This video helped me so much. I'm a very shy person. I was make fun of for being shy. When I'm outgoing and weird people don't like that I felt like I was forced to be shy. But all of my friends accept my weirdness now. I asked my best friend what was your first thought of me she said a shy person I wanted to be friends with but I thought you wouldn't like me. I am now acting in small plays. I love you Jessie and never will stop
*struggles shy people will only understand* 1. Attention 2.When ever you talk,everyone stares at you if they know that you’re shy 3.you’re too afraid to show your own personality. 4.if you get teased, you’re too afraid to standup. 5.people always ask “why don’t you talk” or say “TALK!” 6.you’ll always be known as “the shy girl/boy” 7.you want to talk but you’re to afraid to. Guys, this is what happens to me. !’m totally not saying that you have the same opinion as me.
relatable but I'm not afraid to talk to people but i just don't know how to keep the conversation going and i sound awkward but i used to be talkative when i was younger
An extra tip for shy people - say a terrible pickup line/pun it works great for conversations starters and even if it's bad it's a pun it's suppose to be terrible
when i saw a kid at school, i saw my favorite band on her shirt. then i said, “hey! i like your shirt alot its my favorite band!” her response, “hi” *walks away*
I used to be very very shy, because I always doubted that I would make friends and I would think that people would judge me. But now after years with my best friend(I met her in fifth grade I'm in ninth now) she helped me realize that it doesn't matter what you look like or anything it's just to be who you really are. I'm so lucky to have someone I am so close to and to be by my side. Also, I eventually stopped thinking that I'm so ugly and fat and dumb, because I knew in myself that I had more than that, I mean I would always get the best grades, be in enrichment, and I'm nice to people. I regret being so shy because now I have had my chance to meet new people.I used to be terrified to sing on stage in front of people and the first time I did with an audience, I knew that this is what I wanted to pursue. Now to this day, I'm a singer and actress with confidence! Anyways sorry if that was too long to read so here are my tips now: -When there are opportunities given for you to socialize, just go for it because I promise you, you will regret not being friends with that someone earlier -When you do start talking to someone, just be yourself! When I do I automatically just start being weird😂 -Love who you are and embrace that because you can't change who you are so accept it -Talk to people that you sit next to, just about anything -If a new student seems like they need some help just become friends with them and show them around(how I met my best friend) -Here is a scientific one to feel more confident (credits to Alisha Marie for teaching this) strike a power pose for two minutes -Just be positive!!! Anyways thanks for reading all the way here😂 I hope you all have a nice day!
Last year was my first year of high school and it is not that i am super shy but I do have social anxiety. There were only two freshman in my school that played softball. Me and this girl who i used to be friends with. Long story short that friend group bullied me and I almost lost my life bc of these 6 girls. So i have played soccer in the fall and i was nervous but ok and i ended up having a great time. But softball was different, on March 3rd we had out first practice and i was extremely anxious. For some reason I was so scared and I did not even no why. Thoughts went threw my head i was thinking "New couch, SENIORS, jrs and i was even sacred to talk to the sophomores. That I have played with for years. Everyday i would wake up and be petrified to go to practice.The entire day there would be a pit in my stomach just thinking of what was going to happen at practice.and nothing bad ether happens. I have never acted like this before and my parents were confused, i have always told them about my anxiety. I have even seen doctors and therapist but they did not under stand. for some reason i did not either, anyway the month went on and i said that enough is enough and i tried to come out of me shell.we had a team sleep over one night and it was awesome!!! I am a very funny person and the jokes i told that night everyone loved. I no that seems stupid but it made me feel more confident in myself. the days turned into weeks and the weeks turned into months. In may i did something unheard of for me and as FRESHMAN on varsity I invited my team to a pool party at my house. I am still shook of how i did that. thinking back at me in march to me now it is crazy and how much i have grow by myself and with my team. I was that shy freshman and now i am a outgoing sophomore!!
When im always in class and the teacher calls on me for a question my face turns red and my voice stutters because i always get nervous. This happens to me all the time. 😥
My shyness is sometimes so overwhelming that whenever I order something from a restaurant I feel like crying since I'm super scared of talking to the person at the restaurant
Crazy Chameleon don't worry all you have to do is belive in yourself and look foward to not being shy i am the same i even hate to talk because im always asked to speak louder but really the only thing we can do is look foward💖😁
I'm such a socially awkward person, I wouldn't be able to handle any of these lol! 😂😂😂😂 I'm more likely to speak more with my close friends or people around me who I like. I couldn't do it in a large group of people I dislike. Thank you for making this video, I need to be more confident and I want to speak more openly to people and make friends easily.
Yesss same that's so me I can only talk to people who are my close friends and if I sit next to someone that's not a close friend I find it hard to start a conversation.Also all my friends think I'm crazy and not shy at all but if I asked someone else they would say I'm shy!
I am shy. I am an introvert. I act like I enjoy being around people. I don't. I read more than I communicate. My best friend is outgoing. I live in her shadow. I will not talk to people by choice. People always try to talk to me. I try to smile. I know I am like this. I accept my weirdness. Love wired if you want to.
Athena 2006 that is very much me. I always feel like I am holding my best friend back bc of things that I don't want to do or crowded places I don't want to go. I have literally never related to someone so much.
Same. My friend's an ambivert, and she always wants to go talk to people. Even though she says stuff like, "oh it's ok! It's not bad that your shy or introverted. It's just the way you are!" I still feel like I'm holding her back from her true potential. I've told her this many times before, but she just responds with the same thing. And to be honest, I envy her. I envy the fact that she can just go up and talk to people without feeling scared. I want to do that, well, I don't want to feel the need to talk to someone every five minutes. I just wanna talk without feeling trapped. I don't talk to people by choice either, my grandma is a MAJOR extrovert, and she feels the need to talk to me, or introduce me to people every time we go out. If I'm staying with her, and people come over, she won't let me stay in the room that I was already in. She forces me to talk, and when I ask her why, she says that I'm not normal. That I'm retracting from the world. That I'm turning into a hermit, and that it scares her. I really wish that people would learn that it's ok for people to be quiet or shy or introverted. That it's not bad, and that it's just the way we are
I used to be shy when I was 12-13 and got jealous of other girls who were confident. Now I understand how stupid I was for not liking myself because of that. I grow up and learned that people will always judge,but that doesn't matter as long as you like yourself.I'm 16 now and so much more confident and outgoing.
LC Queen yes, exactly. Also, even when you are quiet for most of the class because you're focusing on your work some people will be like "why don't you talk" and I'm just like bruh
Last number is what meme you are 1- firefly 2- Mr. Crabs 3- frog meme 4- who's your daddy 5- what our those 6- fidget spinner 7- what our those 8- poop emoji 9- meme shirt 0- meme lord Edit: wow guys I did not expect this much likes..... thanks!
QUICK TIP: If you don't know which types of questions to ask (in school for example)...ask WHY? If in math a teacher shows you the formula to solve a problem, ask why do we use that formula? How does it make sense, and what's the story behind it? Some teachers won't be able to answer, but maybe sometimes they can...and it's important to understand the WHY of things, not just the procedure and the HOW. :) I hope this helped!
When you feel dependent of your more confident friend and then you suddenly are alone and must make new friends it's SO weird and hard. But if you try you get to be that confident friend yourself, just keep trying :)
Idk why I cried watching this. I start highschool in a week and I'm just super scared and none of my friends from middle school are going to my Highschool😭
I'm Ftm transgender and I have social anxiety, so I find things like school and coming out hard (but hey I'm commenting on a public video ). But this video is really useful thank you once again Jessie!
I have a speech disability ( I sometimes struggle with saying random words ) and I don't like to talk in class because of that. I love you so much and you inspire me to be more non shy and not be as un-social. People think they can talk for me because I'm shy and I like to prove them wrong! You are the best mer-mom ever! 😘
i have a small group of friends but i constantly feel like people are looking and staring, im fine online, i have witty humour and with my friends they say im hilarious and even people who aren't my closest friends say im funny but i need to be in a class with one of my friends because i have anxiety and last year i was in biology by myself, i literally had panic attacks so this video is going to help so so much, thank you jessie
Janet Ha. I know me too then when you think posibble thigs that might happed when you finally talk every one will be like tge weirdo is finally talking
Sunny Park *sigh*, me but it's hard to change coz I like being alone and I don't say a single word in each of classes so basically I barley have any friends except my best friend, it's aiight :)))))))
kenjoy my boy aww... just believe!! I actually like being alone as well. But one day when you grow up you'll really have to change... sad life... 😭😭😖👀👌
dolan twins forever don't stress out about it too much when i was about to enter 7th grade i had to change schools and just like u i didn't know anybody but I promise u someone will come through and to this day im still friends with them (im a sophomore in highschool) u have a twin sister at least there's someone to help u around the beginning but wish you luck!!
Just make sure you put yourself out there, nobody is going to hate you!! Raise your hand if you actually know the answers and compliment the person next to you even if you have 0 things in common! Ask them how their weekend was or summer. People generally love to talk about themselves.
You know what bothers me the most when people are like “you’re so quiet” or when you say something they’re like “Omg she talked!” Or if one of your friends say “Yeah they talk lots to me” and other people say “ She talks?!” Ugh I hate it! This video helped lots!! 💗💗💗
This video is so awesome and helpful i have always thought that im never going to make friends and that every time i will make a friend that i will mess it up and there is really just no point anymore, but this video has some really good addvise. I love it💕 Thank you so much jessie for posting this.👏 From one pink haired shy girl to another thank you so much 😂💕🌼
This really helped me. I have depression and people thought I was that weird sad person who never talked. I was and still am verry academic and nerdy. I will never forget the time that I was studying in the library and the group of mean girls pushed all my binders and notes of the table. All of these tips really helped me and I have a group of 3 friends which just hang out. One lunchtime these girls told me to go kill myself, and my friend eva stood up for me. Whenever this happens we just shield the person from any more hurt. Thank u so much xx
Okay this is weird but u can also try to imagine that u are in a movie and u are the main character.. and i think that will help bc u will be more outgoing and productive and u wanna make the best movie ever.. but remember the main character CAN'T be boring..I know I't weird but its also fun lol 😂
tposegirl posey ikr I do that all the time. I'm going to defiantly do it this year because I just moves to a different state and I have to go to a new school
Whenever I try,to be outgoing it’s really hard. No matter how much I try to be myself I’m always really awkward and boring. It takes me months before my body will let me be myself around people.
So in 2016 I moved 2 hours away from my old school, my friends, and everything I had known for my whole life up until then. When I got to the school these girls asked me to hang out with them in my first day. I was pretty happy. But whenever I was around them I always felt like they were going to judge me if I said something weird. So to avoid that, I spent almost 4 months being the shy, quiet girl. Which is very difficult for me because I tend to be shy around people when I first meet them, but the second time I see them, I am entirely crazy and not shy *at all*. I would always see how these girls were always trash talking others, and gossiping. On the first day of June, I decided to start fresh. I was what I called the 'new me'. I started hanging out with new people. One girl who is now my best friend was probably the nicest person in the class towards me when I got there. The rest of them were also just like her. If you feel like you are intimidated to stay silent, maybe it's time for new friends. I hope this helped ppl (Sorry the edit was me fixing spelling mistakes) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
THAT WAS ME LAST YEAR TOO! But the girls that i used to hang out with were these girls who stays out late and goes shopping all the time bc they rich af yet i cant relate bc im too broke, and they were too popular, i couldn't keep up lol. But they're actually very very nice, i just cant relate to anything they do so i feel left out most of the time. But now i've found new friends and they're amazing, even though i'm kinda scared to open up with them sometimes, but THIS BITHC IS WORKING ON IT!
Jazmin Fraga well there will always be one person who is not fake and always be there for you don't worry if that person is not there yet trust me that person will come😇👌😁
I'm literally the person who eats their lunch in the bathroom. Weird I know. The only place we are allowed to eat is the commons and it's so crowded you literally have to sit right next to someone. I can't do that.
Venus Schreave we are allowed to go to the library during lunch, but you aren't allowed to eat there. I sit at one of the solitary tables and sneak food. It isn't always open so sometimes I have to eat in the bathroom. Sometimes people notice you've been in there long and that sucks but fuck it I'm lonely and awkward and shy
Personally I would advise enjoying every moment at school or anywhere you get nervous, shy. This is what I think I would do I would just pretend I'm a separate human and that I'm in my brain controlling myself like a robot so I'm not the one experiencing all the embarrassing moments or awkward moments it's just the robot I'm controlling which is actually me and it should help cuz one day just remember we will all day even if you're doing a presentation and you are so nervous it's ok you'll get through it I promise just go for it and don't be shy you have so much personality to show go show people and prove those people that see you as shy wrong. I was shy too I still I have school anxiety but I know I'm gonna get through it I can't do anything about it but hey life is like that treasure that
Im shy and quiet at school, my teacher never got mad at me hehehe :) But really Im a weird, and crazy. So like if I just met you Im really shy but when Im used to you Im crazy ass shit lol. Plus I could/can get away with things at school since theyd be like How could she do that?! xD Edit: Wowza! xD Thanks for the likes lmao
This video really helped me a lot bc I'm a really shy person and everybody knows that so its kind of hard for me to interact with other people that know that I'm shy....so
+laurfinity Same... I don't know how to act in my class they all know that I'm extremely shy😓 I don't know if they would except me if I would try to be more outgoing XC
I am the most shy person everrrrrrrrr. I used to have a teacher that I didn't like bc she expected the best and she always had presentations and she always calls on random people and she always calls on me when I don't know that answer, but also this teacher is moving up to the grade I'm gonna be in now🙄😑 I used to be super duper shy but now I'm just...quite. But let me say, with my good friends and family I don't shut up😂
Carsyn ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ I know right! I always get embarrassed when I don't know they answer. I'm over here like saying "umm" for a few minutes and then she just chooses someone else to answer. I never raised my hand but you still chosen me but I don't know the answer like wtf.
I'm about to go in to secondary and I'm really shy this is going to help me SO much. Thank you for putting this video on your amazing channel. I'm actually love you for helping me Thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️
I'm REALLY shy but with my best friends I'm really loud and confident. This helped a lot, when I get the bus when I make a comment ( which I rarely do) they just stare at me.
This helped me because I am such a shy person literally when someone new talks to me my face gets sooo red for no reason and I hate it soo much and when I get called out in class my face also gets sooo red but I'm really trying to improve myself this will help me for when I start high school
This helped me because I'm losing all my friends because they are all going to a different school and I worry I'll never make friends like them again but thanks to you I think I can thank you😁😁
Artists In A Notebook Same, I will go to another school soon with no one I know, and I'm so f***ing shy. Hopefully I will meet someone new who's kinda weird like me haha😂. I'm not good in finding new friends, but perhaps there's someone who talks to me and wanna be my friend :D
Artists In A Notebook mine is opposite..I just changed my school n lyk I miss my best friends n d other close ones..n m not really shy..but in this new school m lyk suddenly sooo shy..it's soo weird..I don't feel lyk myself...😞😞
Thanks, haha... I’ve been homeschooled since I was 11, but in sixteen days I will be attending a public school as a freshman. I’ve actually had social anxiety for as long as I can remember (once in fifth grade I was too nervous to admit my that favorite food was mashed potatoes in front of the class so I didn’t say anything), and being homeschooled has made that worse. I’ve been putting myself through some immersion therapy stuff but I’m still not really out of the woods (though I’ve made some MAJOR progress). These tips are very helpful! I’m planning on joining marching band to find some people with similar interests. Also, I just want to say that you are super nice. I’ve only seen a couple of your videos, but you always seem so easygoing and it’s just great lol (wow that was long sorry)
I actually have two friends but they are in a different class so i am alone in one class,in my class all of the girls just don't suit me,the boys in my class are all popular boys and they are so annoying,the girls in my class have their own friends and i just can't find any topic to talk with,so whenever i have group project it is so freaking awkward cause i don't have any people to be in the project with and in my school we have PE time it means like physical education where you do exercises and whenever it is PE time the teacher just told us free time so other girls just chatting with each other and the boys play football and i am the only one alone there sitting while everybody staring at me,i am so so sad
amélie bocquillon i have been going through this for 2 years now,i am so sad,when will this stop,my score even decreased last year because i team up with boys instead of girls,as you know the boys just sit and play while i do all of the projects,i just hate the teacher who arrange me with these people why don't they arrange me with my friends,i am really sad,i hope this year pass by as quicky as it can cause i can't hold it anymore and for the worst part i have a brother in higeher level and he is quite popular so the popular boys obviouslu know him and when they see how me and my brother are different they are like laughing at me,i hope this will never happen again,if my friends were one class with me this will never ever happen,i don't need to think about how i am gonna do the project,what should i do at PE time every single moment of my life,so sad
jam up yeah i understand, my ex bestfriend was in my class 3 years ago, and she suddenly stop talking to me, everyone in my class would admire her, and i was that typical shy girl and no one would talk to me, i was so depressive at that time ! I don't know what is your grade, but when i pass to high school, everything changed , i met new People, even if i don't have a lot of friends, i start to open up me to People ! I know life is hard Sometimes but trust me it will change !
amélie bocquillon thank you so much for supporting me,it helped me a lot,angels like you should be in my class,i am not in highschool yet,i always hope to myself that school stop making tons of group project especially where you can choose the members by yourself,thanks you so much for the advice!
amélie bocquillon you are good at English even tough you are French,thank you so much i am sure me and my friends would love you especially you are very nice to strangers like me,i hope you have good time with your friends too 😊😊😊😊
I used to get bullied, mostly because I talked to much. So the last year I thought if I shut up I won’t get bullied but I just developed social anxiety and I basically ruined my life.
This was so cute, Jessie! Great video, and I know it's helping many people! I also would've never guessed you were shy! It's really inspiring to see that despite that, you're a youtuber making amazing videos and you even went on a tour and had to take the stage for GNI! I grew up extremely shy. I've gotten way better, but still have my moments. I had been interested in starting a YT channel for a while but wondered if I was too shy or awkward to do it. Thank you for opening up about this and sharing with us!
I'm at a new school now and I only know one person in my class, but we're not close. I also have other schoolmates in that University but they're in different tracks (I'm Grade 11 btw). It has been 3 weeks since the start of the school year and I still haven't made friends yet, but I know I shouldn't rush about having a friend. I'm just an acquaintance to my classmates, and some still doesn't know me. Why? Because I'm quiet when I'm at school. I just don't have the courage to talk to them that's why I'm just sitting on my desk the whole time while waiting for our next teacher. But my classmates are there eating and chatting together. So it really makes me a loner. But I don't want to be sympathized, I want to be independent but still, I want to hang out with someone. I like being alone but sometimes, it depends on the situation. I really feel like an outcast... My classmates only talk to me when they need to tell me something, or when they need something, but atleast they still talk to me. On our group chat, I'm not chatting with them, but I noticed that many of my classmates have their birthdays on that day, so I also wanted to greet them. It was the 1st time that I chatted on our group chat, but when I did, one of my classmates asked, "Dude, who is (my name)?" I know it's not a big deal but I can't help but be distracted by what my classmate has said. I've been his classmate for 3 weeks now and he still doesn't know me?... Haha, I'm really a ghost in our room. Although I know it's my fault because I don't talk too much, so my presence isn't that noticed.
I'm so shy idk why. Once you know me though I'm just an awkward kind of funny, laughs at everything girl😂 love you Jessie. You honestly make me feel amazing because I know that there is somebody else in the world like me 😂💞💞
thankyou im the shyest person in the school this video really changed me you really changed my life i usually never like videos on youtube but your video desrves a trillion likes and that number of subs thank you and NEVER stop
I just wanted to say that this video is very helpful. I am a very shy person and I do have a hard time making friends especially at my church were everyone is in their own friend group. I try to challenge myself to say hi and before I go I have to mentally prepare myself and like give myself a pep talk ,but at my gymnastics class I am more of myself and feel like I can just be the weird awkward person I am. I'm going into my first year of high school and I'm very nervous to because of my shyness. But I know I have to try to do more challengingly things and to put myself out there in the scary world that I know very little about. Some times I feel like my shyness is bigger, greater then me, but my goal this school year this year is to overcome my shyness to be brave, outgoing and to have friends.
i was so hyped because i bought all my school supplies and some outfits but im going to a new school. so this video will hopefully help because i have bad anxiety and ahhh yeah. Edit: I didnt even think anyone would come across this but thanks for the 12 likes even though that isnt much 😂
I'm not shy at all. But this video makes me appreciate the shy people of the world especially going to a new school with 290 people in my year group there's going to be quite a lot of shy people. I should introduce myself to them and start a convocation because they might be fun. And also I like to know people secrets so knowing secret that no one else know will be cool lol!
This describes me so much, everything you said, I was just thinking to myself "this is me, I've done this." Thanks, seriously. It's good to see we're not alone
I'm starting a new school next week Jessie and I'm hella nervous so thank you for making this video! I always come off shy to new people and it's hard for me to make friends so thank you for making this video xx Love you
This video helped me so much. I'm a very shy person. I was make fun of for being shy. When I'm outgoing and weird people don't like that I felt like I was forced to be shy. But all of my friends accept my weirdness now. I asked my best friend what was your first thought of me she said a shy person I wanted to be friends with but I thought you wouldn't like me. I am now acting in small plays. I love you Jessie and never will stop
Band Nerd when I was being happy & laughing over something I can't even remember it but my friend said act normal so that ruined my mood
Awe ILYSM v and congrats bb ❤️❤️
Band Nerd your not the only one here!!
to be honest i dont have a girlfriend i am shy too
Band Nerd omg same here!
*struggles shy people will only understand*
1. Attention
2.When ever you talk,everyone stares at you if they know that you’re shy
3.you’re too afraid to show your own personality.
4.if you get teased, you’re too afraid to standup.
5.people always ask “why don’t you talk” or say “TALK!”
6.you’ll always be known as “the shy girl/boy”
7.you want to talk but you’re to afraid to.
Guys, this is what happens to me. !’m totally not saying that you have the same opinion as me.
Eleven 11 thats me
relatable but I'm not afraid to talk to people but i just don't know how to keep the conversation going and i sound awkward but i used to be talkative when i was younger
Ikr this is so true
OMGG I'M SO FRUSTRATED RN BUT HAPPY THAT SOMEONE GOES THROUGH THE SAME THING AS MEEEEEEE OMGGGGG SAMEEEE
Same.
needed this video in middle school
Kevin and Lill OMG YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING!!! Love from New Zealand :)
Kevin and Lill omg hi I luv u guys!💙
Millie Frampton Where're you in NZ? I'm in Hawke's Bay
Phøenix FøxTail I live in Auckland! NZ is sooooooo nice
I'm in middle school too lol
I am an Ambrivert, I am outgoing when I'm comfortable but extremely shy when I'm by myself or new. Thanks for the help
Same, I am confident around my friend group but when I'm around boys,I get really shy.
Same
Sameeee
Same
Same. Finally a comment from an ambivert😅😄
An extra tip for shy people - say a terrible pickup line/pun it works great for conversations starters and even if it's bad it's a pun it's suppose to be terrible
Sierra Rambles A Lot this is actually a good idea haha I'll definitely try this
Sierra Rambles A Lot Hey, I heard you like bad girls. Well, you should know, I'm bad at everything. *winks with both eyes*
when i saw a kid at school, i saw my favorite band on her shirt. then i said, “hey! i like your shirt alot its my favorite band!”
her response, “hi” *walks away*
marla ronquillo lol
*_i felt that_*
God I always thought of myself as SUPER shy but watching this made me realize I'm not shy at all, just super awkward
PTV Yee Me too
PTV Yee me too
I like your profile picture :)) I love pierce the veil
PTV Yee OMG SAMEEE
i love the song 'hold on till may'
*someone compliments me*
Me: merry christmas
xCocomademoissel I feel you
;-; same
same 😂
I know that feel bro
The Homiegurl omg same
*wish i could of been Tiffany in the background just smiling,nodding and strumming a ukulele*
I'm always told that I'm quiet and shy and I don't wanna be that way! This is very helpful advice Jessie 😭❤️
Fiona Davis same😐
I wish everyone luck that some day we won't be so shy.
Same
I thought I was shy but now am I just socially awkward
Treniya Johnson omg ikr
Shy person squad where you at???
Here
Right here
megan rose I’m here
Here..
here
I used to be very very shy, because I always doubted that I would make friends and I would think that people would judge me. But now after years with my best friend(I met her in fifth grade I'm in ninth now) she helped me realize that it doesn't matter what you look like or anything it's just to be who you really are. I'm so lucky to have someone I am so close to and to be by my side. Also, I eventually stopped thinking that I'm so ugly and fat and dumb, because I knew in myself that I had more than that, I mean I would always get the best grades, be in enrichment, and I'm nice to people. I regret being so shy because now I have had my chance to meet new people.I used to be terrified to sing on stage in front of people and the first time I did with an audience, I knew that this is what I wanted to pursue. Now to this day, I'm a singer and actress with confidence! Anyways sorry if that was too long to read so here are my tips now:
-When there are opportunities given for you to socialize, just go for it because I promise you, you will regret not being friends with that someone earlier
-When you do start talking to someone, just be yourself! When I do I automatically just start being weird😂
-Love who you are and embrace that because you can't change who you are so accept it
-Talk to people that you sit next to, just about anything
-If a new student seems like they need some help just become friends with them and show them around(how I met my best friend)
-Here is a scientific one to feel more confident (credits to Alisha Marie for teaching this) strike a power pose for two minutes
-Just be positive!!!
Anyways thanks for reading all the way here😂
I hope you all have a nice day!
I love how Jessie is really shy but she wears awesome outgoing clothes that can attract a lot of attention and doesn't give a shit what people say ❤️
Cynthia Perales yes she wears clothes like that XD i wanna wear weird outfits tbh °^°
I want her clothes!
Last year was my first year of high school and it is not that i am super shy but I do have social anxiety. There were only two freshman in my school that played softball. Me and this girl who i used to be friends with. Long story short that friend group bullied me and I almost lost my life bc of these 6 girls. So i have played soccer in the fall and i was nervous but ok and i ended up having a great time. But softball was different, on March 3rd we had out first practice and i was extremely anxious. For some reason I was so scared and I did not even no why. Thoughts went threw my head i was thinking "New couch, SENIORS, jrs and i was even sacred to talk to the sophomores. That I have played with for years. Everyday i would wake up and be petrified to go to practice.The entire day there would be a pit in my stomach just thinking of what was going to happen at practice.and nothing bad ether happens. I have never acted like this before and my parents were confused, i have always told them about my anxiety. I have even seen doctors and therapist but they did not under stand. for some reason i did not either, anyway the month went on and i said that enough is enough and i tried to come out of me shell.we had a team sleep over one night and it was awesome!!! I am a very funny person and the jokes i told that night everyone loved. I no that seems stupid but it made me feel more confident in myself. the days turned into weeks and the weeks turned into months. In may i did something unheard of for me and as FRESHMAN on varsity I invited my team to a pool party at my house. I am still shook of how i did that. thinking back at me in march to me now it is crazy and how much i have grow by myself and with my team. I was that shy freshman and now i am a outgoing sophomore!!
wow that is great!!
Clique Artist good job!!!
that's the sweetest thing I've read all day ! keep on blooming (:
That's really amazing! Thanks for sharing :)
Clique Artist that's so cool!
When im always in class and the teacher calls on me for a question my face turns red and my voice stutters because i always get nervous. This happens to me all the time. 😥
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Maddie girly especially cold calling like what
yesss me tooo!
My shyness is sometimes so overwhelming that whenever I order something from a restaurant I feel like crying since I'm super scared of talking to the person at the restaurant
Crazy Chameleon I'm the same way but at school
Crazy Chameleon don't worry all you have to do is belive in yourself and look foward to not being shy i am the same i even hate to talk because im always asked to speak louder but really the only thing we can do is look foward💖😁
Crazy Chameleon SAME but my parents make fun of me for it and they don't understand..
I learned the hard way...just do it!
Crazy Chameleon I used to be so shy so whenever my mum and I went out to buy clothes and all, I'd do my best to avoid the sales person.
I'm such a socially awkward person, I wouldn't be able to handle any of these lol! 😂😂😂😂 I'm more likely to speak more with my close friends or people around me who I like. I couldn't do it in a large group of people I dislike. Thank you for making this video, I need to be more confident and I want to speak more openly to people and make friends easily.
Yesss same that's so me I can only talk to people who are my close friends and if I sit next to someone that's not a close friend I find it hard to start a conversation.Also all my friends think I'm crazy and not shy at all but if I asked someone else they would say I'm shy!
Amy Hobi Same... my main goal for back to school is to try to get out of my shell.
Samee
I am shy. I am an introvert. I act like I enjoy being around people. I don't. I read more than I communicate. My best friend is outgoing. I live in her shadow. I will not talk to people by choice. People always try to talk to me. I try to smile. I know I am like this. I accept my weirdness. Love wired if you want to.
Athena 2006 that is very much me. I always feel like I am holding my best friend back bc of things that I don't want to do or crowded places I don't want to go. I have literally never related to someone so much.
Same. My friend's an ambivert, and she always wants to go talk to people. Even though she says stuff like, "oh it's ok! It's not bad that your shy or introverted. It's just the way you are!" I still feel like I'm holding her back from her true potential. I've told her this many times before, but she just responds with the same thing. And to be honest, I envy her. I envy the fact that she can just go up and talk to people without feeling scared. I want to do that, well, I don't want to feel the need to talk to someone every five minutes. I just wanna talk without feeling trapped.
I don't talk to people by choice either, my grandma is a MAJOR extrovert, and she feels the need to talk to me, or introduce me to people every time we go out. If I'm staying with her, and people come over, she won't let me stay in the room that I was already in. She forces me to talk, and when I ask her why, she says that I'm not normal. That I'm retracting from the world. That I'm turning into a hermit, and that it scares her. I really wish that people would learn that it's ok for people to be quiet or shy or introverted. That it's not bad, and that it's just the way we are
I’m so shy that I shake if someone talks to me. People think I’m sad but truly just really shy. This video helped a little but I am still super shy.
To help me be confident, I put on this character. I know it sounds weird but I'm a big fan of acting and it just really helps me to talk to people
Shasha fierce
That's actually...like a really really good idea
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FemaleAnimeTrash it works for me, you should try it out!☺️
I used to be shy when I was 12-13 and got jealous of other girls who were confident. Now I understand how stupid I was for not liking myself because of that. I grow up and learned that people will always judge,but that doesn't matter as long as you like yourself.I'm 16 now and so much more confident and outgoing.
I'm always quiet.. and that is not bc I'm shy.. I just don't like most of the people in my school.
tposegirl posey I feel u.
Relatable
tposegirl posey SAME THEY ARE ALWAYS LIKE... "are u shy?" "do u ever talk?" "can u say hi plz?" LIKE NO IM NOT SHY YES I TALK AND...👋🏻
LC Queen yes, exactly. Also, even when you are quiet for most of the class because you're focusing on your work some people will be like "why don't you talk" and I'm just like bruh
tposegirl posey lmao same
I’m shy then once I know them well I don’t stop talking 😂😂
Dessy Plays SAME
Jerrie Edits same
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Camila Grande Too relatable
Camila Grande Me too
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QUICK TIP: If you don't know which types of questions to ask (in school for example)...ask WHY? If in math a teacher shows you the formula to solve a problem, ask why do we use that formula? How does it make sense, and what's the story behind it? Some teachers won't be able to answer, but maybe sometimes they can...and it's important to understand the WHY of things, not just the procedure and the HOW. :) I hope this helped!
Ana Rosca thanks mate
love this suggestion.thanks so much for helping 🌼
Ana Rosca I agree!! I started asking questions that start with 'why' to keep the conversation going and it really helps
I'm in all honors so if anyone asks continuous questions they get yelled at by the kids for taking too long.. welp this won't work for me
When you feel dependent of your more confident friend and then you suddenly are alone and must make new friends it's SO weird and hard. But if you try you get to be that confident friend yourself, just keep trying :)
Idk why I cried watching this. I start highschool in a week and I'm just super scared and none of my friends from middle school are going to my Highschool😭
mother_ gaga it's ok everyone's new no one knows each other you will make new friends don't panic!😁😄
Thank you💖
mother_ gaga Same
Oscar Robles 8 months ago, did u make new friends?😊😇
Me too!!!
She should do how to get through school being the new kid (like if you want her to)
Angel Williams I used to be like that i was starting 6th grade (middle school) And everyone knew someone. Not me 😕 But now i know everyone!!
Angel Williams omg same 😭
Kacey Plays same to me 😭
Angel Williams yess
Angel Williams yes
I'm so shy, that I can't even talk to my own family at family reunions.
Unwanted Oreo sameee :(((
Unwanted Oreo same
Same
Unwanted Oreo same :-\
Unwanted Oreo Sameee
I'm Ftm transgender and I have social anxiety, so I find things like school and coming out hard (but hey I'm commenting on a public video ). But this video is really useful thank you once again Jessie!
Jxckson Pride Good for you. A lot of people in this world are afraid to even acknowledge their true gender.
Critter Jones Gaming aww thanks , it's just strange to me how someone who has anxiety , come out to the internet, but not to people irl
thank you so much jessie for making this video ! i have social anxiety and i hope to change that very soon :)
sab oii sab, didnt know you watch her
Same
Anyone else really quiet in school but super loud outside of school!!
Edit: omg thanks for 500 likes!! I never get this many!!
Edit: WTF 1K😱
Hannah Ferguson yess and my around my friends im also very loud but when meeting new ppl im very quiet
Vania Mendoza Sammmeee!! Or when I'm meeting someone I haven't met in ages I'm super quiet
meeee
im the opposite hehe
me! omg i wish i was louder at school
I have a speech disability ( I sometimes struggle with saying random words ) and I don't like to talk in class because of that. I love you so much and you inspire me to be more non shy and not be as un-social. People think they can talk for me because I'm shy and I like to prove them wrong! You are the best mer-mom ever! 😘
I'm a Trash Can aww! this is so inspiring!
i have a small group of friends but i constantly feel like people are looking and staring, im fine online, i have witty humour and with my friends they say im hilarious and even people who aren't my closest friends say im funny but i need to be in a class with one of my friends because i have anxiety and last year i was in biology by myself, i literally had panic attacks so this video is going to help so so much, thank you jessie
I'm the shyest girl at my school lol
Janet Ha same
Janet Ha sameeeee ugh
Janet Ha same 😭
Janet Ha Same
Janet Ha. I know me too then when you think posibble thigs that might happed when you finally talk every one will be like tge weirdo is finally talking
Who's an introvert and is actually trying to change?
me idk why anxiety hits me a lot
Sunny Park *sigh*, me but it's hard to change coz I like being alone and I don't say a single word in each of classes so basically I barley have any friends except my best friend, it's aiight :)))))))
Sunny Park ha ha me ✋✋
kenjoy my boy aww... just believe!! I actually like being alone as well. But one day when you grow up you'll really have to change... sad life... 😭😭😖👀👌
Sunny Park me
u look so cute in this omg
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Ayeeee two of my faves.... my lord I love you two💕
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I am very shy and tomorrow I will start middleschool but I dont know anyone their and my twin sister has different classes and I am so nervous
dolan twins forever don't stress out about it too much when i was about to enter 7th grade i had to change schools and just like u i didn't know anybody but I promise u someone will come through and to this day im still friends with them (im a sophomore in highschool) u have a twin sister at least there's someone to help u around the beginning but wish you luck!!
dolan twins forever by the way love the dolan twins❤ their awesome
Just make sure you put yourself out there, nobody is going to hate you!! Raise your hand if you actually know the answers and compliment the person next to you even if you have 0 things in common! Ask them how their weekend was or summer. People generally love to talk about themselves.
thanks for the tips
dolan twins forever Dolan twins forever I know this has nothing to do with ur comment but I fvcking love the Dolan twins 😁😂
You know what bothers me the most when people are like “you’re so quiet” or when you say something they’re like “Omg she talked!” Or if one of your friends say “Yeah they talk lots to me” and other people say “ She talks?!” Ugh I hate it! This video helped lots!! 💗💗💗
Last time I was this early
I commented something just like this
Vrisha S lol
Vrisha S so, last time you was this early... do you say "something just like this" or something like "Last time I was this early" or... that..?
Cuti3Littl3Girl 😂 I said something in that format, like when people are "last time I was this early..." not "something just like this"
Vrisha S OK, just want to make sure😜
Cuti3Littl3Girl lol it's fine I see how it could be confusing
This video is so awesome and helpful i have always thought that im never going to make friends and that every time i will make a friend that i will mess it up and there is really just no point anymore, but this video has some really good addvise. I love it💕 Thank you so much jessie for posting this.👏 From one pink haired shy girl to another thank you so much 😂💕🌼
Can we appreciate how good Jessie's makeup looks today like YESS MERMAID HAIR MOM💕💕
I opened the video to see her absolutely SLAYIN with those adorable glasses and i was like DAS MA GURL
This really helped me. I have depression and people thought I was that weird sad person who never talked. I was and still am verry academic and nerdy. I will never forget the time that I was studying in the library and the group of mean girls pushed all my binders and notes of the table. All of these tips really helped me and I have a group of 3 friends which just hang out. One lunchtime these girls told me to go kill myself, and my friend eva stood up for me. Whenever this happens we just shield the person from any more hurt. Thank u so much xx
Liar
Who is always shy going back to school every year
Enedina De La Cruz ME! Even thought I know mostly all my classmates I get severely shy!
Enedina De La Cruz ME
Enedina De La Cruz ME OMG ME
Enedina De La Cruz me
Enedina De La Cruz me omg even on the first time going to a new school!!!!
umm no thanks. just because im shy does not mean its a bad thing. thats one thing i love about myself. (OMG I JUST SAID ONE THING!)
ariam leira honey, there are definelty more
Okay this is weird but u can also try to imagine that u are in a movie and u are the main character.. and i think that will help bc u will be more outgoing and productive and u wanna make the best movie ever.. but remember the main character CAN'T be boring..I know I't weird but its also fun lol 😂
tposegirl posey i love this advice! Thank you!
Thank you sm 😘
No need to thank ❤
Namrata Dond it is but it works lol ❤
tposegirl posey ikr I do that all the time. I'm going to defiantly do it this year because I just moves to a different state and I have to go to a new school
6 seconds in the video and I already like her❤😂👌😃
Samantha Lopez same
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honestly everyone loves jessie.
The Panic! At The Disco joke just made my day.
who else is here shy!!!!!!
including me😮😳
Alesha Walker me
me
But when I'm with my best friend I'm really weird
Alesha Walker me
Whenever I try,to be outgoing it’s really hard.
No matter how much I try to be myself I’m always really awkward and boring.
It takes me months before my body will let me be myself around people.
So in 2016 I moved 2 hours away from my old school, my friends, and everything I had known for my whole life up until then. When I got to the school these girls asked me to hang out with them in my first day. I was pretty happy. But whenever I was around them I always felt like they were going to judge me if I said something weird. So to avoid that, I spent almost 4 months being the shy, quiet girl. Which is very difficult for me because I tend to be shy around people when I first meet them, but the second time I see them, I am entirely crazy and not shy *at all*. I would always see how these girls were always trash talking others, and gossiping. On the first day of June, I decided to start fresh. I was what I called the 'new me'. I started hanging out with new people. One girl who is now my best friend was probably the nicest person in the class towards me when I got there. The rest of them were also just like her. If you feel like you are intimidated to stay silent, maybe it's time for new friends. I hope this helped ppl
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THAT WAS ME LAST YEAR TOO! But the girls that i used to hang out with were these girls who stays out late and goes shopping all the time bc they rich af yet i cant relate bc im too broke, and they were too popular, i couldn't keep up lol. But they're actually very very nice, i just cant relate to anything they do so i feel left out most of the time. But now i've found new friends and they're amazing, even though i'm kinda scared to open up with them sometimes, but THIS BITHC IS WORKING ON IT!
ay tara ya lol like they were rich and always like omg lets go shopping! And I'm like nope I'm broke sry
people think I'm shy but I'm not the only reason I'm quite is because I had a lot of fake people in my life so I just gave up on having friends 😐
story of my life
Jazmin Fraga same
Jazmin Fraga well there will always be one person who is not fake and always be there for you don't worry if that person is not there yet trust me that person will come😇👌😁
Jazmin Fraga gurl same
Jazmin Fraga same
I am so shy, and this helped me a lot! ♥️♥️ also, is anyone else going to talk about Jessie's adorable new look? Like goals! 0:49
the worst thing is ice breakers when everyone in the class has to introduce themselves and when it gets close to me I DIE ON THE INSIDE!
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I'm literally the person who eats their lunch in the bathroom. Weird I know.
The only place we are allowed to eat is the commons and it's so crowded you literally have to sit right next to someone. I can't do that.
Venus Schreave we are allowed to go to the library during lunch, but you aren't allowed to eat there. I sit at one of the solitary tables and sneak food. It isn't always open so sometimes I have to eat in the bathroom. Sometimes people notice you've been in there long and that sucks but fuck it I'm lonely and awkward and shy
Venus Schreave it is ok lol.I just don't eat launch witch is really bad but oh well....
Kayla Honestly me too. I'll sneak food into the library and eat it as quietly as possible. Especially since the librarian is a rude old witch.
Venus Schreave Eating your lunch in the toilets is pretty disgusting...
Venus Schreave I also did that but I did that because I had no friends and if I sat alone at lunch people would make fun of that
This video popped up for my suggestions and I now LOVE you!
I cant do that cuz im shy :( 😭😢
My only wish is to be myself but i cant cuz im shy
I can relate
Personally I would advise enjoying every moment at school or anywhere you get nervous, shy. This is what I think I would do I would just pretend I'm a separate human and that I'm in my brain controlling myself like a robot so I'm not the one experiencing all the embarrassing moments or awkward moments it's just the robot I'm controlling which is actually me and it should help cuz one day just remember we will all day even if you're doing a presentation and you are so nervous it's ok you'll get through it I promise just go for it and don't be shy you have so much personality to show go show people and prove those people that see you as shy wrong. I was shy too I still I have school anxiety but I know I'm gonna get through it I can't do anything about it but hey life is like that treasure that
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Im shy and quiet at school, my teacher never got mad at me hehehe :) But really Im a weird, and crazy. So like if I just met you Im really shy but when Im used to you Im crazy ass shit lol. Plus I could/can get away with things at school since theyd be like How could she do that?! xD
Edit: Wowza! xD Thanks for the likes lmao
vxl Omg same!!!!!
Army's United xD
vxl Omg same lol
vxl omg same hahaha
yas me
"Hello, hi. I'm super shy." = relatable
this video definitely helped me ily mom thank you for being you :)
This video really helped me a lot bc I'm a really shy person and everybody knows that so its kind of hard for me to interact with other people that know that I'm shy....so
+laurfinity Same... I don't know how to act in my class they all know that I'm extremely shy😓 I don't know if they would except me if I would try to be more outgoing XC
Your exactly like me omg I love P!ATD and crybaby and I'm super shy
Adrianne Lavsa Same! Can we be friends 🙈
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Adrianne Lavsa OMG same!!!
Me too
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I am the most shy person everrrrrrrrr. I used to have a teacher that I didn't like bc she expected the best and she always had presentations and she always calls on random people and she always calls on me when I don't know that answer, but also this teacher is moving up to the grade I'm gonna be in now🙄😑 I used to be super duper shy but now I'm just...quite. But let me say, with my good friends and family I don't shut up😂
Carsyn ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ I know right! I always get embarrassed when I don't know they answer. I'm over here like saying "umm" for a few minutes and then she just chooses someone else to answer. I never raised my hand but you still chosen me but I don't know the answer like wtf.
Carsyn ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ samee like with my family i'm so talkative but with like people at school or in general i'm quite shy
Omg same! I'm always so talkative around my family and friends!
Carsyn ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ same
Carsyn ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ This is ME
Done and I'm shy in front of teachers not students. I'm very weird in front of students.😂
Unicorn Luvva Omg sameee
Unicorn Luvva
Me too 😂😂
Unicorn Luvva I'm the exact opisite. I can't get along with people my age but I can have a totally normal conversation with most of my teachers.
same😂😂
Unicorn Luvva same
Jessie represents shy people everywhere❤
I'm about to go in to secondary and I'm really shy this is going to help me SO much. Thank you for putting this video on your amazing channel. I'm actually love you for helping me Thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️
I'm REALLY shy but with my best friends I'm really loud and confident. This helped a lot, when I get the bus when I make a comment ( which I rarely do) they just stare at me.
i love the glitter thts under ur eyes..its soo cute❤
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Pastel Fangirl what does that mean?
nada lisa heheheheh *insta live* heheheh
nada lisa guessing it's from instagram :)
Pastel Fangirl your profile pic is goals👏👌
This is one of the realest high school advice videos on youtube, I haven't been able to find any real ones like this until finally my senior year.
Where was this when I needed it a year ago! 😭 good video by the way!!
The Trio YA I KNOW RIGHT I NEEDED IT THIS VIDEO TOO
YES MY MERMAID MOM TEACH ME HOW TO BE SOCIAL!!!
Btw I love you 😂
This helped me because I am such a shy person literally when someone new talks to me my face gets sooo red for no reason and I hate it soo much and when I get called out in class my face also gets sooo red but I'm really trying to improve myself this will help me for when I start high school
Betty I same omg I hate it
Betty I the blushing is cute tho :)
-pop punk- -princess- I wouldn't even consider mine blushing! I actually really hate it 😂😂😂
Betty I I'm exactly like this!
Betty I whatever I like blushing ppl😂
This is my first time watching her video and I love already her personality 😊💜💜💜
946 people got so excited and accidently gave the video a thumbs down instead of a thumbs up
or they missed the thumbs up button because they were using a body part they never used
ppl see me in school as a shy girl but my friends sees me as a crazy, weird, socially awkward gal, like i cant help it😂 tyyy so much for this💕
Allyson Estes Me too
Allyson Estes samee!!!
same
Allyson Estes me!
This helped me because I'm losing all my friends because they are all going to a different school and I worry I'll never make friends like them again but thanks to you I think I can thank you😁😁
Artists In A Notebook I feel you
Artists In A Notebook same thing with me :(
Same
Artists In A Notebook Same, I will go to another school soon with no one I know, and I'm so f***ing shy. Hopefully I will meet someone new who's kinda weird like me haha😂. I'm not good in finding new friends, but perhaps there's someone who talks to me and wanna be my friend :D
Artists In A Notebook mine is opposite..I just changed my school n lyk I miss my best friends n d other close ones..n m not really shy..but in this new school m lyk suddenly sooo shy..it's soo weird..I don't feel lyk myself...😞😞
Thanks, haha... I’ve been homeschooled since I was 11, but in sixteen days I will be attending a public school as a freshman. I’ve actually had social anxiety for as long as I can remember (once in fifth grade I was too nervous to admit my that favorite food was mashed potatoes in front of the class so I didn’t say anything), and being homeschooled has made that worse. I’ve been putting myself through some immersion therapy stuff but I’m still not really out of the woods (though I’ve made some MAJOR progress). These tips are very helpful! I’m planning on joining marching band to find some people with similar interests. Also, I just want to say that you are super nice. I’ve only seen a couple of your videos, but you always seem so easygoing and it’s just great lol
(wow that was long sorry)
When i still had school I met this girl in the hallway wearing a twenty one pilots t-shirt . and we had a nice mini conversation on my way to class
Abby Dorway I read that as twenty one potatoes 😂👌
Abby Dorway oh my gosh are they like the new mcr? i hear that name everywhere!
10 seconds in and I already know this is going to be relatable 💗
I actually have two friends but they are in a different class so i am alone in one class,in my class all of the girls just don't suit me,the boys in my class are all popular boys and they are so annoying,the girls in my class have their own friends and i just can't find any topic to talk with,so whenever i have group project it is so freaking awkward cause i don't have any people to be in the project with and in my school we have PE time it means like physical education where you do exercises and whenever it is PE time the teacher just told us free time so other girls just chatting with each other and the boys play football and i am the only one alone there sitting while everybody staring at me,i am so so sad
jam up oh i exatly know what you mean, i used to be in this awkward situation .. I hope for you that will change for the next year ! 😊
amélie bocquillon i have been going through this for 2 years now,i am so sad,when will this stop,my score even decreased last year because i team up with boys instead of girls,as you know the boys just sit and play while i do all of the projects,i just hate the teacher who arrange me with these people why don't they arrange me with my friends,i am really sad,i hope this year pass by as quicky as it can cause i can't hold it anymore and for the worst part i have a brother in higeher level and he is quite popular so the popular boys obviouslu know him and when they see how me and my brother are different they are like laughing at me,i hope this will never happen again,if my friends were one class with me this will never ever happen,i don't need to think about how i am gonna do the project,what should i do at PE time every single moment of my life,so sad
jam up yeah i understand, my ex bestfriend was in my class 3 years ago, and she suddenly stop talking to me, everyone in my class would admire her, and i was that typical shy girl and no one would talk to me, i was so depressive at that time ! I don't know what is your grade, but when i pass to high school, everything changed , i met new People, even if i don't have a lot of friends, i start to open up me to People ! I know life is hard Sometimes but trust me it will change !
amélie bocquillon thank you so much for supporting me,it helped me a lot,angels like you should be in my class,i am not in highschool yet,i always hope to myself that school stop making tons of group project especially where you can choose the members by yourself,thanks you so much for the advice!
amélie bocquillon you are good at English even tough you are French,thank you so much i am sure me and my friends would love you especially you are very nice to strangers like me,i hope you have good time with your friends too 😊😊😊😊
I used to get bullied, mostly because I talked to much. So the last year I thought if I shut up I won’t get bullied but I just developed social anxiety and I basically ruined my life.
I subbed right away when you did a panic at the disco pun 😂
Unicorn Lucy sameee bro
Unicorn Lucy same
Unicorn Lucy FRICKEN SAME
Lol me 2
Unicorn Lucy saaaaaaaameee
This was so cute, Jessie! Great video, and I know it's helping many people! I also would've never guessed you were shy! It's really inspiring to see that despite that, you're a youtuber making amazing videos and you even went on a tour and had to take the stage for GNI! I grew up extremely shy. I've gotten way better, but still have my moments. I had been interested in starting a YT channel for a while but wondered if I was too shy or awkward to do it. Thank you for opening up about this and sharing with us!
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But they're fake?!
Naomi van Egeraat how are they fake you idiot
I'm at a new school now and I only know one person in my class, but we're not close. I also have other schoolmates in that University but they're in different tracks (I'm Grade 11 btw). It has been 3 weeks since the start of the school year and I still haven't made friends yet, but I know I shouldn't rush about having a friend. I'm just an acquaintance to my classmates, and some still doesn't know me. Why? Because I'm quiet when I'm at school. I just don't have the courage to talk to them that's why I'm just sitting on my desk the whole time while waiting for our next teacher. But my classmates are there eating and chatting together. So it really makes me a loner. But I don't want to be sympathized, I want to be independent but still, I want to hang out with someone. I like being alone but sometimes, it depends on the situation. I really feel like an outcast... My classmates only talk to me when they need to tell me something, or when they need something, but atleast they still talk to me. On our group chat, I'm not chatting with them, but I noticed that many of my classmates have their birthdays on that day, so I also wanted to greet them. It was the 1st time that I chatted on our group chat, but when I did, one of my classmates asked, "Dude, who is (my name)?" I know it's not a big deal but I can't help but be distracted by what my classmate has said. I've been his classmate for 3 weeks now and he still doesn't know me?... Haha, I'm really a ghost in our room. Although I know it's my fault because I don't talk too much, so my presence isn't that noticed.
I'm so shy idk why. Once you know me though I'm just an awkward kind of funny, laughs at everything girl😂 love you Jessie. You honestly make me feel amazing because I know that there is somebody else in the world like me 😂💞💞
AprilDays Same!!
AprilDays you just described me sooo well
AprilDays i think we're literally the same person.....
Yay! Other people to relate
jessies brother went virallll (LIKE IF YOU CAME FROM JESSIES LIVE)
Sakina Raza ya
who is jessie's brother?
Sakina Raza I came from scapchat
Please make a series like this! Call it "MermAID" or something I loved this video it helped a lot!
Cerine Assassinator Or MermAIDS
thankyou im the shyest person in the school this video really changed me you really changed my life i usually never like videos on youtube but your video desrves a trillion likes and that number of subs thank you and NEVER stop
I just wanted to say that this video is very helpful. I am a very shy person and I do have a hard time making friends especially at my church were everyone is in their own friend group. I try to challenge myself to say hi and before I go I have to mentally prepare myself and like give myself a pep talk ,but at my gymnastics class I am more of myself and feel like I can just be the weird awkward person I am. I'm going into my first year of high school and I'm very nervous to because of my shyness. But I know I have to try to do more challengingly things and to put myself out there in the scary world that I know very little about. Some times I feel like my shyness is bigger, greater then me, but my goal this school year this year is to overcome my shyness to be brave, outgoing and to have friends.
Heidi Jett same :/
i was so hyped because i bought all my school supplies and some outfits but im going to a new school. so this video will hopefully help because i have bad anxiety and ahhh yeah.
Edit: I didnt even think anyone would come across this but thanks for the 12 likes even though that isnt much 😂
don't get bully good luck
Devya Yearann thankyou!
Keep us updated on how your first day of school is!!
how'd it go
" im panicking at the disco " 💀❤❤❤
Alyssa Kittendorff ikr 😂
I'm super shy once I counted how many words I said in a day and it was probably only like 18 .. Wow
Omg I love your outfit gurl! You slay every look 😍😱
Am I the only one who isn't shy AT all but wanted to watch this video cuz Jessie's the best?
Meera the savage No ur not the only one xD
I'm not shy at all. But this video makes me appreciate the shy people of the world especially going to a new school with 290 people in my year group there's going to be quite a lot of shy people. I should introduce myself to them and start a convocation because they might be fun. And also I like to know people secrets so knowing secret that no one else know will be cool lol!
This describes me so much, everything you said, I was just thinking to myself "this is me, I've done this." Thanks, seriously. It's good to see we're not alone
I'm starting a new school next week Jessie and I'm hella nervous so thank you for making this video! I always come off shy to new people and it's hard for me to make friends so thank you for making this video xx Love you
Daina Bryant omg same
Daina Bryant sameee