celebrating steady living - settling down, 9 to 5’s, and sacrificed dreams
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This week’s video is about the idea of freedom, settling down, and familial responsibilities. My story is deeply influenced by norms in Hispanic culture, and I wanted to share my experiences with you, as well as my current lifestyle situation and goals.
I will share these words with you, told to me long ago by a good friend:
“People who chose to stay in one place, to be caregivers, to take less risks, to work steady jobs that can always put meals on the table… those people are not only strong but expressions of love and - I believe - should be celebrated no less than those who chose to live differently. Whatever yours is, each of us has a story worth sharing.” READ MORE BELOW ⬇️
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To be clear: I still love watching movies and reading books about extraordinary people who live their lives in unique ways apart from the masses. They inspire me, and in some ways, I like to try to live differently to some mainstream trends. Something that comes to mind is that I don’t like over consumption and am personally very concerned about the environment.
Many of these extraordinary people have unusual jobs, pursue their passions, are very self reliant, free of certain common commitments, world travelers, can fund their lifestyle, etc. These people are celebrated, as they should be! They are amazing and interesting and their story - like everyone’s story - is worth sharing.
But in light of this, I wanted to take a moment and highlight those who have never had those opportunities, people who chose or had to give up so much for others:
their children, parents, community. My mother pushed aside certain dreams for me, my incredible grandma/Abuela worked long crushing weeks to raise a family that was fed and clothed, committed to stopping the cycles of abuse that had existed in her family for generations. I grew up on military bases, sometimes in places that received foreign refugees: I know of many who have literally given their lives for their children, or worked as slaves for decades simply to allow them the opportunity for an education. On a less drastic note, there are so many people like me choosing to establish themselves in a place where they can best serve their loved ones and community.
Of course, I am not encouraging people not to pursue their dreams and instead adhere to a burdensome sense of obligation, or stay in a toxic situation. I hope that is obvious. I am working towards my dreams myself. But I am recognizing that even the ability to pursue those dreams is an incredible gift. And that people who chose to stay in one place, to be caregivers, to take less risks, to work steady jobs that can always put meals on the table, those people are equally strong and brave and - I believe - should be celebrated no less. That is why I wished to dedicate a video to it.
She really reminds me that I don’t need a grand life of luxury to feel fulfilled
😂😂😂 she is living a grand life! Owning stuff does not make you happy.. trust me on that one.
Namjoon-ing as lifestyle. 😂
Yes a simple life can be wonderful 😊
Same!!
true, nature has so much abundance to offer and that is more than enough 😫✨
I grew up in a crime ridden ghetto. At the first opportunity I left and never returned. My family, immediate and extended, was so dysfunctional they saw it as abandonment. I don’t regret it one bit. My sibling did the same thing. Now we have stable happy lives.
Age and maturity is teaching me that living a slower and simper life isn't living less of a life, and is actually far more beneficial for you in mind, body and spirit.
A home, a friend, a dog, a rabbit, a garden, a full tummy... You have arrived.
I'm 25 and feel like my life is already over before it's even begun. This video crystalized a lot of what I've been thinking about for a long time. I CAN'T live this kind of life. Where other people find settling down comforting, I realize I find it suffocating and unbearable. I CAN'T put off my own life and dreams to care for others. Maybe it's selfish, but I finally realize that being a martryr will make me eventually resent who I sacrificed for, which finally made it clear that I NEVER want to be a mother. Ever. Maybe other people find genuine happiness in it. But my own mom has sacrificed so much for us and got so little in return and I can never ever put myself in that situation because of a family of my OWN making. I want to get out. I have to get out. Maybe this wasn't your goal, but thanks to your videos (a few have been recommended), I realize that this is exactly the kind of life I NEVER want to have. So in an odd but truly sincere way, thank you.
It's okay. We're all different. Neither way is best...in my opinion...just different.
Each needs to know what will make their time on this earth the most beneficial. You seem to need to honor your wanderlust.
I can assure you, being age 60, your desires, tastes and needs change.
Generally, youth desires to sew wild oats, see the world, seek exciting things and challenges - all part of human development. As age increases your perspective changes and you realize…like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz…There is no place like home. And please know, and as this video touches on, an overwhelming percentage of humans look back with some regrets, even in the most perfectly lived life, again it’s part of human development, not a sign of failure.
Some try to outrun their devils by seeking constant excitement and adventure - leaving home in the rearview. Others hide from their devils and stunt their personal growth by surrounding themselves with spouses and children to hide in and they never stray far from home.
Living this mortal coil is a crapshoot where any plan can turn on a dime. The point it seems is to grow, at whatever speed your self needs the growing, share your growth with others and know that mistakes will be made along the way.
Love yourself, Love others and do believe in God, for many reasons, least of which is the guidance from a being with knowledge unmeasured and…well…it certainly can’t hurt. Again, I am 60 years old and sorta just realized…Doh, I have a guardian angel. I simply cannot navigate this world successfully without the guidance of wise people and a heavenly host.
Be you, be strong, be fair, be joyful and be at peace…with all your might.….and, oh, the patience you will need along the way with yourself and others. ❤️
@@Tinkerlooful Very nice...good insights.
Ah, Wednesday is here and another video from the most pleasant, relaxing, thoughtful, and enjoyable TH-cam channel I have had the pleasure to enjoy. This young lady is a true artist who possesses a wisdom and insight far beyond her young age. What a delight it would be to be her friend, neighbor, or even casual acquaintance. Every video she creates is an opportunity to relax, put away daily cares for a few minutes, and try to absorb a little of her profoundly beautiful attitude and lifestyle.
I really needed to hear this, firstly because it's been a difficult week but as it turns out, also because of your beautiful message. As a mum of three boys who 'chose' to stay home for both practical economic reasons and reasons of caregiving, I sometimes fall into feeling that my unpaid work is invisible and unvalued and therefor so am I. 'Stay at home mom' should really be called 'live at work mom'.😉 Thank you for this lovely moment of recognition, it makes me feel seen. Sending my love and thanks to you and your own Mom for choosing to make a beautiful life a possibilty, for your family and all of us here.❤
I'm a mom to two boys, I've always been home with them. I very much understand what you are saying 💞
I see you and support you, nurturing the next generation. Thank you xx
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I can totally relate. We are valuable, strong and have helped others around us. I'm sure you'll continue to live a great life with your family
2:20 Due respect, it *is* feasible for anybody! You can do anything you want, but not everything you want. Everything in life is a trade off. I have given up a life of roots and stability because I have chosen a nomadic life. I sometimes dream of living in one place, having a garden and a dog, and a network of friends that live nearby. But I’ve chosen to forgo those things, which is my choice. Everyone has that choice, but most people are not willing to pay the cost of living the life I do. I completely respect your decision to live in that lovely valley, but you or anyone else could live my life on the road. They’re both beautiful adventures, just very different. But, yes, it’s a choice.
We are all capable of so many things we often do not even dream of, we have so many choices in life 🤍 I’m simply celebrating the people who feel unable to do certain things for themselves due to other commitments. For example, I have a family member with a child with many severe health complications. The only way they can provide for them is by working in close vicinity of a hospital, where they need to visit often. I think they would not be able to live nomadic with a child who needs so much support and equipment to help them survive. I know they have given up many things for her, so it would not be feasible for them to live certain ways if they want to keep their child safe. By being a military child I have lived in places where I have witnessed people working as slaves in order to pay for their children’s education. They don’t have the options or human rights many of us enjoy. It is heartbreaking, and I wanted to share some of the stories that inspire me. Hope that helps clarify my intention. Regards
When I’ll grow up I want to be like you Paola! I love everything about you! The way you write your scripts, the words you use, the tone of your voice, the casual smiles I hear, the footage, the pace of the video, the vibes you are sending! Perfect clips! Well done and don’t forget to be proud of yourself for all you do and the way you are and for what you managed to do with you channel! Much love 💖
Just wanted to say how truly appreciative for you to celebrate the life of people who do not have the opportunity to live the dream or travel the world. Personally, as someone from the third world country, dreams of living simple and quiet life in cottage is almost impossible. I do not have the luxury to travel abroad as many do. Just by watching videos like this is my source of happiness to see how beautiful other countries can be. It sounds sad, but in reality we just have to live and accept and grateful with all else that we have now.
I have a feeling that even though you aren’t comfortable in the limelight or comfortable with your own greatness, the rest of us will seek you out because you are like a beautiful light we need.
You are a blessing. Living simply to experience the joy of putting down roots. Not fancy , not glamorous, but adding so much desperately need beauty to the world! God bless you and all your endeavors!
As a stay at home mom of 4, I sat down to have a little quiet time and escape the chaos surrounding me. I remembered a video of yours that came across my feed last year. It was of you quoting the velveteen rabbit and making the wool bunny. It was such a beautiful video, I wanted to see it again. I was so glad I found it. I was interrupted three times while trying to watch it, but it still quieted my mind. I wish I could come visit you and try your lilac tea when I need a quiet moment, but at least I can watch your videos and marvel at the beauty of nature around you. The peace and quiet you live in makes me want to cry. Thank you for sharing it.
For most of human history, people have spent their entire lives in the region they were born in - nomadic cultures were not the norm. We live in a strange age now where people move houses regularly, travel internationally, and (I know for a lot of young people) never really plant themselves anywhere long enough to develop roots within a community.
Steady living is a forgotten art 💞 Im really drawn to the stability of it. Thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts and videos
My folks were constantly moving, and I'm sure this led to my depression and anxiety challenges. I still dont have a parental home - where I feel safe.
I totally agree! Love my hometown ❤
@@joanhenschel3511 I'm sorry Joan. But I'm glad you're here! 😊
well said
@@joanhenschel3511 i am 65 but until my parents finally sold their own retirement home, i sort of telt "home" was where they lived. They have long since passed away.
Dad was a banker and we did move a lot, but it never bothered me.
However depression runs in my family, so i get where u r coming from
if you feel it is serious (e.g. cannot go to work, feel suicidal ever, have irrational fears (by others' standards)), it is fine to seek professional advice. it took my wife to point out how to handle my depression.
Fortunately mental health challenges do not hold QUITE the same stigma as before... but of course we don't run around saying "i am screwed up in my head".
Best wishes,
peter in canada
You’re the same age as my daughter, and I always share your videos with her. She loves them as much as I do, and hopefully she will follow her passion as much as you have!❤️
Every video is like a love letter to your viewers letting us into your simple yet esthetically amazing world. Such beauty has so inspired me even at my age. Thank you Paola for sharing the peaceful countryside you call home.
I'm so happy I ran into this video. In the last few years, in all the spiritual groups I was a part of, pages that I followed, all of them talk about "leaving your 9-5 job". As if the job itself was the problem. I had a hectic schedule, worked nights and had no stability, and I finally have a 9-5 job now, which honestly makes me so happy. I agree with everything you said and it was very soothing to hear someone else say it for the first time in years. Thank you.
Makes me think of my dad and all he sacrificed.. he was a very good football player and got offered a pro contract, but honored his commitment to go into the navy after college… he was quietly sacrificial to us all our lives…he was fun, caring and made our life wonderful…he passed away 3 years ago and I miss him so very much..
I have done qutie the same. I moved back to my hometown to care for my aging parents, and now that they are gone, I still find myself firmly planted here, to give my daughter a stable life foundation. If she chooses to live her life differently i would support her in all that she wants, but for me being a root to a tree that is prospering is my life path.
You are such a beautiful soul. I look forward to your new video every week, and I feel fortunate and blessed to have found your channel. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and the beautiful world you’ve created for yourself. God bless you.
no doubt many many of your subscribers share my PLATONIC love for you... such an amazing lady
You are right
What an exquisite gift this video was to me this morning. I love your videos so much. They always bring me so much peace and a sense of calm. And there is so much truth in your words in this video.
If most ppl could have the heart and empathy of this beautiful woman inside and out, what a beautiful world we could live in.... js 🥰💖👑🌙🙏
I am full time caregiver to my 82 yr. old mother, wife to my 74 yr. old husband, as well as home-schooling mom to my 15 yr. old son. I am 64 yrs. old, frequently tired, but wouldn't change it. Thank you for the videos you make. They give me a little beauty in my life...
Good evening Paola!!!!! You’re video is so true and hits home for me... My father worked three different jobs a day and gave up much to allow 13 kids to attend Catholic school!!!! I feel i owe him so much and I’m trying every day to give back!!!!! Nice to see you 😊😊
This makes me think of one of my favorite Peter Pan quotes, "There are many different kinds of bravery. There’s the bravery of thinking of others before oneself. Now, your father has never brandished a sword nor fired a pistol, thank heavens. But he has made many sacrifices for his family, and put away many dreams… .He put them in a drawer. And sometimes, late at night, we take them out and admire them. But it gets harder and harder to close the drawer… He always does. And that is why he is brave.” Appreciate your meditations!
The way you live is like a depiction of how I wanna live too 💖
This is such a lovely message. I’m quite a bit older than you are and I have lived and still live this life. I followed my husband to rural Japan. We left our children and grandchildren behind so we could care for my husband’s parents. I’m not unhappy here but if I’m honest I’d rather live near our children. You are right… it’s not always possible to live our dreams BUT we can make the choice to make each moment Joyful. It is quite possible to live happily and peacefully in a situation that you didn’t exactly choose. You have a lovely channel. I’m very slow in producing videos because of the commitments we have here with caregiving and such. … you are an inspiration to this grandma 🌻
Thank so much. You are quite eloquent. I am now old and have had opportunities to both settle down and to wander. It’s a good life
Thank you for this reminder. Far too often I get swept up in romanticizing a life of constant change and excitement of new experiences that I forget to appreciate the beauty in my present life. You remind me to reflect inwards and question what I find lovely about my own experience, rather than comparing my life to that of others and getting lost in trying to achieve my next great thing. Thank you. 💖
You really do remind me of Miss Honey from Matilda and I'm loving it. I absolutely love watching your videos and I enjoy it so much.I learn so many things from your videos and I love that I'm benefitting from your videos! xx.
Thank you for this one. I have been trapped indoors for 2 months now. When we had a tree taken down in the Fall we had to tear apart my vegetable garden. I tripped and damaged my spine but mostly my hip so I have been entirely unable to garden this year. My poor flower beds are a bit overgrown from wayward grass but the blooms still happened even if I could not see them. This video was a breath of fresh air for my tired spirit.
I really treasure your videos, they're like little rays of sunshine breaking through a murky, rainy day. Thank you.
:=8)
You are right, it is good to celebrate those who have committed themselves to looking after the needs of their families and possibly giving up dreams to do so. To be able to life the life of your dreams is amazing, but no life is perfect , and life changes- frequently ! To be able to change/ adapt your dreams is possibly the way to find fulfillment....I'm rambling - but want to sat thank you for your beautiful videos , and for taking a moment to make us think. 🥰
Hermoso vídeo, Paola; profundo y relajante, como siempre. Saludos y un abrazote 🤗
thank you for this. the world needs this message. everything is always so much so fast.
This is beautiful.
My dreams were to create art. I had interests in many different media but mostly dance. Then I married a man who had three kids and all of the sudden my dreams had to shift. I am now a first grade teacher and while it is not the glamorous free spirited life I always imagined there is fulfillment, a stable paycheck, and I can make art as an outlet. I have a great responsibility to raise these kids and teach others. I used to feel suffocated by it but God has given me the strength to find joy in those responsibilities. It has been a winding path of dying to my selfishness.
Thank you for your sweet words to celebrate the sacrifice of your parents and encourage others.
can I just say I Love you. you give me peace of mind that I don't really get sometimes. Thank you and never stop posting .
good to remember there is value in simplicity, familiarity, home
I had a bunny named Mitch, he looked just like your bunny! I miss him so much. Seeing your bunny makes me smile. Thank you for showing him 🐰 ❤
Idk why I’m getting emotional but this reminds me how far I’ve come in life, not necessarily in terms of outward accomplishments, but of internal breakthroughs, contentment and personal growth.
So true! I used to feel almost panicked (knot in the stomach, couldn't sleep at night) at the thought that I wasn't traveling the world and (as our current culture puts it) "doing something" with my life. I'm also a creative person with a tendency to find schedules/calendars to be scary confining things. So for a long time I listened to those opinions. But lately I have found an increasing sense of relief, peace and accomplishment from learning to stay put and WORK on my interests and goals. I don't worry about trying to be interesting any more. I focus on growing, being healthy and being a positive influence on the people in my life. Thank you for sharing this very important perspective!
Thanks for championing people who decided to stay in the same place for years❤️
the story told by the care taker fits the theme perfectly. your boyfriend's work, being a passion and not just a job underlines everything about the subject matter. there's no need to elaborate here...the weeds growing around your property seem to meld well with the garden. And unless the weeds are a detriment to the crops, they add to the tapestry. Your husband...i mean your boyfriend... is rooted and grounded in every possible way, while you're like the wild flower that springs unexpectedly. isn't that what nature teaches us? ; each of us has a role to play, along with dependence and responsibility to each others' freedom.
I'm here an hour before my final exam
An this was so soothing
I tried to prepare hard but if I'm unable to score good today
Its okay too....cuz I gave my best.
Edit: it went better than expected and I hope I get an A but if I don't its still okay💜
Edit: I actually aced an A:)
Good luck on your exam!
Fingers crossed for that A!
@@benkent301 thank you💜
@@becnimi thank you☺
Your videos always come out right before I go to sleep, so I wait to watch them til morning. Its a wonderful way to start my day. Very calming and gives me lots to think about. Thank you 😊
These videos are absolute art. The proof is it inspires others and their own art. Thank you for an amazing video.
We can all see the world from our experience, and yes we all have limitations because each person has limits to their knowledge. What is important is to be open and to listen, not to limit yourself or others. I have learnt so much from others, I have broadened my life experience greatly by not having fixed ideas or precepts. I also love the expanding thought process in reading philosophy, it has taught me a lot as well. Flexibility of thought makes for a happier life, you are not fixed in your thought patterns or expectations.
Thank you Paola! This was such a sweet and much needed message. I am currently 26 years old and for quite a few years I had dreams of traveling and being a nomad. Sometimes I feel quite jealous of people who can live that lifestyle so freely. But this past year, Ive learned to embrace just staying home and taking care of my mom. It's just me and her and she's getting older so it's important for me to stay home and help her out in the best way that I can. I'm working an office job and teaching art to kids. I'm hoping to teach full time in the near future. When I graduated college in 2017, I had high expectations of how I wanted my life to be like by now, but life takes you in different directions. As we get older, we learn to embrace life, and accept where it leads you. I am thankful that I am with my mom. Although I sometimes get frustrated, I have learned to be patient and understanding. Thank you for reminding me to celebrate the beauty of living a steady life and that its okay if some of my dreams at the moment have been sacrificed. I do not regret it at all. Those dreams still remain. And I know that no matter what age I am, even if I'm 75, I can still pursue my dreams!
All the best!
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Paola, once again this is a beautiful and insightful video complemented with the photography skills of your brother. For me, home is where everything feels right, good, and safe; and there are times we might have to work hard to make that happen. There may be struggles along our journey of life but I believe contentment and happiness are available to every one of us in numerous and different situations. For me personally it is an unconditional family relationship, the wonders of nature, and the incredible love and devotion of my golden retriever. xx
So you are a child of an immigrant. What a beautiful story to live out. I am an immigrant myself so appreciated hearing about your mother's commitment and dreams.
She's isn't. Her mom is Puerto Rican and Puerto Ricans are American citizens and Puerto Rico is a US territory. I love her channel, but don't understand why always she refers to her mom as an immigrant and says she came from another country. The US Congress doesn't properly respond to crises in Puerto Rico (hurricane Marie, for example) and most Americans don't even know folks there are Americans. This is why Puerto Rico has been trying to become a US state for the past decade. But the first step is to make sure everyone knows Puerto Ricans are Americans, not foreigners. Still moving to the mainland can be a difficult transition, especially since all of the US island territories have drastically higher poverty rates than folks on the mainland. I don't doubt her mother's parents had to work really hard to get their daughter to the mainland and try to provide her opportunities, especially since there aren't as many on Puerto Rico.
I am a full time stay at home mom and i am happy with my life. I grew up in the south part of the netherland an i moved for my husband and our kids and also for myself to the north of the netherlands and i love it!! 😀 My brother and father i left behind, but they suport me. I couldnt be happier. From a big city in a tiny village... Love it!
The Palestinian people would love to have the opportunity to stay in their land. I have lived here this past year and It´s been sad to see the environmental Occupation and how they have to turn to refugees. Although migrating can bring us as individual many benefits, it´s sad that it´s without a choice and based on injustice. Thank you for this video it´s beautiful. I´m the opposite but my time will come to grow roots!
This comment hits hard rn
My husband and I just bought the home we will retire in. The area is beautiful, and the home is cozy and surrounded by nature. We have 5 more years to commit to our jobs working in our school district. I’m a teacher, and he is an administrator. We come to this home in Arkansas at Thanksgiving break, part of Christmas break, Spring Break and a lot in the summer. I want my life in our new home to begin now, but alas we have to commit 5 more years to our jobs in Texas to financially be ready to make this move permanently.
Glad to see the bunny rabbit.
I am so happy to have you in my life. You truly inspire me.
I don't know what's more beautiful the flowers or your mindset your surroundings or you
You put so much care into your land. It’s beautiful 🙏✨🌼
i wanna hug you fairy. Your words are comforting. Sending love from Philippines. ♡︎
I have learned that if you value and take care of the nature around you, be that wild land, trees and wildlife or your own little patch, your own roots and soul become stronger and you grow in harmony and adapt to a new place just like the trees and plants you mentioned. I get so much pleasure from watching the birds, squirrels, hedgehogs and toads and seeing the beauty in each and every bloom. You have made me deepen this connection over the past year and I am so grateful to you for this. You are a kindred spirit in the land, God bless you.
Your words are so soothing. I gave over half of my life as a commitment to helping others through a non profit job. I recently retired and sometimes have felt that I missed out on having my own dreams... But listening to your words brought me peace knowing that it was a life well-lived even if it meant hard work and being committed to the daily grind. I have learned to savor the little things in the present moment. Your videos bring the present to life.
I personally find, this is such a strong message. There is no right way to live, even if many like to write that again and again under such videos. Every person is different and has their own dreams and drives. What is right for one, is for the other rather unpleasant.
In my circle of friends, for example, I only have people who love traveling and for whom quarantine was hell, while I love my home and nothing had really changed for me. But we all still love each other the way we are. One has found fulfillment in working in the lab and helping people in his own way and sacrifices a lot of time for it. While I am currently completely satisfied with my part-time job and minimalist life, where I can be outdoors in nature a lot. But all this can change again.
So many lives and so many ways to live :).
my dearest Paola, it's healing watching a new video of yours every time. Every new video has different things to tell, different things to depict, different things to teach.But you, you always are a fairy who hugs my thoughts and dreams. It feels like each time i watch a video of yours or go back to one of them the scars of my soul are healed. You have helped me get better & inspired me in so many ways, not even i can explain. I hope u know you are the kindest soul out there Paola, cause if we had more people like you our world would be so much better ✨💗 stay healthy, i wish u the best 💗
I always feel so incredibly serene after watching your video.
Nice! Yes so many of us sacrificed our dream lives to survive, to help our families. I am lucky now, after having worked since I was 15 years old, that I am living my dream. Perhaps not in my dream setting, but I have a garden, wildlife and a studio and time to dedicate to my art. Thank you for the lovely video.
Thank you, Paola for the reminder to appreciate all choices people make for their lives. I think for my fear and discomfort for having a certain way pushed upon me, I've struggled hard to gain freedom and have resisted a societal norm with too much painful energy. Your video put me in tears. Thank you. Much Love & Light.
My grandparents have lived in the same rural town their entire lives. They grew up there, raised children, had many different jobs, lifelong friends, and retired to live out their days in the same little town. It always seemed so idyllic to me, a city kid with a vast imagination. They knew the names of the librarians and grocery clerks, and know the land and industries well. I cherish everything they taught me about slow and purposeful living and finding joy in every little thing.
You are such a truly beautiful person - thank you for your wonderful words of wisdom! Lots of love to you!
Thank you for another thoughtful, beautiful video 🙏 As I grew up around lots of “green things” but have been living in the desert for some time now, it was a joy to watch this video and to see and recognize familiar and beloved flowers and plants 😍 Looking at your marvelous cottage surroundings, I don’t see “weeds”…instead I see many wonderful plant relatives who have through the ages lived with us and offered support of various kinds…take the dandelion reviled in most lawns, but…it’s beneficial to human digestion, containing substances that support the gallbladder…and the action of its roots make bound minerals in the earth accessible to its surrounding plant neighbors, and more nutrients in the soil is good for plants and humans alike 💞 All of which you probably already know, with your obvious delight and appreciation for plants 😊
I’m an “Air Force brat” and can relate to several things you share…in this video and others around finding, creating, and appreciating “home.” Thank you, again, for your care-ful, beautiful, wise envisioning of your space…and life in general 💚
Bloom where you're planted has always been my motto. I was finally able to move back to my beloved South Alabama 35 years ago and I love living on my homestead with my hubby and right next door is my son and his girlfriend. We made a family compound and all of us love it. 22 years and counting. And we can't forget the three rescue pups we all love!
Love your videos! So calming and you live and think like me which is always nice to find in this crazy, fast, world we live in. God bless!👍😁💖
I really needed to hear this. I bought a van and built it out to live the whole van life dream and now have a BEAUTIFUL van but feel guilty about not using it as much as I thought it would because I realized im much more held by my relationships than I thought. I don't want to leave all my family and friends and boyfriend to go live what may be a more "exciting" life alone on the road. This made me feel better about it all
Yes, we are different and we shouldnt judge others for how they choose to live, to stay can be brave and to leave can be brave!
I love your message!
It seems like more and more people think that 9-5 jobs are not of this age, freedom restrictive and unenjoyable.
but if you ask me, your focus should first and foremost be on finding the joy in where you are rather than always seeking joy somewhere else. It's a beautiful thing to commit to something or someone for so long.
Happy Fourth of July.. I do live alone too and watching and listening to you gave me comfort, thank you for sharing your life with us. God bless you
it’s thursday morning that means time to watch another video from you while i eat and drink my tea 💗☺️ my favorite time
Your videos are so wholesome and sweet. I feel like I'm being read a letter from a long list friend. Thank you for the content!
To be honest, I have never seen someone so beautiful from the inside out and living a life so very beautiful!!! I recently found your channel and just couldn't stop watching. Every frame in your video looks like poetry to me. So so beautiful!!! Your cottage and simply the way you live, is how we all were originally created to live... We lost it somewhere along the way...It is so soothing to see someone taking the time to share such beauty with us. God bless!! Stay blessed!!
"I do my best with the time I have. And, that's all we really need to do." I needed to hear this.🌻
It is true that not all people can just pack bags and leave. I personally believe in showing gratitude towards our friends and family. Try to celebrate my own life a little more.
Your video is an extra boost to celebrate the not so unusual things in my life. 😇
Relaxing and calming. I can feel peace and calmness, I love the new environment. 💛❤️😊
Thank you so much for your video it was so beautiful to hear that yes sometimes people can't change their lives or don't have the opportunity to. It made me cry because this is so nice so true. Thank you. Sending my thougths from France
You are a real artist! You can show how you live and give us advice in such a delightful, different way. It's refreshing you are not like the typical youtuber taking a camera and throwing it all over their faces, posing, pouting, recording every minute of their lives, that's not talent, those are baseless, useless videos. Anyone can pick up a camera and throw together garbage. It take a real artist to do what you do!
Even your garden center is so pretty!Happy fourth to you and yours! I love seeing your rabbit!
I enjoy all your videos. But I especially appreciate this one. I am older than you And find that the young generation is under heavy pressure of society manifesting through social media and making them believe they have to be very special, different, fulfilling any dream they have, avoiding being average... Because in todays world anything must be possible. Thats why there Is no excuse to live ordinary life, no excuse not to fill on any dream. I am happy to hear your reflection and your view on the "ordinary" life. Thank you for sharing! Maybe it will free us from the new limits paradoxally imposed by the new freedom 😉
It is so beautiful that you have looked after your parents. They are so very fortunate to have you :)
This made me cry. I don't know what I love most - the message or the cinematography. Truly one of my favorites from you. Thank you.
it’s crazy how present u feel after watching her videos. thank you so much!
I just want to say thank you so very much. You don’t know how much your words mean to me. I’ve been a caregiver since the age of 13 (I’m 22 now) to my grandmother for 9 years and grandfather for 4. There’s many sacrifices I had to make in order to help my mom and grandmother out, one being missing out on college. The more I stay here though the more I’m finding out that college wasn’t just for me.. I love taking care of my family and helping them. Sometimes I do feel sad seeing others graduating .. but I believe I found my place for now and that’s helping them out. Maybe one day God will give me that opportunity to pursues some dreams but I’m happy where I am. I’m blessed. Thank you so much
This video is so beautiful and refreshing. It is so wonderful to see people loving their families and people around them so much that commitment is a gift. You are a beautiful soul and I love to hear your thoughts ❤
Girl, you are wise beyond your years.
Thank you x
Since becoming chronically ill I'm embracing the slower living,gratitude lifestyle,finding joy in all the small things 💞
I'm an accounting/finance double major in college. I work 2-3 jobs a semester, but still manage to keep a 4.0 (so far). Somewhere in the back of my mind, I can feel myself breaking down. I know I can't work in this industry for too long; my mind feels like it's beginning to unravel, and that I'm going to spin into chaos if I keep being the person I am. It's misery to push oneself so hard and to never be enough.
Your videos have shown me that a quieter life may suit my mental needs in the long run. I'm not sure how long I'll last before I'm forced to choose a new path, but I feel peace about that possibility now.
Her words do bring me joy to making myown beautiful house.
Never stop making videos! I’m going to need them for the rest of my life!!❤️❤️❤️
Parents never stop being parents. I have had to modify my dreams. They are now a less grand version of my original dreams but should give me the same sense of fulfillment.
I am so thankful there are people highlighting a simplistic life. We often follow and maybe even envy people who travel and live a life of luxury. It makes me so happy that people who enjoy a simple life are still represented 💕
I needed to hear this. Thank you. Your videos are a gift.
The whole vibe of your videos. God. I love it.
Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this video! This hit me hard. I watch all these people living these amazing crazy lifes full of adventure and freedom and I get unhappy with my own life because I am not able to love like this (due to lack of financial stability, family obligations and not enough courage). But over the last few months I noticed that my life, structured and boring as it may seem, is right for me and I am happy. So yes, let's celebrate the normal people with the ordinary lifes 💖
Thank you Paola. I think there is great truth in what you said.