and introspective. Often people who feel self hatred and can turn that around can be the very best of people, as this world can often crush the wise, self hating type through jealousy. I don’t say this to make you continue to feel self hatred, just to point out where it’s coming from. Let the real you shine through. I know you can make it. I agree with this other man. Keep walking the path and aim to meet your higher self.
If you hate yourself then you probably don't value your own judgement. Which means you're probably wrong about yourself. Therefore, you're actually pretty cool. No point listening to the opinion of someone you don't respect, even if it's yourself. Nah mean?
Classic incel. Feels he deserves a woman, but can't get one because they're all interested in the good looking "Chads." Everything is everyone else's fault.
@@dogamongstmenprotip: if you think everyone should be matched up according to your standards of who looks good enough to be with whom, the ugliness you should be worried about isn't in your looks.
There's a lot to be said for a sense of humor, interests, a good attitude and work ethic. People in general like those things and a partner will too. The guy said his hobby was driving and smoking cigars. Ain't gonna cut it.
The interviewer, Officer Beth, she does very well. She comes across as genuinely compassionate, and she gets him to let his guard down, put it back up to lie, and then have to reveal his lies. And I think part of her is genuine, that she hopes they can be reached, that she can get them to understand that this will change a child's life. He wanted to talk and she gave him a somewhat friendly, but still realistic, shoulder. I know a lot of people get really upset when they are nice, or when they try to empathise with the criminal too much. But that is their job, to find rapport and connection.
One of the most successful interrogators in history was a Nazi named Hanns Scharff, while other interrogators were using violence, often torture, and intimidation, Hanns befriended captured airmen. He was so effective compared to his peers that the British and Americans recruited him after the war, his techniques are still used today.
If people think interrogators are ‘nice’ to these kinds of people they are as delusional as Vincent is. They are using proven interrogation techniques to get the suspect to confess
I think you need to watch more behind the scenes of people doing interviews and investigations. Pretty much 100% of the time when they leave the room and close the door they are like got him what a piece of shit they have no sympathy for these guys whatsoever. They're playing a part to get them to reveal the most amount of information possible that is their only goal. She might feel somewhat bad that he's only 19 but she definitely does not have any sympathy for him. She knows he's a piece of shit predator that wanted to harm children. That's exactly why she mentioned that bit about not having to make his own decisions and putting the cops on him because that's the most she could do to do a passive aggressive attack at him and still remain in her character.
Yes, just the same as when multiple people come forward to say they were s. abused by someone as children, usually in authority but nobody listened at the time. Certain people fall over themselves to say "It's too late" Those people are also worried about a future knock at the door I'm sure of it.
Exactly, they can't even fathom a normal person being wooed by a minor and just refusing their attention. Someone who isn't already attracted to minors literally can't be "entrapped" with these tactics
I failed high school. I'm considered too mentally disabled to work. I had no life for years. I got my own place at age 25. I'm 28 now. I have the mental functioning and processing of a 14 year old from my autism. I do not understand this man. I've been suicidal. My life sucked so much. You know what I never did with all of this, be a predator. As a matter of fact people found me weird because I avoided children. Sensory wise children are a nightmare to me.
You are still more mature and a better, more functional human than this guy will ever be. The fact that you understand who you are is a huge indicator of your maturity. I wish you the best life possible…you deserve that!
I have ADHD & have quite a few autism-like traits and yeah...this is the main reason why I DO NOT like kids! The younger ones are a sensory nightmare with all the crying & grossness, and older ones are just so awkward to be around because it's like they are living in a completely different world than I do. I have a lot of kids in my family that I barely know cuz I kinda don't wanna know them until they are old enough to have a real conversation with lol. There have generally been only a few kids I have been somewhat comfortable with, but even then..I'm masking my awkwardness around them the whole time. I guess the fact that I don't have autism makes it easier for me and it's less debilitating..but ugh, it's still awful..
I have 2 adult sons with autism.one is severe the other is mild. I wanted the o e that is mildly autistic to move out (he’s 24) because he abuses everyone in the house.he terrorizes us.Im from a tall family so he’s huge,but because of a condition I had as a child it stunted my growth,so I’m only 5’2 and he’s 6’2. He won’t leave but now I’m glad because I’ve realized for good or bad he’s still my son and I do t want him to be lonely.I hope he will move out .I think he can handle it with help.I said all this mainly to let you know that I hope you have all the support of your family and or friends. I’ve known other adult autistics who were independent and I saw that they were happy and some found girlfriends so don’t give up!
Omg, i've actually been in that sort of situation. I was about 14, and a guy who was about... late 20's wanted to date me. And apparently, he was like, 600 pounds or something? He made sure to tell me that. Everytime I told him I couldn't date him, he threatened to kill himself, or said stuff like, "Oh yeah, i'm just a fat, ugly, loser. Of course you wouldn't want to date me." Keep in mind, I was also rather chunky when I was younger, and never said anything negative about his weight. I just told him that I couldn't date him because my parents wouldn't allow it. He really scared the hell out of me...
Good on your parents, if they're actually the ones who put their foot down. Good on you for making up that lie, if not. Regardless of weight, that guy was NOT to be trusted.
My dad found out a 19yo guy from our D&D group & I were flirty online when I was 15. Then the guy dropped out of the group because of "classes" and cut off contact. In my 20s I found out my dad made it explicitly clear the attention was unwanted, illegal and jail would be the best result if he didn't knock it off. I'm sorry more kids don't have someone keeping them safe.
I knew a girl like that in hs. A friend wanted to date her & she told us about her 20 year old bf that threatened to beat us up at a concert we were all meeting up at. When we got there we saw how big he was & dude could barely walk. We knew if we needed to we could go at his knees to resolve any problems he tried to bring our way & luckily for him nothing happened. He looked so goofy calling us “her friends” while in front of his friends he couldn’t tell them who she really was to him. Years later I found out she dropped out, he knocked her up, she became big like him & her life is completely ruined.
It’s nice to have a less depressing case to look at here, like it’s not a parent who killed their kid, someone who killed a sibling etc. I love your insights in all of these cases but while he is a sad sack, it doesn’t leave me depressed like knowing a child was murdered or something similar. I’ve watched probably every TCaP episode back in the day so analyzing (and dunking) on someone like this is especially good content. And although I have seen the original eps and others’ analyses, you offer a fresh look at it.
I'm so glad you're covering these predators in a different way other than the usual "react" slop all over TH-cam. These videos are a great way to absorb information. The pacing and structure are masterful. I'm always excited to watch a new dreading video.
I dont know how you havent reached a million yet!! I think Ive been here since about 400k. your coverage is PHENOMENAL and I recommend your channel whenever the opportunity shows itself
As someone who was SAd as a child by a family member: Thanks dreading for constantly referring to this person as a pathetic loser. Edit: Damn, only served 2 years? "Justice" system.
Well I haven't watched yet, but it seems the guy in this video didn't meet a minor, let alone harm, touch , or even talk to one . Big difference between that and what happened to you. Tbh, I don't like Chris Hanson. Why doesn't he help catch actual predators with real victims? Instead he focuses on setting people up for fake victims. I'd rather they help real child victims instead of using adult women of legal age to bait people.
@@kenw2225 - It's the way that catching somebody who *would've* assaulted a literal child if they could've is *always* helping, given there's zero reason to wait until the person offends and then *attempt* to catch them, when you could *also* just halt a predator before they can victimize a child... Like, I'm genuinely confuse about how catching adults who would've harmed a child (and having everyone involved be consenting adults who understand the operation and are in no physical, mental or emotional danger) is *not* doing good in the world. No, wait until PDF File offends and then hope you catch them. Every single one. Even if you might've caught a good few before they ever offended or re-offended, had you *simultaneously* done sting operations. "...the guy [...] didn't meet a minor, let alone harm, touch, or even talk to one..." and that's kind of the best part. He would have, but he didn't get to. NOBODY from that point forward was - or could have been - a victim of SA. That's like saying a lion's not a real predator if it didn't get to kill anything, or a violent person isn't really violent if they never managed to harm somebody. Patently false. I bet you still wouldn't hang with either, if they made active strides to harm somebody. Nobody cares if his attempts at taking advantage of a minor were in vain. We care that there were attempts at all.
@@kenw2225It's not possible to consider child SA as a thing an innocent person can be entrapped on. Innocent people don't want to harm children under any circumstance. People who would do a crime but for the lack of opportunity, or fear of being caught, are as bad as those who actually do it. Their cowardice makes them even more reprehensible if anything. Mens rea > Actus reus.
This pred was unbearable. The victim mindset he has and the “poor me” mentality is like the living dead. If you want to do absolutely nothing with you life, that’s the path you take. A tough life?! He’s obviously well fed, has a roof over his head, clothes on his back and has had opportunities to study/go to college… which is a privilege more than most don’t have. The fact he’s trying to leverage all this bullshit makes it even worse. Scares me how creepy and dangerous these predators are. They really use all and any excuse they can muster up, there is absolutely no excuse for being a predator, ever. As always, thanks for covering this Dreading! ❤
I hear you! He was still living at home for crying out loud. Many of us could not be living at home at his age nor years younger for our own safety and wellbeing.
So true. We have all run across people who are fixated on how “bad” they or their life is, but will have a 100 reasons why any suggestion or help to change can’t work, even when it clearly can.
bipolar can make you have a tough life if youre a millionaire, look at Kanye. Bipolar depressions are NOT passive, they actively unravel everything you have. It hurts like a horse stepping on your chest. But, having a tough life doesnt make you a pedophile
It's his go to manipulation technique. Not getting what he wants? Threaten to kill himself, blame the other person. Caught trying to have sex with a minor: immediately cry about how awful his life is. I don't even think he's a vulnerable narcissist. I think he just learned at too young an age that throwing a tantrum will get him what he wants. Clearly no one ever said,"are you done?" When he was throwing fits as a child.
you'd be surprised. I've chatted with dudes on apps with small ducks and they usually admit it because they're not trying to catfish me. I actually appreciate it except with this dude. Fuck this dude. Every other guy with a small Thang who isn't a predator is fine with me.
YUP!! I know sometimes people can get better but like once some go past a certain point that’s it. And I’m shocked at lenient the punishments are for these people.
That's why I believe the RSO list sound be abolished & they should never be let out of prison. Our government really doesn't like children they will never matter.
Sexual predators in general cannot be reformed. They almost always reoffend and even the rare few that don’t, still have predatory urges. Predators exist in every species of animal. Humans are no exception.
Love your channel, but this needs CC so incredibly bad. All I heard through the entire thing was "so you just wanted to talk to her?" "mem meen minna wanna have..." "and you talked to her about that?" "mmhm. minna min jan..." "What did you ask her?" "mmm. Munmum. wim mim..." "And she responded how?" ".... ... mimmim... ugh, mimmim, hunna hamma mim..."
If she took too long to respond he would threaten to kill himself?! Uggghhhh. Theres so many things wrong with his actions but this may be so bothersome because we all know someone that emotionally manipulative. At least, I would argue most women know someone like that. No other word for them but predators.
It's so despicable that he would manipulate a 12 year old girl by taking advantage of her feelings of sympathy and empathy and start using them against her. It's disgusting that he would even be trying to start a relationship with a 12 year old.
@@NikkiC777 yes! Such trash. girls are finding out at that age that they are able to offer that caring space in the world and for him to recognize that and prey on it is disgusting.
@@arostwocents I understand how horrible it must've been for you, I've experienced that too. We are talking about a man threatening a 12yr old girl with his suicide if she doesn't comply. He's a sick piece of excrement.
The fact his father was bristly toward the decoy is a big problem… running to support their cry-baby meatball chomo son over and over didn’t do anyone any favors. These “children” become adults and get unleashed on the rest of us.
This was so well done and emotionally intelligent. Its refreshing to hear someone argue against the gaslighting and emotional manipulation. I think lots of people need to hear someone defending victims or potential victims, compared to the long standing societal defense of predators.
I love how she's like, "You won't have to worry about making any more decisions. From now on, you'll have people _telling_ you what to do," just before she slaps the cuffs back on him 😂🤣
as somebody who was a child in 2015 who was groomed on kik... this one hits a little close to home. fortunately i never met up with anybody in person but i was certainly preyed on and pressured into sharing intimate photos at the age of 10/11. i feel for all the other victims who had to go through something like that.
Some people have such bullshit excuses. My husband was 330 lbs when I met him and fell for him. This guy's weight isn't the issue... it's the creepy Ahole part...
i gotta disagree. just because other fat people like your husband find someone doesn't change the reality that bigger people have a tough time getting jobs, with confidence etc and of course getting romantic attention. you're spot on about the creep part though lol. but yeah your husband is an exception not the rule. im slim and tall and not a heartbreaker by any means but even at my age ive had a few very beautiful women give me all sorts of things ranging from gifts to attention and you know what else. if i were super short or fat I wouldnt have this experience where at this point of my life ive turned down more women than ive had sex with. and reminder...Im a regular handsome guy. not a killer by any means. weight matters. I don't know what people like you get from this belief that anyone can find love. probably makes yall feel better about this shit planet and its people. ive seen the stats from ok cupid and more. ive seen how people respond to fat people and even black women. shit is not fair out here in these planet earth streets lol
@@lowlowseeseeIt's not a weight thing It's an attractiveness thing. You can still slay with love handles, it's just a matter of how you carry yourself and whether you have looks. Dating apps are based entirely on vanity, nothing else, if you base your perception of reality on them you'll never know the truth.
@@lowlowseesee Well yeah, on dating apps it's all about looks. I never found anyone on dating apps. But, I have had many partners just by hanging out with large groups of people in social events. I'm totally average and tbh I hate my looks & I'm somewhat overweight, but that doesn't mean I haven't found a bunch of people that like me. It's mostly about confidence. My confidence has diminished a bit over the years, but I went through a time when I was fairly confident & that's what I got the most action. I'm also attracted to people with a lot of confidence so I have also dated a few people not conventionally attractive but are attractive to me because of their confidence level. People just have to get out and do shit & stop feeling sorry for themselves and they can find someone eventually. Sure, hot people have it easier...but doesn't necessarily mean they are good people to date.
@@lowlowseesee I guarantee you there are fat dudes who pull more than you... your experience isn't a final end all be all some people actually want a bigger dude and vice versa
Hi dreading. I wanted to tell you, you have a very beautiful and relaxing voice, and despite not being a native speaker i can understand you perfectly. Keep it up!
Beware of self loathers they can end your very life. They don’t value theirs. Don’t even be around people who hate themselves……very dangerous while they may not seem so. 🛑
Vincent is 100% the kind of guy to shit himself to make others too disgusted to press him on the crap he does. He has no intention on improving his life because he'd lose his weaponised repulsiveness and would rather have that shielding layer of pathetic than a chance at a decent life. He'll never admit it but he's responsible for the state of his life and deserves none of the sympathy he feeds off.
Then he isn't a Vulnerable Narcissist, and based off the other comments and the video I'm assuming he is. If he is, he's simply not responsible for ending up this way, abuse or neglect in childhood caused this and the only way to get better for cluster B types is to acknowledge that you didn't choose to end up this way, but the behaviour is still yours to change. If that isn't what is Internalized nothing ever changes.
@@DevoidVoid He is entirely responsible for where he is now. A bad background doesn't make you a child predator, it doesn't make you a manipulative liar, it doesn't make you threaten self harm to get your way.
@@lukewatson301 A bad background does not make *everyone* who experiences it a child predator, but it does absolutely contribute heavily to *some* people who become child predators. That's not to take the blame off, but it's just false to say that childhood neglect or CSA is not a recurring experience with tons of people who go on to prey on children.
Ugh, I’ve dated someone like this and let me tell you, it was absolutely repulsive. He ended up being diagnosed with NPD and was a covert narcissist. I recognize so much from the way my ex behaved in this loser. My ex was also deeply pathetic, a perpetual victim and perfectly fine with absolutely humiliating himself if it meant getting away with his atrocious behavior. People like this are the worst, they’ll constantly complain about all the things people have done to them, but won’t lift a finger to change their circumstances. Once I realized nothing was ever going to change, I left. I’m sure I’ve now been added to the list of people that ruined my ex’s life😂. This guy is doomed to be single for life, no woman (or man for that matter) wants to deal with a humongous toddler.
Not sure if you’ve heard of Dr Ramani. She is an expert on narcissism and is also here on TH-cam. Her content is educational and insightful. I once heard her say in an interview that every incel is a narcissist. To hear an expert in the field state something so black and white without any hesitation stuck with me. And I can’t say I disagree with her-every single incel type I’ve observed has fit the bill.
@@simplyixia3683 Ramani’s work is great. I came across her unexpectedly. Didn’t know much about narcissists before and realized that I had been married to a covert narcissist for 15 years. Really helped me understand things about our relationship that never made sense before.
I also dated someone very much like this. He was my fiance for a short time. I thought he really loved me, but he only loved himself. I was lucky in that I got out before he sexually abused me. He only mentally and emotionally abused me. He came horrifyingly close to it though. I still have nightmares about the whole thing. He always weaponized my hyper empathy and threatened to take his own life in front of me.
Hey man I say this as someone who lives 1/3rd of my life reading and your opening passage about getting older was one of the best i've heard on TH-cam. It especially stands out right now, when so many people and creators are churning out wordy drivel with too much alliteration.
Suppose Chris did that and Ambrosio instantly clams up and gives nothing? In hindsight I think he might still have talked, but that’s easy to say now. Based on what he knew at the time, I think Chris played it the way he calculated would get the most words - dishonest or not - out of Ambrosio. There are valid criticisms of Chris Hansen, but I disagree with this one.
This wasn’t long after Hansen had an incident where a guy TCAP went after unalived himself during the sting. He got huge backlash for that and was probably worried if he pressed this loser too hard something similar might happen.
Ive seen this guys catch a ton of times. I never knew the bit about him pretending to be a woman in order to better coerce the decoy. That definitely makes it worse.
This same thing happened to me when I was 15. A grown man who knew better and knew my age suddenly made me the reason for whether he lived or died. I'm 34 now. I still remember how helpless I felt, seeing his messages when I got home from school. I wanted to stop talking to him months before I actually did, because I was afraid he'd do something drastic and blame me for it. I'm 34 now. You don't forget that sort of thing. I have no sympathy for this piece of shit.
Ouf that opening hit close to home. I haven't started the changing yet but I have realized that I haven't taken proper responsibility for my life. Thankfully I have friends who called me out and I want to change for them. I am starting therapy on Monday. For real this time not just to cry and complain about my stress.
Good luck on your journey, it sounds like you have a good group of friends who look out for you and genuinely care about your future. A few things to remember. 1. Take it slow, some days it might feel like you aren't making any progress but trust me you are. 2. You're friends are gonna have bad days (just like you will), be patient with them and try not to hold anything they say or do personally. 3. YOU'VE GOT THIS!!!! You're already 2 steps in to your recovery (step one being that you are actually able to admit to yourself and others that you have/had a problem and step two for having the courage to seek help) Again I want to wish you the best of luck.
@@Warios4Christians I'm also an elder millennial. I relate to everything before we actually are talking about the criminal. To be crystal clear; I have never had the desire to reach out to children for any sort of validation whatsoever! It just feels on the nose for me personally because I literally had the "wake up call" this week and realized how toxic I was acting towards my friends. My friends who are above 30.
@@Warios4ChristiansSo am I, and it’s not weird nor a generational thing; you’re trying to feel superior in some way, but just exhibiting gross ignorance.
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by life while struggling with mental illness. I’m glad you’re taking steps to sort things out. Always remember: you’re never powerless, there are always choices. It’s up to you. Best of luck, truly.
I needed to see this video today. I'm 30 & currently working on my mental wellness. I don't prey on kids or anything weird, but your narration really opened my eyes to my own detrimental behavior. This whole thing motivates me to get my poop in a group & to try to improve my circumstances, lest I end up like Vincent here, blubbering, pitiful & deceptively grasping at straws. Thank you, Dreading. Excellent video, as always. Your TCAP commentaries are my most favorite of all your stuff! 💕
Thanks
Joey rocks! Thank you for your uploads especially the recent ones.
Never expected a Joey cameo
@@WickedTwistedRoad no one ever does
Thank you for your work Joey!!
Again, my worlds are colliding. Oh Cawd!
say it with me boys and girls; depression, no matter how severe, doesn’t make you attracted to minors
but it might make you attracted to miners.
@@sirsizzlebottom4509ok Loretta Lyn make your sounds on the song channels!
You’re right!
@@sirsizzlebottom4509can confirm
I've been depressed my whole life and I have to say, I agree. I've never once suddenly thought, "wow, my life SUCKS. I'm gonna go smooch a kid" Like??? what the heLLL is wrong with people?
speaking as someone who had a bad childhood, dropped out of high school, and struggled a lot in my young adulthood - definitely never made me a pedophile 👍🏻
And I’d guess you would have used and loved the opportunity’s he has and does have! Everything he’s thrown away and disregarded! I can’t stand the victim mindset, those people are always the ones with amazing starts in life but are just lazy, privileged assholes!! The fact he used that as an excuse is diabolical! 🤯
Weird flex
Hey same! It is almost like we still have a sense of right and wrong no matter how hard life got for us! Shocking! 🥴
@@beatrixkiddo2607bingo!
You’re right and always be happy if you’re living without to much pain. Freedom and life is great!!
For those who feel like they lost in life, you're not this guy
Like maybe my life sucks at least im not him 💀
Right!
we're him but we're not attracted to children. It's actually old grown women instead 💀🫠
@@visstorm at least they not kids
@@zaidnava3728 it's not like i've got a moral compass. Even 18 year olds that were my age at the time felt like they had the smell and the ugly taste of something sour but i haven't seen anyone mention the same thing
“He sent a photo of himself in his little hat” I just choked on my soup😂😭
That was my favorite line of this whole thing 😂😂
🤣
Oy vey! Shut it down!
The way I grabbed my phone to see the little hat 😂
He must have watched that _Urban Cowboy_ movie on mommy’s Hulu a few times too many.
He was only 19. Dude was talking like he was a divorced 50 year old man working a dead end menial job whose wife took his money and kids.
Something is clearly wrong with him mentally. He will be even worse by the time he is 50.
Except the 50 year old guy isn't talking online to 12 year old girls.
Haha I had no idea how creezy this guy is
In his head canon he’s a grizzled, corrupt cop who’s only a few days from retirement.
Yeah man just lose the weight ffs
“You sent this picture 🍆??”
“Yeah”
“Ok. So that’s yours 🍆??”
“Unfortunately”
😂😂😂
What an absolute creep he is. 🤮
*puts a wrap on* Narrator: "It was then he sent a photo of himself in his little hat"
"Unfortunately" 😂😂 Unfortunate in so many ways.
When he sent the picture, he also sent the message with it saying “I’m not that big”
@@ChristopherNayar-t2c 😂😂 Normally nothing wrong with that. But in this case everything's wrong and nothing is normal. This creep is disgusting. 🤮
@@PlagueDoktore I have sufficient medical training and experience to be able to comment: if he lost wait then his peen would actually grow a little bit. It is sometimes called adult acquired buried peni$ syndrome
Even his imaginary girlfriend doesn’t want to hang out with him
Ok best comment. 😂
Definitely an underrated comment 😂
🤣😂🤣😂 you win!!! 😭😭😭
@@jubilantsleep ahahaha I love this comment so much
He's making the voices suicidal
Can we note the interviewer mentioning he can talk about sex with her because she’s an adult; nice little dig there 😂
I cackled
Missed the signifigance of that statment. That was nicly done.
I think youre reaching
@@dolomitilino9015womp womp
Time stamp?
19? He looks 47.
He surely dresses like it
he looks like he came out of a romcom from 80s with him being the clown character
He'd get laid at a senior citizen squaredance event in no time
@@visstormghahaha 👈👏
Lol
Sorry are we just gonna skip over the part where the parents impersonated a police officer in order to try to get information from the decoy? Imagine catching a charge over your pedophile son.
Exactly!!! That part was VERY disturbing!!
His father was a police officer at one point. But yeah, that's extortion.
@@TJ20232 I suspect him of having impersonated a police officer for a long time then.
Parent? His father? More like
partner-in-crime.
Imagine wanting a pdf file talking to a child before seeking help
"when he put on his little cowboy hat to mosey on down to the child's home"?????? favorite dreading line ever 😂😂😂😂😂 i love the sneaky one liners so much lol
I legit hollered at that 😂🤣
Truly the best part of the show, outside the insane research they do
Dreadings commentary always gets me 😂😂
Agree. The snarkasm is chef’s kiss 👌
Right?? lol I love how snarky the commentary is 😂
I’m a victim of CSA and it leads to a domino effect that leads into adulthood. It affects all your relationships and interactions every day. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn’t justify hurting other people and altering them for the rest of their life.
I am as well. It changes you fundamentally. We can never make the scars any smaller than they are, but we can make them a smaller part of ourselves by learning, expanding our awareness, and growing into beautiful adults.
agree with everything-yall take care
Vincent is so full of shit they brought toilet paper to his interrogation lol
Crazy statement but I fw that
Im currently in need of of toilet paper as some irresponsible douche left the empty roll (me)
Good observation
@@TheAverageGamer1are you still there bro? Are you ok or should I send you one?
@@tamas21145 send help
Chris Hansen reading "I'm not that big but I can still fit inside you" was God level of savagery 😂
I guess it's nice the guy was honest about *something*
That really made me cringe. What a piece of work
Thank you for saying that CP is "child s3x abuse material". Cases like this sometimes frame it in lighter words to avoid being flagged, but it should not be framed in the light!!
You have to blame TH-cam for that one though. They don't allow anything. They'd sooner allow the actual thing, than they would using the words...
YT protects pedophiles and has been doing this since 2018
@@whateverwhatever4026 True. But god help you if you post copyrighted material from a Hollywood movie or a tv show... they'll be on you before you hit "upload".
@@Jman92854 They'll kick down your door and break all your electronics for just thinking about it. 😂
THATS WHAT IM SAYING DUDE
He's an old Peter-Griffin-lookin' mf for a 19 yo
I was thinking undertaker lol but I see your view for sure
@@BboyEklypsemore like the overeater.
@@RemoWilliams1227😂😂 i screamed
@@HeyitsBri_ 😂
Its crazy that hes only 19 😭
"He and his fictional girlfriend, Hannah - who is just...him in a wig" PLS omg
Even though “in a wig” is meant figuratively, it nevertheless brings up an unpleasant mental image of Cowgirl Hannah!
I don't think he's Hannah. The writing styles are different, and Vincent isn't smart enough to alter his typing mannerisms to sell the lie, or mindful enough to keep it up consistently without slipping up.
Oh hey, Vincent Ambrosio. I actually went to school with this guy. He wore the cowboy getup all 4 years of highschool despite living in the suburbs of Poughkeepsie. Pretty sure I know who the "1 friend" he refers to is too, since a friend of a friend was always hanging around with him. Dude was always kind of weird, but I dont think anyone expected he'd pull something like this.
Did he get bullied a lot or something? He’s got the defeatist mindset of someone going thru a midlife crises
@@BrianMedeiros-mq2jl Not that I know of. People thought his cowboy getup was ridiculous, but I don't remember people really hassling him about it. He just kind of kept to himself outside of the one friend of a friend I mentioned.
Keep in mind I didn't really know him all that well though. The closest interactions I had with him were him occasionally joining my friend group's card game before first period Spanish in 10th grade, that one time we both got a ride to the mall from the friend of a friend, and the time we sat close to each other during graduation rehearsal.
@@TheKillerStove How did you discover he was on the show?
@@liamweaver2944 I heard about it from an old high school friend I was catching up with in 2021. We were talking about people we knew growing up, and I mentioned how this guy that didnt graduate with us got arrested the next fall after showing up to school with a stolen car. He hits me with something along the lines of "Wild how that doesn't even seem serious compared to what Vinnie ended up pulling." I asked what he meant, and he pulled up the unaired episode on youtube.
@@TheKillerStove Jesus. That must've been a "holy shit" moment.
The interrogator cracked me up with “you can talk to me about that, I’m an adult!” And then chuckled 😂.
It was a pretty slick move sending in a woman to interrogate him. You know that was deliberate, he can't conduct himself around women at all.
When Chris Hansen called him "Tex", I laughed quite a bit.
His parents calling the "girl" while pretending to be the police prove how they're a huge part of this behavior problem for their predatory kid.
Yes. Never telling him no and letting him 'cry it out'. Always acquiescing to his tantrums. Enabling his behavior by excusing it. It breeds this pathetic form of narcissism. The child never learns to deal with stress or frustration so never develops resilience. He basically has the emotional development of a toddler in an adult body.
Bro walked in looking like he wanted to challenge Chris Hansen to a duel.
Howdy Hombre
A duel for M'lady's heart
Bro walks right up to Hansen, reaches in his pocket, and slams a Yugioh deck onto the table glaring at him with a confident smirk.
Hansen casually retrieves his deck from his pants pocket and begins shuffling it.
Vincent: "I think you know what comes next."
Hansen: "Have a seat right over there."
@@CannedShrimp hansen has a old style chriszodia deck. ce you assemble the chat logs you instantly win
"She sent a picture. He sent her a picture of himself in his little hat." LOL the shade
As someone who spent too much time as a teenager trying to talk down suicide-baiting adults on Tumblr, I have very little sympathy for people who use threats of suicide as a form of manipulation. Deadass just say "okay" to people like that now lmao.
I usually respond “can I record?”
Usually works like a charm 😂
Agree. To use the threat of “self-harm”to manipulate or
demand attention, care or nude pics of a minor is beyond belief.
In psychiatry, there is a phrase that the person with the control..is the person with responsibility. A person can’t put the responsibility of self-harm onto others, when only they have the control.
If they have all the control of the self-harm…which they do…only they are responsible.
😭 unfortunately I fell for it twice from ppl I trusted
First time I had a partner threaten do that, I panicked and rushed to their side and fawned all over him.
The last time I had a partner threaten to do that, it was my ex saying if I didn’t come back he’d self-yeet, and I said “if you end up doing that, it’s because YOU made the decision to, not because of me.” He did not self-yeet.
AS 👏 YOU 👏 SHOULD 👏 I am so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m glad you’re not taking any bs anymore!
Once you’ve read his chat log, all sympathy goes out the window.
I don't have to even do that for all my sympathy to go out the window. I never had any sympathy to begin with for this creep.
It's vile even by the predator "standards"
Agreed.
@@HumanHamCubeWow. I haven't gotten to that part yet. What a gross POS. Yuck!
I never sympathized with him in the first place 🙃
As someone who was s-abused as a child, I love this no bs commentary. They absolutely deserve being called out on the BS they say and should feel ashamed they would even say such stupid things.
Very insulting indeed to real rape victims.
same here! this is one of the only channels that makes me feel heard. i feel like my anger is heard.
@@grapesjellys Same. I just came here from Dave's Lemonade, and I was extremely upset that he felt sorry for the monster. Anyone with two brain cells can plainly see that Vincent's crocodile tears and "depression" are just manipulation!
Daaaamn, that intro felt personal af! Straight up forgot what I even clicked on. Thought it was one of my many therapy channels.
Yes 😂 thought clicked wrong
Real
Me too! Scared me
It still baffles me he showed up to a date with a child wearing his mom’s jeans.
🤣🤣🤣👍🎯
And his Dads belt 👖
😂 To dress a predator 😂
🥴😂😂
@@IdolikethisQueer Eye For The Map Guy
“My life’s a mess!”
Bro, you’re 19! You’ve barely even had a life 😂
You've barely had a l....
For real, he wasn’t even out of his teens yet. Bro had plenty of time to change. The excuses he made up are so annoying. I’m saying this as someone who has bipolar type 1, severe BPD, complex PTSD, ASD, sleep disorder, and ADHD. It’s extremely hard for me to do anything, but I keep trucking on. No use in wallowing in self-pity. But, I also go to therapy every week since I was 18. I’m 24 now. It takes some time to start to see the change and make the changes, but I got better. He has zero excuse. I understand depression, severe depression, feeling so low you don’t even have the energy to commit suicide. Sometimes, you have to fake happiness for a while until you truly are happy and hopeful. To all that are feeling depressed, remember it does get better. It may not now, but it will soon.
Yeah im 19 I still haven't gotten out the country and seen the world yet. He has the Same chance as me if not more but he has a defeatist attitude.
When you're young it seems that way. You haven't been around long so the negative stuff have alot of weight to them because you don't have a backlog of conquering your demons.
So I get why he feels that way. I've been there. Heck, all of us have been there. Though not an excuse
19 yr olds can have a bad life
Those pants really were a bold choice.
He's clearly not the best at making good life decisions.
Youll notice the female detective employs the "mommy" technique in order for Vincent to let his guard down
He'll have to get used to 'Daddies' inside 😔
False. They all go to a protective custody block, seperate from general population. Look up PREA. It's short for prison r*** elimination act. Lawsuits from families and inmates who have been given the business has changed what happens In jails/prisons the last 20 years.
Good point! She knows the nature of guys like him (weak, dependent men who deep down want to be taken care of).
And?? He's going to call on his "Mommy."
@@AdamOBrien29more like big brothers looking to beat up PDF-FILES that either did the same to them as kids or someone they know.
Why was the intro the most motivating thing I’ve ever heard
right 😂 Im thinking wait yeah Im heading towards 30 and I need to get this shit together
There should be a motivational poster of crater lake that says "you're not Vincent ambrosio carpe diem"
The dreading brothers always do excellent intros. I look forward to them every time, and they do not disappoint.
To remind you first and foremost it's never too late to become the master of your life
@@DeaconPain ... or the master of none 😅😅
“In his mind this was the best outfit he could choose…”😂
"Good night sir, have you decided on what kinda pizza you want?"
*Crying* "My life's a mess..."
Sorry sir we stopped selling that pizza 200 years ago. How about a tossed crust large double pepperoni pizza with Mountain Dew
"Cheese Pizza" clearly 😫
@@kaidorade1317he had two of those for breakfast.
@@HumanHamCube CHEESE PIZZA NO PEPPERONI
@@bobaorc7839topped with "fried pickles"
That intro description fit an inlaw relative of mine to a t. He's almost 40, has never worked, and is nearly out of people to suicide bait into taking care of him. He is so emotionally exhausting and abusive I almost forgot he could also be physically dangerous. This has reminded me.
I had a friend once who was the same. When he caused me to cry out of sadness because I was distraught he wanted to die, I realized that he would never change and that I didn’t deserve to be put through that….
It’s been 7 years and he’s still alive so it’s usually some attention bs 😂
I live with the female version of this. Her boyfriend takes care of her and she has had one job in ten years(for 6 months) and whenever he gets sick of her shit she threatens to end herself. Truly hope he gets the balls to break it off but I’m starting to think he has some kind of Stockholm syndrome.
Clearly needs to be told off. By somebody, who doesn't give two flip about his manipulating others!
It sounds like your relative needs to probably choose the permanent solution to his problems. Have you tried telling him that?
Weak men that are failures are extremely dangerous imo
I love when dreading says “let’s see how that works out” because spoiler, it never works out
The “hey, Tex!” has always killed me. 🤣💀
hansen was a master back in the day bro 😭
- "You are the most pathetic predator we've ever covered".
- "But you have covered me".
Sensei La dew headass
Captain Jack! 🤣🤣
I just got the reference! 🤣
My mind jumped to him being “covered” in something else. 🤢
Consistent, high-quality content that you go out of your way to make free to all. Appreciate it.
I'm sure it's been requested before but living in the area, I'd love to hear the Karen Read/death of John O'Keefe case from you. Her case hasn't come to a full conclusion yet (mistrial, currently awaiting retrial) but it's been huge this year and the facts of the case are SO polarizing and inconsistent. I'd love to hear your take, even just stating what is known of the story.
OMG!! His father CONFRONTED the 12 year old target!!
Correct, because the dad read his chat log, and most likely read that the decoy was 12yo. It goes to show how likely the pred's parents would put blame on others.
To be fair, if I saw my son had gone to meet up with anyone they met online but told me nothing you cannot rule out that they are about to be in a situation where they could be abducted or physically harmed...the thought that your kid IS the predator durely comes secondary...
@adetailedhouse id like to CONFRONT you. 😍
@@navedoesthings or you know maybe he thinks his son is walking into a sting
@@dolomitilino9015 maybe...it's pure speculation tbh
Having a young female detective for this interrogation was an excellent choice.
Why?
@@intensepassion3382possibly irony and it probably stings?
@@intensepassion3382 IMO using a female officer might be effective because the guy might be attracted to attractive legal aged woman especially like an authority figure willing to give him an opportunity to finally get listened to. Maybe his reason for being attracted to minors as well is intellectual acceptance that he can’t get from girls his own age.
Like dreading pointed out, it makes the PDF-FILE, more ashamed and more obvious when they slip up. He's willing to lie and likely get caught up in said lie, as a result of trying to protect his ego with lies. There's only so much details one can make up before they slip up.
@@InVinoVeratas seems like if that’s the case , he would freeze up and reveal less information. I feel like she flattered him and caused his guard to be let down and milked him for truth. This guy obviously isn’t familiar with truth.
I love the way you elaborate on how children view these interactions. It is so important for people to understand that it is never the child’s fault and that they are vulnerable and can be easily influenced by predators - so as someone who had been in exploitative situations / relationships at a young age, thank you. I feel validated and heard.
The idea that he thought he was too fat to be a cop is just hilarious. Has he seen the average cop?
let him dream lol of a false reality
😂😂😂😂
had the same thought lol to be fair i think cops get fat later in their job they dont start the job fat, they probably need to be at least somewhat fit to pass the police academy
Now yeah, but in the past they had expectations for how you'd show up to the academy.
😅😂
I love your intros. They’re one of a kind and really set the scene for the video.
I agree!
And it cuts off the army of empaths who would defend a guy like this.
I literally want to send this to my grown son. That's how good out was! He's not into true crimes. I have to figure out a way! He's not a predator. He just needs to hear that intro!
@@Mehki227 If he had a terrible childhood and isn't finding his way up, is his father really the person who should be telling him to take responsibility? That sounds narcissistic AF.
I agree dude I'm rock hard from the intro
"So pleased he sent her a picture of him in his little hat." You two had no right, but you still did it anyway and now I'm deceased from laughter. Are you happy now, Mr. dreading & Bro dreading? 💀
Pitiful man. I Was molested and raped by my father when I was 5...i have PTSD, severe anxiety, depression. I turned to food and then to heroin and then back to food. Im a 255 LB female (ive lost 30 LBS! On a weight loss journey) so I understand being overweight. None of what this man went through excuses his behavior and the fact that he'sitting there crying and acting like a victim sickens me. I could never ever imagine being in a situation like this. Because there's no excuse for it, nor can I imagine ever using my trauma as an excuse to try to get out of trouble. SICK
🙏🏿
We don't know each other, but I'm proud of you for pushing through everything life has thrown at you. You got this 🙌
None of this is true including your gender. Why are you so sad to lie in youtube comment for attention?
So proud of you for your weight loss! I’m struggling right now to make progress so I know how hard it is. And to have had all that trauma on top, I can’t imagine. You’re a badass!
Grats on the weight loss! And everything else too.
The part where he referred to the sting house as the “trap house” cracked me up 😂😅 technically very true !
Fr I was giggling!!!!
And it’s weird that predators like to say “I knew it. I knew this was a sting,” as if that made them “smarter.” What can be dumber or more out-of-control than “knowing” something is a police sting, and STILL showing up?
@mlisaj1111 it shows their lack of impluse control. If you know something is a trap, why go?
I hate myself. That is MY issue to fix. Sure, there's not a day that goes by where I don't in some way hate that people have to see me again, but that is zero reason for me to harm other people. And it is entirely unreasonable to think that your own self pity or pain justifies the actions you inflict on other people.
The single time I ever threatened suicide was never threatened. It was quiet and personal and only one person knew about it, my father. Never said a word, but decided it wasn't worth it.
I'm 19 now; I was 16 then. Things have gotten better, I'm going to therapy semi weekly, and I'm working to be better than I was. Ambrosio will never do that, and frankly his continued existence is a sin.
stay strong friend. The fact that you turned down the allure of suicide means you have a lifetime to change. You will see better days. Days so good you can't even imagine them now. That's what's in front of you, keep walking this path
You sound very wise and introspective. Often people who feel self hatred and can turn that around can be the very best of people, as this world can often crush the wise, self hating type through jealousy. I don’t say this to make you continue to feel self hatred, just to point out where it’s coming from. Let the real you shine through. I know you can make it. I agree with this other man. Keep walking the path and aim to meet your higher self.
If you hate yourself then you probably don't value your own judgement. Which means you're probably wrong about yourself. Therefore, you're actually pretty cool. No point listening to the opinion of someone you don't respect, even if it's yourself. Nah mean?
Classic incel. Feels he deserves a woman, but can't get one because they're all interested in the good looking "Chads." Everything is everyone else's fault.
Yeah, the guys who look like potatoes but want to have super hot girlfriends.
@@cookie_dough_hangover Most of us just want our looksmatches.
@@dogamongstmen Both men and women should be realistic about their expectations. I am not saying one should settle, though. That's sad.
@@dogamongstmenprotip: if you think everyone should be matched up according to your standards of who looks good enough to be with whom, the ugliness you should be worried about isn't in your looks.
There's a lot to be said for a sense of humor, interests, a good attitude and work ethic. People in general like those things and a partner will too. The guy said his hobby was driving and smoking cigars. Ain't gonna cut it.
The interviewer, Officer Beth, she does very well. She comes across as genuinely compassionate, and she gets him to let his guard down, put it back up to lie, and then have to reveal his lies.
And I think part of her is genuine, that she hopes they can be reached, that she can get them to understand that this will change a child's life.
He wanted to talk and she gave him a somewhat friendly, but still realistic, shoulder. I know a lot of people get really upset when they are nice, or when they try to empathise with the criminal too much. But that is their job, to find rapport and connection.
One of the most successful interrogators in history was a Nazi named Hanns Scharff, while other interrogators were using violence, often torture, and intimidation, Hanns befriended captured airmen. He was so effective compared to his peers that the British and Americans recruited him after the war, his techniques are still used today.
People are dumb and don't understand professionalism lol
If people think interrogators are ‘nice’ to these kinds of people they are as delusional as Vincent is. They are using proven interrogation techniques to get the suspect to confess
Probably a bit of professionalism and a bit of using feigned compassion to get someone's guard down to get the conviction for a predator
I think you need to watch more behind the scenes of people doing interviews and investigations. Pretty much 100% of the time when they leave the room and close the door they are like got him what a piece of shit they have no sympathy for these guys whatsoever. They're playing a part to get them to reveal the most amount of information possible that is their only goal. She might feel somewhat bad that he's only 19 but she definitely does not have any sympathy for him. She knows he's a piece of shit predator that wanted to harm children. That's exactly why she mentioned that bit about not having to make his own decisions and putting the cops on him because that's the most she could do to do a passive aggressive attack at him and still remain in her character.
“I traveled to Poughkeepsie to lose my virginity to another guy”… some county songs write themselves.
I still can’t believe this dude asked a 13-Year old girl to measure “her slit” 🤢
Oh cawd
I never want to hear that combination of words ever again. 🤮
@@Kangaroojack1986I know who you’re referencing 😂
@@shark_kisses5153What a horrible day to have eyes
@@RanTheAwesome 🤣
Anyone who actually thinks that this is "entrapment" and it's "just as bad" is probably also a predator.
All predators think alike; they have to look out for each other.
100%.
Yes, just the same as when multiple people come forward to say they were s. abused by someone as children, usually in authority but nobody listened at the time.
Certain people fall over themselves to say "It's too late"
Those people are also worried about a future knock at the door I'm sure of it.
But it's so wrong to make up a fake person to put someone in a compromising situation! Oh, wait...
Exactly, they can't even fathom a normal person being wooed by a minor and just refusing their attention. Someone who isn't already attracted to minors literally can't be "entrapped" with these tactics
"Hey Tex how ya doin?" How Chris managed to keep a straight face with that line, i don't know. You're a better man than me, Mr Hansen
I failed high school. I'm considered too mentally disabled to work. I had no life for years. I got my own place at age 25. I'm 28 now. I have the mental functioning and processing of a 14 year old from my autism. I do not understand this man. I've been suicidal. My life sucked so much. You know what I never did with all of this, be a predator. As a matter of fact people found me weird because I avoided children. Sensory wise children are a nightmare to me.
Just wanted to say, children are a sensory nightmare to a lot of us :) you’re not so different in that regard. Stay well!
You are still more mature and a better, more functional human than this guy will ever be. The fact that you understand who you are is a huge indicator of your maturity. I wish you the best life possible…you deserve that!
I have ADHD & have quite a few autism-like traits and yeah...this is the main reason why I DO NOT like kids!
The younger ones are a sensory nightmare with all the crying & grossness, and older ones are just so awkward to be around because it's like they are living in a completely different world than I do. I have a lot of kids in my family that I barely know cuz I kinda don't wanna know them until they are old enough to have a real conversation with lol. There have generally been only a few kids I have been somewhat comfortable with, but even then..I'm masking my awkwardness around them the whole time. I guess the fact that I don't have autism makes it easier for me and it's less debilitating..but ugh, it's still awful..
Congrats on getting your own place! 😊
I have 2 adult sons with autism.one is severe the other is mild. I wanted the o e that is mildly autistic to move out (he’s 24) because he abuses everyone in the house.he terrorizes us.Im from a tall family so he’s huge,but because of a condition I had as a child it stunted my growth,so I’m only 5’2 and he’s 6’2. He won’t leave but now I’m glad because I’ve realized for good or bad he’s still my son and I do t want him to be lonely.I hope he will move out .I think he can handle it with help.I said all this mainly to let you know that I hope you have all the support of your family and or friends. I’ve known other adult autistics who were independent and I saw that they were happy and some found girlfriends so don’t give up!
My favourite crime channel. Great narration and editing. And an outstanding introduction to this one. 🙂
The introduction for this video is SO GOOD. Very well thought out and written. Love this channel!
Omg, i've actually been in that sort of situation. I was about 14, and a guy who was about... late 20's wanted to date me. And apparently, he was like, 600 pounds or something? He made sure to tell me that. Everytime I told him I couldn't date him, he threatened to kill himself, or said stuff like, "Oh yeah, i'm just a fat, ugly, loser. Of course you wouldn't want to date me." Keep in mind, I was also rather chunky when I was younger, and never said anything negative about his weight. I just told him that I couldn't date him because my parents wouldn't allow it. He really scared the hell out of me...
Good on your parents, if they're actually the ones who put their foot down. Good on you for making up that lie, if not. Regardless of weight, that guy was NOT to be trusted.
OMG, I'm glad you never met that guy. Not only was he a predator, but he sounds completely unstable.
My dad found out a 19yo guy from our D&D group & I were flirty online when I was 15. Then the guy dropped out of the group because of "classes" and cut off contact. In my 20s I found out my dad made it explicitly clear the attention was unwanted, illegal and jail would be the best result if he didn't knock it off. I'm sorry more kids don't have someone keeping them safe.
I knew a girl like that in hs. A friend wanted to date her & she told us about her 20 year old bf that threatened to beat us up at a concert we were all meeting up at. When we got there we saw how big he was & dude could barely walk. We knew if we needed to we could go at his knees to resolve any problems he tried to bring our way & luckily for him nothing happened. He looked so goofy calling us “her friends” while in front of his friends he couldn’t tell them who she really was to him.
Years later I found out she dropped out, he knocked her up, she became big like him & her life is completely ruined.
It’s nice to have a less depressing case to look at here, like it’s not a parent who killed their kid, someone who killed a sibling etc. I love your insights in all of these cases but while he is a sad sack, it doesn’t leave me depressed like knowing a child was murdered or something similar. I’ve watched probably every TCaP episode back in the day so analyzing (and dunking) on someone like this is especially good content. And although I have seen the original eps and others’ analyses, you offer a fresh look at it.
I'm so glad you're covering these predators in a different way other than the usual "react" slop all over TH-cam. These videos are a great way to absorb information. The pacing and structure are masterful. I'm always excited to watch a new dreading video.
Your poi videos are epic!
Walls lives on 🙏
@LertGroup wow thank you. I usually don't get much attention on TH-cam. I'll take what I can get! I'll make sure to keep posting.
He’s not even THAT overweight. He just needs like a 6 month diet
That's what I was thinking. He likely needs to lose weight for his health, but it's not so bad.
Nah he is really overweight
Fr 250 lbs as a man isn’t that crazy
my bf is 230 5'8" and hes hot af. people are too insecure
@@_Dark222Angel_ that extra 20lbs is a big difference though
I dont know how you havent reached a million yet!! I think Ive been here since about 400k. your coverage is PHENOMENAL and I recommend your channel whenever the opportunity shows itself
As someone who was SAd as a child by a family member: Thanks dreading for constantly referring to this person as a pathetic loser.
Edit: Damn, only served 2 years? "Justice" system.
I'm so sorry that you were forced to endure such a horrible thing...no child deserves that. I hope you're doing well now ❤
Well I haven't watched yet, but it seems the guy in this video didn't meet a minor, let alone harm, touch , or even talk to one . Big difference between that and what happened to you. Tbh, I don't like Chris Hanson. Why doesn't he help catch actual predators with real victims? Instead he focuses on setting people up for fake victims. I'd rather they help real child victims instead of using adult women of legal age to bait people.
To OP: I’m sorry that happened to you. Damn.
@@kenw2225 - It's the way that catching somebody who *would've* assaulted a literal child if they could've is *always* helping, given there's zero reason to wait until the person offends and then *attempt* to catch them, when you could *also* just halt a predator before they can victimize a child...
Like, I'm genuinely confuse about how catching adults who would've harmed a child (and having everyone involved be consenting adults who understand the operation and are in no physical, mental or emotional danger) is *not* doing good in the world. No, wait until PDF File offends and then hope you catch them. Every single one. Even if you might've caught a good few before they ever offended or re-offended, had you *simultaneously* done sting operations.
"...the guy [...] didn't meet a minor, let alone harm, touch, or even talk to one..." and that's kind of the best part. He would have, but he didn't get to. NOBODY from that point forward was - or could have been - a victim of SA. That's like saying a lion's not a real predator if it didn't get to kill anything, or a violent person isn't really violent if they never managed to harm somebody. Patently false. I bet you still wouldn't hang with either, if they made active strides to harm somebody. Nobody cares if his attempts at taking advantage of a minor were in vain. We care that there were attempts at all.
@@kenw2225It's not possible to consider child SA as a thing an innocent person can be entrapped on. Innocent people don't want to harm children under any circumstance. People who would do a crime but for the lack of opportunity, or fear of being caught, are as bad as those who actually do it. Their cowardice makes them even more reprehensible if anything. Mens rea > Actus reus.
This pred was unbearable. The victim mindset he has and the “poor me” mentality is like the living dead. If you want to do absolutely nothing with you life, that’s the path you take.
A tough life?! He’s obviously well fed, has a roof over his head, clothes on his back and has had opportunities to study/go to college… which is a privilege more than most don’t have.
The fact he’s trying to leverage all this bullshit makes it even worse. Scares me how creepy and dangerous these predators are. They really use all and any excuse they can muster up, there is absolutely no excuse for being a predator, ever.
As always, thanks for covering this Dreading! ❤
I hear you! He was still living at home for crying out loud. Many of us could not be living at home at his age nor years younger for our own safety and wellbeing.
So true. We have all run across people who are fixated on how “bad” they or their life is, but will have a 100 reasons why any suggestion or help to change can’t work, even when it clearly can.
Not to mention the healthcare he had access to because he was getting much-needed medication for obvious mental issues.
bipolar can make you have a tough life if youre a millionaire, look at Kanye. Bipolar depressions are NOT passive, they actively unravel everything you have. It hurts like a horse stepping on your chest.
But, having a tough life doesnt make you a pedophile
It's his go to manipulation technique. Not getting what he wants? Threaten to kill himself, blame the other person. Caught trying to have sex with a minor: immediately cry about how awful his life is.
I don't even think he's a vulnerable narcissist. I think he just learned at too young an age that throwing a tantrum will get him what he wants. Clearly no one ever said,"are you done?" When he was throwing fits as a child.
Absolutely amazing commentary. Thank you for making this video.
"it's not that big" 😂😂😂😂😂 I died
you'd be surprised. I've chatted with dudes on apps with small ducks and they usually admit it because they're not trying to catfish me. I actually appreciate it except with this dude. Fuck this dude. Every other guy with a small Thang who isn't a predator is fine with me.
The sad thing is, child predators NEVER get better. They reoffend repeatedly.
YUP!! I know sometimes people can get better but like once some go past a certain point that’s it. And I’m shocked at lenient the punishments are for these people.
That's why I believe the RSO list sound be abolished & they should never be let out of prison.
Our government really doesn't like children they will never matter.
Sexual predators in general cannot be reformed. They almost always reoffend and even the rare few that don’t, still have predatory urges.
Predators exist in every species of animal. Humans are no exception.
Crimes against children should have mandatory minimums starting at 10 years, no early release at all, and no protective custody in prison.
I reformed 🙏
Love your channel, but this needs CC so incredibly bad. All I heard through the entire thing was
"so you just wanted to talk to her?"
"mem meen minna wanna have..."
"and you talked to her about that?"
"mmhm. minna min jan..."
"What did you ask her?"
"mmm. Munmum. wim mim..."
"And she responded how?"
".... ... mimmim... ugh, mimmim, hunna hamma mim..."
Omg, I thought it was just me! I thought I was just exhausted and falling asleep 😂 I'm so relieved 😅
“In his little hat” 😭🤣
M'lady!
You ate tf out that intro.
😰
Jesus christ, your opening statements always go so hard. Keep up the amazing work dude
If she took too long to respond he would threaten to kill himself?! Uggghhhh. Theres so many things wrong with his actions but this may be so bothersome because we all know someone that emotionally manipulative. At least, I would argue most women know someone like that. No other word for them but predators.
It's so despicable that he would manipulate a 12 year old girl by taking advantage of her feelings of sympathy and empathy and start using them against her. It's disgusting that he would even be trying to start a relationship with a 12 year old.
@@NikkiC777 yes! Such trash. girls are finding out at that age that they are able to offer that caring space in the world and for him to recognize that and prey on it is disgusting.
@@NikkiC777 He didn't want a relationship with that child,he wanted to use and abuse her young body and her trust.
I've had girlfriends like it. It's not just men who are like it.
@@arostwocents I understand how horrible it must've been for you, I've experienced that too. We are talking about a man threatening a 12yr old girl with his suicide if she doesn't comply. He's a sick piece of excrement.
The fact his father was bristly toward the decoy is a big problem… running to support their cry-baby meatball chomo son over and over didn’t do anyone any favors. These “children” become adults and get unleashed on the rest of us.
Yeah, I noticed that too, and he's an ex-cop. Very scary.
Heh...cry-baby meatball
Who's daddies little molester?? That's right, you are!!
This father is probably a chomo too
This was so well done and emotionally intelligent. Its refreshing to hear someone argue against the gaslighting and emotional manipulation. I think lots of people need to hear someone defending victims or potential victims, compared to the long standing societal defense of predators.
Yeah, this channel is great.
I love how she's like, "You won't have to worry about making any more decisions. From now on, you'll have people _telling_ you what to do," just before she slaps the cuffs back on him 😂🤣
“I’ve got a father who’s overweight i get it”
Lol
Is that actually true that Chris Hansen’s father was overweight?
as somebody who was a child in 2015 who was groomed on kik... this one hits a little close to home. fortunately i never met up with anybody in person but i was certainly preyed on and pressured into sharing intimate photos at the age of 10/11. i feel for all the other victims who had to go through something like that.
I’m like 300lbs. It’s not hard to date at all. Even the people on my 600lb life all have spouses or relationships
I lost 100lbs. I used to be quite large and I dated back then. It's easier when you lose weight but it's definitely not that hard to date
Its hard for me to date even when I am in shape
@@Mistah_Boombastic_BiggieCheese you have the same name and pfp as my friend on discord, wtf
@@tkennedy166 I’m not the same guy lol trust me. I don’t know you.
Any advice?
Some people have such bullshit excuses. My husband was 330 lbs when I met him and fell for him. This guy's weight isn't the issue... it's the creepy Ahole part...
i gotta disagree. just because other fat people like your husband find someone doesn't change the reality that bigger people have a tough time getting jobs, with confidence etc and of course getting romantic attention. you're spot on about the creep part though lol. but yeah your husband is an exception not the rule. im slim and tall and not a heartbreaker by any means but even at my age ive had a few very beautiful women give me all sorts of things ranging from gifts to attention and you know what else. if i were super short or fat I wouldnt have this experience where at this point of my life ive turned down more women than ive had sex with. and reminder...Im a regular handsome guy. not a killer by any means. weight matters. I don't know what people like you get from this belief that anyone can find love. probably makes yall feel better about this shit planet and its people. ive seen the stats from ok cupid and more. ive seen how people respond to fat people and even black women. shit is not fair out here in these planet earth streets lol
@@lowlowseeseeIt's not a weight thing It's an attractiveness thing. You can still slay with love handles, it's just a matter of how you carry yourself and whether you have looks. Dating apps are based entirely on vanity, nothing else, if you base your perception of reality on them you'll never know the truth.
@@AParticularlyConcernedCitizen they just want a cookie. 🤷♀️ ignore em
@@lowlowseesee Well yeah, on dating apps it's all about looks. I never found anyone on dating apps. But, I have had many partners just by hanging out with large groups of people in social events. I'm totally average and tbh I hate my looks & I'm somewhat overweight, but that doesn't mean I haven't found a bunch of people that like me. It's mostly about confidence. My confidence has diminished a bit over the years, but I went through a time when I was fairly confident & that's what I got the most action. I'm also attracted to people with a lot of confidence so I have also dated a few people not conventionally attractive but are attractive to me because of their confidence level. People just have to get out and do shit & stop feeling sorry for themselves and they can find someone eventually.
Sure, hot people have it easier...but doesn't necessarily mean they are good people to date.
@@lowlowseesee I guarantee you there are fat dudes who pull more than you... your experience isn't a final end all be all some people actually want a bigger dude and vice versa
You mean to tell me that 37 year old is 19
Hi dreading. I wanted to tell you, you have a very beautiful and relaxing voice, and despite not being a native speaker i can understand you perfectly. Keep it up!
he's not a native speaker?? 😮
@@sugarcookie9192 No, @Ranni770 is saying they're not a native speaker but can still follow Dreading
@@kaoslobster3742 oop sorry ;;
Beware of self loathers they can end your very life. They don’t value theirs. Don’t even be around people who hate themselves……very dangerous while they may not seem so. 🛑
They enunciate so smooth and clearly! It's very nice
Vincent is 100% the kind of guy to shit himself to make others too disgusted to press him on the crap he does. He has no intention on improving his life because he'd lose his weaponised repulsiveness and would rather have that shielding layer of pathetic than a chance at a decent life. He'll never admit it but he's responsible for the state of his life and deserves none of the sympathy he feeds off.
Then he isn't a Vulnerable Narcissist, and based off the other comments and the video I'm assuming he is.
If he is, he's simply not responsible for ending up this way, abuse or neglect in childhood caused this and the only way to get better for cluster B types is to acknowledge that you didn't choose to end up this way, but the behaviour is still yours to change.
If that isn't what is Internalized nothing ever changes.
@@DevoidVoid He is entirely responsible for where he is now. A bad background doesn't make you a child predator, it doesn't make you a manipulative liar, it doesn't make you threaten self harm to get your way.
@@lukewatson301 A bad background does not make *everyone* who experiences it a child predator, but it does absolutely contribute heavily to *some* people who become child predators. That's not to take the blame off, but it's just false to say that childhood neglect or CSA is not a recurring experience with tons of people who go on to prey on children.
The beginning of this video was so close to home, damn. Haven't finished the video but so far looking good. Thank you
Ugh, I’ve dated someone like this and let me tell you, it was absolutely repulsive. He ended up being diagnosed with NPD and was a covert narcissist. I recognize so much from the way my ex behaved in this loser. My ex was also deeply pathetic, a perpetual victim and perfectly fine with absolutely humiliating himself if it meant getting away with his atrocious behavior. People like this are the worst, they’ll constantly complain about all the things people have done to them, but won’t lift a finger to change their circumstances. Once I realized nothing was ever going to change, I left. I’m sure I’ve now been added to the list of people that ruined my ex’s life😂. This guy is doomed to be single for life, no woman (or man for that matter) wants to deal with a humongous toddler.
Did you ever see Steven Assanti from “My 600-lb Life”? He fits that bill too.
Not sure if you’ve heard of Dr Ramani. She is an expert on narcissism and is also here on TH-cam. Her content is educational and insightful. I once heard her say in an interview that every incel is a narcissist. To hear an expert in the field state something so black and white without any hesitation stuck with me. And I can’t say I disagree with her-every single incel type I’ve observed has fit the bill.
@@simplyixia3683 Ramani’s work is great. I came across her unexpectedly. Didn’t know much about narcissists before and realized that I had been married to a covert narcissist for 15 years. Really helped me understand things about our relationship that never made sense before.
I also dated someone very much like this. He was my fiance for a short time. I thought he really loved me, but he only loved himself. I was lucky in that I got out before he sexually abused me. He only mentally and emotionally abused me. He came horrifyingly close to it though. I still have nightmares about the whole thing.
He always weaponized my hyper empathy and threatened to take his own life in front of me.
Hey man I say this as someone who lives 1/3rd of my life reading and your opening passage about getting older was one of the best i've heard on TH-cam. It especially stands out right now, when so many people and creators are churning out wordy drivel with too much alliteration.
You didn't have to dress down my whole life in the opener big dawg 😭😂
I don't think farm animals are even safe from this guy.
What farm animals are "safe"?
@@Numb3r3dDays 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know what he meant, but fair point!
Ain't no food safe around him I'm sure
I always hated how Chris went easy on Vincent here.
I didn't buy his sob story, and Chris missed an opportunity to call him out on his shit.
Cuz chris is weak
Suppose Chris did that and Ambrosio instantly clams up and gives nothing? In hindsight I think he might still have talked, but that’s easy to say now. Based on what he knew at the time, I think Chris played it the way he calculated would get the most words - dishonest or not - out of Ambrosio. There are valid criticisms of Chris Hansen, but I disagree with this one.
People feel bad for this guy until they read his chat log. It's vile.
This wasn’t long after Hansen had an incident where a guy TCAP went after unalived himself during the sting. He got huge backlash for that and was probably worried if he pressed this loser too hard something similar might happen.
I was under the impression Chris did that to elicit more incriminating information from the pred
I’m glad you’re all finding success with your videos because you’re great at making them!
I love these introductory monologues. It really makes this channel stand out.
It gives forensic files lol I love his snarky delivery 😂
Ive seen this guys catch a ton of times. I never knew the bit about him pretending to be a woman in order to better coerce the decoy. That definitely makes it worse.
This same thing happened to me when I was 15. A grown man who knew better and knew my age suddenly made me the reason for whether he lived or died. I'm 34 now. I still remember how helpless I felt, seeing his messages when I got home from school. I wanted to stop talking to him months before I actually did, because I was afraid he'd do something drastic and blame me for it. I'm 34 now. You don't forget that sort of thing. I have no sympathy for this piece of shit.
he's...19? He looks older than me and I am 41
Ouf that opening hit close to home. I haven't started the changing yet but I have realized that I haven't taken proper responsibility for my life. Thankfully I have friends who called me out and I want to change for them. I am starting therapy on Monday. For real this time not just to cry and complain about my stress.
Good luck on your journey, it sounds like you have a good group of friends who look out for you and genuinely care about your future.
A few things to remember.
1. Take it slow, some days it might feel like you aren't making any progress but trust me you are.
2. You're friends are gonna have bad days (just like you will), be patient with them and try not to hold anything they say or do personally.
3. YOU'VE GOT THIS!!!! You're already 2 steps in to your recovery (step one being that you are actually able to admit to yourself and others that you have/had a problem and step two for having the courage to seek help)
Again I want to wish you the best of luck.
It's really weird to me (an elder millennial) that you people are relating to this
@@Warios4Christians I'm also an elder millennial. I relate to everything before we actually are talking about the criminal. To be crystal clear; I have never had the desire to reach out to children for any sort of validation whatsoever! It just feels on the nose for me personally because I literally had the "wake up call" this week and realized how toxic I was acting towards my friends. My friends who are above 30.
@@Warios4ChristiansSo am I, and it’s not weird nor a generational thing; you’re trying to feel superior in some way, but just exhibiting gross ignorance.
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by life while struggling with mental illness. I’m glad you’re taking steps to sort things out. Always remember: you’re never powerless, there are always choices. It’s up to you. Best of luck, truly.
Felt so personally attacked for that first minute I totally forgot what vid I had just clicked on 😂.
Oh, Vincent. I can only imagine your tears being as delicious as the Dreading brothers sarcasm.
and as adorable as _"his little hat"_
@@DoctorKettleburn thats pretty fucked up
@@dolomitilino9015 It is, isn't it...
"Hey Tex, how you doing?" 😆
Lmao “the trap house” 😂😂😂😂😂 …. First thing I thought of when he said that was new jack city 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I needed to see this video today. I'm 30 & currently working on my mental wellness. I don't prey on kids or anything weird, but your narration really opened my eyes to my own detrimental behavior. This whole thing motivates me to get my poop in a group & to try to improve my circumstances, lest I end up like Vincent here, blubbering, pitiful & deceptively grasping at straws. Thank you, Dreading. Excellent video, as always. Your TCAP commentaries are my most favorite of all your stuff! 💕
“Get my poop in a group” lmaooooo I love it
Poop in a group is the best thing I’ve read today 😂 imma borrow that
@@eerielconstantine5051 thanks! Haha I stole it from some lady on My 600 lb Life. 😄
I have issues. Only you can fix them. Especially if you’re a man. Most people aren’t going to care.
You got this poundcake!👍😊