Darn it! I accidentally deleted a comment that was advocating dinner as a first date. My apologies. The reason we don't do dinner as a first date is because it is too long of a period just sitting there in the earliest stage of a relationship. The chances are simply too high that you will say something....and it may be something innocuous or small, that will turn a woman off. You want to keep conversations short, light, and funny early on. That is why we do short action dates for the first 3 dates. Also, when you are spending a good amount of money on a woman right out of he gate it sends the wrong message: It tells her that her value is higher than yours, and therefore you have to pay to be around her. These reasons are why we avoid dinner dates early on. Save the dinner dates for later, when she is falling in love with you,
Darn it! I accidentally deleted a comment that was advocating dinner as a first date. My apologies. The reason we don't do dinner as a first date is because it is too long of a period just sitting there in the earliest stage of a relationship. The chances are simply too high that you will say something....and it may be something innocuous or small, that will turn a woman off. You want to keep conversations short, light, and funny early on. That is why we do short action dates for the first 3 dates.
Also, when you are spending a good amount of money on a woman right out of he gate it sends the wrong message: It tells her that her value is higher than yours, and therefore you have to pay to be around her.
These reasons are why we avoid dinner dates early on. Save the dinner dates for later, when she is falling in love with you,