Jess Hilarious Gets Emotional Over Chrisean Rock Dating Blueface

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  • @jreneedyson
    @jreneedyson ปีที่แล้ว +4374

    Jess she may not hear you but it’s another young lady that’s listening to you. Keep up lifting.

  • @brizy___
    @brizy___ ปีที่แล้ว +1840

    I heard no lies. And she said what she said without tearing her down. She literally gave her grace…

  • @lunonymouscreations3983
    @lunonymouscreations3983 ปีที่แล้ว +995

    Jess is so genuine. She’s all jokes until it comes to life. Jess is such a great mother and soul. She hit it right on the head

  • @pameladnash
    @pameladnash ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Chrisean is subconsciously choosing what is familiar. She is unhappy. But there is safety in familiarity. Babygirl needs intense, consistent therapy. She needs an actual safe place. My heart aches for her.

    • @marasdabomb2005
      @marasdabomb2005 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This. I feel for her. Her mother was addict and no show father. She def has very serious abandonment issues, and is simply being exploited. Sad to watch. Blueface has own traumas, as his mother is not very stable herself. All around sad.

    • @isaiahb.7956
      @isaiahb.7956 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a current mental health therapist, I agree 100%.

    • @essencewallace777
      @essencewallace777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Preach ❤️❤️✨🙏🏽

    • @nichellewilson2117
      @nichellewilson2117 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes she need to get away

    • @jeanette8486
      @jeanette8486 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree.

  • @Prettybrownandpoppin
    @Prettybrownandpoppin ปีที่แล้ว +2986

    Jess is 100% right about everything.

    • @tythatsit7018
      @tythatsit7018 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Only birds agree 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Prettybrownandpoppin
      @Prettybrownandpoppin ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@tythatsit7018 your opinion is irrelevant.

    • @vickieOmyers
      @vickieOmyers ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@tythatsit7018 Only dummies disagree 😒

    • @jhndoe713
      @jhndoe713 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Prettybrownandpoppin he/she wouldn’t know the 1st thing about discernment so ignore foolishness & for the record you’re right

    • @tythatsit7018
      @tythatsit7018 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@vickieOmyers triggered 😂😂🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️. If it don’t apply let it fly

  • @horrorgia
    @horrorgia ปีที่แล้ว +5386

    I swear Jess is the only celebrity that actually spoke real shit about their situation because everyone else tries to act like it’s funny or normal when it’s not. I respect her so much more for this.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh ปีที่แล้ว +64

      That's why I love her even more for this as a comedian she could have easily talked mess like many did but she spoke from the heart of a woman and mother and daughter I respect her so much

    • @DeathRowMakaveli
      @DeathRowMakaveli ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she hasn't reached celebrity status yet

    • @kendrac882
      @kendrac882 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@DeathRowMakaveli to you.

    • @kiedrajtv2132
      @kiedrajtv2132 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Other celebrities just don’t speak on it at all

    • @DeathRowMakaveli
      @DeathRowMakaveli ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kendrac882 I ain't trynna be a hater I'm just saying

  • @LovingLandonLibioron
    @LovingLandonLibioron ปีที่แล้ว +661

    Jess giving Chrisean this level of grace and kindness is so important. Black women have to support each other. Chrisean is going to need so much BW support around her once she is able to get out. And we have to stop supporting the media sites/brands that profit off the abuse.

    • @CandidlyCandice
      @CandidlyCandice ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @mayankingrevisited8137
      @mayankingrevisited8137 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's not a victim

    • @truthtella3371
      @truthtella3371 ปีที่แล้ว

      she’s the fukkin problem

    • @brwnmgnable
      @brwnmgnable ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woman really need grace during this time.

    • @not41pop
      @not41pop ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I need explanation cuz I thought Chrissean was the toxic one ?

  • @deejayflyfree5661
    @deejayflyfree5661 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    The best advice I ever got in my life was somebody telling me “if you don’t see it it don’t matter “ and that’s basically what Jess is saying it don’t matter what you tell a person if they don’t see it it don’t matter a person can tell you you are meant to have more you are meant to be someone special you can have all the support in the world if YOU don’t see it for yourself it don’t matter what nobody tells you you have to see it for yourself

  • @chireppa707
    @chireppa707 ปีที่แล้ว +1842

    Jess just said the realest shit and she 100% right bout everything she said

    • @focused4841
      @focused4841 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How can you say that. You don't know their relationship behind closed doors

    • @SwissMissss
      @SwissMissss ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@focused4841 it's probably worse than what we see if that's only a snippet of it...

    • @tythatsit7018
      @tythatsit7018 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jess is detrimental any woman who look up to her is lost. Too many man vibes.

    • @tythatsit7018
      @tythatsit7018 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@SwissMissss always speaking from a delusional stand point. Her and him just the same so if u speaking down on him while upping her youre an issue

    • @101elelky
      @101elelky ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tythatsit7018 on top of don’t she always make skits about toxic relationships but in a glorifying manner??? Idc if it’s a Joke or not…. If somebody joked about rap3 I guarantee there would be a uproar but her and all the other women be right there in the comments laughing like “this how it be 😂😂”, “ima stick beside him” and all this other Bs

  • @poohaminor
    @poohaminor ปีที่แล้ว +1899

    This is spot on. No woman will leave a man until they are ready. Even if it hurts. women rather be ‘strong’ and take emotional blows than leave and potentially be alone or have to come face to face with the fact that we don’t put enough self worth on ourselves. We move very obliviously until we hit ‘rock bottom’ a lot of times. I pray we all start healin’ a little more each day. 💛

    • @MelisaDiary
      @MelisaDiary ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I got to tweet this 👏🏾

    • @caramelkisses8396
      @caramelkisses8396 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Speak on it!!!!

    • @poohaminor
      @poohaminor ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caramelkisses8396 💛🌱🌻

    • @osas5211
      @osas5211 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Never say woman, say trauma brain

    • @CynCynB
      @CynCynB ปีที่แล้ว

      You ain’t never lied when you said this!!!

  • @soniayancy533
    @soniayancy533 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    All the years I have been following Jess I've never seen her emotional and I'll be honest It pulled out my heart strings because that shows that she really does care for this girl who essentially is a stranger the stranger I want better for her... Most women show fake love and pretend to care for other women but this is so dope and I hope she sees this episode.

    • @oratiletsimatsima9643
      @oratiletsimatsima9643 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      A lot of people want the best for her, but she has to want it for herself.

    • @johnnyboi9271
      @johnnyboi9271 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gotta fw with her podcasts 😌 she talk that real shih

  • @danielwashington1
    @danielwashington1 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I heard no lies spoken. This was raw and honest. Jess spoke from the heart.

    • @qlee2385
      @qlee2385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

  • @kenjenferguson3621
    @kenjenferguson3621 ปีที่แล้ว +1224

    Mad respect for one human being genuinely caring about another human being. In our day and age that’s rare!

    • @BigA678
      @BigA678 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nah bro this is women caring about women. When Will went thru that shit everybody clowned him

    • @jackiekent8720
      @jackiekent8720 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Jess beautiful spitting facts about Chrisean I wish them both success.

    • @kissit012
      @kissit012 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it isn’t. Stop hanging around shit people

    • @kenjenferguson3621
      @kenjenferguson3621 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kissit012 “👀 hope a lot of people read my reply!” In your poor socioeconomic circumstances, if you were to loose your hourly wage job , you don’t have 1 ‘friend’ in your life who would finically support paying your bills for even 1 month. Nor do you or your friends have the ability to collectively come together to resolve your situation. You don’t understand the world you see, you see the world you understand so more than likely you & your friends life are so shitty and y’all don’t even know it!

    • @sssssssss111
      @sssssssss111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men clowned Will. “Alpha” “males”.

  • @moniqueuu8777
    @moniqueuu8777 ปีที่แล้ว +3840

    Jess told the truth. The girl is talented, an athlete, who should definitely be doing something else, something better, something productive, something successful, something pride worthy.

    • @daniella8400
      @daniella8400 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Talented in what? She ran track in high school, she’s on drug and no motivation. Simple fact is everyone won’t make it, and she just happens to be one of those!

    • @FreshAFUpcycle
      @FreshAFUpcycle ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Says who she proud of herself as long as y'all talking she get paid y'all really believe the internet them folks are a show

    • @FreshAFUpcycle
      @FreshAFUpcycle ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@daniella8400 factoid of the century and she got way more money than I ever seen she is UP...SHE JUST NEED BETTER managers and a nice bf like tf are we saying her song is successfully charting amazingly

    • @FreshAFUpcycle
      @FreshAFUpcycle ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nobody gotta live their life like y'all to be "better" she just got a bad bf and bad managers and got too much time to party. Sounds like the life of every 20-something in America if they are exploring the world freely

    • @FreshAFUpcycle
      @FreshAFUpcycle ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nobody gotta live their life like y'all to be "better" she just got a bad bf and bad managers and got too much time to party. Sounds like the life of every 20-something in America if they are exploring the world freely....her obsessions need to be checked by professionals and she needs help with depression. Because she is with a leech.

  • @whospikedmycoffee999
    @whospikedmycoffee999 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I just experienced Jess in a totally different light. Her GLOW UP is tremendous and her message was raw and explosive on many levels. She has a calling beyond being hilarious

  • @anishamelton773
    @anishamelton773 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I completely understand Jess' perspective, and she's right. You can't tell someone a message until they're ready to receive it. Especially in those types of relationships. The person being used will only listen and move on when they're ready to, but only time will tell 💫

  • @nabiasali5574
    @nabiasali5574 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    I never seen Jess in this light, I applaud her because she’s so real for everything she said ESPECIALLY about Rocks dream being to be a ride or die. I can only imagine how great she is as a mother ❤❤

    • @Blue-ve8wl
      @Blue-ve8wl ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂🤣

    • @SlimmFine89
      @SlimmFine89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @TheRNDIVA01
      @TheRNDIVA01 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m with you on this one!!! Jess…we’ll said!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ManifestedMELANIN
    @ManifestedMELANIN ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I cried with you sis. This trauma is REAL IN OUR COMMUNITY! We need real BLACK LOVE ❤ . I pray for us all.

  • @msnicesty4354
    @msnicesty4354 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man the passion behind her message I pray she reaches out and Chrisean responds

  • @user-do7rt4zh3n
    @user-do7rt4zh3n ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just want to hug Chrisean so bad…Jess is right…Chrisean got to save Chrisean for her self…I want her to succeed in her life

  • @ky184
    @ky184 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    This was good! I was emotional listening to Jess tell the truth. She gets it. Chrisean is where she is until SHE DECIDES she no longer wants to be there. Sad, but true. Can’t save who don’t want to be saved!! 😢 Prayers for Chrisean 🙏🏾❤

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WOOOH THAT WAS ME I WAS DETERMINED TO HAVE A MAN AND I'M SO TALENTED IN EVERYTHING AND Lost OUT ON SO MUCH😭😭😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @Samoremusiclover
      @Samoremusiclover ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@godsgirl7201 get back to whatever it is that you love and go 10 times harder. You can't get time back or those losses but count your blessings! and I pray that you prosper.🙏🏾

    • @EtherealiTT
      @EtherealiTT ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That shit big facts!! It’s clear that Jess has been there before. Anyone that has been there and gree can see what she sees.

    • @EtherealiTT
      @EtherealiTT ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *grew

    • @BronerBeast
      @BronerBeast ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea prayers for abusing Blue face and refusing to leaver his house.

  • @K80.
    @K80. ปีที่แล้ว +331

    She is so right. I don't agree with what chrisean does but it's probably because I've been through the same shit. Rock won't be ready until she is ready. She has to learn the hard way. It doesn't matter what celebrity reaches out to her. Some people just HAVE to learn the hard way

    • @leoqueen300
      @leoqueen300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👁 👁
      👄 Let me introduce myself I am LeoQueen 👑👠and I agree with your comment 👀

    • @jocelynmalone8057
      @jocelynmalone8057 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am a therapist and I TOTALLY agree with Jess. Blueface doesn’t have self love either and they have both trauma bonded. They are not listening to anyone. It was nice of Jess to say what she said and maybe this young lady will hear it. Hoping that this couple has some healing someday.

    • @kiecutielove2923
      @kiecutielove2923 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts! It's like when you're young and your parents give you advice. You never hear the words until it's actually going to register, in all do time, you have to live and learn if you blessed enough.

  • @iNCOGNiTOCHiCK1
    @iNCOGNiTOCHiCK1 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Real talk Jess, this is coming from someone that been in that done that...5 years it took for me to be completely done. No matter how disgusted I felt how tired I was no matter how much advice was given to me or how much wisdom I sought out I STILL DID NOT LEAVE... Put it to yall this way, when you in an abusive relationship EVERYTHING ELSE (mentally and emotionally) LEAVES FIRST AND THE PHYSICAL LEAVES LAST

  • @Lovenik77
    @Lovenik77 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I get what she’s saying. As an older woman who was once young and gone over a bad guy, there is nothing anyone can do to change her mind until she chooses to open up. I will say that if it’s someone she respects telling her, it will at least plant a seed. I hope it grows before it’s too late bc these things rarely ever end well.

  • @aubreys1559
    @aubreys1559 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    As a person who was in a narcissistic abusive relationship. You are absolutely right, we don’t leave until we’re absolutely done. It’s hard but we get there and eventually we start to see it how it is

    • @lolivingston6827
      @lolivingston6827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only in blk society will a woman chase trash than blame the trash for being itself lmaooooooo You can't make this stuff up😭 Accountability = Kryptonite

    • @oratiletsimatsima9643
      @oratiletsimatsima9643 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know that's right. Nobody understands narcissistic abuse until you have been in it. Jess Hilarious spoke facts.

    • @boujoyonabudget
      @boujoyonabudget ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can do relate to this. Thank God for his grace and mercy both. It got me thru.😭🙏

    • @mayankingrevisited8137
      @mayankingrevisited8137 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stop it She's a willing participant

    • @allthatsheiz
      @allthatsheiz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mayankingrevisited8137 but not off a sound mind

  • @YEP_THATS_IT11
    @YEP_THATS_IT11 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Jess is not lying! But let's be honest... its the equivalent of these successful ex-gang members trying to reach out to these young guys out here... they're not going to leave on their own... until they are absolutely ready... until their circumstances have ko'd them... its self-destructive...

    • @YEP_THATS_IT11
      @YEP_THATS_IT11 ปีที่แล้ว

      @StevoGoCrazy what?!

    • @YEP_THATS_IT11
      @YEP_THATS_IT11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @StevoGoCrazy use your critical thinking skills dummy! It's a parallel... neither will leave until their lives are in ruin..

  • @storybook3099
    @storybook3099 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I was with my ex on and off for 8 years, I was faithful and loyal to this man and never left because “I loved him” I was degraded, cheated on, and ghosted often, and would be gaslighted or stalked by him every time I attempted to move on, you truthfully do wake up one day and say you’ve had enough, you’ve had enough narcissist abuse, and you deserve better! It’s sad because putting yourself through hell to prove to a person that isn’t even respectful/loyal to you is such a huge waste of time, energy, and it’s an emotional blow…Jess spoke nothing but facts, I hope and wish the best for Chrisean she truly is a pretty and talented young lady, hopefully she can break away from this cycle that she’s stuck in..it’s hard .

    • @bellemama6x
      @bellemama6x ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts ‼️

    • @not41pop
      @not41pop ปีที่แล้ว

      This is faxts but Chris and blu toxic. She would be the same with anybody else I think

  • @AS-fc7oc
    @AS-fc7oc ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Watching two people discuss how to help another person out. 🥰 Thank y’all for this. You never know who’s looking up to you! ❤

  • @Babyluv_
    @Babyluv_ ปีที่แล้ว +247

    I feel bad for Chris because I’ve seen videos and photos of her before Blue and she was bright and vibrant. Even her voice was different. I think because she didn’t grow up with much and sees how much money she makes with Blue, she’s not trying to leave that life of money. Blue doesn’t love her. He makes her have abortions but let’s his baby momma keep his kids. He openly tells her that he’s sleeping with other women but she got a tattoo of his FACE on her neck! Poor girl…

    • @ReadyorNot811
      @ReadyorNot811 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Her voice was DEFINITELY different. Idk wtf happened

    • @j.9989
      @j.9989 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ReadyorNot811 acting. that’s what it is. acting.

    • @showcase0525
      @showcase0525 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Theres alot of point about Blueface sleeping with other women, but either was gonna do that in the light or in the dark. At least hes in a position to do it in the light and have her make a choice. And the issue is not that he does it, since that will be more than inevitable, its about the how. Im plenty sure plenty ladies would rather it happen in the light and make a choice.

    • @j.9989
      @j.9989 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@showcase0525 I agree. Blueface is doing everything publicly and showing it to her straight up. She knew exactly what she signed up for. She was on Blue girl club and he was fucking multiple bitches in that house. she knew about his BM (they were tg at the time) and she messed w him. that’s why the Baby momma came to the house trynna fight her and that’s when she lost her tooth. Y’all need to stop making excuses for this girl seriously .

    • @mashleys6
      @mashleys6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PREACH 🙏🏾😊

  • @tam5949
    @tam5949 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Jess, if you see this. I noticed Chrissean responds to love gestures well,example is her hairdresser gave her flowers and she got emotional. Maybe send her a nice gift,ask if she can meet with you and y'all just have a good time and maybe become a mentor that way. Because you are right, just hitting the dms telling her what to do or not do isn't going to work. I suggested this because you seem to really genuinely care about her,maybe it may take a bit more effort to help her.

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Great observation!! May Yahweh bless you for that ❤️

    • @tam5949
      @tam5949 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brittanyr1456 💜

    • @tam5949
      @tam5949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Higher Perspectives I really hope so too 🙏

    • @theoo149
      @theoo149 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Funny thibg is if you tried to "correct" chrisean and advised how you think dhe needs help she would cuss you out and tell you "bch you dont know me" ya comments on genuine just condescending cause yall think these folks are helplessly miserable lol its weird

    • @juscelinefernandes3674
      @juscelinefernandes3674 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@theoo149 thank you! She knows what she is doing, she will not and doesn’t want to hear nothing right now, let her be. Everybody learns sooner or later

  • @sueellencenac8994
    @sueellencenac8994 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This interview is underrated, love the conversation and prospective ❤

  • @daciakershaw4641
    @daciakershaw4641 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This is everything. Even if Chrisean doesn’t hear it or want help, trust me there is someone out there that watched this podcast and is feeling encouraged . Jess told no lies. Love this young lady❤🙏🏾

  • @sweetashoneyb323
    @sweetashoneyb323 ปีที่แล้ว +891

    Mad respect for Jess and her WILLINGNESS to have a real conversation with another Queen.
    Domestic abuse more often than not leads to death. And far too many times NOBODY REACHES OUT TO THE PERSON WHO IS BEING ABUSED to urge them to get out.
    #StopDomesticViolence💜💜💜

    • @theoo149
      @theoo149 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Whos the abuser in that relationship to you?? cause its not blueface smh

    • @sweetashoneyb323
      @sweetashoneyb323 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@theoo149 They both need to we away from each other. Toxic +Toxic can cause someone to lose their life

    • @thetruthinmasquerade1920
      @thetruthinmasquerade1920 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She's talking ABOUT her not to her. That makes it wrong in so many ways. On a public platform too. Now if that girl beats her up she wouldn't be wrong. Jess need to mind her business. Like she told everyone when she was fk'n that married man

    • @shauny9990
      @shauny9990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@theoo149 they are BOTH the abuser...they beat on each other

    • @sweetashoneyb323
      @sweetashoneyb323 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thetruthinmasquerade1920 if people keep "minding their business " when it comes to domestic violence, more people will die from it
      Jess was talking ABOUT her because #1 she was asked a question and #2 because the lady wasn't there to have a conversation face to face. That's what I got from the interview

  • @gigibeautifulmoore4574
    @gigibeautifulmoore4574 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I'm glad Jess explained it the way she did

    • @deannawilliams9061
      @deannawilliams9061 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Real talk.....fam in B.More. lived there for a few. Only God Knows....God Bless baby girl.. Looking for love hurts more than we know.

    • @soulsistah5738
      @soulsistah5738 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup some people take advice as Criticism she won’t listen anyhow

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV ปีที่แล้ว

      Cuz ppl like taking stuff out of context

  • @cococoif404
    @cococoif404 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is my first time seeing this podcast. Mr. Hill it is such a blessing to have individuals like you walking the planet earth, I’m telling you…that’s exactly it. Our purpose is to help whoever we can. And look at that, after all that, you encouraged Jess to use her influence for good 🙌🏿🫶🏾✊🏿💜🙏🏿

  • @shellesbby
    @shellesbby ปีที่แล้ว

    This was needed..hit the nail on the head

  • @amourg.4371
    @amourg.4371 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    Never underestimate the power of planting a seed. Jess can definitely be Chriseans inner voice that propels her to move forward. She lacks that and it’s obvious even now she’s waiting for that. Truth be told anyone that’s lost in mess will never listen automatically, it’s a process.

    • @wateractivatedmakeup
      @wateractivatedmakeup ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hope so for her bc this wont end well 🥺

    • @mrslassiter2649
      @mrslassiter2649 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m from Baltimore and I know girls just like her and they are usually pretty and have a lot going on for themselves. I just pray she gets it before something terrible happens and it’s too late.

    • @divinelyme4007
      @divinelyme4007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup what you said. ❤

    • @giggl3berrypi3
      @giggl3berrypi3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She had got johnathan tatted on her face as we speak so there goes that .

  • @ChosenVee
    @ChosenVee ปีที่แล้ว +593

    Jess told no lies. Ive been in a situation like this before and many many times ppl warned me and tried to help me but I was choosing him and nothing mattered. Fast forward 2 years later I gave myself to the most high God and allowed Yah to direct my path and changed my life. I hope Rock can open her eyes before its TOO late.

    • @tythatsit7018
      @tythatsit7018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jess spoke bs pure

    • @pamelabanks2544
      @pamelabanks2544 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I PRAY CHRISEAN WAKE UP SOONER THAN LATER.SHE WILL BE SURPRISED HOW FAR HER CAREER WILL GO WITHOUT THIS DUDE..HE KNOWS HIS LUCK IS SOON RUNNING OUT

    • @kailathatgirl
      @kailathatgirl ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🙏❤️ Glad you got out that toxic situation you are very strong to leave

    • @ChosenVee
      @ChosenVee ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@kailathatgirl the Most High had to intervene LITERALLY all praise to The Most High !

    • @dglorious1269
      @dglorious1269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's supposedly a "Christian" (I know unbelievable), and is always quoting scriptures from the Bible. But she's still the same way, and refusing to change. So what does that say?

  • @pennyforyourthoughts1
    @pennyforyourthoughts1 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It's really fucking sad seeing someone with so much potential having the life sucked out of them by a vampire. I've seen to many get lost in the spiral, it breaks your heart. You want to see people succeed and do good things for themselves, and seeing their blessings being blocked by trauma and leeches is beyond vexing. I truly do hope anyone in a position like hers can get out and stay out! It's hard to break that cycle.

    • @bertjones8672
      @bertjones8672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She chooses too fw him. Yall dont understand this girl fought his mom and sister nd also hit on him.. Now its a problem that he hit her back? Nd he been told her to leave and she decided to stay.. Thats on her💯

    • @freemygrandma8752
      @freemygrandma8752 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bertjones8672 she definitely forced herself into that situation. I don't care what nobody say. She's no better than blueface and I'm getting sick of everybody making it seem like she is just because she's a female

  • @spunkky100
    @spunkky100 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The fact that Jess gave clarification to the reality of the situation put her in another light for me that touched all the young ladies that got a blue

  • @DezRaii17
    @DezRaii17 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    "Maybe I'm just projecting how I feel on her." If only more people could pause and realize this in regard to a lot of situations. We make sense of our reality based on our experiences. I love that Jess isn't so stuck in her feelings that her heart was softened and her mind was changed to reach out to her and kudos to Jay for being persistent!

  • @anthonytrufant8058
    @anthonytrufant8058 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    After watching this clip, my respect for Jess has grown exponentially. She has an excellent read on mentorship and relationships. What she says, to be sure, flows out of her reflection on her personal experiences. There is a great deal of wisdom in knowing when and when not to help-that is, not to help yet. Therefore, she has sufficient wisdom not only to pass on but also the wisdom to know when and how to wait until a person she would love to help is ready to listen and learn.

    • @praises2
      @praises2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is by far one of the REALIST comment I've read !!! #Truthbetold #FactsRFacts

  • @QueenBaByDo11
    @QueenBaByDo11 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯We need more of this 💯

  • @AngelStJames
    @AngelStJames ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl this touched my soul you're exactly right. I pray for the young sis.

  • @ksmccoy82
    @ksmccoy82 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Hopefully someone close to her who she will listen to sends her this clip and she takes heed.🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @beautifulflower7970
      @beautifulflower7970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for her🙏🏽❤️

    • @dglorious1269
      @dglorious1269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She listens to no one (Reality). 😑 Watch her videos where people are trying to help her.

    • @ksmccoy82
      @ksmccoy82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dglorious1269 as far as u know. Who knows what conversations she's having when the cameras ain't on? We've all been thru that young and dumb stage so I'm not passing judgement on anybody. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @teresamccraw8791
    @teresamccraw8791 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    It took me nearly almost 9 years, met him when I was 19. My biggest regret is wasting my 20’s. This summer it just clicked, it took a bad incident but we had been thru numerous bad situations. It’s the first time I ever stood in leaving because I finally saw that after years of being there for him he didn’t love me, he benefited from my kindness and empathy. Once those rose colored glasses come off, u realize that they not even the person u thought they was. When Chrisean has that moment, where she can’t even lie to herself about the type of man Blue is, she will leave him. She’ll see that ge is a whole loser.

    • @amberlove1505
      @amberlove1505 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Girl me tooo I met my ex at 19 and didn’t leave until I was 31😩😒 all my 20s just gone

    • @nikkejo9281
      @nikkejo9281 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@amberlove1505 why stay ?

    • @nikkejo9281
      @nikkejo9281 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not judging but why stay smh I don't get it

    • @teiashort1451
      @teiashort1451 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just hope that’s all she do.

    • @amberlove1505
      @amberlove1505 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@nikkejo9281 I was stupid then nd I Love very hard I didn’t believe in myself… it wasn’t till I was ready to wake up it’s been a year since we’ve broken up nd im just now dating… I missed out on a lot believing in someone else more than me

  • @intuitive2lead
    @intuitive2lead ปีที่แล้ว

    Maddddd Respect. It was already there but I had to at least put it into words after watching this

  • @nicematerial
    @nicematerial ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not just an athlete. 'Vibe' is a literal vibe. Prayers for lil Crisean and lovely Jess.

  • @EmoeccentricShawty
    @EmoeccentricShawty ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I get it. I high key cried about it.

  • @jessicachanae9977
    @jessicachanae9977 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    This was a great podcast. Hearing him hype Jess up and encouraging her to help someone else, we need more of this.

  • @donnalacey-bernich3098
    @donnalacey-bernich3098 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur a real one & I can’t explain myself any better than to say… I feel u… Ur energy…
    Ur words & ur knowledge

  • @tamekas
    @tamekas ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This Touched my Soul and it ain't even my Situation!

  • @lockettjenkinsarnita
    @lockettjenkinsarnita ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Jess spoke nothing but the truth and real facts

  • @pilar8ful
    @pilar8ful ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Man his passion to help and appeal to Jess to reach out to Chrisean is admirable and needed. We have to care if we’re all going to get through this thing called life. I love him for that! I understand Jess but, plant the seed anyway.

    • @TheNOchick
      @TheNOchick ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not always so.. u can't cast your pearls before the swine

    • @pilar8ful
      @pilar8ful ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TheNOchick I think you’re taking that scripture out of context. Chrisean is a professed Christian. We are supposed to go get our wayward brothers and sisters and correct in love. Thank you for your comment.

    • @TheNOchick
      @TheNOchick ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pilar8ful nope but ok

    • @isaidwtfisaid304
      @isaidwtfisaid304 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@TheNOchick Let's not... Stay focused on the positive or just 🤫

    • @TheNOchick
      @TheNOchick ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isaidwtfisaid304 yup 🤫

  • @jenellecartwright1838
    @jenellecartwright1838 ปีที่แล้ว

    idk how i stumbled upon this video but i’m glad i did ❤❤❤❤

  • @Glitteraddict1
    @Glitteraddict1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro, this shit made me tear up…
    I couldn’t have said this any better; stated objectively and beautifully. 🥺😢💚💚💚

  • @creativebychoice8797
    @creativebychoice8797 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    My heart just grew even bigger for Jess. I’m from Maryland but don’t know the hard life. So I can only imagine.❤
    But in all honesty Jess, you have the platform.. you’ll feel good to know that you at least dropped a nugget. Something you say could be something she lives for later.
    Hell you just had me crying. This woman is amazing!!!❤

    • @klo.ver_lane
      @klo.ver_lane ปีที่แล้ว +3

      4real!! Me too!

    • @trineseDMVbeauty
      @trineseDMVbeauty ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey my DMV sis🙋🏾‍♀️.....I understand exactly what your talking about!!!

    • @creativebychoice8797
      @creativebychoice8797 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@trineseDMVbeauty yes ma’am! I feel we all have a special understanding. But seeing Jess like this…had me emotional lol

    • @trineseDMVbeauty
      @trineseDMVbeauty ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@creativebychoice8797 Exactly love I was very emotionally as well, but lets be honest I'm a cry baby lol....but anyways you can tell she genuinely feels for ole girl & its sad especially us black girls will automatically feel like we hating when in reality we actually care & don't want to see you hurt 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @steelxwill3210
    @steelxwill3210 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    jess know what she doing. she saying its nothing she can say to her but she still saying it. she know how the internet works and the power of her platform. peace to yall women man🙏🏾

  • @Organicbeauty80
    @Organicbeauty80 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview

  • @sonyapittman7523
    @sonyapittman7523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent interview!

  • @ericarhodes9517
    @ericarhodes9517 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    This made me love Jess in a whole another level !! I been saying for longest I wish someone would grab her hand instead of talking about her because she needs real love and guidance

  • @BefreewithZEE
    @BefreewithZEE ปีที่แล้ว +205

    JESS HAS EARNED MY RESPECT WITH THE HONESTY

  • @Sunshine-lw9ml
    @Sunshine-lw9ml ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re 💯 on this

  • @nijay8267
    @nijay8267 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love Jess for her usual, rawness and honesty! We should pray and try not to judge one another in general. Even when people do things contrary to what we feel as right. It's easy to judge and be annoyed or angry with the next person but if we would choose love and happiness first, we'd see and do so much better. 💓

  • @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
    @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I pray this young lady doesn't lose her life before she mentally gets it. This is why parents have to be present properly in their kids life. She is trying to fill the holes left from having a crappy childhood. Reach out Jess, you never know what she might take in from you 💯.

  • @kingmacio
    @kingmacio ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Jess is right you really got to be in the right space to take constructive criticism and advice. I'm from Bmore too so I get it falling for anything that you want to be love. It's sad but it's a lesson to be learned.

  • @hykuvava2269
    @hykuvava2269 ปีที่แล้ว

    This conversation was everything.

  • @queentingz4802
    @queentingz4802 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I learned my lesson trying to get through to someone who doesn't want to change their situation. Nothing you say will help them until they're ready to help themselves. No need in feeling sorry for anyone who doesn't feel sorry for them self.

  • @ladivee8371
    @ladivee8371 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    BIG respect to both of them for this moment of transparency and realness

  • @indiamecca
    @indiamecca ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She may not hear you now...but she'll never forget the message.

  • @purposedriventv
    @purposedriventv ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the genuineness of this Interview

  • @dazzlerah2957
    @dazzlerah2957 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Respect every word u said !!!! U so right until she ready she not gone Fold 😢

  • @floridaobsessed4953
    @floridaobsessed4953 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She not gonna listen to Jess. Jess mess around & try to help & she'll be ready to fight her. The lil girl gotta grow up.

  • @nataliemaja2947
    @nataliemaja2947 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Mad respect for Jess Hilarious. She may see this video one day when she is ready to hear 👂. Jess is dropping nuggets..She won’t wake up until she is ready. I cringe every time I see her with that missing tooth🤦🏽‍♀️….

    • @stacemo
      @stacemo ปีที่แล้ว +22

      And she got it fixed but took it out because he didn’t like the attention she was getting. Sad af

    • @lifewithceecee9035
      @lifewithceecee9035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stacemo 😭😭

    • @juscelinefernandes3674
      @juscelinefernandes3674 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stacemo but back to her.. can a guy really tell you to remove a tooth you fixed?? She chooses to do this . I don’t blame blue for one thing. He is toxic yes but she is toxic to herself too and allows him to do this. It’s on her

    • @QueenChastity
      @QueenChastity ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stacemo yes he wants to ruin her so nobody else want her. But she’s pretty asf! And somebody will WANT to be with her!

  • @kamaumik
    @kamaumik ปีที่แล้ว

    The realest thing I heard this week.

  • @ladynicee211
    @ladynicee211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so sad but it's true. And we've ALL been there. It may not have been to this extent but everytime someone tried to warn me about my ex it fell on deaf ears because I was "In it". As soon as I got out of it I understood and appreciated what they said. But it was after I broke and I was ready to get out of it myself.

  • @lunatic666100
    @lunatic666100 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I Love Hearing A Sister Talk That Real Shyt

  • @royalt1113
    @royalt1113 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You never know, you may just be that ONE person she MAY hear!!🙏🏽❤️

  • @andrebrown8178
    @andrebrown8178 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need more conversations like this

  • @daniellewilliams2768
    @daniellewilliams2768 ปีที่แล้ว

    She hears you Jess. She will reach out! Been waiting for you to speak out about LilLady🥰Great And Authentic Interview❣️Keep sending that Love and Energy Sis🥰

  • @msjai803biiihh
    @msjai803biiihh ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Everything Jess said is 100% accurate!! I felt that! I personally wouldn’t reach out to her right now bc she is too into BLUE. Her love for him is more than she loving herself. This man has disrespected her repeatedly on multiple occasions and TBH i think she likes that attention. She has a lot of growing to do. I pray for her mental! Thanks Jess for being a real woman and speaking on our young black sister!

  • @wouldntyouliketoknow7058
    @wouldntyouliketoknow7058 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    As a woman it’s hard to see from the outside. Babygirl ain’t ready, real talk. I just hope she wakes up before life passes her by. That girl is powerful and she don’t even know it. Babygirl is literally her biggest enemy and once she wakes up no one will be able to stop her.

    • @KingComp67_-io3iz
      @KingComp67_-io3iz ปีที่แล้ว

      When she hits 30-40+ years old when blueface tries to look for another woman who looks better than her then she will probably wake up if it happens though.

    • @jayrose4748
      @jayrose4748 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol she's a moron and won't get nowhere in life let's be real

    • @osas5211
      @osas5211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not about being ready there’s a lotta things we weren’t ready for but did and was fruitful. Before she knows it she’s 40 yrs old

    • @osas5211
      @osas5211 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KingComp67_-io3iz he does that now Lmaoo she’s jus delusional and trauma brained

    • @kingsweattv2465
      @kingsweattv2465 ปีที่แล้ว

      'That girl is powerful" LMAO and somehow a victim simultaneously SMH

  • @melimel2146
    @melimel2146 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U made me 😭. That’s real . I Pray my daughter never feels she has to be loved makes me step up more !!! shout out to all the young girls and women that never felt love like us so we look for it in the wrong places. We got to break cycle 💯

  • @amira_shmira
    @amira_shmira ปีที่แล้ว

    The Raheem Devaughn picture in the back thoughhhhhh

  • @tiffaniejones1883
    @tiffaniejones1883 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    this is the realest shit i have seen Jess say continue reach out and touch her

  • @meleahsmith5211
    @meleahsmith5211 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Genuineness is so refreshing to see , bless her heart 💙

  • @vaannaah8
    @vaannaah8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was amazing. The way he encouraged Jess, and the way Jess spoke about Chrisean 👏🏼 I hope she sees this.

  • @AmirahSBaker
    @AmirahSBaker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad y'all had a conversation LIKE THIS about Chrisean and Jess said all that cause it's true.. I grew up in Baltimore and people couldn't tell me shit either but I met a man that was able to get through to me and SHOW me how things didn't make sense and how it was more beneficial for my life to make some changes. I learned what I was used to was not good love behavior... I was around people who showed love the only way they knew how and it was toxic. If Jess jump in her DM Chrisean may not hear it right now but she will remember who warned her and who tried to advise her and maybe she'll come later. Just know, you need to have realistic solutions ready to suggest to her if she is willing to hear you.

  • @18Kenney
    @18Kenney ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Jess is telling the truth. She in the trenches and nothing or no one is gone get her out until she’s ready. But I say send the DM Jess.

  • @Jamie-ht5ec
    @Jamie-ht5ec ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ms. Lauryn Hill: "Don't be a hard rock when you really are a gem. Baby girl, respect is just a minimum. N***** f***** up but you still defending 'em."

  • @AJ-cr2rp
    @AJ-cr2rp ปีที่แล้ว

    Not a lie told! The best this could of been said 🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @NurseMomHopelessromantic
    @NurseMomHopelessromantic ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I agree- I’m grateful for people like you in this life❤

  • @Travonna14
    @Travonna14 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This conversation made me respect Jess more. Jess told the truth and I hope she reaches out to Chrisean

  • @carolynharris4519
    @carolynharris4519 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm here after seeing how badly blueface beat her up. I was wondering if there are celebs out there who aren't glorifying their toxic relationship, and is actually seeing the sad story behind it all. This girl needs to find her self worth and we all should help her see that. Don't glorify how she sticks behind blueface because that isn't her loving herself. It's messed up.

  • @dexdadeejay8
    @dexdadeejay8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LA yallll🎉😂😂❤❤❤

  • @char6201
    @char6201 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Jess is 1000 percent right, I was her age and I remember not hearing what my mom would tell me about my boyfriend. I eventually learned the hard way that Mama was Right. I just pray that she is able to grow and learn. She is headed down the wrong rode and it’s sad 😔.

  • @melanie9063
    @melanie9063 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Jess is right,,,, this young lady has to have her own experience, we just have to pray she survives,,,,, She is in the midst of the insanity and can’t see it yet,,,, there WILL be a day when she will say, “ what the fucc am I doing”?… and when she leaves his ass, he will THEN realize how he’s treated her and will try to get her back, by then she’ll be tired and won’t have anything left for him,,,, it’s a process a lot of us have to go through on our journey to Real womanhood, it’s the things that mold and shape us into the woman we are meant to be,,,,,if we survive it and LEARN from it, we truly become “Bad Bitches”, it ain’t the bank Roll or the plastic surgery or the Gwagons that make us a BOSS, it’s the self respect and dignity that is apparent to everyone when we enter a room and men know exactly how to treat us from our first introduction ….. she ain’t there yet,… not yet

    • @MaroonRose3216
      @MaroonRose3216 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I always pray that women in these situations at least leave without a child. So when they’re done, they can really be done. Like karrueche did 😂

    • @lenedrasills9368
      @lenedrasills9368 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said 💯💯 I been there and done that it’s really sad what she is going through and like you said she have to have her own experience cause can’t nobody tell her nothing right now

    • @lalat5899
      @lalat5899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All of this‼️‼️‼️

  • @tmgfilmz3385
    @tmgfilmz3385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That look like DJ Akademiks on the poster behind Jess 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @meliw4142
    @meliw4142 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad I found your channel. I love, love, love Charm City! Jess is being serious right now. I also pray that her words fall on fertile ground.

  • @SB-jt1ur
    @SB-jt1ur ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As a mom.. this situation makes me emotional too.