The truth comes out!

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  • Why did Eden and I break up?
    Watch this video to find out. I tried to keep it short and sweet, the more in depth I was going - the longer the video was. So I’ve kept it short for your viewing.
    Now it’s all out in the open, I feel free.
    Ive been called many things in my lifetime , but don’t ever call me a liar.

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  • @ErinalyshaBarnett
    @ErinalyshaBarnett  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4606

    I just wanted to take a minute to say a BIG thank you to the ongoing support regarding this. As I have well and truly moved on and I have healed mentally - I feel like a better and stronger person now. What I went through really did change me in many ways. I had to learn to re-trust a man. which I did, I'm in the best relationship ever! I never thought id be able to have a normal relationship after what happened because I was so afraid this would happen to be again.
    Im honestly so blessed to have thousands of beautiful, caring and kind fans from around the world still sending me supportive beautiful messages/comments. I wish I could personally sit here and thank every single one of you. Your support does not go unnoticed.
    One last time, Thank you. Thank you for everything!! xoxox

    • @jordan_johnston3481
      @jordan_johnston3481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I love you! Please reply to my reply Erin😍😍

    • @jordan_johnston3481
      @jordan_johnston3481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ❤you Erin so so so much

    • @demps025
      @demps025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You’re so strong & a total fighter ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kalahin3857
      @kalahin3857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg! I can’t believe Eden did this to you

    • @peruker
      @peruker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I thought you were the best person in the villa and also the most pretty girl . I wish You good luck in life

  • @kayleemarilee8161
    @kayleemarilee8161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4729

    I can’t believe the only couple that has lasted are Josh and Amelia

    • @madisonbrennan5925
      @madisonbrennan5925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Yes, there the only one that are still going strong.

    • @brejsildaabazi9836
      @brejsildaabazi9836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      yesss🥺

    • @alicia9527
      @alicia9527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ikr

    • @mariahv3615
      @mariahv3615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      I feel like Love Island couples never last. Josh and Amelia are my favorite though!!

    • @kylapayne539
      @kylapayne539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Because they took it slow at first

  • @sang_sang6377
    @sang_sang6377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3521

    Did anyone watch Love Island during the quarantine and stalked the couples on insta, found out they broke up and ended up here to find out why? 🤣
    I am so happy for you Erin! You are literally the funniest person and no body deserves to be treated like how eden treated you. Stay happy💙

    • @samanthacampanelli7164
      @samanthacampanelli7164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Aqua55 literally what I just did

    • @jessicashirley8904
      @jessicashirley8904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@samanthacampanelli7164 SAME AHAHAHA

    • @andreabloch262
      @andreabloch262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same!!! She stood by him the entire time only to find out he's a complete douchebag. I could see bits of it, but then he would counter it and did maintain some control which confused me and threw me off. I did like on the show how he would defend her, it actually "looked" like he really loved her. Of course we are only seeing what is being aired. Behind closed doors is always where the real #$%^ happens. Ask me how I know.

    • @carrensarmiento8497
      @carrensarmiento8497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is what i did today. I dont want to watch it anymore

    • @makennalayne301
      @makennalayne301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aqua55 me right now

  • @nickyg8757
    @nickyg8757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3105

    love island is about people finding "love" but lets be honest most of the couple's that get out of there, break up a couple months later

    • @unicornqueen4286
      @unicornqueen4286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      well kinda true

    • @lalaslollipop6872
      @lalaslollipop6872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      not related to this but i have so much hope for mollymae and tommy :))) ifykyk;)

    • @siennas7462
      @siennas7462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      taylor went with don and amelia and josh r still together at the least lol but u r right

    • @nickyg8757
      @nickyg8757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Hayden Cox i didn't say i hate love island i actually love but i'm just stating facts

    • @emmariggs7109
      @emmariggs7109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Amelia and josh are the only couple still together

  • @annaa900
    @annaa900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2647

    Anyone just found this all out in 2021? 😂

  • @EmilyCanham
    @EmilyCanham 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3900

    So much love to you, Erin. So glad you managed to get out x

    • @synohu
      @synohu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      love you emily xxx

    • @rubyryan606
      @rubyryan606 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emily Canham omg love you Emily xxxxxxx

    • @leahward1052
      @leahward1052 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mmxcd13mcddonagh49
      @mmxcd13mcddonagh49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I luv u Emily

    • @kerrenmcgill1169
      @kerrenmcgill1169 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel so sorry for you

  • @zainabalyaseri4787
    @zainabalyaseri4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3200

    His anger in the villa should’ve already been a red flag😂

    • @zainabalyaseri4787
      @zainabalyaseri4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      raq 01 I totally agree she had her eggs in one basket and was very closed off it’s like she was forcing him to be with her throughout the whole show. Because you can tell his head was getting turned by millie a couple times but she would force him to stop

    • @zainabalyaseri4787
      @zainabalyaseri4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      raq 01 yes!!! She was extremely toxic in the villa and she turned Cassidy to be an evil person as well during it. But ya eden and Erin is like putting gas into a fire

    • @joelfernandez8131
      @joelfernandez8131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      zainab alyaseri lmfaooo his anger she usually the one getting mad 🤣🤣 for some dumb shit

    • @aprilsilvers381
      @aprilsilvers381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @raq 01 oh please. Just because she was honest? Everytime they disagreed she was smiling and happy 5 min later

    • @aprilsilvers381
      @aprilsilvers381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @raq 01 why are you even here? To be a troll?

  • @juniibaloonii950
    @juniibaloonii950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3671

    You could tell he was a cheater, he would always be messing around with Millie constantly even after she said to stay away from her

    • @juniibaloonii950
      @juniibaloonii950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      NINJA VIP messing around with other girls physically in the pool and being with them while they are showering doesn’t seem loyal to me 😂

    • @juniibaloonii950
      @juniibaloonii950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      NINJA VIP that’s not what I said silly. You’re so riled up about my comment, I’m just saying IM NOT SURPRISED HE TURNED OUT TO BE A CHEATER. You clearly didn’t watch the show. His lie detector said he wasn’t ready to only sleep with her. Plus you should always take what your girlfriend says into consideration, he was manipulative. But thanks for your opinion😝

    • @kavenkaven4989
      @kavenkaven4989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Junií Baloonií
      Although Erin was way too insecure and mean to Millie, women’s intuition shouldn’t be messed with. If she asked him to stay away from her, he either should’ve said, “no,” or stayed away. He didn’t. He would calm Erin down through manipulative tactics and reassure her, then go back and do the same thing :) that’s a red flag for a cheater

    • @kavenkaven4989
      @kavenkaven4989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      dominique
      Yes, when one person is a liar and manipulative it won’t work.
      I’m glad he found someone that he could finally shed his old toxic ways for. I hope Erin does the same

    • @Stewyyy
      @Stewyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Erins just an over exaggerated bitch

  • @iamelian6614
    @iamelian6614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1977

    Damn that should be a show “ life after love island” it would probably get higher ratings lol

    • @yanellepulse1663
      @yanellepulse1663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      On me it would

    • @KanojoDevi
      @KanojoDevi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I would watch the Crapp out of that

    • @bananaandstrawberrymilk9956
      @bananaandstrawberrymilk9956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KanojoDevi ohhh shitttttttttttttt mic drop

    • @user-vw4ur9zb9w
      @user-vw4ur9zb9w 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they probably made the show bc of this comment omg

  • @charlotteblitzblum93
    @charlotteblitzblum93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4669

    Kill us Both???? What the hell. So Proud of you and How you tell this

  • @jaelynrutledge8570
    @jaelynrutledge8570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3674

    Sounds like he has a drinking problem

    • @kamathash
      @kamathash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ye

    • @haleemaammaad5718
      @haleemaammaad5718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes I can tell right now

    • @gaiaatkins9258
      @gaiaatkins9258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jaelyn Rutledge HERE YEA

    • @leonbuster7690
      @leonbuster7690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jaelyn Rutledge Looks, sounds, and feels like maybe both parties did something wrong. Y’now, just maybe.

    • @jhnbxedu6195
      @jhnbxedu6195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just dont talk about that

  • @malloryknox9127
    @malloryknox9127 6 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    When I saw the argument between Eden and Grant I knew that he is violent. I'm not surprised at all. You can do so much better. Just the best for you, dear Erin ✌️

    • @LeNguyen-cy6qk
      @LeNguyen-cy6qk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mallory knox there was also one incident during the last few eps where Erin and Eden were arguing but you could see Eden was trying to manipulate the situation for public opinion. I think he was murmuring “not now”, as in not now since they were close to announcing a winner of Love Island. It’s hard not to believe Erin, when watching how intimidating Eden’s whole demeanour was towards his cast mates on the show -and he’s a prison guard!

    • @serenanelson2687
      @serenanelson2687 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Le Nguyen omg I noticed the “not now” bit that Eden said too 😲
      ... what a very telling moment about his character now that we know the rest of the story hey 🤔

    • @mimiphe2453
      @mimiphe2453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was the way he shouted at Taylor so aggressively like he wanted to intimidate her

    • @malloryknox9127
      @malloryknox9127 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LeNguyen-cy6qk you are right. And when he said to Shelby : watch ME win.... I was sure HE 😉would not win and they would break up after Love Island.

    • @emilyw4236
      @emilyw4236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i reckon the first fight Eden and grant had when he was pushing the girls out of the way was when fucking the whole of Australia realised he was violent. He just seemed so fake from the start

  • @lisaemilyfox6848
    @lisaemilyfox6848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    When he started really shouting at Tayla it did make me think he had that side to him tbh

    • @nattymaclive
      @nattymaclive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Truth - that was full-on screaming in her face which is why Grant jumped up. I thought that was wild how quick he was so quick to behave that way. I don't think they drank much on the show, but his true colours really show when he hit the bottle in the real world. Booze, man. I believe everything she is saying.

    • @marinae1495
      @marinae1495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      For sure...I thought that was sooo bizarre. Like a normal man would never act like that

    • @nezytarek9864
      @nezytarek9864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Do u lot not remember when she said I’ll stab him with a knife Lool just cuz he said Millie was pretty

    • @noyes837
      @noyes837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nezytarek9864 yeah but erin jokes like that i’ve learned while watching love island that erin jokes like that

    • @nezytarek9864
      @nezytarek9864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@noyes837 she really doesn’t cuz she was full on angry when saying
      It if she was joking she would’ve been laughing but she stormed off and then called Millie clapped she’s just not well in the head

  • @isabellaxo8195
    @isabellaxo8195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2631

    2019 gang where u at ❤️

  • @summerestaloza1930
    @summerestaloza1930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3536

    I love erin because she's so confident. ☺

    • @serkomaani4346
      @serkomaani4346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      her "confidence" is a shell to her real insecurity and that shows in the show, she flips cos Eden freaking hugged Millie.. that shows how insecure she really is

    • @serkomaani4346
      @serkomaani4346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @studying season u cant act that long time when u have cameras all around u.. She is clearly very insecure

    • @angelaudios9629
      @angelaudios9629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Severi Kettunen your boyfriend shouldn’t be hugging other girls tho? that’s rude unless specially when he has something for the girl

    • @serkomaani4346
      @serkomaani4346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@angelaudios9629 u serious? So Erins behaviour is acceptable then because of one hug? He didnt have anything for Millie u clearly didnt watch the show..

    • @angelaudios9629
      @angelaudios9629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Severi Kettunen lmao I watched every part of it he even said in the lie detector he found her attractive so you can sh now🙂👏🏼

  • @hannahgambell9012
    @hannahgambell9012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    Well done Erin on telling the truth and sticking up for yourself and everyone who's suffered domestic violence.
    Anyone who's watched love island should be able to have spotted how much of a bully and hothead Eden is. You just need to count the amount of times he nearly got in fights with other islanders. I honestly think he's the reason you never came first, everyone loves you xx

    • @sammyz4eva
      @sammyz4eva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hannah Gambell he was 100% the reason they didnt win everyone saw how much of a bully he was

    • @MrsKerryLee
      @MrsKerryLee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I absolutely agree with you Hannah! I love Erin but when Eden bullied Grant it really saddened me! I lost respect for him and stopped liking Erin. So glad that you left him! You're a beautiful human!
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @lilyrose59264
      @lilyrose59264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With all the screenshots of the text messages do you know who was texting them and who the text were from

    • @Retrosenescent
      @Retrosenescent 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're both the reason. They were both toxic bullies on the show

  • @brookejones9618
    @brookejones9618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +788

    Makes me angry to hear that the producers wanted to silence you too. You survived abuse and Eden is an abusive person. The producers tried to hide that and protect him. Stuff like this should never stay hidden. Thank you for coming forward with your story I appreciate it and many many women appreciate it. It is so hard to get out of abusive relationships.

    • @Rangersarethebestintheuk2023
      @Rangersarethebestintheuk2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @annaswift5142
      @annaswift5142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love island is saying if your hot you should not be single witch is wrong becouse its better to be single that dateing a toxic hot that has a massive dowen there. im glad erin relized its better to be sing that date a toxic person before things got worse

  • @cmdnadald123
    @cmdnadald123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1429

    That took guts erin, honestly I wasn't much of a fan but you've gained my respect and support, this is such a common issue and us girls really do need to stand up against these boys

    • @karinajoanna2513
      @karinajoanna2513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you for sharing your truth Erin! It takes a lot for anyone to go through what you did and share it with the world. Domestic Violence isn’t just physical- it takes form in so many different ways and no matter what type (mental, social, emotional, financial, spiritual, etc) there ALL unacceptable. Hopefully with this video, all the people who follow you and may not, will gain something out of your video. To never settle for an abusive relationship!
      Your so beautiful, inside and out! Keep being the Authentic person that you are. Truly inspiring.
      Much love!

  • @koraijb5454
    @koraijb5454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2039

    Your relationship on love island seemed so toxic that I’m not even surprised at all that this happened

    • @moizmoosajee1432
      @moizmoosajee1432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Well technically most of the toxic stuff was because of Erin lol
      But in the end they broke up cause of eden

    • @koraijb5454
      @koraijb5454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Moiz Moosajee right

    • @resegommolawa7542
      @resegommolawa7542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No lie.

    • @resegommolawa7542
      @resegommolawa7542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moizmoosajee1432 so true

    • @alaasusername
      @alaasusername 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Moiz Moosajee she was such a bitch to EVERYONE including Eden.

  • @_mialeea_
    @_mialeea_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1333

    2020 where you at

  • @antoniamarie2963
    @antoniamarie2963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1060

    It's NOT small incidents that you're describing. These are what we call "red flags" for domestic violence. Having been through it myself you were right to leave before it got worse, because trust me, it gets so much worse. ❤

    • @legit1318
      @legit1318 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bree Phoenix completely agree, watching him on the show i couldn’t believe she didn’t see how aggressive he was. He seems like a pig to be honest.

    • @101poumi
      @101poumi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      milissarayne she wasn’t better she said that she will kill him with a knife

    • @legit1318
      @legit1318 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Football Winner haven’t heard anything about that. Guess no one knows completely how everything went down. But i was generally commenting on how aggressive he was just by watching him on tv before any of this happened. I thought he was horrible when the show was airing when she was completely in love with him, so i’ve never liked him from the start. Her saying she was going to kill him obviously isn’t great, but if she was being abused like she said it was probably a defence mechanism. but like i said who knows how any of it actually went down. I’m sure him and her both aren’t completely innocent in this situation. violence is never a good thing no matter what. But i still think erin is much more likeable than eden. just my opinion

    • @101poumi
      @101poumi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      milissarayne true but she said that in the lie detector episode. The only true couples are Millie and mark and josh and Amelia

    • @portiam5725
      @portiam5725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Antonia Marie I’ve been through it too. And you are right, it does get so much worse. It’s like being in a bath tub but the water is slowly getting hotter and hotter until one day it’s burning your whole body 😞 Glad it’s over now!

  • @lolaeishold-lewis8424
    @lolaeishold-lewis8424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    i love you so much eden didn’t deserve you. you deserve a guy who is willing to be loyal to you and help you not cheat on you and act like your the crazy one you’re so beautiful and you deserve so much peace and happiness it’s edens lost

  • @mikebender8521
    @mikebender8521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    Is anyone surprised by this outcome? Eden was such a bully during the show.

    • @serenaqin2908
      @serenaqin2908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      think he almost argued with 80% of the crew mbrs

    • @mickeymouse-pu1ic
      @mickeymouse-pu1ic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Erin IS ALSO A BULLY. She's nasty.

    • @angelc5435
      @angelc5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@mickeymouse-pu1ic I felt the same way. She was just as bad as him. It also seem like she would try to provoke the guys by her comments just for Eden to react.

    • @takakoohata3234
      @takakoohata3234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Both of them, Eden and Erin were bullies! 🥴

    • @wenddyy3206
      @wenddyy3206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Both of them🤮

  • @lauradiana1
    @lauradiana1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +711

    I haven’t finished watching Love Island but I’m shocked and it’s gonna be weird watching it when I know the reality.

    • @kelseymelly474
      @kelseymelly474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same

    • @indiamcginty3900
      @indiamcginty3900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know me too 😳

    • @kerry6449
      @kerry6449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I don’t want to watch it anymore! I loved Erin and Eden from what I have watched so far. So glad that she got out of the relationship though💛

    • @indiamcginty3900
      @indiamcginty3900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kerry yes I know it’s so sad how some people can turn 🥺

    • @kerry6449
      @kerry6449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      India McGinty I know 😕It just shows what can go on behind closed doors as they seemed perfect for each other in love island (from what I have watched so far).

  • @juliewillard1367
    @juliewillard1367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1334

    Josh and Amelia should have won, Grant and Eden were players.

    • @fierceunicorn3188
      @fierceunicorn3188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      Ikr idk why tayla and grant won they were like the most fake worst couple

    • @jxd1e283
      @jxd1e283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Sarafina Ouattara Tayla wasn’t fake it’s just Mr crap who is the fake one

    • @simranbhalla353
      @simranbhalla353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Tayla and grant were my fav couple but after I realised what grant did poor tayla 😑😑

    • @bay2176
      @bay2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Am watching love island now. Grant is so fake.

    • @javinak8470
      @javinak8470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jxd1e283 yh she was when Cassidy left the villa did u see how her and Millie were talking about her?

  • @ohhellomarianne
    @ohhellomarianne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Two years late but I LOVE YOU. I'm glad you walked away from him and I'm sure you're happier now! Miss seeing you with the girls, tho! :(

  • @YasmineArt
    @YasmineArt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    Omg Erin I'm so sorry this happened to you but thank GOD nothing worse did happen ! From his behavior on TV, he seemed to be a very aggressive guy. Good for you, you managed to leave that toxic situation. You'll find the man you really deserve

    • @kitabGo
      @kitabGo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is better than her

    • @bellarichardson1399
      @bellarichardson1399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel so bad it least you know the truth

    • @YasmineArt
      @YasmineArt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes I do believe this girl. Just from the few bits that we saw on tv, he kept doing exactly what he knew would piss her off, messing with Millie. You respect your girl, you don't do that. You can argue and say "but he did some nice gestures to her", yes he did, just like Grant who ended up having a real girlfriend on the outside world when he was on the show lol

    • @ytcarlo1575
      @ytcarlo1575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck in your future relationships you are amazing and you were the best to watch

    • @MusicManiac223
      @MusicManiac223 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kitabGo are u blind

  • @mitsukislife
    @mitsukislife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I’m so sorry this happened Erin!! Eden has shown his true colors, a dangerous cop with anger issues! I’m glad you’re safe and in a better place now ❤️

  • @rexiikaq
    @rexiikaq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +932

    Erin was my favorite person on the love island... I feel sorry that that happened to her....

    • @leonbuster7690
      @leonbuster7690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      KarinMe I feel sorry for ANYONE that had to deal with her issues.

    • @applestix3491
      @applestix3491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      How can someone so toxic be your favorite?😳

    • @erickwalker1357
      @erickwalker1357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What

    • @Dr-abdelazizmimi3707
      @Dr-abdelazizmimi3707 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can u tell me the purpose of this programme thanks 🙏

    • @megs_vids
      @megs_vids 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same I loved her!!!!! I feel so sorry

  • @zzzzyva
    @zzzzyva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2707

    when I saw you on love island I was like WOAHHH your SOOOO prettyyy 😍😍👑

    • @dianaisdirty6065
      @dianaisdirty6065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the lad sameee😍😍

    • @lybsm8516
      @lybsm8516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She still is ❤❤❤

    • @karlavillacis2419
      @karlavillacis2419 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      the lad so your saying that now she’s ugly no no no no she is so beautiful

    • @zzzzyva
      @zzzzyva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karlavillacis2419 I didn't say that sksks😂

    • @lucybress9507
      @lucybress9507 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @eveogilvie3083
    @eveogilvie3083 5 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    Erin: here’s the tea
    *midway fixing her eyelashes* 😂

  • @justpeachybaby271
    @justpeachybaby271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    He was wild on the show. He literally tried to beat up Grant twice on an aired show. He has a kid now, i seen on Insta so unfortunate for u n I'm glad u made it out sis. but hope to god he's changed for himself and at least his kid

    • @cikaanzalna3717
      @cikaanzalna3717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wowww surprisingly!

    • @jobuie
      @jobuie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Grant the liar? 🤣🤣 think he would deserve that

    • @aoifeshelley1749
      @aoifeshelley1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jobuie by name is aoife Shelley from cork if you what you can txt me now ara your in love lsland with maura and Enin if you what you can txt me ok

    • @qaje4589
      @qaje4589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She was just as wild tho, they are cut from the same cloth. Knew it wouldnt last and what shes sayin in this video already sounds like shes playin victum, "scared for my life" when she threatened his multiple times!!!

    • @justpeachybaby271
      @justpeachybaby271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@qaje4589 shes firey yeah, eden tried to beat up grant twice on a tv show, so could you imagine him behind closed doors. Nah shes no angel but she deserved better than him n his behaviour

  • @al-on1nx
    @al-on1nx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    “And u all just sat there holdings hands and singing ring around the rosy”. This killed me 😂😂 7:14

  • @Kayleewallace_
    @Kayleewallace_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Oh my god 😨 I’m so glad you got out okay. Far out girl you are so much better. What a dog, never thought he was much good.

    • @rabia4886
      @rabia4886 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kaylee Wallace u totally right

    • @mickfork6343
      @mickfork6343 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg awwww

    • @mickfork6343
      @mickfork6343 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      girls like these they deserve jerks they don't deserve a good men !!

    • @tantanmustdie
      @tantanmustdie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      dogs are nice

  • @thereidenfamily240
    @thereidenfamily240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1014

    It was obvious from the start that eden has anger issues, ur lucky u got out of it soon... he would have ended killing u or hitting u the least.

    • @tantanmustdie
      @tantanmustdie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She does as well

    • @KitKat-hn9ou
      @KitKat-hn9ou 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop hating

    • @taliasandell7337
      @taliasandell7337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kit Kat tf he’s not. He’s telling her that it was good that u left that toxic relationship

    • @taliasandell7337
      @taliasandell7337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Miles colinson nope

    • @reaksa9332
      @reaksa9332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      remember where teddy chose her for a talk and he was super angry... and u could see his anger. also, when him and grant were having a fight while grant was trying to protect tayla

  • @pixl8me
    @pixl8me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    The alcohol was controlled whilst they were in the villa. Real thug appears outside.

  • @MakeupFairy039
    @MakeupFairy039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    This is horrific I’m so sorry this happened to you

  • @drey3866
    @drey3866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Honestly could see it in that guy. Luckily you got out early before any more damage was done and we are all hoping for someone great to walk into your life hun xx

    • @drey3866
      @drey3866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      PS. interested to see what bs Eden makes up to defend his ass from this. Going to be hilarious watching him panic

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You could see it so clearly

  • @tmacmac5574
    @tmacmac5574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    "so your telling me that you and those four strippers were in the room holding hands playing ring-a-ring-a-rosie" shit that made me laugh so hard....

  • @imycairns3286
    @imycairns3286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    When Eden went off on one with grant in the villa I honestly saw that he was an abusive person but there was nothing that anyone could do about it to help you in that villa 🥺

    • @elizabethbrenya6940
      @elizabethbrenya6940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same that was a big red flag

    • @WaveForceful
      @WaveForceful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      To add to that, Eden was agressive with Taylor, a women and then legit tried to fight Grant for telling him not to talk to a women that way, throttled him and the lot. Look if anyone had done that to me thats it in my eyes, were done, no going back from that. Eden proved he was a bad person the moment he did that.

  • @syndicateci526
    @syndicateci526 6 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    He is really abusive I’m so glad you left

  • @sarahcoyle7836
    @sarahcoyle7836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    You were my favourite on love Island your so beautiful ❤️

    • @ErinalyshaBarnett
      @ErinalyshaBarnett  5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YAY! Thank you so much for your love and support x

    • @babygurlsani2175
      @babygurlsani2175 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mines to but also tayla

    • @gracemoua3941
      @gracemoua3941 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tooo

    • @aoifeshelley1749
      @aoifeshelley1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ErinalyshaBarnett how are you maura and Enin can you maura and Enin and eve and jess text me now if you what you can txt me back please okay

  • @abigailmchugh6110
    @abigailmchugh6110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    I am so surprised of eden's behaviour honestly and I cant believe he did that! Watching this video and hearing what he did disgusted me! I'm so sorry that you went through that and I hope you're ok! I love your videos so much by the way! ♡

  • @gracieolivia6626
    @gracieolivia6626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    He was labelled a bully on the show expecially to grant and teddy I felt so bad for teddy cause he used to be bullied

    • @IyaahA
      @IyaahA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      He made fun of jaxon because his height too.

    • @bryanCCC
      @bryanCCC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I hate eden man I was trying to put him on the good side but no at the end he is a guy who belongs in the prison

    • @chrisjenkins203
      @chrisjenkins203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@IyaahA Erin was just as guilty at making fun of jaxons height. I don’t doubt anything Erin said in this “tell all” but I still think Erin is a manipulative liar, based on what I saw on the show. Everyone knows an “Erin”. It’s that girl that is really pretty on the outside but manipulative and evil on the inside. She 100% reflected those attributes throughout the show. Her and Eden were always starting trouble, Erin was always sticking her nose in everyone’s business and she had no problem being that sneaky couple, along with Eden. I always remember when Shelby started to like jaxon and the first thing Erin did was question her about jaxon’s height. This made Shelby feel that liking jaxon would be weird at that point because of his height. That was just one example of how cunning Erin was and showed her true colors. I obviously disagree with everything Eden did towards Erin that was violent but just don’t feel Erin is the perfect person she wants everyone to think she is.

    • @xdreamscape
      @xdreamscape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      literally though. i felt soo bad for teddy ): did not deserve that. i hope he finds love

    • @arceline07
      @arceline07 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrisjenkins203 spot on. Erin is a manipulative bully. An instigater.

  • @coconeclayton9235
    @coconeclayton9235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1438

    Love you Erin! Congrats on 30k!!! I cannot wait for more videos ;)

    • @kahliagregory2391
      @kahliagregory2391 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      COCOOOOO!!! i love you

    • @taliasandell7337
      @taliasandell7337 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cocone Clayton coco Ilysm!!!! Omg

    • @user-bt5wq9jf5u
      @user-bt5wq9jf5u 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cocone Clayton wait wtf she's at 41k

    • @hvp5651
      @hvp5651 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ALL HE WANTED WAS THE PRIZE MONEY

    • @malloryknox9127
      @malloryknox9127 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hvp5651 exactly and I always thought that.

  • @user-tf7nn7fp7t
    @user-tf7nn7fp7t 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Thank you for being so open about your experience with domestic violence. It is so true with what you said, this is how it begins and it ONLY gets worse from there. It's the cycle of domestic violence. Hopefully this video inspires others to leave unhealthy relationships.

    • @datwoopthing6167
      @datwoopthing6167 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yet she stayed with him ... How can you respect this shit.

    • @samthegreat1341
      @samthegreat1341 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@datwoopthing6167 not for long troll!

    • @datwoopthing6167
      @datwoopthing6167 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sam The Great lol troll for my comments 😂

  • @gabriellekamil8773
    @gabriellekamil8773 6 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Pls stop hating on Erin she puts hard work and Dedication to her videos.I love you Erin

    • @andrew0025
      @andrew0025 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dedication lmao? She's only got 2 vids 😂😂

    • @handykamil1944
      @handykamil1944 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andrew Camilleri i think she ment in her videos it us hard to make videos

  • @drjennilarson
    @drjennilarson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Erin, thank you soooo much for being so brave and sharing your story! I can 100% relate to being in an abusive relationship! Falling into the unhelpful behavior of shame and secrecy, thinking I did something wrong and deserved it and keeping it a secret... it took me 11.5 years to leave, but I did! And now I get to enjoy my healing journey!!!

  • @luvwoniie
    @luvwoniie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    I LOVE U. U dont need Eden u are strong beutifull and gorgeous. He dosent need u.
    EDIT: thanks for the likes

    • @tillysmith6563
      @tillysmith6563 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      zahra ali Ik this is random but my friend has the same profile picture as you but for his insta 😂😂😂Ik it’s irrelevant but i had to say

    • @MYCUUUUUUUU
      @MYCUUUUUUUU 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go back to school

    • @begs2270
      @begs2270 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gorgeous is wrong lean how to spell hahaha jkjk

    • @valerie76
      @valerie76 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@begs2270 learn*

    • @luvwoniie
      @luvwoniie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MYCUUUUUUUU lol i am in school

  • @watchmewatch9
    @watchmewatch9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Us Americans are just getting around to having watched L.I. Season 1 as it was just released on HULU in the U.S. Let me just say that I could see that this show initially brought out the best in Eden as he couldn't drink too much and had to behave because of being monitored 24/7. I'm guessing he was the best version of himself he has ever been and even though he played the alphamale of the Villa for the most part, he seemed measured and well-tempered. I will say that when he had the near fight with Grant later in the series, I really saw the bullying and true nature start to come out in Eden and I actually felt really bad for Grant as he is the one that walked away so it didn't escalate whilst Eden was taunting him with the group and pilling on. I thought to myself, "Oh man," this guy is not a nice man and is definitely hiding and holding back shit. Let me say this too. Erin you are adorable and he was smart to couple up with you and clearly you saw the really good side of him as everyone else did. But in any relationship, it takes a little while for the cracks to appear. So sorry that Eden wasn't able to allow that experience to change him for the better having such a sweet and beautiful partner by his side. As others have noted, clearly he has a serious drinking problem which only exacerbates his anger issues. Best of luck to you Erin.

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I just watched season one and I agree with everything you said! Erin deserves somebody that makes her feel all the good things without any of the aggression, threats, cheating, or any of that crap. I’m so glad that she stayed safe.

  • @vir72l
    @vir72l 6 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Anyone else notice for Edens bday his love island boys (Dom & Josh) weren't there? Also on their instagram videos/photos you don't see them hanging out anymore since all this has come out! Also Josh and Eden both live in Sydney so you would think they hang out more, kind of makes what Erin says is true and his boys are no longer his mates as DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is not acceptable by any means!!! Stay strong Erin and all the best for your future!

    • @LeNguyen-cy6qk
      @LeNguyen-cy6qk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Jonson Phim they probably were only friends with Eden during Love Island as they didn’t want to be in the crossfire! He’s very aggressive and intimidating on the show. And I know someone will bring in the “editing” card but it wasn’t a one off incident on the show.

    • @peterstephenson5548
      @peterstephenson5548 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Le Nguyen I totally agree I think they were probs too intimidated to go against him. I thought he had deep seated issues on the show.....just masked it well for the most part

  • @sanny-nk9re
    @sanny-nk9re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Eden used to be a prison guard and a most prison guards have PTSD, anger issues, and other issues stems from working in prisons

    • @emilyklein4238
      @emilyklein4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      That’s not an excuse for his behavior though

    • @andrepereira744
      @andrepereira744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nanh ,his just a bully

    • @sanny-nk9re
      @sanny-nk9re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@saruhhhh the way he act

    • @sanny-nk9re
      @sanny-nk9re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emilyklein4238 but a girlfriend who genuinely loves him would understand him and help him work through his issues instead of breaking up with him and being selfish

    • @sanny-nk9re
      @sanny-nk9re 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@andrepereira744 he is a bully because of his past, nobody is born a bully

  • @izzyscammell6261
    @izzyscammell6261 6 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I’m from England and still watched love island Australia. I could tell that Eden was a very angry person when him and grant had that fight on the show. Btw I think you handled that out very well. It brought tears to my eyes when you told the TRUTH and I know you Erin wouldn’t lie because from watching love island you say the truth and what you want. Not in a rude way though. I’m so sorry for you going through that abuse and anxiety especially as you do acctually have anxiety. Don’t beat yourself up about not leaving him sooner because it sounds like he wouldn’t allow that because he seemed very controlling. Even though I don’t know you and it probally sounds a bit weird but your we’re my favourite islander❤️and I hope your ok and you can move on from Eden very very quickly. You probally won’t read this but I love you so much❤️❤️❤️

    • @Josay56
      @Josay56 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So could i because when teddy picked Erin. Edens face turned red

    • @penny6453
      @penny6453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my goodness.. Remember?? That evil stare. I was genuinely scared and thought to myself, he is putting on a really good show but, that isn't a good guy. He turned red and ....ugh.

    • @tosh7989
      @tosh7989 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      No shit just watch all of the episodes with him and Millie and when he was bullying Teddy just cause he went on ONE DATE with Erin

    • @aureliaansah1462
      @aureliaansah1462 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Australian Kangaroo
      And there was a slow motion scene where all the boys were running along the beach. You can see Eden push Justin hard, to make him fall face first into the sea. I just knew that move (under the pretence of joking around) was done maliciously. Let's just say Eden's not the type of man who would tolerate an effeminate man within his vicinity.

  • @brennank3538
    @brennank3538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    What he did is abusive! Thank god you got out of that situation!! I hope you find a real man x

  • @elleceleste
    @elleceleste 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    i'm so glad you were able to gain enough courage to leave him, i remember watching love island and supporting you through out the whole series since i liked your strong personality and the way you would stick up for yourself and your friends. It was really sad to watch each episode and to see the way Eden manipulated you into believing things and forgiving him, the way he acted was very similar to the way a high school bully would act, a lot of anger issues and having to feel the need to seem bigger than somebody else, pretty immature if you ask me. All the things he did were definitely warning signs, no "man" should ever feel the need to force a woman or try to intimidate a woman. I'm honestly so relieved you were able to leave before anything got worse, I will continue to support you Erin and I hope you will find someone better in the future :)

  • @tfortoooooom8215
    @tfortoooooom8215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Thinking of u Erin! Who’s watching this during lockdown

  • @NoelleFrancisco
    @NoelleFrancisco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    Brave girl. Hope you’re ok. 👌🏽

  • @melodywang3532
    @melodywang3532 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    can we all take a moment to appreciate Erin and how strong she is? Kudos to her for being so kind, sympathetic and brave

  • @Kunstenaarus
    @Kunstenaarus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I was so sad when I saw that you two broke up but now I’m so proud of you. I cannot believe you had to endure that pain and horror. I cannot imagine what it’s like to be so terrified of someone to that extent. I’ve gone through abusive with a significant other and I was scared and had those moments of “oh my gosh this is the moment, he’s really going to hit me!” It’s one of the most horrible things ever. I’ve been in a car where a significant other has threatened my life, you feel helpless...I’m so sorry babe. The extent of things in your case were brutal and I honestly can’t even imagine. I truly hope that you learn to heal from this and be okay. You’re such a gem, always was my fav. Sending so much love your way in this healing process 🖤✨

  • @mxeve9455
    @mxeve9455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Erin. I totally respect you for posting this video, Spreading awareness is so helpful to others and this is so amazing. Thank you

  • @addysonnichols3632
    @addysonnichols3632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    So 4 strippers came up and you all were just holding hands and singing ring around the rosy

  • @wf440
    @wf440 6 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Im sorry you had to go through this, but the red flags were all over him from love island, im surprised that you didn't notice that sooner especially the way he treated Teddy and got violent with Grant.
    Anyhow, kudos to you for speaking about this stuff because i know it wouldn't be easy.

    • @tonypaul2857
      @tonypaul2857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That was my problem with Erin, she sat there silent when Eden was bullying and wanting to fight people that disagreed with him.

    • @shakiraedwards7666
      @shakiraedwards7666 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We don’t have to get all petty about Erin! She’s gone through enough don’t you think!!

    • @Fbitypeshit
      @Fbitypeshit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wf even the way he walked was annoying me, like he was trying to look big all the time

  • @victoria-alexiswilson97
    @victoria-alexiswilson97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I love you Erin. You were my fav Islander from Day 1 and are still to this day. I’m so sorry that you had to go through domestic violence. I may only be 13 but I know what it feels like. Love you so much!!!

    • @saranagode8003
      @saranagode8003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Victoria-Alexis Wilson she was my favourite too

  • @Sara-di8ij
    @Sara-di8ij 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I knew he had an anger issue!! I saw the signs & feared for your relationship. I’ve been in toxic relationships & I’m so proud of you for getting out!! It took me 11 years to gain strength to get out of my previous one. You deserve the very best doll!! 💜

    • @Ace01234k
      @Ace01234k ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least he’s not ur brother

  • @kinsleyperkkns1144
    @kinsleyperkkns1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1252

    I just figured out DOM IS DATING TAYLA

    • @SA-pw3oz
      @SA-pw3oz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      How?

    • @victorktv8429
      @victorktv8429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@SA-pw3oz cause grants a baby.

    • @holliek6458
      @holliek6458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      And also Uhm josh and Amelia are still dating. Tayla and don and josh and Amelia are all best friends

    • @lillyyy2
      @lillyyy2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Grant is ugly no offense

    • @siennabevan8108
      @siennabevan8108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kinsley Perkins ikr

  • @stefelizabeth2714
    @stefelizabeth2714 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Sounds exactly like my ex. Iwent through the worst few years of mental and physical abuse. It would of got worse. I'm so glad you had the strength to get out. And encourage other women. Good on you beautiful girl xxx

  • @thedailyhunters9602
    @thedailyhunters9602 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I was not expecting that, I’m soo sorry you had to go through that. You’re so brave ❤️

  • @An-iy9ct
    @An-iy9ct 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    What is your type?
    Erin: Taller than me
    Millie: well that's anyone. Kidding
    Erin: talk inside *I hate you and I'll never forget this.

  • @iwantmoney6663
    @iwantmoney6663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    “I know I’ll never cheat on Erin” So wtf happened??

    • @shahfc7585
      @shahfc7585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He didn't cheat. He abused her. Which tbf is probably worse but he didn't cheat

    • @queenabri2315
      @queenabri2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shahfc7585 he did cheat she even put the messages screenshots of what he sent

  • @susiemarkuse2246
    @susiemarkuse2246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Erin you’re such an amazing and inspiring woman. You’re such a fighter and I hope you’re ok. Xx

    • @brunosantez6334
      @brunosantez6334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No she isn't

    • @aoifeshelley1749
      @aoifeshelley1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sara Aziz by name is aoife Shelley from cork if you what you can txt me back ara your in love lsland with maura and Enin if you what you can txt me back please now okay

  • @fanahazrin5069
    @fanahazrin5069 6 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Erin, you need to take care of yourself because he knows where you stay and such. Please I don’t want anything bad to happen to you. I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and it didn’t just fucked me up physically. It freaking fucked me up emotionally and mentally too. I’m still healing from my 10 years relationship and I respect you for walking away before it’s too late. Don’t waste your time on this type on boy, you deserve better babygirl. Take care and stay safe always. ❤️

  • @charlottetimms9692
    @charlottetimms9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    drunk actions are sober thoughts babe. i’m sorry this happened to you:(💔

  • @janitaeastman8248
    @janitaeastman8248 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Erin you are a strong and beautiful woman who is truly an inspiration so you go girl keep it up 🥰😍😘🤗

  • @angie_music58
    @angie_music58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +845

    He is so disgusting rude arrogant like what the hell

    • @arlimando9745
      @arlimando9745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Grant also..Only Josh was the most genuine and honest of all and he finished third..Maybe if Amelia came early they'd have won

    • @leonbuster7690
      @leonbuster7690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blue Sapphire What...? He’s the disgusting one here? Did you like, watch the show or somethin?

    • @leonbuster7690
      @leonbuster7690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sala Wala Dude, Grant? Really?

    • @ricoshayoj5284
      @ricoshayoj5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good guys finish last

    • @scrumdalicious6117
      @scrumdalicious6117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leon Buster he is disgusting lol. I was on his insta page a month ago or so and someone commented “yikes I feel bad” to a pic of his new gf and he literally called them ugly by saying “I’d feel bad if I looked like you too” and that person was a literal child. so I commented saying “imagine degrading children by their looks instead of ignoring 🤡” and he continued to bash me by saying “imagine being stupid, why don’t you say it on your real account” and I commented on my spam..

  • @adelinechai359
    @adelinechai359 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    One thing I love about you is you’re strong, you had Cassidy’s back the whole time on Love Island and you stayed true to yourself regardless of what people say. I love you so much and you don’t need to be another man’s babysitter, you’re your own woman and don’t feel sorry for anything because it’s his loss, not yours.

  • @braevajames6871
    @braevajames6871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    When I was watching him on love island I got a rlly bad vibe from him. My intuition was right

  • @ilsebeekwilder
    @ilsebeekwilder 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I recognize myself in you babe. I'm so proud of you breaking up with him and chosing for yourself...

  • @cheyennetrude905
    @cheyennetrude905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Literally just got done with the episode where Eden and Grant get into a fight and where Teddy takes Erin on a “date”. I thought to myself “Eden looks like he could be really abusive.” Just looked up Erin and came across this.... 😳😳 Dude... wtf is wrong with him??!! Erin is soooo hot and sooo sweet 😭

  • @ShaniGrimmond
    @ShaniGrimmond 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1065

    ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ebonyi4056
      @ebonyi4056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shani Grimmond ♥️♥️

    • @calb1ck
      @calb1ck 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      omg shani!!!! I LOVE YOU! you actually remind me of tayla from love island australia xx

    • @reneepocock3161
      @reneepocock3161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i feel terrible for erin- hoping i can send my love 😘❤️

    • @tosh7989
      @tosh7989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erin this was such a similar situation

    • @tosh7989
      @tosh7989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      With my parents

  • @user-ni1zf3ps2b
    @user-ni1zf3ps2b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I can’t keep watching this. My sister went through domestic abuse and she had a court case only a few weeks ago because he beat her up in front of their one year old child. He almost killed her. Just know, I’m so proud of you Erin. Erin we love you. I’m so so proud of you ❤️

    • @jengaffney933
      @jengaffney933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell Your Sister That She is A Tough Bad Ass

  • @calaisvl2
    @calaisvl2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    2:55 HE IS A PSYCHO, not only is he putting himself and Erin in danger he is also putting others around him in danger

    • @melodydeese1964
      @melodydeese1964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      calaisvl2 I liked them as a couple on Love Island, and was sad to hear they broke up. But I had my doubts about eden. If he worked for a prison, he would naturally have to have a real mean streak to keep those prisoners under control. Most men with that kind of job, end up getting used to that atmosphere, and the violence seems normal.

  • @kenziesmithson5581
    @kenziesmithson5581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    And when I saw the show I thought you guys were a power couple but noooo... Eden was a idiot and lost the best girl ever

  • @emmyssebunyaemmy6851
    @emmyssebunyaemmy6851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    He was so arrogant he took advantage of ur love for him

  • @alyssawonderlandd245
    @alyssawonderlandd245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’ve had similar experiences with someone just so drunk and out of control and I believe this story 100% I could see watching back how eden never knew when to stop with his violence and threats to the other boys. I do feel like he could do with some rehab hope it happens. All of this is so dead on with exactly how men act when they are out of control popping pills drunk etc... I don’t think you fabricated this one bit. Glad you moved through it. Good luck

  • @KirstieRoche
    @KirstieRoche 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    So sorry you went through this hun, out of everything I hope this video really does help girls leave if they are in a similar situation. I know damn well I wouldn’t stick around ❤️❤️

  • @gmoleta1662
    @gmoleta1662 6 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    You know one of the reasons why alot of people decided not to vote for you aside from the bullying was because it was evident for the viewers that he was really violent and has anger issues . He was also not as genuine as you think he was. So, him doing those things to you on Camera was scary enough. Imagine you, experiencing this.
    I’m relieved tho you are okay. I cant imagine how traumatic this is for you because even i just watching him with the squabble with grant made my hair stand up.

    • @dsaints6896
      @dsaints6896 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Daenerys Clarke he definitely displayed those tendencies within the house. We’re agreed on that. She also displayed violent tendencies when Eden said he found Millie attractive and made herself look violent as well. I think there is a lot more to this than she is letting on. As the old saying goes, there’s always three sides to every story. His, hers and somewhere in the middle is where the truth is.

    • @melissahickey4449
      @melissahickey4449 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes dont make her out to be little miss innocent. She was far more psychotic than Eden in that villa

    • @dt6968
      @dt6968 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You pussy

  • @methulinanayakkara7106
    @methulinanayakkara7106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Erin honey you’re beautiful inside and out! You didn’t deserve to go through that and I’m sorry. No one deserves to be intimidated like that. A guy used to treat me like that too and it’s not okay. The best solution is to let go of a toxic relationship because you don’t deserve it. Don’t worry you’ll find the right man it just takes time. Stay strong ❤️ xx

  • @aimeegrace100
    @aimeegrace100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I fully believe you, I'm watching now in the UK and his actions in the villa are worrying. I've always found him to be 'off' so far, and now we know why!

  • @nataliewokachick3029
    @nataliewokachick3029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    and this is a prison officer. OMFG

  • @isabelledawson2491
    @isabelledawson2491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    Litteraly just finished binge watching love island, love ya btw you were my fav❤

  • @euphorcia6170
    @euphorcia6170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The funniest thing about this shower thought is that the couple who were a ‘ couple ‘ for a long time in love island broke up and then the couple who weren’t a couple for a long time still stayed in their relationship. Like im sh00kkkkkkk

    • @izzymax1
      @izzymax1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which ones stayed together?

    • @emmacranford74
      @emmacranford74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Izz Max Mille and mark

    • @SB-jm6bs
      @SB-jm6bs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@emmacranford74 they're not together anymore. Amelia and Josh are tho

  • @raycanavan5363
    @raycanavan5363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Could tell he had a temper from the start. Just knew by the head on him.

  • @elainahjade8242
    @elainahjade8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    U could hear the fear in her voice u poor girl Erin
    Plus the first red flag is u can’t ship ur names jokes luv ya Erin
    I no I spelt poor wrong I don’t care
    Stop giving me shit about spelling

  • @1topfueldrag
    @1topfueldrag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    wow that’s a switch from the day he asked you to be his girlfriend. Sorry you had to go through that.

  • @merlezibolsky6094
    @merlezibolsky6094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Love You, Erin!!! You are so strong, Eden doesn't deserve you❤

  • @jussfrxn
    @jussfrxn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I noticed the toxicity of this relationship, and it scared me a lot. I’m so so sorry for what happened to you, you’re amazing and so gorgeous! Do not let any man put you down, beautiful! We love you!!

  • @imabot8088
    @imabot8088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Love you can’t believe he would do something like that thank god your safe

  • @erinberry4705
    @erinberry4705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    So sorry that you went through this hun! However you are so strongest chick to bring this to light, use your platform to empower other girls to leave!! Xoxo

  • @kylenesoar7937
    @kylenesoar7937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Good on you for sharing your story and encouraging others to get out of abusive relationships. I 100% believe what you said happened, him pushing his face up against yours.. he did that on Love Island argung with someone else got up in their face and wouldn't back down. I'm sorry you had to go through that very scary i totally commend you for getting out and being strong. Take care of yourself xoxo

  • @zarajay6604
    @zarajay6604 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Erin finally seeing Eden the way we have all seen him on TV was honestly needed 💁🏼‍♀️ A volatile pair together for sure 💔