For my version of pile 3, I definitely disagree that this person is as strong as they wish to come through as. The strength was a front, just as the emotions were. They were a coward unable to handle any criticism and always chose to run instead of facing the consequences of their actions. Able to dish it but not take it, basically. Sharing because this may be the case for other pile 3 viewers as well who might want to think about it.
Agree. The man- child I dated is also a coward. He gains a lot of social capital from the Victim Role, and when he doesn’t get his way, BOOM. No matter who told him ‘no,’ THEY are a Villain.
OMG. Pile 3. Yes. No emotions, crafty AF, blames everyone else for EVERYTHING, and very fond of being viewed as the Victim. He is a Master Manipulator… and I didn’t realize it until I nearly lost myself. As you mention- I’ve FINALLY learned to Hold People Accountable through having been with him.
I chose pile two. And the first person you were describing sounded like me. Then when it flipped towards the end described the situation with person I'd be expecting the call from. Lol
My partner was strategic narcissist. Spirit has cut us off. This is for my own good. I'm aware of the danger. I'm sorry you had to go through a terrible childhood. You are a wonderful person that helps so many others. This is your calling in life. Thank you for your message and wisdom.🙏
OMG Pile number 1!!! This is so damn accurate that I'm just sitting here stunned. STUNNED. For REAL. I did think he was my twin flame, but he is exactly as you described. And that's what made me rethink- I don't want a codependent relationship. Absolutely not. But he has taught me A LOT about self-love and self-esteem and what my real standards are. It's been a rough couple of months, but I feel pretty good now.
I am in total shock. Ok so I chose Pile 2, but my pendulum was acting very weird. So me, the viewer watching, am the "This person". He sees what I watch though .. 😉. Wow, Marga thank you for coming through. She really is a super hero. This flip switched in the most miraculous way. Oh my thank you from the bottom of my heart. I've felt as though I've had nobody in my corner ever. I felt like you were speaking on my behalf personally. Thank you. Much Love Kathleen
You are spot on for me. Pile 1, thank you Jess. ❤❤❤ He was very narcissistic. He's a nightmare to who ever he's dating at the time and great to who ever he's not. Mind fuckery at its best. Thank you for the reminder. ❤
Thank you for all the piles. I learned so much and received so much helpful confirmation within the messages in each. I initially chose pile 2, but I historically find value in all piles. I see myself completely in Pile 2. 3 other energies surround which you eloquently touched on…family by marriage. I’ve had to gray rock with not only the heavily manipulative and controlling force, but also the enablers. I appreciate your keen and thoughtful insight. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
Thank you so much. This was really good to hear. I've been dealing with a lot of craziness and it just hurts cuz I was felt like I was being punished for being nice and being a good person and that I just don't think on a level like some people that are around me and and and I've been put down and abused physically mentally spiritually on any level. I've been through some crazy stuff and I haven't changed and I'm grateful for that and I thank God everyday but didn't understand and I was starting to feel really discouraged and it just made me feel good that I know that I wasn't crazy. So I do appreciate the time that you took to bring this message to us. So it's nice to know what I can do moving forward and that I'm not alone. Thank you
You nailed 3. This is the father of my kids and his wife is just as rotten. He even treats his family like he is better. I lost everything in our divorce years ago. I mean everything. He has two homes, several cars, a racing boat and much more and he would get child support from me and I would be trying to get by on barely anything. He constantly put me through the mud, told lies, if I breathed wrong he would take me to court. My kids are older but they won’t even talk to me. He always told them lies and can buy them whatever they want and I can’t. He would tell me to kill myself in front of our kids. It hurts still not having my kids around. I still push forward. I’m so loving and a sweetheart and life can be cruel and our system is broken. The system only cares about money, not the kids and not the emotional strong mom loving her children. He did some really terrible things that will make anyone cry. I have God and God see’s my heart. It was hard to relive this today in this reading. You did good Jess, as always. Have a blessed weekend.
I narrowly escaped a very similar man. When we met, he showed me off like the goose who laid the golden egg. He would also tell me the same stories about his ‘Crazy ex wife’ that he told everyone else. After living with him for a few months, I began to wonder… was his ex actually as ‘crazy’ as he said… or did he bait her until she would lash out and he could then say ‘see, I told you she’s crazy!’ ? I really wonder if what you describe is what she’s been experiencing for 8 years.
Dearest, I'm not going to give details, please just know that your were soooo incredibly accurate with Pile 3. Thank you for giving this message 💜 ❤️ 💕 Lost my girls because I refused to fight like him, because that would've made them into pawns and perpetuate his abuse. Love prevails ... my girls know whats going on. They know I I'm busy healing and getting back on my feet and preparing a safe place where they can come when the time is right. Gosh! It's been a nightmare. Lost 23 years of my life to him. But I have two gorgeous girls which I will make proud by not buckling under the torture ❤
Pile 1 - you are so dead on. I am so thankful that I already see it and would never engage it again. But your words and insight really help. Thanks for the confirmation and the very apt locust metaphor. 😂❤
#3 😂😂 he tried and lost. Been through enough in life to recognize he needed to do his shadow work. Cut it off in 3 weeks. It's okay to love and respect yourself to walk away❤
Thank you Jess 🕊 - your childhood was like mine and I feel such a level of understanding and connection. Piles 1 and 3 could have been a personal readings for me. Pile 2 was also spot on but as with @RitaP41, pile 2 was backward for me. She was my 'birthday sister' and I was the loving energy - held her up and supported her because she needed me but suddenly, with no explanation, ghosted me and shut me out. We all work at the same place and I think she is the one who got drunk and had the work affair with the ex-narsehole in pile 1 (there are things happening at work that seem to support this), even knowing exactly how close he came to taking me out for good. It is my energy that was disrespected and I am the legacy, for both of them. There can be no reconciliation and I will never allow myself to be dragged back down into that rabbit hole ever again - by anybody or anything. Pile 3 is my boss and the same goes for him. I have learnt the hard way to choose when to love and care and support - they do not get to take or to steal or to covet. It is not for them - it never was - and now I know that, thanks to them. Their karma, their dharma.
Pile 3: pretty sure he recorded me without me knowing. Def felt like he tricked me into stealing my sacred cows and gets off on me being confused and without. Been years of processing and healing this abuse
pile 3, yes, I was a sensitive one and he spot that. I wanted to create something authentic with him, little did he know I could see his games, power play and cruelty as well, so as much as I gave in to him he was surprised I can take that back real quick...it all lasted 3 months but I learned in that short time from him to mostly take care of myself first.....I got impression that he was jealous of my friendships, at the end he even said I have no friends....I felt a bit stressed, unnatural around him all time, and he would point out things that we all do sometimes like little mistakes or misunderstandings and he wouldn't let that go unnoticed... he would also appreciate things I do but in a way that "I behave good", so I "earned" a "badge" or something from him...I felt suffocated around him most of the time so things didn't go the way he thought ...haha
Pile 2: I had a dream that this person was stuck out in a storm and although I wasnt with them physically. I was being shown that where they had taken shelter a gift box appeared in their lap, with an oldschool phone recharge voucher and next thing I know I was running out into the storm to get them. Its like they were cashing in some good karma and they were phoning a friend because they needed help. I reached out in waking life and just sent a series of messages to them, gently giving them love and support through a tough time.
Pile 1 spot on it just reminds of that viral song “I want a guy/girl in finance,6”5, trust fund and blue eyes” which is the most ridiculous thing to say out loud due to the fact of can the person requesting this criteria actually bring these things to the table also?? It’s actually pretty tiring to be working all day and to have someone leeching off your hard work day in day out. He just wants a woman to be his mother, his babysitter, his cook, maid, butler and bell hop just so he can mess around with other ally cats out there who think like him, equal partnership will never be in his vocabulary nor will he ever know what it takes to be a balanced man in society. Crisis averted thanks Jess your mini reads have being most insightful also 😊
You forgot ‘sugar momma.’ He wants mommy, butler, maid, etc… and a woman to pay his damn bills too while he runs around on ‘not dates’ with his ‘personal assistant’- a young woman half his age.
3 😂 yeah I'd never drunk dial anyone. Don't care for the drink, but you can probably thank people like this. Lol had enough fights, drunk and not, to know how to deal with people like this even when they try to send other people to do their dirty work. If he has anything to be mad about it's over himself, and if they're a control freak then they can take that up with the universe in the form of humble pie 🙃 sounds like they already had a slice of they're that peeved 🙄 just as well. Also, while they may have acted a certain way to draw evidence, it's just as much corroborated evidence on their behavior so they can "pretend" but if they're going out of their way to look a certain way then they did it to themselves so... where's the logic in that? Sounds like someone who likes to make themselves dillusional, and obviously likes to use things like drinks and drugs to their advantage to keep being abusive. That's a whole different kind of crazy as there are plenty of calculative criminals that do crazy things like this 🤷♀️ 😆 and yeah people can be emotional, but obviously that doesn't make people weak or "unhinged". That's just a warped perspective trying to demonize people for being human so, again, doesn't really make sense. Nope. Would never drunk dial, would drop and let go of any and everything attatched cause at the end of the day they're just things, and it's more worth it to let them deal with everything since they were trying to make other people do the work for them. Sounds like it's just something they do to people in general to control them, and they're peeved cause their tactics didn't work on someone who saw right through their facade. Also, to anyone who would have to deal with any similar people. Please know that if someone is trying to utilize slander alongside drugs and/or alcohol there are legal percussions you can go about to utilize against these type of people. These criminals, cause that's what they are when they stoop to these types of tactics, don't need to keep getting away thinking they're untouchable when it couldn't be further from the truth. Just like revenge porn online got it's karmic retribution in the form of the law, so too has utilizing drunken/drugged "evidence" for slander. People think they're slick, but it's always a matter of time before they get those things turned around on themselves.
Number 2 she called me an imposter when I met her and I was heartbroken- then I said I was impressed by her protecting herself and she apologized but it’s been difficult to get to know her. It feels like she’s hiding
💯< Get off the wine, you're not fine! > lol rejection is protection. Glowing up is growing up for adults. We are not children, we are mature, confident and poised. We nurture ourselves with self LoVe and we feed our Sacred Cows. TY Jess, for your excellent channeling, and first-rate advice.💯
For my version of pile 3, I definitely disagree that this person is as strong as they wish to come through as. The strength was a front, just as the emotions were. They were a coward unable to handle any criticism and always chose to run instead of facing the consequences of their actions. Able to dish it but not take it, basically. Sharing because this may be the case for other pile 3 viewers as well who might want to think about it.
Agree. The man- child I dated is also a coward. He gains a lot of social capital from the Victim Role, and when he doesn’t get his way, BOOM. No matter who told him ‘no,’ THEY are a Villain.
OMG. Pile 3. Yes. No emotions, crafty AF, blames everyone else for EVERYTHING, and very fond of being viewed as the Victim. He is a Master Manipulator… and I didn’t realize it until I nearly lost myself. As you mention- I’ve FINALLY learned to Hold People Accountable through having been with him.
I chose pile two. And the first person you were describing sounded like me. Then when it flipped towards the end described the situation with person I'd be expecting the call from. Lol
Pile 2 is Backwards. I am that person. And no, just taking it up with God and not making it right with me directly won't do it.
My partner was strategic narcissist.
Spirit has cut us off. This is for my
own good. I'm aware of the danger.
I'm sorry you had to go through a
terrible childhood. You are a wonderful
person that helps so many others.
This is your calling in life. Thank you
for your message and wisdom.🙏
OMG Pile number 1!!! This is so damn accurate that I'm just sitting here stunned. STUNNED. For REAL.
I did think he was my twin flame, but he is exactly as you described. And that's what made me rethink- I don't want a codependent relationship. Absolutely not. But he has taught me A LOT about self-love and self-esteem and what my real standards are. It's been a rough couple of months, but I feel pretty good now.
I am in total shock. Ok so I chose Pile 2, but my pendulum was acting very weird. So me, the viewer watching, am the "This person". He sees what I watch though .. 😉. Wow, Marga thank you for coming through. She really is a super hero. This flip switched in the most miraculous way.
Oh my thank you from the bottom of my heart. I've felt as though I've had nobody in my corner ever. I felt like you were speaking on my behalf personally. Thank you.
Much Love
Kathleen
You are spot on for me. Pile 1, thank you Jess. ❤❤❤ He was very narcissistic. He's a nightmare to who ever he's dating at the time and great to who ever he's not. Mind fuckery at its best. Thank you for the reminder. ❤
You're so welcome!! 💜
You should do what if you told them you liked them? reading ❤
Oh wowwwwww. Pile 1 😳😳😳This was insanely spot on for me regarding my best friend that I have completely cut off
Thank you for sharing how you feel about your parent who knew better. That's relevant.
Thank you for all the piles. I learned so much and received so much helpful confirmation within the messages in each. I initially chose pile 2, but I historically find value in all piles. I see myself completely in Pile 2. 3 other energies surround which you eloquently touched on…family by marriage. I’ve had to gray rock with not only the heavily manipulative and controlling force, but also the enablers. I appreciate your keen and thoughtful insight. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
Thank you so much. This was really good to hear. I've been dealing with a lot of craziness and it just hurts cuz I was felt like I was being punished for being nice and being a good person and that I just don't think on a level like some people that are around me and and and I've been put down and abused physically mentally spiritually on any level. I've been through some crazy stuff and I haven't changed and I'm grateful for that and I thank God everyday but didn't understand and I was starting to feel really discouraged and it just made me feel good that I know that I wasn't crazy. So I do appreciate the time that you took to bring this message to us. So it's nice to know what I can do moving forward and that I'm not alone. Thank you
You nailed 3. This is the father of my kids and his wife is just as rotten. He even treats his family like he is better. I lost everything in our divorce years ago. I mean everything. He has two homes, several cars, a racing boat and much more and he would get child support from me and I would be trying to get by on barely anything. He constantly put me through the mud, told lies, if I breathed wrong he would take me to court. My kids are older but they won’t even talk to me. He always told them lies and can buy them whatever they want and I can’t. He would tell me to kill myself in front of our kids. It hurts still not having my kids around. I still push forward. I’m so loving and a sweetheart and life can be cruel and our system is broken. The system only cares about money, not the kids and not the emotional strong mom loving her children. He did some really terrible things that will make anyone cry. I have God and God see’s my heart. It was hard to relive this today in this reading. You did good Jess, as always. Have a blessed weekend.
I narrowly escaped a very similar man. When we met, he showed me off like the goose who laid the golden egg. He would also tell me the same stories about his ‘Crazy ex wife’ that he told everyone else. After living with him for a few months, I began to wonder… was his ex actually as ‘crazy’ as he said… or did he bait her until she would lash out and he could then say ‘see, I told you she’s crazy!’ ? I really wonder if what you describe is what she’s been experiencing for 8 years.
You’re so awesome. I’m so glad you read for us. Thank you
Dearest, I'm not going to give details, please just know that your were soooo incredibly accurate with Pile 3.
Thank you for giving this message 💜 ❤️ 💕
Lost my girls because I refused to fight like him, because that would've made them into pawns and perpetuate his abuse.
Love prevails ... my girls know whats going on. They know I I'm busy healing and getting back on my feet and preparing a safe place where they can come when the time is right.
Gosh! It's been a nightmare. Lost 23 years of my life to him.
But I have two gorgeous girls which I will make proud by not buckling under the torture ❤
🩷💜💙🩵
It all resonated for the people in my life and myself. Thanks so much Jess.
I love all your videos!!!! I can hear you all day.
I think for my pile 2 my friend is spirit/Shiva/ Maa Bhairavi 🙏🌙
‘is it compassionate to let them go off and hurt another person?’ (paraphrasing), I’m going to be thinking on that for a while.
Pile 1 - you are so dead on. I am so thankful that I already see it and would never engage it again. But your words and insight really help. Thanks for the confirmation and the very apt locust metaphor. 😂❤
#3 😂😂 he tried and lost. Been through enough in life to recognize he needed to do his shadow work.
Cut it off in 3 weeks. It's okay to love and respect yourself to walk away❤
It's so crazy. All of the last few readings you have posted have been talking about what I've been experiencing with people currently. Like to a t
“There are three sides to every story; your side, my side, & the truth - (& no one is lying.)”
- Robert Evans
Thank you Jess 🕊 - your childhood was like mine and I feel such a level of understanding and connection. Piles 1 and 3 could have been a personal readings for me. Pile 2 was also spot on but as with @RitaP41, pile 2 was backward for me. She was my 'birthday sister' and I was the loving energy - held her up and supported her because she needed me but suddenly, with no explanation, ghosted me and shut me out. We all work at the same place and I think she is the one who got drunk and had the work affair with the ex-narsehole in pile 1 (there are things happening at work that seem to support this), even knowing exactly how close he came to taking me out for good. It is my energy that was disrespected and I am the legacy, for both of them. There can be no reconciliation and I will never allow myself to be dragged back down into that rabbit hole ever again - by anybody or anything. Pile 3 is my boss and the same goes for him. I have learnt the hard way to choose when to love and care and support - they do not get to take or to steal or to covet. It is not for them - it never was - and now I know that, thanks to them. Their karma, their dharma.
Pile 3: pretty sure he recorded me without me knowing. Def felt like he tricked me into stealing my sacred cows and gets off on me being confused and without. Been years of processing and healing this abuse
pile 3, yes, I was a sensitive one and he spot that. I wanted to create something authentic with him, little did he know I could see his games, power play and cruelty as well, so as much as I gave in to him he was surprised I can take that back real quick...it all lasted 3 months but I learned in that short time from him to mostly take care of myself first.....I got impression that he was jealous of my friendships, at the end he even said I have no friends....I felt a bit stressed, unnatural around him all time, and he would point out things that we all do sometimes like little mistakes or misunderstandings and he wouldn't let that go unnoticed... he would also appreciate things I do but in a way that "I behave good", so I "earned" a "badge" or something from him...I felt suffocated around him most of the time so things didn't go the way he thought ...haha
It's BRYAN ADAMS "Everything I Do" not Brandy
This sounds like my older sister I swear word for word it made my stomach sick! 😢
Everything I do, I'd do it for you. Song originally from Bryan Adams. Beautiful song.
Pile 1... that was so accurate about that person oh god haha. When I hear in 5 yrs that she left with everything I'll hear it was all her idea
Pile 1
Thank you 🙏🏼
Pile 2: I had a dream that this person was stuck out in a storm and although I wasnt with them physically. I was being shown that where they had taken shelter a gift box appeared in their lap, with an oldschool phone recharge voucher and next thing I know I was running out into the storm to get them. Its like they were cashing in some good karma and they were phoning a friend because they needed help. I reached out in waking life and just sent a series of messages to them, gently giving them love and support through a tough time.
Pile 3. Thank you
Pile 1 : “Sigma Female”. She’s not an Alpha or Beta
Real!
Pile 2 MD RC. Thank you 💜
Pile 2. Lol. I'm the high vibrational energy... so we split up 😂
Thank you Jess ♡
Pile 1 spot on it just reminds of that viral song “I want a guy/girl in finance,6”5, trust fund and blue eyes” which is the most ridiculous thing to say out loud due to the fact of can the person requesting this criteria actually bring these things to the table also?? It’s actually pretty tiring to be working all day and to have someone leeching off your hard work day in day out. He just wants a woman to be his mother, his babysitter, his cook, maid, butler and bell hop just so he can mess around with other ally cats out there who think like him, equal partnership will never be in his vocabulary nor will he ever know what it takes to be a balanced man in society. Crisis averted thanks Jess your mini reads have being most insightful also 😊
You forgot ‘sugar momma.’ He wants mommy, butler, maid, etc… and a woman to pay his damn bills too while he runs around on ‘not dates’ with his ‘personal assistant’- a young woman half his age.
@@rusb23 hahaha 🤣 so true yep 👍🏽 add em all
They'd get cussed out and hung up on. Why would we waste our time on nonsense like this? Gross.
There are alphas, betas and sigmas. Check out what defines a sigma feminine, Jess, you might find out you are one! BTW, totally right on for pile one.
3 😂 yeah I'd never drunk dial anyone. Don't care for the drink, but you can probably thank people like this. Lol had enough fights, drunk and not, to know how to deal with people like this even when they try to send other people to do their dirty work. If he has anything to be mad about it's over himself, and if they're a control freak then they can take that up with the universe in the form of humble pie 🙃 sounds like they already had a slice of they're that peeved 🙄 just as well. Also, while they may have acted a certain way to draw evidence, it's just as much corroborated evidence on their behavior so they can "pretend" but if they're going out of their way to look a certain way then they did it to themselves so... where's the logic in that? Sounds like someone who likes to make themselves dillusional, and obviously likes to use things like drinks and drugs to their advantage to keep being abusive. That's a whole different kind of crazy as there are plenty of calculative criminals that do crazy things like this 🤷♀️ 😆 and yeah people can be emotional, but obviously that doesn't make people weak or "unhinged". That's just a warped perspective trying to demonize people for being human so, again, doesn't really make sense. Nope. Would never drunk dial, would drop and let go of any and everything attatched cause at the end of the day they're just things, and it's more worth it to let them deal with everything since they were trying to make other people do the work for them. Sounds like it's just something they do to people in general to control them, and they're peeved cause their tactics didn't work on someone who saw right through their facade.
Also, to anyone who would have to deal with any similar people. Please know that if someone is trying to utilize slander alongside drugs and/or alcohol there are legal percussions you can go about to utilize against these type of people. These criminals, cause that's what they are when they stoop to these types of tactics, don't need to keep getting away thinking they're untouchable when it couldn't be further from the truth. Just like revenge porn online got it's karmic retribution in the form of the law, so too has utilizing drunken/drugged "evidence" for slander. People think they're slick, but it's always a matter of time before they get those things turned around on themselves.
Number 2 she called me an imposter when I met her and I was heartbroken- then I said I was impressed by her protecting herself and she apologized but it’s been difficult to get to know her. It feels like she’s hiding
1 j good. He left me a single mom.
Pile 3 wow
Pile 2 JC.
What should we do as he is suicidale? Refered to pile 3. 😢
Sigma is a type of female different than the alpha and beta!
2
What’s the metal thing?
It's a Tibetan prayer wheel
😢
💯< Get off the wine, you're not fine! > lol rejection is protection. Glowing up is growing up for adults. We are not children, we are mature, confident and poised. We nurture ourselves with self LoVe and we feed our Sacred Cows. TY Jess, for your excellent channeling, and first-rate advice.💯
PS: Pile #3
🎶Pile #2 > the song is Brandy - Right Here (Departed)🎵
It's so crazy. All of the last few readings you have posted have been talking about what I've been experiencing with people currently. Like to a t