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Bravo for another deep teaching. When I'm undecided, sometimes, I roll dice. Then I evaluate how okay I am with the dice's choice... And make my decision accordingly.
I have been watching your videos daily for a few days straight now and this one has been the one that resonated with me the most. After it finished, I felt powerful and capable of getting through my situation. Thank you so much for providing these life teachings to us as they make a difference for many of us! ❤️❤️❤️
I like the philosophy, feel the fear and do it anyway. Also, I’ve learned it’s better to be in that red light feeling and doing the correct thing then regretting it later and your life constantly being a red light feeling.
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Thanks David incredibly helpful and educative. I am from a counselling psychology background and 12 steps. Authentic self I began to hear of through the counselling psychology of humanism, Carl Rogers and Rollo May...to find out real authentic true selves through the process of sharing, being real and feeling....it's a long-term process. Also describing the tension between conditions of worth & societal expectation as a tension, blockage to true self...what you call duality. In 12 step also the need for spiritual and emotional authenticity is described in recovery...along with step 11....quiet time, meditation, reflection..conscious contact with Higher Power or 'the god of your understanding'. Thanks again for all your hard work and educative videos...
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I am so blessed to have come across the two of you. Very helpful when I hear the dialogue between the two of you. As Alex asks the perfect questions. She is real and your answers are to the point. The repetition of certain words methods and life lessons are perfect for me. As I hear it over and over and over. No excuse to say oooh I forgot ! Thank you
I have listened and learned for many many of your videos and will continue to and be grateful for them but this one is my absolute favorite so far thank you so much with all my heart💗🙏
I have learned action is better than in action. You can always go back and rekindle that friendship or go back to the dealership but don’t lose momentum.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I agree Red Light Feelings are real and intense, let's find out why you choose to create them. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you both for this great video - so well explained and very applicable to a life choice I have to make. I currently feel waiting a while is the right thing for me to do, so thank you for validation.
Hi Robyn - we're glad you enjoyed the video :) If you can connect to and work with your Shen energy (Inner Voice) more this will serve you well! Alex + David x
Sometimes action is better than inaction especially if it’s going to be something that affects you a month from now you might forget about it write it down and put it in your purse or wallet and deal with it when the fear subsides
I love all your videos but this one especially hits home. I almost always get into trouble when I try to insist on certainty and now I know why I do that and it makes so much sense. I’m infinitely grateful for your teachings!
Hi Steven we appreciate your kind feedback - thank you! If you have any questions about the discussion please let us know and we'll be happy to help you. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
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You are so right David. I’m a new subscriber. Started. listening yesterday and everything I’ve heard I already know, that’s what I said to myself and to hear you say that I already know these things , wow. Glad i chanced upon you, but then again i already know it wasn’t coincidental.
We're glad you've found us Mawusi! Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
If you get that feeling, even if it’s in the middle of a car contract or house deal walk away action is better than inaction it’ll be your mistake to make
I have recently discovered Taoism after practicing meditation for a couple of years. Everything I have watched and experienced has resonance with my search for truth. I came to this video on your channel, looking for a starting point to my education. Where/what would you recommend? Thank you.
What is the source of Shen? It is mysterious and something that you were born with and can't be taken away or impacted by another person. I agree. Sometimes, my intuition comes with clarity out of nowhere, solving a complex problem at work and not just a gut feeling. Isn't the inspiration coming from something greater than myself? A higher power?
Hi @tomWil245, Indeed, Shen is the divine spark within us all, present from the moment we come into being. It's a profound connection to something greater, a source of intuition and inspiration that can guide us through life's complexities. Trust in this inner wisdom, as it is a unique and untouchable part of who you are. If you're looking to explore this further, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a space for you to discuss these moments of clarity and share in the collective understanding. Regards, David
Thank you for this. I was actually working through a related matter when this landed in my inbox. It has answered some different questions but thrown up more on this topic. Particularly in relation to the book Blink. It explains that sometimes we can just know something at gut level before we have time to think. It's almost the reverse of what you say here, HCM speaks first. I find that the more time I give to something the more confused and circular my thinking becomes. It seems like I need to act before my HCM gets a chance to become involved. It reminds me of when I was learning to touch type. When I trusted that I knew where the keys are I could get great wpm speeds I only faltered when I thought about it. What is the difference between these situations and the process you describe? How come the more time I give to something, or consider it, the more clouded, unclear my thinking becomes, the more I start to question the thoughts that come up, the more confused they are in a downward spiral? It feels like the opposite of sitting with something and connecting with my authentic self. I feel further away than ever from knowing what voice to trust, (although I've made note of CCJ and will monitor that)
Hi Rachael, thanks for your question. I have not read the book BLINK, so I'm unsure of its conclusions. Some of the key points of the video teaching relate to controlling your Human Centred Mind (HCM) and Inner Child... not allowing it to take you into the 'Maze Of Confusion' (that you label clouded, unclear and confused thinking)... and also resisting the 'Carousel of Despair' type circular agreements. The message is about becoming connected to your Shen and true Inner voice, and not being rushed or bounced into quick 'knee jerk' decisions. The authentic choice and decision should be clear and made from truth and honesty... this way you will be able to follow your authentic path and journey. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David
Hi Rachael, I'm reading Thinking, Fast and Slow which dives deep into automatic and emotional thinking (System 1) - I guess "the dog" is what these two would call it, versus deliberate more effortful thinking (System 2) which I guess is that pause that helps us investigate the feelings. It's a little confusing to call all of these things "intuitions" I think because our intuitions are often flawed, primed by trauma. Instead, you can train your mind to have better, "expert intuitions" (I'm guessing many of the examples in Blink are of "expert intuition"). Kahneman says that Blink really did us a disservice by oversimplifying and giving too much of a magical quality to intuition. If your interested, Kahneman speaks about it here: th-cam.com/video/CjVQJdIrDJ0/w-d-xo.html I'd love to know what David and Alexandra think about this book.
I relate to the content in your comment. I sometimes have a knowing - a flash of knowing - and I act quickly. These actions almost always have good consequences with no room for future regret. But with extra time to think, I can get stuck in inaction. In this space is where I get restless, indecisive, fearful, miserable even. I’m learning through these videos how to identify this. I liken your learning to type by touch with riding my motorcycle. Where I look, I go. If I allow myself to gaze off to the right, my motorcycle goes right too. I must look forward to move forward.
@@tiffanybriery4127 we also haven't read TF&S - but will check that out too! :) Sometimes the semantics/labels can be confusing in trying to define the concepts. For example, we have to refer to 'intuition'/'Inner Voice' as these are the terms most commonly used in the West. What we are really trying to differentiate between is the difference between the Tao concept of 'Shen' energy (no direct translation in Western language) and that of the 'Human' energy or our Human Centred Mind/Inner Child - and how we balance and follow the authentic flow of these energies and the 'guidance' they give us to find Wu Wei. We talk about the contrasts a little more in this video: th-cam.com/video/Q8K7Ia-Oj3g/w-d-xo.html
Great video, thank you! I have one question..:) Who is YOU that takes final decisions? If inner child is not you, if mind doesnt control you either, if shen is also only offering the way yet waiting for your decision - who/what part/where is the final decision maker in us? I can feel the inner child, sometimes - intuition, and other parts of me, but I can't grasp the "actual boss-me":)
Hi Aushrine, We are pleased you enjoyed our video. The YOU is a description of your Human Centre Mind/Inner Child and your Shen in Wu Wei *balance* - this is the wholeness or Oneness of you. We have talked about this in many videos. So, The 'Boss-You' or authentic you is when you are in truth, balance and harmony. Living with integrity, following your intention and taking full emotional and self-responsibility. Connecting to your Shen and learning to quieten the loud voice of the HCM/Inner Child can help you find this authentic balance. Have you watched our 3-part series on Shen yet? FINDING YOUR HIGHER SELF - Your Spiritual Self Explained th-cam.com/video/YeJ7_u5gp3s/w-d-xo.html MY SPIRITUAL LIFE - How to Be Spiritual In Daily Life (Without Religion) th-cam.com/video/OkVwBbz9Ees/w-d-xo.html YOUR DIVINE PURPOSE EXPLAINED - The Simple Way to Live Your Purpose & Passion th-cam.com/video/YgwKSKWrRJ4/w-d-xo.html David
OMG this video is so good I've listened to it over and over again do you guys do meet and greet🤔 do you do seminars🤔 if you're ever in Florida please send me a schedule please
Hi Raven Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video - we appreciate it! We have many US clients and supporters who we work one-to-one with via video call (including several in Florida!) so hopefully one day we'll run a US speaking/workshop tour. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you so much for these videos at 48 years of age 🙅I came to myself🤔 listening to your videos how to really really set me on the right track thank you 🖖for the information you provided can't wait for the next video😍
Good question! Our beliefs and thoughts create our emotional feelings. Emotions are psychological states, physical feelings. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you for this video, it has been very helpful. I get red light feelings due to fears I have of being humiliated and judged in certain situations. I also have fears of being too embarrassed to speak up due to be an annoyance or inconvienance to others. Im doing work on these beliefs which have developed over many years. Sometimes if a situation comes up that is similar to one previous experienced where I had red light feelings I assume its going to happen again, and the anxiety builds in the lead up. My question is - do you have any techniques on not expecting or assuming the red light feelings will come? I guess techniques on being more present and focusing on the fact that you are alright today and you don't know what tomorrow will bring.
Hi Nicolina - thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're publishing a brand new video tomorrow on the topic of anxiety and fear of the future so this should help you with your question - please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel so you get notifications every time we add a new video (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom Here's other videos that may also help you: ~ Dealing with Rejection - The Truth About Rejection th-cam.com/video/mIlyn4MjDA8/w-d-xo.html ~ How to Speak Your Truth + Why It Matters: Tips + Advice th-cam.com/video/GIl_UlemKfU/w-d-xo.html If you have any questions on these videos please just ask us! We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
Hi. Thanks for the video. How do I become more in tuned with my inner self and know what it really wants? At first i was overthinking which resulted to me running away from a relationship (long distance relationship) and then after a while my mind started doing the reverse.. i started to question myself why i ran away when he didnt do anything to hurt me. Im so confused. I believe our long distance relationship is something that could really trigger anxiety but how do i know for sure what to do. Im so confused.
This is a question I often address with my clients. On a positive note it is something you can do for yourself.
If you have a look at some of our other videos we demonstrate the Golden Thread Process, a self-discovery technique that allow you take self-responsibility for you Human Centred Mind and mindset.
We have a saying in Wu Wei Wisdom: 'you cannot change what you don't understand' ...So, you have to do that work to 'own' you truth and make clear your intention.
This process will enable you to be much clearer on the voice of you true Shen/spirit and your Human Centred Mind and Inner Child.
Why don't you consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
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What do guys think about Buddhism & ideas such as “having a self image in general creates suffering” & that “positive thinking is just staying in the mind”? I feel so confused between hearing these teachings & then hearing these. Kind of ironic as this video has to do with intuition.
I have a question ..what happened if I make inner voice for to much. ... i have inner voice anytime when I am alone. .talking to myself and this happens together with imagination ore thoughs .is this dangerous ? Ore what is this...sorry for my English .I need your help
Hi Mario, Thanks for your question, I think I understand :-) Everyone has that inner voice! So, I would be more interested in what it is saying to you. Is it critical, comparing you with others and judgemental? Or is it positive and encouraging you to move on with your life? This inner voice is what you have to listen then control. Remember you control your mind, your mind does NOT control you! Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David
@@WuWeiWisdom this for me is everything not only critical or motivation ... This for me happen before I meet someone ..i analyze the words of i can say to him ore and they can probability say to me .But this look like conversation ...For me this happens and in experimental ideas .If I make a project I can speak with my self for details and many times this help me ...but the think of they worries me is ..when I am in stressed I make this .i remember happy times and happy conversation and I repeat the words and add more words ...words than will make the conversation more beautiful if I can say thet when the conversation happen in .but i am low interest in activity .. is this dangerous?
Hi Mario, As I said before I do not believe that self talk is dangerous, because everyone has an element of self talk. If I understand you correctly you are saying that when you are stressed you try remember better or good times I think this is good practice and I would encourage you to concentrate on more positive thoughts and intentions. I wish you well thank you for taking the time and trouble to listen and comment on our videos. Daivd
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Many thanks David & Alex. Wu Wei teaching are helping
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. We are pleased they are helping on your journey. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
There’s so many videos out there this one is the most coherent and down to earth. one thing I might add his thoughts or not fax
Bravo for another deep teaching. When I'm undecided, sometimes, I roll dice. Then I evaluate how okay I am with the dice's choice... And make my decision accordingly.
I have been watching your videos daily for a few days straight now and this one has been the one that resonated with me the most. After it finished, I felt powerful and capable of getting through my situation.
Thank you so much for providing these life teachings to us as they make a difference for many of us! ❤️❤️❤️
I like the philosophy, feel the fear and do it anyway. Also, I’ve learned it’s better to be in that red light feeling and doing the correct thing then regretting it later and your life constantly being a red light feeling.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thanks David incredibly helpful and educative.
I am from a counselling psychology background and 12 steps. Authentic self I began to hear of through the counselling psychology of humanism, Carl Rogers and Rollo May...to find out real authentic true selves through the process of sharing, being real and feeling....it's a long-term process. Also describing the tension between conditions of worth & societal expectation as a tension, blockage to true self...what you call duality.
In 12 step also the need for spiritual and emotional authenticity is described in recovery...along with step 11....quiet time, meditation, reflection..conscious contact with Higher Power or 'the god of your understanding'.
Thanks again for all your hard work and educative videos...
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I am so blessed to have come across the two of you. Very helpful when I hear the dialogue between the two of you. As Alex asks the perfect questions. She is real and your answers are to the point. The repetition of certain words methods and life lessons are perfect for me. As I hear it over and over and over. No excuse to say oooh I forgot !
Thank you
Two great things in the video for me. 1. The HCM voice coming from the outside and 2. Waiting for the energy to change. So helpful.
💜 ...great learning Jenice!
I have listened and learned for many many of your videos and will continue to and be grateful for them but this one is my absolute favorite so far thank you so much with all my heart💗🙏
Hi Lesley McMillan, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x
Love this! I completely agree. The answers are all within each one of us. We just need to tap in to explore, have patience and reflect on it.
Feel the fear and do it anyway
My intuition has never been wrong I just don’t follow it out of fear. But I’ve learned action is better than inaction
I have learned action is better than in action. You can always go back and rekindle that friendship or go back to the dealership but don’t lose momentum.
wonderfullly explained. thanks
fear feeling is real, it’s hard to describe.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I agree Red Light Feelings are real and intense, let's find out why you choose to create them. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you both for this great video - so well explained and very applicable to a life choice I have to make. I currently feel waiting a while is the right thing for me to do, so thank you for validation.
Really good. Couldnt have come at a more perfect time. Sometimes the shen way is to wait.
Write down your intuition’s Word for Word and put it in your purse or wallet, or behind your phone case you can deal with it once the fear pass
Thank you for this. I am learning to trust my intuition more and I find this really helpful 💚
Hi Robyn - we're glad you enjoyed the video :)
If you can connect to and work with your Shen energy (Inner Voice) more this will serve you well!
Alex + David x
Thank you. This was a great video.
Hi Bonnie - thanks for your kind feedback as always!
What was your most powerful takeaway from this teaching?
Alex + David x
Sometimes action is better than inaction especially if it’s going to be something that affects you a month from now you might forget about it write it down and put it in your purse or wallet and deal with it when the fear subsides
I love all your videos but this one especially hits home. I almost always get into trouble when I try to insist on certainty and now I know why I do that and it makes so much sense. I’m infinitely grateful for your teachings!
Thanks for sharing! Kind regards, David.
thank you-helps a lot
Hi Steven we appreciate your kind feedback - thank you!
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Great effort
If it’s a safety issue like you got a bad feeling around someone always air on the side of safety
You guys are great,, i always find ypur information very grounding healing and practical
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You are so right David. I’m a new subscriber. Started. listening yesterday and everything I’ve heard I already know, that’s what I said to myself and to hear you say that I already know these things , wow. Glad i chanced upon you, but then again i already know it wasn’t coincidental.
We're glad you've found us Mawusi!
Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you!
If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.
We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
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I loved this, it's really helping me as I'm struggling a little, thus video gas helped me immensely, thank you 🙏❤️
Thanks Mvarie - we're glad the teaching helped you! Sending Qi your way and do let us know if you have any questions :)
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Listening 1st time. LOL at some great yet comical analogies/metaphors.
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I see this as criticism vs gentle support/encouragement
If you get that feeling, even if it’s in the middle of a car contract or house deal walk away action is better than inaction it’ll be your mistake to make
I have recently discovered Taoism after practicing meditation for a couple of years. Everything I have watched and experienced has resonance with my search for truth. I came to this video on your channel, looking for a starting point to my education. Where/what would you recommend?
Thank you.
What is the source of Shen? It is mysterious and something that you were born with and can't be taken away or impacted by another person. I agree. Sometimes, my intuition comes with clarity out of nowhere, solving a complex problem at work and not just a gut feeling. Isn't the inspiration coming from something greater than myself? A higher power?
Hi @tomWil245,
Indeed, Shen is the divine spark within us all, present from the moment we come into being. It's a profound connection to something greater, a source of intuition and inspiration that can guide us through life's complexities. Trust in this inner wisdom, as it is a unique and untouchable part of who you are. If you're looking to explore this further, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a space for you to discuss these moments of clarity and share in the collective understanding.
Regards,
David
Thank you for this. I was actually working through a related matter when this landed in my inbox. It has answered some different questions but thrown up more on this topic. Particularly in relation to the book Blink. It explains that sometimes we can just know something at gut level before we have time to think. It's almost the reverse of what you say here, HCM speaks first. I find that the more time I give to something the more confused and circular my thinking becomes. It seems like I need to act before my HCM gets a chance to become involved. It reminds me of when I was learning to touch type. When I trusted that I knew where the keys are I could get great wpm speeds I only faltered when I thought about it. What is the difference between these situations and the process you describe? How come the more time I give to something, or consider it, the more clouded, unclear my thinking becomes, the more I start to question the thoughts that come up, the more confused they are in a downward spiral? It feels like the opposite of sitting with something and connecting with my authentic self. I feel further away than ever from knowing what voice to trust, (although I've made note of CCJ and will monitor that)
Hi Rachael, thanks for your question.
I have not read the book BLINK, so I'm unsure of its conclusions.
Some of the key points of the video teaching relate to controlling your Human Centred Mind (HCM) and Inner Child... not allowing it to take you into the 'Maze Of Confusion' (that you label clouded, unclear and confused thinking)... and also resisting the 'Carousel of Despair' type circular agreements.
The message is about becoming connected to your Shen and true Inner voice, and not being rushed or bounced into quick 'knee jerk' decisions.
The authentic choice and decision should be clear and made from truth and honesty... this way you will be able to follow your authentic path and journey.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support.
David
Hi Rachael, I'm reading Thinking, Fast and Slow which dives deep into automatic and emotional thinking (System 1) - I guess "the dog" is what these two would call it, versus deliberate more effortful thinking (System 2) which I guess is that pause that helps us investigate the feelings. It's a little confusing to call all of these things "intuitions" I think because our intuitions are often flawed, primed by trauma. Instead, you can train your mind to have better, "expert intuitions" (I'm guessing many of the examples in Blink are of "expert intuition"). Kahneman says that Blink really did us a disservice by oversimplifying and giving too much of a magical quality to intuition. If your interested, Kahneman speaks about it here: th-cam.com/video/CjVQJdIrDJ0/w-d-xo.html I'd love to know what David and Alexandra think about this book.
I relate to the content in your comment. I sometimes have a knowing - a flash of knowing - and I act quickly. These actions almost always have good consequences with no room for future regret. But with extra time to think, I can get stuck in inaction. In this space is where I get restless, indecisive, fearful, miserable even. I’m learning through these videos how to identify this.
I liken your learning to type by touch with riding my motorcycle. Where I look, I go. If I allow myself to gaze off to the right, my motorcycle goes right too. I must look forward to move forward.
@@GwenMotoGirl thanks for your helpful share... we hope you found the video helpful :)
Alex + David x
@@tiffanybriery4127 we also haven't read TF&S - but will check that out too! :) Sometimes the semantics/labels can be confusing in trying to define the concepts. For example, we have to refer to 'intuition'/'Inner Voice' as these are the terms most commonly used in the West. What we are really trying to differentiate between is the difference between the Tao concept of 'Shen' energy (no direct translation in Western language) and that of the 'Human' energy or our Human Centred Mind/Inner Child - and how we balance and follow the authentic flow of these energies and the 'guidance' they give us to find Wu Wei. We talk about the contrasts a little more in this video: th-cam.com/video/Q8K7Ia-Oj3g/w-d-xo.html
Great video, thank you! I have one question..:) Who is YOU that takes final decisions? If inner child is not you, if mind doesnt control you either, if shen is also only offering the way yet waiting for your decision - who/what part/where is the final decision maker in us? I can feel the inner child, sometimes - intuition, and other parts of me, but I can't grasp the "actual boss-me":)
Hi Aushrine,
We are pleased you enjoyed our video.
The YOU is a description of your Human Centre Mind/Inner Child and your Shen in Wu Wei *balance* - this is the wholeness or Oneness of you.
We have talked about this in many videos.
So, The 'Boss-You' or authentic you is when you are in truth, balance and harmony. Living with integrity, following your intention and taking full emotional and self-responsibility.
Connecting to your Shen and learning to quieten the loud voice of the HCM/Inner Child can help you find this authentic balance.
Have you watched our 3-part series on Shen yet?
FINDING YOUR HIGHER SELF - Your Spiritual Self Explained th-cam.com/video/YeJ7_u5gp3s/w-d-xo.html
MY SPIRITUAL LIFE - How to Be Spiritual In Daily Life (Without Religion) th-cam.com/video/OkVwBbz9Ees/w-d-xo.html
YOUR DIVINE PURPOSE EXPLAINED - The Simple Way to Live Your Purpose & Passion th-cam.com/video/YgwKSKWrRJ4/w-d-xo.html
David
OMG this video is so good I've listened to it over and over again do you guys do meet and greet🤔 do you do seminars🤔 if you're ever in Florida please send me a schedule please
Hi Raven
Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video - we appreciate it! We have many US clients and supporters who we work one-to-one with via video call (including several in Florida!) so hopefully one day we'll run a US speaking/workshop tour.
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@@WuWeiWisdom thank you so much for these videos at 48 years of age 🙅I came to myself🤔 listening to your videos how to really really set me on the right track thank you 🖖for the information you provided can't wait for the next video😍
@@ravenstroke9115 never forget how awesome you are! Our next video will be out on Sunday... we'd love to hear what you think of it :)
Thanks for the informative video.
I just want ask what’s the difference among feelings, thoughts and beliefs?
Good question! Our beliefs and thoughts create our emotional feelings. Emotions are psychological states, physical feelings. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Sorry about the mistyping!! Should be this video has helped me !!! 😏
No problem! ;)
Thank you for this video, it has been very helpful.
I get red light feelings due to fears I have of being humiliated and judged in certain situations. I also have fears of being too embarrassed to speak up due to be an annoyance or inconvienance to others. Im doing work on these beliefs which have developed over many years.
Sometimes if a situation comes up that is similar to one previous experienced where I had red light feelings I assume its going to happen again, and the anxiety builds in the lead up. My question is - do you have any techniques on not expecting or assuming the red light feelings will come? I guess techniques on being more present and focusing on the fact that you are alright today and you don't know what tomorrow will bring.
Hi Nicolina - thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video.
We're publishing a brand new video tomorrow on the topic of anxiety and fear of the future so this should help you with your question - please feel free to subscribe to our TH-cam Channel so you get notifications every time we add a new video (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ th-cam.com/users/wuweiwisdom
Here's other videos that may also help you:
~ Dealing with Rejection - The Truth About Rejection th-cam.com/video/mIlyn4MjDA8/w-d-xo.html
~ How to Speak Your Truth + Why It Matters: Tips + Advice th-cam.com/video/GIl_UlemKfU/w-d-xo.html
If you have any questions on these videos please just ask us!
We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions
and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
Alex & David x
Hi. Thanks for the video. How do I become more in tuned with my inner self and know what it really wants? At first i was overthinking which resulted to me running away from a relationship (long distance relationship) and then after a while my mind started doing the reverse.. i started to question myself why i ran away when he didnt do anything to hurt me. Im so confused. I believe our long distance relationship is something that could really trigger anxiety but how do i know for sure what to do. Im so confused.
Thanks Janice,
This is a question I often address with my clients. On a positive note it is something you can do for yourself.
If you have a look at some of our other videos we demonstrate the Golden Thread Process, a self-discovery technique that allow you take self-responsibility for you Human Centred Mind and mindset.
We have a saying in Wu Wei Wisdom: 'you cannot change what you don't understand' ...So, you have to do that work to 'own' you truth and make clear your intention.
This process will enable you to be much clearer on the voice of you true Shen/spirit and your Human Centred Mind and Inner Child.
Why don't you consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support.
David
Thank you!
What do guys think about Buddhism & ideas such as “having a self image in general creates suffering” & that “positive thinking is just staying in the mind”? I feel so confused between hearing these teachings & then hearing these. Kind of ironic as this video has to do with intuition.
Ego will say things like you don’t know the future and do you want to kill a 10 year friendship over something that may or may not happen.
Being verbally, abused by parents really messes up your confidence in you going with your intuition versus your fear
I have a question ..what happened if I make inner voice for to much. ... i have inner voice anytime when I am alone. .talking to myself and this happens together with imagination ore thoughs .is this dangerous ? Ore what is this...sorry for my English .I need your help
Hi Mario,
Thanks for your question, I think I understand :-)
Everyone has that inner voice! So, I would be more interested in what it is saying to you.
Is it critical, comparing you with others and judgemental?
Or is it positive and encouraging you to move on with your life?
This inner voice is what you have to listen then control.
Remember you control your mind, your mind does NOT control you!
Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support.
David
@@WuWeiWisdom this for me is everything not only critical or motivation ... This for me happen before I meet someone ..i analyze the words of i can say to him ore and they can probability say to me .But this look like conversation ...For me this happens and in experimental ideas .If I make a project I can speak with my self for details and many times this help me ...but the think of they worries me is ..when I am in stressed I make this .i remember happy times and happy conversation and I repeat the words and add more words ...words than will make the conversation more beautiful if I can say thet when the conversation happen in .but i am low interest in activity .. is this dangerous?
Hi Mario,
As I said before I do not believe that self talk is dangerous, because everyone has an element of self talk.
If I understand you correctly you are saying that when you are stressed you try remember better or good times I think this is good practice and I would encourage you to concentrate on more positive thoughts and intentions.
I wish you well thank you for taking the time and trouble to listen and comment on our videos.
Daivd
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you
Always write down your intuitions and put it in your purse or wallet
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