I don't agree at all. Sleeping with lots of women without seeking a relationship has made me very happy. It's also not your job to raise a woman's interest level. If she likes you she likes you, if she doesn't, she doesn't. "Dating with a purpose" is a phrase that only women use. You assume that everyone wants to date with the goal of seeking a relationship and that you can't be happy any other way. You're essentially telling men to date like women.
Biologically and religiously one should date with the intent to create a long term relationship so as to make children amd perpetuate the species. If you are a selfish human and probably massively damaged soul, then you should continue on with many short term relationships.
Hi Crom. Actually I agree that we should ultimately seek a high quality long term relationship. However it is necessary to date many women until you find that special one.
Hi Joshua. I think the happiness issue depends upon what stage you are at in your life. If you are a very young man who has not had a lot of success with women, but you develop yourself to the point where now you are very successful, yes that will bring happiness. Also, if you are coming out of a divorce sleeping with many new women is exciting. Let's be honest: Seduction is a thrilling process. However I do not think that such happiness is sustainable in the long term. This man is approaching 40. I personally found myself much happier managing a 3 woman rotation of very high quality women, and then finding that one very special woman. I think that ultimately, happiness comes from managing and achieving your goals.
At the 10 minute 16 second mark I say long term relationships are problematic, that is an error, I was supposed to say long distance relationships. My apologies. A long term relationship is the ultimate goal.
Your ultimate goal perhaps. Not everyone's. And long distance can work. People have had to make them work for many centuries as men fought overseas or served on merchant ships. Several of mine are long distance. Not overseas long distance but several hours drive each way. If the relationship is important to those involved, you make it work.
@@kenofken9458 Hi Ken. My apologies for the delayed response. The answer (do long distance relationships [LDR] work?) is complex so I needed the chance to answer it more fully. If you are high school sweethearts going off to college, then no, only 2% of those work out. The average long distance relationship lasts 4.5 months. But here is where it gets interesting: One study found that 58% of LDR's were successful, a prima fascie, pretty good number. However, the definition of success was "it turned into something more serious." That means it made it past the 4.5, maybe 6 month mark. That is far from the Golden Year, further from marriage, and light years say from a successful marriage. That is why I advocate dating women within driving distance. Doing so is the best way to manage a 3 woman rotation. Now let's say you ran across a woman on social media you clicked with, and she lived far away, why yes you could engage her but she is not a replacement for a woman you can physically date.
Hi Russel. He actually has a high paying job and travels a great deal. Also, he has found that his time is taxed to the point where he is no longer happy.
Does this make happiness and contentment? No evidence to say it does. It's dismissive of people and devalues sex as being special. I would rather sleep with one 15 times with LOTS of variation and positions. Also it sounds EXHAUSTING 😆😆
I don't agree at all. Sleeping with lots of women without seeking a relationship has made me very happy. It's also not your job to raise a woman's interest level. If she likes you she likes you, if she doesn't, she doesn't. "Dating with a purpose" is a phrase that only women use. You assume that everyone wants to date with the goal of seeking a relationship and that you can't be happy any other way. You're essentially telling men to date like women.
Biologically and religiously one should date with the intent to create a long term relationship so as to make children amd perpetuate the species. If you are a selfish human and probably massively damaged soul, then you should continue on with many short term relationships.
Lol, fist bump 👊
Good luck with that then!!! 😆😆
Hi Crom. Actually I agree that we should ultimately seek a high quality long term relationship. However it is necessary to date many women until you find that special one.
Hi Joshua. I think the happiness issue depends upon what stage you are at in your life. If you are a very young man who has not had a lot of success with women, but you develop yourself to the point where now you are very successful, yes that will bring happiness. Also, if you are coming out of a divorce sleeping with many new women is exciting. Let's be honest: Seduction is a thrilling process.
However I do not think that such happiness is sustainable in the long term. This man is approaching 40.
I personally found myself much happier managing a 3 woman rotation of very high quality women, and then finding that one very special woman.
I think that ultimately, happiness comes from managing and achieving your goals.
At the 10 minute 16 second mark I say long term relationships are problematic, that is an error, I was supposed to say long distance relationships. My apologies. A long term relationship is the ultimate goal.
Your ultimate goal perhaps. Not everyone's.
And long distance can work. People have had to make them work for many centuries as men fought overseas or served on merchant ships. Several of mine are long distance. Not overseas long distance but several hours drive each way. If the relationship is important to those involved, you make it work.
@@kenofken9458 Hi Ken. My apologies for the delayed response. The answer (do long distance relationships [LDR] work?) is complex so I needed the chance to answer it more fully. If you are high school sweethearts going off to college, then no, only 2% of those work out.
The average long distance relationship lasts 4.5 months. But here is where it gets interesting: One study found that 58% of LDR's were successful, a prima fascie, pretty good number. However, the definition of success was "it turned into something more serious." That means it made it past the 4.5, maybe 6 month mark. That is far from the Golden Year, further from marriage, and light years say from a successful marriage.
That is why I advocate dating women within driving distance. Doing so is the best way to manage a 3 woman rotation. Now let's say you ran across a woman on social media you clicked with, and she lived far away, why yes you could engage her but she is not a replacement for a woman you can physically date.
There is nothing good about that. To be a man you must master discipline. You must do the opposite of excess.
Hi Nick. I agree. Becoming good at getting women to love you, and stay in love with you requires a great deal of hard work and discipline.
Who has that much time? He must have money or he's broke.
Hi Russel. He actually has a high paying job and travels a great deal. Also, he has found that his time is taxed to the point where he is no longer happy.
Well..u can disguard alot of woman u dont really like after first encounter..its alot of time and effort...involved
Hi SuperQ. Yes, everything about my dating program is designed to sift and select the best woman for you to date.
Does this make happiness and contentment? No evidence to say it does. It's dismissive of people and devalues sex as being special. I would rather sleep with one 15 times with LOTS of variation and positions. Also it sounds EXHAUSTING 😆😆
Hi Kerry. Correct. The man has admitted to not being happy.
He’s not happy like you because you both are God rejectors .
Hi Mike: I believe God helps those who help themselves.