Becoming old is a lot harder than most people think. Feeling invisible and unvalued is constant. In the end, my father had only me. I couldn't believe it.
the mortuary told us "when a young person dies, hundreds come. when the elderly die, no one." a representative of the American Legion post came, his Mason lodge didn't even send a card, and we had to pay his minister (who received $400/mo tithes from him) for a 5 minute ceremony. Daddy's funeral was a very lonely ending. i'm elderly, and assume anyone i leave behind will likely have to hire pallbearers. all our friends have moved away, or are dead. it'll be a lonely ending for us, too. god bless america--no other nations do this to their family.
I'm in my 70s. I carried mail decades ago. I cried most of the way through this movie. And it was especially wonderful to see she knew what was going on.
This literally made me cry.. My heart breaks when I see an old lady or gentleman all alone, trying to Carry groceries and having a hard time. Not having anyone to talk to or be with. With their kids visiting them like only for christmas once a year. I wish elderly were in Europe were treated the same as elderly in the middle east, Asia, etc. Over there, families are so tight to the point that a grandma would NEVER ever be left alone in her home with her kids and grankids not caring for her. That would never happen unless there are special circumstances! I wish the same applied to Europeans. Sometimes I hate it here just because of this fact amongst others.. but this hurts the most.
Your comment. Made me think a lot. I agree. Families in the middle East and here in India too among asian countries are tightly knit. I plan to settle with my mum after getting a job. I guess it's just how things are in this part of the world. Life is nothing but an experience and a collection of memories anyways.
@S K, unfortunately this is also the case in the United States. Many people put their parents in nursing homes, or other type of extended care facilities and never, ever visit them, they act like they no longer exist. Very sad.
This is True. However let''s not fantasize it neither. Sometimes, the culture of tight families can be very toxic and harming. God forbid, but I saw old ppl being taken care of by family members who were mistreated by this old person. Or like, to save the appearance it' s just ONE family member who take of everything (it always piss me of when it's the daughter in law btw. That should be the children but whatever). OK I'm stopping here. Just to say that a little but of both world would be great.
@@detrajackson5992 having worked in those facilities, it's sad seeing some of them alone. But sometimes, you get the full story of abuse and such and you understand them. Also, some others really take care of their family there and visit them often but can not take in charge the whole medical problem their parent have. That's why it takes a whole medical team.
what i learned from this is that, no matter how insignificant you think your job is, you can always ALWAYS make a difference/impact on the lives of people around you
Thank you to everyone in the comments! Your stories, thoughts and reactions remind me why I wanted to become a filmmaker in the first place and share this story with people. Please, don't forget about the little acts of kindness that really make a huge difference to someone's life. Loneliness is often invisible and destructive.
Unfortunately, the film is all to true. Honestly felt a glimmer of hope for society watching the postie's humanity.... and genuine. Well done. Loved it.
A couple of summers ago I volunteered in an association for elderly people. We would go, pick them up with the bus early in the morning and take them to a little villa in a hilly area where the breeze was fresh and unpolluted. I would serve them a simple breakfast and I loved it when they showed appreciation. Being served the breakfast was something that made them feel pampered and they loved it. And I loved making them feel that way. It made me feel so fulfilled. They would then play cards and sometimes I joined them (have I ever won? They are so good!), or read magazine/paper to be on their own, but they loved when I listened to them the most. They talked about their life during the WW2, or about their late loved one, or their adventures of when they were young. I loved listening to them, and, in particular, I remember the story of a lady. She didn't have kids and lost her husband when she was still young. But she said she still loved him so much and thought about him everyday. She was often sad and lonely, but she said she felt happy at the same time, cause she knew she would soon join her husband. I remember I cried many times when those elderly people talked about themselves. They have so much to teach us about life, they have so much to give.
It was better if he accepted her invitation for a cup of tea every few days instead of forging Joseph's letters, anyway I think it was a good story for guidance and drawing attention to elderly care.
This was a bitter sweet reminder of my experience. I've been on my own for 10 years. The please and thank you's once a week while shopping are the big events. Now, for some reason my regular Post Woman, has taken the time and had a short natter with me. She just got back after two weeks holiday and shared her news. I was touched by this and made it clear I welcomed her friendly nature. Afterwards, I became aware that I am lonely. It was quite a shock.
you do use the internet, why not look for people your age group at your area, would be nice to meet new people. We re never too old to make new friends!
It made me sad when she said the home care worker will come in but it’s just a job for her. I work at a hospital and chose to take a part time home care job not because I needed the extra income but because I know how isolated seniors are working in healthcare, and I wanted to be a companion and friend to someone who needed it! It was very rewarding. She was a incredible woman Genevieve. She passed away and I was by her side holding her hand whispering into her ear “go with the angels, they will take you to god” 💕
I wish I had seen this four years ago. I’m a fool. I’m so very very sorry, Mom. I wish I could go back and spend more time with you. Forgive me. I love and miss you.
I signed in just to reply to this. I always say this would be my 'cause' if only I could be thousands of people all in one making regular visits to people who live alone. This topic always pulls at my heartstrings. So very sad. Sometimes you're forgotten, sometimes, you're the last one remaining and you have not made any new friends. It is very difficult knowing that you have contributed so much and when you're older, those who are still alive, do not acknowledge you. I do hope that circumstances change for you and those that you're longing to hear from start including you in their lives.
@@sandrajones6968 Sandra, lovely post. But I do think you should begin a new thread by posting this as a new comment. This way, people will see it. Thanks.
I love in the Middle East and there is no cut off between the elderly and their family unless they are all gone.. both my grandma’s live with their children and grand children.. no elderly should go through this
Oh yes they should. You maltreat your children, you can look forward to a lonely old age because they won’t be around to dance attendance on you. *Nor should they be.*
@@tundrawomansays5067 I sort of agree. If parents traumatize their children you can't blame the kids for not having that emotional bond with them. However, loving parents don't deserve this. This woman genuinely loved her son. She deserved a visit.
Tear jerker and pulling on the heartstrings. Everyone should watch this and show kindness and empathy to the elderly. Can you imagine how strange life is for them now? How they grew up, the morals they been taught and to see the world so up side down and a complete opposite of what they knew. To many people lack compassion and positivity. It’s a very “all about me” attitude and what really matters lays by the roadside.....forgotten....:-(
This is why I talk with elderly people, too. Our neighbours, the woman in the tram or on the park bank. About everything. I said to every of them hello in the neighbourhood. Maybe it's their first talk today. 😥 For me it's easy, not like with people in my age.😂
If we all could all do something as simple as performing one act of kindness to another, maybe the world wouldn't be as hard and dark as it is nowadays.
That was lovely. I really enjoyed, it hit me in the heart. My last job had me visiting my elderly clients in their homes, to assess their eligibility for benefits. The majority of my clients really appreciated having someone to come visit and just have someone to talk to. Have had interviews that lasted almost two hours (usual allotment was 30 minutes or less), because they just wanted to tell me their life story. They just wanted someone to listen. And I would let them just talk, because I came to realize that they probably hadn’t seen anyone in a bit of a while. I didn’t go so far as to visit them with my dog... but I’d like to think my letting them talk and me listen, was just a different form of it.
The last of my grandparents have recently passed on. I don't really know what to do with my Sunday afternoon now. Now I dread for my parents as they themselves will eventually become elderly too one day.
I recall totally freaking out when my parents turned 60. Well now 31 years have passed. Dad passed in 2013 but mom is still around and doing well. But I also live in dread and denial re: her inevitable end. I just can't imagine such a world.
Both my parents have passed, my mom in 2004 and father seven years later. Although painful at the time feelings have settled and I've grown to appreciate them even more.
I used to live alone and my next door neighbour was a very old widowed lady called Rita. We first met over the garden fence, as it were and in time we became good friends. She had chronic arthritis and so could not really get out often. She did have friends though who did her shopping, home help, etc. After a time, whenever I cooked for myself I'd make up a plate for her too and I'd often sit with her for a glass of wine and we'd talk. She was a fascinating woman and she loved to talk. She had been an ambulance driver in London during the second world war before returning to Ireland to look after her father who was ill. In later life after her dad had passed away, she found love and married her first cousin, for which she needed permission from the Pope! She especially liked meeting my girlfriends and and I think she rather lived vicariously through my relationships with them. After I was obliged to move house, (long story) I lost touch with her but I remember her with great affection. She had amazing stories to tell and to this day I often think of her. xx SF
10:43 of your time was a lesson in what being caring, compassionate and loving is a about. The question is what will you do about what you saw? Being a caring person is about taking action AND not just for your own. Be kind to each other and show some love....it's free! PS. The pandemic has seniors isolated even more, perhaps help them with the tech so they can use the internet / facetime friends ect, help with grocery shopping, or just wave and say hello. 💞💗✌🖖
Idk, I guess the more important thing would be to ask YOURSELF those questions instead of posting it here. Be the solution, not the problem...and start with self!🙄
If this is what's in store for me in the twilight years, then, why do we bother? May as well donate my body to Soylent Green when it gets too tough, and society turns a blind eye...... When I was driving a cab in my early years, and I'd pick up senior citizens going shopping or to doctor appointments, whatever, I would never charge them one red cent, ever. Since I would not accept money, they would pay me with cakes, scones, cookies......😇
@ Albert Chehade, how lovely!! Its obvious they knew you were something special and showed their appreciation by repaying you with the kindness of the kitchen!
I'd think you'd rather have a scone than a Soylent !!! Yep, what you done was decent and honourable and I tip my hat to you, as would a lot of of people reading your comment.
@James Hannah Possibly.....it seems that being kind to your fellow man/woman in today's politically correct environment would be classified as a moral sin. TrumpWorld, here we come........
I think there's a lesson here in that we need to nurture the relationships we have in life and not keep ourselves hidden away. Which is what I do. So I should pay attention. I have two wonderful and attentive children but other than them not much more than acquaintances because I've always been so painfully shy. I'm only 50 now but I feel like a shut-in sometimes because it's so hard to speak to people. Anyway, I should push myself harder.
Thank you for shedding the lights on such a serious matter! Our elders are to be respected, loved, cared for unconditionally for what they endured to see us happier. And yes, we are all selfish! Great movie ^^
I just wanted to thank you for sharing all of these fabulous shorts. I'm so glad you posted more as I've been done with the others (most) for a bit now. Your Brilliant! And you only post THE BEST! 🐾 MEOW
Man I’m going through the comments and all I see is very kind hearted people who describe the theme of the story and just say very nice things. It’s not bad or anything. I’m just surprised there isn’t someone talking bad about like acting or whatever just to be rude. But all these people here are doing good.
The mailman had compassion that's why he forged the letter. But the old lady let him know she knew. I'd be willing to bet he brought the dog over for her. Loneliness can eat the soul of elderly people.
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I always stay with my grandma. But it is hard at times for me to get out, because she really needs and wants that sense of comfort all the time.
Not just the UK, I'm a retired nurse and the only time I hear from someone is when they want money or something. I hope to my doctor's monthly and he never even looks at me. I know I'm elderly, but inside I don't feel old, just forgotten. Loneliness is a killer, I know, it's slowly killing me!!
It's such a beautifully crafted film. I hope people seeing it will understand you can make a huge difference to older people by just showing a little caring and empathy. Listening, asking them what things were like when they were young. Really talking to them. These older years come to everyone. So much more quickly than you can imagine. 💖
Love the vid and the message. Boomers get a lot of flack but they're some of the sweetest kindest, cutest, and most sincere people on earth. You know what i mean by cute.
😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔 beautiful story. Mark is a very good person. At life you lose / you win. Take that beauty, the wonder, the love and forget things you think this must be. Nothing must be but a lot is possible...
The hair on my back and arms are literally standing up not in horror but in sadness and maybe relief by the end. When she said "of course" everything clicked into place. A brilliant piece. I thought there would be a horror twist at the end like the guy being imprisoned by the envelope or something similar knowing it's omeleto. Glad I watched it. :)
This reminds me a bit--distantly, I know--of a story by the novelist Elizabeth Taylor--no, not the actress--called Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont. There was a tv adaptation. In that, a young man takes responsibility for encouraging a lonely old woman whose family ignore and neglect her. Like this, it's a kind, humane and empathetic story.
Well done. Omeleto actors continue to be better than those in Hollywood. A message that we certainly need today...showing kindness can cure a lot of ills.
The crazy part is: I left everything for mother ... I came down and served her in everyway possible ... And all I received was abuse in return ... It took me a long time to outgrow every little sacrifice made and overlooked ... And she returns as and when she needs for her own selfish reasons. I can't do this anymore. If you're a parent, see that your adult child doesn't suffer from holding on to a parent she/he wants to forget as against remember. I am making the effort to restart. It's not been easy with wrong people showing up but I am not giving up on me ...
Muska Safi - Join the club😢. You have an empathic heart, never change. One would have a heart of stone if they were not affected. This is fine short film that delivered a powerful message.
It's never been the technology's fault, it's that hypocritical people pretend to want to connect with you when it takes a click, but then do not follow through in real life. Which is better, as you would not even want them to mess with you since they're that way.
I just wish the lettering was a tad bigger. I've got a visual impairment and just could not read the ending on my small screen phone. No matter though, this short film touched my heart.
So sorry about not making it readable. It says the following: "A vast amount of elderly people are cut off from society, especially those over the age of 75. Many say they often go for a month without speaking to a friend, neighbour or family member. There are 1.2 million chronically lonely elderly people in the UK (according to a 2016 Age UK study)."
The play and movie is on Y.T., but unfortunately I have yet to find it with English subtitles. I still watched and enjoyed without them. Its a classic!
Heartstrings plucked. . . . Its like the meaning "Grand" is lost in the term. I try to appreciate what many elderly people have survived, and the character that they had to have to do so. Sure, there are bound to be some cantankerous sods too but maybe I'll end up the same, and understand why.But sadder still when my post goes missing its not for any sentimental reason.
If you are reading this just know that you are blessed. Amazing and beautiful don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I wish all your dreams would come true just as I want all my youtube dreams to come true thank you
Andy Fordham - If only that was my issue. Sound is ok with me, it's the visual I have a difficult time with. I wish I could have read the print right at the end of this fine short film. It is too small on my phone.
Neighbor's family got her a dog to keep her company. He was a loud, large, hyperactive dog and she found him more of a burden than company half the time.
Thats too bad, the breed of dog you chose can make all the difference. The kind shown in the film is a dalmation from what I can tell and they are good companions and gaurds not too loud as they are partially deaf themselves. Its why they are often used by the fire brigade as the siren doesnt scare them. I would look into other breeds for your neighbour there are some that are carers.
Becoming old is a lot harder than most people think. Feeling invisible and unvalued is constant. In the end, my father had only me. I couldn't believe it.
@God Jesus You're welcome, God. Did he get into Heaven? If you let him in, then I need to recalculate this whole sin/salvation deal.
the mortuary told us "when a young person dies, hundreds come. when the elderly die, no one." a representative of the American Legion post came, his Mason lodge didn't even send a card, and we had to pay his minister (who received $400/mo tithes from him) for a 5 minute ceremony. Daddy's funeral was a very lonely ending. i'm elderly, and assume anyone i leave behind will likely have to hire pallbearers. all our friends have moved away, or are dead. it'll be a lonely ending for us, too. god bless america--no other nations do this to their family.
@Jesus H. Christ It's all the disrespect and dismissiveness before you die that is problematic.
@Jesus H. Christ Whom else?
Just wanted to say hello, because I see you a lot in the comment section. So hello, I hope you're fine ^^
I'm in my 70s. I carried mail decades ago. I cried most of the way through this movie. And it was especially wonderful to see she knew what was going on.
@ Zeyev, you don't look at day over 50!!
@@detrajackson5992 Thank you but we need you to check in with your eye doctor immediately. 🤣
Zeyev oh my lord, you are too funny🤣😂😅🤣😂😅🤣😂😅👏
hahahah! Thank you! You made me smile :D
hahahah! Thank you! You made me smile :D
This literally made me cry.. My heart breaks when I see an old lady or gentleman all alone, trying to Carry groceries and having a hard time. Not having anyone to talk to or be with. With their kids visiting them like only for christmas once a year. I wish elderly were in Europe were treated the same as elderly in the middle east, Asia, etc. Over there, families are so tight to the point that a grandma would NEVER ever be left alone in her home with her kids and grankids not caring for her. That would never happen unless there are special circumstances! I wish the same applied to Europeans. Sometimes I hate it here just because of this fact amongst others.. but this hurts the most.
Your comment.
Made me think a lot.
I agree. Families in the middle East and here in India too among asian countries are tightly knit.
I plan to settle with my mum after getting a job.
I guess it's just how things are in this part of the world.
Life is nothing but an experience and a collection of memories anyways.
Yup I’m in the Middle East and being close to a family member is so important to us... this is what islam teaches us too
@S K, unfortunately this is also the case in the United States. Many people put their parents in nursing homes, or other type of extended care facilities and never, ever visit them, they act like they no longer exist. Very sad.
This is True. However let''s not fantasize it neither. Sometimes, the culture of tight families can be very toxic and harming. God forbid, but I saw old ppl being taken care of by family members who were mistreated by this old person. Or like, to save the appearance it' s just ONE family member who take of everything (it always piss me of when it's the daughter in law btw. That should be the children but whatever). OK I'm stopping here. Just to say that a little but of both world would be great.
@@detrajackson5992 having worked in those facilities, it's sad seeing some of them alone. But sometimes, you get the full story of abuse and such and you understand them. Also, some others really take care of their family there and visit them often but can not take in charge the whole medical problem their parent have. That's why it takes a whole medical team.
what i learned from this is that, no matter how insignificant you think your job is, you can always ALWAYS make a difference/impact on the lives of people around you
The postman was an angel ...
Thank you to everyone in the comments! Your stories, thoughts and reactions remind me why I wanted to become a filmmaker in the first place and share this story with people. Please, don't forget about the little acts of kindness that really make a huge difference to someone's life. Loneliness is often invisible and destructive.
Unfortunately, the film is all to true. Honestly felt a glimmer of hope for society watching the postie's humanity.... and genuine. Well done. Loved it.
This was a heartfelt, touching and bittersweet story. Very well done.
I started working as a postman 3 weeks ago. I will be thinking about this short film for a long time to come. Thank you.
Wonderful film Anastasia!! Keep up the good work :))
I really appreciate your work
It terrible to be lonely especially when you are older and not in the best of health.
A couple of summers ago I volunteered in an association for elderly people. We would go, pick them up with the bus early in the morning and take them to a little villa in a hilly area where the breeze was fresh and unpolluted. I would serve them a simple breakfast and I loved it when they showed appreciation. Being served the breakfast was something that made them feel pampered and they loved it. And I loved making them feel that way. It made me feel so fulfilled. They would then play cards and sometimes I joined them (have I ever won? They are so good!), or read magazine/paper to be on their own, but they loved when I listened to them the most. They talked about their life during the WW2, or about their late loved one, or their adventures of when they were young. I loved listening to them, and, in particular, I remember the story of a lady. She didn't have kids and lost her husband when she was still young. But she said she still loved him so much and thought about him everyday. She was often sad and lonely, but she said she felt happy at the same time, cause she knew she would soon join her husband. I remember I cried many times when those elderly people talked about themselves. They have so much to teach us about life, they have so much to give.
It was better if he accepted her invitation for a cup of tea every few days instead of forging Joseph's letters, anyway I think it was a good story for guidance and drawing attention to elderly care.
This was a bitter sweet reminder of my experience. I've been on my own for 10 years. The please and thank you's once a week while shopping are the big events. Now, for some reason my regular Post Woman, has taken the time and had a short natter with me. She just got back after two weeks holiday and shared her news. I was touched by this and made it clear I welcomed her friendly nature.
Afterwards, I became aware that I am lonely. It was quite a shock.
Doron Ron sorry to hear that. If I lived close to you I would definitely be your friend and pop over for a little chat :)
Where about are you from?
you do use the internet, why not look for people your age group at your area, would be nice to meet new people. We re never too old to make new friends!
It made me sad when she said the home care worker will come in but it’s just a job for her. I work at a hospital and chose to take a part time home care job not because I needed the extra income but because I know how isolated seniors are working in healthcare, and I wanted to be a companion and friend to someone who needed it! It was very rewarding. She was a incredible woman Genevieve. She passed away and I was by her side holding her hand whispering into her ear “go with the angels, they will take you to god” 💕
I wish I had seen this four years ago. I’m a fool. I’m so very very sorry, Mom. I wish I could go back and spend more time with you. Forgive me. I love and miss you.
I need this guy to forge a few signatures for me...
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I signed in just to reply to this. I always say this would be my 'cause' if only I could be thousands of people all in one making regular visits to people who live alone. This topic always pulls at my heartstrings. So very sad. Sometimes you're forgotten, sometimes, you're the last one remaining and you have not made any new friends. It is very difficult knowing that you have contributed so much and when you're older, those who are still alive, do not acknowledge you. I do hope that circumstances change for you and those that you're longing to hear from start including you in their lives.
@@sandrajones6968 Sandra, lovely post. But I do think you should begin a new thread by posting this as a new comment. This way, people will see it. Thanks.
bruh he just an actor
I love in the Middle East and there is no cut off between the elderly and their family unless they are all gone.. both my grandma’s live with their children and grand children.. no elderly should go through this
That is one of the great traits of our culture
Oh yes they should. You maltreat your children, you can look forward to a lonely old age because they won’t be around to dance attendance on you. *Nor should they be.*
TundraWoman Says shut up have you been to our culture? No.. so shut up
@@tundrawomansays5067 I sort of agree. If parents traumatize their children you can't blame the kids for not having that emotional bond with them. However, loving parents don't deserve this. This woman genuinely loved her son. She deserved a visit.
God, just a few minutes in and I'm already heartbroken.
Damn. That was just lovely.
I am so glad I have kids who can't seem to get enough of their old mom. This makes me appreciate them even more.
Made me cry at 6am. I fear too many people can end up like this woman including myself.
Although a bit younger than 75, I am one of the people this speaks about. I am blessed to have my 20 year old cat as my only company.
Although words can only go so far, I hope many blessings come your way
Tear jerker and pulling on the heartstrings. Everyone should watch this and show kindness and empathy to the elderly. Can you imagine how strange life is for them now? How they grew up, the morals they been taught and to see the world so up side down and a complete opposite of what they knew. To many people lack compassion and positivity. It’s a very “all about me” attitude and what really matters lays by the roadside.....forgotten....:-(
This is why I talk with elderly people, too. Our neighbours, the woman in the tram or on the park bank. About everything. I said to every of them hello in the neighbourhood. Maybe it's their first talk today. 😥 For me it's easy, not like with people in my age.😂
this is a part of my job. we'll all be elderly some day.
@@sonquatsch8585 Thanks for making your job! Do good things and talk about it. Have a nice day!
This touched my heart...He was wrong for forgeing but I mean he cared💙
A good person in my opinion is defined by someone who's heart is bigger than their wallet and hatred
If we all could all do something as simple as performing one act of kindness to another, maybe the world wouldn't be as hard and dark as it is nowadays.
That was lovely. I really enjoyed, it hit me in the heart. My last job had me visiting my elderly clients in their homes, to assess their eligibility for benefits. The majority of my clients really appreciated having someone to come visit and just have someone to talk to. Have had interviews that lasted almost two hours (usual allotment was 30 minutes or less), because they just wanted to tell me their life story. They just wanted someone to listen. And I would let them just talk, because I came to realize that they probably hadn’t seen anyone in a bit of a while.
I didn’t go so far as to visit them with my dog... but I’d like to think my letting them talk and me listen, was just a different form of it.
I don't know whether to be happy or sad. Makes you think.
I was happy the dog showed up at the end to come full circle with a cherry on top😊💕
“The Smallest Act Of Kindess Is Worth More Than The Greatest Intention”
Mark's a good person. We could all be a little bit more like him. Everyone could use a person who cares in their life, no matter the age. 🥰
The last of my grandparents have recently passed on.
I don't really know what to do with my Sunday afternoon now.
Now I dread for my parents as they themselves will eventually become elderly too one day.
I recall totally freaking out when my parents turned 60. Well now 31 years have passed. Dad passed in 2013 but mom is still around and doing well. But I also live in dread and denial re: her inevitable end. I just can't imagine such a world.
Both my parents have passed, my mom in 2004 and father seven years later. Although painful at the time feelings have settled and I've grown to appreciate them even more.
What a sweet sweet man to do that for her. More of us should care so deeply for others.
I used to live alone and my next door neighbour was a very old widowed lady called Rita. We first met over the garden fence, as it were and in time we became good friends. She had chronic arthritis and so could not really get out often. She did have friends though who did her shopping, home help, etc. After a time, whenever I cooked for myself I'd make up a plate for her too and I'd often sit with her for a glass of wine and we'd talk.
She was a fascinating woman and she loved to talk. She had been an ambulance driver in London during the second world war before returning to Ireland to look after her father who was ill. In later life after her dad had passed away, she found love and married her first cousin, for which she needed permission from the Pope! She especially liked meeting my girlfriends and and I think she rather lived vicariously through my relationships with them.
After I was obliged to move house, (long story) I lost touch with her but I remember her with great affection. She had amazing stories to tell and to this day I often think of her.
xx SF
The fact that I can only "like" this once is a crime. Heartfelt and beautiful .
I shouldn't have watched this on the bus, I'm crying now 😢
I felt this one pretty hard, beautiful movie, hopefully the message gets passed around and less elderly have to be lonely
10:43 of your time was a lesson in what being caring, compassionate and loving is a about. The question is what will you do about what you saw? Being a caring person is about taking action AND not just for your own. Be kind to each other and show some love....it's free! PS. The pandemic has seniors isolated even more, perhaps help them with the tech so they can use the internet / facetime friends ect, help with grocery shopping, or just wave and say hello. 💞💗✌🖖
Idk, I guess the more important thing would be to ask YOURSELF those questions instead of posting it here. Be the solution, not the problem...and start with self!🙄
And bear in mind, *there are Natural Consequences when you engage in a pattern of maltreating your family.*
If this is what's in store for me in the twilight years, then, why do we bother?
May as well donate my body to Soylent Green when it gets too tough, and society turns a blind eye......
When I was driving a cab in my early years, and I'd pick up senior citizens going shopping or to doctor appointments, whatever, I would never charge them one red cent, ever.
Since I would not accept money, they would pay me with cakes, scones, cookies......😇
@ Albert Chehade, how lovely!! Its obvious they knew you were something special and showed their appreciation by repaying you with the kindness of the kitchen!
@@detrajackson5992
Sure was :)
Delicious!
I'd think you'd rather have a scone than a Soylent !!! Yep, what you done was decent and honourable and I tip my hat to you, as would a lot of of people reading your comment.
@James Hannah
Possibly.....it seems that being kind to your fellow man/woman in today's politically correct environment would be classified as a moral sin.
TrumpWorld, here we come........
I think there's a lesson here in that we need to nurture the relationships we have in life and not keep ourselves hidden away. Which is what I do. So I should pay attention. I have two wonderful and attentive children but other than them not much more than acquaintances because I've always been so painfully shy. I'm only 50 now but I feel like a shut-in sometimes because it's so hard to speak to people. Anyway, I should push myself harder.
The dog finished me...
Thank you for shedding the lights on such a serious matter! Our elders are to be respected, loved, cared for unconditionally for what they endured to see us happier. And yes, we are all selfish! Great movie ^^
I just wanted to thank you for sharing all of these fabulous shorts. I'm so glad you posted more as I've been done with the others (most) for a bit now. Your Brilliant! And you only post THE BEST! 🐾 MEOW
Man I’m going through the comments and all I see is very kind hearted people who describe the theme of the story and just say very nice things. It’s not bad or anything. I’m just surprised there isn’t someone talking bad about like acting or whatever just to be rude. But all these people here are doing good.
Honestly love her she's one of my favourite directors and actors is Marilyn and this is absolutely brilliant. So proud of her ❤️
The mailman had compassion that's why he forged the letter. But the old lady let him know she knew. I'd be willing to bet he brought the dog over for her. Loneliness can eat the soul of elderly people.
I always stay with my grandma. But it is hard at times for me to get out, because she really needs and wants that sense of comfort all the time.
Not just the UK, I'm a retired nurse and the only time I hear from someone is when they want money or something. I hope to my doctor's monthly and he never even looks at me. I know I'm elderly, but inside I don't feel old, just forgotten. Loneliness is a killer, I know, it's slowly killing me!!
very sweet, hard to find someone that really cares for an elderly person AND her son showed up with a dalmation...
It's such a beautifully crafted film. I hope people seeing it will understand you can make a huge difference to older people by just showing a little caring and empathy. Listening, asking them what things were like when they were young. Really talking to them. These older years come to everyone. So much more quickly than you can imagine. 💖
I have an elderly woman in the neighborhood. I go to see her everyday.
She gives treats to my dog
God knows how many people would appreciate these kinds of forgeries 😉 @ least Joseph showed up with a dog
Love the vid and the message.
Boomers get a lot of flack but they're some of the sweetest kindest, cutest, and most sincere people on earth.
You know what i mean by cute.
Beautiful short movie. Loneliness is a topic that should be discussed more often, it shouldn't be the ultimate taboo.
Good luck finding good people like that in the world today.
😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔 beautiful story.
Mark is a very good person.
At life you lose / you win. Take that beauty, the wonder, the love and forget things you think this must be. Nothing must be but a lot is possible...
Wow.
This was the best one yet.
Jesus.
Whoever wrote this has a trace of gold running from their soul to their heart.
Thank you very much, that's very kind of you :)
@@anastasiaarsentyeva5984 It's just the truth.
I hope you go as far as the size of your heart.
Honestly, you're brilliant.
"Social Security" .. is about people .. not money!
true!
The hair on my back and arms are literally standing up not in horror but in sadness and maybe relief by the end. When she said "of course" everything clicked into place. A brilliant piece. I thought there would be a horror twist at the end like the guy being imprisoned by the envelope or something similar knowing it's omeleto. Glad I watched it. :)
This reminds me a bit--distantly, I know--of a story by the novelist Elizabeth Taylor--no, not the actress--called Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont. There was a tv adaptation. In that, a young man takes responsibility for encouraging a lonely old woman whose family ignore and neglect her. Like this, it's a kind, humane and empathetic story.
Lovely! What a kind man.
Fabulous! Such an important statement that needs to be told continually. God bless you for getting this message across.
Well done. Omeleto actors continue to be better than those in Hollywood. A message that we certainly need today...showing kindness can cure a lot of ills.
Thank you.💚from those who are elderly.
I like how he has the same handwriting as her son -_-
Developed story line, realistic dialogue, acting drew me in, wanted a longer version... great message and entertaining.
You don't have to be elderly to be chronically lonely...
oh man, this film gets me! Great acting and values of the film...
In these violent, selfish & woke times, a little love and compassion go a long way
calling my elderly mom right now!!
Thank you Omeleto for stretching my heart so beautifully. A lovely & poignant work that's wonderfully acted & shot. Glowing praises all round.
Okay I'm crying. What a sweet and good film!
this was really heartwarming 💛
This just broke my heart...
Well, I'm cryin. Ringing ma today.
Beautiful.
Caring.
Thought provoking.
Great movie this movie is about the post man forgot to sing the mail and gives it to this amazing and kindness old woman
The crazy part is: I left everything for mother ... I came down and served her in everyway possible ...
And all I received was abuse in return ... It took me a long time to outgrow every little sacrifice made and overlooked ...
And she returns as and when she needs for her own selfish reasons. I can't do this anymore.
If you're a parent, see that your adult child doesn't suffer from holding on to a parent she/he wants to forget as against remember.
I am making the effort to restart. It's not been easy with wrong people showing up but I am not giving up on me ...
wonderful film ..im crying its so touching.
Lovely Story. ❤
This made me so frickin sad
Didn't know Vuj could act. Poets gotta be next now.
I needed this; thank you
I know how she feels.
Wow that was a lovely film.
Am I the only one crying???
Muska Safi - Join the club😢.
You have an empathic heart, never change. One would have a heart of stone if they were not affected. This is fine short film that delivered a powerful message.
Glad I watched this
"Paradox of Technology"
Helps people connect but at the same time pulls them apart.
It's never been the technology's fault, it's that hypocritical people pretend to want to connect with you when it takes a click, but then do not follow through in real life. Which is better, as you would not even want them to mess with you since they're that way.
I just wish the lettering was a tad bigger. I've got a visual impairment and just could not read the ending on my small screen phone. No matter though, this short film touched my heart.
So sorry about not making it readable. It says the following:
"A vast amount of elderly people are cut off from society, especially those over the age of 75.
Many say they often go for a month without speaking to a friend, neighbour or family member.
There are 1.2 million chronically lonely elderly people in the UK (according to a 2016 Age UK study)."
Thank-you so very much for taking the time in replying ❤ 😊 !
Beautiful
Did anyone remembered "Los árboles mueren de pie", de Alejandro Casona?
🙆♀️Spanish play❣
The play and movie is on Y.T., but unfortunately I have yet to find it with English subtitles. I still watched and enjoyed without them. Its a classic!
That "1.2 million" comment at the end made me so sad. 😔
Heartstrings plucked. . . .
Its like the meaning "Grand" is lost in the term.
I try to appreciate what many elderly people have survived, and the character that they had to have to do so. Sure, there are bound to be some cantankerous sods too but maybe I'll end up the same, and understand why.But sadder still when my post goes missing its not for any sentimental reason.
In the end she found out that he forged the letter.
If you are reading this just know that you are blessed. Amazing and beautiful don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I wish all your dreams would come true just as I want all my youtube dreams to come true thank you
4:00 "fohk me dizzy"
🥺 I need to find an elderly person to befriend.
I could agree with that 75 and older delema/ since the average life span is 74.5 years
Good video, but why is the sound so muffled, could have been better if the sound was clearer,.
Andy Fordham - If only that was my issue. Sound is ok with me, it's the visual I have a difficult time with. I wish I could have read the print right at the end of this fine short film. It is too small on my phone.
Neighbor's family got her a dog to keep her company.
He was a loud, large, hyperactive dog and she found him more of a burden than company half the time.
Thats too bad, the breed of dog you chose can make all the difference. The kind shown in the film is a dalmation from what I can tell and they are good companions and gaurds not too loud as they are partially deaf themselves. Its why they are often used by the fire brigade as the siren doesnt scare them. I would look into other breeds for your neighbour there are some that are carers.
@@sms1511 she doesn't have the heart to return him in case no one else takes him and he gets put down.
a sad story with a heartwarming ending. a dalmatian is a big dog for that lady tho. thumbs up from me
Very Sweet Film :)
identiy theft is not a joke jim
To much water in my eyes